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jassika
March 23rd, 2007, 10:06 PM
:neutral:

freshmanik_13
March 23rd, 2007, 10:07 PM
if i still liked her then no, but if i didnt, fuck... id get my friends to run a train on her ass

KurtaPyjama
March 23rd, 2007, 10:07 PM
if he tells you first. not even ask, just tell.

thereaSon
March 23rd, 2007, 10:07 PM
Hell Hell Hell NO.

thereaSon
March 23rd, 2007, 10:08 PM
if i still liked her then no, but if i didnt, fuck... id get my friends to run a train on her ass


:rofl:

jassika
March 23rd, 2007, 10:11 PM
:neutral:

Rcade
March 23rd, 2007, 10:12 PM
hell no....what kind of disloyal friends do u have

chicano_desi
March 23rd, 2007, 10:12 PM
won't happen.
i haven't seen my ex in about a year.

SillyKitty
March 23rd, 2007, 10:12 PM
would u be cool with ur friend dating ur ex?
i guess so.. i dont have any feelings for any of myexes..

freshmanik_13
March 23rd, 2007, 10:12 PM
ok good. i just didnt get that simple answer because id never lose all feelings for an ex id love em forever
rly? lol i ono i dated chicks for like couple weeks, then i jus break up with them, those are the girls i dont rly care about. I dont get emotionally attached much

plummet
March 23rd, 2007, 10:12 PM
if i still liked her then no, but if i didnt, fuck... id get my friends to run a train on her ass
you have now established urself as an idiot

freshmanik_13
March 23rd, 2007, 10:13 PM
you have now established urself as an idiot
where have u been? i was an idiot first time i posted on these forums

lil_desi_babe
March 23rd, 2007, 10:14 PM
Not really :neutral:
.

she should no better :D

Cutie_Ema
March 23rd, 2007, 10:49 PM
noo
dat would b too awkward :neutral:

illin
March 23rd, 2007, 10:50 PM
long as they were happy

golds
March 23rd, 2007, 10:51 PM
there are rules to all of that

Fight_Tibet
March 23rd, 2007, 10:51 PM
hell in no way my boys would date one of my exes...no need to even say it out...thats just how we roll...

RYNstarO23
March 23rd, 2007, 11:06 PM
na it will be weird:mad:

thereaSon
March 23rd, 2007, 11:49 PM
you have now established urself as an idiot


Why do you say so? Each to his own no?

Chinadoll
March 23rd, 2007, 11:50 PM
sure, unless the guy is complete asshole, then I would warn her not to get involved with him.

nautika
March 23rd, 2007, 11:51 PM
no way in hell

thereaSon
March 23rd, 2007, 11:53 PM
What's up with all these California posters in a row, sheesh.

jattniz_chuttni
March 23rd, 2007, 11:57 PM
I don't see what the issue is. If one my friends ever wanted to date any of my ex's they'd be welcome to, if they were good guys that is.

Otherwise, sure. If it seems like they have chemistry and it could work out, I'd give them the proper advice and let them do whatever the hell they want. I ain't their mother, you know!

thereaSon
March 23rd, 2007, 11:59 PM
I don't see what the issue is. If one my friends ever wanted to date any of my ex's they'd be welcome to, if they were good guys that is.

Otherwise, sure. If it seems like they have chemistry and it could work out, I'd give them the proper advice and let them do whatever the hell they want. I ain't their mother, you know!


That's a mature way of putting it, but lets be real and mature, one of the relationships would not last.

jattniz_chuttni
March 24th, 2007, 12:03 AM
That's a mature way of putting it, but lets be real and mature, one of the relationships would not last. What do you mean by "one of the relationships would not last"?
You never know. There's always hope in relationships and dating and narrowing down your friends choices of finding the person that's meant for her isn't one thing I'm fond of.

thereaSon
March 24th, 2007, 12:05 AM
What do you mean by "one of the relationships would not last"?
You never know. There's always hope in relationships and dating and narrowing down your friends choices of finding the person that's meant for her isn't one thing I'm fond of.


Nope, one of the relationships would not last. Meaning either you and your friend would stop being friends or/and your friend and your ex would not work out and still not have the same great friendship with you.


It's reality kiddo depending on the scenario.

jattniz_chuttni
March 24th, 2007, 12:09 AM
Nope, one of the relationships would not last. Meaning either you and your friend would stop being friends or/and your friend and your ex would not work out and still not have the same great friendship with you.


It's reality kiddo depending on the scenario. Exactly. I can take that form of rejection... if you want to put it that way. If that means the person I used to be great friends with finds her soulmate, then all I can do is sit and watch. Drifting away from people is normal and natural. There's not a thing I can do about it. Plus, you've just got to roll on with life.

And some people will mistake that person for being "a fake friend" or someone that "used" you. But like I said, from my perspective, it's just people naturally drifting apart. And if that's the scenario, then I can handle it.

thereaSon
March 24th, 2007, 12:47 AM
Exactly. I can take that form of rejection... if you want to put it that way. If that means the person I used to be great friends with finds her soulmate, then all I can do is sit and watch. Drifting away from people is normal and natural. There's not a thing I can do about it. Plus, you've just got to roll on with life.

And some people will mistake that person for being "a fake friend" or someone that "used" you. But like I said, from my perspective, it's just people naturally drifting apart. And if that's the scenario, then I can handle it.


You can't handle the truth!

PyariPariPri
March 24th, 2007, 02:34 AM
depends on what the ex is like, what our relationship was like (intensity) and whether we still got along or not.

if we're fine and he's an okay guy and it just didnt work out between us then i don't see what the big problem would be...

iintoxiicatin
March 24th, 2007, 02:40 AM
hell effin' no.

parkinlotpimp
March 24th, 2007, 02:44 AM
a friend of mine wanted to date an ex of mine but i just kep saying jeez ur gonna be where ive been how does it feel to know i was there first? and he stopped likin her lol

jafferman
March 24th, 2007, 03:57 AM
fuck no

*ApNi_KuRi*
March 24th, 2007, 04:05 AM
Well my bestfriend is going out with an ex of mine, but I only went out with him for 2 weeks and this was 3 years ago, so it was nothing serious and i'm still really good friends with him.

He's a nice guy, and she's a great girl so I'm happy for the two of them.

SillyKitty
March 28th, 2007, 03:40 AM
fuck no
lol guys are soo territorial.. even when they done conquering and leaving.

GreeceLightning
March 28th, 2007, 03:47 AM
would u be cool with ur friend dating ur ex?
i'd be like "dump the ex, or the friendship is over". my exes are my enemies.

Bengal!z
March 28th, 2007, 08:26 AM
Well my bestfriend is going out with an ex of mine, but I only went out with him for 2 weeks and this was 3 years ago, so it was nothing serious and i'm still really good friends with him.

He's a nice guy, and she's a great girl so I'm happy for the two of them.

no youre not.




nar im kidding :wavey:

R123
March 28th, 2007, 01:04 PM
God no.. that would be weird.. knowing that you had at one point been close to them and now your friend is.. I'm over my ex.. but if a friend of mine decided to date him i wouldnt be callin her my friend nemore!

baby_gal_naz
March 28th, 2007, 01:34 PM
Hell no!! :mad:

I still want him back. :anger:

_A-s-H-i_
March 28th, 2007, 01:40 PM
friends dont do tht

ispeakadatruth!!
March 29th, 2007, 12:16 PM
rly? lol i ono i dated chicks for like couple weeks, then i jus break up with them, those are the girls i dont rly care about. I dont get emotionally attached much


babe, u just havent found the right one lol...so dont get too overconfident about not getting "emotionally attached much".... :rolleyes:

baby_gal_naz
March 29th, 2007, 12:18 PM
Hell no!! :mad:

I still want him back. :anger:
I take that back. :hand:

Rogue
March 29th, 2007, 12:39 PM
honestly? if i was emotionally close to either or both of them, then no, i wouldn't be. i'd just cut them out of my life.

P4ki4Lyf
March 29th, 2007, 12:40 PM
no. that would be weird :|

SiKhEzT PuNjAbii
March 29th, 2007, 09:46 PM
would u be cool with ur friend dating ur ex?
id be cool
id have my friend make her pay for the things she did to me :D

jat_jatt_sardar
March 31st, 2007, 03:40 PM
would u be cool with ur friend dating ur ex?
at the enbd of the day everyones families gonna be messed up these days, when out genereation becomes the uncles and aunties they are gonna be other peoples used exes when they are married.

Mz_Newyawk
March 31st, 2007, 07:32 PM
thats a big rule in my friends group
u dont go out with ur friends ex
thats like kicking ur friend in the face
so no thats never happened n hopefully it will never happen either!

jat_jatt_sardar
April 3rd, 2007, 09:15 AM
who cares, its not like they r marryin em.
even though u lot seem to treat datin as seriously as marriage,
need more izzat
:rant: :rolleyes: :think: :batman: :ashamed: :-| :-x :shame: :bounce: :confused: :bash:

*ApNi_KuRi*
April 3rd, 2007, 04:27 PM
who cares, its not like they r marryin em.
even though u lot seem to treat datin as seriously as marriage,
need more izzat
:rant: :rolleyes: :think: :batman: :ashamed: :-| :-x :shame: :bounce: :confused: :bash:
Well, the "lot" may not have parents who believe in arrange marriages. Mine don't.

They don't mind me going out with my boyfriend at all. It's the gateway TO marriage, so we do have to take it seriously.

jat_jatt_sardar
April 4th, 2007, 01:41 PM
Well, the "lot" may not have parents who believe in arrange marriages. Mine don't.

They don't mind me going out with my boyfriend at all. It's the gateway TO marriage, so we do have to take it seriously.
yes well not believein in arranged marriages doesn;t mean believeing in partners b4 marriage. Should get to know people like good human beings, this pre marital partner modenrised stuff is just some izzat-less thing, for people who can;t get married, almost pre-historic/ animal like behaviour, gettin with people without marryin them 1st. And then talkin about exes dating friends and blah blah blah what a load of westernised brainwashed thinking. Don;t seem liek people with any izzat or sharam.
excuses, excuses, end of the days they are just lustful relationships full of unecessary attachment.
And its disgustin, people becomin exes without gettin married or divorced, very low level of izzat indeed.

Gateway to marriage??????????????
if 2 people become partners, what on earth is the point in gettin married then, what kind of twisted, gorafied way of thinkin is that?

people who believe in arranged marriage believe in 2 people gettin to get to know each other in a partnership/relationship but by gettin married 1st!!

people who believe in dating believe in 2 people gettin to get to know each other in a partnership/relationship but without gettin married 1st. and basically thats a degrading way of having a partnership/relationship compared to marriage

yes and hopefully theres people who aren;t narrow minded enough to believe that people also get to know each other without requiring a partnership/relationship too, yes not everyone in this world is desperate!!!!!!!

end of the day answer me this question, if I can make a partner without getting married, then what on earth is the point in gettin a marriage ceremony? doesn;t make marriage nothing but as ritual???

sexy_kuta
April 4th, 2007, 02:04 PM
i wouldnt care as long as i dont have any feelings towards them. if i caught of my friends then i would probaby anger myself and kick his fukign ass., i know its wrong but its all protective i protect things that i have feelings for. its just my own personal incesureitys

jat_jatt_sardar
April 4th, 2007, 03:15 PM
yes and whats with the hypcorisy where.......
guys go date other families daughters an dsisters, and then want to break someones legs if they try to date their own daughters and sisters, how selfish and what hypocrisy.

sexy_kuta
April 4th, 2007, 03:19 PM
yes and whats with the hypcorisy where.......
guys go date other families daughters an dsisters, and then want to break someones legs if they try to date their own daughters and sisters, how selfish and what hypocrisy.

well we are humans. we protect our love ones yet we still steal.

we smoke even know it kills us.

we take risks. even though death is one of the outcomes

no one is perfect because perfection is boring. deal with it. we are all hyperoricts in one way or another. we tell our love ones dont do bad things yet do do them independentaly..

jat_jatt_sardar
April 5th, 2007, 01:06 PM
well we are humans. we protect our love ones yet we still steal.

we smoke even know it kills us.

we take risks. even though death is one of the outcomes

no one is perfect because perfection is boring. deal with it. we are all hyperoricts in one way or another. we tell our love ones dont do bad things yet do do them independentaly..
EXActly lol what a mess

sexy_kuta
April 5th, 2007, 01:55 PM
EXActly lol what a mess
yes. damn right. so fuck the world and lets get high nigguh

L_A_X__addiction
April 5th, 2007, 02:01 PM
yeah, i would think she's stupid for doing it but yeah i wouldn't really care.

jat_jatt_sardar
April 5th, 2007, 03:47 PM
yes. damn right. so fuck the world and lets get high nigguh
lol haha