Far distance relationships

[-x- Maya -x-]

What do you guys think about far distance relationships, both live in the UK, however 200 miles apart, could it ever work out hmm? Dont u think its based on trust? what are your views? :sarb:

[DasJa]

It's tuff though!! You only meet on occasions, lot of time is spent keeping in touch on the fone/internet. And trust, absolute trust, is the number one thing. If you get jealous at each other, or start arguing about li'l stuff and break up every 2-3 weeks..it'll be a miracle to keep the relationship last long!

[Pakidoll82]

It can work out you just have to be committed to each other and have faith that it will work out

[di vinci]

when the cats away the mouse will play............... it come to trust and him being 200miles away i dont think u can keep tabs on him at all.

[di vinci]

It can work out you just have to be committed to each other and have faith that it will work out
typical women response, i bet u still belive in happy ever ending :D

[DasJa]

typical women response, i bet u still belive in happy ever ending :D
..and unicorns...dont forget the damn unicorns!

[di vinci]

..and unicorns...dont forget the damn unicorns!
as were here we should also include fairies and prince charming :D

[Pakidoll82]

typical women response, i bet u still belive in happy ever ending :DNo, life doesn't really have happy endings..... things don't exacty work out the way you want them....

[DasJa]

as were here we should also include fairies and prince charming :D
and violins playing at the 1st kiss :boohoo:

[L_A_X__addiction]

nope.

you start to lose interest in the person when you haven't seen him in a while.

or maybe that's just me...

but i would say its a no go.

[cerberus]

No life doesn't really have happy ending..... things don't excatly work out the way you want them....


Its true. Once I met this girl and well..............................

Yeah I loved her soooo much but we couldn't be together. I'm just lucky though that we ever got to meet. She had me get on with my life and I made her get on with hers.

Happy endings? I think there are many out there but it just depends what you mean by happy. Happy isn't always getting everything u want

[Pakidoll82]

Its true. Once I met this girl and well..............................

Yeah I loved her soooo much but we couldn't be together. I'm just lucky though that we ever got to meet. She had me get on with my life and I made her get on with hers.

Happy endings? I think there are many out there but it just depends what you mean by happy. Happy isn't always getting everything u want
:cry::sniff:

[maryammmm]

it NEVER works ...


i was on a long distance relationship ....

so i would know

[-x- Maya -x-]

yeh i know where ur all comming from, its interesting to see how diff ppl view such things, thnx tho buddies x :p

[stillsedated]

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/6360339.stm

[oldskool_desi]

It works,, if both of u are really serious and think of each other as your better half then there is nothing going to come between you. Both people have to be committed and must have fully decided that you want to take the relationship further (marriage) otherwise long distance relationships don’t work and obviously have no point.

People who tell you “it don’t work” are either not committed or are untrustworthy and would cheat or have been cheated on by the long d partner and have lost faith.

But there is no point in being in such a relationship if it isn’t already at a point where both want to get married or are deeply in love with each other. If that’s not the case then it’s just a waste of time because you both will have opportunities to get with someone else.

[oldskool_desi]

it NEVER works ...


i was on a long distance relationship ....

so i would know


What a naive and narrow minded answer. :nuts:

[_Menace_]

What do you guys think about far distance relationships, both live in the UK, however 200 miles apart, could it ever work out hmm? Dont u think its based on trust? what are your views? :sarb:

i'm in a long distant relationship but it's longer than 200 miles...longer than 400 miles....longer than 600 miles....basically im in the UK and shes in america (florida) :( we've been together for 13 months it'll be 14 months in 6 days so far it's going good so yeah long distant relationships can work out aslong as you trust the person you're with and they trust you

[*BabyGirl*]

amm it has its ups and down. You don't see each other frequently, which can proove to be a good and a bad thing. If you want it to work, you would both have to be really serious about it.. and willing to sacrifice time and energy.

[p0rt_1337]

amm it has its ups and down. You don't see each other frequently, which can proove to be a good and a bad thing. If you want it to work, you would both have to be really serious about it.. and willing to sacrifice time and energy.


its all about faith. not just the word but the FEELING behind it. If its real then dont matter if u have an internet relationship for 70 yrs then meet once before u die, to me its still worth it.

[~*ZainaB*~]

when it comes to relationships anything is possible.. depends on the nature of the 2 partners involved.. My cousin met her Bf in jeddah and now he has temp moved to canda.. its been almost 2 years..she was here for a while as well..but now she is back in Jeddah.. theyre oceans apart..so if its meant to work out .. doors always open.. you need alot of trust and patience though

[RL_RHCP]

psychology wise...

relationships are based on factors, one of these being physical proximity, (others being physical attraction, personality, comparrison levels etc etc) even though you can still talk and do whatever, the closeness if not already will be an issue, you'll end up either wanting to see more of eachother, or feeling jealous and or suspicious of your partner...its inevitable

BUT at the same time, seeing too much of eachother can lead to relationship dissolution rapidly, psychology studies have shown that we both love and hate people in very close proximity

my personal view

if you want something enough, you'll work for it, you'll find a way, but relationships are based on two people, so you might if not yourself find your partner gettin the jealous / suspicious characteristics....

[minty~ice~cold]

For a second that username^ was PCP.

Random.

[dayven]

well its working for my cuz...his gf lives 400 miles away...and he goes to see her in Uni very week.....he even went last nite just for V-day....the weather was soo bad...but he didnt care.... :o

[-x- Maya -x-]

Yeah ur all right in ur own ways, well yeh it might sound awkward to some but i don't see any problem with me feeling the way i do, maybe, it's not something i wanted believe in the beginning, but yeh maybe im not the only one then :dance3:

[-x- Maya -x-]

its all about faith. not just the word but the FEELING behind it. If its real then dont matter if u have an internet relationship for 70 yrs then meet once before u die, to me its still worth it.
Yeah ur right

[*BabyGirl*]

its all about faith. not just the word but the FEELING behind it. If its real then dont matter if u have an internet relationship for 70 yrs then meet once before u die, to me its still worth it.

All relationships are based on faith. But long distance relationships require you to sacrifice alot of time and energy.

lol @ internet relationships :neutral:

[chutney whore]

distance makes the heart grow fonder?

[5jabi420]

you need to have an incredible amount of trust between one another. In my opinion, trust is the key to a relationship, everything else will fall in place later on.

Most of all...you've got to have that special connection with the person...if you have these things, then honestly, no matter how far apart you are, and don't get to see them...it'll work out. After all...true love does exist...:love:

[daswissbeats]

What do you guys think about far distance relationships, both live in the UK, however 200 miles apart, could it ever work out hmm? Dont u think its based on trust? what are your views? :sarb:

well...u need trust but then again the guy espically the guy might cheat on u and u'll NEVER know now will u

[freshmanik_13]

based on noodz !

[-x- Maya -x-]

distance makes the heart grow fonder?
True indeed

[-x- Maya -x-]

you need to have an incredible amount of trust between one another. In my opinion, trust is the key to a relationship, everything else will fall in place later on.

Most of all...you've got to have that special connection with the person...if you have these things, then honestly, no matter how far apart you are, and don't get to see them...it'll work out. After all...true love does exist...:love:
exactly thats y its based on trust, no?

[-x- Maya -x-]

you need to have an incredible amount of trust between one another. In my opinion, trust is the key to a relationship, everything else will fall in place later on.

Most of all...you've got to have that special connection with the person...if you have these things, then honestly, no matter how far apart you are, and don't get to see them...it'll work out. After all...true love does exist...:love:
Yeh ur also right, awww bless u buddy xxx

[hawthamzi]

It works,, if both of u are really serious and think of each other as your better half then there is nothing going to come between you. Both people have to be committed and must have fully decided that you want to take the relationship further (marriage) otherwise long distance relationships dont work and obviously have no point.

People who tell you it dont work are either not committed or are untrustworthy and would cheat or have been cheated on by the long d partner and have lost faith.

But there is no point in being in such a relationship if it isnt already at a point where both want to get married or are deeply in love with each other. If thats not the case then its just a waste of time because you both will have opportunities to get with someone else.
bedn there. An ur right. But there are other factors that come into play aswell. But they can b the same 4 any relationship. Basically if ur dead serious then u shouldnt let the opportunity pass you by. Any relationship is a gamble. But hey if u dont extend ur arm then nobody's guna shake ur hand. Even if everything falls 2 shit then u atleast know that you gave it your best shot but maybe its just not meant to be. U can only try. But then again its not something il b considering in the future, bt u never knw. Just go with the flow. Follow ur heart.

[*~MuFFiN~*]

depends on the people taking part in it...

me and my bf have been together for , mashAllah se, a year and nine months...

dunno the miles apart...but ...im in New York (US) and hes in Montreal (Canada)

[TheLoneAvenger]

depends on the people taking part in it...

me and my bf have been together for , mashAllah se, a year and nine months...

dunno the miles apart...but ...im in New York (US) and hes in Montreal (Canada)

Using mashAllah to describe having a boyfriend. That seems somewhat contradictory

[-x- Maya -x-]

depends on the people taking part in it...

me and my bf have been together for , mashAllah se, a year and nine months...

dunno the miles apart...but ...im in New York (US) and hes in Montreal (Canada)
Awww bless u both, i guess u just gotta be devoted, with the foundation of trust, its sweet xxx

[untouchable90]

bedn there. An ur right. But there are other factors that come into play aswell. But they can b the same 4 any relationship. Basically if ur dead serious then u shouldnt let the opportunity pass you by. Any relationship is a gamble. But hey if u dont extend ur arm then nobody's guna shake ur hand. Even if everything falls 2 shit then u atleast know that you gave it your best shot but maybe its just not meant to be. U can only try. But then again its not something il b considering in the future, bt u never knw. Just go with the flow. Follow ur heart.

second that........Distance means nothing in the face of love..its worth a shot. whoose the lucky guy? lol

[-x- Maya -x-]

bedn there. An ur right. But there are other factors that come into play aswell. But they can b the same 4 any relationship. Basically if ur dead serious then u shouldnt let the opportunity pass you by. Any relationship is a gamble. But hey if u dont extend ur arm then nobody's guna shake ur hand. Even if everything falls 2 shit then u atleast know that you gave it your best shot but maybe its just not meant to be. U can only try. But then again its not something il b considering in the future, bt u never knw. Just go with the flow. Follow ur heart.
U gotta point, but then again sometimes following ur heart isn't always the best thing to do, theres times where u could regret certain moments in life etc, hmm this stuff can be kinda complicated, or is it just me making it complicated?? :-s

[desirably_Beauty]

I've been with my boyfriend for about a year now and it's been working out great;I live in USA and he in UK and we've been doing great! It depends on the STRENGTH of the relationship. If its weak to medicore then no way in hell...you or him will eventually meet someone else.

Long distance relationships will put that extra strain on one. Its very hard to keep faith, trust, and loyalty in your partner when there is so much distance between the two of you.The TWO main things you in a long distance relationship is TRUST and COMMUNICATON. If you can't trust your partner, or tell them when you need to talk or having issues, then it is never going to work. You have to be able to share everything with them. And be able to accept everything he/she has to say as well. More than ever you need to be there for eachother without actually BEING there.

[5jabi420]

Yeh ur also right, awww bless u buddy xxx


lolz, thanks dude...i've been with my guy, mashallah for about 2 years and 4 months...he lives in VA n me in TX, mashallah we've been able to make it work out...:love:

[yo2344]

wont last that long wit a long distance relationship.

[hawthamzi]

second that........Distance means nothing in the face of love..its worth a shot. whoose the lucky guy? lol
Guy? Wtf!! Nah mate, i dont roll like that!!

[hawthamzi]

U gotta point, but then again sometimes following ur heart isn't always the best thing to do, theres times where u could regret certain moments in life etc, hmm this stuff can be kinda complicated, or is it just me making it complicated?? :-s
your making it complicated. U cant knock something till youve tried it. And if shit goes tits up then u learn. Its better than regreting that u shouldve....
Like that famous quote cliche wateva

[EwLookItsYou]

What do you guys think about far distance relationships, both live in the UK, however 200 miles apart, could it ever work out hmm? Dont u think its based on trust? what are your views? :sarb:
It's not for everyone.. depends on the two people..
I'm in one and it takes a tooon of understanding and patience..
I like it because we can both keep our independance..
I dislike it cuz of the obvious. It seriously all depends.
If u know you're a jealous type or you need constant attention from your other then save urself the stress and don't get involved.. If you have any gut feelings or doubts then DON'T ignore it. If you feel like you can handle it and you think he can then go for it.. but if you feel like he might not be able to as much as he begs then DON'T get into it. just trust how you feel.
My guy and I are celebrating our 2 year on the 18th and its great so far because we're very in tune with each other, but mostly cuz we know we're gunna be close together wen we both go to college in the fall.. but if you know there's not much of a chance you two will be closer together at a certain point, then save the trouble..

[PakPlaya69]

What do you guys think about far distance relationships, both live in the UK, however 200 miles apart, could it ever work out hmm? Dont u think its based on trust? what are your views? :sarb:

Its stupid ass , it ll never work , unless she is hot as and she likes to use to wb cam ;)

[skriller]

It's tuff though!! You only meet on occasions, lot of time is spent keeping in touch on the fone/internet. And trust, absolute trust, is the number one thing. If you get jealous at each other, or start arguing about li'l stuff and break up every 2-3 weeks..it'll be a miracle to keep the relationship last long!
:werd:

[-x- Maya -x-]

your making it complicated. U cant knock something till youve tried it. And if shit goes tits up then u learn. Its better than regreting that u shouldve....
Like that famous quote cliche wateva

Hmm yeh possibly :sarb:

[-x- Maya -x-]

Guy? Wtf!! Nah mate, i dont roll like that!!
Lmao i dont think he implied that at u, he was just simply referring to what u said, lol

[Areez_UK_HUSTLER]

Ive been with my woman now for a month, but the distance is a killer... Im in UK london...... and shes in Canada - t.dot.......

Went out in Jan,

Going out in March for 3 weeks,

and then shes spending summer over here with me, and then one of us is gonna make the move hopefully!

Yeah its tuff but i trust her and love her deeply!

with those two by my side........ we can overcome anything!

whats 4432 miles between a couple!?!? hehe

[Z4K5T4R]

It's tuff though!! You only meet on occasions, lot of time is spent keeping in touch on the fone/internet. And trust, absolute trust, is the number one thing. If you get jealous at each other, or start arguing about li'l stuff and break up every 2-3 weeks..it'll be a miracle to keep the relationship last long!Works for me fine - been nearly a year now and we haven't broken up, once you break up once and get back together it's easy to do in frequently liek a habit break up when things are bad. Even though we have our moments when we get jealous, me being the worst but we talk it over and sort it out - natural to be jealous.

We have our moments when we see each other every weekend or he'll stay over or we'll see each other every 2-3 weeks depending on whether we're rich that month or not, lol.

Trust is something that should be there from the beginning, you don't doubt person throughout.

It works if you make it work naturally


Ive been with my woman now for a month, but the distance is a killer... Im in UK london...... and shes in Canada - t.dot.......

Went out in Jan,

Going out in March for 3 weeks,

and then shes spending summer over here with me, and then one of us is gonna make the move hopefully!

Yeah its tuff but i trust her and love her deeply!

with those two by my side........ we can overcome anything!

whats 4432 miles between a couple!?!? hehe
And the point in that relationship is? How often do you see each other? Once / twice a year?

[subaru]

What do you guys think about far distance relationships, both live in the UK, however 200 miles apart, could it ever work out hmm? Dont u think its based on trust? what are your views? :sarb:

This thread title is pissing me off!!


its LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS idiot!

[Areez_UK_HUSTLER]

Works for me fine - been nearly a year now and we haven't broken up, once you break up once and get back together it's easy to do in frequently liek a habit break up when things are bad. Even though we have our moments when we get jealous, me being the worst but we talk it over and sort it out - natural to be jealous.

We have our moments when we see each other every weekend or he'll stay over or we'll see each other every 2-3 weeks depending on whether we're rich that month or not, lol.

Trust is something that should be there from the beginning, you don't doubt person throughout.

It works if you make it work naturally



And the point in that relationship is? How often do you see each other? Once / twice a year?


Actually i get to see her daily.... MSN is an ingenius invention, and although its not ideal... it will suffice, and from when I get her out here living with me within the next 4-5 months...... I think it'll be worth it!!

[-x- Maya -x-]

Ive been with my woman now for a month, but the distance is a killer... Im in UK london...... and shes in Canada - t.dot.......

Went out in Jan,

Going out in March for 3 weeks,

and then shes spending summer over here with me, and then one of us is gonna make the move hopefully!

Yeah its tuff but i trust her and love her deeply!

with those two by my side........ we can overcome anything!

whats 4432 miles between a couple!?!? hehe
Awwww yeah, i see what you mean, we're not together, just buddies atm, dnt knw if anything will happen in the future, but if it does, i think i can trust him enough, yet trust is the foundation and it keeps growing x

[-x- Maya -x-]

This thread title is pissing me off!!


its LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS idiot!
U get it though duhh, no one's perfect we all make mistakes god damn it, oh yes and if its 'pisisng u off' why bother viewing the thread?? :werd:!!

[Arshy]

it works, and i can vouch for it.... :)

i known cases where it has worked through
8 years...
6 years...
2 years...

and all ended in marriages.....

it's all down to the people involved and how old they are...
if they're teenagers who act like teenagers then forget it..
but if there is maturity involved then its works...

and its always best to date a girl from out of town.....coz that way no person can point a finger and say i know her past, and try to dish dirt on her! (just my views)

[untouchable90]

U get it though duhh, no one's perfect we all make mistakes god damn it, oh yes and if its 'pisisng u off' why bother viewing the thread?? :werd:!!
:werd:

[-x- Maya -x-]

:werd:
????

[subaru]

U get it though duhh, no one's perfect we all make mistakes god damn it, oh yes and if its 'pisisng u off' why bother viewing the thread?? :werd:!!

quiet noob. I came to view it cause i wanted to know who the idiot was.

[daswissbeats]

erm... i thought u guys were on about long distance relationships where u 2 are in the same country and relatively close e.g anywhere in england and anywhere else in england BUT uk and us? lol hows tat supposed to work, u will see each other like once a year, and it will be espically diffcult if ur young like under 18 becuz u wnt be travelling there urself and even if u did ur partner would not let u into his or her house becuz she dnt want the parents 2 find out...
this must be a desi thing becuz ive neva heard of a guy here say ive got a gf in US lol its like not having a gf at all haha cuz how u supposed to kiss each other and that.

[muks]

It cud wrk if it wrks ur way. But u shud try 2 c each other wen ever possible n b committed

[-x- Maya -x-]

It cud wrk if it wrks ur way. But u shud try 2 c each other wen ever possible n b committed
It needs to work both ways buddy