Jealousy.

[Princess_Ligi]

Do all the bf's/gf's that you choose end up being really jealous? If not, do you ever get worried if they're not even slightly jealous?

In your opinion, is jealousy just a natural emotion for someone you love or an envious act of attempting domination over a person?

Discuss.

[Princess_Ligi]

This topic is aimed at those of you who actually have a life outside of RD. Which makes a head count of about 3.

[maryammmm]

thats the situation with my friend .. she gets soo jealous when her boyfriend is talking to girls and he doesnt even give a shit when she talks to boys .. and whenever she mentions those girls to him .. hes always like i dont care if u talk to boys then why shuld u care? its almost as if she cant be jealous because hes not at all... its hard like that .. i think in relationships it shuld be either they both are jealous or not at all....


and yea, getting jealous is a natural feeling...

[desi_playa]

ask sweetspicy90 she is an expert on the topic of jealousy.

[Princess_Ligi]

thats the situation with my friend .. she gets soo jealous when her boyfriend is talking to girls and he doesnt even give a shit when she talks to boys .. and whenever she mentions those girls to him .. hes always like i dont care if u talk to boys then why shuld u care? its almost as if she cant be jealous because hes not at all... its hard like that .. i think in relationships it shuld be either they both are jealous or not at all....
See in a situation like that, in my own neurotic female reaction, I would feel insecure as to whether he cared for me like that or not. Its almost like its healthy to have a balance... as if a slight jealousy means that their heart is protecting something they hold dear. Not caring at all whether another guy is talking to you in my eyes would probably feel like he didnt care at all about me. Call me crazy, but I suppose Im just being honest.

[ilyas@!!oops!!]

This topic is aimed at those of you who actually have a life outside of RD. Which makes a head count of about 3.
:rofl: :rofl:

[Princess_Ligi]

ask sweetspicy90 she is an expert on the topic of jealousy.
Who's that? The name sounds familiar. Did you make her jealous?

[maryammmm]

See in a situation like that, in my own neurotic female reaction, I would feel insecure as to whether he cared for me like that or not. Its almost like its healthy to have a balance... as if a slight jealousy means that their heart is protecting something they hold dear. Not caring at all whether another guy is talking to you in my eyes would probably feel like he didnt care at all about me. Call me crazy, but I suppose Im just being honest.


im exactly like that ... when i was in my 3 year realationship .. i kinda liked the way he was jealous ... i hated the fights about it .. but just loved the feeling that he cared...


and exactly with my friend, she wants him to be jealous ..

[desi_playa]

Who's that? The name sounds familiar. Did you make her jealous?



no, i m jealous of her naturally fair skin. :(

[naughtyness]

my ex got jealous because one of my really good friends was a guy

and yet, he had like 435030490 girl friends. :no:

[Princess_Ligi]

no, i m jealous of her naturally fair skin. :(
http://desistores.net/catalog/images/80/fair&lovely.jpg

[maryammmm]

http://desistores.net/catalog/images/80/fair&lovely.jpg


i heard that this really works....

[desi_playa]

http://desistores.net/catalog/images/80/fair&lovely.jpg


it doesnt work on me. i m way too dark.

[Princess_Ligi]

im exactly like that ... when i was in my 3 year realationship .. i kinda liked the way he was jealous .. and stuff... i hated the fights about it .. but just loved the feeling that he cared...


and exactly with my friend, she wants him to be jealous ..
My ex was extremely jealous too. Lol I still remember him angrilly myspace messaging Jay (IPunjabi.Blood) for making a comment on me having a fine ass. hahah He threatened to kick his ass. It made me mad at the time that he would get so pissed, but now I look back and think "aww its kinda cute."


I can't stand girls who purposely try to make their boyfriends jealous though, like its some dumb game.

[SweetnSpicy90]

it doesnt work on me. i m way too dark.
:lol: omg you're too much.

[SweetnSpicy90]

Jealousy is everywhere. Especially on RD. Its contagious. Bad habit. :no:

[desi_playa]

:lol: omg you're too much.


you just look down on me cause i m dark. :hand:

[maryammmm]

My ex was extremely jealous too. Lol I still remember him angrilly myspace messaging Jay (IPunjabi.Blood) for making a comment on me having a fine ass. hahah He threatened to kick his ass. It made me mad at the time that he would get so pissed, but now I look back and think "aww its kinda cute."


I can't stand girls who purposely try to make their boyfriends jealous though, like its some dumb game.


hahaha my ex beat also threatened some guy who was staring at me in the mall ... i was really scared at that time, and we got in a hugeeee fight after that but same here .. i laugh it off when i think bout it .. it was really cute



*sigh* i need to find another guy

[SweetnSpicy90]

you just look down on me cause i m dark. :hand:
I don't look down on anyone regardless of their colour. I love every skin type there is. I have cousins who are dark skinned and some who are very light skinned.

[Walktheline]

Jealousy is everywhere. Especially on RD. Its contagious. Bad habit. :no:


Nobody is jealous of you. People are jealous (in a good way) of girls like meg or kurtapyjama or even TheDude :no:

[Princess_Ligi]

it doesnt work on me. i m way too dark.
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[SweetnSpicy90]

Nobody is jealous of you. People are jealous (in a good way) of girls like meg or kurtapyjama or even TheDude :no:
Never asked ya. :no: .. didn't say people were jealous of me. I'm just stating the obvious. Jeez..

[Princess_Ligi]

Never asked ya. :no: .. didn't say people were jealous of me. I'm just stating the obvious. Jeez..
Don't mind her. She loves to rile people up.

[Walktheline]

Don't mind her. She loves to rile people up.


:coold:

[SweetnSpicy90]

Don't mind her. She loves to rile people up.
:).. yea :no:.. you're malu right?

[desi_playa]

I don't look down on anyone regardless of their colour. I love every skin type there is. I have cousins who are dark skinned and some who are very light skinned.

i bet at family gatherings u and ur gora cuzzes dont associate with the darkies and make them do all the dirty work.

[LAKERFAN8]

A little jealousy is fine and natural but if they are too jealous then they have trust issues :shock:

[desi_playa]

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pshh forget that i m enjoying my summer tan.

[punjabisweetie]

thats the situation with my friend .. she gets soo jealous when her boyfriend is talking to girls and he doesnt even give a shit when she talks to boys .. and whenever she mentions those girls to him .. hes always like i dont care if u talk to boys then why shuld u care? its almost as if she cant be jealous because hes not at all... its hard like that .. i think in relationships it shuld be either they both are jealous or not at all....


and yea, getting jealous is a natural feeling...

That's basically the same situation I was in, and like princess_Ligi, I felt like he didn't care about me. We were fighting a lot for a few months, about a lot of other stuff too of course, but this was one of the arguments. He said wasn't jealous because he trusted me so much. We werre arguing so much though, that I did find myself attracted to someone else, and I told my bf. We sorted out most of our problems now, and I don't like that other guy anymore either b/c it was just attraction not love. Anyways, the point is I definitely felt that my bf easily became jealous the last time I saw him.

[Princess_Ligi]

That's basically the same situation I was in, and like princess_Ligi, I felt like he didn't care about me. We were fighting a lot for a few months, about a lot of other stuff too of course, but this was one of the arguments. He said wasn't jealous because he trusted me so much. We werre arguing so much though, that I did find myself attracted to someone else, and I told my bf. We sorted out most of our problems now, and I don't like that other guy anymore either b/c it was just attraction not love. Anyways, the point is I definitely felt that my bf easily became jealous the last time I saw him.
Lol well fortunately for my neuroticneseseseses, almost all my boyfriends to date have been extremely jealous and halfway possessive. :no:

[SweetnSpicy90]

i bet at family gatherings u and ur gora cuzzes dont associate with the darkies and make them do all the dirty work.
:yes: Thats exactly it. :rolleyes:

[Walktheline]

Never asked ya. :no: .. didn't say people were jealous of me. I'm just stating the obvious. Jeez..


you make all these topics about how shitty RD is and how shitty and jealous RD people are. :dunno:

[Princess_Ligi]

:).. yea :no:.. you're malu right?
Yep.

[Walktheline]

I thought this was a thread about jealousy. Why is it turning into an issue about light vs dark skin? oh wait.

[Princess_Ligi]

you make all these topics about how shitty RD is and how shitty and jealous RD people are. :dunno:
Compose yourself, woman. :squint:

[punjabisweetie]

Lol well fortunately for my neuroticneseseseses, almost all my boyfriends to date have been extremely jealous and halfway possessive. :no:

I like it that way :)

[desi_playa]

I thought this was a thread about jealousy. Why is it turning into an issue about light vs dark skin? oh wait.


PALE GIRLS RULE!!!!!!!!

[Walktheline]

PALE GIRLS RULE!!!!!!!!

:blahblah: k.

[SweetnSpicy90]

PALE GIRLS RULE!!!!!!!!
Too bad ya can't get any. :kekeke:

[desi_playa]

Too bad ya can't get any. :kekeke:


I KNEW IT!! you do hate kalus!!!!!!!!

[SweetnSpicy90]

I KNEW IT!! you do hate kalus!!!!!!!!
No, just ignorant and rude people like you.

[desi_playa]

No, just ignorant and rude people like you.


HATER!!

always hating i m gona go make a thread!!

HATER GO DRINK SOME HATERADE YOU HATER!!

[SweetnSpicy90]

HATER!!

always hating i m gona go make a thread!!

HATER GO DRINK SOME HATERADE YOU HATER!!
You have issues. Go ahead make a thread.

[Princess_Ligi]

You have issues. Go ahead make a thread.
Lol I think he's just goofing around with you. Probably thinks you're cute.

[SweetnSpicy90]

Lol I think he's just goofing around with you. Probably thinks you're cute.
:ugh: Too bad, I don't like him.

[yussi]

There are some people who are naturally jealous, but never admit it.
I think its about whether your actions towards others have given reason for your partener to be jealous.
I think that makes sense.

[desi_playa]

Lol I think he's just goofing around with you. Probably thinks you're cute.


ewwwwWWWWWWwwwwwWWWWW

[desi_playa]

:ugh: Too bad, I don't like him.


thats cause you havent seen my murlitharan type stunning looks.

[LostinHollywood]

http://desistores.net/catalog/images/80/fair&lovely.jpg
lawlz I think it's just a really high spf sunblock

[BilalisPakistani]

Lol 2 topic thread?

Pale girls need to go outside. Women of color are hot. Bronzed :dribble:

And jealousy is necessary. Im the most jealousiest guy alive.What are we supposed to just trust you women? Lol yeah right *****.

[LostinHollywood]

Jealousy is just insecurity.. I would be ecstatic if my boyfriend wasn't jealous of the guys I hang out with.. it means he trusts me.

If he's overly jealous or possessive then he's viewing your actions through his own value system.. it's the only reason why he would be suspicious.

[BilalisPakistani]

The point is guys have realized that it is impossible for a guy and a girl to be just friends. No Im sorry.

The females havent figured this one out yet.

[gujulicious]

im exttttttttremely jealous! and no matter how hard i try, i can't do anything about it.

:ashamed:

[XxTasha786xX]

it's kinda natural i guess. but what i don't get is..what is the reaso to be jealous tho? If u want something, get it. Atleast try..and if a situation is making u jealous...ask urself what is it thats making u jealous...to be honest...alot of ppl are jealous of the most dumbest things and for the most dumbest reasons. Some ppl get jealous very easily over the smallest things... ...who has more friends on myspace...:ugh: who is gettin hired first at a job.....who had sex first.... who has the better cell phone :ugh:..yes ive seen ppl like this.

[gorjuzkuri]

Do all the bf's/gf's that you choose end up being really jealous? If not, do you ever get worried if they're not even slightly jealous?

In your opinion, is jealousy just a natural emotion for someone you love or an envious act of attempting domination over a person?

Discuss.
in all honesty, as i've grown older the jealousy factor has fluctuated. It sometimes becomes uncontrollable and sometimes it becomes too damn annoying if someone is doing it. Although, if i am jealous which is truly a natural emotion, i don't go to the extreme of like seriously having "nazar" or wishing bad for others. Now, in partner stuff...hmm i tend to have an understanding with my mate that he should realize that ill be possessive [a tad bit.] But, i've noticed that all my bfs have always been super possessive and jealous. Even the current one and it states it even in astrological sign, Taurus. I find it fine but sometimes it intervenes with my individuality and how i am independent. I don't know, i was just thinking about that today thats why my answers such an essay. I guess jealousy is fine its normal, they love you thats why they are so possessive and jealous but, there should be a limit.

[T.Dimera]

what do girls get jealous over? if your boyfriend has girls sending him messages on facebook? i need examples...

[gorjuzkuri]

what do girls get jealous over? if your boyfriend has girls sending him messages on facebook? i need examples...
EX...thats a big no no! otherwise, im alright haha.

[XxTasha786xX]

what do girls get jealous over? if your boyfriend has girls sending him messages on facebook? i need examples...some girls hesitate visiting their bf's profile ...anticipating other girls leaving him comments...and they just dont want to get jealous :p

[Princess_Ligi]

Bumperdoodle.

[devil]

ask sweetspicy90 she is an expert on the topic of jealousy.


:lol:

[CheezCake]

sometimes jealousy can be good.....you dont want the person not to care at all....thats worse than jealousy cuz they don't give a damn

[T.Dimera]

i'm jealous that i didn't meet my girlfriend sooner...i'm an old budda now

on a side note: i'm a confident guy so i don't get jealous of my girl having guys as friends...but i can understand having an 'ex' as a friend would cause problems