Why desi male alphas wont go for desi girls

[Echelon]

As per Arun Nayar and Liz Hurley.
Has it occured to you that the upper echelon of desi bachelors (non-fob) aren't really willing to go for desi girls because previous experiences have rendered their perceptions of desi girls to be less than favourable?
Let me state the current perception:
1\ Desi girls are idealistic - ie) they require a dreamy view of perfection in order to be with someone.
2\ The above is later attributed to a feeling of nausea and liability whilst in the initial statges of the relationship. That is: "A overwhelming feeling of owing and commitment to a women whom you barely know".
3\ Desi girls continuously apprehend the requirements of marriage and the notion of 'used rag' syndrome. This causes conflict in their thought process and the way they project themselves, which adversely inflicts #2 on the male.
4\ The rampant need to express their own piety and innocence as a valuable trait. Desi alpha males perceive this as something which doesn't constitute/precede a persons worth.
5\ As a consequence of the above, desi girls are perceived as females who lack culture and identity - admirable traits which dictate a persons interest or value. Desi alpha males view this as something very derivative.

The above points seem to be some underlying paradigm in predictable desi female behaviour, so its expected that one can go on the "don't hate the playa hate the game" principle.

Discuss.

[illomatic]

yea.

most desi girls are fucked in the head.

[thebrownreason]

you've got it pinned to the point.

:idea:

[poojasxy]

zomg!!!!!

http://img243.imageshack.us/img243/2280/jaslinerj6.gif

[illomatic]

zomg!!!!!

http://img243.imageshack.us/img243/2280/jaslinerj6.gif
lol for some reason, i can picture you doing that after seeing a big dick.

[Echelon]

Personally, i'd like to fuck a desi girl for ole novelty sakes. Because I've never fucked a desi girl. But fuck, I doubt she'd be relationship material because there's 'way' better game.

They say we have a deep inner fetish with people who are culturually/facially resonating with us. Which is true, but generally I can find the same facial resonance in brazillians and other browns and I don't really find the colloquial desi traits to be something which would continuate a predictable & boring relationship.

[poojasxy]

lol for some reason, i can picture you doing that after seeing a big dick.actually i felt that way after seeing 300 last night. those dudes were FIT. even the old ones!

[freshmanik_13]

we iz the shit

[illomatic]

actually i felt that way after seeing 300 last night. those dudes were FIT. even the old ones!
they did have well defiend abs.

[Echelon]

Anyone disagree with the above contention?

[ispeakadatruth!!]

tis very true though from what i have seen here in singapore, most of the desi men in really top notch jobs/position get married to chinese women...its really rather common no one blinks an eye anymore.... :D

[Echelon]

tis very true though from what i have seen here in singapore, most of the desi men in really top notch jobs/position get married to chinese women...its really rather common no one blinks an eye anymore.... :DReally? I thought orientals are idealisitic too, but hey, they probably suffer less from the seemingly oppressive religious factors and social factors of desi women.

[ispeakadatruth!!]

Really? I thought orientals are idealisitic too, but hey, they probably suffer less from the seemingly oppressive religious factors and social factors of desi women.


really! lots of indian ministers(politicians not preachers!) here in singapore are married to chinese women and most (that i have heard of) who are in really good positions have also avoided desi women for marriage....most chinese gals i know are buddhists/taoists but are hardly religious at all...they are a highly westernised lot....at least their kiddies come out cute :D

[Echelon]

really! lots of indian ministers(politicians not preachers!) here in singapore are married to chinese women and most (that i have heard of) who are in really good positions have also avoided desi women for marriage....most chinese gals i know are buddhists/taoists but are hardly religious at all...they are a highly westernised lot....at least their kiddies come out cute :D
I can see behind their reasoning. I found east asians to be similair to desis at time. Never really found any of them interesting. They were way too robotic and almost.. humanoid.
At this rate of perception im getting married to some funky brazillian chick.

[di vinci]

am the only one here, who thinks maybe he wanted a famous hollywood celeb? a trophy wife? he getting old all the desi women his age are married!

the only fittest forty year + chokri was liz hurley, single mum with a child out of wedlock! this dude must really hate his parents :D

[Miz Jatti]

am the only one here, who thinks maybe he wanted a famous hollywood celeb? a trophy wife? he getting old all the desi women his age are married!

the only fittest forty year + chokri was liz hurley, single mum with a child out of wedlock! this dude must really hate his parents :D


idiot head, he was married to sum gori model before :slap:


ur useless on gossip :no:

[ispeakadatruth!!]

am the only one here, who thinks maybe he wanted a famous hollywood celeb? a trophy wife? he getting old all the desi women his age are married!

the only fittest forty year + chokri was liz hurley, single mum with a child out of wedlock! this dude must really hate his parents :D


isnt arun nayar half white anyways? and what does he do for a living? i thought liz hurley is much richer... :sarb:

[di vinci]

isnt arun nayar half white anyways? and what does he do for a living? i thought liz hurley is much richer... :sarb:


the dude is literally worth his weight in gold. liz is rich but he is super rich

[melquiades]

I never thought I would see the day when Liz Hurley would be described as being cultured.

Liz was at the wedding with another man's son. A man who she saw for a couple of months and a basketball game.

I dont know what constitutes an alpha male, but I would not be raising someone else's son with a woman who is 42 and whose reproductive life is finished.

[di vinci]

idiot head, he was married to sum gori model before :slap:


ur useless on gossip :no:


we only get the fuking sun paper for gossip were not priviledge like u . gq, womens world, wedding central, mail order sadar from the pind mag etc. lucky fat cow

[di vinci]

I never thought I would see the day when Liz Hurley would be described as being cultured.

Liz was at the wedding with another man's son. A man who she saw for a couple of months and a basketball game.

I dont know what constitutes an alpha male, but I would not be raising someone else's son with a woman who is 42 and whose reproductive life is finished.


i personally think ALPHA MALE IS BRAD PITT. the dudes got a young partner angela jolene with adopted kids. he got a big heart. arun is more of a biatch when it comes to the ladies, she a gold digger

[the gothman]

worthwhile desi females are a rare breed. But they are definitely out there. Not to be confused with the snotty ones who attend admirable 4 year universities. that being said, this whole "alpha male" trend is getting ridiculous.




striving for the need to be labeled "alpha" is non-alpha in and of itself.

[Echelon]

worthwhile desi females are a rare breed. But they are definitely out there. Not to be confused with the snotty ones who attend admirable 4 year universities. that being said, this whole "alpha male" trend is getting ridiculous.




striving for the need to be labeled "alpha" is non-alpha in and of itself.Alpha male is a loose but abstract concept. A better term is very eligible bachelor.


There are some attractive desi girls with good personalities, but generally, you have to say there is better game.

[dirtybrownkid]

maybe its the girls your attracting? or not attracting?

[GABROO_TOP_DA]

i goes desi :Pelvic2:

[HeAvYmAcHiNeGuN]

As per Arun Nayar and Liz Hurley.
Has it occured to you that the upper echelon of desi bachelors (non-fob) aren't really willing to go for desi girls because previous experiences have rendered their perceptions of desi girls to be less than favourable?
Let me state the current perception:
1\ Desi girls are idealistic - ie) they require a dreamy view of perfection in order to be with someone.
2\ The above is later attributed to a feeling of nausea and liability whilst in the initial statges of the relationship. That is: "A overwhelming feeling of owing and commitment to a women whom you barely know".
3\ Desi girls continuously apprehend the requirements of marriage and the notion of 'used rag' syndrome. This causes conflict in their thought process and the way they project themselves, which adversely inflicts #2 on the male.
4\ The rampant need to express their own piety and innocence as a valuable trait. Desi alpha males perceive this as something which doesn't constitute/precede a persons worth.
5\ As a consequence of the above, desi girls are perceived as females who lack culture and identity - admirable traits which dictate a persons interest or value. Desi alpha males view this as something very derivative.

The above points seem to be some underlying paradigm in predictable desi female behaviour, so its expected that one can go on the "don't hate the playa hate the game" principle.

Discuss.

Desi girls continuously apprehend the requirements of marriage and the notion of 'used rag' syndrome. This causes conflict in their thought process and the way they project themselves, which adversely inflicts #2 on the male.
this is 100% correct

[the gothman]

Alpha male is a loose but abstract concept. A better term is very eligible bachelor.


There are some attractive desi girls with good personalities, but generally, you have to say there is better game.

To me, the alpha male is the guy who goes in, fucks all the females and moves on to higher ground. While the rest get the leftovers.

its all about indifference. not being attached to the outcome. if you go out with the mindset of needing something from someone, you give out this creepy vibe. whereas if you are just this cool guy out to have fun, you will find that not only women but people in general will want to be around you. its being proactive, instead of reactive.

[Echelon]

To me, the alpha male is the guy who goes in, fucks all the females and moves on to higher ground. While the rest get the leftovers.

its all about indifference. not being attached to the outcome. if you go out with the mindset of needing something from someone, you give out this creepy vibe. whereas if you are just this cool guy out to have fun, you will find that not only women but people in general will want to be around you. its being proactive, instead of reactive.The alpha male is already at the highest ground.
But that said an alpha male shouldn't be restricted to just fucking. He should be the subject of attraction not purely because of his a certain limited set of traits. He is the entire package.
He has the power to fuck, but whether he chooses to is another question all together.

[the gothman]

The alpha male is already at the highest ground.
But that said an alpha male shouldn't be restricted to just fucking. He should be the subject of affection not purely because of his a certain limited set of traits. He is the entire package.
He has the power to fuck, but whether he chooses to is another question all together.

I highly disagree about man being at his highest ground. I think that one of the gifts we have (some may call it a curse) as humans is that we can not out-evolve ourselves. There are enough levels to keep evolving to that if you want to keep going, you could continue forever, all the way to the end of your life. if you want to have higher levels of joy, happiness, and fullfilment in life then you must continue to evolve. If you ever get to a place where everyone is kissing your ass and looks up to you and you say to yourself "I am finally here", thats when you need to kick yourself in the ass and evolve. Maybe start associating with a superior crowd that does not give two shits about your success, since they are at a much higher level.

[GABROO_TOP_DA]

i 2 busy giri fo 3 em 8-|

[King Ghidra]

tis very true though from what i have seen here in singapore, most of the desi men in really top notch jobs/position get married to chinese women...its really rather common no one blinks an eye anymore.... :D

That's because yellow women are hot

:idea:

[illin]

worthwhile desi females are a rare breed. But they are definitely out there. Not to be confused with the snotty ones who attend admirable 4 year universities.

i agree

[WildWolfdog]

Why didn't you number them in this manner 1) ... 2) ... 3) ... instead of 1/ ... 2/ ... 3/... the initial method seems more pleasing to the eye no? Tis maybe a good idea since you care quite a bit about aesthetic beauty :google:

[Clueless_uk]

As per Arun Nayar and Liz Hurley.
Has it occured to you that the upper echelon of desi bachelors (non-fob) aren't really willing to go for desi girls because previous experiences have rendered their perceptions of desi girls to be less than favourable?
Let me state the current perception:
1\ Desi girls are idealistic - ie) they require a dreamy view of perfection in order to be with someone.
2\ The above is later attributed to a feeling of nausea and liability whilst in the initial statges of the relationship. That is: "A overwhelming feeling of owing and commitment to a women whom you barely know".
3\ Desi girls continuously apprehend the requirements of marriage and the notion of 'used rag' syndrome. This causes conflict in their thought process and the way they project themselves, which adversely inflicts #2 on the male.
4\ The rampant need to express their own piety and innocence as a valuable trait. Desi alpha males perceive this as something which doesn't constitute/precede a persons worth.
5\ As a consequence of the above, desi girls are perceived as females who lack culture and identity - admirable traits which dictate a persons interest or value. Desi alpha males view this as something very derivative.

The above points seem to be some underlying paradigm in predictable desi female behaviour, so its expected that one can go on the "don't hate the playa hate the game" principle.

Discuss.

The above can also be expected from non alpha desi men; a lot of my Asian friends have started dating non desi men and I can understand why.

The non alpha desi males will have the following charesteristics;

1. They seem to place "virginity" as a must regardless of whether they are one them self.

2. The girl is a slut if she does not show any signs of piety and if she stays out later than 6.00pm in the evening.

3. She is far too westernized if she wants to work after marriage.

4. If she shows any sort of kindness it's because she "wants you".

5. "out going" girls are only good for shagging.

There are more....but I think this list is enough.

[Clueless_uk]

Desi girls continuously apprehend the requirements of marriage and the notion of 'used rag' syndrome. This causes conflict in their thought process and the way they project themselves, which adversely inflicts #2 on the male.
this is 100% correct

They behave this way due to a number of factors - they way they have been brought up, family pressure, the need to live up to a certain expectation for outsiders (friends, relatives ect). And this is because a lot of desi men out there are still very narrow minded and unwilling to understand that a women is more than just about bearing children.

A white man couldn't give a toss if a desi female had a few sexual partners - a typical desi man could not accept that and would rather not know about it.

[nayeemx33]

A white man couldn't give a toss if a desi female had a few sexual partners - a typical desi man could not accept that and would rather not know about it.

I think you're muslim.
Why is it wrong to look for a virign wife?

[Clueless_uk]

I think you're muslim.
Why is wrong to look for a virign wife?

A good Muslim does not question a females chastity. You should know that if you are Muslim.

[Geezer]

A good Muslim does not question a females chastity. You should know that if you are Muslim.

Dont talk back to him virginwoman *slap* lol

[nayeemx33]

A good Muslim does not question a females chastity. You should know that if you are Muslim.

I wouldn't ever ask her that.
I would expect her to be honest with me that she didn't live a double life.

[Drumline]

In my opinion, an alpha male functionally has his pick of the best women with the least baggage.

Most desi girls don't really fall into that category, but then neither do a lot of white girls.

But this is still a very odd thread.

[WildWolfdog]

A good Muslim does not question a females chastity. You should know that if you are Muslim.

Err actually from what I know, according to the Quran it's recommended - chaste for chaste (that's not the actual verse but i don't want to quote it incase I mess up a word or two) - but anyway, the Quran advises Muslims to find a virgin woman as a wife if the man himself is a virgin, and vice versa. At the same time, it doesn't say that people who've had pre-marital sex should die and be jailed or anything of the sort - but virgins for virgins.

Please don't speak on behalf of all muslims if you aren't fully informed, regardless of if you're a muslim or not. (unless of course I'm mistaken and you weren't saying anything related to what I just said above, in which case I apologize).

[.devil.]

arun nayar is an alpha male??
i think rajnikanth and chiranjeevi are better alpha males than him.

[yasser7898]

Plus desi girls tend to be hairy and not groom. I dont wanna feeel like im making love to a bear.

[Clueless_uk]

Dont talk back to him virginwoman *slap* lol

U will burn in hell for slapping me :squint:

[Clueless_uk]

I wouldn't ever ask her that.
I would expect her to be honest with me that she didn't live a double life.

There is no requirement for a man or women to expose their past to a potential partner. In fact, this is one of the few situations where they may even lie about it so long as they intend to lead a good life in the present.

[shaheenara]

we iz the shit
amen to that 'nigg-uh'

[Clueless_uk]

In my opinion, an alpha male functionally has his pick of the best women with the least baggage.

Most desi girls don't really fall into that category, but then neither do a lot of white girls.

But this is still a very odd thread.

Indeed.

There are few men without baggages too. Most usually carry their family on their shoulders - not that it is a bad thing. But what bothers me is when they also look after their much capable brothers like they are helpless beings.

[awesome214]

As per Arun Nayar and Liz Hurley.
Has it occured to you that the upper echelon of desi bachelors (non-fob) aren't really willing to go for desi girls because previous experiences have rendered their perceptions of desi girls to be less than favourable?
Let me state the current perception:
1\ Desi girls are idealistic - ie) they require a dreamy view of perfection in order to be with someone.
2\ The above is later attributed to a feeling of nausea and liability whilst in the initial statges of the relationship. That is: "A overwhelming feeling of owing and commitment to a women whom you barely know".
3\ Desi girls continuously apprehend the requirements of marriage and the notion of 'used rag' syndrome. This causes conflict in their thought process and the way they project themselves, which adversely inflicts #2 on the male.
4\ The rampant need to express their own piety and innocence as a valuable trait. Desi alpha males perceive this as something which doesn't constitute/precede a persons worth.
5\ As a consequence of the above, desi girls are perceived as females who lack culture and identity - admirable traits which dictate a persons interest or value. Desi alpha males view this as something very derivative.

The above points seem to be some underlying paradigm in predictable desi female behaviour, so its expected that one can go on the "don't hate the playa hate the game" principle.

Discuss.

Are you kidding? Desi girls are the best.

If by alpha male you mean a guy that is going to just have sex with a girl and then leave... then yeah, desi girls in general are NOT what the alpha is looking for.

Why do I feel Desi girls the best?
(I have dated 3 white girls, 1 korean, 2 desi girls... and gone on a lot of dates with other races too)

my PERCEPTIONS are....
1) Better Education: on average more intelligent & value knowledge (i can show stats on this)
2) Economic Stability: on average come from more stable family life... especially financially (i can show some stats on this too)
3) they are a lot more faithful, raised that way... stick by you thick and thin. (just my perception)
4) they are more likely to wait for marriage to have sex, (only a benefit if this is what you did also)

IF you got burned by a desi girl that wouldn't hop into the sack with you don't let your wounded pride allow you to bash on these chicks.


An alpha male is the one who has a high level of 'evolutionary fitness' - essentially he has the most offspring that are doing well...
He is a leader, he is a guide & role model... he protects his own...

What an alpha male is NOT is some guy that goes to random clubs and has sex with a ton of women but never actually has kids or brings home the dough. Lack of intention to have kids is evolutionary suicide.

I hear white guys complain about how all the white girls are huge ho's... my best friend (who is white) loves indian women, and I try to set him up with them b/c he loves & respects indian culture too... (this is all anecdotal obviously)

[awesome214]

Plus desi girls tend to be hairy and not groom. I dont wanna feeel like im making love to a bear.

LOLz

[whiteass]

As per Arun Nayar and Liz Hurley.
Has it occured to you that the upper echelon of desi bachelors (non-fob) aren't really willing to go for desi girls because previous experiences have rendered their perceptions of desi girls to be less than favourable?
Let me state the current perception:
1\ Desi girls are idealistic - ie) they require a dreamy view of perfection in order to be with someone.
2\ The above is later attributed to a feeling of nausea and liability whilst in the initial statges of the relationship. That is: "A overwhelming feeling of owing and commitment to a women whom you barely know".
3\ Desi girls continuously apprehend the requirements of marriage and the notion of 'used rag' syndrome. This causes conflict in their thought process and the way they project themselves, which adversely inflicts #2 on the male.
4\ The rampant need to express their own piety and innocence as a valuable trait. Desi alpha males perceive this as something which doesn't constitute/precede a persons worth.
5\ As a consequence of the above, desi girls are perceived as females who lack culture and identity - admirable traits which dictate a persons interest or value. Desi alpha males view this as something very derivative.

The above points seem to be some underlying paradigm in predictable desi female behaviour, so its expected that one can go on the "don't hate the playa hate the game" principle.

Discuss.

Wise words.

[poojasxy]

good for arun. he is absolutely minging. liz is HOT. plus she doesnt have any excessive facial/body hair problems like most brown girls do.

[whiteass]

you've got it pinned to the point.

:idea:

No doubt about that. :D

[nayeemx33]

Are you kidding? Desi girls are the best.

If by alpha male you mean a guy that is going to just have sex with a girl and then leave... then yeah, desi girls in general are NOT what the alpha is looking for.

Why do I feel Desi girls the best?
(I have dated 3 white girls, 1 korean, 2 desi girls... and gone on a lot of dates with other races too)

my PERCEPTIONS are....
1) Better Education: on average more intelligent & value knowledge (i can show stats on this)
2) Economic Stability: on average come from more stable family life... especially financially (i can show some stats on this too)
3) they are a lot more faithful, raised that way... stick by you thick and thin. (just my perception)
4) they are more likely to wait for marriage to have sex, (only a benefit if this is what you did also)

IF you got burned by a desi girl that wouldn't hop into the sack with you don't let your wounded pride allow you to bash on these chicks.


An alpha male is the one who has a high level of 'evolutionary fitness' - essentially he has the most offspring that are doing well...
He is a leader, he is a guide & role model... he protects his own...

What an alpha male is NOT is some guy that goes to random clubs and has sex with a ton of women but never actually has kids or brings home the dough. Lack of intention to have kids is evolutionary suicide.

I hear white guys complain about how all the white girls are huge ho's... my best friend (who is white) loves indian women, and I try to set him up with them b/c he loves & respects indian culture too... (this is all anecdotal obviously)

Thank You for being honest.

[whiteass]

zomg!!!!!

http://img243.imageshack.us/img243/2280/jaslinerj6.gif

what wrong with that girl? why is she all :hyper:

[yasser7898]

LOLz

TRU STORY

[whiteass]

Anyone disagree with the above contention?

Nope :D

[Clueless_uk]

Err actually from what I know, according to the Quran it's recommended - chaste for chaste (that's not the actual verse but i don't want to quote it incase I mess up a word or two) - but anyway, the Quran advises Muslims to find a virgin woman as a wife if the man himself is a virgin, and vice versa. At the same time, it doesn't say that people who've had pre-marital sex should die and be jailed or anything of the sort - but virgins for virgins.

Please don't speak on behalf of all muslims if you aren't fully informed, regardless of if you're a muslim or not. (unless of course I'm mistaken and you weren't saying anything related to what I just said above, in which case I apologize).


I was not speaking for all Muslims.

Dude - I know that the "virgin for a virgin" scenario is advised, but it is not a requirement.

The Prophet only had one virgin wife.

And anyhow, unless a person's past was very drastic to the point that it can affect the potential couple's future...what does it have to do with the price of eggs?

[Tushy_eyez]

yea.

most desi girls are fucked in the head.

hahaha most likely out of response of a guy head fucking them :p

[Clueless_uk]

I wouldn't ever ask her that.
I would expect her to be honest with me that she didn't live a double life.

What?

In what way will she be leading a double life if she chooses to hide information that u will only use to judge her credibility as a good person? If anything she would be stupid to tell u about a silly "mistake". If you could think outside the box - more women will be honest

[yasser7898]

What?

In what way will she be leading a double life if she chooses to hide information that u will only use to judge her credibility as a good person? If anything she would be stupid to tell u about a silly "mistake". If you could think outside the box - more women will be honest


U neeed a cock in ur mouth

[nayeemx33]

What?

In what way will she be leading a double life if she chooses to hide information that u will only use to judge her credibility as a good person? If anything she would be stupid to tell u about a silly "mistake". If you could think outside the box - more women will be honest

I don't care what she did in the past.
I care about what happens now and the future.

[nayeemx33]

U neeed a cock in ur mouth

Shut up if you don't have anything decent to say.

[yasser7898]

Shut up if you don't have anything decent to say.


Calm down man.

[ewwwww]

i hate that whole Im-so-innocent attitude of desi girls. You girls come off as ignorant & stupid, NOT cute and sweet.

[Tushy_eyez]

to make the generalisation that all white girls are whores and all desi girls are fucked up is just stupid and ignorant. :neutral: there is good and bad in every culture, it's all about the individual.

[ilyas@!!oops!!]

Arun Nayar is one ugly fucker!!! :Puke: :Puke:

[ilyas@!!oops!!]

to make the generalisation that all white girls are whores and all desi girls are fucked up is just stupid and ignorant. :neutral: there is good and bad in every culture, it's all about the individual.
:werd: :werd:

[Tigr]

Another thing that annoys me about some desi girls is that they give it up rather easily to non desi guys...while the desi has to work like crazy for the same shit. Its like discrimination. I don't want to work that hard for that poon tang and when I decide its time to move on, I don't want the guilt of the world on me. The desi guys that has a choice...usually chooses a non desi girl for that reason. Its the path of least resistance to the poon tang (I hate the word poon tang...gotta come up with something else gina, gold pot?...)

[whiteass]

To me, the alpha male is the guy who goes in, fucks all the females and moves on to higher ground. While the rest get the leftovers.

its all about indifference. not being attached to the outcome. if you go out with the mindset of needing something from someone, you give out this creepy vibe. whereas if you are just this cool guy out to have fun, you will find that not only women but people in general will want to be around you. its being proactive, instead of reactive.

very informative :neutral:

[whiteass]

That's because yellow women are hot

:idea:

yellow women? :sarb:

[whiteass]

The above can also be expected from non alpha desi men; a lot of my Asian friends have started dating non desi men and I can understand why.

The non alpha desi males will have the following charesteristics;

1. They seem to place "virginity" as a must regardless of whether they are one them self.

2. The girl is a slut if she does not show any signs of piety and if she stays out later than 6.00pm in the evening.

3. She is far too westernized if she wants to work after marriage.

4. If she shows any sort of kindness it's because she "wants you".

5. "out going" girls are only good for shagging.

There are more....but I think this list is enough.





:roflbow:

[sameer]

fyi nayar is half german

[nayeemx33]

What about Desi alpha females then? Do you think they're going to go for Desi guys? :kekeke:
http://forums.ratedesi.com/showthread.php?t=214586

[whiteass]

Plus desi girls tend to be hairy and not groom. I dont wanna feeel like im making love to a bear.

:roflbow: :roflbow:

[Rogue]

What about Desi alpha females then? Do you think they're going to go for Desi guys? :kekeke::werd:

A majority of the desi men can't deal with all the insecurities they'd encounter with any of the qualities even remotely close to a desi alpha female for very long, and i'm sure that a desi alpha female would be well aware of this, too.

[WildWolfdog]

I was not speaking for all Muslims.

Dude - I know that the "virgin for a virgin" scenario is advised, but it is not a requirement.

The Prophet only had one virgin wife.

And anyhow, unless a person's past was very drastic to the point that it can affect the potential couple's future...what does it have to do with the price of eggs?

Hmm, there seems to be some sort of misunderstanding. When I was talking about the virgin-for-virgin, I didn't mean that Quran wishes us to exclude everyone who isn't a non-virgin (people who have been married before and divorced, or were raped, or their spouse passed away) solely because they're not virgins - I meant to say that according to my interpretation of the verses, it's not recommended to marry a non-virgin who consensually and willing had pre-marital sex.

Yeah, that seems about right (again, from what I know).

[Drumline]

Desi guys would be intimidated by a Desi female alpha, or they would just want her for a side dish and fail.

You got your new sig from existentialist, didn't you? :squint:

[Drumline]

Desi chicks love me. I'm more than qualified to handle an 'alpha desi girl'.

[whiteass]

i hate that whole Im-so-innocent attitude of desi girls. You girls come off as ignorant & stupid, NOT cute and sweet.

:rofl:

[Drumline]

I'm starting to lack creativity these days. I just mooch off of people.

Hey..she gave me permission. ;)

moocher :no:

Where is she these days? We're missing a certain amount of sleazy inputs on the fourms. :kekeke:

[whiteass]

Arun Nayar is one ugly fucker!!! :Puke: :Puke:

That's not a nice thing......ah what the heck :rofl:

[whiteass]

Another thing that annoys me about some desi girls is that they give it up rather easily to non desi guys...while the desi has to work like crazy for the same shit. Its like discrimination. I don't want to work that hard for that poon tang and when I decide its time to move on, I don't want the guilt of the world on me. The desi guys that has a choice...usually chooses a non desi girl for that reason. Its the path of least resistance to the poon tang (I hate the word poon tang...gotta come up with something else gina, gold pot?...)

:werd:

[Drumline]

You do realize that if you weren't a med student, things might be very different from you. :kekeke: Sorry. :(

:slap2:

Are you saying that you're just materialistic? I'm a prize to be won?

[whiteass]

:werd:

A majority of the desi men can't deal with all the insecurities they'd encounter with any of the qualities even remotely close to a desi alpha female for very long, and i'm sure that a desi alpha female would be well aware of this, too.

:blahblah:

[Rogue]

Desi guys would be intimidated by a Desi female alpha, or they would just want her for a side dish and fail.indeed. i think most, if not all, desi females have already experienced the hyprocrisy of most desi men, especially those who do not make an effort of practicing what they preach ... projecting demands on others which they fail to meet themselves.

I definitely could write a whole list of my own experiences which I'm sure a lot of other females in here have already encountered or sadly, will come to encounter, but it'd be pointless because it won't change anything.

But this much is true, being an alert female (regardless of ethnicity) who is well balanced between her thoughts and emotions, who can be independent and openminded in her views who can maintain her own individuality whilst respecting others, especially...a woman who knows what she wants and what she definitely doesn't want and won't bother settling for anything less....it all sure helps filter a lot of crap out and saves a lot of resentment and grief from taking place.

A woman like that will definitely know how to appreciate someone worthwhile who knows how to appreciate her.

[TheLoneAvenger]

There is no requirement for a man or women to expose their past to a potential partner. In fact, this is one of the few situations where they may even lie about it so long as they intend to lead a good life in the present.

Why would you (not you specifically) get married to someone who may have a big problem with your past? With the possible chance that one's actions could come up in the course of a marriage and mess with the marriage dynamics, it seems like an unnecessary risk

Everyone makes mistakes but to discount one's actions completely is dumb.

Besides, in this day, it's not hard to find someone who shares a similar past to oneself.

[mp3]

Why do desis guys and girls have such issues about eachother. Nothing wrong with having a non-desi partner. But I do prefer a desi girl. I agree with some of the statements but we all got faults. Overall a desi girl would fit in with my type of lifestyle.

[Ash_s2002]

yea.

most desi girls are fucked in the head.
:werd:

[Spiky]

I have only met two desi girls from my town and both of em were serious whores. I'd rather not get teh superaids.

[Monica152]

y do gay desi motherfuckers
always bull shit about desi girls when their fagets themselves
i jus wanna curse at u
for makin another gay ass thread about desi girls
cuz whe u get married to a gay ass cracker bitch nd she cheats on u
ill be the one laughing


nd now that i let that out u can continue whining about us and i cud careless

[Clueless_uk]

U neeed a cock in ur mouth

U need to think with the head on your shoulders cunt.

[Clueless_uk]

I don't care what she did in the past.
I care about what happens now and the future.

So whether she is a virgin or not is insignificant. What matters is how she is as a person.

[jat_jatt_sardar]

good for arun. he is absolutely minging. liz is HOT. plus she doesnt have any excessive facial/body hair problems like most brown girls do.
well that is not totally true, liz is a load of make-up, one of director saw her without make up round the trailers on a set, and said she looked horrible. lol

[Clueless_uk]

Why would you (not you specifically) get married to someone who may have a big problem with your past? With the possible chance that one's actions could come up in the course of a marriage and mess with the marriage dynamics, it seems like an unnecessary risk

Everyone makes mistakes but to discount one's actions completely is dumb.

Besides, in this day, it's not hard to find someone who shares a similar past to oneself.

Trust me dude, even non-virgin guys in this day and age with a decent education still think like they are living in a village in desi land; they expect a grown 28 yr old women in a western country to be a pure virgin.

If u meet through an arranged marriage disclosing your past not only puts u at risk of ending the marriage b4 is even starts but also having your past publicised to the entire community.

Obviously meeting som1 on your own initiative is fine - if u knw the person well enough to know they won't judge u by ur past...then it is all good.

[Clueless_uk]

Hmm, there seems to be some sort of misunderstanding. When I was talking about the virgin-for-virgin, I didn't mean that Quran wishes us to exclude everyone who isn't a non-virgin (people who have been married before and divorced, or were raped, or their spouse passed away) solely because they're not virgins - I meant to say that according to my interpretation of the verses, it's not recommended to marry a non-virgin who consensually and willing had pre-marital sex.

Yeah, that seems about right (again, from what I know).

I know it is not recommended. But then it is also recommended that men only marry one women. I don't see many adhering to that - do u?

Besides - I believe if u knw the person made a mistake in the past and u can look past that - then u are the better person.

[Clueless_uk]

What about Desi alpha females then? Do you think they're going to go for Desi guys? :kekeke:

They don't. My very independent friend has opted for a white Scottish bloke :neutral:

[TheLoneAvenger]

Trust me dude, even non-virgin guys in this day and age with a decent education still think like they are living in a village in desi land; they expect a grown 28 yr old women in a western country to be a pure virgin.


I'm skeptical of this claim. I know of some Muslim desi males who've gotten around and now that they're of marriage age, they've indicated that they aren't too picky on a girls past.

As to being a 28 year old woman in a western country. If one is a Muslim and feels their desires are so strong that they think they'll resort to premarital sex, get married. It isn't exactly rocket science.


If u meet through an arranged marriage disclosing your past not only puts u at risk of ending the marriage b4 is even starts but also having your past publicised to the entire community.

If a guy isn't willing to marry a girl because he found out she has a past, how would hiding it be of any benefit? What if it comes out a year after they get married? He's going to feel lied to/betrayed and the marriage is going to take a hit.

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I don't think it's unreasonable for a virgin wanting to marry a virgin. Lying about that type of thing only causes the marriage to have a shaky foundation from the start.

[Drumline]

Everybody wants financial security. At least the people I know. I admit I wouldn't be too appealing either among professional men if I was just a highschool dropout.

Golddigger. :kekeke:

You're all like that for saying i wouldn't be as popular if i wasn't a doc

*crosses Kama and women of the same mindset off the list of potentials*

[Drumline]

Well, you're going to be leaving in May..:( Long distances relationships are tough. :(

I see.

Only in it for what you can get :squint:

[dr_sinister1001]

Yeesh, and they say Plato was a bore.

:idea:

[Clueless_uk]

I'm skeptical of this claim. I know of some Muslim desi males who've gotten around and now that they're of marriage age, they've indicated that they aren't too picky on a girls past.

As to being a 28 year old woman in a western country. If one is a Muslim and feels their desires are so strong that they think they'll resort to premarital sex, get married. It isn't exactly rocket science.




If a guy isn't willing to marry a girl because he found out she has a past, how would hiding it be of any benefit? What if it comes out a year after they get married? He's going to feel lied to/betrayed and the marriage is going to take a hit.

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I don't think it's unreasonable for a virgin wanting to marry a virgin. Lying about that type of thing only causes the marriage to have a shaky foundation from the start.


I am not promoting pre-marital sex.

I am simply saying that I find it disturbing that some men can't excuse a females past when their own is not squeaky clean. I say this through experience. I have met a few idiots. I dn't say all men are like this.

You see, you have to see it from the women's point of view. She has a lot more to lose than a man. If I was a man, and my wife told me 10 years later she once slept with som1 when she was 16. I wouldn't give a damn. even if I found out later - because it is in the past! And if the info was that important to me I would make it clear before the marriage and say how I feel about the topic so she would feel compelled to tell. In that situation if a women still hides the info...then it's not a good choice. If she can trust him, she should tell. But again - I don't think such info is crucial...unless she was as crazy as a hoe.

[TheLoneAvenger]

You see, you have to see it from the women's point of view. She has a lot more to lose than a man. If I was a man, and my wife told me 10 years later she once slept with som1 when she was 16. I wouldn't give a damn. even if I found out later - because it is in the past! And if the info was that important to me I would make it clear before the marriage and say how I feel about the topic so she would feel compelled to tell. In that situation if a women still hides the info...then it's not a good choice. If she can trust him, she should tell. But again - I don't think such info is crucial...unless she was as crazy as a hoe.

I can see your point. As for your scenario, it depends. If I made it clear before marriage that I was a virgin and that I wanted to marry someone who was the same also, and she lied, and the truth came out 10 years later into the marriage. I would feel lied to and it would change how I felt at least a bit.

If I never even mentioned it beforehand, then I think it's safe to assume that I wouldn't care what happened in the past.

As for being a "crazy hoe". That's pretty subjective. What's a hoe? Having sex with 1 person, 10 people, or 100 people? It's easier to just categorize it into either none or all.

Your magenta font makes me want to stab my eyes out.

[Sweet_LiL_Hunnie]

ech sometimes i read your topics and i wonder how many desi women pissed you off in this or maybe even your past lives to make you such a bitter desi man that feels the need to always point fingers towards desi women and talk a lot of shit about us.

[Clueless_uk]

I can see your point. As for your scenario, it depends. If I made it clear before marriage that I was a virgin and that I wanted to marry someone who was the same also, and she lied, and the truth came out 10 years later into the marriage. I would feel lied to and it would change how I felt at least a bit.

If I never even mentioned it beforehand, then I think it's safe to assume that I wouldn't care what happened in the past.

As for being a "crazy hoe". That's pretty subjective. What's a hoe? Having sex with 1 person, 10 people, or 100 people? It's easier to just categorize it into either none or all.

Your magenta font makes me want to stab my eyes out.

Well that is your personal stance and there is nothing wrong with it. We all have our own preferences as to what is right and wrong. To me, it is not a big issue so long there is a valid reason for it.

I do think very highly of people who can look past such issues though.

"hoe" I thought was a term used for prostitutes. But it is used for women who wear even make-up these days. My apologies for trying a short cut. I am referring to female "players" or female who take pleasure in casual sex with almost anyone.

I never make allowances for any1 with my pink font.

But I will today....consider yourself lucky! :p

[TheLoneAvenger]

I never make allowances for any1 with my pink font.

But I will today....consider yourself lucky! :p

I truly feel blessed.

[Drumline]

lol I hope you know I'm just messing. :kekeke: I'm such a joker on RD. :no:

I took it seriously, and now my heart is broken.

Thanks Kama, it'll never heal now.

[Drumline]

That reminds me....I need to go read your response to me "hiring strippers to tie you up" in your thread. :hyper:

What thread? What response? did somebody say stippers? :anxious:

[m0narch]

"As a consequence of the above, desi girls are perceived as females who lack culture and identity - admirable traits which dictate a persons interest or value. Desi alpha males view this as something very derivative."

i didnt recognise any of these 'traits' then it all made sense when i say the last part (above).

what do you consider 'culture' and 'identity'?

[Drumline]

In that case, forget whatever I said. I will take you to a strip club to make it up. :hyper:

Strippers!! dutty dutty strippers!! :cheers:

Will i need to keep you out of the champagne room?

[Drumline]

No. Strippers are mesmerized by the fact that I'm the first Indian girl to show up at a joint, and I bet they brag to all of their friends that they gave an Indian chick a lap dance. :yes:

hot!

:bowdown:

[poojasxy]

I don't find Arun Nayer attractive.neither do i. he kinda looks like an indian version of peter brady.

he is not a stud in my books. he's lucky to be getting tail from liz hurley.

[whiteass]

Trust me dude, even non-virgin guys in this day and age with a decent education still think like they are living in a village in desi land; they expect a grown 28 yr old women in a western country to be a pure virgin.

If u meet through an arranged marriage disclosing your past not only puts u at risk of ending the marriage b4 is even starts but also having your past publicised to the entire community.

Obviously meeting som1 on your own initiative is fine - if u knw the person well enough to know they won't judge u by ur past...then it is all good.

You make it sound like all women are slappers. :neutral:

[Drumline]

:cool:

what other hot things are you into?

[whiteass]

I'm skeptical of this claim. I know of some Muslim desi males who've gotten around and now that they're of marriage age, they've indicated that they aren't too picky on a girls past.

As to being a 28 year old woman in a western country. If one is a Muslim and feels their desires are so strong that they think they'll resort to premarital sex, get married. It isn't exactly rocket science.




If a guy isn't willing to marry a girl because he found out she has a past, how would hiding it be of any benefit? What if it comes out a year after they get married? He's going to feel lied to/betrayed and the marriage is going to take a hit.

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I don't think it's unreasonable for a virgin wanting to marry a virgin. Lying about that type of thing only causes the marriage to have a shaky foundation from the start.

Exactly :neutral:

[Drumline]

What do you define as "hot"? :dunno:

I admit though I get bored after 30 min. at a strip club, unless I'm drunk with a bunch of friends. :kekeke:

Would you grope one of the stippers? :kekeke:

[whiteass]

desi girls got :Owned:

:dance3:

[Drumline]

Hey I don't like being a bad girl that would get in trouble. :squint:

Would you grope em? :p

:shhh:

[Drumline]

Sexual harrasser! :eek:

You've craving some of my sexual harassment

[Echelon]

ech sometimes i read your topics and i wonder how many desi women pissed you off in this or maybe even your past lives to make you such a bitter desi man that feels the need to always point fingers towards desi women and talk a lot of shit about us.This is entirely bullshit and a stupid misconception.
I'll explain as follows:
I view women as a business proposal.
1\ The amount of investment required
2\ The potential results
4\ Whether its feasible
5\ Whether im interested in its business area
6\ The liabilities attached

All the above determine how attractive a business proposal is.

When I weigh other females in comparison to desi girls, they are a much more attractive alternative and you definately reap better rewards. You are getting far better attributes with less liability & effort. This of course is a generalisation. But generalisation is what determines peoples subconscious expectations.

I don't try and stigamtize every single desi girl I meet. I give her the opportunity to present herself. But I can tell you 9 out of 10 times, her actions are way too typical of behaviour outlined in my initial post. So excuse me if I was pointing out a simple fact. No one has yet to debunk this theory because they all know its true and thus, it resonates.

Rather than look at my own personal reasons for making this thread, argue against the contention.

Apparently someone said desi girls are well smart and educated. If this is the case and they disagree with the main contention of the post, then address the matters firmly. If not then I can assume that the main contention is well supported and the only thing they have is trying to attack my motives personally, which is stupid, imo.

[Echelon]

1) Better Education: on average more intelligent & value knowledge (i can show stats on this)
2) Economic Stability: on average come from more stable family life... especially financially (i can show some stats on this too)
3) they are a lot more faithful, raised that way... stick by you thick and thin. (just my perception)
4) they are more likely to wait for marriage to have sex, (only a benefit if this is what you did also)

1) No, I think this is entirely false. If anything, desi girls are much more robotic in terms of intelligence ie) they can complete strict homework duties which involve a lot of effort, but in comparative terms of cultured intelligence, they are about average. They are robotic in their academic efforts due to social pressures to do well.
2) Okay, this has no real precedence for me, nor should it really have too much precedence for generally wealthy alpha males.
3) I agree, but generally this contract, comes with major liabilities.
4) So when it comes to this position, why would an alpha male wait and hold his ground with a woman who has semi admirable traits? Again, their is a constant need to re-evaluate his current position. Alpha males will always apprehend #4 and look into the feasibility. Because there is a lot of game, the desi alternative isn't exactly desirable.

[Mjfan23]

I never thought I would see the day when Liz Hurley would be described as being cultured.

Liz was at the wedding with another man's son. A man who she saw for a couple of months and a basketball game.

I dont know what constitutes an alpha male, but I would not be raising someone else's son with a woman who is 42 and whose reproductive life is finished.
with modern fertility drugs, women can have kids much later, besides women reach menopause usually in their 50's anyways, so she got a good 8 years left.


anyways too much drama involved with desi girls, they actually believe the bollywood crap about true love and shit. true love is BS for most people.

[TheLoneAvenger]

with modern fertility drugs, women can have kids much later, besides women reach menopause usually in their 50's anyways, so she got a good 8 years left.


anyways too much drama involved with desi girls, they actually believe the bollywood crap about true love and shit. true love is BS for most people.

Saying she has a good 8 years is dumb. With modern medicine, she has a shot at getting another kid, but the chance of her kid having some developmental abnormality is fairly high. Something like 1 in 60 for Down Syndrome. Probably higher for other abnormalities.

http://www.medscape.com/viewarticle/496962

[Mjfan23]

Where are these people? I always got called white-washed by Desi guys for not liking the plots of Bollywood movies.
obviously I wasnt talking about every girl, but the ones I run into have totally different ideals than me, and its like sandpaper rubbing together, too much friction.

Im looking for a girls that puts family first since when I have a family that will be the most important thing to me.

so she can have a career or whatever but its cant be prioritized over the kids or something. The lack of parental attention really fucks the kids up.


anyways, I see its getting harder to find a chick that doesnt drink. That's something that just won't work for me. I can go out with a drinker, but I refuse to marry a chcik like that.

[Existentialist]

Hahahaha.

Edit: Biggest load of psycho babble ever. It's funny you justify your crap views with more crap. For someone who's meant to be "open minded" you've really narrowed your scope in thinking. You were better off saying "brazillian girls are more aesthetically appealing to me therefore I rather fuck their brains out" Perfectly valid. :neutral:

[subaru]

Hahahaha.

Edit: Biggest load of psycho babble ever. It's funny you justify your crap views with more crap. For someone who's meant to be "open minded" you've really narrowed your scope in thinking. You were better off saying "brazillian girls are more aesthetically appealing to me therefore I rather fuck their brains out" Perfectly valid. :neutral:

its true :hand:

[madam_jade]

Hahahaha.

Edit: Biggest load of psycho babble ever. It's funny you justify your crap views with more crap. For someone who's meant to be "open minded" you've really narrowed your scope in thinking. You were better off saying "brazillian girls are more aesthetically appealing to me therefore I rather fuck their brains out" Perfectly valid. :neutral:

Not that I know what's going on or am taking sides, but what's wrong with that?

[subaru]

Not to mention.. theres always DESI DRAMA, between two families.

the wifes side and the husbands side.

[nayeemx33]

Not to mention.. theres always DESI DRAMA, between two families.

the wifes side and the husbands side.

All families have drama.

[subaru]

All families have drama.

yeah and desi familes.. are like HYPER INFLATED drama.

[logik]

Personally, i'd like to fuck a desi girl for ole novelty sakes. Because I've never fucked a desi girl. But fuck, I doubt she'd be relationship material because there's 'way' better game.

They say we have a deep inner fetish with people who are culturually/facially resonating with us. Which is true, but generally I can find the same facial resonance in brazillians and other browns and I don't really find the colloquial desi traits to be something which would continuate a predictable & boring relationship.

i agree with most of your post dude. But not all desi girls are like but, but most of the desi girls that aren't like what you wrote don't even look like desi girls to begin with.

also your really not missing anything. desi girls are a boring fuck. the most boring if i do say.

[subaru]

i agree with most of your post dude. But not all desi girls are like but, but most of the desi girls that aren't like what you wrote don't even look like desi girls to begin with.

also your really not missing anything. desi girls are a boring fuck. the most boring if i do say.


I totallly AGREE!!!.. seriously you got it pinned to the board

[logik]

I totallly AGREE!!!.. seriously you got it pinned to the board

and on top of that, they will not even represent the "desiness"

but, mind you there are some hot desi girls that do represent but a very minute bunch.

[subaru]

and on top of that, they will not even represent the "desiness"

but, mind you there are some hot desi girls that do represent but a very minute bunch.

yeah its like finding a needle in a haystack.. way 2 much effort.. some of us get lucky.. and well the rest of us are stuck with drama for the rest of our lives.. i def would prefer a Half and Half.. idiot me let one slip away =/

[Existentialist]

its true :hand:

It's a very shallow spectrum of girls which do not represent the true majority, whom might I add, you dumbly chose to associate and go out with. The fault is partly your own. It's as stupid as generalising and saying all desi men have small dicks.

This mentality from desi males basically breeds this crap in the first place to intimidate desi women who sorry to say, just are punchbags that take this shit and shut up like brainwashed sheep. The white women have minds of their own [feminists? lmao] to pack up and leave this bullshit if such occurence happens to them. So keep churning this pro-gay alpha desi male bullshit over and over again, we'll see how many females you can keep at the end of the day.

Most of what* you desi men do is constantly put down desi females but forget the vagina you came from was what? DESI. Have a little respect and faith maybe one day you'll be pleasantly surprised.

[Existentialist]

Not that I know what's going on or am taking sides, but what's wrong with that?

Nothing wrong with that, just by Echelon's objective standards, which I find are full of contradictory jack-ass crap, he might as well of said that. We'd of graciously accepted his point of view.

[subaru]

It's a very shallow spectrum of girls which do not represent the true majority, whom might I add, you dumbly chose to associate and go out with. The fault is partly your own. It's as stupid as generalising and saying all desi men have small dicks.

This mentality from desi males basically breeds this crap in the first place to intimidate desi women who sorry to say, just are punchbags that take this shit and shut up like brainwashed sheep. The white women have minds of their own [feminists? lmao] to pack up and leave this bullshit if such occurence happens to them. So keep churning this pro-gay alpha desi male bullshit over and over again, we'll see how many females you can keep at the end of the day.

Most of what* you desi men do is constantly put down desi females but forget the vagina you came from was what? DESI. Have a little respect and faith maybe one day you'll be pleasantly surprised.


i don't put em down, i'm just saying alot of you are the same. guys 2..

we're both 2 blame.. both guys and girls.. but i mean why must we all be so generic in alot of the traits.

like there isn't a hell alot of variations in personality. very minor ones

[nayeemx33]

yeah and desi familes.. are like HYPER INFLATED drama.

I could be wrong, but I oberserved that black families have the most drama.

[Existentialist]

i don't put em down, i'm just saying alot of you are the same. guys 2..

we're both 2 blame.. both guys and girls.. but i mean why must we all be so generic in alot of the traits.

like there isn't a hell alot of variations in personality. very minor ones

I would say all you desi guys are the same but I still hold some hope. I haven't gone out with one nor slept with one, but there's no way I'm going to disrepect the lot of you because I don't find you my cup of tea. I still hold hope though for all those people like badfingerboogie and irreligiouslefts out there who are intelligent and well mannered and know how to respect women to be in turn respected back. Those two are gentlemen.

[subaru]

I could be wrong, but I oberserved that black families have the most drama.

lol, i wish i cud say the same.. but theres 2 ethnicities i've never been friends with... jews and blacks.


and no its not a racist thing.. its just i've never had a reason to be friends with them. =/ or known any

[subaru]

I would say all you desi guys are the same but I still hold some hope. I haven't gone out with one nor slept with one, but there's no way I'm going to disrepect the lot of you because I don't find you my cup of tea. I still hold hope though for all those people like badfingerboogie and irreligiouslefts out there who are intelligent and well mannered and know how to respect women to be in turn respected back. Those two are gentlemen.


lllol i wish i cud just be a good looking desi girl.. that way.. doesn't FUCKEN matter. just be a gold digger and ur set.

we guys have it harder!, we are expected to perform financially. and i think in the end its all the girls care about. =/ sad but thats what i believe.. sure there are some prob alot more that don't believe in that, but the ones i know, its all the same shit.

i'm losing hope soo fast..

[Existentialist]

lllol i wish i cud just be a good looking desi girl.. that way.. doesn't FUCKEN matter. just be a gold digger and ur set.

we guys have it harder!, we are expected to perform financially. and i think in the end its all the girls care about. =/ sad but thats what i believe.. sure there are some prob alot more that don't believe in that, but the ones i know, its all the same shit.

i'm losing hope soo fast..

I don't give a shit for one, the more you do that crap, the more girls looks for other things. Gold diggers are everywhere. Like it's only a desi thing.

[bengoli_meg]

hey look. the old echelon is back.

how many times are you going to make this thread? isn't this like the 3rd thread on the same topic. i think you really want to date a desi girl so you're trying to see if you can change them.

you can't.

[Echelon]

hey look. the old echelon is back.

how many times are you going to make this thread? isn't this like the 3rd thread on the same topic. i think you really want to date a desi girl so you're trying to see if you can change them.

you can't.Beautiful female.
My deepest apologies for this thread and the posts which were posted before the grace period.
Yours sincerely,

Monsieur Echelon

[bengoli_meg]

Beautiful female.
My deepest apologies for this thread and the posts which were posted before the grace period.
Yours sincerely,

Monsieur Echelon

this thread is from march 11th? pwned :(

[hmguy]

lol for some reason, i can picture you doing that after seeing a big dick.

lol :p :p

[desi_chickan]

alot of men, even white men dont find chinese women attractive!

i cant understand why? :sarb:

[Loose]

actually i felt that way after seeing 300 last night. those dudes were FIT. even the old ones!


Hey Pooj... let's not forget that those 'abs' were very heavily defined with makeup (just like they do in magazines).

[nayeemx33]

alot of men, even white men dont find chinese women attractive!

i cant understand why? :sarb:

Where do you live?
White guys have a fetish for east asian chicks.

[CrimsonRegret]

If they don't go for desi girls, good on them. Surely, those desi girls aren't dying after them either. Individuals have personal preferences, and if it is non-desi women for the so called alpha males, then there is nothing stopping them.

I totally disagree with #5. Culture is a representation of how and where one has been brought up. The cultural values that an individual carries are formed as their characteristics, behaviour, attitude and experiences change over the period of time, throughout life. Now, if you prefer or stray more towards the cultural values of a white woman, then that's your personal choice. But, it does not mean desi women lack cultural values. You could have simply said their values do not fit your criteria or definition of being cultured.

[hmguy]

I would say all you desi guys are the same but I still hold some hope. I haven't gone out with one nor slept with one, but there's no way I'm going to disrepect the lot of you because I don't find you my cup of tea. I still hold hope though for all those people like badfingerboogie and irreligiouslefts out there who are intelligent and well mannered and know how to respect women to be in turn respected back. Those two are gentlemen.

You do realize that both sexes says the same crap about the other, problem is most both sides spend too much time arguing and not listening. Gone on for ages and it never changes, no matter what anyone says :no:

[hmguy]

alot of men, even white men dont find chinese women attractive!

i cant understand why? :sarb:

Really? a lot of white and desi men i know are obsessed with them.

[DtotheEVENDORF]

Personally, i'd like to fuck a desi girl for ole novelty sakes. Because I've never fucked a desi girl. But fuck, I doubt she'd be relationship material because there's 'way' better game.

They say we have a deep inner fetish with people who are culturually/facially resonating with us. Which is true, but generally I can find the same facial resonance in brazillians and other browns and I don't really find the colloquial desi traits to be something which would continuate a predictable & boring relationship.


LOL! Are you finding excuses as to why you're hooking up with a gora over a desi? Is this your way of putting your mind at ease?

You don't need any excuses, dude. Just do what you want to do.

It's better to do that then complain.

[BadFingerBoogie]

I would say all you desi guys are the same but I still hold some hope. I haven't gone out with one nor slept with one, but there's no way I'm going to disrepect the lot of you because I don't find you my cup of tea. I still hold hope though for all those people like badfingerboogie and irreligiouslefts out there who are intelligent and well mannered and know how to respect women to be in turn respected back. Those two are gentlemen.

what a fucking sweetheart

:love:

[subaru]

what a fucking sweetheart

:love:

weak

[foreverconfused]

All the desi guys I know are fucking dumb... except for one. :love:

[BadFingerBoogie]

weak
you're just jealous 'cause my love mentioned me.

i feel so e-special.

rd lists eat your heart out

:kekeke:

[Existentialist]

If they don't go for desi girls, good on them. Surely, those desi girls aren't dying after them either. Individuals have personal preferences, and if it is non-desi women for the so called alpha males, then there is nothing stopping them.

I totally disagree with #5. Culture is a representation of how and where one has been brought up. The cultural values that an individual carries are formed as their characteristics, behaviour, attitude and experiences change over the period of time, throughout life. Now, if you prefer or stray more towards the cultural values of a white woman, then that's your personal choice. But, it does not mean desi women lack cultural values. You could have simply said their values do not fit your criteria or definition of being cultured.

Well said.

[nayeemx33]

Well said.


:Paper:

[subaru]

you're just jealous 'cause my love mentioned me.

i feel so e-special.

rd lists eat your heart out

:kekeke:

:hand:

i shud soo be on these list :(

[Existentialist]

You do realize that both sexes says the same crap about the other, problem is most both sides spend too much time arguing and not listening. Gone on for ages and it never changes, no matter what anyone says :no:

Well I didn't come to this forum to bitch and moan but to be open minded enough to see how desi guys and girls are. And from what I see it's more of the men having the upper hand with displaying these arguments.

They think it's a joke to beat women physically and emotionally into submission. Wow what a real man, total alpha male. The truth about the matter, even girls who are more towards the liberal scale want the men to be the pants in society or relationship yet to have their freedom too. I don't see what they're fighting against.. it's seems like certain desi males are punching into the air whenever they open their trap.

I've been pleasantly surprised with a handful of people here. But in essensce, it really is this vicious cycle, where one party [namely the men] abuse the women, the women just sit there and do nothing about it and actually take that crap as their place in society as submissive blow-up dolls because if they even vaguely defend themselves they're called feminists or other harsh cruelties for being "themselves".

They fail to see the "feminism" [what I call liberal mindedness] is the same mentality they admire in the white women they prefer in the first place. It's like they want desi women to not succeed and then go to "greener pastures" and just wait....the ironic thing is, if a woman like ligi has a white bf, the whole brigade of the rd pro-gay male revolution aka alpha male bandwagon curse her left right and centre with varying degrees of crap that make no sense which they adamantly proclaim as eternal truth . To me, it just screams "I'm a fucking hypocrite, change my diaper now."

[CrimsonRegret]

Well I didn't come to this forum to bitch and moan but to be open minded enough to see how desi guys and girls are. And from what I see it's more of the men having the upper hand with displaying these arguments.

They think it's a joke to beat women physically and emotionally into submission. Wow what a real man, total alpha male. The truth about the matter, even girls who are more towards the liberal scale want the men to be the pants in society or relationship yet to have their freedom too. I don't see what they're fighting against.. it's seems like certain desi males are punching into the air whenever they open their trap.

I've been pleasantly surprised with a handful of people here. But in essensce, it really is this vicious cycle, where one party [namely the men] abuse the women, the women just sit there and do nothing about it and actually take that crap as their place in society as submissive blow-up dolls because if they even vaguely defend themselves they're called feminists or other harsh cruelties for being "themselves".

They fail to see the "feminism" [what I call liberal mindedness] is the same mentality they admire in the white women they prefer in the first place. It's like they want desi women to not succeed and then go to "greener pastures" and just wait....the ironic thing is, if a woman like ligi has a white bf, the whole brigade of the rd pro-gay male revolution aka alpha male bandwagon curse her left right and centre with varying degrees of crap that make no sense which they adamantly proclaim as eternal truth . To me, it just screams "I'm a fucking hypocrite, change my diaper now."

Hahaha. Hey, you go to UTS, right? Were you also helping out at the election recently?

[nayeemx33]

Who is that? :sarb:

Me.

[Existentialist]

Hahaha. Hey, you go to UTS, right? Were you also helping out at the election recently?

Hey yeah I do. You mean uni elections?

[Existentialist]

Don't forget Drumline! :mad:

And Drumline!

[hmguy]

Well I didn't come to this forum to bitch and moan but to be open minded enough to see how desi guys and girls are. And from what I see it's more of the men having the upper hand with displaying these arguments.

They think it's a joke to beat women physically and emotionally into submission. Wow what a real man, total alpha male. The truth about the matter, even girls who are more towards the liberal scale want the men to be the pants in society or relationship yet to have their freedom too. I don't see what they're fighting against.. it's seems like certain desi males are punching into the air whenever they open their trap.

I've been pleasantly surprised with a handful of people here. But in essensce, it really is this vicious cycle, where one party [namely the men] abuse the women, the women just sit there and do nothing about it and actually take that crap as their place in society as submissive blow-up dolls because if they even vaguely defend themselves they're called feminists or other harsh cruelties for being "themselves".

They fail to see the "feminism" [what I call liberal mindedness] is the same mentality they admire in the white women they prefer in the first place. It's like they want desi women to not succeed and then go to "greener pastures" and just wait....the ironic thing is, if a woman like ligi has a white bf, the whole brigade of the rd pro-gay male revolution aka alpha male bandwagon curse her left right and centre with varying degrees of crap that make no sense which they adamantly proclaim as eternal truth . To me, it just screams "I'm a fucking hypocrite, change my diaper now."

Hmmm, I think that diatribe seems more to do with a frustration with a woman's place in Indian society. Its very true Indian society remains patriarchal and a lot of the ideal go back centuries old. I think though westernization has played a great hand in modernizing of these beliefs. I think its easier for desi guy and girls to that them out of this society or choose to work within. I mean if you look there an incredible amount interracial dating and marriage. I think at first the people were indignant, going to tolerant, then accepting. I think your also taking the small sample of desi guys from this site who cast themselve as alpha males (which I hardly doubt) have sterotyped the entire gender. Give that a fair amount of guys are like, I hope that you do have some open that there are a few that would think of their female counterparts as equals and hope for their success. In addition, women must remember just because a society tells you where your place is, does not mean it is the end all and be all, You also have a choice to saying fuck you to desi society and make your own way as countless others have, even though it might be difficult.

[nayeemx33]

And Drumline!

and me.

[Existentialist]

what a fucking sweetheart

:love:

=) Good afternoon.

[CrimsonRegret]

Hey yeah I do. You mean uni elections?
No, Premier in Auburn, sounds familiar? If not, then I've a totally different girl in mind 'cause I remember the pics you had up on here a few weeks back, and then I see a girl at Uni with similar resemblance to that of photos, also ching^3 told me you go to UTS.

[Existentialist]

and me.

If you say so, kidding, and you too. However it seems to me that you hate desi girls for going for other guys or think bad of them cos of past experiences but you get credit for not talking shit, as well as with bad cheque.

[Existentialist]

No, Premier in Auburn, sounds familiar? If not, then I've a totally different girl in mind 'cause I remember the pics you had up on here a few weeks back, and then I see a girl at Uni with similar resemblance to that of photos, also ching^3 told me you go to UTS.

You go to UTS too? What a small world. I don't think it was me if you're talking about the state elections in Auburn, I was helping out in Baulkhaum Hills.
What do you study?

[nayeemx33]

If you say so, kidding, and you too. However it seems to me that you hate desi girls for going for other guys or think bad of them cos of past experiences but you get credit for not talking shit, as well as with bad cheque.

I don't where you got that from.
A desi chick can date whoever she wants.
I just have a hard time trusting one because of past experience.

[CrimsonRegret]

You go to UTS too? What a small world. I don't think it was me if you're talking about the state elections in Auburn, I was helping out in Baulkhaum Hills.
What do you study?
Yeah I do, B Engineering/B Medical Science, how about yourself?

[nayeemx33]

unless she's a doctor. ;)

Money does solve all problems :kekeke:

[Existentialist]

Hmmm, I think that diatribe seems more to do with a frustration with a woman's place in Indian society. Its very true Indian society remains patriarchal and a lot of the ideal go back centuries old. I think though westernization has played a great hand in modernizing of these beliefs. I think its easier for desi guy and girls to that them out of this society or choose to work within. I mean if you look there an incredible amount interracial dating and marriage. I think at first the people were indignant, going to tolerant, then accepting. I think your also taking the small sample of desi guys from this site who cast themselve as alpha males (which I hardly doubt) have sterotyped the entire gender. Give that a fair amount of guys are like, I hope that you do have some open that there are a few that would think of their female counterparts as equals and hope for their success. In addition, women must remember just because a society tells you where your place is, does not mean it is the end all and be all, You also have a choice to saying fuck you to desi society and make your own way as countless others have, even though it might be difficult.

You are right, it's the percentage of desi males on this website not the population I see in real life [or lets say have the guts to] that hold this crap. Probably is just a internet cascade of crap because of the medium it is to express any opinion no matter how dumb with the least amount of societal impact. Yeah we/they do and we do have a right to defend some of the crap bred here. Although it eludes me according to my moods.

[Existentialist]

I don't where you got that from.
A desi chick can date whoever she wants.
I just have a hard time trusting one because of past experience.

I rememeber reading one of your posts, I might be mistaken, if so I'm sorry.
I understand, I find it acceptable that you have a pensive nature because of it but as I said don't judge them all the same.

[Existentialist]

Yeah I do, B Engineering/B Medical Science, how about yourself?

Sounds good I might of been in your classes. I do Physics/Nanotech. Which part of Sydney do you live? Also you should of came and said hi if you thought it was me =P

[CrimsonRegret]

Sounds good I might of been in your classes. I do Physics/Nanotech. Which part of Sydney do you live? Also you should of came and said hi if you thought it was me =P
Haha I would have if only I was 100% sure of myself. It'd be pretty funny if the girl I thought was you, turned around and asked what I'm on about. What year Uni student are you? What science subjects are you taking btw?

[nayeemx33]

What are you aspiring to be nayeem? A house husband?

To be your lover :yum:

[nayeemx33]

I thought you wanted to be WTL's lover. :squint:

WTL got a rishta from a surgeon.

[Existentialist]

Haha I would have if only I was 100% sure of myself. It'd be pretty funny if the girl I thought was you, turned around and asked what I'm on about. What year Uni student are you? What science subjects are you taking btw?

Hahah yeah that would of be awkward. I'm third year, right now I'm doing Solid State Nanoscience, Molecular Nano, Phys Chem, Polymer Science. How about you?

Man you would of been in my Biomolecules structure and function class last Spring 06?

[Existentialist]

I stumbled across a facebook topic where the guy was berating Desi women, and I found out that this guy went to my highschool lol.

In reality, he was really shy, soft-spoken, quiet and average-looking. Just imagine how many of the RD guys are like that in real life.

I would pay to see him say it to his mother. She'd slap him with her chappals.

[Existentialist]

Haha I would have if only I was 100% sure of myself. It'd be pretty funny if the girl I thought was you, turned around and asked what I'm on about. What year Uni student are you? What science subjects are you taking btw?

Wait do you know Avesta, this tall Afghan girl I think she goes to UTS?

[CrimsonRegret]

Wait do you know Avesta, this tall Afghan girl I think she goes to UTS?
:|

That'd be me.

I'm not very tall though.

:|

OMG.

[CrimsonRegret]

Hahah yeah that would of be awkward. I'm third year, right now I'm doing Solid State Nanoscience, Molecular Nano, Phys Chem, Polymer Science. How about you?

Man you would of been in my Biomolecules structure and function class last Spring 06?
I'm not doing any of those. I've a mid semester exam for Neuroscience tomorrow though.

[Existentialist]

:|

That'd be me.

I'm not very tall though.

:|

OMG.

Hold up...

Did you go to Macarthur Girls High?

[CrimsonRegret]

Wait do you know Avesta, this tall Afghan girl I think she goes to UTS?
Okay this kind of shocked me.

*checks her pulse*

*breathe in and out*

Okay, so how do you know me? Lol. Here I'm thinking I know you, but turns out other way around :lol:

[chingchingching]

Hold up...

Did you go to Macarthur Girls High?

Yes, she did :hyper:

[CrimsonRegret]

Hold up...

Did you go to Macarthur Girls High?
You did, too?

:|:|:|

[Existentialist]

I'm not doing any of those. I've a mid semester exam for Neuroscience tomorrow though.

Oh shit you medical science people get exams early always. Good luck. I get mine after Science tut and VC week but I had a heaps of assignments and lab reports to do.

[CrimsonRegret]

Yes, she did :hyper:
HAHA! I'm getting on hyper too. What's going on here.

Btw, ILurbJu!

[Existentialist]

Okay this kind of shocked me.

*checks her pulse*

*breathe in and out*

Okay, so how do you know me? Lol. Here I'm thinking I know you, but turns out other way around :lol:


Hahaha do you remember Mr COX :rofl:

[Existentialist]

You did, too?

:|:|:|

Yes I did for a couple of years! Then I changed schools. OMG do you Sonal?

[chingchingching]

HAHA! I'm getting on hyper too. What's going on here.

Btw, ILurbJu!

I dunno. It's such a small world, the other day xxparadoxx and i saw each other in the train carriage thingy while she was getting off.

Ilurfutoo <3

[Lord_Dirty]

oh shiet

these kuthiyan are gonna have a reunion live on RD

just joking!

[CrimsonRegret]

Oh shit you medical science people get exams early always. Good luck. I get mine after Science tut and VC week but I had a heaps of assignments and lab reports to do.
Thanks babe. I like how we get the mid-semester break, time to catch up on a few lectures and prepare ourselves for other stuff. But some lecturers don't understand that.

[chingchingching]

oh shiet

these kuthiyan are gonna have a reunion live on RD

just joking!

who did you call a kuthi? :slap:

[CrimsonRegret]

Yes I did for a couple of years! Then I changed schools. OMG do you Sonal?
I don't know. Probably do, I forget names easily but remember faces well.

AND OMG MR COX! HAHAHAHA! Brings back lots of memories! He turned out to be cool by the end of year 12 physics though.

When did you leave MGHS?

[CrimsonRegret]

I dunno. It's such a small world, the other day xxparadoxx and i saw each other in the train carriage thingy while she was getting off.

Ilurfutoo <3
Lol really? Did she see you? That lord-dirty dude is right, we need to have a reunion but offline, :lol:.

[irreplaceable]

:wtf:

someones whipped :(

[Lord_Dirty]

who did you call a kuthi? :slap:

never you mongjew!!!!!!!!

[chingchingching]

Lol really? Did she see you? That lord-dirty dude is right, we need to have a reunion but offline, :lol:.


Ya she did! I saw her too.

I haven't seen you in AGES, we have to meet up anyway. You're never at uni no more :(

[chingchingching]

never you mongjew!!!!!!!!

MONGJEWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!

[Lord_Dirty]

MONGJEWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!

http://i13.tinypic.com/2vkymgp

<3333

[CrimsonRegret]

Ya she did! I saw her too.

I haven't seen you in AGES, we have to meet up anyway. You're never at uni no more :(
Woman, I'm there on Wednesdays usually and I text you but you're never around. We hog the cafeteria section, but I'll be working this Wednesday =(.

InshAllah long weekend, and during the mid-sem break, group outings will be happening, once again :dance3:.

[Existentialist]

I don't know. Probably do, I forget names easily but remember faces well.

AND OMG MR COX! HAHAHAHA! Brings back lots of memories! He turned out to be cool by the end of year 12 physics though.

When did you leave MGHS?

Same as me! I remember a heaaaaaaaap of girls but I don't know their names.

LOL Mr Cox was hilter to us at younger years. Yeah apparently he was nice. I left at the end of Year 9! I went to Selective. How's Mr Thomas and Miss Maculiffe and all? LOL what happened to the sluts like Cassey Howe and her blonde brigade?

[irreplaceable]

[IMG]
<3333

the girl in the middle. has a tongue ring? inever knew.

[chingchingching]

<3333


LMAO!! I remember that :rofl:

Good taimeeeeeeees

[Lord_Dirty]

LMAO!! I remember that :rofl:

Good taimeeeeeeees


yesss

but i think i just exposed our partner in crime's tongue ring

ummm

:)

[CrimsonRegret]

Same as me! I remember a heaaaaaaaap of girls but I don't know their names.

LOL Mr Cox was hilter to us at younger years. Yeah apparently he was nice. I left at the end of Year 9! I went to Selective. How's Mr Thomas and Miss Maculiffe and all? LOL what happened to the sluts like Cassey Howe and her blonde brigade?
Oh, I came to that school start of year 9, and you left the same year. How do you remember my name btw? Do we know each other by some other means? Omg, you got to tell me now who you are!!

Mr Thomas was my science teacher in Grade 10, and it was so obvious he had a crush on one of the science teachers, haha. I suppose they're all doing fine, I'm not sure haven't been back ever since graduation. I <3 Mr Lacava. My lovely Maths teacher.

[chingchingching]

yesss

but i think i just exposed our partner in crime's tongue ring

ummm

:)


She doesn't have it anymore anyway, haha.

Oh i miss Amna, shes in NYC now. Lucky cow :(

[Lord_Dirty]

She doesn't have it anymore anyway, haha.

Oh i miss Amna, shes in NYC now. Lucky cow :(

thats good!

you still in U.A.E

[chingchingching]

thats good!

you still in U.A.E

Nope.. in Sydney now.. for uni!

What are you up to lately?

[Lord_Dirty]

Nope.. in Sydney now.. for uni!

What are you up to lately?


still in ottawa
almost done uni!

[Existentialist]

Oh, I came to that school start of year 9, and you left the same year. How do you remember my name btw? Do we know each other by some other means? Omg, you got to tell me now who you are!!

Mr Thomas was my science teacher in Grade 10, and it was so obvious he had a crush on one of the science teachers, haha. I suppose they're all doing fine, I'm not sure haven't been back ever since graduation. I <3 Mr Lacava. My lovely Maths teacher.

No way? Why haven't I met you? I don't know... are you a year below me or above? I know of one Avesta lol, she's tall has an older sister I didn't know it was your name but wow still you went to MGHS. I must of seen you or talked to you once, I only left at the end of year 9. I'm Ara. Maybe some of your friends used to know me. YOU MUST KNOW TAMANA! She's got a little sister named Tamina who still goes there. She's Afghan.

You must of hung around with some of my old friends or talked to them. Do you know Aranee, Sonal, Joannah, Tamana? Phoebe and Carla? Do you live in Auburn? Some other girls I knew were Shonna? Manuka? Carol? Jessica? Samantha Morris???

I had Mr Johnson for Year 9, I have him on my msn list LOL. Yeah Mr Thomas had the hots for Miss Mcaulliffe, he went to the corner of the building ([on our swimming pool side] between class and smokes with her. Man remember how gross Argiculture class was :rofl: We'd be in our perfect polished shoes and trying not to step in sheep shit. Mr La Cava was awesome I was in the top Maths class =P I got moved up from that wart tongued lady teacher's class to that greek lady that looks angry all the time (I forgot her name).

[CrimsonRegret]

No way? Why haven't I met you? I don't know... are you a year below me or above? I know of one Avesta lol, she's tall has an older sister I didn't know it was your name but wow still you went to MGHS. I must of seen you or talked to you once, I only left at the end of year 9. I'm Ara. Maybe some of your friends used to know me. YOU MUST KNOW TAMANA! She's got a little sister named Tamina who still goes there. She's Afghan.

You must of hung around with some of my old friends or talked to them. Do you know Aranee, Sonal, Joannah, Tamana? Phoebe and Carla? Do you live in Auburn? Some other girls I knew were Shonna? Manuka? Carol? Jessica? Samantha Morris???

I had Mr Johnson for Year 9, I have him on my msn list LOL. Yeah Mr Thomas had the hots for Miss Mcaulliffe, he went to the corner of the building ([on our swimming pool side] between class and smokes with her. Man remember how gross Argiculture class was :rofl: We'd be in our perfect polished shoes and trying not to step in sheep shit. Mr La Cava was awesome I was in the top Maths class =P I got moved up from that wart tongued lady teacher's class to that greek lady that looks angry all the time (I forgot her name).

I think I'm a year older than you. I graduated HSC in year 2003, you? I know a Tamana, the tall, model looking, beautiful Afghan girl? She was one of my besties in years 11 & 12. But she only has a younger brother, not a sister. You're probably speaking about another afghan Tamana who was one or two grade lower than me. I don't know any of the names you've mentioned. I think they're younger. I never knew of any other Avesta in MGHS :think:. I don't have an older sister.

Mr Johnson was funny, he took us out to a physics camp <3 although he gave us the creeps by being the driver of our tour on mountaineous roads :|. I can't forget those days. The welfare teacher was always angry, man she used to freak me out. Forgot her name too. Yeah, I was in Advanced Maths too. You seem really intelligent with your posts. Hmm...Ara doesn't click. You're probably younger than me :).

[coconut_451]

well it's the same for white washed indian girls too .

[Existentialist]

I think I'm a year older than you. I graduated HSC in year 2003, you? I know a Tamana, the tall, model looking, beautiful Afghan girl? She was one of my besties in years 11 & 12. But she only has a younger brother, not a sister. You're probably speaking about another afghan Tamana who was one or two grade lower than me. I don't know any of the names you've mentioned. I think they're younger. I never knew of any other Avesta in MGHS :think:. I don't have an older sister.

Mr Johnson was funny, he took us out to a physics camp <3 although he gave us the creeps by being the driver of our tour on mountaineous roads :|. I can't forget those days. The welfare teacher was always angry, man she used to freak me out. Forgot her name too. Yeah, I was in Advanced Maths too. You seem really intelligent with your posts. Hmm...Ara doesn't click. You're probably younger than me :).

Oh yeah you are a year older, that other pretty Tamana girl was year above me, she was bit tanned straight hair, nice smile. I graduated in 04'. I talked to her with the other Tamana, she knows the Tamana I know. My year adviser was that Librarian lady, Miss Vine? I think yours was Mr* La Cava. Yeah the Avesta I'm talking about is my age, her sister had curly black hair and was prolly 2-3 years elder.

Mr Johnson is the best, he was my roll call teacher :kekeke: yeah that bitch was cruel. I remember in assembly how the pervs aka student blah blahs came around checking how high our socks were and how short our shitty table cloth, mary poppin-esque uniforms were if we didn't get it right we got a red card to see the dragon lady with hideous hair colour make up and jewellery that belonged on a christmas tree. :rolleyes: I liked the winter uniform better. Gah Mr Radford our principal was nuts. He left didn't he?

So are you, man you'd think anyone from MGHS would be dumb but I think the dumb blonde bitch slut ratio in my grade was greater than yours with exceptions of course. Your grade was pretty smart overall if I remember right. Did you do Graphic Design? I had Mr Andrews I won something for my sculpture once I made and got some money in assembly and this film thingy we did.

We'd of definitely seen each other we'd remember the face. I know one girl her name was Lisa or something was white had blue eyes and brown hair pale white skin, was really pretty cat like looking, she was in my roll call. She was in your year and Annie? This tiny Indian punjabi girl who was loud as hell, she writes for India Link or something now, that free newspaper you get in desi shops.

[CrimsonRegret]

Yeah, Radford left. I remember Ms Vine. Our year advisor kept changing, 'cause the original one was off on maternity leave.

I know Annie, and I sort of remember Lisa, too. Annie now does dances on various Indian events. Saw her recently at a friend's 21st, she is still loud as, lol. I suppose I'd have seen you during those assembly acknowledgements. But yeah, I guess we'll bump into each other at Uni sometime :D.

[Existentialist]

Yeah, Radford left. I remember Ms Vine. Our year advisor kept changing, 'cause the original one was off on maternity leave.

I know Annie, and I sort of remember Lisa, too. Annie now does dances on various Indian events. Saw her recently at a friend's 21st, she is still loud as, lol. I suppose I'd have seen you during those assembly acknowledgements. But yeah, I guess we'll bump into each other at Uni sometime :D.

I see. Yeah Annie and my friend Sonal are close friends well they were years back, she used to come to our group and check up on us and tell us crazy stories.

Might of seen you at your graduation for grade 10, I was there with a few of my friends in that crowd. Yes we will, we do similar subs and chingy too, she knows another girl I knew of from MGHS who does Visual Comm.

[CrimsonRegret]

I see. Yeah Annie and my friend Sonal are close friends well they were years back, she used to come to our group and check up on us and tell us crazy stories.

Might of seen you at your graduation for grade 10, I was there with a few of my friends in that crowd. Yes we will, we do similar subs and chingy too, she knows another girl I knew of from MGHS who does Visual Comm.
Lol@crazy stories, yeah I remember a few of hers, too. Cool. Btw no, I didn't do Graphic Design.

[swat22]

yea.

most desi girls are fucked in the head.
yeh but some are gorgeous

[uglyDuckling]

Relationships with desi women don't have to be like that, just find the right desi girl. :D

Some desi women are easily pressured by family and society. Easy to say screw society but it's not that easily done. Most other cultures don't have those kind of pressures, so obviously relationship with desi women is going to be different.

[Existentialist]

Lol@crazy stories, yeah I remember a few of hers, too. Cool. Btw no, I didn't do Graphic Design.

Hehe oi you, you better get back to study, good luck for your neuroscience <3

[Midnight_Toker]

most desi girls are drama...so if you wanna stay stress free, don't date them :idea:

[irreplaceable]

theres no such thing as a desi alpha male.

[KashytheCableGuy]

I would call Imran Khan a desi alpha male, and I would call myself a desi alpha male. That's where the list ends.

Almost no one in this thread has any idea what they are talking about, or an accurate definition of desi alpha male.

[Echelon]

Hahahaha.

Edit: Biggest load of psycho babble ever. It's funny you justify your crap views with more crap. For someone who's meant to be "open minded" you've really narrowed your scope in thinking. You were better off saying "brazillian girls are more aesthetically appealing to me therefore I rather fuck their brains out" Perfectly valid. :neutral:
I'm not really sure how to address you, usually I address females on this board as "babe", but any thought of that is repulsive. I also cannot be fucked typing out your screen-name, especially since it hardly resonates. So I'll just call you "Ms.Heart".

Dear Ms.Heart,
Let's try and pin-point what you've said here:
1) I justified crap views with crap arguments
2) I am apparently closed-minded
3) Something about brazillian girls

Please argue for the case of #1 with proper arguments, please show examples of #2 relative to this thread.

Thanks,

Yours,

Echey

[Echelon]

It's a very shallow spectrum of girls which do not represent the true majority, whom might I add, you dumbly chose to associate and go out with. The fault is partly your own. It's as stupid as generalising and saying all desi men have small dicks.

This mentality from desi males basically breeds this crap in the first place to intimidate desi women who sorry to say, just are punchbags that take this shit and shut up like brainwashed sheep. The white women have minds of their own [feminists? lmao] to pack up and leave this bullshit if such occurence happens to them. So keep churning this pro-gay alpha desi male bullshit over and over again, we'll see how many females you can keep at the end of the day.

Most of what* you desi men do is constantly put down desi females but forget the vagina you came from was what? DESI. Have a little respect and faith maybe one day you'll be pleasantly surprised.
You fool,
I am pointing out the problems in a desi woman's lack of liberty and her rampant need to project herself as a pious naive lil vulnerable individual due to her heavy dependancy on marriage.
We are essentially arguing for the same cause, however you are somewhat quietly convinced that the status quo of desi females will be sufficiently attractive to alpha males who are well acquainted with the company of liberal less-liable less-fussy non-desis.

[Echelon]

LOL! Are you finding excuses as to why you're hooking up with a gora over a desi? Is this your way of putting your mind at ease?

You don't need any excuses, dude. Just do what you want to do.

It's better to do that then complain.
No not really, I don't really find desi girls as some sort of divine pre-condition which I need to seek to satisfy the mind. Just something for ole novelty sakes.
I basically have a world map and its my intention to have a cultured sexual experience from bitches of different genealogy.
I guess it kinda would be good to fuck someone of similiar genes.
It goes with my narcissism.

But granted the probability of having an extremely good sexual experience from the desi-kind being low and the liability involved I am slightly repulsed by the constraints and the lack of rewards.

And also you are pretending that hooking-up with a gora is 'lesser' of achievement than hooking up with a desi. Racist, much?

[Echelon]

If they don't go for desi girls, good on them. Surely, those desi girls aren't dying after them either. Individuals have personal preferences, and if it is non-desi women for the so called alpha males, then there is nothing stopping them.

I totally disagree with #5. Culture is a representation of how and where one has been brought up. The cultural values that an individual carries are formed as their characteristics, behaviour, attitude and experiences change over the period of time, throughout life. Now, if you prefer or stray more towards the cultural values of a white woman, then that's your personal choice. But, it does not mean desi women lack cultural values. You could have simply said their values do not fit your criteria or definition of being cultured.No, babe, no.
Thats one definition of culture, here is the other:
1.the quality in a person or society that arises from a concern for what is regarded as excellent in arts, letters, manners, scholarly pursuits, etc. 2.that which is excellent in the arts, manners, etc.


It is in my view, that due to their seemingly derivative ways, desi girls dont deviate too greatly from what is expected from their rigid culture much to the point where they are conditioned with a sense of naivety.

[Walktheline]

aw welcome back, echey

[Existentialist]

I'm not really sure how to address you, usually I address females on this board as "babe", but any thought of that is repulsive. I also cannot be fucked typing out your screen-name, especially since it hardly resonates. So I'll just call you "Ms.Heart".

Dear Ms.Heart,
Let's try and pin-point what you've said here:
1) I justified crap views with crap arguments
2) I am apparently closed-minded
3) Something about brazillian girls

Please argue for the case of #1 with proper arguments, please show examples of #2 relative to this thread.

Thanks,

Yours,

Echey

Dear condescending, contradictory sack of shit,
[sorry no other name resonates you so perfectly without resorting to puking a little in my mouth]

Let's pin point your retarded views on here.

Contradiction number 5239292921# highlighting narrow mindedness:
Mass generalisations about the behavioural attitudes of ALL desi women for a douchebag who states he builds his views on an "objective" basis because he religiously follows the works of Kant [lol]. Hardly objective.

Then you churn more shit with retarded psycho-analysis of babble you latched to on some "stereotypical average desi female" you created from bollywood movies or on this forum, not real life desi women then carried on a case scenario filled with more circumstancial shit [refer to points 1 to 5 of your original post].

You're trying so hard to be better than the other desi males here but when it comes to abusing desi girls, you do it the backhand handed, weak way through literary diarrhea. It's hilarious to watch. You should of instead, asserted your prejudiced opinion as one who doesn't want to date the desi race at all because of personal preference which is highly acceptable. Trust me you're doing the desi race a favour.

Existentialist.

[CrimsonRegret]

No, babe, no.
Thats one definition of culture, here is the other:
1.the quality in a person or society that arises from a concern for what is regarded as excellent in arts, letters, manners, scholarly pursuits, etc. 2.that which is excellent in the arts, manners, etc.


It is in my view, that due to their seemingly derivative ways, desi girls dont deviate too greatly from what is expected from their rigid culture much to the point where they are conditioned with a sense of naivety.
:gay:

Okay hun.

[Echelon]

Dear condescending, contradictory sack of shit,
[sorry no other name resonates you so perfectly without resorting to puking a little in my mouth]

Let's pin point your retarded views on here.

Contradiction number 5239292921# highlighting narrow mindedness:
Mass generalisations about the behavioural attitudes of ALL desi women for a douchebag who states he builds his views on an "objective" basis because he religiously follows the works of Kant [lol]. Hardly objective.

Then you churn more shit with retarded psycho-analysis of babble you latched to on some "stereotypical average desi female" you created from bollywood movies or on this forum, not real life desi women then carried on a case scenario filled with more circumstancial shit [refer to points 1 to 5 of your original post].

You're trying so hard to be better than the other desi males here but when it comes to abusing desi girls, you do it the backhand handed, weak way through literary diarrhea. It's hilarious to watch. You should of instead, asserted your prejudiced opinion as one who doesn't want to date the desi race at all because of personal preference which is highly acceptable. Trust me you're doing the desi race a favour.

Existentialist.Immanuel Kant is a philosopher of morality & aesthetics, please dont use his name in vain when discussing relationship dynamics of desi girls. I dont really want to educate you like last time eg) quantum chaos, the use of a 'pun' etc etc.

Again your post doesn't refute any of the claims which i've made on the desi female population on a logical level, rather all you've managed to spew is a) personal attacks b) the capacity of the reasoning c) the logical argument is illogical because of b) and because you say so.
So naturally since you've failed to suggest why the contention isn't so, i'm going to request you to argue in a single line, rather than draw off on a tangent. If you cant well, then you're just re-affirming the female stereotype of being a non-linear hoe.

[Echelon]

:gay:

Okay hun.A bit like *hapily, innit.

[Existentialist]

Immanuel Kant is a philosopher of morality & aesthetics, please dont use his name in vain when discussing relationship dynamics of desi girls. I dont really want to educate you like last time eg) quantum chaos, the use of a 'pun' etc etc.

Again your post doesn't refute any of the claims which i've made on the desi female population on a logical level, rather all you've managed to spew is a) personal attacks b) the capacity of the reasoning c) the logical argument is illogical because of b) and because you say so.
So naturally since you've failed to suggest why the contention isn't so, i'm going to request you to argue in a single line, rather than draw off on a tangent. If you cant well, then you're just re-affirming the female stereotype of being a non-linear hoe.

Yes and he bases his views on objective truth which you claim to follow religiously. As for quantum chaos theory, you proved nothing but more circumstancial shit involing another theory that had no solid backing up [thus that point could be argued] which I had no point arguing into because you clearly were a steroid-injected kangaroo punching the air. Like how we first met, you pick fights for the sake of it. Perhaps you're an only child and like arguing with yourself.

As for your "pun" no one found it entertaining and it was not a well known pun", idiot. The fact you used game theory to highlight a political campaign [which is a real life application for many who study political science* theory] as a pun is fucking ridiculous. Oh shit, you're revolutionary! It's funny that you think you've taught me... well you did.. you taught me how much of a dumbass you are.

As for the rest of the crap that you typed doesn't correlate to what I typed, namely by the fact you can't defend yourself and repeat the same shit over and over again to points I've already pin pointed. I explained, also in my other posts to other people the exact problem of how this classical attitude that you have displayed of the typical desi man found on this forum breeds the same disfunctional relatonship between the men and women that you are complaining about.

Oh as for "hoe" [you mean "ho"]... at least spell it right, douchebag.

[Echelon]

Yes and he bases his views on objective truth which you claim to follow religiously. As for quantum chaos theory, you proved nothing but more circumstancial shit involing another theory that had no solid backing up [thus that point could be argued] which I had no point arguing into because you clearly were a steroid-injected kangaroo punching the air. Like how we first met, you pick fights for the sake of it. Perhaps you're an only child and like arguing with yourself.

As for your "pun" no one found it entertaining and it was not a well known pun", idiot. The fact you used game theory to highlight a political campaign [which is a real life application for many who study political science* theory] as a pun is fucking ridiculous. Oh shit, you're revolutionary! It's funny that you think you've taught me... well you did.. you taught me how much of a dumbass you are.

As for the rest of the crap that you typed doesn't correlate to what I typed, namely by the fact you can't defend yourself and repeat the same shit over and over again to points I've already pin pointed. I explained, also in my other posts to other people the exact problem of how this classical attitude that you have displayed of the typical desi man found on this forum breeds the same disfunctional relatonship between the men and women that you are complaining about.

Oh as for "hoe" [you mean "ho"]... at least spell it right, douchebag.Oh dear, I knew you couldn't stomach down the thought of your own decisions being shown to be riddled with errors. And actually no, Immanuel Kant isn't about "objective truth" its about "objective reasoning" and this is only a minor facet of his works which are only attributable to the philosophy of judgement critique and minor aesthetics. Objective truth is slightly different but consequential.

But as for the rest, well.. as I've said before, there is no point even arguing with things in the past because there is no real person to ajudicate on which person is spewing out false logic and which person has the capacity of reason and in accord, appropriately tell one to shut-the-fuck-up. Im just reminding you of your constant failures in the past just to shrivel up your vaginal flaps with enough latent rage and muscular energy to create some sort of black-hole suction mechanism. Hopefully, my efforts have resulted in a swallowed tampon.

Haha, so you couldn't refute any of the claims?
Let me make it easier for you:
1) Desi girls are down to earth.. because yada yada yada
2) Desi girls aren't rampant in their requests in maintaining order in their relationships... because yada yada yada
3) Desi girls aren't too hard pressed about past relationships.. because yada yada
4) Desi girls are modest with the way they project themselves and don't find it necessary to remind people that they 'dont' do things at every turn.. because yada yada
5) Generally, desi girls have identity and culture.. because yada yada

I think a lot of people would agree with me on here, when I say you really are a toddler when it comes to arguing. I just hope for the sake of other peoples valuable time that you never enter debating or anything on a formal argumentative level.
The only people who are even in support of your logic would be vulnerable females with very little to hold on, convinced only through the verbosity of your posts and not for logical value.

[Existentialist]

Oh dear, I knew you couldn't stomach down the thought of your own decisions being shown to be riddled with errors. And actually no, Immanuel Kant isn't about "objective truth" its about "objective reasoning" and this is only a minor facet of his works which are only attributable to the philosophy of judgement critique and minor aesthetics. Objective truth is slightly different but consequential.

But as for the rest, well.. as I've said before, there is no point even arguing with things in the past because there is no real person to ajudicate on which person is spewing out false logic and which person has the capacity of reason and in accord, appropriately tell one to shut-the-fuck-up. Im just reminding you of your constant failures in the past just to shrivel up your vaginal flaps with enough latent rage and muscular energy to create some sort of black-hole suction mechanism. Hopefully, my efforts have resulted in a swallowed tampon.

Haha, so you couldn't refute any of the claims?
Let me make it easier for you:
1) Desi girls are down to earth.. because yada yada yada
2) Desi girls aren't rampant in their requests in maintaining order in their relationships... because yada yada yada
3) Desi girls aren't too hard pressed about past relationships.. because yada yada
4) Desi girls are modest with the way they project themselves and don't find it necessary to remind people that they 'dont' do things at every turn.. because yada yada
5) Generally, desi girls have identity and culture.. because yada yada

I think a lot of people would agree with me on here, when I say you really are a toddler when it comes to arguing. I just hope for the sake of other peoples valuable time that you never enter debating or anything on a formal argumentative level.
The only people who are even in support of your logic would be vulnerable females with very little to hold on, convinced only through the verbosity of your posts and not for logical value.

Same concept of objective reasoning, result would be objective truth.

You brought up the past, I only defended why I left it as it was, definitely not because you were right on any basis. The only vaginal flap around here is your skull, somehow your elusive brain exploded out like a rocket tampon.

The next paragraph of points that you typed is putting words into my mouth. My purpose was not to take "sides" but to give a broad spectrumed view of the various types of desi women who are out there and to highlight these negative attitudes encourages these CERTAIN type of desi women [based on a small population of girls on RD that you formulated just to point out] who you have highlighted in your 5 points to be how they are by a series of circumstances that you have created them to be like. The application of these points does not even resonate in real life where women are of all educated levels that have their own social and cultural boundaries. Bottom line: You are limited in your objective reasoning for that exact reason. You also fail to look at the bigger picture.

To explain how you are taking part in negative attitudes that discourages desi females from bettering themselves... societal supression. Being told "this is how desi females are" by a majority of desi males before they can even develop their own characteristics will largely impact on their social development, how they behave and how they interact within society. They [the certain type you have accounted for in your original post] don't think for themselves as such, due to social and cultural conditioning and their maternal biological instincts for thousands of years. All these factors have eluded and restricted them from being liberal minded, however the more educated women are immune to this.

The handful of desi women you speak of need to actively educate themselves, think for themselves. These certain women need to realise only way to succeed is to break themselves out of the mould that society has created and make a choice based on themselves. Some fail to do this and fall back on the traditional mainstream culture as the easiest way out and in some cases the only known way out.

Another point which adds in to the previous paragraph, is the desi culture itself and the desi men [used to resonate for the european race too] also projects this view of a desi woman, to be nurturers and care givers, a wife who can cook and clean and raise a couple of kids. In turn the woman seeks her "ideal" partner who can also provide the adequate wants and needs to make this happen. Longeivity through committment is needed for a lasting relationship and to provide this environment. The desi culture overall dictates the whole "growing up, study ass off, get a job, stay virgin before marriage, shipped off to get married asap, breed chidren" mentality. I don't see why you men complain about these desi women specifically, it was a combined catastrophe :ugh2:

Now a days, a large number of desi women are becoming more liberal minded women. You can contrast their behavourial attitudes to that of previous female generations of their mother, grandmas. For the desi culture, the process is slightly slower than that of the European women as cultural and religious restrictions are enforced more rigorously, in comparison but desi women are much more educated in this day and age to think for themselves which would contra that out which would provide the freedom of choice for the individual woman to make informed decisions.

Using european women as a prime example to disarm the logic of your original post. European women have broken through their mould that society has placed upon them for thousands of years and with the degradation of mainstream religion and cultural values with modernism and popular culture as catalysts. To highlight the broad spectrumed outcome [and for you to note] is that you will find european women with traditional values being kept as well as those withold more liberal ideals. You cannot specifically pin point a gross analysis of how european women are, yet you did this for desi women :roll:

For one who does not associate with many of your own kind, I could hardly find you a reliable source to depict the entire desi female race to be frank. Your thread does not help the cause you are bitching about either.

This is RD, not a debating team, however I've put enough care into this for you to once and for all pick on where exactly my logic fails. If you give me vague or circumstancial answers or result to insults as your response, please utilise "shut-the-fuck-up".

[desi_uk]

As per Arun Nayar and Liz Hurley.
Has it occured to you that the upper echelon of desi bachelors (non-fob) aren't really willing to go for desi girls because previous experiences have rendered their perceptions of desi girls to be less than favourable?
Let me state the current perception:
1\ Desi girls are idealistic - ie) they require a dreamy view of perfection in order to be with someone.
2\ The above is later attributed to a feeling of nausea and liability whilst in the initial statges of the relationship. That is: "A overwhelming feeling of owing and commitment to a women whom you barely know".
3\ Desi girls continuously apprehend the requirements of marriage and the notion of 'used rag' syndrome. This causes conflict in their thought process and the way they project themselves, which adversely inflicts #2 on the male.
4\ The rampant need to express their own piety and innocence as a valuable trait. Desi alpha males perceive this as something which doesn't constitute/precede a persons worth.
5\ As a consequence of the above, desi girls are perceived as females who lack culture and identity - admirable traits which dictate a persons interest or value. Desi alpha males view this as something very derivative.

The above points seem to be some underlying paradigm in predictable desi female behaviour, so its expected that one can go on the "don't hate the playa hate the game" principle.

Discuss.
i dont agree

[Echelon]

Oh man, looks like I have to mark an assignment, hold on kiddies.

[Echelon]

I'll bullet point my arguments:
1\ I'm here to create a conscience. I'm here to provide reasons for certain phenomena. The reasons and the consequential actions are real as per other ethnicities (countless successful black males marrying non-blacks).
2\ Just because my criticism is negative does not mean they aren't constructive. As I said before "a conscience" about a particular trait is the first step towards fixing it. Do you want me to sugar coat it for you so I wont hurt their lil minds?
3\ I've already submitted on countless occasions that this pattern of behaviour is typical only because of social conditioning and I can also safely say that the fault can be apportioned to everyone and not necessarily desi girls in particular.
4\ Of course there are exceptions to the rules, but again, I stress, the conditions involved for this to occur ie) The probability of a physically desirable desi girl who does not possess any of the negative attributes of what i've outlined -- are very low. You can refute all you want, but as per initial discussion with other users, the social conditions have made things difficult in the current sense.
5\ Again, if I make sense on a logical level, who cares if I don't associate with desis. If I realise a pattern in behavior and its consistent then all that is required is for someone to debunk the theories which i've presented with logical arguments. Rather, all that you've established so far is :
A) Pointing out causality as to why this pattern of behavior is so
B) Trying to tell me that desi girls are more liberal minded - I agree, but again, there are still social pressures which will be perceived by both the alpha male and the girl. To the point where my current contention would still stand firm. The environment and the nurture just isn't there yet, imo.
C) European females and desi females are totally different. The point is there is more diversity in terms of liberal values and morality etc etc. Even if there was an equitable amount of less-liberal girls, there is still a very significant proportion of more liberal girls , to the point where there could be no generalisation made on the lack of liberty and 'derivative' behavior.
6) Just because a desi woman pursues a route in an academic field, does not mean she is intelligent, well-cultured etc etc. I view most desi girls like oriental girls. They are very good at completing assignments and set-tasks robotically, but when it comes to non-linear thought they are on par with the rest of the population. One of the main reasons why desi girls pursue academics and spend a fair bit of time and energy on it, is because society has produced an environment where things involving passion are limited and the only form of fulfillment available to them is gaining an education.
Its for this very reason that you hardly see any desi girls doing well in sports, arts or anything which doesn't involve your typical white-collar route or a complimenting degree to her biodata.

Again the arguments I present here are simple. Desi girls have been conditioned by society to behave in a particular way. Alpha males in western countries don't really perceive females of their own kind as suitors for the reasons mentioned and the improbability of the reasons being false.

[Existentialist]

I'll bullet point my arguments:
1\ I'm here to create a conscience. I'm here to provide reasons for certain phenomena. The reasons and the consequential actions are real as per other ethnicities (countless successful black males marrying non-blacks)

2\ Just because my criticism is negative does not mean they aren't constructive. As I said before "a conscience" about a particular trait is the first step towards fixing it. Do you want me to sugar coat it for you so I wont hurt their lil minds?.

Ok you have accounted for this "certain" phenomena, which constitutes only a handful of desi women as a means to "speak out" the negatives in the desi community by basically insulting all desi women. [Sorry I'm saying it in my head, it's a sceptical change of attitude].

Your negative criticism is not constructive [if it were, you'd of been more objective and worded in such a way in form of a debate to highlight not a close ended [that particularly targets all desi females] statement you had presented in your original post]. All you did was add onto the pre-existing desi-female-on RD-abuse. It is biased because it misrepresents desi women in order for you to state desi alpha males as being repulsed by the WHOLE desi female race because you assume them to be the same.

3\ I've already submitted on countless occasions that this pattern of behaviour is typical only because of social conditioning and I can also safely say that the fault can be apportioned to everyone and not necessarily desi girls in particular.

4\ Of course there are exceptions to the rules, but again, I stress, the conditions involved for this to occur ie) The probability of a physically desirable desi girl who does not possess any of the negative attributes of what i've outlined -- are very low. You can refute all you want, but as per initial discussion with other users, the social conditions have made things difficult in the current sense.


We're talking about the majority of influence, one's own socio-economic, cultural and religious background impacts the individual more closely than that of another although they are all interconnected in some way.

Point 4 is your personal opinion and I have accounted for the split of traditional and liberal desi women, popular culture and modernism has impacted on desi women as well and the levels of education vary from woman to woman. Unless, you’re going to use the idiotic, childish notion that all women are dumb.


5\ Again, if I make sense on a logical level, who cares if I don't associate with desis. If I realise a pattern in behavior and its consistent then all that is required is for someone to debunk the theories which i've presented with logical arguments.

It does affect because your knowledge of desi women are limited to the scope of an online community where a certain behavioural pattern is reared and nourished. You cannot apply the same pattern to real life and the large spectrum of desi girls out there. Another point we disagree on.


Rather, all that you've established so far is :
A) Pointing out causality as to why this pattern of behavior is so
B) Trying to tell me that desi girls are more liberal minded - I agree, but again, there are still social pressures which will be perceived by both the alpha male and the girl. To the point where my current contention would still stand firm. The environment and the nurture just isn't there yet, imo.

Yes I did, I explained so you would know I understand your point based on circumstantial leading events based on the individual woman’s character. And how wrong you were to highlight this a overal desi woman flaw. It all ties in.

Yes they are more liberal minded but to the extent of realising and possibly overcoming social pressures. It’s an active choice the individual makes [majority of cases]. Some are still opressed.

C) European females and desi females are totally different. The point is there is more diversity in terms of liberal values and morality etc etc. Even if there was an equitable amount of less-liberal girls, there is still a very significant proportion of more liberal girls , to the point where there could be no generalisation made on the lack of liberty and 'derivative' behavior.


Not by circumstance, same principles applied that have affected both females of the respective races but as I said the effect is a slightly slower process for the desi women but not substantial enough for you to conclude such points. You cannot generalise either population to the extent of predicting a whole cultural woman’s behaviour. It is much more complex than that as I’ve explained and other people have highlighted. You fail to agree there.

6) Just because a desi woman pursues a route in an academic field, does not mean she is intelligent, well-cultured etc etc. I view most desi girls like oriental girls. They are very good at completing assignments and set-tasks robotically, but when it comes to non-linear thought they are on par with the rest of the population. One of the main reasons why desi girls pursue academics and spend a fair bit of time and energy on it, is because society has produced an environment where things involving passion are limited and the only form of fulfillment available to them is gaining an education.

That is your personal view of desi women. I can be just as naïve and say that no european woman excels in studies, so how can she be intelligent, well-cultured etc? When I say educated…I meant it in the “socially conscious” sense, anything more is additional although the matter is definitely a means in achieving this. It is dependent upon the individual woman in question and her own formation of culture that she chooses to live in. You cannot grossly generalise. I mean if this were true you could say that about desi men as well, including desi alpha males.

Its for this very reason that you hardly see any desi girls doing well in sports, arts or anything which doesn't involve your typical white-collar route or a complimenting degree to her biodata.

That is your opinion but I know a lot of girls who do well in those fields you mentioned, but you’re forgetting that even african women in sport is only a recent thing.

Again the arguments I present here are simple. Desi girls have been conditioned by society to behave in a particular way. Alpha males in western countries don't really perceive females of their own kind as suitors for the reasons mentioned and the improbability of the reasons being false.

Society and times have changed and is changing. As for “alpha males” they’re entitled to their opinions but the form of reasoning you have given doesn’t really make sense to show the distain for the entire desi female race. Unless you are saying alpha males do not choose their own race because they feel repulsed by the traditional view of mating and courtship.

[desi_chickan]

As per Arun Nayar and Liz Hurley.
Has it occured to you that the upper echelon of desi bachelors (non-fob) aren't really willing to go for desi girls because previous experiences have rendered their perceptions of desi girls to be less than favourable?
Let me state the current perception:
1\ Desi girls are idealistic - ie) they require a dreamy view of perfection in order to be with someone.
2\ The above is later attributed to a feeling of nausea and liability whilst in the initial statges of the relationship. That is: "A overwhelming feeling of owing and commitment to a women whom you barely know".
3\ Desi girls continuously apprehend the requirements of marriage and the notion of 'used rag' syndrome. This causes conflict in their thought process and the way they project themselves, which adversely inflicts #2 on the male.
4\ The rampant need to express their own piety and innocence as a valuable trait. Desi alpha males perceive this as something which doesn't constitute/precede a persons worth.
5\ As a consequence of the above, desi girls are perceived as females who lack culture and identity - admirable traits which dictate a persons interest or value. Desi alpha males view this as something very derivative.

The above points seem to be some underlying paradigm in predictable desi female behaviour, so its expected that one can go on the "don't hate the playa hate the game" principle.

Discuss.
f*** O**

[jat_jatt_sardar]

so which ones do you consider alpha?

[hmguy]

Whoa, battle of brains on here, there's a first :p

[Echelon]

I think my arguments aren't merely a matter of opinion or view, the manifestations are way too patently obvious and irrefutable.
Consider the following.
Assumption #1)
Many desi girls prefer to seek men who they can have easy going long-term pre-marital relationships with (although the less liberal and orthodox wouldn't do this) - this acts as a gateway for marriage. So naturally their general suiting partners will have to weigh up to the ridgid ideals of a suitable marriage candidate.
When you take into consideration the criteria involved in what constitutes whether one is suitable for another or not in the desiworld ie. caste (still in effect), religion (major impact), ethnicity, family reputation, past relationships, skin-colour, beauty, height, earning capacity etc etc
the obvious preconditions are unfavourable for an alpha male, because generally they are well used to western customs of courting and fornicating which involves far less bureaucracy and is 95/100 times based purely on looks/physique/social-standing and charisma alone. The preconditions and predictability of what is desirable to a desi woman or what is feasible is non-linear and 'less easy'. And naturally, there is nothing one can do about it, because the status quo suggests there is a more cultural/religious/moral leaning in their choices.

Hence the improbability.
So one would have to look at the issue and realise, that going for an equal opposite desi girl with superior attributes fit for an alpha male is like looking for needle in a haystack.
Now, as I said, if you consider it as a business proposal, any idiot will realise the feasibility of both cases (desis and non desis) and realise which solution reaps the greatest rewards and which one has a heavier liability.

Assumption #2)
The cultural social factors impede the quality of desi girls: the sense of individuality, their cultured learning, their personas etc etc. So what if they are transforming and bettering themselves with more liberal views, I wasn't contending against that, my main contention is that the status quo shows a general personality/psychological void in desi girls with the extra liability inclusive as per Assumption #1.

[coconut_451]

I think my arguments aren't merely a matter of opinion or view, the manifestations are way too patently obvious and irrefutable.
Consider the following.
Assumption #1)
Many desi girls prefer to seek men who they can have easy going long-term pre-marital relationships with (although the less liberal and orthodox wouldn't do this) - this acts as a gateway for marriage. So naturally their general suiting partners will have to weigh up to the ridgid ideals of a suitable marriage candidate.
When you take into consideration the criteria involved in what constitutes whether one is suitable for another or not in the desiworld ie. caste (still in effect), religion (major impact), ethnicity, family reputation, past relationships, skin-colour, beauty, height, earning capacity etc etc
the obvious preconditions are unfavourable for an alpha male, because generally they are well used to western customs of courting and fornicating which involves far less bureaucracy and is 95/100 times based purely on looks/physique/social-standing and charisma alone. The preconditions and predictability of what is desirable to a desi woman or what is feasible is non-linear and 'less easy'. And naturally, there is nothing one can do about it, because the status quo suggests there is a more cultural/religious/moral leaning in their choices.

Hence the improbability.
So one would have to look at the issue and realise, that going for an equal opposite desi girl with superior attributes fit for an alpha male is like looking for needle in a haystack.
Now, as I said, if you consider it as a business proposal, any idiot will realise the feasibility of both cases (desis and non desis) and realise which solution reaps the greatest rewards and which one has a heavier liability.

Assumption #2)
The cultural social factors impede the quality of desi girls: the sense of individuality, their cultured learning, their personas etc etc. So what if they are transforming and bettering themselves with more liberal views, I wasn't contending against that, my main contention is that the status quo shows a general personality/psychological void in desi girls with the extra liability inclusive as per Assumption #1.


dude i think your taking this just a little to personal , lets just face it people just want security no matter who they are , it just that indian people see life ending earlier then white people but its the same boat everywhere

[Echelon]

I don't know who you are , but one word: FOB, only a traditionalist backwards thinker, would look at thier mate only for "reproductive purposes," liv hurley is a hot model, but i guess your desi pride of not raising "someone elses son' gets in the way.

demi moore is hot old woman as well.I find myself a bit perplexed at some of the arguments and perceptions here.
A good example here:
http://forums.ratedesi.com/showthread.php?t=218558

[coconut_451]

hellz no.

but unlike desi "alpha males' who goes for ANY white girl,
i think the desi alpha female has 2 get the hottest out of the non=desi demographic.



very true , i personally think that this whole topic is all about personal taste and looks . i dated white guys and i dated an indian . it's really a different world to date an indian, and the only reason many people end up dating indian is cos of parents

[Coitys]

If I wasn't too afraid to go after girls in general...I would definitely go after the desi girls in my community as they are superior to other races.