A friend of mines dilemna with his gf's parents

[jenaveve]

well here you go guys let me kno wat u think or if anyone can share any past experiences im posting this on behalf of a guy friend of mine i heard this is a good place to have a discussion of this sort hopefully you guys can offer some good comments/ideas/suggestions:)

so heres the deal my gf's mom has to tell her dad about me. its not that easy. her dads really strict and old fashioned. a conversation that her mom and her dad had last night basically went like this. he's like to her i dont want to take the responsibility of our daughters or something like that and shes like then why not get them married off (she was trying to tell him about me) anyways she goes on and says that when there married they can choose to go to school or not. and maybe they can find someone for themselves and then her dad said to her mom so you want them going around with 3 or 4 guys before they find the right one? so basically this scared her mom because her dad got pretty angry. its really difficult for them to tell her dad about me. since he is really strict and all. i love my gf soooooo much and im willing to do anything to be with her for our whole lives, and i mean anything i love her to death. she means the world to me and more. but this situation is really difficult has anyone been in a situation like this? how did you or your mom handle it? thanks for the help and understand.

[5jabi420]

..i've sort of been in the same situation as your gf...not as similar though
how old are yal? (you and your gf)
if your under the age of being married, then i'd suggest just wait it out. At least one parent knows...and her mom'll probably be able to break it to him easier with time.

[Gora]

please summarize next time....

[jenaveve]

..i've sort of been in the same situation as your gf...not as similar though
how old are yal? (you and your gf)
if your under the age of being married, then i'd suggest just wait it out. At least one parent knows...and her mom'll probably be able to break it to him easier with time.

well he's 22 and shes 20..i think there kind of frustrated rite now cause there relationship is at standstill they've been going out for two years now and a couple other friends of theres who r the same age are getting married so i think there like i wanna get married to ya kno? btw thanks for the replies guys

[sexy_kuta]

well he's 22 and shes 20..i think there kind of frustrated rite now cause there relationship is at standstill they've been going out for two years now and a couple other friends of theres who r the same age are getting married so i think there like i wanna get married to ya kno? btw thanks for the replies guys

its possible but EXPECT him to bust his balls if he truely wants this to go on.. if he doesnt think he can over come his parents tell him to drop his girl, so this way it wont hurt as much as down the road.

desi parents are very stubborn they wont talk to u for a few years if u dont agree with them for the slighest thing... if u wanna talk more about this.. personally, u can pm me. but tell him hes expected to bust his balls big time
i seriously hope that his girl is worth it too not sayin she isnt because i dont know her

[golds]

how long have they been dating?

[jenaveve]

how long have they been dating?

2 years

[jat_jatt_sardar]

well here you go guys let me kno wat u think or if anyone can share any past experiences im posting this on behalf of a guy friend of mine i heard this is a good place to have a discussion of this sort hopefully you guys can offer some good comments/ideas/suggestions:)

so heres the deal my gf's mom has to tell her dad about me. its not that easy. her dads really strict and old fashioned. a conversation that her mom and her dad had last night basically went like this. he's like to her i dont want to take the responsibility of our daughters or something like that and shes like then why not get them married off (she was trying to tell him about me) anyways she goes on and says that when there married they can choose to go to school or not. and maybe they can find someone for themselves and then her dad said to her mom so you want them going around with 3 or 4 guys before they find the right one? so basically this scared her mom because her dad got pretty angry. its really difficult for them to tell her dad about me. since he is really strict and all. i love my gf soooooo much and im willing to do anything to be with her for our whole lives, and i mean anything i love her to death. she means the world to me and more. but this situation is really difficult has anyone been in a situation like this? how did you or your mom handle it? thanks for the help and understand.
lol if he din;t want his daughters going with guys he should have taught him that before they went with guys lol. Hmmm I got an idea, maybe you could pretend that you are not going out, and then somehow let the dad know you like each other and want to get married? If you don;t want to get married however, and are just using her for pre-marital fun then I got no advice for you lol