Does it mean he doesnt care?

[SillyKitty]

Well.. i asked my guy.. if i shud go ahead, and join the delta team as a flight attendent..

first he was like.. well that wud mean i wont be able to see u much hunnie..no..


then i was like.. but the pay is greattt.. ( and i told him about the salary etc)
then he was like.. ok if u think it will be worth it.. and its best for the future.. then go ..


i was like.. ok..but i have to go next month

he was like.. DONT forget to call me every dayyy..


i was like i wont

so when i talked to my parents they said.. i cant..



and i thought to myself .. ok that must mean he dosnt care as much..
and had a fight..

now he says not to go :rolleyes:

what do i do?

[sexxichic2envy]

No, it means he told you not to go... so you went on to explain why you want to take the offer... and so he said go ahead with it (supporting your decision)

Women :nuts:

No wonder men cant stand us.

[ssjasper2003]

Mile high club.

[SillyKitty]

No, it means he told you not to go... so you went on to explain why you want to take the offer... and so he said go ahead with it (supporting your decision)

Women :nuts:

No wonder men cant stand us.

but then when i asked my friends they were like.. if he really loved u .. he wont let u go..

[=Surge=]

"Maybe I can still get her to stay so I can keep my ass-flow steady."



"Guess not. Sure I'll find another broad."


No guy who really loves you would let his girl bounce so easily.

[SillyKitty]

Mile high club.
ah well fukin ya i will join..

cuz this man doesnt seem to care

[mp3]

Oh the drama. Get him a free flight. Why do you want to do that job, there is a perception that goes with flight attendents.

[sexxichic2envy]

but then when i asked my friends they were like.. if he really loved u .. he wont let u go..
Advice from an older woman part 1: NEVER listen to your friends.

"All your friends say you should leave me alone
Tell them hoes to get a man of they own..."

[hardhearted]

No, it means he told you not to go... so you went on to explain why you want to take the offer... and so he said go ahead with it (supporting your decision)

Women :nuts:

No wonder men cant stand us.
:lol:

I agree. Don't read too much into it :)

[ilyas@!!oops!!]

delta team as a flight attendent

u going undercover? :shock:

[SillyKitty]

"Maybe I can still get her to stay so I can keep my ass-flow steady."



"Guess not. Sure I'll find another broad."


No guy who really loves you would let his girl bounce so easily.
THATS what i m talkin about..

innit?

when i say it.. he says.. no dont go.. :neutral:

he was like..if u go i will be sad..
if u dont go i will be hapy..

then i go on and on as to how he is the one who is actually pushing me to go.. cuz he didnt really try to stop me..
he gets mad.. and it gets really frustrating..

what do i say ?

i am really hurting right now..

[hardhearted]

"Maybe I can still get her to stay so I can keep my ass-flow steady."



"Guess not. Sure I'll find another broad."


No guy who really loves you would let his girl bounce so easily.
Tru dat, tru dat.

[Walktheline]

it's all gravy. you got ron weazly

[pakilicious911]

Ok...it only makes sense if you look at it this way...

He cares about you right...and he wants to be there to support your decisions. Obviously he wouldn't want you to go but if he realizes this is something you REALLY want to do..why would he stop you? Because then in the end..you would only go back to him and be like "i missed out on an oppurtunity because of you"

[hardhearted]

Advice from an older woman part 1: NEVER listen to your friends.

"All your friends say you should leave me alone
Tell them hoes to get a man of they own..."
What song is that?

[SillyKitty]

Oh the drama. Get him a free flight. Why do you want to do that job, there is a perception that goes with flight attendents.
What perception?


i wanna get that.. cuz i love travelling.. and the stayin in the niceee hotels.. and the pay.

[hardhearted]

Congratulations on the job offer btw :)
Are you not going to take it?

[SillyKitty]

Advice from an older woman part 1: NEVER listen to your friends.

"All your friends say you should leave me alone
Tell them hoes to get a man of they own..."

well and so did my mom.. :(

[sexxichic2envy]

:lol:

I agree. Don't read too much into it :)
:lol: Werd. Women analyze the shit out of a situation... for no reason. :no:

[mp3]

What perception?


i wanna get that.. cuz i love travelling.. and the stayin in the niceee hotels.. and the pay.


Anyone on here can tell you. they have a rep for being easy on flight and from border to border. Pilots have them on tap.

[*ApNi_KuRi*]

Gawd, if the guy actually loves you he'll want you to do what's the best for you. Not make you stay so he can see you more.

Example: I'm going to school about 3 hours away from here, so I'll be living there and I wont be home as often. Only every few weeks. YET, we have an understanding, and he WANTS me to go. That doesn't mean he doesn't love me or "care". It just means he wants what's best for me, and understands my reasons on why i'm going there.

[SillyKitty]

:lol:

I agree. Don't read too much into it :)
oh man.. how can i not?

i just wanna find out if this relationship is worth it.. if there is no care.. there is nothing..

[SillyKitty]

delta team as a flight attendent

u going undercover? :shock:
Undercover? how huh?

no delta as in the airlines..

[sexxichic2envy]

Ok...it only makes sense if you look at it this way...

He cares about you right...and he wants to be there to support your decisions. Obviously he wouldn't want you to go but if he realizes this is something you REALLY want to do..why would he stop you? Because then in the end..you would only go back to him and be like "i missed out on an oppurtunity because of you"
EXACTLY!!!!!

Qft.

[sexxichic2envy]

What song is that?
The one that starts like...

"Ain't to man like the one I got... no one can fuck me betta'...
He creeps around but he gives me a lot...
Keeps me in diamonds and leather......"

:kekeke:

[SillyKitty]

Ok...it only makes sense if you look at it this way...

He cares about you right...and he wants to be there to support your decisions. Obviously he wouldn't want you to go but if he realizes this is something you REALLY want to do..why would he stop you? Because then in the end..you would only go back to him and be like "i missed out on an oppurtunity because of you"
Oh.. yea.. i know what u mean.. but what if its not the case?
i just wanna find out that if i am just wasting my time, emotions and love for something worthless?

[sexxichic2envy]

well and so did my mom.. :(
Girl, don't be typical. Try to understand things from his pov.

[pakilicious911]

EXACTLY!!!!!

Qft.Oh btw..i've been meaning to tell you..I dont know if you still remember but that one call conf you were in telling how caffenine makes hair fall out...i stopped drinking as much coffee/expresso drinks and it helped A LOT

so thanks :hug:!

[SillyKitty]

it's all gravy. you got ron weazly
he aint my type

[=Surge=]

THATS what i m talkin about..

innit?

when i say it.. he says.. no dont go.. :neutral:

he was like..if u go i will be sad..
if u dont go i will be hapy..

then i go on and on as to how he is the one who is actually pushing me to go.. cuz he didnt really try to stop me..
he gets mad.. and it gets really frustrating..

what do i say ?

i am really hurting right now..




Lol, don't bullshit me, you already know what you're going to do.

Ekta, you never answered my thread you ass.

[w1ld]

so you started the fight? :squint:

[SillyKitty]

Congratulations on the job offer btw :)
Are you not going to take it?
i wasnt gonna take it.. but after having the fight with him.. i m feeling like i have to take it.. so that i dont rely on him and put him first all the time.. i i wanna be selfish now..


and the main reason is .. he will think...oh all that fight for nothing?

[pakilicious911]

Oh.. yea.. i know what u mean.. but what if its not the case?
i just wanna find out that if i am just wasting my time, emotions and love for something worthless?How can you jump to a conclusion just like that? This makes me doubt if YOU actually have feelings for the guy.

Take this senario...your guy gets an AWESOME job oppurtunity in a different state (excellent salary, etc) and you know as well as he does he should really take this chance for making his future as well as yours better.

I know you would want to stop him..but in the end would you really tell him that or let him go take the chance with it because you knw its better for his future?
Don't jump to conclusions just like that especially if you like the guy and he likes you. You're only going to complicate things and the more you fight with him over little things like this ... the more annoyed he'll get and not want to be with you.

[hardhearted]

oh man.. how can i not?

i just wanna find out if this relationship is worth it.. if there is no care.. there is nothing..
Don't be so paranoid.

[SillyKitty]

Anyone on here can tell you. they have a rep for being easy on flight and from border to border. Pilots have them on tap.
OOOH KAYYY.. that means he doesnt give two shits about me.. if he is letting me go.. :(

[khanvict]

Well.. i asked my guy.. if i shud go ahead, and join the delta team as a flight attendent..

first he was like.. well that wud mean i wont be able to see u much hunnie..no..

then i was like.. but the pay is greattt.. ( and i told him about the salary etc)
then he was like.. ok if u think it will be worth it.. and its best for the future.. then go ..

i was like.. ok..but i have to go next month

he was like.. DONT forget to call me every dayyy..

i was like i wont

so when i talked to my parents they said.. i cant..

and i thought to myself .. ok that must mean he dosnt care as much..
and had a fight..

now he says not to go :rolleyes:

what do i do?

he said no to delta but he didn't say anything about southweeeeeeeest :dance3:

...honestly, i don't think he cares all too much about your career choices. if he loves you then he only cares about supporting what it is you want. if he didn't respond with initial hesitation i think you'd still be saying "he doesn't care about me" but since he did that shows he does care (which is what a good guy is supposed to do). do what makes you happy - he will follow.

[hardhearted]

The one that starts like...

"Ain't to man like the one I got... no one can fuck me betta'...
He creeps around but he gives me a lot...
Keeps me in diamonds and leather......"

:kekeke:
:neutral:

[SillyKitty]

Gawd, if the guy actually loves you he'll want you to do what's the best for you. Not make you stay so he can see you more.

Example: I'm going to school about 3 hours away from here, so I'll be living there and I wont be home as often. Only every few weeks. YET, we have an understanding, and he WANTS me to go. That doesn't mean he doesn't love me or "care". It just means he wants what's best for me, and understands my reasons on why i'm going there.
Hmm.. i hope thats the case for my guy too .....


see people have different ways of seeing thigns..


like.. some will say.. if he loves u he wont let u go..
or.. if he loves u.. he will let u go and do what u want..


its really confusing

[pakilicious911]

OOOH KAYYY.. that means he doesnt give two shits about me.. if he is letting me go.. :(honestly it sounds like you want him to not let you go...then why would you even talk to him about it? Just don't go then because he didnt want you to go in the first place.

[mp3]

OOOH KAYYY.. that means he doesnt give two shits about me.. if he is letting me go.. :(


I can't say if he does or doesn't, thats just the perception of flight attendents

[cutenoreen]

You shoudn't choose your career based on what others want from you. If you think that being a flight attendant is your best option/career move (and that's what will make you happy AND financially stable) then go for it. It doesn't matter what your parents want and MORE IMPORTANTLY what some random guy wants.

[hardhearted]

Lol, don't bullshit me, you already know what you're going to do.

Ekta, you never answered my thread you ass.
AIM :arrow:

[sexxichic2envy]

Oh btw..i've been meaning to tell you..I dont know if you still remember but that one call conf you were in telling how caffenine makes hair fall out...i stopped drinking as much coffee/expresso drinks and it helped A LOT

so thanks :hug:!
awwwwww!! Glad I could help, babe. I went from drinking soda everyday and coffee 2xs a day to one cup of coffee a week & the occasional glass of soda.

:kiss: Mucho happy for you.

[SillyKitty]

Girl, don't be typical. Try to understand things from his pov.
how?

but i am scared.. because, i went through a lot wth my family.. to get him aproved..

every one was against us..

so i am really paranoid ..

[sexxichic2envy]

:neutral:
:razz:

[hardhearted]

i wasnt gonna take it.. but after having the fight with him.. i m feeling like i have to take it.. so that i dont rely on him and put him first all the time.. i i wanna be selfish now..


and the main reason is .. he will think...oh all that fight for nothing?
Don't take it for him, take it for yourself :)
What bout your parents? Will they be ok with it?

[pakilicious911]

awwwwww!! Glad I could help, babe. I went from drinking soda everyday and coffee 2xs a day to one cup of coffee a week & the occasional glass of soda.

:kiss: Mucho happy for you.Well I work at a place thats big on coffee and stuff so I'm surrounded by it. I hate soda to begin with but expresso drinks kept me going in early morning shifts. I cut down drastically and I really noticed the difference..
lol little tips like that can do wonders y0 :hug:

[*~MuFFiN~*]

lol

:no:

how long have you two been together

[SillyKitty]

Lol, don't bullshit me, you already know what you're going to do.

Ekta, you never answered my thread you ass.
No i really dont..

i just want to know if there is any way, of knowing if he cares..
we had a BIG fight .. the biggest ever.. of me accusing of not caring and liein.. etc etc

and it didnt solve anything..

i just want to know if he cares..
cuz to me words mean crap.

[SillyKitty]

so you started the fight? :squint:
yea.. and i think i am right

[SillyKitty]

Don't be so paranoid.
trust me when i say.. i have some pretty darn good reasons to be paranoid..

[sexxichic2envy]

how?

but i am scared.. because, i went through a lot wth my family.. to get him aproved..

every one was against us..

so i am really paranoid ..
...cuz typically chicks read way more into a situation than they ought to.

It's normal to be a lil apprehensive, but don't sabotage your relationship by conjuring up ideas that may not even exist. i.e he doesn't love you

Think, if he stood by you thus far, he must love you or he woulda flown the coop awhile ago.

[yeahwhat]

haha wtf how did you get he doesn't care from that?

you're looking way to deep into this .... guys don't think that much about this shit.... relax woman

[SillyKitty]

he said no to delta but he didn't say anything about southweeeeeeeest :dance3:

...honestly, i don't think he cares all too much about your career choices. if he loves you then he only cares about supporting what it is you want. if he didn't respond with initial hesitation i think you'd still be saying "he doesn't care about me" but since he did that shows he does care (which is what a good guy is supposed to do). do what makes you happy - he will follow.
aw. i know what u sayin..

:)

but then again.. i guess my thinkin is different.

[hardhearted]

Oh btw..i've been meaning to tell you..I dont know if you still remember but that one call conf you were in telling how caffenine makes hair fall out...i stopped drinking as much coffee/expresso drinks and it helped A LOT

so thanks :hug:!
OMG WHAT?!!

[x baby bably x]

but you said your parents aren`t allowing you to go anyway...so why did you get into a fight in the first place? :|

[nygirl]

saira :no: u think too much

[sexxichic2envy]

Well I work at a place thats big on coffee and stuff so I'm surrounded by it. I hate soda to begin with but expresso drinks kept me going in early morning shifts. I cut down drastically and I really noticed the difference..
lol little tips like that can do wonders y0 :hug:
:wink: Trust me...I know. Drinking coffee for me was like showering....routine.

Also try Pantene Pro-V's new conditioner. The one that decreases breakage by 90%. I rarely see any hair in the shower drain now.

[hardhearted]

:razz:
Is it bad that I don't know that song?

[*~MuFFiN~*]

OMG WHAT?!!
shit...
thanx for quoting cuz i missed that but



WHAT?!

[selina_786]

From every thread you make on relationships, sex, men, boyfriends, boy troubles... it becomes more and more clear that you are desperate for attention and love but youre still rather naive.. i wouldnt be surprised if you were overly possesive and obsessive over your boyfriends.


Not trying to cut you here, just what I've observed. I think for once you should take a step back and stop forcing for your 'boys' attention or love, and start accepting/respecting others for who they are. You can never mold/change ppl to your liking. That shit never lasts much long.

[pakilicious911]

OMG WHAT?!!werd! it seriously worked for me :yes:

[SillyKitty]

honestly it sounds like you want him to not let you go...then why would you even talk to him about it? Just don't go then because he didnt want you to go in the first place.
well, i didnt know that if he aplied for it.. we wont be in the same flight always..
if that was the case.. i wud be game..

i mean i wud leave every thing and go..and have the time of my life.. and i asked him if he was interested.. he said he was

but after i spoke to my parents they told me how it was.. that we wont be in the same flight.. and that if he really loved me he woud NEVER let me go
and that made me think..

[sexxichic2envy]

haha wtf how did you get he doesn't care from that?

you're looking way to deep into this .... guys don't think that much about this shit.... relax woman
us olda' wimmenz be'z so smartz.

[EverBlazinGyal]

but then when i asked my friends they were like.. if he really loved u .. he wont let u go..

what the fuck

SERIOUSLY

[nayeemx33]

He hates you.

[SillyKitty]

I can't say if he does or doesn't, thats just the perception of flight attendents
oh.. well.. i am not like that..

[pakilicious911]

:wink: Trust me...I know. Drinking coffee for me was like showering....routine.

Also try Pantene Pro-V's new conditioner. The one that decreases breakage by 90%. I rarely see any hair in the shower drain now.:hyper: are you for reallzz??
problem with that is..pantene in general is terrible for my hair. My hair is way to silky and after a shower it gets real frizzy. I've had to switch so many times to finally find herbal essence to suit my hair.

[sexxichic2envy]

Is it bad that I don't know that song?
No, it's bad that I do. :sadblink:

[SillyKitty]

You shoudn't choose your career based on what others want from you. If you think that being a flight attendant is your best option/career move (and that's what will make you happy AND financially stable) then go for it. It doesn't matter what your parents want and MORE IMPORTANTLY what some random guy wants.

hmm yea.. but then again my relationships are very important to me as well..

[sexxichic2envy]

what the fuck

SERIOUSLY
LOLLLLLLLLL

[hardhearted]

shit...
thanx for quoting cuz i missed that but



WHAT?!
:p

I drink way too much coffee :no:

[sexxichic2envy]

:hyper: are you for reallzz??
problem with that is..pantene in general is terrible for my hair. My hair is way to silky and after a shower it gets real frizzy. I've had to switch so many times to finally find herbal essence to suit my hair.
Pantene isn't good for my hair either.... I don't use the shampoo. But the conditioner alone is good. :yes:

[pakilicious911]

well, i didnt know that if he aplied for it.. we wont be in the same flight always..
if that was the case.. i wud be game..

i mean i wud leave every thing and go..and have the time of my life.. and i asked him if he was interested.. he said he was

but after i spoke to my parents they told me how it was.. that we wont be in the same flight.. and that if he really loved me he woud NEVER let me go
and that made me think..Go back and read post #33...this time...really think deeply into what I said...
If you still don't understand..especially when everyone here is saying the same thing...then I don't know what else to tell you.

[SillyKitty]

Don't take it for him, take it for yourself :)
What bout your parents? Will they be ok with it?
lol nope.. they are totally against it.. they told me to get out of the house :lol:


well, if i was single i wudve taken it

[SillyKitty]

lol

:no:

how long have you two been together
5 months..

[sexxichic2envy]

:p

I drink way too much coffee :no:
:think: Are you losing hair, Ekta?

[sexxichic2envy]

5 months..
:rofl:

That's my cue. Goodnight, folks.

[*~MuFFiN~*]

:p

I drink way too much coffee :no:
me toooo

o crap , this sux

[nygirl]

haha i love the way this thread turned into a hair thread

[pakilicious911]

haha i love the way this thread turned into a hair threadlol i just wanted to thank for the advice :neutral:

[selina_786]

hmm yea.. but then again my relationships are very important to me as well..
Your short term relationships at this young tender age shouldn't be equally important than your career, woman. Career is your future.

These boyfriends are gonna remain old memories unless your thinking of marrying him, which i strongly doubt.

[yeahwhat]

us olda' wimmenz be'z so smartz.

experience i guess. From what I've seen guys are pretty straight forward, they don't try and hide messages and meanings, if they feel a certain way they will straight up say it. Women tend to always look for hidden meanings

[SillyKitty]

...cuz typically chicks read way more into a situation than they ought to.

It's normal to be a lil apprehensive, but don't sabotage your relationship by conjuring up ideas that may not even exist. i.e he doesn't love you

Think, if he stood by you thus far, he must love you or he woulda flown the coop awhile ago.
hmmm .. well, i dont know.. i feel like he is with me cuz i been with him in his worst of times.. so he feels like he ows me :dunno:

[hardhearted]

lol nope.. they are totally against it.. they told me to get out of the house :lol:


well, if i was single i wudve taken it
Lameee

[nygirl]

and Saira why do you need your friends to validate whether he cares for u or not ...

[*~MuFFiN~*]

:rofl:

That's my cue. Goodnight, folks.
hahahhaha same here!





saira, relax...

dont listen to ur friends....
ur parents didnt want u to be with him so obviously theyre still gonna speak negatively about him
uve been with him for 5 months, relax ur nerves and assumptions.

it isnt that serious

[nygirl]

lol i just wanted to thank for the advice :neutral:
lol its better off as a hair thread :lol:

[hardhearted]

:think: Are you losing hair, Ekta?
Actually not as much as I used to. I think Japanese straightening does that to you.
But I'm glad I know now.

Whats the name of the song, fool?

[SillyKitty]

:rofl:

That's my cue. Goodnight, folks.
but u dotn know the half of it..

[**bambina**]

Forget the BF, I want to know why your parents are against it?

[SillyKitty]

haha i love the way this thread turned into a hair thread
:o wowwwww.. look who is here

[GTZFINEZTZ]

You often lose something you want when you put way too much thought into it.

[Nilü]

Ok...it only makes sense if you look at it this way...

He cares about you right...and he wants to be there to support your decisions. Obviously he wouldn't want you to go but if he realizes this is something you REALLY want to do..why would he stop you? Because then in the end..you would only go back to him and be like "i missed out on an oppurtunity because of you"
Excecelly ;)

[pakilicious911]

lol its better off as a hair thread :lol:lol yeah..it seems to actually be getting somewhere

[hardhearted]

Forget the BF, I want to know why your parents are against it?
Thank you! :cheers:

Is there no way you can convince your parents? Just think of the experiences you'll have and the knowledge you'll gain. Its a great opportunity, no?

[**bambina**]

Thank you! :cheers:

Is there no way you can convince your parents? Just think of the experiences you'll have and the knowledge you'll gain. Its a great opportunity, no?

I am a flight attendent, and my parents have nothing against it. They are very supportive.

[SillyKitty]

Your short term relationships at this young tender age shouldn't be equally important than your career, woman. Career is your future.

These boyfriends are gonna remain old memories unless your thinking of marrying him, which i strongly doubt.
Umm but i dont know.. he turned muslim for me..
so every time i say.. what have u done to prove me that u love me?

he always rubbs it in my face.. " i have turned muslim for uu ! which italian cathelic guy wud do that?"



so.. its kinda very serious..

and..so.. if he is being decietful.. it wud be a terrible shame..

[pakilicious911]

Actually not as much as I used to. I think Japanese straightening does that to you.
But I'm glad I know now.

Whats the name of the song, fool?I was thinking about getting it done since I usually straighten my hair almost everyday anyway. But I'm not sure if I should... :sarb:

[mad_paki]

It means you have a communication problem

[nayeemx33]

Umm but i dont know.. he turned muslim for me..
so every time i say.. what have u done to prove me that u love me?

he always rubbs it in my face.. " i have turned muslim for uu ! which italian cathelic guy wud do that?"



so.. its kinda very serious..

and..so.. if he is being decietful.. it wud be a terrible shame..

That's pathetic.

[SillyKitty]

and Saira why do you need your friends to validate whether he cares for u or not ...
well.. its my parents too.. :ashamed:

[hardhearted]

I am a flight attendent, and my parents have nothing against it. They are very supportive.
Well I kinda understand cause my parents are really weird about letting me go sometimes.

[**bambina**]

Umm but i dont know.. he turned muslim for me..
so every time i say.. what have u done to prove me that u love me?

he always rubbs it in my face.. " i have turned muslim for uu ! which italian cathelic guy wud do that?"



so.. its kinda very serious..

and..so.. if he is being decietful.. it wud be a terrible shame..

He should be a muslim for himself not for you.

And why does love need to be proved between you to in the first place? It should be known.

[nayeemx33]

I am a flight attendent, and my parents have nothing against it. They are very supportive.

Become a pilot, so you can take me around the world <3

[SillyKitty]

Lameee
hmmm..well i dont know.. i wud have to think abou it more

[**bambina**]

That's pathetic.

Nayeema, I agree with you on this. <3

[hardhearted]

Umm but i dont know.. he turned muslim for me..
so every time i say.. what have u done to prove me that u love me?

he always rubbs it in my face.. " i have turned muslim for uu ! which italian cathelic guy wud do that?"



so.. its kinda very serious..

and..so.. if he is being decietful.. it wud be a terrible shame..
He turned Muslim for you in five months?

[nayeemx33]

Nayeema, I agree with you on this. <3

When don't you agree with me? <3

[SillyKitty]

hahahhaha same here!





saira, relax...

dont listen to ur friends....
ur parents didnt want u to be with him so obviously theyre still gonna speak negatively about him
uve been with him for 5 months, relax ur nerves and assumptions.

it isnt that serious


well it is kinda serious..

and i kno what u mean.. but my mom seems to really like him.. and cooks for him etc.. and wants me to bring him home even more.. so i dont know why wud they try to break us up..

[yeahwhat]

Umm but i dont know.. he turned muslim for me..
so every time i say.. what have u done to prove me that u love me?

he always rubbs it in my face.. " i have turned muslim for uu ! which italian cathelic guy wud do that?"



so.. its kinda very serious..

and..so.. if he is being decietful.. it wud be a terrible shame..


he did this after 5 months of dating you .... yet you still quesiton if he really likes you .... wow just wow ... I've been dating my bf for a year and he won't even give up smoking pot for me

[*~MuFFiN~*]

Umm but i dont know.. he turned muslim for me..
so every time i say.. what have u done to prove me that u love me?

he always rubbs it in my face.. " i have turned muslim for uu ! which italian cathelic guy wud do that?"



so.. its kinda very serious..

and..so.. if he is being decietful.. it wud be a terrible shame..
first
why would u question him constantly about if he loves u or not

2nd
how old are you/and him?

[SillyKitty]

Forget the BF, I want to know why your parents are against it?
because they are against me goin off to kentuky for the training..
and they dont like me goin away..

[pakilicious911]

Ok my last post in this thread...


take a breather and really think about what you've said in this thread. Not once did you actually agree with someone in here that MAYBE...JUST MAYBE he really wants you to go because its the right thing for YOU.

In relationships...its all about compromising. You have to give a little to get a little. He wants you to go because he knows its better for you...NOT because he doesnt love you. If he didn't love you...he wouldn't be with you...simple as that.
When two people care about each other..they have to sacrifice things for each other. He is willing to sacrifice his time with you so you can go out there and do what you want to do..and eventually trust me..you'll have to sacrifice in such ways too.
You're young and I'm sure he is too...enjoy the relationship..have fun and don't think too much into these things. You should be more concerned about where your relationship is going by you guys arguing like this over little things than why he doesnt love you.


theres my 2cent...and trust me..I speak from great..GREAT experience. Give the guy a break and a chance...you might lose him because of your own insecurities.

[SillyKitty]

You often lose something you want when you put way too much thought into it.
Hmmm.. i know i am driving him crazy.. i cussed him out today.. :no:

[**bambina**]

Well I kinda understand cause my parents are really weird about letting me go sometimes.

Well, I am only away on average about 5 nights away from home. But I can also choose not to be away from home at all as I fly shorthaul. My parents are actually encouraging me to go longhaul and explore the world.

[SillyKitty]

It means you have a communication problem
yes we do.. how do i solve it?

[foreverconfused]

i pity your boyfriend

[cutenoreen]

hmm yea.. but then again my relationships are very important to me as well..With your parents... of course. You should have a good relationship with them.

But you are gonna base YOUR life on some guy? A guy you aren't married to, aren't engaged to, someone who's obviously very immature and has a lot of growing up to do? Brilliant :thumleft:

[**bambina**]

Become a pilot, so you can take me around the world <3

I rather be your attendent and service you. <3

[SillyKitty]

He turned Muslim for you in five months?
umm yea.. but i dont know if it really means something.. cuz all he had to do is.. recite some Dua's

[**bambina**]

When don't you agree with me? <3

They have been occasions, but hey, we dont always have to agree. I like that you have a mind of your own. <3

[SillyKitty]

Ok my last post in this thread...


take a breather and really think about what you've said in this thread. Not once did you actually agree with someone in here that MAYBE...JUST MAYBE he really wants you to go because its the right thing for YOU.

In relationships...its all about compromising. You have to give a little to get a little. He wants you to go because he knows its better for you...NOT because he doesnt love you. If he didn't love you...he wouldn't be with you...simple as that.
When two people care about each other..they have to sacrifice things for each other. He is willing to sacrifice his time with you so you can go out there and do what you want to do..and eventually trust me..you'll have to sacrifice in such ways too.
You're young and I'm sure he is too...enjoy the relationship..have fun and don't think too much into these things. You should be more concerned about where your relationship is going by you guys arguing like this over little things than why he doesnt love you.


theres my 2cent...and trust me..I speak from great..GREAT experience. Give the guy a break and a chance...you might lose him because of your own insecurities.
:hug:

thanks sweety.. :)

but u know.. i am really scared.. that what if my parents are right.. what if he is just a typical american who gets bored with girls, and leaves them if the goin gets tough.

so the slightest things gets me worried.

[*~MuFFiN~*]

umm yea.. but i dont know if it really means something.. cuz all he had to do is.. recite some Dua's
?!...


wait

?!!?!?


thats not "all" he had to do

being muslim isnt just reciting duas...

its praying, its believing, its faith, its following the 5 pillars of Islam...

if all he did was recite some duas...then sorry suga, hes not muslim

no im not turning this into a muslim/non muslim thread...

but dont go chanting on about what hes done for you if it hasnt really been done

(i mean you could go raving on about it...but it holds no water)

[SillyKitty]

he did this after 5 months of dating you .... yet you still quesiton if he really likes you .... wow just wow ... I've been dating my bf for a year and he won't even give up smoking pot for me
damn.. tell him that if he wants to have kids in his life.. he shud stop.. that shud stop him..

OR, act really nausious whenever he smokes.

[SillyKitty]

?!...


wait

?!!?!?


thats not "all" he had to do

being muslim isnt just reciting duas...

its praying, its believing, its faith, its following the 5 pillars of Islam...

if all he did was recite some duas...then sorry suga, hes not muslim

no im not turning this into a muslim/non muslim thread...

but dont go chanting on about what hes done for you if it hasnt really been done

(i mean you could go raving on about it...but it holds no water)
exactly ...i am not.. thats why it really doesnt mean that much to me..

its HIM who is makin this a big deal.. and telling ME what he has done for me..

[w1ld]

yea.. and i think i am right
well saira, you were the one who came with this idea isn't it? And when the guy said OK and your parents said no, next thing came to your mind is "oh my fucking god, he is not caring and he only said yes so that he can get laid whenever he want" and bunch of other stupid stuff :blahblah:, and after thinking that all you did is try to bust his ass by imposing fight.

You women (most of you) are not happy in any f*kin way, are always complaining, and then tell that your guy cheat on you. You never think that sometime you really deserve to be treated like that. Just look what you wrote even when you are wrong and misunderstood when he let you do what you wanted: "and I think I am right". :neutral:

[x baby bably x]

:hyper: are you for reallzz??
problem with that is..pantene in general is terrible for my hair. My hair is way to silky and after a shower it gets real frizzy. I've had to switch so many times to finally find herbal essence to suit my hair.sorry for being nosy...

pantene pro-v shampoo isn`t good FOR ANYONE`S hair. it strips the natural oil, which makes our hair shiny. that is all. =)

[cutenoreen]

being muslim isnt just reciting duas... Completely agree. There are millions of self-proclaimed 'Muslims' out there and VERY few people who truly understand and follow Islam. Saying a few Arabic words and calling God 'Allah' means jack.

[ermsomething]

.....head fuck :arrow:

[SillyKitty]

well saira, you were the one who came with this idea isn't it? And when the guy said OK and your parents said no, next thing came to your mind is "oh my fucking god, he is not caring and he only said yes so that he can get laid whenever he want" and bunch of other stupid stuff :blahblah:, and after thinking that all you did is try to bust his ass by imposing fight.

You women (most of you) are not happy in any f*kin way, are always complaining, and then tell that your guy cheat on you. You never think that sometime you really deserve to be treated like that. Just look what you wrote even when you are wrong and misunderstood when he agreed to let you do what you wanted: "and I think I am right". :neutral:
ok..

damn ur harsh :mad:

[*~MuFFiN~*]

exactly ...i am not.. thats why it really doesnt mean that much to me..

its HIM who is makin this a big deal.. and telling ME what he has done for me..
but didnt u just post and say ..its kinda of a big deal because he turned muslim for me

etc etc

as if ur making that ur basis of all seriousness

and why does he have to prove his love to you?

[CheezCake]

@wild ur meanly right

but i dont think any woman "deserves" to be treated a certain way

[yeahwhat]

damn.. tell him that if he wants to have kids in his life.. he shud stop.. that shud stop him..

OR, act really nausious whenever he smokes.


lol, he wont have problems having kids ... he doesn't smoke it everyday of his life .... i realized its only a big deal if i make it one. so my point is stop making something out of nothing

[khanvict]

after page 6 i'm turning this into a thread about bread.

you've been warned.

[SillyKitty]

but didnt u just post and say ..its kinda of a big deal because he turned muslim for me

etc etc

as if ur making that ur basis of all seriousness

and why does he have to prove his love to you?
well this is how it happened..

when my aunt found out about him and me.. she spoke to him.. and asked whats his intention.. etc.. he said that he wants to be with me etc..

then she was like.. ok that wont happen unless u are a muslim ..

so he goes to the mosque with me.. and after that.. my mom accepts him.. and its kinda official that we are "together"

and this is the first time, that my parents ever accepted any of my boyfriend.

we are actually engaged

[nayeemx33]

You being engaged :rofl:

[CheezCake]

well this is how it happened..

when my aunt found out about him and me.. she spoke to him.. and asked whats his intention.. etc.. he said that he wants to be with me etc..

then she was like.. ok that wont happen unless u are a muslim ..

so he goes to the mosque with me.. and after that.. my mom accepts him.. and its kinda official that we are "together"

and this is the first time, that my parents ever accepted any of my boyfriend.

we are actually engagedthis woulda made it easier to get advice from the getgo

he cares woman!!

[w1ld]

ok..

damn ur harsh :mad:
yes I am :rambo:

but you are still my baby :hug:

[cutenoreen]

we are actually engagedThey why do you keep referring to him as your 'boyfriend'? :\

And why did you mention that in the first place?

[CheezCake]

after page 6 i'm turning this into a thread about bread.

you've been warned.u look like a caveman :neutral:

[cutenoreen]

after page 6 i'm turning this into a thread about bread.

you've been warned.Bread is good.

[*~MuFFiN~*]

well this is how it happened..

when my aunt found out about him and me.. she spoke to him.. and asked whats his intention.. etc.. he said that he wants to be with me etc..

then she was like.. ok that wont happen unless u are a muslim ..

so he goes to the mosque with me.. and after that.. my mom accepts him.. and its kinda official that we are "together"

and this is the first time, that my parents ever accepted any of my boyfriend.

we are actually engaged
engaged after 5 months?


rushing it, no?

[SillyKitty]

lol, he wont have problems having kids ... he doesn't smoke it everyday of his life .... i realized its only a big deal if i make it one. so my point is stop making something out of nothing
but to me it is a BIG deal..

i worry too much about losing him..

like at the beginning of our relationship.. he told me.. " i dont belive in true love.. like if u ever go visit bangladesh, u might meet someone, or i might meet someone.. and our relationship might break"

but now a lot is in the line.. especiall my family..
and i dont want anything to cause them MORE pain.

[ermsomething]

well this is how it happened..

when my aunt found out about him and me.. she spoke to him.. and asked whats his intention.. etc.. he said that he wants to be with me etc..

then she was like.. ok that wont happen unless u are a muslim ..

so he goes to the mosque with me.. and after that.. my mom accepts him.. and its kinda official that we are "together"

and this is the first time, that my parents ever accepted any of my boyfriend.

we are actually engaged
I dont agree with converting for anyone...

my cousin, shes going out with a muslim guy and has been for the last 6yrs or so...he wants her to convert to islam so that his mum can accept her into his family..

if she converts for him i think i'd have to cut off all relations with her

It just shows that you dont believe in anything, even the religion your converting too. your weak.

[SillyKitty]

engaged after 5 months?


rushing it, no?
well maybe..

[SillyKitty]

They why do you keep referring to him as your 'boyfriend'? :\

And why did you mention that in the first place?
i dont think i reffered to him as my boyfriend
i think i was careful enough not to say that..

i said.. my guy..

why did i not mention that in the first place? cuz.. i felt like its not that important to let every one know that unless i am very sure of it that he isnt just deciving me.

[w1ld]

@wild ur meanly right

but i dont think any woman "deserves" to be treated a certain way
:werd:

well it is true sometimes and same is the case with the guys who are assholes.

What is the mean of getting into relationship when all you (not you, generally) want is drama

[SillyKitty]

yes I am :rambo:

but you are still my baby :hug:
:( thanks

[*~MuFFiN~*]

but to me it is a BIG deal..

i worry too much about losing him..

like at the beginning of our relationship.. he told me.. " i dont belive in true love.. like if u ever go visit bangladesh, u might meet someone, or i might meet someone.. and our relationship might break"but now a lot is in the line.. especiall my family..
and i dont want anything to cause them MORE pain.


wow....

u needa to re-evaluate ur situation....

ur "engaged" to a guy who supposedly is muslim now ... that being the only reason ur parents accepted him ...yet..hes not really muslim anyway so err...

and ur 'in love' with a guy and scared to lose him when he says shit like this?!

[GTZFINEZTZ]

Hmmm.. i know i am driving him crazy.. i cussed him out today.. :no:

Haha you are crazier than i am.

[nayeemx33]

wow....

u needa to re-evaluate ur situation....

ur "engaged" to a guy who supposedly is muslim now ... that being the only reason ur parents accepted him ...yet..hes not really muslim anyway so err...

and ur 'in love' with a guy and scared to lose him when he says shit like this?!

Save your breath. She doesn't listen to anyone.

[cutenoreen]

You know... you make less and less sense with every post.

You are still very naieve and you def should not be engaged at this stage in your life. The best advise for you right now is to focus on school/what you want to do with your future and then consider getting engaged.

[SillyKitty]

I dont agree with converting for anyone...

my cousin, shes going out with a muslim guy and has been for the last 6yrs or so...he wants her to convert to islam so that his mum can accept her into his family..

if she converts for him i think i'd have to cut off all relations with her

It just shows that you dont believe in anything, even the religion your converting too. your weak.
Oh well before he went.. i told him about Islam, and Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) being the last prophet..

[CheezCake]

how old are u?


lemme rephrase..........how old are u....beta??

[khanvict]

u look like a caveman :neutral:

what kind of compliment is that :ugh:

Bread is good.

http://www.freshglue.com/fresh_glue/images/wonderbread.gif

when i was a kid i used to love wonderbread 'cause inside there'd always be a free baseball card!

[SillyKitty]

wow....

u needa to re-evaluate ur situation....

ur "engaged" to a guy who supposedly is muslim now ... that being the only reason ur parents accepted him ...yet..hes not really muslim anyway so err...

and ur 'in love' with a guy and scared to lose him when he says shit like this?!


yes....

i am goin crazy, because, whatever he said in the first month of our relationship stayed in my mind..

[*~MuFFiN~*]

Save your breath. She doesn't listen to anyone.
:no:

apparently..

which is probably why i agree with cutenoreen in that , saira, u really do make less and less sense with every post




so much so that sometimes, i hope ur purposely being this way just for laughs..

[w1ld]

:( thanks
you are grown up, make your opinions wisely and not emotionally :kiss:

[ermsomething]

Oh well before he went.. i told him about Islam, and Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) being the last prophet..
erm.... so?

Thats not what he thinks/feels..

[*~MuFFiN~*]

yes....

i am goin crazy, because, whatever he said in the first month of our relationship stayed in my mind..
:rofl:



:no:

[cutenoreen]

when i was a kid i used to love wonderbread 'cause inside there'd always be a free baseball card!

Do you still have those cards?

[*~MuFFiN~*]

what kind of compliment is that :ugh:



http://www.freshglue.com/fresh_glue/images/wonderbread.gif

when i was a kid i used to love wonderbread 'cause inside there'd always be a free baseball card!
homepride is better

[CheezCake]

what kind of compliment is that :ugh:kk
ur a good looking caveman
:neutral:

[cutenoreen]

i agree with cutenoreen:love: :eyebrow:

[foreverconfused]

how old are u?


lemme rephrase..........how old are u....beta??

lol

[khanvict]

Do you still have those cards?

no, i don't =/

[*~MuFFiN~*]

:love: :eyebrow:
:anxious:





:cuddle: :naughty:

[cutenoreen]

no, i don't =/
It's been raining here for a week. And it's supposed to rain for another week. I hope we dont flood :anxious:

[khanvict]

homepride is better

you know the first and last piece of bread in the package how it always looks different? when i was a kid i used to refer to those pieces as 'fast bread' cause they were smaller and i'd always get to finish my dinner faster when i ate with those pieces.

[cutenoreen]

:anxious:





:cuddle: :naughty:Noreen > Abdul :yes:

[khanvict]

kk
ur a good looking caveman
:neutral:

thanks, i think :ugh:

there's a wardrobe malfunction going on in your signature.

[Monica152]

but then when i asked my friends they were like.. if he really loved u .. he wont let u go..

but then if he really loved u he would also support you and your decisions
he would want whats best for you
and true love would overcome the distance(yes i know that was corny) :eek:

[khanvict]

It's been raining here for a week. And it's supposed to rain for another week. I hope we dont flood :anxious:

where do you live? do you live on an island? that'd be fun.

[*~MuFFiN~*]

you know the first and last piece of bread in the package how it always looks different? when i was a kid i used to refer to those pieces as 'fast bread' cause they were smaller and i'd always get to finish my dinner faster when i ate with those pieces.
:anxious:

those are the pieces i refused to eat...when i was younger...and now lol


like the outcasts of the loaf...

[cutenoreen]

where do you live? do you live on an island? that'd be fun.That would be scary! I live in Indiana.

What would you name that island?

[*~MuFFiN~*]

Noreen > Abdul :yes:
nooooo dont bring him into our little moment!































*I CANT WAIT TO SEE HIM EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE*

[khanvict]

:anxious:

those are the pieces i refused to eat...when i was younger...and now lol


like the outcasts of the loaf...

those are the best pieces! you're missing out.

[cutenoreen]

*I CANT WAIT TO SEE HIM EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE*

:doh:

Dammit! *throws chaapal at him*

[*~MuFFiN~*]

those are the best pieces! you're missing out.
nooooo


i love bread..
but only the middle pieces hehe

[nayeemx33]

nooooo dont bring him into our little moment!


*I CANT WAIT TO SEE HIM EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE*

Awwwwww
I can't wait to see you either <33333333

[*~MuFFiN~*]

:doh:

Dammit! *throws chaapal at him*
nine days, nine days, nine days,



eee eee eee eeee eeeeeeeeeee :dance3:

[*~MuFFiN~*]

Awwwwww
I can't wait to see you either <33333333
whatchu talkin bout willis!

[SillyKitty]

well i JUST had a talk with my mom.. and my mom is like.. see i told you.. he is american.. he wud let u go.

:mad:

i am goin crazy now

[khanvict]

That would be scary! I live in Indiana.

What would you name that island?

i don't think you can just go around naming islands. you have to consult mapsco first and fill out a lot of forms. even still, i think all the islands that are out there have probably already been discovered.

[SillyKitty]

:rofl:



:no:
??

so am i wrong to let it play in my mind after 5 months?

[cutenoreen]

nine days, nine days, nine days,



eee eee eee eeee eeeeeeeeeee :dance3:Get married already!

[nayeemx33]

whatchu talkin bout willis!

In nine days, I'll see you
Eeeeeeeeek

[cutenoreen]

i don't think you can just go around naming islands. you have to consult mapsco first and fill out a lot of forms. even still, i think all the islands that are out there have probably already been discovered.Be a reble. Name an island :arrow:

[khanvict]

nooooo


i love bread..
but only the middle pieces hehe

slices of pound cake look like bread.

[*~MuFFiN~*]

??

so am i wrong to let it play in my mind after 5 months?
this whole thread is wrong sweetie

look to YOUR future... u dont kno if he is ur future...but u do know that u need to fulfill ur life...

and a guy that says he loves u and then says that he could and might meet someone else...is talkin outta his ass... tis better to hold on to ur heart than to let him have it

u rushed things faster than u shuda, in my opinion.

re-evaluate it all as i said previously.... yeah u might be hurt and ur family might but im sure they'll be happier when the fake muslim is out of the situation

[*~MuFFiN~*]

Get married already!
i want toooo


we talked and figured that may of 08 we'd get engaged, inshallah =D

[khanvict]

Be a reble. Name an island :arrow:

noreen island.

[CheezCake]

u guys are so :gay:

how can u like BREAD!!!!

WHEAT bread is much better :hand:




















NOT!!!
--borat stle

[khanvict]

i want toooo


we talked and figured that may of 08 we'd get engaged, inshallah =D

if you're gonna be getting ready for marriage you should probably start having children now.

[khanvict]

u guys are so :gay:

how can u like BREAD!!!!

WHEAT bread is much better :han


NOT!!!
--borat stle

bread is an essential part of the daily food pyramid. 6-11 servings ye dig?

[CheezCake]

bread is an essential part of the daily food pyramid. 6-11 servings ye dig?i dig cavemen

:naughty:

[*~MuFFiN~*]

In nine days, I'll see you
Eeeeeeeeek
fo serious!?

[khanvict]

i dig cavemen

:naughty:

like them geico cavemen? if so you'd fall under ABC's target audience since they gave them a sitcom starting this fall.

[*~MuFFiN~*]

slices of pound cake look like bread.
but the middle parts are the best for that too cuz the top lining

[*~MuFFiN~*]

if you're gonna be getting ready for marriage you should probably start having children now.
haha why would i work backwards?

[nayeemx33]

fo serious!?

Duh
We're getting married :love:

[khanvict]

but the middle parts are the best for that too cuz the top lining

you don't like the top lining of the pound cake? it's like kardwa but i like it for some reason.

[CheezCake]

like them geico cavemen? if so you'd fall under ABC's target audience since they gave them a sitcom starting this fall.:rolleyes:

men
dont even know how to take a compliment

[*~MuFFiN~*]

Duh
We're getting married :love:
:shock:

when!?

[*~MuFFiN~*]

you don't like the top lining of the pound cake? it's like kardwa but i like it for some reason.
the top lining ..the yellow part is the BEST!

and most of it is in the middle section of the loaf

therefore....middle is better

[CheezCake]

the top lining ..the yellow part is the BEST!

and most of it is in the middle section of the loaf

therefore....middle is betteru guys are still talking abt that

how abt...make a thread on bread :yes:

[JOHNNY K-BAR]

but then when i asked my friends they were like.. if he really loved u .. he wont let u go..
If I was your man and read this thread...I'd go fuck every Delta hostess and send you the mpegs. Even the ones of the ugly droopy titted grandmawmaw steward-asses.

[khanvict]

:rolleyes:

men
dont even know how to take a compliment

i don't take insults to heart nor put much emphasis on compliments. it's a 2-way street.

[khanvict]

the top lining ..the yellow part is the BEST!

and most of it is in the middle section of the loaf

therefore....middle is better

of course the yellow part is the best but there ain't nothin' wrong with the top lining either. do you cut the crust off your breads as well?

[CheezCake]

i don't take insults to heart nor put much emphasis on compliments. it's a 2-way street.ur very :neutral:

i dont like it

[SillyKitty]

this whole thread is wrong sweetie

look to YOUR future... u dont kno if he is ur future...but u do know that u need to fulfill ur life...

and a guy that says he loves u and then says that he could and might meet someone else...is talkin outta his ass... tis better to hold on to ur heart than to let him have it

u rushed things faster than u shuda, in my opinion.

re-evaluate it all as i said previously.... yeah u might be hurt and ur family might but im sure they'll be happier when the fake muslim is out of the situation
well i know..

but it was before we became exclusive..
now he says, that he only wants me, in his life.

still i dont know.. if he had that mentality, he still might have it.

[khanvict]

ur very :neutral:

i dont like it

does that mean we're not frandship anymore?

[CheezCake]

does that mean we're not frandship anymore?nahhhhh
i still love uuuuu
my cavy wavy guchi caveman
:hug:

[Adnan786]

The way your coming off across, the poor guy couldnt do anything right, you would find a fault in everything and thats not his fault!

[khanvict]

nahhhhh
i still love uuuuu
my cavy wavy guchi caveman
:hug:

:dance: :bhapi:

[khanvict]

The way your coming off across, the poor guy couldnt do anything right, you would find a fault in everything and thats not his fault!

we're talking about bread now...

do you like mrs. bairds? does anyone know where mr. bairds is?

[SillyKitty]

The way your coming off across, the poor guy couldnt do anything right, you would find a fault in everything and thats not his fault!
ok so u think he did the right thing?

[*~MuFFiN~*]

of course the yellow part is the best but there ain't nothin' wrong with the top lining either. do you cut the crust off your breads as well?
nooo hehe i eat the crusts...

but i hate cripsy bread..it has to be jusssssssssssssssssssst right


3 scenario concept..

floppy
toasted
crisp


2nd's the best

[Adnan786]

we're talking about bread now...

do you like mrs. bairds? does anyone know where mr. bairds is?

lol. edible bread or something else you refer to as bread? My favoirite type is medium white. Hovis. Who is mr and mrs bairds? More importantly where are they?

[Adnan786]

ok so u think he did the right thing?

Well if he expressed how much he didnt want you to work with delta and for reasons such as he would miss u etc and insist u consider his feelings then you would only label him as clingy, jeolous, control freak and a selfish person. Id rather a girl thought i didnt care then all those things. Ultimately you cant jeopardise someones furture because it would e hard for you to deal with so yes i would express the fact that i would miss someone if they were going away but i wouldnt think of trying to stop them.

[SarcasmicBengali]

No, it means he told you not to go... so you went on to explain why you want to take the offer... and so he said go ahead with it (supporting your decision)

Women :nuts:

No wonder men cant stand us.

you're the only one with an ounce of sence...

[Gimmeck]

you did reason with him when he said no.

[SarcasmicBengali]

Hmm.. i hope thats the case for my guy too .....


see people have different ways of seeing thigns..


like.. some will say.. if he loves u he wont let u go..
or.. if he loves u.. he will let u go and do what u want..


its really confusing

thats why u grow a brain and think for yourself...

[SarcasmicBengali]

haha wtf how did you get he doesn't care from that?

you're looking way to deep into this .... guys don't think that much about this shit.... relax woman

ok... here's another one thats not fuckin typical... :D

[SarcasmicBengali]

:wink: Trust me...I know. Drinking coffee for me was like showering....routine.

Also try Pantene Pro-V's new conditioner. The one that decreases breakage by 90%. I rarely see any hair in the shower drain now.

*bookmarked*

for when hair gets longer :Oops:

[SarcasmicBengali]

engaged after 5 months?


rushing it, no?

as if thats the only problem... :rolleyes:

[*~MuFFiN~*]

as if thats the only problem... :rolleyes:
if u read thru the whole thread , ud see that thats not the only problem that was pointed out


the whole thread itself is dumb

[supremed]

Well.. i asked my guy.. if i shud go ahead, and join the delta team as a flight attendent..

first he was like.. well that wud mean i wont be able to see u much hunnie..no..


then i was like.. but the pay is greattt.. ( and i told him about the salary etc)
then he was like.. ok if u think it will be worth it.. and its best for the future.. then go ..


i was like.. ok..but i have to go next month

he was like.. DONT forget to call me every dayyy..


i was like i wont

so when i talked to my parents they said.. i cant..



and i thought to myself .. ok that must mean he dosnt care as much..
and had a fight..

now he says not to go :rolleyes:

what do i do?
nah..it just means he's dicking someone else

[SarcasmicBengali]

erm.... so?

Thats not what he thinks/feels..

i love that to her the equivalent of being a true Muslim is simply knowing about Mohammed (pbuh) :|

Mash'Allah... :no:

[vikvik12]

Well.. i asked my guy.. if i shud go ahead, and join the delta team as a flight attendent..

first he was like.. well that wud mean i wont be able to see u much hunnie..no..


then i was like.. but the pay is greattt.. ( and i told him about the salary etc)
then he was like.. ok if u think it will be worth it.. and its best for the future.. then go ..


i was like.. ok..but i have to go next month

he was like.. DONT forget to call me every dayyy..


i was like i wont

so when i talked to my parents they said.. i cant..



and i thought to myself .. ok that must mean he dosnt care as much..
and had a fight..

now he says not to go :rolleyes:

what do i do?
sue that asshole. yeah!

[SarcasmicBengali]

if u read thru the whole thread , ud see that thats not the only problem that was pointed out


the whole thread itself is dumb

i know... sarcasm hun :p

there's vey few ppl that get me furiously irritated at the drop of a hat... this chick's one of em... :mad:

[nayeemx33]

SarcasmicBengali and SillyKitty would make a cute couple :love:

[nayeemx33]

fo serious!?

Oh yeahhh
That was our little secret :shhh:

[paki_canadian20]

well i JUST had a talk with my mom.. and my mom is like.. see i told you.. he is american.. he wud let u go.

:mad:

i am goin crazy now

BULLSHIT!!!!!!!!!!!!I AM SURE U R MAKING THIS ALL UP.A GIRL OF UR AGE CANNOT BE THAT NAIVE THAT SHE CANT HANDLE THESE SITUATIONS BY HERSELF AND NEEDS TO MAKE A THREAD ABT IT TO GET SUGGESTIONS.LOOKING AT UR PREVIOUS THREADS IT JUST SEEMS THAT U LOVE CREATING DRAMA AND LOVE ADDING UR CONFUSING CRAP IN EVERY POST TO MAKE IT MORE EXCITING.SO THAT PPL GET WORKED UP AND KEEP GIVING SUGGESTIONS TO U AND U ON THE OTHER HAN CAN SIT BACK AT UR COMPUTER AND LAUGH UR ASS OFF

[SarcasmicBengali]

SarcasmicBengali and SillyKitty would make a cute couple :love:

i was waitin for that...

*shakes fist at you wile screamin NAYEEEEMMM!!!!!! :squint:

/blood cry

[*~MuFFiN~*]

Oh yeahhh
That was our little secret :shhh:
but u just posted it on rd!

[SarcasmicBengali]

my girl got me into eating whole wheat bread... :|

i dunt like... really gotta lather on the NUTELLA to even it out.... :D

[sWeEtnDsOuR]

No, it means he told you not to go... so you went on to explain why you want to take the offer... and so he said go ahead with it (supporting your decision)

Women :nuts:

No wonder men cant stand us.
................


u confuzzle me :(

[chunky]

Well.. i asked my guy.. if i shud go ahead, and join the delta team as a flight attendent..

first he was like.. well that wud mean i wont be able to see u much hunnie..no..


then i was like.. but the pay is greattt.. ( and i told him about the salary etc)
then he was like.. ok if u think it will be worth it.. and its best for the future.. then go ..


i was like.. ok..but i have to go next month

he was like.. DONT forget to call me every dayyy..


i was like i wont

so when i talked to my parents they said.. i cant..



and i thought to myself .. ok that must mean he dosnt care as much..
and had a fight..

now he says not to go :rolleyes:

what do i do?

:rofl:

he doesn't care as much as whom? Your parents?

[FlyDesiGrl]

I think you're being rather petty about the whole situation. Your parents' love for you is completely different to the love your bf supposedly has for you. Your parents are protective and want you to be close to home..plus you're a brownie...of course they're going to have a hard time letting you go.

Your bf on the other hand is looking at your best interest. Why would he want to hold you back from what you want to pursue? If he cares enough about you, he would let you go, and still maintain a relationship with you. That's where you would test both of you to see if you can stand a long distance relationship. If you go away, and things between you and him fall apart..then it just wasn't meant to be, and you both didn't put enough effort into it, or one of you didn't.

I don't see why you caused such an argument with him. If you were expecting a particular answer from him in the first place, then you shouldn't have asked him anyway..because it wasnt what you wanted to hear. Also there is no comparison between what your parents say and what your bf says...they're both on different levels.

[iHAVEN0iDEA]

Well.. i asked my guy.. if i shud go ahead, and join the delta team as a flight attendent..

first he was like.. well that wud mean i wont be able to see u much hunnie..no..


then i was like.. but the pay is greattt.. ( and i told him about the salary etc)
then he was like.. ok if u think it will be worth it.. and its best for the future.. then go ..


i was like.. ok..but i have to go next month

he was like.. DONT forget to call me every dayyy..


i was like i wont

so when i talked to my parents they said.. i cant..



and i thought to myself .. ok that must mean he dosnt care as much..
and had a fight..

now he says not to go :rolleyes:

what do i do?


Y0U SH0ULD D0 WHAT Y0U THiNK iS RiGHT =]..AND Y0U MET R0N..THATS S0000 C00L!! L0L <3

[*~MuFFiN~*]

Y0U SH0ULD D0 WHAT Y0U THiNK iS RiGHT =]..AND Y0U MET R0N..THATS S0000 C00L!! L0L <3
why do you type in CAPS

(welcome)

[gujulicious]

but then when i asked my friends they were like.. if he really loved u .. he wont let u go..
instigators.


okay, i may not be the expert at relationships but seriously...what the hell were you thinking!!!?!?!?


first of all, you asked him and he said NO...and after you talked things out he agreed and since your mind/friends told you that him letting you go even after you ASKING him to agree with you means he doesnt love you, you went ahead and picked a fight with him?


okay so here are two things you can do/think/whatever::

1. if you're that doubtful about him and your relationship then go with your gut feeling [maybe he REALLY doesnt give a crap about you]

BUT if he usually DOES say things that are PERFECT to your understanding, except this time then ...

2. you're going nuts, sista!

[Kavita]

Advice from an older woman part 1: NEVER listen to your friends.

"All your friends say you should leave me alone
Tell them hoes to get a man of they own..."

some other advice, a good man wants what you want for yourself. If you really want this job, then a good boyfriend will support your goals and put his needs aside. He's not giving you up, he's just giving you the chance and support to do what you want with your life.

[iHAVEN0iDEA]

why do you type in CAPS

(welcome)
THANKS =]...0H iDK..iTS THE WAY i TYPE L0L

[Upsidedowndesi]

girls...he says yes "he doesn't care"...he says no...."what do i do?. Us guys get screwed from every side possible.

[RYNstarO23]

No, it means he told you not to go... so you went on to explain why you want to take the offer... and so he said go ahead with it (supporting your decision)

Women :nuts:

No wonder men cant stand us.
so true:rofl:

[sexxichic2envy]

BULLSHIT!!!!!!!!!!!!I AM SURE U R MAKING THIS ALL UP.A GIRL OF UR AGE CANNOT BE THAT NAIVE THAT SHE CANT HANDLE THESE SITUATIONS BY HERSELF AND NEEDS TO MAKE A THREAD ABT IT TO GET SUGGESTIONS.LOOKING AT UR PREVIOUS THREADS IT JUST SEEMS THAT U LOVE CREATING DRAMA AND LOVE ADDING UR CONFUSING CRAP IN EVERY POST TO MAKE IT MORE EXCITING.SO THAT PPL GET WORKED UP AND KEEP GIVING SUGGESTIONS TO U AND U ON THE OTHER HAN CAN SIT BACK AT UR COMPUTER AND LAUGH UR ASS OFF
:ugh: Relaxxxx.

[sexxichic2envy]

................


u confuzzle me :(
:tears: Why??