OMG, why now of all times??

[chakdephute]

OK, so my girlfriend of about 3 months is having some money problems at school, so she's moving into my room for the rest of this semester so that she doesn't have to go home and deal with problems over there like her family going off on her about her shitty credit and all that. Anyway, today she moved in her clothes and is now officially here. But she's been "living" here for the past 3 weeks or so.

Anyway, today she also said "Maybe we should stop having sex". I'm like, wtf? U serious? Today of all days? Makes it seem as though she wanted to make sure she had a place to stay before she dropped the bomb. It's like she used me for her own personal gains and convenience.

So people, tell me, am I wrong in thinking this? Maybe she's just going through something hormonally? Is it fair to me to stop having sex with her seeing as how I helped her throughout her entire ordeal??

[DasJa]

There's nothing like "stop having sex!" ...ur da man of the house! :salut:

You say bend over...she best bend over if she doesn't want a black eye! :slap:

[chakdephute]

Every gift brings a penalty.
?? For the gift giver or for the recipient?

[your_mom]

OK, so my girlfriend of about 3 months is having some money problems at school, so she's moving into my room for the rest of this semester so that she doesn't have to go home and deal with problems over there like her family going off on her about her shitty credit and all that. Anyway, today she moved in her clothes and is now officially here. But she's been "living" here for the past 3 weeks or so.

Anyway, today she also said "Maybe we should stop having sex". I'm like, wtf? U serious? Today of all days? Makes it seem as though she wanted to make sure she had a place to stay before she dropped the bomb. It's like she used me for her own personal gains and convenience.

So people, tell me, am I wrong in thinking this? Maybe she's just going through something hormonally? Is it fair to me to stop having sex with her seeing as how I helped her throughout her entire ordeal??


did you ask her why she wants to stop?

[sexy_kuta]

she is using you..

a girl will do anything to please u if she REALLY lik(ed) you

a relationship without sex is just a freindship

[your_mom]

she is using you..

a girl will do anything to please u if she REALLY lik(ed) you

a relationship without sex is just a freindship

yah thats what I was thinking too.

[Gora]

:lol:

Honestly, just sit back... if you love her then you should let her stay, if not just kick her ass out!

I had the same situation when I had to give this girl free rides in my car from school to her house even after we broke up! I still gave her free rides until she figured something out .... because you don't slap someone on their face like that... you know...

[sexy_kuta]

:lol:

Honestly, just sit back... if you love her then you should let her stay, if not just kick her ass out!

I had the same situation when I had to give this girl free rides in my car from school to her house even after we broke up! I still gave her free rides until she figured something out .... because you don't slap someone on their face like that... you know...

theres a line man theres a line.. and not sometimes but most of the times girls dont see that line because its the guys fault for not drawing it Or pin pointing it from the mutha fucking beginning...

thats the most important thing u GOTTA do no matter how nice she is.. who she is. how she is related to u..
its not a fact of being an asshole.. its a matter of self respect and certain things u just dont take..

guys make that mistake. so do girls but girls make it more often.. they will tag along like a lost puppy dogg even when their man cheats..

guys, who are whipped like a motherfuck, do anything. and the funny thing is his ass is getting played inside and OUT. (not saying u did, nothing to do wit u)

sometimes its not all about how much u love her.. in fact. the more u love her, the EASIER SHE got it.. EASIER she can fuk wit you.

u gotta be smart. think ahead, have ur hand open and lay the next set of cards...

this girl is telling u we should stop having sex is a sign of lost interest. meaning shes either doesnt like u, and is using u or theres another guy on her mind. but either way this girl has problems so u should give her time. she cant even support herself financially and when your there tryin to help her out, shes pulling bogus shit? give her 2 more weeks MAX to get her shit together.. and if she gives u more bulllshit signs, tell her u need ur space and kick her out.

this girl has parents that should be looking after her. not you.. she got this far past high school im SURE she can manage her way

[Gora]

theres a line man theres a line.. and not sometimes but most of the times girls dont see that line because its the guys fault for not drawing it Or pin pointing it from the mutha fucking beginning...

thats the most important thing u GOTTA do no matter how nice she is.. who she is. how she is related to u..
its not a fact of being an asshole.. its a matter of self respect and certain things u just dont take..

guys make that mistake. so do girls but girls make it more often.. they will tag along like a lost puppy dogg even when their man cheats..

guys, who are whipped like a motherfuck, do anything. and the funny thing is his ass is getting played inside and OUT. (not saying u did, nothing to do wit u)

sometimes its not all about how much u love her.. in fact. the more u love her, the EASIER SHE got it.. EASIER she can fuk wit you.

u gotta be smart. think ahead, have ur hand open and lay the next set of cards...

this girl is telling u we should stop having sex is a sign of lost interest. meaning shes either doesnt like u, and is using u or theres another guy on her mind. but either way this girl has problems so u should give her time. she cant even support herself financially and when your there tryin to help u out, shes pulling bogus shit? give her 2 more weeks MAX to get her shit together.. and if she gives u more bulllshit signs, tell her u need ur space and kick her out.

this girl has parents that should be looking after her. not you.. she got this far past high school im SURE she can manage her way

:lol: @ lost puppy dogg... so ture...


All girls are sluts man... I use to think only white girls were but they all are! Girls are sperm bags... :no:

[sexy_kuta]

:lol: @ lost puppy dogg... so ture...


All girls are sluts man... I use to think only white girls were but they all are! Girls are sperm bags... :no:

i wouldn't say all girls are sluts but there are some girls i've fucking spat on and they deserved it..


guys aren't that much different either. you be surprised on how insecure guys can get.
i seen guys fight for looking at a girl.. i seen a fight, guy ended in the hospital.. the reason they fought cuz the guy stepped on the other guys SHOE during a 5 on 5 basketball game..

i dont understand the fact that why would u get mad if a guy is talkin to your girl...

its not like shes going to give her number out to him and shes your girl for a reason. shes only fukin u not others. so why get so upset? and if your that insecure about your girl with other guys.. let me tell you this.. if your girl REALLY wanted to cheat.. she'd do it before you could even picture her doing cheatin

[Gora]

ohhh by the way, I do believe she is having second thoughts about the relationship bro... trust me!

She needs time, once she has enough time she will leave your ass for good! So... you know what to do... :yes:

[your_mom]

i wouldnt say all girls are sluts but there are some girls i've fucking spat on and they deserved it..


guys arent that much different either. you be suprised on how insecure guys can get.

wow maybe both of you should stop dating trash.

[Gora]

i wouldnt say all girls are sluts but there are some girls i've fucking spat on and they deserved it..


guys arent that much different either. you be suprised on how insecure guys can get.

The girls that I dated were all sluts trying to fit in with my crew n’ shit... anyways long story... seems like your sick n’ tired of the game???

[sexy_kuta]

wow maybe both of you should stop dating trash.

i never dated a girl who i gotta spit on...these were hoes from my school, those hoes with big egos.

i dated well over 30 girls.. two of them passed the first date..

[Gora]

wow maybe both of you should stop dating trash.

The only non sperm bags girls are left back home...

[sexy_kuta]

The girls that I dated were all sluts trying to fit in with my crew n’ shit... anyways long story... seems like your sick n’ tired of the game???
its not that im just sick and tired. i just got no room and time to play silly games.. i got too much shit to do and i got goals to achieve

[your_mom]

i never dated a girl who i gotta spit on...these were hoes from my school, those hoes with big egos.

i dated well over 30 girls.. two of them passed the first date..

i stand corrected. stop sleeping with hoes.

[your_mom]

The only non sperm bags girls are left back home...

then go back to pakistan

[Gora]

its not that im just sick and tired. i just got no room and time to play silly games.. i got too much shit to do and i got goals to achieve

True man... just keep getting money...

[sexy_kuta]

i stand corrected. stop sleeping with hoes.

lol.... thats like sayin

"stop drinking, its bad for you"

[your_mom]

lol.... thats like sayin

"stop drinking, its bad for you"

alright. stop drinking. it is bad for you.

[sexy_kuta]

alright. stop drinking. it is bad for you.

how come?

[Gora]

then go back to pakistan

I’m not going no where! My parents already have found me a nice educated, middle class girl and guess what bitch? She can cook, clean, manage kids, and pleasure as the same time!

[sexy_kuta]

I’m not going no where! My parents already have found me a nice educated, middle class girl and guess what bitch? She can cook, clean, manage kids, and pleasure as the same time!

hahha damn i like that

[your_mom]

how come?
]
drinking makes you stupid because it kills brain cells.
hoes are similar. they don't kill brain cells but they could kill you if they carry an STD or maybe HIV.

actually on second thought, keep drinking. stop sleeping with hoes. this way you'll at least be alive, even if you're stupid.

[your_mom]

I’m not going no where! My parents already have found me a nice educated, middle class girl and guess what bitch? She can cook, clean, manage kids, and pleasure as the same time!

chillax killa. dont call me names. its disrespectful.
aayte I'm happy for you.

[Gora]

hahha damn i like that


:lol:

[Gora]

chillax killa. dont call me names. its disrespectful.
aayte I'm happy for you.

I'm sorry...

[sexy_kuta]

]
drinking makes you stupid because it kills brain cells.
hoes are similar. they don't kill brain cells but they could kill you if they carry an STD or maybe HIV.

actually on second thought, keep drinking. stop sleeping with hoes. this way you'll at least be alive, even if you're stupid.
who said i sleep with the hoes? haha
assumptions aren't a good thing baby


:wavey:

[your_mom]

I'm sorry...

that's all I ask

[your_mom]

who said i sleep with the hoes? haha
assumptions aren't a good thing baby


:wavey:

very true. so set me straight.

[sexy_kuta]

very true. so set me straight.

standards..

[your_mom]

standards..

those are always good.

[sexy_kuta]

those are always good.

so are rotis with mango juice on the side
:D

[your_mom]

so are rotis with mango juice on the side
:D

meh. I prefer naan with mango shake on the side.
:)

[sexy_kuta]

meh. I prefer naan with mango shake on the side.
:)

pff thats AIGHT...

[your_mom]

pff thats AIGHT...
pshhhttt better then your preference

[sexy_kuta]

pshhhttt better then your preference

i can see you have very high tastes!



:rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:


:dance3:

aloo roti for the VIN!

[your_mom]

i can see you have very high tastes!



:rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:


:dance3:

aloo roti for the VIN!


haha yes i suppose...

ugh fine. Aloo roti it is.

[your_mom]

i can see you have very high tastes!



:rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes:


:dance3:

aloo roti for the VIN!

anyhow it's 12 and I'm about to go relax. goodnight.

[punjabisweetie]

Or maybe she has a different reason she wants to stop? Just ask her why...if she is so stressed out maybe she just doesnt want to sit there fucking a guy, maybe she wants emotional love and support before physical. You guys have only been going out for three months!

[-SyLpH-]

:lol: @ lost puppy dogg... so ture...


All girls are sluts man... I use to think only white girls were but they all are! Girls are sperm bags... :no:
all of u mad !!!!! :sarb: :sarb: :sarb: :sarb: :sarb: :sarb:

[jat_jatt_sardar]

OK, so my girlfriend of about 3 months is having some money problems at school, so she's moving into my room for the rest of this semester so that she doesn't have to go home and deal with problems over there like her family going off on her about her shitty credit and all that. Anyway, today she moved in her clothes and is now officially here. But she's been "living" here for the past 3 weeks or so.

Anyway, today she also said "Maybe we should stop having sex". I'm like, wtf? U serious? Today of all days? Makes it seem as though she wanted to make sure she had a place to stay before she dropped the bomb. It's like she used me for her own personal gains and convenience.

So people, tell me, am I wrong in thinking this? Maybe she's just going through something hormonally? Is it fair to me to stop having sex with her seeing as how I helped her throughout her entire ordeal??

do not let rundis command u!! lol

[zeeshan_lon]

maybe your just not satisfying her !

[hawthamzi]

What would Jesus do?

SaT
jesus would say, "bitch turn ur other cheeks and keep walkin in that direction. Maybe we should stop living 2getha? Now how does that sound?"

[Ash_s2002]

There's nothing like "stop having sex!" ...ur da man of the house! :salut:

You say bend over...she best bend over if she doesn't want a black eye! :slap:
:rofl: u a-hole

[vgirl]

ask her wattup before you make conclusions.

[DasJa]

:rofl: u a-hole
:lol: I keep it consistently male-biased :mrhappy:

[chakdephute]

Or maybe she has a different reason she wants to stop? Just ask her why...if she is so stressed out maybe she just doesnt want to sit there fucking a guy, maybe she wants emotional love and support before physical. You guys have only been going out for three months!
See that's just the thing, we've been having sex like mad before this happened. She's on her rag right now if that means anything.

[chakdephute]

hehe, I guess I answered my own question. damn hormones

[sexy_kuta]

hehe, I guess I answered my own question. damn hormones
give her space and time.. but have some limits..
u cant help her if shes going through shit. she can only deal with it herself.. if u there shes just gonna throw it on you.. give it 2-3 weeks MAX to get her shit together meaning.. if shes still the same, giving stupid mixed signals like not being there for u. showing lack of attachment(less sex) less interests then its obvious something is up.. if she stops doing the things she used to do u then move on.

number one rule don't be a DOOR MAT!

[*1001Nights*]

lol....sucks for you.....sex before marrage is haraam......im sorry i have nothing of use to say....

[sexy_kuta]

lol....sucks for you.....sex before marrage is haraam......im sorry i have nothing of use to say....

thats your religion..

not his.

and your point?

[*1001Nights*]

thats your religion..

not his.

and your point?
thats most religions.......jus noone takes it srsly.......i dun need a point

[sexy_kuta]

thats most religions.......jus noone takes it srsly.......i dun need a point

what does it prove though? whats the difference in sex before or after marriage..

[*1001Nights*]

what does it prove though? whats the difference in sex before or after marriage..
well if u have sex after ur married no chance of having STDs since both of uz will be virgins.......also no baby daddy drama....and the guy wont be worried hes not living up to her previous guys.......i dun wanna argue........he chooses how he wants to live

[sexy_kuta]

well if u have sex after ur married no chance of having STDs since both of uz will be virgins.......also no baby daddy drama....and the guy wont be worried hes not living up to her previous guys.......i dun wanna argue........he chooses how he wants to live

thats irrelevant

thats like saying, "i am going to stay inside my house so i dont catch the flu"

most dumbest thing I've ever heard fuk.
u cant stop life. what ever happens happens. u only have limits for what happens and those limits are choices.. no baby drama is cause by lack of intelligent in choices..
marriage isnt something u just get in and stay.. if u want a marriage to suceed you gotta know what ur doing..

and since WHEN DO PPL TELL THE MUTHER FUCKING TRUTH?
just because some girl tells you, there a virgin DONT Make them a virgin

its not an argument. more of a disscusion

[jat_jatt_sardar]

thats your religion..

not his.

and your point?
why? what religion is he? Isn;t a person who have sex with rundis haraamzada? lol

[jat_jatt_sardar]

See that's just the thing, we've been having sex like mad before this happened. She's on her rag right now if that means anything.
A rundi on a rag, no idea what that means?

[chakdephute]

lol....sucks for you.....sex before marrage is haraam......im sorry i have nothing of use to say....
Then don't say anything about it to me. Sexy kuta is right, it's your religion and not mine. Plus, there are many things that can break a woman's hymen if u are using that as a way to define virginity. Simple horse-back riding can break it. Also, when you talk of reduced risk of STD with no sex, u forget that simple Herpes can be spread through kissing.

If u don't really want to argue and really believe how I choose to live my life is my decision, then you wouldn't have posted this useless crap.

[chakdephute]

A rundi on a rag, no idea what that means?
Rag=period.

[jat_jatt_sardar]

Then don't say anything about it to me. Sexy kuta is right, it's your religion and not mine. Plus, there are many things that can break a woman's hymen if u are using that as a way to define virginity. Simple horse-back riding can break it. Also, when you talk of reduced risk of STD with no sex, u forget that simple Herpes can be spread through kissing.

If u don't really want to argue and really believe how I choose to live my life is my decision, then you wouldn't have posted this useless crap.
yes its your decision, so quit moaning about your girl lol
:p :p :p

[foreverconfused]

thats most religions.......jus noone takes it srsly.......i dun need a point

Well, how is your post even remotely applicable here? Religion is a personal thing, and it's not a crime to choose not to follow it.

[foreverconfused]

See that's just the thing, we've been having sex like mad before this happened. She's on her rag right now if that means anything.

That may indeed have something to do with it. :ugh:

[foreverconfused]

Or maybe she has a different reason she wants to stop? Just ask her why...if she is so stressed out maybe she just doesnt want to sit there fucking a guy, maybe she wants emotional love and support before physical. You guys have only been going out for three months!

Exactly.

[chakdephute]

yes its your decision, so quit moaning about your girl lol
:p :p :p
????

Why are you here? Dood, if you're waiting for marriage to deal with women, you're in for one hell of a surprise. Might as well get some experience and learn the true dealings of womankind.

Also, people, I didn't ask for your approval. So please, spare me the morality crap and go preach to someone else on your moral high horses. I know that what I do is good enough in God's eyes so that I do not feel the need to show others the light.

[jat_jatt_sardar]

????

Why are you here? Dood, if you're waiting for marriage to deal with women, you're in for one hell of a surprise. Might as well get some experience and learn the true dealings of womankind.

Also, people, I didn't ask for your approval. So please, spare me the morality crap and go preach to someone else on your moral high horses. I know that what I do is good enough in God's eyes so that I do not feel the need to show others the light.
if u don;t need others approval then why u moaning on here? lol
I know plenty of rude bois in the uk, I don;t need to approve anything they do :D but don;t mind dissin em either if they try to flaunt their rundis too much.

1st post u chattin about oh dee fuddi marda and u tellin me i am preachin, accha fir whatever....

[jat_jatt_sardar]

????

Why are you here? Dood, if you're waiting for marriage to deal with women, you're in for one hell of a surprise. Might as well get some experience and learn the true dealings of womankind.

not all kuris are easy kuttis to get be4 marriage, I don't go for em. i don't know about the kuris in usa, seem a bit mess up some of them.
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