Love?? And Desi Girls ??

[zuiwaziri]

I come to this forum in search of a Desi female who is willing to tell me to truth?? I kno its a long shot but im hoping one is out there!!!!

I will tell u the situation and truthful girl (if she exists) will explain the Code!!


My ex, whom i had plans to marry etc etc, came back into my life after 2 yrs. I thort i was over her, but im clearly not. When she asked me, i told her my feelings (Truth told with no riddles) then she tells me she has a boyfriend. She explains tht initially he was to get over me, but now its an 18 month thing and she loves him?

OK up to this point im feeling hurt, but understand the situation.

2 days after this convo she tells me tht she still loves me!!!!!
2 Days after the she says its not gonna happen between us cuz she loves her new man. (so at this moment my emotions are all over the place)


We have another convo where i lay everything on the line and answer TRUTHFULLY every question she asked, including girlfriends i had after we broke up (which is NONE). She asked if i had, had sex, I answer YES.

She got upset and wanted to kno "how cud i have done tht?" and "Why?".

Im confused cuz im suppose to be a single guy, and i wasnt cheating.

Days later she asks me to PROMISE her something: Not to have sex again until i get married, followed by me working hard to establish myself, and to buy a house cuz no girl wants to live with her inlaws?? (Yeah so im confused now!!)

I ask why its important i promise her this, seeing as we are only friends. She says its cuz "she Cares" (That is avoiding the Truthful answer)

Seeing as i love the girl and even if there is a 1% chance i will marry her, i decided to promise her this and proceeded to give her the promise ring i once gave her wen we were together. (Arent i a gullable sucker)

I then played the "best friend in the world" act and i talk to her like her best friend, and im always there for her wen she needs me..... bla blaa blaa etc etc.

She has gone back to her own home now, but is still talking to me and says i can always txt, or MSN her, cuz "she is always with me"??


My parents have asked for her rishtha and her parents accpeted, pending an acceptance from HER!!!



Anyone care to analyse this bullshit for me, and let me kno whts going through this girls MIND!!!!

[flow-natural]

she loves u

shes scared 2 get hurt ( again ? )

tries to keep distance

doesnt wanna break up with her current bf ( keeps him as back up )

probably VERY happy that ur back


i hope everything works out for u

[Beefcake]

I come to this forum in search of a Desi female who is willing to tell me to truth?? I kno its a long shot but im hoping one is out there!!!!

I will tell u the situation and truthful girl (if she exists) will explain the Code!!


My ex, whom i had plans to marry etc etc, came back into my life after 2 yrs. I thort i was over her, but im clearly not. When she asked me, i told her my feelings (Truth told with no riddles) then she tells me she has a boyfriend. She explains tht initially he was to get over me, but now its an 18 month thing and she loves him?

OK up to this point im feeling hurt, but understand the situation.

2 days after this convo she tells me tht she still loves me!!!!!
2 Days after the she says its not gonna happen between us cuz she loves her new man. (so at this moment my emotions are all over the place)


We have another convo where i lay everything on the line and answer TRUTHFULLY every question she asked, including girlfriends i had after we broke up (which is NONE). She asked if i had, had sex, I answer YES.

She got upset and wanted to kno "how cud i have done tht?" and "Why?".

Im confused cuz im suppose to be a single guy, and i wasnt cheating.

Days later she asks me to PROMISE her something: Not to have sex again until i get married, followed by me working hard to establish myself, and to buy a house cuz no girl wants to live with her inlaws?? (Yeah so im confused now!!)

I ask why its important i promise her this, seeing as we are only friends. She says its cuz "she Cares" (That is avoiding the Truthful answer)

Seeing as i love the girl and even if there is a 1% chance i will marry her, i decided to promise her this and proceeded to give her the promise ring i once gave her wen we were together. (Arent i a gullable sucker)

I then played the "best friend in the world" act and i talk to her like her best friend, and im always there for her wen she needs me..... bla blaa blaa etc etc.

She has gone back to her own home now, but is still talking to me and says i can always txt, or MSN her, cuz "she is always with me"??


My parents have asked for her rishtha and her parents accpeted, pending an acceptance from HER!!!



Anyone care to analyse this bullshit for me, and let me kno whts going through this girls MIND!!!!


Mate, fuck the bitch. She's draining your emotions and giving you the run around. Its not fair for you to be treated like this. Love can sometimes hurt but this sounds like torture.

At the end of the day, you're the only one who can answer your questions. But you should recognize that any path you chose won't be easy.

[Naz_85]

I wouldn't bother getting involved with her. Not yet anyway. She's too busy playing mind games.

Let her grow up a bit. You've gone 2 years without her. You can do it.

[di vinci]

ur whipped

ur so whipped

that she not even ur gf and she got u whippeddd


im just saying dude. move on ur in the friendz zone

[Arshy]

Essay of the day. :)

[Arshy]

ok after careful consideration, i'm going to break it down for you.

She's manipulative, she's trying to cover all angles, basically she's thinking if it doesn't work with this other guy, she can fall back on you, hence the part where she doesn't want you sleeping around.

As for buying your own house n stuff, that's also for the same reason.

I say if you like the girl alot, then tell her to fuck this other guy off and get with you (FULL TIME), if not tell her you'll become a big time playa and there's nothing she can do about it.

Now go do what you gotta do. And be a MAN about it :)

[flow-natural]

omg dont believe them !!!

[Naz_85]

ok after careful consideration, i'm going to break it down for you.

She's manipulative, she's trying to cover all angles, basically she's thinking if it doesn't work with this other guy, she can fall back on you, hence the part where she doesn't want you sleeping around.

As for buying your own house n stuff, that's also for the same reason.

I say if you like the girl alot, then tell her to fuck this other guy off and get with you (FULL TIME), if not tell her you'll become a big time playa and there's nothing she can do about it.

Now go do what you gotta do. And be a MAN about it :)

:werd:

If she can't do that stuff, then she's just fucking you about.

[punjabi*princess]

she loves u

shes scared 2 get hurt ( again ? )

tries to keep distance

doesnt wanna break up with her current bf ( keeps him as back up )

probably VERY happy that ur back


i hope everything works out for u




yup ur right.. and i hope everything works out for you

[di vinci]

listen. dude just have more sex. fuk making her a promise. she can screw buty u cant screw. u aint a bitch. its time for u to take control

[flow-natural]

listen. dude just have more sex. fuk making her a promise. she can screw buty u cant screw. u aint a bitch. its time for u to take control


da guy likes her

why wud he do dat

u guys r so insecure

always tryin 2 prove whata '' bad boy '' u are

they like eachother

wats da big deal, u need 2 make sacrafices 2 get wat u want

[di vinci]

da guy likes her

why wud he do dat

u guys r so insecure

always tryin 2 prove whata '' bad boy '' u are

they like eachother

wats da big deal, u need 2 make sacrafices 2 get wat u want


HE CAN STAY ON RD AND MOAN ABOUT HER


OR

HE CAN GROW SOME BALLS AND CLOSE THE CHAPTER N MOVED ON.

WHY IS HE WAITING FOR HER TO REALISED THAT SHE MISSING SOMETHING BETTER


US MALHOTHRAS DONT HAVE A HABIT OF WEARING ANOTHER MANS USED PANTS

[zuiwaziri]

I like how the first thing i said was tht i wanted a Desi Females Point of View.

I get Arshy and Di Vinci in here telling me wht to do :rofl:

Guys wht ur telling me is wht all my mates have been telling me. I purposely needed to view of unbiased females who arent my mother, sister, aunty or friend, cuz they all tell me tht "Allah knows best".

Males: Ur all telling me the quick fix. Im nearly 23 now, its time i lay some foundations down for my future. I personal prefer having goals to work towards, for example if this girl tells me tht we will be married, then atleast i can start working towards tht goal. The uncertainty makes me act a fool, and gets me all stressed out.

Females: I need more insight. This is good stuff!!

[flow-natural]

I like how the first thing i said was tht i wanted a Desi Females Point of View.

I get Arshy and Di Vinci in here telling me wht to do :rofl:

Guys wht ur telling me is wht all my mates have been telling me. I purposely needed to view of unbiased females who arent my mother, sister, aunty or friend, cuz they all tell me tht "Allah knows best".

Males: Ur all telling me the quick fix. Im nearly 23 now, its time i lay some foundations down for my future. I personal prefer having goals to work towards, for example if this girl tells me tht we will be married, then atleast i can start working towards tht goal. The uncertainty makes me act a fool, and gets me all stressed out.

Females: I need more insight. This is good stuff!!

oh thank god im here, cos they are all talking crap !

[DasJa]

IT's a simple case of "She's not showing YOU the respect, don't show it back to her"

I mean...think it ourself, not even like us who're unbiased...think urself, "WHY is she tellin you she likes you, she'll be there for you.", and still keepin the bf on the side? Shouldn't her answer be a simple "YES" when ur marriage propasal came through? Or is she having 2nd thoughts? Then maybe YOU should have 2nd thoughts as well...

Did you ask her about marriage before you sent the proposal though? She might be thinking, i'll be with the current bf for a while, leave you on the tenterhooks...and once it's time...lo-and-behold..you'll be there init!




Just step back, think of EVERYTIHNG that happened, and that's happening step-by-step...and automatically things would become clearer.

[flow-natural]

HE CAN STAY ON RD AND MOAN ABOUT HER


OR

HE CAN GROW SOME BALLS AND CLOSE THE CHAPTER N MOVED ON.

WHY IS HE WAITING FOR HER TO REALISED THAT SHE MISSING SOMETHING BETTER


US MALHOTHRAS DONT HAVE A HABIT OF WEARING ANOTHER MANS USED PANTS


hes askin US for advice

how can u close the chapter if u really love someone

his parents agree n the rishta, its perfect, they love eachother wtf is wrong with u

ur so typical, oldfashioned dumb ignorant and paki
he wants to marry her, marriage isnt sumthing that just happens cos ur cousin reached the right age 4 it

stfu

[di vinci]

hes askin US for advice

how can u close the chapter if u really love someone

his parents agree n the rishta, its perfect, they love eachother wtf is wrong with u

ur so typical, oldfashioned dumb ignorant and paki
he wants to marry her, marriage isnt sumthing that just happens cos ur cousin reached the right age 4 it

stfu


LAST TIME I CHECKED U DUMBO DO THE SAME PRACTICE. BUT U GET MARRIED BEFORE THE AGE OF TWO.


WATS WRONMG WITH YOU.

SHE USING HIM FOR HER OWN BENEFIT.

CLOSING ONE CHAPTERS N MOVING ON IS THYE MOS LOGICAL WAY OF MOVING FORWARD.

[zuiwaziri]

IT's a simple case of "She's not showing YOU the respect, don't show it back to her"

I mean...think it ourself, not even like us who're unbiased...think urself, "WHY is she tellin you she likes you, she'll be there for you.", and still keepin the bf on the side? Shouldn't her answer be a simple "YES" when ur marriage propasal came through? Or is she having 2nd thoughts? Then maybe YOU should have 2nd thoughts as well...

Did you ask her about marriage before you sent the proposal though? She might be thinking, i'll be with the current bf for a while, leave you on the tenterhooks...and once it's time...lo-and-behold..you'll be there init!




Just step back, think of EVERYTIHNG that happened, and that's happening step-by-step...and automatically things would become clearer.
:werd:

She always seems to say tht marraige isnt for her, but then will talk about stuff she wants to do with her husband.

She just doesnt seem to know wht she wants.

Her parents havent actually asked her yet, stating tht they dont think either of us is ready, which im fine with.

Im giving it a year, cuz they have invited us over for a holiday next summer to there Side of the Pond!!

[flow-natural]

LAST TIME I CHECKED U DUMBO DO THE SAME PRACTICE. BUT U GET MARRIED BEFORE THE AGE OF TWO.


WATS WRONMG WITH YOU.

SHE USING HIM FOR HER OWN BENEFIT.

CLOSING ONE CHAPTERS N MOVING ON IS THYE MOS LOGICAL WAY OF MOVING FORWARD.

LAST TIME I CHECKED UR NATION IS NO1 ON THE ANIMAL SEX LIST

YES WE MAYBE GET MARRIED AT AGE TWO, JUST LIKE U PPL DO

WE JUST DONT GET MARRIED TO OUR UNCLE AT AGE 2.

WHY DA FUCK DO U HAVE TO TYPE IN CAPS.

UR NOT A GIRL, WHY RU EVEN REPLYIN TO THIS SHIT

[DasJa]

:werd:

She always seems to say tht marraige isnt for her, but then will talk about stuff she wants to do with her husband.

She just doesnt seem to know wht she wants.

Her parents havent actually asked her yet, stating tht they dont think either of us is ready, which im fine with.

Im giving it a year, cuz they have invited us over for a holiday next summer to there Side of the Pond!!
Next time she tries to get you emo with the whole "shit I wanna do with my husband" thing...just don't act interested, OR play it off...or be like..."that'll be one lucky bloke babe"


Honestly speaking, you might be giving HER too much credit n respect. I've seen a million times these chix try that "i'm innocent I don't know what to do i'm stuck routine." In the back of their minds, they know EXACTLY what they're doing. In this case, it does seem that way. She has YOU thinkin of her and wanting her (Check)...she's with her current bf as well (check)....and she can make and choose what she wants now (check).


My advice...do something she won't expect. Show up at her place with a huge adnd really gorgeous bunch of flowers and a card in the flowers...or give her a good,dark hickey the next time you guys are getting comfy. If you can't get an aswer outta her, create a situation which will demand an answer from her. Call her when she tells you specifically NOT to call. I mean, if her parents are cool with it, what's she gotta hide right. Leave txt msgs (voicemails are useless :no: )...do everyting you can...to indirectly raise suspicion in her current bf on "whats going on".


Then lean back, let him be the bad guy demanding an answer and being suspicious....and wait for him to stumble over his own feet.



:Owned: much?

[supremed]

no offense to you man...but dont get back with her...if she is talking to you while she still has a bf....chances are if she gets back together with you...after a while she may start up with some other guy..

cut your losses...find someone else that you deserve

[zuiwaziri]

Next time she tries to get you emo with the whole "shit I wanna do with my husband" thing...just don't act interested, OR play it off...or be like..."that'll be one lucky bloke babe"


Honestly speaking, you might be giving HER too much credit n respect. I've seen a million times these chix try that "i'm innocent I don't know what to do i'm stuck routine." In the back of their minds, they know EXACTLY what they're doing. In this case, it does seem that way. She has YOU thinkin of her and wanting her (Check)...she's with her current bf as well (check)....and she can make and choose what she wants now (check).


My advice...do something she won't expect. Show up at her place with a huge adnd really gorgeous bunch of flowers and a card in the flowers...or give her a good,dark hickey the next time you guys are getting comfy. If you can't get an aswer outta her, create a situation which will demand an answer from her. Call her when she tells you specifically NOT to call. I mean, if her parents are cool with it, what's she gotta hide right. Leave txt msgs (voicemails are useless :no: )...do everyting you can...to indirectly raise suspicion in her current bf on "whats going on".


Then lean back, let him be the bad guy demanding an answer and being suspicious....and wait for him to stumble over his own feet.



:Owned: much?

She tells me tht her bf wants to MEET ME!!!!!!

I said tht if i meet him then im gonna end up saying summut and getting into a fight, cuz i hate the guy??

I cudnt explain why i hate the guy, but i explained its the same logic as when i let her know tht i had been sleeping with other girls.

Im gonna keep talking, cuz tht way i can stay in her mind, and yeah, i do wanna cause conflict between them, where he says summut along the lines of..... "Stop talking to him". She will have to make tht choice, and hopefully, (knowing how she doesnt like to be told who she cant talk to) she will make a fuss and zing, they break up and the choice is made.


Either tht or she is waiting to find an excuse to break up with him, but doesnt want me getting my hopes up, and wants me staying grounded.


See how im over Analysing every lil thing :no:

[RacingSoul]

hmmm..interesting.

well, tell us when u three (u, the girl and her current bf) end up on Jerry Springer..make a thread, post videos :)

[DasJa]

She tells me tht her bf wants to MEET ME!!!!!!

I said tht if i meet him then im gonna end up saying summut and getting into a fight, cuz i hate the guy??

I cudnt explain why i hate the guy, but i explained its the same logic as when i let her know tht i had been sleeping with other girls.

Im gonna keep talking, cuz tht way i can stay in her mind, and yeah, i do wanna cause conflict between them, where he says summut along the lines of..... "Stop talking to him". She will have to make tht choice, and hopefully, (knowing how she doesnt like to be told who she cant talk to) she will make a fuss and zing, they break up and the choice is made.


Either tht or she is waiting to find an excuse to break up with him, but doesnt want me getting my hopes up, and wants me staying grounded.


See how im over Analysing every lil thing :no:
Yeah...What the fuck is that my bf wants to meet you shit?

She's comparing you both man! She wants drama! :no:


If my gf ever told me, that her ex or something wants to meet me. I'd be like 1) "Why you even talking to him in the 1st place", and 2) "What do you want to accomplish by this?"

She'll stop yapping right in her tracks...

Or otherwise, if that doesn't work...next comes your move...


Tell her onna ur recent ex's who YOU'VE been in touch with, wants to meet her. The tables turned...she wouldn't know where to run and hide her face.



I doubt the she's "looking" for an excuse shit though brudda-man. I really do!

[hawthamzi]

Mate, fuck the bitch. She's draining your emotions and giving you the run around. Its not fair for you to be treated like this. Love can sometimes hurt but this sounds like torture.

At the end of the day, you're the only one who can answer your questions. But you should recognize that any path you chose won't be easy.
:werd:

[supremed]

:werd:
good job on the honatural wrecking yesterday

[hawthamzi]

good job on the honatural wrecking yesterday
ho, no hoblem, that hoe horing man, i cant stand her ho ass or even her ho presence, fuck the ho of her, i cant even stand a lil bit, :D but shes definately lost her novelty, most the time she sounds like a stuck record, where is the hoe btw?? she'll be in here soon, just watch it start lol

Hoe-Natural

[supremed]

ho, no hoblem, that hoe horing man, i cant stand her ho ass or even her ho presence, fuck the ho of her, i cant even stand a lil bit, :D but shes definately lost her novelty, most the time she sounds like a stuck record, where is the hoe btw?? she'll be in here soon, just watch it start lol

Hoe-Natural
lol...yeah her responses are lame as fuck...and she thinks they are clever...bitch is boring...but can be amusing at times

[flow-natural]

lol @ laurel and hardy complimenting eachother

so why did u both run off yday ?

supremed, u said u were gonna get bak at me?

u needed time to get urself back 2 getha ?

[supremed]

lol @ laurel and hardy complimenting eachother

so why did u both run off yday ?

supremed, u said u were gonna get bak at me?

u needed time to get urself back 2 getha ?
yeah as interesting as it was wrecking you...it did get boring after a while..considering all your posts were repeats ...hows the hoeing coming along

[hawthamzi]

heres ur anthem biatch

Hoeeeeee (Hoe)
You's a Hoeee (Hoe)
You's a Hoe, I said that you's a Hoe (Hoe)
You's a Hoe (Hoe)
You's a Hoe (Hoe)
You's a Hoe, I said that you's a Hoe (Hoe)

You doing Hoe activity
With Hoe tendencies
Hoes are your friends, Hoes are your enemies
With hoe energy to do what you do
Blew what cha blew, screw what cha screw
Ya'll professional like DJ Clue
You pulling on my coat tail
Now why you think you take a Hoe to a Hoe-tel
Hoe -tell everybody, even the mayor
Reach up in the sky for the Hoe-zone layer
C'mon playa wants to Hoe our ways
Them Hoes neva close, they open like hallways
So here's the Hoe take for your Hoe Hoe crew
And everybody wants some, cuz Hoes gotta eat too

Hoeeeeee (Hoe)
You's a Hoeee (Hoe)
You's a Hoe, I said that you's a Hoe (Hoe)
You's a Hoe (Hoe)
You's a Hoe (Hoe)
You's a Hoe, I said that you's a Hoe (Hoe)

Your can't turn a Hoe into a house wife
Hoes don't act right
There's Hoe on a mission and there's hoes on a crack pipe
Hey Hoe, How you doin' Where you been?
Prolly doing Hoe stuff Cuz there you Hoe again
It's a How wide world, (uh huh)that we livin' in
Feline feminine fantastical women
Not all, just some
You How who you are
There's Hoes in the room, there's Hoes in the car
There's Hoes on stage, there's Hoes by the bar
Hoe's by near and Hoes by far

Hoe
But can i get a ride?
No
C'mon ***** why?
Cuz you's a

Hoeeeeee (Hoe)
You's a Hoeee (Hoe)
You's a Hoe, I said that you's a Hoe (Hoe)
You's a Hoe (Hoe)
You's a Hoe (Hoe)
You's a Hoe, I said that you's a Hoe (Hoe)

You got a run in your panty-Hoes
Even your daddy knows
that you sucking down chocolate like daddy-os
Your Hoes are horrible, horendous
On taxes ya'll writin' off, Hoes is dependents
I see the Hoe-rizon, It ain't surprising
It's just a Hoe-asis, with ugly chiks faces
Hoes don't feel so sad and blue
Cuz most of us *****s is Hoes too

Hoeeeeee (Hoe)
You's a Hoeee (Hoe)
You's a Hoe, I said that you's a Hoe (Hoe)
You's a Hoe (Hoe)
You's a Hoe (Hoe)
You's a Hoe, I said that you's a Hoe (Hoe)
(You's a Hoe)
(Muthafucka, I ain's no Hoe)
(???Yo my man hun???)

(Mutha fuckas,
I'm so tired Of ya'll *****s always talkin about hoe this and Hoe that)
(You the muthafuckin Hoe *****)
(I wasn't no Hoe last night)

Hoe bring your ass
(Okay hold on

[flow-natural]

right
so u acually luked up the lyrics of that song for me

i really get 2 u guys dont i

[hawthamzi]

right
so u acually luked up the lyrics of that song for me

i really get 2 u guys dont i
no thats a song thats imprinted in my mind for hoes like you, its yo anthem, dont knock the shit.

if u were any better i might have given u my rendition of splash waterfalls but u dont deserve that :D

[flow-natural]

no thats a song thats imprinted in my mind for hoes like you, its yo anthem, dont knock the shit.

if u were any better i might have given u my rendition of splash waterfalls but u dont deserve that :D

lol

yo i wudnt dare to knock the shit out ( whatever that may be)

just stfu

boring shit

[hawthamzi]

lol

yo i wudnt dare to knock the shit out ( whatever that may be)

just stfu

boring shit
is that the best you can do?? hahaha :p

[flow-natural]

is that the best you can do?? hahaha :p

no i could also sing songs 4 u

but ill just leave that to the tag team

[supremed]

no i could also sing songs 4 u

but ill just leave that to the tag team
yawn

[hawthamzi]

no i could also sing songs 4 u

but ill just leave that to the tag team
Now go to sleep bitch!
Die, motherf**ker, die! Ugh, time's up, bitch, close ya eyes
Go to sleep, bitch! (what?)
Why are you still alive? How many times I gotta tell ya, close ya eyes?
And go to sleep bitch! (what?)
Die motherf**ker die, bye, bye, motherf**ker, bye, bye!
Go to sleep bitch! (what?)
Why are you still alive? Why, die motherf**ker, ah, ah, ah...
...Go to sleep bitch!

[hawthamzi]

yawn
she sounds like she just graduated 4th grade, "erm...i know the answer yeah...but i just dont want to tell you" lmao

[supremed]

she sounds like she just graduated 4th grade, "erm...i know the answer yeah...but i just dont want to tell you" lmao
:rofl: hahah...seriously

[flow-natural]

Now go to sleep bitch!
Die, motherf**ker, die! Ugh, time's up, bitch, close ya eyes
Go to sleep, bitch! (what?)
Why are you still alive? How many times I gotta tell ya, close ya eyes?
And go to sleep bitch! (what?)
Die motherf**ker die, bye, bye, motherf**ker, bye, bye!
Go to sleep bitch! (what?)
Why are you still alive? Why, die motherf**ker, ah, ah, ah...
...Go to sleep bitch!
lmao seriouslyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

do u need a song to diss me back

hahaha WTF ur a joke

[hawthamzi]

lmao seriouslyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

do u need a song to diss me back

hahaha WTF ur a joke
well its got substance and flow (something u dont) and gets straight down to the point im making, he jus says oit much better than me

[zaph69]

Girls handle men as if they're on the monkey bars. They don't want to let go of one until they've got a hold on another. She loves you but also loves the fact that you are an emotional slave to her every need; a possible tangent here is whether or not she is having her emotional needs fulfilled by this other guy.

The sleeping with another girl is a classic issue; there's one set of rules for her and an entirely different set of rules for you. Somehow she's allowed to go and be with a different guy but you aren't allowed to be with another girl. How could you do that? Well...you two had broken up, she'd gone off with another man. You tell her that you aren't her slave and you don't belong to her.

You tell her that she was sending pretty fucking strong signals to you that it was okay for you to see other girls ie by being with another man. In this way, you can then say "look, you've told me you love me and you're with another guy. You then castigate me for seeing other girls when you yourself are seeing another man. Either you are playing me or you don't know what you want. If, on the off chance, you aren't playing me and you know what you want then make your mind up and ACT ON IT because I am my own man with my own life mapped out which you have walked away from and it's up to you whether you want to hop on for the ride or not. Either way, I'm the hell outta here".

Don't take shit bro, you're a pretty good-hearted dude from what I can tell.

[supremed]

well its got substance and flow (something u dont) and gets straight down to the point im making, he jus says oit much better than me
preach it my bruv

[flow-natural]

well its got substance and flow (something u dont) and gets straight down to the point im making, he jus says oit much better than me

usings songs 2 diss me

LOL ur sucha man !!!!!!

[supremed]

usings songs 2 diss me

LOL ur sucha man !!!!!!
what pretty eyes you have....
all the better to jizz on

[flow-natural]

what pretty eyes you have....
all the better to jizz on

said the 26 yr old divorcee

[supremed]

said the 26 yr old divorcee
not 26...and yes i am

[DasJa]

Girls handle men as if they're on the monkey bars. They don't want to let go of one until they've got a hold on another. She loves you but also loves the fact that you are an emotional slave to her every need; a possible tangent here is whether or not she is having her emotional needs fulfilled by this other guy.

The sleeping with another girl is a classic issue; there's one set of rules for her and an entirely different set of rules for you. Somehow she's allowed to go and be with a different guy but you aren't allowed to be with another girl. How could you do that? Well...you two had broken up, she'd gone off with another man. You tell her that you aren't her slave and you don't belong to her.

You tell her that she was sending pretty fucking strong signals to you that it was okay for you to see other girls ie by being with another man. In this way, you can then say "look, you've told me you love me and you're with another guy. You then castigate me for seeing other girls when you yourself are seeing another man. Either you are playing me or you don't know what you want. If, on the off chance, you aren't playing me and you know what you want then make your mind up and ACT ON IT because I am my own man with my own life mapped out which you have walked away from and it's up to you whether you want to hop on for the ride or not. Either way, I'm the hell outta here".

Don't take shit bro, you're a pretty good-hearted dude from what I can tell.
Well put.

[punjabi*princess]

look ..maybe she still loves.. maybe there is a sitution that making hard for her to pick.. it could be the reason why u guys broke up.. maybe she is afarid to get hurt again .. if u guys do get back together and all of sudden u guys broke up.. then its gonna hurt so much.. if i was you.. i would try to talk to her and try to understand her.. and dont listen to most of the guys that ur 23 and u need to fuck and party hard.. no ur 23 and u need start to think about ur future.. and start to think what u want or what u dont.. cauz you dont want to be confused at age 50 because u were drinking and fuckin other women when it was time for you to build ur future.. so talk to her and give her time to think .. remember every girl wants to have a husband who will love her and care for her.. so she is just afarid scared to pick who she wants..

[zuiwaziri]

Girls handle men as if they're on the monkey bars. They don't want to let go of one until they've got a hold on another. She loves you but also loves the fact that you are an emotional slave to her every need; a possible tangent here is whether or not she is having her emotional needs fulfilled by this other guy.

The sleeping with another girl is a classic issue; there's one set of rules for her and an entirely different set of rules for you. Somehow she's allowed to go and be with a different guy but you aren't allowed to be with another girl. How could you do that? Well...you two had broken up, she'd gone off with another man. You tell her that you aren't her slave and you don't belong to her.

You tell her that she was sending pretty fucking strong signals to you that it was okay for you to see other girls ie by being with another man. In this way, you can then say "look, you've told me you love me and you're with another guy. You then castigate me for seeing other girls when you yourself are seeing another man. Either you are playing me or you don't know what you want. If, on the off chance, you aren't playing me and you know what you want then make your mind up and ACT ON IT because I am my own man with my own life mapped out which you have walked away from and it's up to you whether you want to hop on for the ride or not. Either way, I'm the hell outta here".

Don't take shit bro, you're a pretty good-hearted dude from what I can tell.
Copy + Paste tht shit and proceed to wait for our next encounter on MSN??

That was good advice and wht i was looking to hear.

And yeah i am a good guy. But being the good guy doesnt make u the winner :no:

[punjabi*princess]

Copy + Paste tht shit and proceed to wait for our next encounter on MSN??

That was good advice and wht i was looking to hear.

And yeah i am a good guy. But being the good guy doesnt make u the winner :no:



u said that you never dated but u did have sex after u guys broke up. right and she did date but are u sure she had sex? i mean how would u feel about that if she told you?

[zuiwaziri]

look ..maybe she still loves.. maybe there is a sitution that making hard for her to pick.. it could be the reason why u guys broke up.. maybe she is afarid to get hurt again .. if u guys do get back together and all of sudden u guys broke up.. then its gonna hurt so much.. if i was you.. i would try to talk to her and try to understand her.. and dont listen to most of the guys that ur 23 and u need to fuck and party hard.. no ur 23 and u need start to think about ur future.. and start to think what u want or what u dont.. cauz you dont want to be confused at age 50 because u were drinking and fuckin other women when it was time for you to build ur future.. so talk to her and give her time to think .. remember every girl wants to have a husband who will love her and care for her.. so she is just afarid scared to pick who she wants..
A female with good advice. Finally i found one who didnt dilly dally round the issue.

Cheers sweetheart. All has been taken on bored!!!!

[flow-natural]

look ..maybe she still loves.. maybe there is a sitution that making hard for her to pick.. it could be the reason why u guys broke up.. maybe she is afarid to get hurt again .. if u guys do get back together and all of sudden u guys broke up.. then its gonna hurt so much.. if i was you.. i would try to talk to her and try to understand her.. and dont listen to most of the guys that ur 23 and u need to fuck and party hard.. no ur 23 and u need start to think about ur future.. and start to think what u want or what u dont.. cauz you dont want to be confused at age 50 because u were drinking and fuckin other women when it was time for you to build ur future.. so talk to her and give her time to think .. remember every girl wants to have a husband who will love her and care for her.. so she is just afarid scared to pick who she wants..


omg i so agree !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i swear its the guys vs the girls on this shit

these guys think all girls are evil, talking abt all these evil conspiracies like the girls sumkinda devil, afta his money, desperate 4 attention

ur da one who dated her ! how bad can she be ?

[zuiwaziri]

u said that you never dated but u did have sex after u guys broke up. right and she did date but are u sure she had sex? i mean how would u feel about that if she told you?
Well i wudnt tell her about my relatoinships until she managed to trick me by saying she was intimate with her new bf.

I thort fuck it then and told her about the 3 girls i had slept with.

She then said tht she made tht up cuz i wudnt tell her and said she hasnt done anything cuz her Virginity is valuable to her ??


I kinda believe her cuz she didnt do anything with me cuz of tht reason.

[punjabi*princess]

omg i so agree !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i swear its the guys vs the girls on this shit

these guys think all girls are evil, talking abt all these evil conspiracies like the girls sumkinda devil, afta his money, desperate 4 attention

ur da one who dated her ! how bad can she be ?



and for all those guys who say girls are drama .. after for money and shit.. ahh ur wrong sweeheart because there are some girls who actually do look for love and want to have a life partner who can care for her and support her ( not money wise !)

[punjabi*princess]

Well i wudnt tell her about my relatoinships until she managed to trick me by saying she was intimate with her new bf.

I thort fuck it then and told her about the 3 girls i had slept with.

She then said tht she made tht up cuz i wudnt tell her and said she hasnt done anything cuz her Virginity is valuable to her ??


I kinda believe her cuz she didnt do anything with me cuz of tht reason.



and now u got ur answer sweetheart.. thats why she made you promise not to fuck other women anymore.. and save it after marriage ... shes with a guy but she hasnt fucked him.. and when u were guys were together and all that love was inbetween you guys and when she find out . that u fucked three girls it probabaly did hurt her.. think about it

[zuiwaziri]

omg i so agree !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i swear its the guys vs the girls on this shit

these guys think all girls are evil, talking abt all these evil conspiracies like the girls sumkinda devil, afta his money, desperate 4 attention

ur da one who dated her ! how bad can she be ?

Which is wht i have been trying to tell everyone around me who keeps sayin i can do better and tht she is an evil bitch etc etc.

Simply put, wen its just me and her, the whole thing clicks, and works so well, and its all 50/50.

When other factors get involved the system turns ugly and fucks up??

[punjabi*princess]

Which is wht i have been trying to tell everyone around me who keeps sayin i can do better and tht she is an evil bitch etc etc.

Simply put, wen its just me and her, the whole thing clicks, and works so well, and its all 50/50.

When other factors get involved the system turns ugly and fucks up??






she isnt a evil bitch.. oh god.. if she was then she would have fucked every guy that she came acrossed.. and she wouldnt be talking to u at the moment. :mad: dont listen to those losers..

[flow-natural]

and for all those guys who say girls are drama .. after for money and shit.. ahh ur wrong sweeheart because there are some girls who actually do look for love and want to have a life partner who can care for her and support her ( not money wise !)


erghhh thank u !!

and i think he would have known iif da girls a golddigger or not

and u know ur right abt thinkin abt da future

he obviously still loves her and shes doin her very best 2 get his attention

this is so frustrating :| just go for her man

[punjabi*princess]

erghhh thank u !!

and i think he would have known iif da girls a golddigger or not

and u know ur right abt thinkin abt da future

he obviously still loves her and shes doin her very best 2 get his attention

this is so frustrating :| just go for her man



yupp go for her.. win her trust and love back and u know you can do it.. :dance3: and dont listen to those boys who fuckin drink and fuck shit...

[punjabi*princess]

oh yeah dont forget to invite flow and me to your wedding lol :wavey: best of luckkkkkk :dance3:

[flow-natural]

Which is wht i have been trying to tell everyone around me who keeps sayin i can do better and tht she is an evil bitch etc etc.

Simply put, wen its just me and her, the whole thing clicks, and works so well, and its all 50/50.

When other factors get involved the system turns ugly and fucks up??

omg seriously yeh

if u feel like u guys really connect then she probs feels the same way

and love isnt just about liking sum1, theres gota be that extra sumthing that makes it worth fighting for

and by this thread u proved that its obviously bothering u and she obviously cant move on eitha.

and believe me, if a girl likes a guy ( ur ex gf and her bf ) then she wudnt even THINK abt talkin to her ex to tell him that she still misses him and shit.
unless shes sumkinda evil twisted bitch which shes not ( cos u just said so )

seriously man, dont let her go

[hawthamzi]

she isnt a evil bitch.. oh god.. if she was then she would have fucked every guy that she came acrossed.. and she wouldnt be talking to u at the moment. :mad: dont listen to those losers..
what if she DID fuck every guy she came across, what if shes just keeping it a big secret??

[punjabi*princess]

what if she DID fuck every guy she came across, what if shes just keeping it a big secret??



if u love someone more then your self you wouldnt lie.. and like he said they were together for a long time.. she didnt let him do anyhting soo bascially.. she didnt sweetheart..

[di vinci]

what if she DID fuck every guy she came across, what if shes just keeping it a big secret??


women r better at telling porkies then men.

[punjabi*princess]

look personally .. i been in this kinda of sitution.. but i lost that someone.. but i never stop fighting .. cauz u know why i loved him.. i loved him more then my self.. and its been soo long.. i still cant forget him.. anyways thats that.. but i want you to get her back.. soo yaar just get her back ...

[supremed]

if u love someone more then your self you wouldnt lie.. and like he said they were together for a long time.. she didnt let him do anyhting soo bascially.. she didnt sweetheart..
youre pretty certain...however i disagree, chicks are deceptive

[punjabi*princess]

women r better at telling porkies then men.


oh shut up.. how do u know... u cant judge every women in this world by knowing few :mad:

[di vinci]

if u love someone more then your self you wouldnt lie.. and like he said they were together for a long time.. she didnt let him do anyhting soo bascially.. she didnt sweetheart..


dating for two years is child play 5years + is a long time darlinng


women are like flowly two faced

[punjabi*princess]

youre pretty certain...however i disagree, chicks are deceptive

dont tell me that men are pure also.. ok most of you guys want two fuckin women .. you guys can never love one girl.. all u guys want is SEX SEX SEX.. wheever u see a booty u go running wagging ur tail behind her :mad:

[punjabi*princess]

dating for two years is child play 5years + is a long time darlinng


women are like flowly two faced




some people arent even assure if they love each other after 10 years u got to be kidding me

[supremed]

dont tell me that men are pure also.. ok most of you guys want two fuckin women .. you guys can never love one girl.. all u guys want is SEX SEX SEX.. wheever u see a booty u go running wagging ur tail behind her :mad:
not necessarily true

[punjabi*princess]

dating for two years is child play 5years + is a long time darlinng


women are like flowly two faced



and men are pure as milk right.. oh pleasee..

[flow-natural]

dating for two years is child play 5years + is a long time darlinng


women are like flowly two faced

how am i 2faced

iv been mean to u from the start

airhead

[hawthamzi]

if u love someone more then your self you wouldnt lie.. and like he said they were together for a long time.. she didnt let him do anyhting soo bascially.. she didnt sweetheart..
if she loved him more than she loved herself then there wouldnt have been a break up in the first place, you dont leave the one you love and then come back to them, if you do, ur not in love, ur just confused and need to figure yourself out, im just saying that you cant rule it out at this time, maybe she got fed up with him, left him for next man, couple of months down the line realised that the first dude was better so thought lets get back what i once had.

[punjabi*princess]

not necessarily true



and what u said is true??? not 100 percent sweetheart

[di vinci]

oh shut up.. how do u know... u cant judge every women in this world by knowing few :mad:


stop using a typical women tactic

women by nature are program too lie, they got the whole crocadile thing down to a fine art

i dont know few women i know lots of chicks. they all seem to lie without even realising they are lying. their eyes give it away.

chicks lie

[supremed]

and what u said is true??? not 100 percent sweetheart
what I say is ALWAYS true

[supremed]

stop using a typical women tactic

women by nature are program too lie, they got the whole crocadile thing down to a fine art

i dont know few women i know lots of chicks. they all seem to lie without even realising they are lying. their eyes give it away.

chicks lie
this man knows what he is talking about

[punjabi*princess]

if she loved him more than she loved herself then there wouldnt have been a break up in the first place, you dont leave the one you love and then come back to them, if you do, ur not in love, ur just confused and need to figure yourself out, im just saying that you cant rule it out at this time, maybe she got fed up with him, left him for next man, couple of months down the line realised that the first dude was better so thought lets get back what i once had.


u dont know the sitution why they broke up right... and i am not confused ..and underline the word maybe u arent sure.. cauz u arent in her position

[hawthamzi]

women r better at telling porkies then men.
my point exactly

[punjabi*princess]

what I say is ALWAYS true


oh please.. suck up the ego mr

[di vinci]

how am i 2faced

iv been mean to u from the start

airhead


flow we all know ur two face, i seen the real you, u lack class respect n u act like a hoe. dont say u are a bitch, u just havnt got laid thats why u got so much pent up agression i feel sorry for the guy who gona sleep with u, ur gona fuck him up gud n proper

[punjabi*princess]

stop using a typical women tactic

women by nature are program too lie, they got the whole crocadile thing down to a fine art

i dont know few women i know lots of chicks. they all seem to lie without even realising they are lying. their eyes give it away.

chicks lie


like i said.. u know alot.. but not every women in this world..


and men are program to be fuckin sex maniac pig

[hawthamzi]

u dont know the sitution why they broke up right... and i am not confused ..and underline the word maybe u arent sure.. cauz u arent in her position
wait, that wasnt aimed at you, that was just talking in general

[supremed]

oh please.. suck up the ego mr
its true though

[punjabi*princess]

flow we all know ur two face, i seen the real you, u lack class respect n u act like a hoe. dont say u are a bitch, u just havnt got laid thats why u got so much pent up agression i feel sorry for the guy who gona sleep with u, ur gona fuck him up gud n proper


u telling her she doesnt have respect.. look at u are u giving her any respect.. give respect take respect.. talk to her respectly and maybe she will give u respect back sweetheart

[flow-natural]

flow we all know ur two face, i seen the real you, u lack class respect n u act like a hoe. dont say u are a bitch, u just havnt got laid thats why u got so much pent up agression i feel sorry for the guy who gona sleep with u, ur gona fuck him up gud n proper

i act like a hoe cos iv dissed u when u asked for my add

oh im sorry, god knows how i becme like this

i got respect 4 ppl i like ( obviously not u )

[punjabi*princess]

its true though


no its not

[flow-natural]

u telling her she doesnt have respect.. look at u are u giving her any respect.. give respect take respect.. talk to her respectly and maybe she will give u respect back sweetheart

yes exactly

im innocent really

iv been so nice to him

[hawthamzi]

flow we all know ur two face, i seen the real you, u lack class respect n u act like a hoe. dont say u are a bitch, u just havnt got laid thats why u got so much pent up agression i feel sorry for the guy who gona sleep with u, ur gona fuck him up gud n proper
:rofl:

[punjabi*princess]

wait, that wasnt aimed at you, that was just talking in general


but u arent in her position..

[punjabi*princess]

:rofl:


thats what respect u give also eh?

[hawthamzi]

u telling her she doesnt have respect.. look at u are u giving her any respect.. give respect take respect.. talk to her respectly and maybe she will give u respect back sweetheart
give respect where respect is due

[di vinci]

i act like a hoe cos iv dissed u when u asked for my add

oh im sorry, god knows how i becme like this

i got respect 4 ppl i like ( obviously not u )


omg. u hate me because i got ur buddy banned. thats the truth before that u were cool

[flow-natural]

omg. u hate me because i got ur buddy banned. thats the truth before that u were cool

when was i cool 2 u

[hawthamzi]

but u arent in her position..
yes but i have lots of girl mates, who tell me what kinda shit they get upto and how they work man

[punjabi*princess]

yes but i have lots of girl mates, who tell me what kinda shit they get upto and how they work man



those are ur firends.. and its not true every girl is like that..

[di vinci]

like i said.. u know alot.. but not every women in this world..


and men are program to be fuckin sex maniac pig


men are program to be cavemens, ur right we are pigs, but atleast we dont lie n used our hormones as a excuse. men are just way to real for women. thank god the pope is a man :Pray:

[punjabi*princess]

give respect where respect is due


u dont even know her well.. u talk to her online.. and u just judge by that.. wow all of u men need a life

[punjabi*princess]

men are program to be cavemens, ur right we are pigs, but atleast we dont lie n used our hormones as a excuse. men are just way to real for women. thank god the pope is a man :Pray:



not every women lies.. LIKE I SAIDDDDDDDD U DONT KNOW EVERY WOMEN>> and ur also program not to listen right.. apparently ur not trying to understand what i am saying.. and ur not funny with that example.. a woman give u birth so ur telling me ur mom lies to hawwwwww

[hawthamzi]

those are ur firends.. and its not true every girl is like that..
true say, i cant say that all girls are like that, but if i break it down, then theres defo more scandalous women out there than ur simple sound one

[hawthamzi]

u dont even know her well.. u talk to her online.. and u just judge by that.. wow all of u men need a life
to be honest, online is enough, and i just dont like her :neutral:

[di vinci]

not every women lies.. LIKE I SAIDDDDDDDD U DONT KNOW EVERY WOMEN>> and ur also program not to listen right.. apparently ur not trying to understand what i am saying.. and ur not funny with that example.. a woman give u birth so ur telling me ur mom lies to hawwwwww


oh shhhhh


our mums are from a totally differant era. were talking about OUR generation not our parents generation. kasme chicks on rd. if they cant say something dont bring the mum into it

[punjabi*princess]

to be honest, online is enough, and i just dont like her :neutral:



look if u dont like her.. if she says shit... then why u even bother saying it back.. then whats the between both of you.. so just ingore her..

[punjabi*princess]

oh shhhhh


our mums are from a totally differant era. were talking about OUR generation not our parents generation. kasme chicks on rd. if they cant say something dont bring the mum into it



dont you shhh me.. and im just saying like u said the pope.. and i am not trying to be rude .. if i was i am sorry .. cauz i respect mothers more then anything.. but like i am saying .. dont put into the cagetory of ur "kasme chicks on rd" ok.. cauz u dont know me... i never have talked to u before..this generation.. there are plenty girls who have culture, tradition, and DONT LIE :mad:

[punjabi*princess]

true say, i cant say that all girls are like that, but if i break it down, then theres defo more scandalous women out there than ur simple sound one


thanks yeha i am simple.... and thats just me.. cauz i am a stright up person

[hawthamzi]

look if u dont like her.. if she says shit... then why u even bother saying it back.. then whats the between both of you.. so just ingore her..
what can i say, im jus morally obliged to open up her eyes to the truth, its not good to see her so confused about herself

[punjabi*princess]

what can i say, im jus morally obliged to open up her eyes to the truth, its not good to see her so confused about herself


let her be.. she will learn her mistakes one day.. its all good.. why waste ur time.. and get all heated up

[hawthamzi]

thanks yeha i am simple.... and thats just me.. cauz i am a stright up person
yeah thats the best way, keep it real, ur a dying breed i tell you

[di vinci]

dont you shhh me.. and im just saying like u said the pope.. and i am not trying to be rude .. if i was i am sorry .. cauz i respect mothers more then anything.. but like i am saying .. dont put into the cagetory of ur "kasme chicks on rd" ok.. cauz u dont know me... i never have talked to u before..this generation.. there are plenty girls who have culture, tradition, and DONT LIE :mad:


we ha\vnt been introduce

im vinci malhothra

i just love causing dramas, ok. i donot disrespect women full stop. but i like winding ur species on rd.

[hawthamzi]

let her be.. she will learn her mistakes one day.. its all good.. why waste ur time.. and get all heated up
oh i dont get heated, this is just the internet at the end of the day but where somebody is wrong they should be told

[Rogue]

I come to this forum in search of a Desi female who is willing to tell me to truth?? I kno its a long shot but im hoping one is out there!!!!

I will tell u the situation and truthful girl (if she exists) will explain the Code!!


My ex, whom i had plans to marry etc etc, came back into my life after 2 yrs. I thort i was over her, but im clearly not. When she asked me, i told her my feelings (Truth told with no riddles) then she tells me she has a boyfriend. She explains tht initially he was to get over me, but now its an 18 month thing and she loves him?

OK up to this point im feeling hurt, but understand the situation.

2 days after this convo she tells me tht she still loves me!!!!!
2 Days after the she says its not gonna happen between us cuz she loves her new man. (so at this moment my emotions are all over the place)


We have another convo where i lay everything on the line and answer TRUTHFULLY every question she asked, including girlfriends i had after we broke up (which is NONE). She asked if i had, had sex, I answer YES.

She got upset and wanted to kno "how cud i have done tht?" and "Why?".

Im confused cuz im suppose to be a single guy, and i wasnt cheating.

Days later she asks me to PROMISE her something: Not to have sex again until i get married, followed by me working hard to establish myself, and to buy a house cuz no girl wants to live with her inlaws?? (Yeah so im confused now!!)

I ask why its important i promise her this, seeing as we are only friends. She says its cuz "she Cares" (That is avoiding the Truthful answer)

Seeing as i love the girl and even if there is a 1% chance i will marry her, i decided to promise her this and proceeded to give her the promise ring i once gave her wen we were together. (Arent i a gullable sucker)

I then played the "best friend in the world" act and i talk to her like her best friend, and im always there for her wen she needs me..... bla blaa blaa etc etc.

She has gone back to her own home now, but is still talking to me and says i can always txt, or MSN her, cuz "she is always with me"??


My parents have asked for her rishtha and her parents accpeted, pending an acceptance from HER!!!



Anyone care to analyse this bullshit for me, and let me kno whts going through this girls MIND!!!!hmm....from the little that you've written, i'll give my opinion thus far:

the girl sounds awfully confused and insecure :neutral: i don't know if it'd be in your best interest to get married to someone so indecisive...it seems like it would be a very bad idea... and i know this may be difficult for you to accept because you have so many feelings for her that it kind of makes you overlook a lot of things...but before proceeding with this rishta or waiting for her to approve of it.... please wait and think about this with a bit more clarity, as marriage is no joke. if i were you, i'd probably take a break and advise her to do the same until she and you can both come to a conclusive decision.

i also think that it was very selfish of her to make you promise not to have sex/intimacy until you got married, i feel like that's not something that she's in a position to make you do or impose upon you. if she cared, she could have expressed her disapproval and said something like "i think you should take time to focus on yourself and get your priorities in life straight before you proceed to pursue another relationship"

she clearly feels a bit possessive probably due to the past that you guys have shared and i think she realized that due to your own emotions towards her which have led you to forgive her and keep being there for her, she knows that can use that to control you...and she is taking advantage of it. :neutral:

[punjabi*princess]

yeah thats the best way, keep it real, ur a dying breed i tell you


thanks hun

[punjabi*princess]

we ha\vnt been introduce

im vinci malhothra

i just love causing dramas, ok. i donot disrespect women full stop. but i like winding ur species on rd.



lol i can see that u love causing dramas lollllll... and thank you for respecting women .. oh yeah nice way of meeting you :)

[punjabi*princess]

oh i dont get heated, this is just the internet at the end of the day but where somebody is wrong they should be told


u told her once thats good enough.. but dont swear and cuss come on now

[di vinci]

hmm....from the little that you've written, i'll give my opinion thus far:

the girl sounds awfully confused and insecure :neutral: i don't know if it'd be in your best interest to get married to someone so indecisive...it seems like it would be a very bad idea... and i know this may be difficult for you to accept because you have so many feelings for her that it kind of makes you overlook a lot of things...but before proceeding with this rishta or waiting for her to approve of it.... please wait and think about this with a bit more clarity, as marriage is no joke. if i were you, i'd probably take a break and advise her to do the same until she and you can both come to a conclusive decision.

i also think that it was very selfish of her to make you promise not to have sex/intimacy until you got married, i feel like that's not something that she's in a position to make you do or impose upon you. if she cared, she could have expressed her disapproval and said something like "i think you should take time to focus on yourself and get your priorities in life straight before you proceed to pursue another relationship"

she clearly feels a bit possessive probably due to the past that you guys have shared and i think she realized that due to your own emotions towards her which have led you to forgive her and keep being there for her, she knows that can use that to control you...and she is taking advantage of it. :neutral:

ur so indept

[di vinci]

lol i can see that u love causing dramas lollllll... and thank you for respecting women .. oh yeah nice way of meeting you :)


:kekeke:

u must be preety if doaly made u a sig

[Rogue]

ur so indept
:salut: i think it helps the person who'se clearly in need of some brutal honesty.

[punjabi*princess]

:kekeke:

u must be preety if doaly made u a sig


hawwww i dont know lol.. i took down my pic last night from the main site

[di vinci]

:salut: i think it helps the person who'se clearly in need of some brutal honesty.


i love it when u go all indept on rd poster it make u look a even more :love: gorgeous

[Echelon]

Rule of thumb: trying to mould a woman who is already fucked is like trying to fix Michael Jackson's face. Forget it, move on.

[Rogue]

i love it when u go all indept on rd poster it make u look a even more :love: gorgeous
:gay: you sweet talker, you.

[giggles2007]

Why did you guys break up in the first place? That might be important to think about too. But I personally don't think this girl is worth the trouble. Marriage is really difficult in itself, without having all this unneccesary drama involved in it too. This girl sounds like she can't make a decision and she wants to have you as an option and her other boyfriend as an option too. It doesn't make sense that she's asking you not to have sex when she's openly with another guy. I think you should just move on, forget the rishta stuff. My mom always told me, you should marry the person that loves you the most in the world, not the person you love the most. I can tell you love her a lot but if she loved you back with that kind of sincerity she'd be 100% yours right now. When any girl is truly in love, she's loyal through and through.

[Rogue]

Why did you guys break up in the first place? That might be important to think about too. But I personally don't think this girl is worth the trouble. Marriage is really difficult in itself, without having all this unneccesary drama involved in it too. This girl sounds like she can't make a decision and she wants to have you as an option and her other boyfriend as an option too. It doesn't make sense that she's asking you not to have sex when she's openly with another guy. I think you should just move on, forget the rishta stuff. My mom always told me, you should marry the person that loves you the most in the world, not the person you love the most. I can tell you love her a lot but if she loved you back with that kind of sincerity she'd be 100% yours right now. When any girl is truly in love *for the right reasons*, she's loyal through and through.:werd: :werd: :werd:

[supremed]

:werd: :werd: :werd:
you dont know what youre talking about...because i said so thats why

[di vinci]

hawwww i dont know lol.. i took down my pic last night from the main site


im gona ask him if he come online

u should post a pic

[di vinci]

:gay: you sweet talker, you.


who me, im just saying wat everyone else is thinking. ur ever so preety :dance3:

[Rogue]

you dont know what youre talking about...because i said so thats why
:bhapi: sure, okay.

[supremed]

:bhapi: sure, okay.
:kiss::love: oh damn heheh

[Rogue]

:kiss::love: oh damn heheh
:rofl: does this mean you remember me?

[supremed]

:rofl: does this mean you remember me?
hahahaha...yeah we met at caprice right?

[Rogue]

hahahaha...yeah we met at caprice right?
:wiggle: you don't remember do you. and you said you loved me :ashamed:

[supremed]

:wiggle: you don't remember do you. and you said you loved me :ashamed:
but i meant it at the time..just gimme a hint .... are you indian /pak or other (i cant believe I said other)

[Rogue]

but i meant it at the time..just gimme a hint .... are you indian /pak or other (i cant believe I said other)
:rofl: are you trying to imply that i sound desi?

[supremed]

:rofl: are you trying to imply that i sound desi?
uuh..yeah....but give me a hint...what night did I meet you

[Rogue]

uuh..yeah....but give me a hint...what night did I meet you:wiggle: you know that night that it was all crazy and people started to team up in groups of 3 and proceeded to have threesomes? mmm...yea

[supremed]

:wiggle: you know that night that it was all crazy and people started to team up in groups of 3 and proceeded to have threesomes? mmm...yea
oh yeah...but thats everynight...tell me who you were with..lol

[zuiwaziri]

Why did you guys break up in the first place? That might be important to think about too. But I personally don't think this girl is worth the trouble. Marriage is really difficult in itself, without having all this unneccesary drama involved in it too. This girl sounds like she can't make a decision and she wants to have you as an option and her other boyfriend as an option too. It doesn't make sense that she's asking you not to have sex when she's openly with another guy. I think you should just move on, forget the rishta stuff. My mom always told me, you should marry the person that loves you the most in the world, not the person you love the most. I can tell you love her a lot but if she loved you back with that kind of sincerity she'd be 100% yours right now. When any girl is truly in love, she's loyal through and through.
:werd:

We broke up cuz we (meaning she) didnt think our family's wud agree. I was adamant tht my family wanted me to marry her b4 i had even met her (our fathers are good friends).

Our dad's had a minor disagreement and all hell broke loose (standard desi flex) and she broke up with me saying its not worth the hassle etc etc.

Through everything, i always backed her case and made sure nothing came back to her. Im so trustworthy to her tht its taking every ounce of power in my body, not to tell her parents about the new boyfriend??

[punjabi*princess]

:werd:

We broke up cuz we (meaning she) didnt think our family's wud agree. I was adamant tht my family wanted me to marry her b4 i had even met her (our fathers are good friends).

Our dad's had a minor disagreement and all hell broke loose (standard desi flex) and she broke up with me saying its not worth the hassle etc etc.

Through everything, i always backed her case and made sure nothing came back to her. Im so trustworthy to her tht its taking every ounce of power in my body, not to tell her parents about the new boyfriend??



then win her back if u really love her . then u should win her back

[zuiwaziri]

then win her back if u really love her . then u should win her back
Im just playing the best friend role. Im gonna be there for her when she wants to talk. I dont msg her, but i let her msg me first. Im gonna be her confidant.

She lives 2000 miles away anyways, so not like i can be with her this second, so this is the best solution for me now, cuz it doesnt hurt when im talking to her, it feels nice.

Im just hoping suspicion will arise with the boyfriend at some point and im giving it a year.

I just want one thing....... Get rid of the Knotted up feeling in my stomach

[punjabi*princess]

Im just playing the best friend role. Im gonna be there for her when she wants to talk. I dont msg her, but i let her msg me first. Im gonna be her confidant.

She lives 2000 miles away anyways, so not like i can be with her this second, so this is the best solution for me now, cuz it doesnt hurt when im talking to her, it feels nice.

Im just hoping suspicion will arise with the boyfriend at some point and im giving it a year.

I just want one thing....... Get rid of the Knotted up feeling in my stomach


ok then i think its beter for you to be her firend.. then slowly u will realize that what she really wants and u will also get that feeling out of you .. so if she doesnt come back then u can move on.. and if she does then u guys can be together

[crayzee]

she loves u

shes scared 2 get hurt ( again ? )

tries to keep distance

doesnt wanna break up with her current bf ( keeps him as back up )

probably VERY happy that ur back


i hope everything works out for uas much as i hate to admit it, flow's right about all of the above BUT she missed out a weeeeeee bit...

this girl, although she loves you, is gonna do your head in. Think of it this way: this girl is taken. She's in a long term relationship, with a guy she claims to love. Now if she can leave her man for you today... tomorrow she can leave you for another 'old flame' too

Dont get me wrong bro, I dont mean to rain on ur parade. I wish u all the best n i hope everything works out for you both... but its times like this when u have to think with ur head n not with ur heart (or ur 'harami' for that matter ;) ) So whatever you both decide to do, just make sure u think about it realistically, with your heads screwed on tight

[zuiwaziri]

as much as i hate to admit it, flow's right about all of the above BUT she missed out a weeeeeee bit...

this girl, although she loves you, is gonna do your head in. Think of it this way: this girl is taken. She's in a long term relationship, with a guy she claims to love. Now if she can leave her man for you today... tomorrow she can leave you for another 'old flame' too

Dont get me wrong bro, I dont mean to rain on ur parade. I wish u all the best n i hope everything works out for you both... but its times like this when u have to think with ur head n not with ur heart (or ur 'harami' for that matter ;) ) So whatever you both decide to do, just make sure u think about it realistically, with your heads screwed on tight
:werd:

At the moment, i just dont kno wht i wanna do.

For 2 yrs i managed to distract my time and emotions on other things (Harami things) and its not really got me anywhere??

If anything, I think i want a new girlfriend, if anything just to pass the time and have some positive female attention, rather than the "disgusting relationships" (as the ex said) i have been having.

[MrCanuck]

Holy shit dude, your story is a carbon-copy of mine. Word to fucking word!!! And the advice given here is pretty much what I have been told and it makes sense too.

[zuiwaziri]

Holy shit dude, your story is a carbon-copy of mine. Word to fucking word!!! And the advice given here is pretty much what I have been told and it makes sense too.
Answer me one question if u can??

I wanna get over this girl..... Did u get over yours, and how did u do it?

[DasJa]

Answer me one question if u can??

I wanna get over this girl..... Did u get over yours, and how did u do it?
Meet, my friend...Mr. Black Label :yum:

http://www.subliminalworld.org/mexbaca.jpg

[zuiwaziri]

Meet, my friend...Mr. Black Label :yum:

http://www.subliminalworld.org/mexbaca.jpg
Yeah but its a short term, negative fix.

Im not suppose to drink as it is, and i do wana resolve these issues w/o the need for substance/alcohol/drunk ugly female abuse.

[punjabi*princess]

Answer me one question if u can??

I wanna get over this girl..... Did u get over yours, and how did u do it?



ok if u do want to get over her.. then try to kep ur mind busy...it will take time but eventually u will get over her.. but the idea of you being her firend .. it wont do you any good.. AND NO DRINKING ... hang around people that care for you and etc etc.. do activites.. hang around ur relatives.. firends u know keep ur self busy so you wont feel alone

[MrCanuck]

Answer me one question if u can??

I wanna get over this girl..... Did u get over yours, and how did u do it?

I almost got over her... it hurt a lot seeing her with another guy. But I just went out and got my own life, did things that I love doing with my friends and working on improving myself (work out, do better in school, etc.).

Then I ran into her again. At first we were only "flings" yet I fell in love with her. The second time I was a stronger person and even though I still liked her, I didn't care that much for her. We hung out and stuff, ended up kissing... going all the way and all. She was (is) confused, they all are. She was almost officially mine. I mean after kissing and going far, it was safe to talk about giving a relationship a shot. But she did not want to break up with her bf. She said even if she wanted to, there would be too much drama. Although I was whilling to fight the drama with her, she was not whilling to lose her friends (her bf's friends?) and/or have that kind of image in society. We remainned "friends with benefits". We still are. I try to stay away from her (at least for now) so that I don't permanently end up in the wussy friend without benefits zone.

[T.Dimera]

I almost got over her... it hurt a lot seeing her with another guy. But I just went out and got my own life, did things that I love doing with my friends and working on improving myself (work out, do better in school, etc.).

Then I ran into her again. At first we were only "flings" yet I fell in love with her. The second time I was a stronger person and even though I still liked her, I didn't care that much for her. We hung out and stuff, ended up kissing... going all the way and all. She was (is) confused, they all are. She was almost officially mine. I mean after kissing and going far, it was safe to talk about giving a relationship a shot. But she did not want to break up with her bf. She said even if she wanted to, there would be too much drama. Although I was whilling to fight the drama with her, she was not whilling to lose her friends (her bf's friends?) and/or have that kind of image in society. We remainned "friends with benefits". We still are. I try to stay away from her (at least for now) so that I don't permanently end up in the wussy friend without benefits zone.

how could you want a relationship with a girl who gives you the coochie while with her b/f and probably gives him the coochie to?

I would be way to jealous if some other guy was sleeping with a girl i really liked...and if she already had a man...what would stop her from turning around and cheating on you if you 2 got together?...shes bad news

[DasJa]

I'd still say do it the way a real man does it!

Get wasted, get into a fight, then call ur chick at 4 in the morning...hung-over and hurting like a bitch...and cuss her the f*ck out!!


Keepin it traditional :cool:

[zuiwaziri]

I almost got over her... it hurt a lot seeing her with another guy. But I just went out and got my own life, did things that I love doing with my friends and working on improving myself (work out, do better in school, etc.).

Then I ran into her again. At first we were only "flings" yet I fell in love with her. The second time I was a stronger person and even though I still liked her, I didn't care that much for her. We hung out and stuff, ended up kissing... going all the way and all. She was (is) confused, they all are. She was almost officially mine. I mean after kissing and going far, it was safe to talk about giving a relationship a shot. But she did not want to break up with her bf. She said even if she wanted to, there would be too much drama. Although I was whilling to fight the drama with her, she was not whilling to lose her friends (her bf's friends?) and/or have that kind of image in society. We remainned "friends with benefits". We still are. I try to stay away from her (at least for now) so that I don't permanently end up in the wussy friend without benefits zone.
Mine just says some crap like......

....Im her choice IF she gets married cuz she knows me, but im her past and she Luved me, and she now loves her new man.

So she always throws out tht bait, like im suppose to stick around and wait for her relationship to be done, meanwhile im not suppose to talk to any girls myself??

All i want is straight (Non Cryptic) answers!!!!

[T.Dimera]

Mine just says some crap like......

....Im her choice IF she gets married cuz she knows me, but im her past and she Luved me, and she now loves her new man.

So she always throws out tht bait, like im suppose to stick around and wait for her relationship to be done, meanwhile im not suppose to talk to any girls myself??

All i want is straight (Non Cryptic) answers!!!!

that is bullshit, you need to man up and move on with your life..any girl who says that to you, wants to string you along while she gets fucked by her man...and then what do you end up with? some girl with a beat up coochie who wants to marry you...leave this wack job and don't look back

[MrCanuck]

how could you want a relationship with a girl who gives you the coochie while with her b/f and probably gives him the coochie to?

I would be way to jealous if some other guy was sleeping with a girl i really liked...and if she already had a man...what would stop her from turning around and cheating on you if you 2 got together?...shes bad news

WTF is a coochie? I know she's bad news. She cheated on her bf with me many many times. Who was I kidding thinking a relationship with her. I think she knows exactly what she wants, and that is 2 guys, which is not socially acceptable. I don't think I love her the same way I once did, but hey it cannot just completely dissapear now.

As for the original poster, if she doesn't want an official relationship and wants to stay with her man, you owe her nothing. That's the beauty of an unofficial relationship... no one loses, no one gets hurt, no one ends up owing anything to one another and no one feels rejected.

In fact, you SHOULD go out there and date other girls. She's gonna see that you have other options and that you are a desirable man. Also, the possibility of losing you for ever could make her want you a lot more all of a sudden. As I mentionned in my other post, I suggested to my girl that we begin acting like bf/gf, she acted all awkward, gave me a moral speech on how we should stop seeing each other. I said "ok, cool, whatever makes you happy" and I never contacted her. A week later, she wouldn't leave me alone (phone, email, msn, facebook).

Better you rejecting her than the other way around. If she wants you, she'll chase you. You cannot control what you feel. You cannot change her mind, you can only indirectly change the way she feels. Women are emotionally driven, men are logically driven. Women are not at all logical. Damn I wish I followed my own advice sometimes.

[T.Dimera]

WTF is a coochie? I know she's bad news. She cheated on her bf with me many many times. Who was I kidding thinking a relationship with her. I think she knows exactly what she wants, and that is 2 guys, which is not socially acceptable. I don't think I love her the same way I once did, but hey it cannot just completely dissapear now.

As for the original poster, if she doesn't want an official relationship and wants to stay with her man, you owe her nothing. That's the beauty of an unofficial relationship... no one loses, no one gets hurt, no one ends up owing anything to one another and no one feels rejected.

In fact, you SHOULD go out there and date other girls. She's gonna see that you have other options and that you are a desirable man. Also, the possibility of losing you for ever could make her want you a lot more all of a sudden. As I mentionned in my other post, I suggested to my girl that we begin acting like bf/gf, she acted all awkward, gave me a moral speech on how we should stop seeing each other. I said "ok, cool, whatever makes you happy" and I never contacted her. A week later, she wouldn't leave me alone (phone, email, msn, facebook).

Better you rejecting her than the other way around. If she wants you, she'll chase you. You cannot control what you feel. You cannot change her mind, you can only indirectly change the way she feels. Women are emotionally driven, men are logically driven. Women are not at all logical. Damn I wish I followed my own advice sometimes.

coochie=pussy

girls like that can only be treated as F*ckbuddies....you can't get emotionaly attached to a girl like that because she will rip out your heart. I'm also a big believer in karma...so be careful when you mess with a girl who already has a man...life has a funny way of coming around on everyone...focus on the single, sane girls....i assure you..there are some out there....this coming from a 26 year old

[sWeEtnDsOuR]

1. y r more guys answering????????
2. i dont know if its worth it if shes being that confusing..but i can understand that you love her nd she loves you so its hard to figure out whats right and wrong...all these guys saying leave her move on bleh bleh...sorry people its not that easy...you guys maybe be cold but he has feelings...kthanx.

[crayzee]

:werd:

At the moment, i just dont kno wht i wanna do.

For 2 yrs i managed to distract my time and emotions on other things (Harami things) and its not really got me anywhere??

If anything, I think i want a new girlfriend, if anything just to pass the time and have some positive female attention, rather than the "disgusting relationships" (as the ex said) i have been having.Advice from ur ex-harami leader:

Find a girl (preferably not this one) and start afresh. experience happiness again. go through love again. find the girl that wants YOU to be happy. the one who knows what she wants. the one who loves you for who you are, and is willing to look to the future instead being stuck in ur (harami) past. Dude i know its easier said than done, but as soon as you find this girl dont ever let her go. Don't ever hurt her, n always keep her happy coz you dont get many chances to be happy in this world. Once you find Miss Right, stick to her like glue.

[MrCanuck]

coochie=pussy

girls like that can only be treated as F*ckbuddies....you can't get emotionaly attached to a girl like that because she will rip out your heart. I'm also a big believer in karma...so be careful when you mess with a girl who already has a man...life has a funny way of coming around on everyone...focus on the single, sane girls....i assure you..there are some out there....this coming from a 26 year old

She is not like that. We had something more (I think). Hey aren't we guys supposed to be more than happy to have a f-buddy with whom we could have something valuable without any attachement?

Remember, girls attracted to you enough to be f-buddies could want a relationship. But girls wanting you for a relationship for the heck of it won't nessecerily sleep with you (at least not in the short run).

[jibran251]

I come to this forum in search of a Desi female who is willing to tell me to truth?? I kno its a long shot but im hoping one is out there!!!!

I will tell u the situation and truthful girl (if she exists) will explain the Code!!


My ex, whom i had plans to marry etc etc, came back into my life after 2 yrs. I thort i was over her, but im clearly not. When she asked me, i told her my feelings (Truth told with no riddles) then she tells me she has a boyfriend. She explains tht initially he was to get over me, but now its an 18 month thing and she loves him?

OK up to this point im feeling hurt, but understand the situation.

2 days after this convo she tells me tht she still loves me!!!!!
2 Days after the she says its not gonna happen between us cuz she loves her new man. (so at this moment my emotions are all over the place)


We have another convo where i lay everything on the line and answer TRUTHFULLY every question she asked, including girlfriends i had after we broke up (which is NONE). She asked if i had, had sex, I answer YES.

She got upset and wanted to kno "how cud i have done tht?" and "Why?".

Im confused cuz im suppose to be a single guy, and i wasnt cheating.

Days later she asks me to PROMISE her something: Not to have sex again until i get married, followed by me working hard to establish myself, and to buy a house cuz no girl wants to live with her inlaws?? (Yeah so im confused now!!)

I ask why its important i promise her this, seeing as we are only friends. She says its cuz "she Cares" (That is avoiding the Truthful answer)

Seeing as i love the girl and even if there is a 1% chance i will marry her, i decided to promise her this and proceeded to give her the promise ring i once gave her wen we were together. (Arent i a gullable sucker)

I then played the "best friend in the world" act and i talk to her like her best friend, and im always there for her wen she needs me..... bla blaa blaa etc etc.

She has gone back to her own home now, but is still talking to me and says i can always txt, or MSN her, cuz "she is always with me"??


My parents have asked for her rishtha and her parents accpeted, pending an acceptance from HER!!!



Anyone care to analyse this bullshit for me, and let me kno whts going through this girls MIND!!!!

toughy ... I'll kjeep it simple. From what I picked up ... shes keeping her options open :yes: ...


I say go for it, if your ready :yes: ... but be careful and make sure its your decision and not anyone elses :yes: ...

[sal33na]

she loves you, tried to get over you but still loves you

[MrCanuck]

1. y r more guys answering????????

You don't want girls answering, they never tell the truth. Guys with experience know what they're talking about. Girls will never tell you to man the fuck up. Well some of them will in a different way, but they would have to be extremely honnest, know you well and be your 100% plutonic friend to tell you. Even still, women never say what they really want (if they ven know that is).

[miss_kuti_kamini]

walk away and don't look back at the byatch

[j2k339050]

dude. its about time to flip over the "hard to get" card. i know your emotions are on her an all over the place but u got to show her that your not going to fall head over heels down the stairs for her the moment she says her cars got a flat tire. im exactly in the same predicament as you are. i was in it before as well and i slowly stopped talking to her. And then she wonders whats wrong and starts talking again with you trying to make her fall for u. u gotta switch it around and soon she will be begging for you. but it takes alot of strength. just remember the concept of human nature. " people always want what they can't have".

peace

:)

[zuiwaziri]

Advice from ur ex-harami leader:

Find a girl (preferably not this one) and start afresh. experience happiness again. go through love again. find the girl that wants YOU to be happy. the one who knows what she wants. the one who loves you for who you are, and is willing to look to the future instead being stuck in ur (harami) past. Dude i know its easier said than done, but as soon as you find this girl dont ever let her go. Don't ever hurt her, n always keep her happy coz you dont get many chances to be happy in this world. Once you find Miss Right, stick to her like glue.
Its wht im trying to do??

Im just waiting for Uni to start and i can begin being distracted by all dem Katties!! LOL.


Here's something to ponder. On my facebook, i uploaded a few pics frm the summer. A female friend commented on a pic which included myself, my bro's and my ex's bro's. The female friend said i was the best looking in the pic. My ex replied by asking the friend to check again cuz i wasnt tht good looking.

They are now going back n forth with minor insults being passed, with my friend saying tht everyone has a right to an opinion and my ex saying tht she is just a kid and its ok for her to chase an older man??


I think its funny, but do we have any psychologists in the house who want to analyse why my ex is fighting with a friend of mine ?? (who is female)

[zuiwaziri]

dude. its about time to flip over the "hard to get" card. i know your emotions are on her an all over the place but u got to show her that your not going to fall head over heels down the stairs for her the moment she says her cars got a flat tire. im exactly in the same predicament as you are. i was in it before as well and i slowly stopped talking to her. And then she wonders whats wrong and starts talking again with you trying to make her fall for u. u gotta switch it around and soon she will be begging for you. but it takes alot of strength. just remember the concept of human nature. " people always want what they can't have".

peace

:)
Which is why i have resisted the urge to txt or facebook her.

The downside to this is tht i dont want her to forget who i am, and become comfortablly happy with her man.

I wanna keep contact cuz i want her man to get suspicious. I kno her nature and if her man asks her not to talk to me, she will talk to me more. LOL

[MrCanuck]

I kno her nature and if her man asks her not to talk to me, she will talk to me more. LOL

That's basically the female nature. If her man told her not to talk to you, he is bothered and insecure about you. If however he invited you to join you guys for dinner, that would be the smart thing to do. If you go, then you're doing it because he told you and he has a chance to crush your heart by smooching her before your eyes. And if you don't go, you're the one that comes accross as a cowardly beeyatch, plus you'd be putting yourself out of the picture too.

For more information, Google --> Boyfriend Destroyers :D

[crayzee]

Its wht im trying to do??

Im just waiting for Uni to start and i can begin being distracted by all dem Katties!! LOL.


Here's something to ponder. On my facebook, i uploaded a few pics frm the summer. A female friend commented on a pic which included myself, my bro's and my ex's bro's. The female friend said i was the best looking in the pic. My ex replied by asking the friend to check again cuz i wasnt tht good looking.

They are now going back n forth with minor insults being passed, with my friend saying tht everyone has a right to an opinion and my ex saying tht she is just a kid and its ok for her to chase an older man??


I think its funny, but do we have any psychologists in the house who want to analyse why my ex is fighting with a friend of mine ?? (who is female)i'm no psychologist, but it seems to me that your ex is fully aware that ur probably the best looking guy in the pic. She's kicking herself for ever letting you go, which is why she's been fuckin with your head lately. She's arguing with our friend to try to convince herself that your not that hot (but that's not happenin, ur a harami ;) ) lol

[zuiwaziri]

i'm no psychologist, but it seems to me that your ex is fully aware that ur probably the best looking guy in the pic. She's kicking herself for ever letting you go, which is why she's been fuckin with your head lately. She's arguing with our friend to try to convince herself that your not that hot (but that's not happenin, ur a harami ;) ) lol
Im gonna post the whole thing here just for a wee laugh. Make of it wht u will :kekeke:

[zuiwaziri]

My Friend wrote
at 8:20pm on August 27th, 2007
arite so after lokin all the pix i conclude u are the best loking in eeverybdy! haha nice pix <3


My Ex wrote
at 8:25pm on August 27th, 2007
who is best looking again??


Another friend (Aston University) wrote
at 8:53pm on August 27th, 2007
zubair... u greedy ting.. u tuk all da crisps! lol


My Friend wrote
at 11:33pm on August 27th, 2007
my friend zui


ME wrote
at 12:39am on August 28th, 2007
Everyone stop telling me im the best lookin in the pic. Nazar lag jai ge!!

Anywyas the best looking is tht beutiful woman in the pic. I tend to call her......

......MOMMY!!!!!!!!!!


My Ex (no network) wrote
at 3:14am on August 28th, 2007
ok zubair only ur friends think ur good looking....but to all of us ur just another guy...so relax koi nazar nai lagtii....we dun think ur good looking


My friend wrote
at 10:43am on August 28th, 2007
lol lol zui waziri obviously ur mom is pretty hence u lok good urself! n sara to each thier own (everybdy has a different opinion) =]


My ex (no network) wrote
at 9:41pm on August 28th, 2007
ur making no sense hun....speak english!!


My friend wrote
at 12:26pm on August 29th, 2007
arite maybe somebody is too flustered to read properly..but thats okay i shall repeat what i said...read carefully ;)

EVERYBODY HAS A DIFFERENT OPINION YOU MIGHT NOT AGREE WITH IT SO GUESS WHAT? TOO BAD! =]


My Ex(no network) wrote
at 3:17pm on August 29th, 2007
i dunno wht ur trying to prove....nyways ur just a kid and it's ok for u to obsess over older guys...


My Friend wrote
at 3:35pm on August 30th, 2007
haha how can you say im a kid? you dont even know how old i am! anyways whatever u proved urself immature by talking shit! bye <3


My Ex(no network) wrote
at 5:12pm on August 30th, 2007
talkin shit....plzzzzzzzzzzzzz u shud be honored that i indirectly talked to u....cheap gurls like u look for attention...awwwwwwwwwwwww...


My Ex (no network) wrote
at 5:13pm on August 30th, 2007
and ur the one in luv with zubair not me...so im sorry i kinda ruined that for u....both of r very well suited for each other....retards!!!!!!!


My ex's brother wrote
at 6:09pm on August 30th, 2007
sara y are u wasting ur time on this girl...shes immature and retarted....muahahahahahaha.....but i agree with u....


MY Sister wrote
at 11:34pm on August 30th, 2007
Hey this is (Zubairs sister).....listen people's this is EXTREMELY sad and pathetic, there is no need to backbite at other people's comments, just read and move on, why u wastin your time people's..??? The above dialogue made me laugh......so i had to put it straight to you all to CHILLAXILATE and just carry on with your business on this website without getting involved in other people's business......and if you have nothing nice to say then dont man..!! Its not nice..!! And if you think someone is a "retard" then why the hell are u wasting your time talking to and even bothering to waste your time by looking at the "retard's" facebook site..??? And dont reply back to me via this talking-network-thing-site whatever the hell it is, cuz i have NO intention of reading it unless zubair tells me bout it.

LATERZ XXXX


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