the casual boyfriend

[Lord_Dirty]

Don't you hate it when your talking to a girl THINKING she's single........and after like a week or so........right when your pretty much thinking you can hit it........she mentions her boyfriend.......

Example

Guy: So what did you do this weekend
Girl: I went to Skybar Sat night
Guy: yeah thanks for the invite
Girl: sorryyyyy.....I didnt think you would wanna cum *wink*
Guy: haha...so did you pickup
Girl: Well how would I do that with my boyfriend there hehe.
Guy: Bye.

Example 2 - I thought I told you routine

Guy: Hey whats up sexy
Girl: hehe nothing much...jus chillin
Guy: why don't you come chill with me *wink*
Girl: why what would we do *wink
Guy: we'll see when the time comes
Girl: hmmm..I don't think its a such good idea
Guy: yeah but its not a bad idea either
Girl: well yeah I guess your right
Guy : so when you wanna meet up
Girl: hmm..were only meeting up to talk right?
Guy: we'll see....no need to set restrictions on what we can and cant do
Girl: but I cant do anything cause my boyfriend like knows everyone and he's sure to findout...and I'm not that kinda girl anyways.
Guy: wtf....boyfriend?
Girl: yeah...didn't I tell you already??

Example 3- Fom a friend

Guy: Hey bro, guess who i was with just now
Friend: Hmm i dont know
Guy: Ayesha, we were at the pool for a while
Friend: Ohhh Ayesha from my psych class??
Guy: yes! that one, shes hot huh, she was all flirty and shit, she wanted to go to the pool so i picked her up, ima call her tonight.
Friend: dude, you know Rajkumar?
Guy: yea, why?
Friend: thats her boyfriend

[MrCanuck]

I think you were coming on too hard on that second one. Tease her that she has a dirty mind and acuse her of being a "bad girl". YOU should be the one putting restrictions. She'll wonder. Then you let her hold your hand on your own terms and before you even know it, she'll have her toungue down your throat.

[jibran251]

happened to me once ... :mrhappy:

[addiction01]

I dew it. Why not? It's fun. =)

[MrCanuck]

You should be the one calling the shot and the one SHE chases.

Her: blah blah blah because I have a boyfriend
You: Who said I was looking for a gf?

or

You: I guess I should be sad now, if I was trying to pick up on you that is.

or

You: Let's do ... blah blah blah
Her: blah blah my boyfriend
You: That's awsome! He can cook dinner for us both

Remember, your goal is to have fun, not to get laid. Threat them like your buddies and/or your bratty little sister. Bust her balls and call her on something she does that annoys you, I dunno, could be the color of her outfit, glasses or whatnot. The hotter she is, the better. She'll wonder why you're not head over heals for her like the many oher losers she meets. And than, she'll want to get to know you :D But you'll be too busy with your all so very important life... friends, school, working out, your "other" girl friends and what not. Don't exploit her insecurities too much, unless she's REALLY hot and used to getting compliments by wussy assholes day in and day out.

Don't be a jerk though. Use sarcastic, unexpected humor with confident playfulness.

[DasJa]

I like ur direct approach man. I've always had a round-about (talk for a coupla weeks) way to approach girls when something other than "frandship" was on mind. Whats ur ratio? Like, using the direct approach, whats ur reject to accept ratio. My round-about way was an abysmal 1:10 :ashamed:

[born2wiinn]

direct approach works only when you are sure that girl likes you as much as you do her...

[DasJa]

direct approach works only when you are sure that girl likes you as much as you do her...
Sometimes, they like that whole confident, arrogant sh*t too :yes:

Then, it's all about how many bacardi shots you can make them have :google:

[born2wiinn]

Sometimes, they like that whole confident, arrogant sh*t too :yes:

Then, it's all about how many bacardi shots you can make them have :google:

Smile + Confidence + lil arrogance = Killer

[DasJa]

Smile + Confidence + lil arrogance = Killer
:shame:

Confidence + arrogance + 10 tequila or Bac 151 shots = Score :Pelvic2:

[T.Dimera]

last may i was in montreal on a business trip and at night we hit up some lounge. I saw this hott indian girl in the corner so I approached her...i talked to her for about 10 minutes and she began telling me her lifestory. She then tells me she has a boyfriend who shes been with for 8 years. (she was 25). Without missing a beat my next repsonse is..

"oh thats great! when's the wedding?" :D

the look of shock on her face was priceless...and the stuttering that proceeded...classic

[DasJa]

last may i was in montreal on a business trip and at night we hit up some lounge. I saw this hott indian girl in the corner so I approached her...i talked to her for about 10 minutes and she began telling me her lifestory. She then tells me she has a boyfriend who shes been with for 8 years. (she was 25). Without missing a beat my next repsonse is..

"oh thats great! when's the wedding?" :D

the look of shock on her face was priceless...and the stuttering that proceeded...classic
:rofl:

Good thinkin' :roflbow:

[k i s s e s]

well sometimes a girl won't tell you she has a bf just because by saying that she does she's automatically implying that she thinks you're interested and if it turns out that you're not then she'll just feel stupid.

other times she just likes the attention. :p

[ewwwww]

girls dont wear a "i have a bf" t shirt. They wont mention it unless asked...DUH!!

[DasJa]

girls dont wear a "i have a bf" t shirt. They wont mention it unless asked...DUH!!
They will, if ur getting too "touchy-feely" with the boobies

[ewwwww]

They will, if ur getting too "touchy-feely" with the boobies
They will mention it when u make a move at them.
There was a guy at my last job who used to like me alot. He used to talk to me alot. One day he asked me what my plans were over the summer and told him that I was taking a trip with my bf. He went "Oh so you have a bf" and thats when I realised that he was interested in me lol.

[DasJa]

]girls dont wear a "i have a bf" t shirt. They wont mention it unless asked...DUH!![/B]
They will mention it when u make a move at them.
There was a guy at my last job who used to like me alot. He used to talk to me alot. One day he asked me what my plans were over the summer and told him that I was taking a trip with my bf. He went "Oh so you have a bf" and thats when I realised that he was interested in me lol.
More proof that women don't know what they're talkin about till you POINT IT OUT

[T.Dimera]

you can find out if a girl has a boyfriend or is seeing someone, without having to directly ask them 'do you have a boyfriend?'. The key is effective questioning and knowing what to key in on...

[boysfromthesouth]

they're all full of it. show me one that's not.

[HeAvYmAcHiNeGuN]

Don't you hate it when your talking to a girl THINKING she's single........and after like a week or so........right when your pretty much thinking you can hit it........she mentions her boyfriend.......

Example

Guy: So what did you do this weekend
Girl: I went to Skybar Sat night
Guy: yeah thanks for the invite
Girl: sorryyyyy.....I didnt think you would wanna cum *wink*
Guy: haha...so did you pickup
Girl: Well how would I do that with my boyfriend there hehe.
Guy: Bye.

Example 2 - I thought I told you routine

Guy: Hey whats up sexy
Girl: hehe nothing much...jus chillin
Guy: why don't you come chill with me *wink*
Girl: why what would we do *wink
Guy: we'll see when the time comes
Girl: hmmm..I don't think its a such good idea
Guy: yeah but its not a bad idea either
Girl: well yeah I guess your right
Guy : so when you wanna meet up
Girl: hmm..were only meeting up to talk right?
Guy: we'll see....no need to set restrictions on what we can and cant do
Girl: but I cant do anything cause my boyfriend like knows everyone and he's sure to findout...and I'm not that kinda girl anyways.
Guy: wtf....boyfriend?
Girl: yeah...didn't I tell you already??

Example 3- Fom a friend

Guy: Hey bro, guess who i was with just now
Friend: Hmm i dont know
Guy: Ayesha, we were at the pool for a while
Friend: Ohhh Ayesha from my psych class??
Guy: yes! that one, shes hot huh, she was all flirty and shit, she wanted to go to the pool so i picked her up, ima call her tonight.
Friend: dude, you know Rajkumar?
Guy: yea, why?
Friend: thats her boyfriend

dat happened to me alooot of times :P

[illin]

Girl: but I cant do anything cause my boyfriend like knows everyone and he's sure to findout...and I'm not that kinda girl anyways.


lol, she wants it, she just threw in the "im not that kinda girl" comment in at the end cuz she wants more than just a bang.

[PakPlaya69]

I persoanlly love it when a gal with a Bf shows a lil interest in ya. All you have to do is listen to her story and trust me she will always have bad things to say about him. Then the game starts, you capatalize on his faults that she mentioned and make her think twice about if he is the right one for her. Add a bit if alcohol and thats your root for the night. :Pelvic2:

[supremed]

in example 2...if this was a real convo...you shouldnt have said "well see when the time comes" even though the possibility existed of a hookup...you putting it out there freaked her out...next time just say yeah well just talk grab some icecream etc...do chick shit initially and then game her

[icekreamgirl12]

I persoanlly love it when a gal with a Bf shows a lil interest in ya. All you have to do is listen to her story and trust me she will always have bad things to say about him. Then the game starts, you capatalize on his faults that she mentioned and make her think twice about if he is the right one for her. Add a bit if alcohol and thats your root for the night. :Pelvic2:
:shame: :no:
ali ur are bad....

[MrCanuck]

Wait. If you listen to her, you will become a wussy-friend that she uses as a kleenex and goes on to sleep with her jerk bf. You have to be the MAN, and IN CONTROL of her.

eg:

Her: My bf cheated on me :(
You: You think that's bad, I saw a naked 65 year old man chasing a duck in the park yesterday.

Yo re-read that shit and tell me what message you're conveing.

If she mentions flaws about her bf or stuff that he did that she is not happy with, defend him and amplify it, maybe even give him back-handed compliments. Act like you feel pity for him. Then she'll start re-evaluating him.

eg:
Her: My bf is never around for me.
You: That's cause he must be a busy man. But I am sure he cares for you a lot and does sweet things for you when you least expect it.
Her: *Thinks: Does he really?*

Conclusion: She thinks: Yes he is sweet and caring, just too stupid to do something special. And you, you are NOT sweet and caring. You are a MAN who CAN do nice and creative things (if you wanted to, at your own terms, NOT exactly when she wants/expects it).

If you attack the bf, she will go on and defend him. Even if she started bashing him.

A rule of thumb: Never directly attack the opposition, but strategically position your opponent to put himself in a losing position, little by little.

eg:
Guy hitting on your girl.
You: Hey man, nice shirt!
Guy: Thanks
You: It makes you look very special and unique...
Guy: *getting the creeps*
You: No seriously, I haven't seen one like that since K-Mart went bankrupt.

[Candy_Babe]

Don't you hate it when your talking to a girl THINKING she's single........and after like a week or so........right when your pretty much thinking you can hit it........she mentions her boyfriend.......

Example

Guy: So what did you do this weekend
Girl: I went to Skybar Sat night
Guy: yeah thanks for the invite
Girl: sorryyyyy.....I didnt think you would wanna cum *wink*
Guy: haha...so did you pickup
Girl: Well how would I do that with my boyfriend there hehe.
Guy: Bye.

Example 2 - I thought I told you routine

Guy: Hey whats up sexy
Girl: hehe nothing much...jus chillin
Guy: why don't you come chill with me *wink*
Girl: why what would we do *wink
Guy: we'll see when the time comes
Girl: hmmm..I don't think its a such good idea
Guy: yeah but its not a bad idea either
Girl: well yeah I guess your right
Guy : so when you wanna meet up
Girl: hmm..were only meeting up to talk right?
Guy: we'll see....no need to set restrictions on what we can and cant do
Girl: but I cant do anything cause my boyfriend like knows everyone and he's sure to findout...and I'm not that kinda girl anyways.
Guy: wtf....boyfriend?
Girl: yeah...didn't I tell you already??

Example 3- Fom a friend

Guy: Hey bro, guess who i was with just now
Friend: Hmm i dont know
Guy: Ayesha, we were at the pool for a while
Friend: Ohhh Ayesha from my psych class??
Guy: yes! that one, shes hot huh, she was all flirty and shit, she wanted to go to the pool so i picked her up, ima call her tonight.
Friend: dude, you know Rajkumar?
Guy: yea, why?
Friend: thats her boyfriend



you know once... i was out side the library and this guy was waiting for somone and he started talking to me ..and tryingg to chat me up and stuff it was raining that day too.so i was there at the busstop and he was like who you waiting for..
and i said a friend.. and he kept on talking then ..
my BOYFREND comes to the bus stop cuz i asked him to get me somthing to eat so he comes and we are tlking and that other guy thought i was single and he just hangs around for a while then he drives off
i felt kinda bad.
but it was really funny!Q
bless the poor guy!
:P

[adb27]

Lmao @ Rajkumar/

[vishaalsood]

women are prick teases, they like to think they can get away with it

[lil_gangsta_]

nic example up there, well i think boys should jus dissapea once they gt to knw tht shez not single, because u never knw, she might not happy wiv her bf.

[SexyTemptress]

if a girl is flirting with you even if she has a bf, then you dont want her anyways. she's probably a ho who likes to two time. when im in a relationship within the first 5 seconds guys know im taken.

[jat_jatt_sardar]

at least they aren't married, so I guess you guys can relax a but . :)

[jigga man23]

I try no approach, girls are evil....


:p