:'(

[kiran7862]

So I've known this one "friend" for like 7 yrs and we know eachother better than we know ourselves...have feelings for eachother n watever. But a few days ago, he decided that its best if we stop talkin cuz he doesnt think things will go anywhere. Iono wat to do...more than losin a potential guy, its like I lost my best friend. Its only been a few days, but I miss him like crazy cuz we used to talk pretty much every nite.

Wat should I do?? :neutral:

[BadFingerBoogie]

a/s/l/?

wanna cyber?

webcam?

[PaiN infLictioN]

get hit by a bus.....











and a train :dunno:

[Unsigned Hype]

a/s/l/?

wanna cyber?

webcam?
:roflbow:

[PuNjabi_RaNi*]

Not worth losing the friendship.

Get it back woman.

[Unsigned Hype]

So I've known this one "friend" for like 7 yrs and we know eachother better than we know ourselves...have feelings for eachother n watever. But a few days ago, he decided that its best if we stop talkin cuz he doesnt think things will go anywhere. Iono wat to do...more than losin a potential guy, its like I lost my best friend. Its only been a few days, but I miss him like crazy cuz we used to talk pretty much every nite.

Wat should I do?? :neutral:
are you hot??? if not i dun wanna waste my time consoling you

[ssjasper2003]

Oh word, I knew this girl since 97 & we hooked up & drama just happend when people she knew spread rumours that we had sex when we never did. So just warning you if you are gonna do shit with him, keep it between you two.

Anyways let him do what he wants since hes ending it. Unless either of you said i like you,etc etc & no one did anything I could see why. You guys can still be friends or just be toys for each other.

[BadFingerBoogie]

:roflbow:

:lol:

[PaiN infLictioN]

Not worth losing the friendship.

Get it back woman.
he probably wants to tap that ass but she wont let him :dunno:

[kiran7862]

Not worth losing the friendship.

Get it back woman.
How do I do that?? I tried tellin him that when he was talkin to me bout all this, but it didnt work...I tried talkin to him the next day n just said wassup but things were soooo weird...even he admitted it n thats when he was like we should completely stop contact for a few days

[PuNjabi_RaNi*]

he probably wants to tap that ass but she wont let him :dunno:

Lol pagal, he should step back from tapping that ass if she doesnt want him to.

[kiran7862]

Oh word, I knew this girl since 97 & we hooked up & drama just happend when people she knew spread rumours that we had sex when we never did. So just warning you if you are gonna do shit with him, keep it between you two.

Anyways let him do what he wants since hes ending it. Unless either of you said i like you,etc etc & no one did anything I could see why. You guys can still be friends or just be toys for each other.
We've said i love u :neutral:

[khanvict]

time heals all wounds. don't be clingy and just move on if that's what he decided.

[PaiN infLictioN]

Lol pagal, he should step back from tapping that ass if she doesnt want him to.
ya he's probably like me...cant step back from ass :no:

[PuNjabi_RaNi*]

How do I do that?? I tried tellin him that when he was talkin to me bout all this, but it didnt work...I tried talkin to him the next day n just said wassup but things were soooo weird...even he admitted it n thats when he was like we should completely stop contact for a few days

Stop contact for a few days? he is just testing how long he can last or if this "break" works out. Just allow it and dont worry about it, im sure within a short amount of time you will get the friendship back.

However dont expect more as that might be putting him off - hence not keeping in touch with you.

Give it time.

[kiran7862]

time heals all wounds. don't be clingy and just move on if that's what he decided.
Easier said than done tho...itd be like outa nowhere my mom just stop talkin to me...cant move on from somethin liek that so easily

[PuNjabi_RaNi*]

ya he's probably like me...cant step back from ass :no:

:rofl: bechara i feel for you Adnan.











Really i do :slap:

[ssjasper2003]

We've said i love u :neutral:

Did either of you say "I know" & drive away? Lol my friend did that to this viet/asian girl, laughed about it over the phone.

Well if you did, are you guys in a relationship/were in 1 & taking time off seeing other people etc etc.

I mean I find that most relationships till your mid 20s wont work out unless you are lucky. Since we all know how we get bored of stuff after a while.

[khanvict]

Easier said than done tho...itd be like outa nowhere my mom just stop talkin to me...cant move on from somethin liek that so easily

...it can be done. trust me. if he feels like he's missing you then he'll come back around but if not then why should you waste your time/energy missing him?

[PaiN infLictioN]

:rofl: bechara i feel for you Adnan.











Really i do :slap:
:kekeke:




:ashamed:

[kiran7862]

Stop contact for a few days? he is just testing how long he can last or if this "break" works out. Just allow it and dont worry about it, im sure within a short amount of time you will get the friendship back.

However dont expect more as that might be putting him off - hence not keeping in touch with you.

Give it time.
Time's hard tho...wat do I do in the meantime when I hella miss him??

[PuNjabi_RaNi*]

:kekeke:
:ashamed:
your sig is freakin coooool :cool2:

[PaiN infLictioN]

Time's hard tho...wat do I do in the meantime when I hella miss him??
RD.

[kiran7862]

Did either of you say "I know" & drive away? Lol my friend did that to this viet/asian girl, laughed about it over the phone.

Well if you did, are you guys in a relationship/were in 1 & taking time off seeing other people etc etc.

I mean I find that most relationships till your mid 20s wont work out unless you are lucky. Since we all know how we get bored of stuff after a while.
LOL, no it was a mutual thing! But we were always classified as "friends"...iono, its hard to explain

[PaiN infLictioN]

your sig is freakin coooool :cool2:
just like me :afro:

:cuddle:

[kiran7862]

...it can be done. trust me. if he feels like he's missing you then he'll come back around but if not then why should you waste your time/energy missing him?
Tru...its just gettin my heart to agree w/my head that's the problem

[KurosakiIchigo]

i got the best advice... dont take romantic advice from anyone on a forum each scenario and person is different

[kiran7862]

RD.
But he gets on RD every now n then too...

[PaiN infLictioN]

But he gets on RD every now n then too...
WHO is it?! :o

[PuNjabi_RaNi*]

just like me :afro:

:cuddle:

I was actually waitn for the lovin and you gave me it, thanks gulabo!

:kekeke: :hug:

[gorjuzkuri]

Well, hun...first decide...do you want him as a best friend...or more?

And, then...

if its as a friend...you can sit and talk with him...and tell him to forget everything and start fresh.

If you like him LIKE HIM lol...then, unfortunately...u will have to play THE GAME! lol...it doesnt always work but most of the time it does. Direct ur attention somewhere else completely. Stop bothering the guy...and like...dont call, dont i.m., dont text...no type of communication what so ever. Eventually, either he ll realize that u are worth it...or ull realize hes not.

P.S.
dont make someone your priority when they only make u their option! :D

[PaiN infLictioN]

I was actually waitn for the lovin and you gave me it, thanks gulabo!

:kekeke: :hug:
:o ....well why dont u just say so :cuddle: :buttsex: :69:



:gayfight:

[kiran7862]

WHO is it?! :o
Cant say...

[ssjasper2003]

LOL, no it was a mutual thing! But we were always classified as "friends"...iono, its hard to explain


Lol, thats life :dance3: .

Well its his choice if he doesnt want to be friends over such a thing.

[kiran7862]

Well, hun...first decide...do you want him as a best friend...or more?

And, then...

if its as a friend...you can sit and talk with him...and tell him to forget everything and start fresh.

If you like him LIKE HIM lol...then, unfortunately...u will have to play THE GAME! lol...it doesnt always work but most of the time it does. Direct ur attention somewhere else completely. Stop bothering the guy...and like...dont call, dont i.m., dont text...no type of communication what so ever. Eventually, either he ll realize that u are worth it...or ull realize hes not.

P.S.
dont make someone your priority when they only make u their option! :D
Wat if I want him as both? Like how me n him have always been?? Its weird cuz I'm usually the one who questions things between us, but I was content w/it all and was just gonna let it go how it was going n see where it went

[PaiN infLictioN]

Cant say...
.....ok :shhh:

[PuNjabi_RaNi*]

:o ....well why dont u just say so :cuddle: :buttsex: :69:



:gayfight:

:gayfight: :cuddle: :slap: :Pelvic2: :evil:


i like to mix it up a bit, make your ass confused! :evil: :P

[PaiN infLictioN]

:gayfight: :cuddle: :slap: :Pelvic2: :evil:


i like to mix it up a bit, make your ass confused! :evil: :P
as long as ya dont handcuff me to the wall :Omfg:

[PakPlaya69]

Wat if I want him as both? Like how me n him have always been?? Its weird cuz I'm usually the one who questions things between us, but I was content w/it all and was just gonna let it go how it was going n see where it went

Get over it , it wont be the same anymore , i bet you wanted him as best frined but no boy frined now that he s found somone you are loosing it all of a sudden , trust me once a guy nuderstand your dramas he moves on to the next pone ,, ITS OVERRRRRRRRRrrr

[khanvict]

Wat if I want him as both? Like how me n him have always been?? Its weird cuz I'm usually the one who questions things between us, but I was content w/it all and was just gonna let it go how it was going n see where it went

could you ever force yourself to think that he doesn't like you in that way? it's weird cause typically it's the female doing this but people will say 'i love you' and not mean it in that way. it also seems very odd that a guy wouldn't take a chance and try to take it to another level if he was truly into you. only reason i could think of that he wouldn't is that he doesn't want to kill the friendship but a) he's already keeping his distance in this manner which is kind of straining the friendship and b) again, it's usually the female with that kind of mentality - guys would usually take a chance and learn the hard way.

just a different perspective to look at it from.

[ak47kf7]

So I've known this one "friend" for like 7 yrs and we know eachother better than we know ourselves...have feelings for eachother n watever. But a few days ago, he decided that its best if we stop talkin cuz he doesnt think things will go anywhere. Iono wat to do...more than losin a potential guy, its like I lost my best friend. Its only been a few days, but I miss him like crazy cuz we used to talk pretty much every nite.

Wat should I do?? :neutral:
zindagi mein, loog aatay hai aur jaatay hai...jo taqdeer mein likha hai, waisahi hoga, koi farakh nai parta is doosti ka

[PuNjabi_RaNi*]

as long as ya dont handcuff me to the wall :Omfg:

Naw im just gonna use the bata chappal and leave my mark. :nervous:

[kiran7862]

Get over it , it wont be the same anymore , i bet you wanted him as best frined but no boy frined now that he s found somone you are loosing it all of a sudden , trust me once a guy nuderstand your dramas he moves on to the next pone ,, ITS OVERRRRRRRRRrrr
Actually I had no problem havin him as a bf, but only thing is that itd be long distance which is y we left it as it was for the longest time

[PaiN infLictioN]

Naw im just gonna use the bata chappal and leave my mark. :nervous:
OH HELL NAW :Ohno:







*jumps off balcony*

[PuNjabi_RaNi*]

Time's hard tho...wat do I do in the meantime when I hella miss him??

Concentrate on yourself in the meantime.

You have been friends for 7yrs, man that's a long time - there is nothing to worry about , just that you are out of 'routine' something which you are not used to.

[PaiN infLictioN]

zindagi mein, loog aatay hai aur jaatay hai...jo taqdeer mein likha hai, waisahi hoga, koi farakh nai parta is doosti ka
alham-dulillah! :salut:

[kiran7862]

could you ever force yourself to think that he doesn't like you in that way? it's weird cause typically it's the female doing this but people will say 'i love you' and not mean it in that way. it also seems very odd that a guy wouldn't take a chance and try to take it to another level if he was truly into you. only reason i could think of that he wouldn't is that he doesn't want to kill the friendship but a) he's already keeping his distance in this manner which is kind of straining the friendship and b) again, it's usually the female with that kind of mentality - guys would usually take a chance and learn the hard way.

just a different perspective to look at it from.
Never looked at it in that way...but if he didnt like me in that way, he wouldnt do or say half the things that he does n he wouldnt get emotional over the fone when we were talkin bout all that stuff

[ak47kf7]

alham-dulillah! :salut:
aap ho kon...yaad hai baat kiya tha apsay, naam waam sub bhool gaya...maafi cha ta hoon

[PakPlaya69]

Actually I had no problem havin him as a bf, but only thing is that itd be long distance which is y we left it as it was for the longest time

See now he s come to his senses and realised it ain goin o work , he want somone closer to him and someone he can ytouch and grab and you kno what hehehe .. so let him be , its the age as well as grow older we don put up with your dramas and bull so thats how it s goin to be h needs his space let him be

[PaiN infLictioN]

aap ho kon...yaad hai baat kiya tha apsay, naam waam sub bhool gaya...maafi cha ta hoon
mera naam hai Dirk Diggler :salut:

[ak47kf7]

mera naam hai Dirk Diggler :salut:
cheating...laykin yaad agaya kon ho aap....
bus naam abhi bhi nai yaad aaraha, aur dirk diggler ka bharossa nahi kar raha..
waisay AssalamWalikum

[PaiN infLictioN]

cheating...laykin yaad agaya kon ho aap....
bus naam abhi bhi nai yaad aaraha, aur dirk diggler ka bharossa nahi kar raha..
waisay AssalamWalikum
its Adnan :kekeke:
WalaikumAsalaam

[ak47kf7]

its Adnan :kekeke:
WalaikumAsalaam
haan haan.....Sadia kay saath baat kiya tha na humnay..shazaib bhi tha

[khanvict]

Never looked at it in that way...but if he didnt like me in that way, he wouldnt do or say half the things that he does n he wouldnt get emotional over the fone when we were talkin bout all that stuff

well, i can't speak for him or how he feels but all i know is it's not worth it to sit around waiting for someone to come to you. if he didn't pull the trigger to get with you before (& he had 7 years to do it) then it'll be his loss later down the line if he keeps things the way they are now. don't sit there and be depressed over it....i'm sure you've got more important things to focus on in your life so handle your business and when the time is right love will gravitate your way once again.

[sunny333333]

So I've known this one "friend" for like 7 yrs and we know eachother better than we know ourselves...have feelings for eachother n watever. But a few days ago, he decided that its best if we stop talkin cuz he doesnt think things will go anywhere. Iono wat to do...more than losin a potential guy, its like I lost my best friend. Its only been a few days, but I miss him like crazy cuz we used to talk pretty much every nite.

Wat should I do?? :neutral:
:think: either make things go sumwhere or find a new "friend" :Paper:

[kiran7862]

well, i can't speak for him or how he feels but all i know is it's not worth it to sit around waiting for someone to come to you. if he didn't pull the trigger to get with you before (& he had 7 years to do it) then it'll be his loss later down the line if he keeps things the way they are now. don't sit there and be depressed over it....i'm sure you've got more important things to focus on in your life so handle your business and when the time is right love will gravitate your way once again.
Wow, thats the best advice I've heard in a long time...n ur rite. Thanks guy :)

[kiran7862]

I don't wanna make excuses, baby
Won't change the fact that you're gone
But if there's something that I could do
Won't you please let me know?
Time is passing so slowly now
Guess that's my life without you
and maybe I could change my every day
But baby I don't want to

So I'll just hang around
and find some things to do
To take my mind off missing you
and I know in my heart
You can't say that you don't love me too
Please say you do

[RoMeO6969]

Kiran I :love: u :Oops:

hehe wuts up, and wow thats a tough spot to b in

[Canadian_jatti]

Not worth losing the friendship.

Get it back woman.
:werd:

[wcome2myworld]

So I've known this one "friend" for like 7 yrs and we know eachother better than we know ourselves...have feelings for eachother n watever. But a few days ago, he decided that its best if we stop talkin cuz he doesnt think things will go anywhere. Iono wat to do...more than losin a potential guy, its like I lost my best friend. Its only been a few days, but I miss him like crazy cuz we used to talk pretty much every nite.

Wat should I do?? :neutral:


You made him bored, or gave him too much attention and all he's now asking is to give him some gap, time. SO do it, give him space and he'll return back 2 ya(TRUST ME)! :-)