View Full Version : white women & why desi men date outside their race
Gongha
March 28th, 2004, 10:48 PM
Ujjawala said in the boring thread post that someone should start this post, and since I am married to a white woman...I figured I will.
In my case there was a lack of choice. There were like three desi girls in college...and one exclusively dated white guys, and the other two were....very nerdy. I don't place too much emphasis on looks and would gladly go out with 'average looks' provided she had a good sense of humor, was fun to be with, kept herself in decent shape, somewhat well read, and a caring person.
Back to the desi guys. They feel that going out with desi girls requires too much emotional involvement and would require too much effort to get into their pants...which would normally involve getting married. No guy is in 'tied down frame of mind'..when he goes out to a club to meet chicks...or at any event. Single desi drunk guys at a party want to get laid. White chicks present a scenario of no emotional involvement. You can use them and get rid of them...at least that is the thinking. However, if you start a relationship with a 'decent ' looking girl of any race, and she happens to have a good sense of humor, and caring, you start getting emotionally involved with that person, and here lies the trap.
Ujjwala
March 28th, 2004, 10:50 PM
^^ u married a goree?
lekin kyon????
0hsopimpin
March 28th, 2004, 10:52 PM
ive only gone out with 3 girls and theyve all been blonde
ezbreezyfresh
March 28th, 2004, 10:53 PM
EASY .....BECAUSE DESI GIRLS REFUSE TO GIVE THEM SOME ASS!!! :)
Gongha
March 28th, 2004, 10:57 PM
^^ u married a goree?
lekin kyon????
Why do people get married at an astonishingly young age of 21. List the reasons and mine is one of them :)
Aurovon
March 28th, 2004, 10:59 PM
Ujjawala said in the boring thread post that someone should start this post, and since I am married to a white woman...I figured I will.
In my case there was a lack of choice. There were like three desi girls in college...and one exclusively dated white guys, and the other two were....very nerdy. I don't place too much emphasis on looks and would gladly go out with 'average looks' provided she had a good sense of humor, was fun to be with, kept herself in decent shape, somewhat well read, and a caring person.
Back to the desi guys. They feel that going out with desi girls requires too much emotional involvement and would require too much effort to get into their pants...which would normally involve getting married. No guy is in 'tied down frame of mind'..when he goes out to a club to meet chicks...or at any event. Single desi drunk guys at a party want to get laid. White chicks present a scenario of no emotional involvement. You can use them and get rid of them...at least that is the thinking. However, if you start a relationship with a 'decent ' looking girl of any race, and she happens to have a good sense of humor, and caring, you start getting emotionally involved with that person, and here lies the trap.
youre right
ragdoll
March 28th, 2004, 11:00 PM
EASY .....BECAUSE DESI GIRLS REFUSE TO GIVE THEM SOME ASS!!! :)
lol
gujuboy
March 28th, 2004, 11:00 PM
i've gone out with my current gf who is viet to italian and desi
alll have same amounts of drama but some u can relate to more and some are more prude then others
Arjuna
March 28th, 2004, 11:02 PM
^^ u married a goree?
lekin kyon????
Why do people get married at an astonishingly young age of 21. List the reasons and mine is one of them :)
my friend just got married and shes 19 :shock:
ragdoll
March 28th, 2004, 11:10 PM
^^ u married a goree?
lekin kyon????
Why do people get married at an astonishingly young age of 21. List the reasons and mine is one of them :)
my friend just got married and shes 19 :shock:
thats crazy! im never getting married- marriage is as appealing as fish on pizza
DesiStud1022
March 28th, 2004, 11:12 PM
. No guy is in 'tied down frame of mind'..when he goes out to a club to meet chicks...or at any event..
1. Which college did you go to? I cant think of one single college in America with less than 100 Desis.
2. Why did this girl have to be someone from college? What about people you meet outside of school? Or even online?
3. ^Ur quote - lol - there are some guys think like that. Trust me.
DesiStud1022
March 28th, 2004, 11:13 PM
EASY .....BECAUSE DESI GIRLS REFUSE TO GIVE THEM SOME ASS!!! :)
I diagree - there are quite a few Desi chicks who enjoy giving/receiving oral/anal/hand-jobinal/boobinal/penile/vaginal sex. On the other hand, how many girls above the age of 20 do you know that have NOT engaged in any of these activities?
Irreligious Left
March 28th, 2004, 11:18 PM
EASY .....BECAUSE DESI GIRLS REFUSE TO GIVE THEM SOME ASS!!! :)
I diagree - there are quite a few Desi chicks who enjoy giving/receiving oral/anal/hand-jobinal/boobinal/penile/vaginal sex. On the other hand, how many girls above the age of 20 do you know that have NOT engaged in any of these activities?
If we are to believe the responses of the females on this forum, they are all as white and pure as driven snow.
ezbreezyfresh
March 28th, 2004, 11:21 PM
how many girls above the age of 20 do you know that have NOT engaged in any of these activities?
_________________
all the desi girls i noe havent!!!they would never!!
DesiStud1022
March 28th, 2004, 11:22 PM
Edit
Gongha
March 28th, 2004, 11:27 PM
. No guy is in 'tied down frame of mind'..when he goes out to a club to meet chicks...or at any event..
1. Which college did you go to? I cant think of one single college in America with less than 100 Desis.
2. Why did this girl have to be someone from college? What about people you meet outside of school? Or even online?
3. ^Ur quote - lol - there are some guys think like that. Trust me.
I am older tha you. It seems every college has tons of desi now, but when I went to college, there were just tons of desi guys..both FOB and I had about 6 'ABCD's in my undergrad...no gals. I went to Carnegie Mellon Univ, and its primarily and engineering school, so girls in general avoid it. It also has a prestigious Fine Arts college, and there were no Desi in the Fine Arts school. There was also no such thing as internet as there is today.
As far as desi guys not wanting to get laid...as you claim to be.....trust me all guys want to get laid..its innate. I have not meant a single desi decent looking guy that did not description. The only one that thought like you that I know of is my cousin...extremely nerdy, valedectorian at Bethel Park High school, and now a succesful radiologist in Chicago...married to a former model....who sorta looks like Omna
Irreligious Left
March 28th, 2004, 11:31 PM
If we are to believe the responses of the females on this forum, they are all as white and pure as driven snow.
Please go back and read some of Ms.Ujjwalas posts, Ms.Crazy-In-Love's posts, Ms.Hertbreaker's posts... Ill find you more as time carries on.
You mean they've had and enjoyed mouth/butt/hand sex?
ETA: I'll take your word for it. I don't have to see the posts.
ragdoll
March 28th, 2004, 11:35 PM
1. Which college did you go to? I cant think of one single college in America with less than 100 Desis.
i bet utah has desis- if there are desis- they are probablly crazy mormons!
ezbreezyfresh
March 28th, 2004, 11:35 PM
DAMN WHAT WORLD HAVE I BEEN LIVING IN???I THOUGHT DESI GIRLS DIDNT DO THAT STUFF..I WUD NEVER..EWWWWWW...WHAT A DISGRACE
ragdoll
March 28th, 2004, 11:36 PM
DAMN WHAT WORLD HAVE I BEEN LIVING IN???I THOUGHT DESI GIRLS DIDNT DO THAT STUFF..I WUD NEVER..EWWWWWW...WHAT A DISGRACE
that wasnt an all-caps-worthy statement
DesiStud1022
March 28th, 2004, 11:41 PM
edit
Gongha
March 29th, 2004, 12:05 AM
I am older tha you. It seems every college has tons of desi now, but when I went to college, there were just tons of desi guys..both FOB and I had about 6 'ABCD's in my undergrad...no gals. I went to Carnegie Mellon Univ, and its primarily and engineering school, so girls in general avoid it. It also has a prestigious Fine Arts college, and there were no Desi in the Fine Arts school. There was also no such thing as internet as there is today.
As far as desi guys not wanting to get laid...as you claim to be.....trust me all guys want to get laid..its innate. I have not meant a single desi decent looking guy that did not description. The only one that thought like you that I know of is my cousin...extremely nerdy, valedectorian at Bethel Park High school, and now a succesful radiologist in Chicago...married to a former model....who sorta looks like Omna
I dont know when you were in school, but Im 24. I know people who are about 5 yrs older than me who went to C.Mellon - and they said Desis existed, but you had to find em. Its a big engineering school, so Im not surprised.
As for internet dating - yeah, it was not as prominent as it is today. But, back then, those Desi dating conventions still existed. Ever been to one? Hell, even Bhangra Blowout is a good opportunity to meet Desis.
It would be tough to meet a Desi if you dont go to Desi events - but that kinda makes sense, no?
As for your nerdy cousin- more power to him - hopefully his hard work has paid off, and hes living a nice life.
I am sure, if I specifically sat down and decided to come up with a plan to seek out desi girls, I am sure I would be succesful, but in my sphere where I normally met people, there weren't any. Second..i did not go out looking for a relationship, it just developed, and things have worked out fine. There are pros an cons to every relationship, but that's another topic.
As for my cousin, it seems his parents and him are very unhappy with the marriage which was 'arranged'. The girl spends money like its going out of style, and its quite apparent she married him for money (duh). Another cousin got an FOB wife, and he's hooked on hookers. There are other aquaintances who have had serious issues in their marriage about sex etc.
My dillitente psycho knowledge tells me that for whatever reason (shy or whatever) you were not popular with chics in school, so you have taken this other way and decided to call it your choice when it really wasn't. Whatever works for you is fine, but don't put down others like heartbreakers, Ujwalla etc. You don't know them or their situation and its disingenous on your part to relate sexual acts to them. Makes you look arrogant and ..should I say it.. 'fake'.
DesiStud1022
March 29th, 2004, 01:29 AM
i will justify my posts... but, ill do so in PMs as to not offend anyone.
PS - Im going to edit my previous posts. This is headed in teh wrong direction.
I was not stating that they all are sluts or hos... however, not every girl on here claims to be as "pure as white" as someone stated earlier.
Assembler
March 29th, 2004, 04:53 AM
Commitment isn't really a problem for me. And, you're right - as you said, with a "decent" girl of any race, they will obviously expect some type of commitment.
I would rather date outside my race, for the moment, because I don't see many (or any) attractive desi's around the places I go (school, included). This is all IMHO, of course.
Looking at this site though, now I know why. They all live on the east cost. lol.
Edit:
The one's that I do meet are bitchy as hell. I know this doesn't represent the whole lot, but it has been my experience as of thus far.
OGod_of_Hangover
March 29th, 2004, 07:03 AM
Ujjawala said in the boring thread post that someone should start this post, and since I am married to a white woman...I figured I will.
In my case there was a lack of choice. There were like three desi girls in college...and one exclusively dated white guys, and the other two were....very nerdy. I don't place too much emphasis on looks and would gladly go out with 'average looks' provided she had a good sense of humor, was fun to be with, kept herself in decent shape, somewhat well read, and a caring person.
Back to the desi guys. They feel that going out with desi girls requires too much emotional involvement and would require too much effort to get into their pants...which would normally involve getting married. No guy is in 'tied down frame of mind'..when he goes out to a club to meet chicks...or at any event. Single desi drunk guys at a party want to get laid. White chicks present a scenario of no emotional involvement. You can use them and get rid of them...at least that is the thinking. However, if you start a relationship with a 'decent ' looking girl of any race, and she happens to have a good sense of humor, and caring, you start getting emotionally involved with that person, and here lies the trap.
Your parents never took the trouble of introducing you to a nice desi girl? My parents, they're forever looking for potential daughter-in-laws.
ShivaChrist
March 29th, 2004, 01:05 PM
Who cares if she's non-desi, if you love her and you love her that's what matter. Of course, look who's talking... I'm attracted to Indian girls myself, and I can't help it.
Ujjwala
March 29th, 2004, 05:26 PM
Who cares if she's non-desi, if you love her and you love her that's what matter. Of course, look who's talking... I'm attracted to Indian girls myself, and I can't help it.
good point. i agree. race is not an issue when it comes to love.
L.U.C.K.Y.
March 29th, 2004, 05:32 PM
im 20 and i shall be married no later than my 26th birthday and no earlier than my 24th birthday. wat about you guys and hoes? oops i mean girls.
HeRsHeE317
March 29th, 2004, 05:32 PM
^^ u married a goree?
lekin kyon????
Why do people get married at an astonishingly young age of 21. List the reasons and mine is one of them :)
my friend just got married and shes 19 :shock:
nahida got amrried at 18
so wat?
watz da big deel?
L.U.C.K.Y.
March 29th, 2004, 05:33 PM
im 20 and i shall be married no later than my 26th birthday and no earlier than my 24th birthday. wat about you guys and hoes? oops i mean girls.
oops i meant to make a new thread.
NY_Twister
January 3rd, 2005, 04:40 PM
If we are to believe the responses of the females on this forum, they are all as white and pure as driven snow.
not all of us...
Poeman
January 3rd, 2005, 05:31 PM
Ujjawala said in the boring thread post that someone should start this post, and since I am married to a white woman...I figured I will.
In my case there was a lack of choice. There were like three desi girls in college...and one exclusively dated white guys, and the other two were....very nerdy. I don't place too much emphasis on looks and would gladly go out with 'average looks' provided she had a good sense of humor, was fun to be with, kept herself in decent shape, somewhat well read, and a caring person.
Back to the desi guys. They feel that going out with desi girls requires too much emotional involvement and would require too much effort to get into their pants...which would normally involve getting married. No guy is in 'tied down frame of mind'..when he goes out to a club to meet chicks...or at any event. Single desi drunk guys at a party want to get laid. White chicks present a scenario of no emotional involvement. You can use them and get rid of them...at least that is the thinking. However, if you start a relationship with a 'decent ' looking girl of any race, and she happens to have a good sense of humor, and caring, you start getting emotionally involved with that person, and here lies the trap.
so true... i feel like im done with desi chicks, unless one falls into my lap im changin lanes again
angelique
January 3rd, 2005, 05:33 PM
i dont see the bloody point?
u can like whoever u want
i mean i dislike ppl who are like "omg eiu desi girl fuck no im gonna get my self a white chick"
or ppl like "omg desi boy hell no, i want a blue eyed blonde" etc
but i mean if u fall in love u fall in love u know.. who cares if its white black brown or yellow?
Serenity
January 3rd, 2005, 05:37 PM
Gongha are you happily married ?
Don't take any offence, it's just out of pure curioucity.
mr$ lloyd bank$
February 21st, 2005, 11:48 AM
Theres nothing wrong with white women :)
EwLookItsYou
February 21st, 2005, 01:57 PM
Ujjawala said in the boring thread post that someone should start this post, and since I am married to a white woman...I figured I will.
In my case there was a lack of choice. There were like three desi girls in college...and one exclusively dated white guys, and the other two were....very nerdy. I don't place too much emphasis on looks and would gladly go out with 'average looks' provided she had a good sense of humor, was fun to be with, kept herself in decent shape, somewhat well read, and a caring person.
Back to the desi guys. They feel that going out with desi girls requires too much emotional involvement and would require too much effort to get into their pants...which would normally involve getting married. No guy is in 'tied down frame of mind'..when he goes out to a club to meet chicks...or at any event. Single desi drunk guys at a party want to get laid. White chicks present a scenario of no emotional involvement. You can use them and get rid of them...at least that is the thinking. However, if you start a relationship with a 'decent ' looking girl of any race, and she happens to have a good sense of humor, and caring, you start getting emotionally involved with that person, and here lies the trap.
wow idk..
i'm dating a white guy..
he likes the fact that i'm not a tart or w/e and that.. he can find himself serious with me..
he likes desi girls actually so yeah~
i dont like desi guys.. there was one.. but he was way diff from desi ppl n he didn like desi ppl tht much himself.. he was basically a rocker n yeah he was awesome but uh.. msot of the desi guys tht ive gone out with just.. irked me somewhow and they were soo horny and stuff and I'm juss way to reserved for that crap.
and they were unromantic.. didn kno how to talk about things other than their dick lol, and they were jus.. overall.. annoying.. at least the ones tht ive dated.
but uh yeah idk like the only reason y i wud stick with a desi guy wud b b/c of the cultural similarities but thts not y i date ppl so yeah..
cutealicious
February 21st, 2005, 02:06 PM
you know i think too much importance goes on this subject..unless u grew up in india and came here...then maybe it wud b hard..but like growing up here..dusnt it mattr the most if the guys a good guy?...u know i think its soo much more excepted for interracial dating now than it was before...my cuzin jus married a white guy and our family is in love with him hez GREAT...i mean personality beats the color of ur skin dusnt it?....and my parents dont care if i marry out of race..they jus said whoevr makes me happy...
MolviCorleone
February 21st, 2005, 02:28 PM
Theres nothing wrong with white women :)
thaz why i married you when i was 16
MolviCorleone
February 21st, 2005, 02:33 PM
wow idk..
i'm dating a white guy..
he likes the fact that i'm not a tart or w/e and that.. he can find himself serious with me..
he likes desi girls actually so yeah~
i dont like desi guys.. there was one.. but he was way diff from desi ppl n he didn like desi ppl tht much himself.. he was basically a rocker n yeah he was awesome but uh.. msot of the desi guys tht ive gone out with just.. irked me somewhow and they were soo horny and stuff and I'm juss way to reserved for that crap.
and they were unromantic.. didn kno how to talk about things other than their dick lol, and they were jus.. overall.. annoying.. at least the ones tht ive dated.
but uh yeah idk like the only reason y i wud stick with a desi guy wud b b/c of the cultural similarities but thts not y i date ppl so yeah..
most desi guys dont go lookin at stoned weird looking girls like you tho. so its all perfect anf every1ns happy. desiz rock.
mr$ lloyd bank$
February 21st, 2005, 02:34 PM
thaz why i married you when i was 16
:p :p :p
EwLookItsYou
February 21st, 2005, 02:39 PM
most desi guys dont go lookin at stoned weird looking girls like you tho. so its all perfect anf every1ns happy. desiz rock.
uhh well apparently they do and yeah.. fuck u :madfawk: :asshole: :asshole: :squintFa:
pimpkidman828
February 21st, 2005, 02:46 PM
^^ u married a goree?
lekin kyon????
i dont tihkn thats true, dude i believe that desi chicks liek black guys rather the desi guys liking white chick
MolviCorleone
February 21st, 2005, 03:07 PM
uhh well apparently they do and yeah.. fuck u :madfawk: :asshole: :asshole: :squintFa:
u wish u cud. not gonna happen tho. :cool:
MolviCorleone
February 21st, 2005, 03:07 PM
:p :p :p
G unit stands for Gay unit.
EwLookItsYou
February 21st, 2005, 03:09 PM
wow thats so original :rolleyes:
MolviCorleone
February 21st, 2005, 03:13 PM
wow thats so original :rolleyes:
i got tired of leaving nice comments to girls. too many hott girls now so i thought ill rather pick on ugly girls. well i wont do it here. well what im aying is that if i spot a miger ill send a comment her way telling her how i feel and what she can do to improve on things. im a good guy like that.
EwLookItsYou
February 21st, 2005, 03:24 PM
i got tired of leaving nice comments to girls. too many hott girls now so i thought ill rather pick on ugly girls. well i wont do it here. well what im aying is that if i spot a miger ill send a comment her way telling her how i feel and what she can do to improve on things. im a good guy like that.
uh wow thats so lame. if i'm ugly to u, i really don't care, i never said i was cute neway. so yeah juss fuck off bastard.
:fawk:
desi_gunda
February 22nd, 2005, 06:05 AM
This topics based on stereotypes.
MolviCorleone
February 22nd, 2005, 06:24 AM
uh wow thats so lame. if i'm ugly to u, i really don't care, i never said i was cute neway. so yeah juss fuck off bastard.
:fawk:
LMAO YESSSSS
i luv pissing ppl off.
EwLookItsYou
February 22nd, 2005, 11:14 AM
LMAO YESSSSS
i luv pissing ppl off. :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
MolviCorleone
February 22nd, 2005, 01:38 PM
:rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
u really dont know tho. i was just gettin on ur tits n i succeeded.
EwLookItsYou
February 22nd, 2005, 01:45 PM
u really dont know tho. i was just gettin on ur tits n i succeeded.
blah w/e :rolleyes:
DeZi
February 22nd, 2005, 07:20 PM
im half white...going out with a desi guy...:eek:
GsBabyGurl
February 22nd, 2005, 07:49 PM
White chicks present a scenario of no emotional involvement. You can use them and get rid of them...at least that is the thinking. However, if you start a relationship with a 'decent ' looking girl of any race, and she happens to have a good sense of humor, and caring, you start getting emotionally involved with that person, and here lies the trap.
Alot of desi guys have that mentality, i guess for the most part its probably true, the lowest thing i think is when desi guys have their nice virgin smart sweet desi gf that they wanna marry but then they are bangin a goree on the side with no intention of anything but that, whats even sadder is most of the time the gori is fine with that. i know there are white ppl on this site but its kind of the sad truth, white girls are more into no strings attached sex (and plz dont bite my head off for this, its a general statement, alot of ppl, not all )
GsBabyGurl
February 22nd, 2005, 07:52 PM
on a completely different note, i hate desis (girls or guys) who think dating white ppl is a status thing cuz it most definitely is not anybody ever heard that lil joke...90% of white women are good looking, the other 10% date desis
Doctasrini
February 22nd, 2005, 08:01 PM
Well, the majority of us live in predominantly white country's so what is wrong with white girls. We're all caucasian anyways. IT's not like only white girls are dated. race shouldn't be a consideration anyways
desi_gunda
February 23rd, 2005, 08:01 AM
How are we all caucasian?
toasted
February 23rd, 2005, 02:54 PM
Ujjawala said in the boring thread post that someone should start this post, and since I am married to a white woman...I figured I will.
In my case there was a lack of choice. There were like three desi girls in college...and one exclusively dated white guys, and the other two were....very nerdy. I don't place too much emphasis on looks and would gladly go out with 'average looks' provided she had a good sense of humor, was fun to be with, kept herself in decent shape, somewhat well read, and a caring person.
Back to the desi guys. They feel that going out with desi girls requires too much emotional involvement and would require too much effort to get into their pants...which would normally involve getting married. No guy is in 'tied down frame of mind'..when he goes out to a club to meet chicks...or at any event. Single desi drunk guys at a party want to get laid. White chicks present a scenario of no emotional involvement. You can use them and get rid of them...at least that is the thinking. However, if you start a relationship with a 'decent ' looking girl of any race, and she happens to have a good sense of humor, and caring, you start getting emotionally involved with that person, and here lies the trap.
doest matter a women is a women so personally i think this is a stupid post
toasted
February 23rd, 2005, 02:55 PM
Alot of desi guys have that mentality, i guess for the most part its probably true, the lowest thing i think is when desi guys have their nice virgin smart sweet desi gf that they wanna marry but then they are bangin a goree on the side with no intention of anything but that, whats even sadder is most of the time the gori is fine with that. i know there are white ppl on this site but its kind of the sad truth, white girls are more into no strings attached sex (and plz dont bite my head off for this, its a general statement, alot of ppl, not all )
this is funny should i tell you my frnd clinic stories on desis gurls as many desi gurls out thea doin it as white gurls its not about race its all about loose morals
desi_wanna-be
February 24th, 2005, 11:15 AM
Id just like to point out that obviously i am not desi however i am dating a desi guy and i think i have had a harder time over it all then he has even tho we are both muslim lol he did get hassle from his family about me but they seem to concertrate on me being the problem or the bad one as if somehow ive corrupted him in some way lol i think, well actually i know its becasue i am white and to be fair white ppl do get a bad wrap and with good reason sometimes, but its me people attack like I have done something wrong i get it from all sides lolsome white ppl think of me as a race trader and some asian ppl think im a slag and just with him to get sex an im not serious about him lol not that he hasnt had some funny looks aswell lol
So really ive accepted me and my guy will never have it easy so to speak but lucky for me and him after 3yrs we are still going strong, the fact i am muslim will help to convince his mum and the fact i have been around so long after all the agro that has been forced upon us and i am still here. i think the point im trying to make is just because guy is dating a white women or any other non desi women doesnt mean she is going to be bad to him and vice versa an i think its best not to worry about the colour of someone but the intent of someone lol
But id just like to say that not all asian and white ppl have given me and him a hard time its just the minority that seems to have a problem with it so much love to all those who live and let live lol :)
sheilas_boo
February 24th, 2005, 06:27 PM
maib cause whtie woman arent hairy........... n their hot ....... n somethen u gurls arent :mad: ahhahahahahha sukkkkkkkaz
kamasutra_king
February 24th, 2005, 06:35 PM
EASY .....BECAUSE DESI GIRLS REFUSE TO GIVE THEM SOME ASS!!! :)
YES LOL
kamasutra_king
February 24th, 2005, 06:35 PM
:drool: i know a half white half punjabi gurl ima hook up with :Pelvic2: :Pelvic2:
zeeweed
February 24th, 2005, 06:45 PM
Ujjawala said in the boring thread post that someone should start this post, and since I am married to a white woman...I figured I will.
In my case there was a lack of choice. There were like three desi girls in college...and one exclusively dated white guys, and the other two were....very nerdy. I don't place too much emphasis on looks and would gladly go out with 'average looks' provided she had a good sense of humor, was fun to be with, kept herself in decent shape, somewhat well read, and a caring person.
Back to the desi guys. They feel that going out with desi girls requires too much emotional involvement and would require too much effort to get into their pants...which would normally involve getting married. No guy is in 'tied down frame of mind'..when he goes out to a club to meet chicks...or at any event. Single desi drunk guys at a party want to get laid. White chicks present a scenario of no emotional involvement. You can use them and get rid of them...at least that is the thinking. However, if you start a relationship with a 'decent ' looking girl of any race, and she happens to have a good sense of humor, and caring, you start getting emotionally involved with that person, and here lies the trap.
because desi girls, gotta Step up there GAMe, its a Jungle out there,
Surivival of the Fittest,
SIXPAK GQ
February 25th, 2005, 01:56 AM
Alot of desi guys have that mentality, i guess for the most part its probably true, the lowest thing i think is when desi guys have their nice virgin smart sweet desi gf that they wanna marry but then they are bangin a goree on the side with no intention of anything but that, whats even sadder is most of the time the gori is fine with that. i know there are white ppl on this site but its kind of the sad truth, white girls are more into no strings attached sex (and plz dont bite my head off for this, its a general statement, alot of ppl, not all )
thats ur stereotype.......but it can go for ways anyway...who says white girls are into no strings attached sex? women are women whether u r desi or not....desi girls just do it on the DL to save their reputation...
slightly_toasted
March 6th, 2005, 12:12 AM
Ujjawala said in the boring thread post that someone should start this post, and since I am married to a white woman...I figured I will.
In my case there was a lack of choice. There were like three desi girls in college...and one exclusively dated white guys, and the other two were....very nerdy. I don't place too much emphasis on looks and would gladly go out with 'average looks' provided she had a good sense of humor, was fun to be with, kept herself in decent shape, somewhat well read, and a caring person.
Back to the desi guys. They feel that going out with desi girls requires too much emotional involvement and would require too much effort to get into their pants...which would normally involve getting married. No guy is in 'tied down frame of mind'..when he goes out to a club to meet chicks...or at any event. Single desi drunk guys at a party want to get laid. White chicks present a scenario of no emotional involvement. You can use them and get rid of them...at least that is the thinking. However, if you start a relationship with a 'decent ' looking girl of any race, and she happens to have a good sense of humor, and caring, you start getting emotionally involved with that person, and here lies the trap.
ehh all i wanna say to this post is good for you w/ur lady. although u should be post all about i married a white women blah blah whateva she's ur wife regardless of race. to the rest of you haters out thea stop hatin guyz i got aunts thare are "white" and they're good aunts better than i say desi ones cuz they dont talk about ppl behind their backs like the desi 1's do lol plus i m w/ a gurl thats "white" so the haters can kiss my ass
bigkid
March 11th, 2005, 06:34 AM
hey man sorry to hear that you feel "trapped" in a marriage to a woman who happens to be white. You should file for divorce, unless you have kids that are young they require 2 parents, unless you want them to die early like 2pac, or grow up to be famous crack dealers like Jay-Z.
Otherwise get rid of it, sounds like a problem?
FjN-XtC
March 14th, 2005, 06:35 PM
i've gone out with my current gf who is viet to italian and desi
alll have same amounts of drama but some u can relate to more and some are more prude then others
I gotta agree with that. My last 3 gf where philipino, hindu and viet =D
GoddessOfLove720
March 14th, 2005, 09:52 PM
maybe its cuz of bad experiences w/ desi gurls. i mean, ma ex was bengali n creepy as shyt n cuz of him, i will not go near a bengali guy again! lol sike nah... i mean i jus wont date em...
Gora
March 14th, 2005, 10:05 PM
As you know, I look like white... for me to get a white girl is like my given gift ;) In college it's heaven :dance3: :dance3: :dance3:
pimpkidman828
March 14th, 2005, 10:16 PM
Why do people get married at an astonishingly young age of 21. List the reasons and mine is one of them :)
pregnant?
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