Parents dont want you to marry muslims or blacks...

[MoonChildChick]

So I've been speaking with a lot of desi chicks and d*cks about marriage. It's a common thing to hear that most hindus and sikhs won't marry muslims or blacks due to parental breakdowns and disownership threats. Why is that?:sarb: And if you decide to go against the grain how would you deal with the family?


Discuss cause I'm curious!

[la_bele_dame]

sadly its true - my folks will probably disown me if i married a muslim or a black.....


not that i m supporting them in their beliefs but since i really dont wanna hurt my parents feelings ever - i wont ever get myself involved with a muslim or a black

[TheLoneAvenger]

Would marrying a black Muslim cause their heads to explode?

[x_xamzx_x]

i always joke about with my parents about how im gonna marry a black man and its funny seeing their reaction :rofl:

[sexxichic2envy]

Would marrying a black Muslim cause their heads to explode?
:razz:

[x_xamzx_x]

Would marrying a black Muslim cause their heads to explode?
yes it probably would..
to them BLACK is BLACK :neutral:

[Ash_s2002]

i always joke about with my parents about how im gonna marry a black man and its funny seeing their reaction :rofl:
once again thank gawd im black

[x_xamzx_x]

once again thank gawd im black
you are not black :squint:

[21cent]

what makes u hindu girls think we would marry u?

[Ash_s2002]

you are not black :squint:
u can pretend cant you :(

[x_xamzx_x]

what makes u hindu girls think we would marry u?
:lol:

[x_xamzx_x]

u can pretend cant you :(
just this once :hug:

[MoonChildChick]

what makes u hindu girls think we would marry u?
Why are you on a desi site?:p It's cause we're hot and you want a peice!

[Ash_s2002]

just this once :hug:
omg i feel pretty oh so pretty, so witty and gay....

[sexxichic2envy]

Why are you on a desi site?:p It's cause we're hot and you want a peice!
Muslims are desis, too?? :idea:

[MoonChildChick]

Muslims are desis, too?? :idea:

Good question...:sarb:

[DasJa]

Yeah...lot of religious tension, cohesion...drama...to avoid that I guess! And black peeps already have a somewhat sordid rep. of being only thugs and g's....I mean...they openly say, "Only way outta the hood, is if you can sing, or if you can hoop!".

[x_xamzx_x]

omg i feel pretty oh so pretty, so witty and gay....
stop being so :gay:

[paki_canadian20]

what makes u hindu girls think we would marry u?
lol

[sexxichic2envy]

Good question...:sarb:
i was stating it.....(don't mind the question marks)

[Ash_s2002]

stop being so :gay:
:gayfight:..u know u like it

[surface2air]

what makes u hindu girls think we would marry u?:rofl:

[surface2air]

Good question...:sarb::rofl:

[*CUTIEE*]

what makes u hindu girls think we would marry u?^^ llool

[MoonChildChick]

Please make note that this isn't meant to be a religious debate. I asked a simple question so answer as such. :salut:

[paki_canadian20]

Muslims are desis, too?? :idea:

the answer to that question is yes u dumb girl

[sexxichic2envy]

the answer to that question is yes u dumb girl
No shit, you dumb cunt. Hence the icon >>> :idea:

Fucking morons on this site, I swear.

[*CUTIEE*]

the answer to that question is yes u dumb girlShe wasn't asking. She was TELLING the girl.
Moonchild chick automatically must of thought he was black instead of muslim.

[sexxichic2envy]

She wasn't asking. She was TELLING the girl.
Moonchild chick automatically must of thought he was black instead of muslim.
LMFAO.. thank u!

[west rowley]

Im A Sikh.My Love Is With A Muslim Female.I Will Marry Her.I Dont Care What My Family Would Say.I Control My Life FIRMLY"

EVERYTHING Is From God.All Faiths Are From One God So How Can One Family See Such Differnce Apart From There Faith"

[21cent]

She wasn't asking. She was TELLING the girl.
Moonchild chick automatically must of thought he was black instead of muslim.


iam black .............waist down :p

[RacingSoul]

the answer to that question is yes u dumb girl


No shit, you dumb cunt. Hence the icon >>> :idea:

Fucking morons on this site, I swear.

FIGHT! FIGHT! FIGHT! FIGHT!

[surface2air]

Im A Sikh.My Love Is With A Muslim Female.Id Marry Her.I Dont Care What My Family Would Say.I Control My Life FIRMLY"you also sound very gay.

[PuNjabi_RaNi*]

No shit, you dumb cunt. Hence the icon >>> :idea:

Fucking morons on this site, I swear.

:rofl: <3

[sexxichic2envy]

FIGHT! FIGHT! FIGHT! FIGHT!
No competition baby :cool2:

[PuNjabi_RaNi*]

Im A Sikh.My Love Is With A Muslim Female.Id Marry Her.I Dont Care What My Family Would Say.I Control My Life FIRMLY"

No offence man, but you seem to post up the sikh-muslim bloodshed in just about every single thread.

[MoonChildChick]

Move on people jeez:blahblah:

[paki_canadian20]

Please make note that this isn't meant to be a religious debate. I asked a simple question so answer as such. :salut:

well the problem is that hindu and sikhs have pretty much in common in their religion like sikhism has its roots from hinduism whereas islam is completly different from both these religions so it is hard for muslims to be comfortable with traditions of hindus/sikhs and same vice versa

[RacingSoul]

No competition baby :cool2:

werd. noobs need to learn emoticons.

[nmguy20]

Girls have it worse than guys. Parents are more openminded when it comes to their sons going through that kind of a situation then their daughter. Good thing my parents don't care. :D

[PuNjabi_RaNi*]

well the problem is that hindu and sikhs have pretty much in common in their religion like sikhism has its roots from hinduism whereas islam is completly different from both these religions so it is hard for muslims to be comfortable with traditions of hindus/sikhs and same vice versa

Wrong wrong wrong.

[sexxichic2envy]

werd. noobs need to learn emoticons.
True mang....getting my BP all high and shit with their emoness. Bullocks! :mad:

[21cent]

hindu girls ur parents would be ok with a jew?

[paki_canadian20]

No shit, you dumb cunt. Hence the icon >>> :idea:

Fucking morons on this site, I swear.

just shows that u have no class girl i just called u dumb and u starting swearing are u like that in real life too?

[poojasxy]

i can always tell them that he isnt black. he's just hindu & very tan w/ nappy hair.

[MoonChildChick]

well the problem is that hindu and sikhs have pretty much in common in their religion like sikhism has its roots from hinduism whereas islam is completly different from both these religions so it is hard for muslims to be comfortable with traditions of hindus/sikhs and same vice versa

Okay throw a Parsi into the mix...same views on Muslim marriages, even a liberal one who'd marry outside their religion says this. I mean what's the deal with the hating as far as marriage goes?

[ermsomething]

So I've been speaking with a lot of desi chicks and d*cks about marriage. It's a common thing to hear that most hindus and sikhs won't marry muslims or blacks due to parental breakdowns and disownership threats. Why is that?:sarb: And if you decide to go against the grain how would you deal with the family?


Discuss cause I'm curious!
well its true, my parents wouldn't wanna know me if i married a muslim/black/white or anything else other than a hindu or sikh girl..

none of my relatives have done so before so i dont think they'd accept it

plus the tension between religions. Its easier for a hindu/sikh to marry their own because they'd understand and know what is expected....

end of the day, keeps the parents happy and there are alot of us, so can't be that hard to find someone you like

[RacingSoul]

True mang....getting my BP all high and shit with their emoness. Bullocks! :mad:

allow me to lower ur BP :eyebrow:

[surface2air]

well the problem is that hindu and sikhs have pretty much in common in their religion like sikhism has its roots from hinduism whereas islam is completly different from both these religions so it is hard for muslims to be comfortable with traditions of hindus/sikhs and same vice versa
interesting enough, my cousin who is a sikh married a muslim girl and both families were ok with it. both are doctors both born and raised here in the US and both make huge amounts of cash so who cares what religion they are.
They exchanged vows in Gurudwara and Mosque.

[DasJa]

Wrong wrong wrong.
:rolleyes: here we go...now she's gonna preach on and on and on.... :blahblah:

[paulie walnuts]

Wrong wrong wrong.sure it does.

[sexxichic2envy]

just shows that u have no class girl i just called u dumb and u starting swearing are u like that in real life too?
So the fuck what? Yeah, in real life I fucking curse. I don't see the fucking problem. And please, don't fucking talk to me about class. I look real fucking classy when I put bitches in their fucking place.

[west rowley]

No offence man, but you seem to post up the sikh-muslim bloodshed in just about every single thread.


Thanx

[PuNjabi_RaNi*]

:rolleyes: here we go...now she's gonna preach on and on and on.... :blahblah:

Lol ?

Erm i just stated he/she was wrong, doesnt mean im gonna preach on about it.

[musicchic33]

Desi parents discriminate??...since when?... :shock:

[sexxichic2envy]

allow me to lower ur BP :eyebrow:
:cuddle: You get me low while I get you high. :eyebrow:

[paki_canadian20]

FIGHT! FIGHT! FIGHT! FIGHT!

no thanks i dont get into bitchy fights thats not what i am as for this girl it just shows that she just cant handle a simple sarcasm and will start swearing the moment she gets the chance just shows that she has no class at all

[RacingSoul]

So the fuck what? Yeah, in real life I fucking curse. I don't see the fucking problem. And please, don't fucking talk to me about class. I look real fucking classy when I put bitches in their fucking place.

u sound so hot right now :love:

*orgasm*

[surface2air]

just shows that u have no class girl i just called u dumb and u starting swearing are u like that in real life too?lol

[Space-Cowboy]

well the problem is that hindu and sikhs have pretty much in common in their religion like sikhism has its roots from hinduism whereas islam is completly different from both these religions so it is hard for muslims to be comfortable with traditions of hindus/sikhs and same vice versa

No. :idea:

To say that, takes away from the beauty of both Hinduism and Sikhism.... and I think even takes away from the beauty of the harmony between Hinduism, Sikhism, Jainism and Buddhism.



Having said this, intermarriage between these four Spiritualities are quite common.

[sexxichic2envy]

no thanks i dont get into bitchy fights thats not what i am as for this girl it just shows that she just cant handle a simple sarcasm and will start swearing the moment she gets the chance just shows that she has no class at all
What's a simple sarcasm?

Your statement wasn't sarcastic you dumb fuck. You just can't read and replied accordingly.

[21cent]

So the fuck what? Yeah, in real life I fucking curse. I don't see the fucking problem. And please, don't fucking talk to me about class. I look real fucking classy when I put bitches in their fucking place.

:rofl: ru sure u dont wanna marry a black?

[RacingSoul]

:cuddle: You get me low while I get you high. :eyebrow:

sounds like a mutherfuckin plan!

[PuNjabi_RaNi*]

No. :idea:

To say that, takes away from the beauty of both Hinduism and Sikhism.... and I think even takes away from the beauty of the harmony between Hinduism, Sikhism, Jainism and Buddhism.



.

Thank You TJ :salut:

[paki_canadian20]

So the fuck what? Yeah, in real life I fucking curse. I don't see the fucking problem. And please, don't fucking talk to me about class. I look real fucking classy when I put bitches in their fucking place.

well then i feel sorry for ur parents ur mom wasted 9 months of her life just to know she is gonna give birth to an idiot

[AnGel_PyAr]

im Sikh and i would not marry a guy from a diff religion. to many problems.

so only sikh guys!:Pelvic2:

[sexxichic2envy]

u sound so hot right now :love:

*orgasm*
Are you going to wash my mouth out with soap?

[sexxichic2envy]

:rofl: ru sure u dont wanna marry a black?
:gay: Nah. I can't deal with grease on my pillows.

[TheLoneAvenger]

interesting enough, my cousin who is a sikh married a muslim girl and both families were ok with it. both are doctors both born and raised here in the US and both make huge amounts of cash so who cares what religion they are.
They exchanged vows in Gurudwara and Mosque.

What does money have to do with anything?

[RacingSoul]

Are you going to wash my mouth out with soap?

soap kills... :p

i'll wash u out with listerine.

[21cent]

im Sikh and i would not marry a guy from a diff religion. to many problems.

so only sikh guys!:Pelvic2:
what do sikhs have that i dont?

[DasJa]

Lol ?

Erm i just stated he/she was wrong, doesnt mean im gonna preach on about it.
course it does...u n that apni_kuri come with a holier than thou mighty attitude about urselves...and start dissing anyone who even says sikhism! I'm very protective about my religion myself, but c'mon...take a joke every once in a while. Always with the preaching, sermonization...ur constant need to tell n belittle others with ur somewhat decent knowledge on the history of sikhism!

Just give it a break lady!

[sexxichic2envy]

well then i feel sorry for ur parents ur mom wasted 9 months of her life just to know she is gonna give birth to an idiot
And I feel sorry for the school system which was responsible for teaching you grammar, reading, and punctuation.

[21cent]

:gay: Nah. I can't deal with grease on my pillows.

how about this one?http://images.starpulse.com/Photos/pv/Terry%20Crews-4.jpg

[paulie walnuts]

No. :idea:

To say that, takes away from the beauty of both Hinduism and Sikhism.... and I think even takes away from the beauty of the harmony between Hinduism, Sikhism, Jainism and Buddhism.



Having said this, intermarriage between these four Spiritualities are quite common.what is this fluffy nonsense? stop being such a pleaser.

the guy's comment was perfectly accurate.

[paki_canadian20]

No. :idea:

To say that, takes away from the beauty of both Hinduism and Sikhism.... and I think even takes away from the beauty of the harmony between Hinduism, Sikhism, Jainism and Buddhism.



Having said this, intermarriage between these four Spiritualities are quite common.

ofcourse both of them are different religions and both of them have wonderfull teachings no doubt i was just stating that islam is different from these two thats why people have hard time finding a common ground

[musicchic33]

hindu girls ur parents would be ok with a jew?
They should be so lucky...

[Space-Cowboy]

Thank You TJ :salut:


No probs




But like I said, I do promote intermarriage between the Eastern Spiritualities, especially our Karmic Spiritualities... :love:

[west rowley]

you also sound very gay.

Dont Judge Me.

You Dont Even Know Me".

[surface2air]

And I feel sorry for the school system which was responsible for teaching you grammar, reading, and punctuation.I was going to edit it but then you already did. :lol:

[sexxichic2envy]

sounds like a mutherfuckin plan!
hell mothafuckin yea!!! (sorry if that was unclassy)

[21cent]

lets just marry whites and make our parents proud

[PuNjabi_RaNi*]

course it does...u n that apni_kuri come with a holier than thou mighty attitude about urselves...and start dissing anyone who even says sikhism! I'm very protective about my religion myself, but c'mon...take a joke every once in a while. Always with the preaching, sermonization...ur constant need to tell n belittle others with ur somewhat decent knowledge on the history of sikhism!

Just give it a break lady!

Does this go back to posting a pic of the sri guru granth sahib in the other thread? Dude i didnt take that as a joke :rolleyes: sheesh forgive me for my lack of humour lol. It has nothing to do with holier than thou attitude my friend - you seem to be picking up my "comments" in completely the wrong way. I have not belittled others at all, so where the hell you getting that from i havent a clue!

So i stated paki/canadian is wrong big deal sheesh - im not the only one who disagree's with the post they made.

As for knowledge i still got a lot to learn as does everyone else - we just gotta share that with each other.

Chill out.

[surface2air]

Dont Judge Me.

You Dont Even Know Me".
jokes man, I am sure you are a man's man.

[RacingSoul]

hell mothafuckin yea!!! (sorry if that was unclassy)

r u kidding me...swear words feel like caramel covered chocolate peanuts coming out of ur mouth...ur classy to the maxxx y0!

[sexxichic2envy]

how about this one?
:lol: He has got to be one of the ugliest black men I've ever seen.

[DasJa]

Does this go back to posting a pic of the sri guru granth sahib in the other thread? Dude i didnt take that as a joke :rolleyes: sheesh forgive me for my lack of humour lol. It has nothing to do with holier than thou attitude my friend - you seem to be picking up my "comments" in completely the wrong way. I have no belittled others at all, so where the hell you getting that from i havent a clue!

So i stated paki/canadian is wrong big deal sheesh - im not the only one who disagree's with the post they made.

Chill out.
what? no it's not got anything to do with the other thread. That was a passe`, water under the bridge n all...but ur general attitude is what I stated.

[paki_canadian20]

And I feel sorry for the school system which was responsible for teaching you grammar, reading, and punctuation.

girl dont worry abt my school system atleast i know how to respect people u dont even know that ur parents really didnt waste time on teaching manners to u did they?

[*CUTIEE*]

So the fuck what? Yeah, in real life I fucking curse. I don't see the fucking problem. And please, don't fucking talk to me about class. I look real fucking classy when I put bitches in their fucking place.ROFLLLL :rofl:

[sexxichic2envy]

I was going to edit it but then you already did. :lol:
:p I caught it quick!

[surface2air]

Does this go back to posting a pic of the sri guru granth sahib in the other thread? Dude i didnt take that as a joke :rolleyes: sheesh forgive me for my lack of humour lol. It has nothing to do with holier than thou attitude my friend - you seem to be picking up my "comments" in completely the wrong way. I have no belittled others at all, so where the hell you getting that from i havent a clue!

So i stated paki/canadian is wrong big deal sheesh - im not the only one who disagree's with the post they made.

As for knowledge i still got a lot to learn as does everyone else - we just gotta share that with each other.

Chill out.no seriously dude i wanted to tell you the same stuff what Dasja said,chill out!

[21cent]

:lol: He has got to be one of the ugliest black men I've ever seen.


its the face isnt it :(

[sexxichic2envy]

r u kidding me...swear words feel like caramel covered chocolate peanuts coming out of ur mouth...ur classy to the maxxx y0!
:cuddle:

oh and :drool: @ caramel covered chocolate peanuts.......

[Space-Cowboy]

what is this fluffy nonsense? stop being such a pleaser.

the guy's comment was perfectly accurate.


Pleaser?


If he had said, Guru Nanak was born Hindu, that would have been perfectly fine.... cuz that's what happened. But to say that the roots of Sikhism itself came from Hinduism at that time is incorrect. The popular branch of Hinduism of that era was brahminism; something which Guru Nanak Ji felt was a corrupting force.

Sikhism, to me, derives itself from the very roots of Karmic teachings, which have existed long before brahminism, back into the early days of Sanatani teachings.

Which, modern Hinduism itself is derived from...... So Sikhism and Hinduism have a common origin [along with Buddhism and Jainism], in terms of beliefs.... but Sikhism itself isn't derived from Hinduism, and especially not from brahminism.

[PuNjabi_RaNi*]

what? no it's not got anything to do with the other thread. That was a passe`, water under the bridge n all...but ur general attitude is what I stated.

Sure it hasnt lol - i got told to chill out then too right.

Sheesh man general attitude, ask other's im not the one to bash around - just dont take my comments in a negative manner.

[paki_canadian20]

No probs




But like I said, I do promote intermarriage between the Eastern Spiritualities, especially our Karmic Spiritualities... :love:

hmm whats that can u explain

[surface2air]

Pleaser?


If he had said, Guru Nanak was born Hindu, that would have been perfectly fine.... cuz that's what happened. But to say that the roots of Sikhism itself came from Hinduism at that time is incorrect. The popular branch of Hinduism of that era was brahminism; something which Guru Nanak Ji felt was a corrupting force.

Sikhism, to me, derives itself from the very roots of Karmic teachings, which have existed long before brahminism, back into the early days of Sanatani teachings.

Which, modern Hinduism itself is derived from...... So Sikhism and Hinduism have a common origin [along with Buddhism and Jainism], in terms of beliefs.... but Sikhism itself isn't derived from Hinduism, and especially not from brahminism.yes derived is not the right word!

[Space-Cowboy]

hmm whats that can u explain


Essentially I'm referring to Sanatani/Hindu teachings, Sikhi, Buddhist and Jain teachings, etc.

[paki_canadian20]

:cuddle:

oh and :drool: @ caramel covered chocolate peanuts.......

so ur not only a bitch but also a slut good for u

[PuNjabi_RaNi*]

No probs




But like I said, I do promote intermarriage between the Eastern Spiritualities, especially our Karmic Spiritualities... :love:

Yeah you do, and it's right to say each religion has their own unique self identity.

[DasJa]

Pleaser?


If he had said, Guru Nanak was born Hindu, that would have been perfectly fine.... cuz that's what happened. But to say that the roots of Sikhism itself came from Hinduism at that time is incorrect. The popular branch of Hinduism of that era was brahminism; something which Guru Nanak Ji felt was a corrupting force.

Sikhism, to me, derives itself from the very roots of Karmic teachings, which have existed long before brahminism, back into the early days of Sanatani teachings.

Which, modern Hinduism itself is derived from...... So Sikhism and Hinduism have a common origin [along with Buddhism and Jainism], in terms of beliefs.... but Sikhism itself isn't derived from Hinduism, and especially not from brahminism.
well said my friend. That's the best way anyone has ever put it :salut:

[sexxichic2envy]

girl dont worry abt my school system atleast i know how to respect people u dont even know that ur parents really didnt waste time on teaching manners to u did they?
dude, please just shut the fuck up. See, I said please... that's manners.

And please don't talk about respect... you originally quoted me and made a half -ass assumption because obviously you care more about manners than reading properly. Get your priorities in order. I give more of a fuck about being coherent than I do about playing "Miss Mary Fuckin Poppins"

Fucking dipshit.

[Space-Cowboy]

yes derived is not the right word!


'Is drawn from'..... you get the idea....

Drawn from the simple principles of Karma, Rebirth, Pluralism, non-Duality, etc.

[*PrOjeCT KaL]

another religious thread, oh my...

[Space-Cowboy]

well said my friend. That's the best way anyone has ever put it :salut:


:salut:

[la_bele_dame]

Pleaser?


If he had said, Guru Nanak was born Hindu, that would have been perfectly fine.... cuz that's what happened. But to say that the roots of Sikhism itself came from Hinduism at that time is incorrect. The popular branch of Hinduism of that era was brahminism; something which Guru Nanak Ji felt was a corrupting force.

Sikhism, to me, derives itself from the very roots of Karmic teachings, which have existed long before brahminism, back into the early days of Sanatani teachings.

Which, modern Hinduism itself is derived from...... So Sikhism and Hinduism have a common origin [along with Buddhism and Jainism], in terms of beliefs.... but Sikhism itself isn't derived from Hinduism, and especially not from brahminism.well said :)

:hug:

[21cent]

another religious thread, oh my...

stfu newb

[Space-Cowboy]

Yeah you do, and it's right to say each religion has their own unique self identity.
:grouphug:

well said :)

:hug:
:grouphug:

[*PrOjeCT KaL]

stfu newb
no u stfu :p

[RacingSoul]

:salut:

i think u need that mosquito terminator again i gave u for valentine's :love:

:razz:

[21cent]

no u stfu :p
:(......

[Geezer]

sexxichic2envy & paki_canadian20 - maybe you two could give it a rest with your little flamefest? It's spoiling the thread which is off topic as it is.

[paki_canadian20]

Essentially I'm referring to Sanatani/Hindu teachings, Sikhi, Buddhist and Jain teachings, etc.

but i have sikh friends and most of them tell me that sikhism got its teachings basically from hinduism and some of the teachings also from islam so ur telling me that sikhism is completely different it doesnt have roots from any religion and its teachings are completely different from these two religions plz explain to me who is right

[sexxichic2envy]

so ur not only a bitch but also a slut good for u
Of course. I'm a slut because I used this wonderful emoticon :cuddle:
If you had a brain, you'd be dangerous. Don't start random namecalling just because you made yourself look like a douchbag.

[PuNjabi_RaNi*]

:grouphug:


:grouphug:

:kiss: you always seem to make things better my child

:Oops:

[kudiPaTaKa]

Mine don't want me to marry a Muslim munda.
Don't know about black.

[sexxichic2envy]

sexxichic2envy & paki_canadian20 - maybe you two could give it a rest with your little flamefest? It's spoiling the thread which is off topic as it is.
Done. :bowdown:

[Space-Cowboy]

i think u need that mosquito terminator again i gave u for valentine's :love:

:razz:


Dude, the mosquito terminator doesn't work...... :

http://forums.ratedesi.com/showthread.php?t=209132&highlight=apostasy


:|

[Rcade]

So I've been speaking with a lot of desi chicks and d*cks about marriage. It's a common thing to hear that most hindus and sikhs won't marry muslims or blacks due to parental breakdowns and disownership threats. Why is that?:sarb: And if you decide to go against the grain how would you deal with the family?


Discuss cause I'm curious!

same is true for muslims.....if you marry hindu/sikh/any other religion it's looked down upon

it's a rare thing...you don't see a lot of muslims marrying hindus/sikhss...and i guess it's a good thing

[RacingSoul]

Mine don't want me to marry a Muslim munda.
Don't know about black.

ask them & hav ur RD privilege taken away among other more important ones.

[paki_canadian20]

sexxichic2envy & paki_canadian20 - maybe you two could give it a rest with your little flamefest? It's spoiling the thread which is off topic as it is.

dude i didnt even want to start all this tell her to grow up

[21cent]

sexxichic2envy & paki_canadian20 - maybe you two could give it a rest with your little flamefest? It's spoiling the thread which is off topic as it is.

its always the girls

can u imagine if the arab world had a woman leader and U.S had hillary :neutral:

[Geezer]

Done. :bowdown:

Thanks.

[Geezer]

dude i didnt even want to start all this tell her to grow up

*sigh*

[Space-Cowboy]

but i have sikh friends and most of them tell me that sikhism got its teachings basically from hinduism and some of the teachings also from islam so ur telling me that sikhism is completely different it doesnt have roots from any religion and its teachings are completely different from these two religions plz explain to me who is right


I'd say they need to look into the finer details...


Sikhs, Hindus, Jains, Buddists, we are brothers!


But.... to use the apt analogy, just like my brother didn't come from me, Sikhism didn't come from Hinduism. The common origin for me and my bro are my parents..... If that helps.

[Geezer]

its always the girls

can u imagine if the arab world had a woman leader and U.S had hillary :neutral:

I can only imagine how many guys get turned on by this :p

[*PrOjeCT KaL]

same is true for muslims.....if you marry hindu/sikh/any other religion it's looked down upon

it's a rare thing...you don't see a lot of muslims marrying hindus/sikhss...and i guess it's a good thing
good shout...every1 stick to your own :dance3:

[21cent]

Mine don't want me to marry a Muslim munda.
Don't know about black.
ask ur parents if u can marry a black guy :sarb:

[Space-Cowboy]

:kiss: you always seem to make things better my child:Oops:


I'm older than you... :sarb:






:kiss: :p :grouphug:

[21cent]

I can only imagine how many guys get turned on by this :p

i see a mental imagine of them calling each other "bitch"

[sexxichic2envy]

its always the girls

can u imagine if the arab world had a woman leader and U.S had hillary :neutral:
:ashamed: @ Pt 1
:p @ Pt 2

[PuNjabi_RaNi*]

good shout...every1 stick to your own :dance3:

I know people of a different religion who have married each other - and they are very happy -)

[21cent]

good shout...every1 stick to your own :dance3:

not really muslim guys marry girls from another religions not only marry them but convert their ass and the stupid girl leaves her family for him :roflbow:

[sexxichic2envy]

I can only imagine how many guys get turned on by this :p
:dunno: I'm a woman and even I'd get turned on by watching Condoleeza Rice bitchslapping an Iraqi leader (female)

[PuNjabi_RaNi*]

I'm older than you... :sarb:

:kiss: :p :grouphug:

Oh mature like a fine chedder cheese eh.

You oldie goldie TJ :mrhappy:

[21cent]

:dunno: I'm a woman and even I'd get turned on by watching Condoleeza Rice bitchslapping an Iraqi leader (female)

thats becauase shes kala ;)

[RacingSoul]

Dude, the mosquito terminator doesn't work...... :

http://forums.ratedesi.com/showthread.php?t=209132&highlight=apostasy


:|

they just keep breeding like there's no tomorrow :no:

[sexxichic2envy]

thats becauase shes kala ;)
You know me too well. :google:

[kudiPaTaKa]

ask them & hav ur RD privilege taken away among other more important ones.
I don't live at home. :razz:

[Space-Cowboy]

not really muslim guys marry girls from another religions not only marry them but convert their ass and the stupid girl leaves her family for him :roflbow:


^^^Yea that needs to be stopped.... But then again, much of the blame could, in theory, fall upon the girl's parents for not properly teaching the girl the beauty of their faith and heritage.



And conversely I've heard of many cases of Muslim girls leaving Islam and marrying Christian/Sikh/etc. guys and embracing Christianity/Sikhism/etc.

[RacingSoul]

I don't live at home. :razz:

we hav so much in common :love: 'cept akuza turns YOU on :ugh:

[kudiPaTaKa]

ask ur parents if u can marry a black guy :sarb:
LOL! Omg you guys...that statement was sarcastic.

Muslim is worse than black, though, I sense.
I think the partition/years of Sikh-Muslim controversy are still considered in their heads.

[Space-Cowboy]

Oh mature like a fine chedder cheese eh.

You oldie goldie TJ :mrhappy:


http://usuarios.lycos.es/eldiariodejebediah/perso/perso1_archivos/image002.gif

[kudiPaTaKa]

we hav so much in common :love: 'cept akuza turns YOU on :ugh:
Chup. He dedicated his sig to me first. I felt guilt-tripped so I did it too. He's nice as well.

[DasJa]

^^^Yea that needs to be stopped.... But then again, much of the blame could, in theory, fall upon the girl's parents for not properly teaching the girl the beauty of their faith and heritage.



And conversely I've heard of many cases of Muslim girls leaving Islam and marrying Christian/Sikh/etc. guys and embracing Christianity/Sikhism/etc.
You win some, you lose some eh

[RacingSoul]

Chup. He dedicated his sig to me first. I felt guilt-tripped so I did it too. He's nice as well.

but he's a BRIT, he speaks with an accent :p

[21cent]

You know me too well. :google:

:danceEek:

[.:[TIGA]:.]

Muslim girls are hott :D

[Space-Cowboy]

You win some, you lose some eh


:dunno:

[Space-Cowboy]

they just keep breeding like there's no tomorrow :no:


feel free to post your thoughts in that thread.... :p

[21cent]

LOL! Omg you guys...that statement was sarcastic.

Muslim is worse than black, though, I sense.
I think the partition/years of Sikh-Muslim controversy are still considered in their heads.

i bet u $100 ur parents cant tell the difference between a muslim and a sikh

[Geezer]

I dont think my parents would object to either black or muslim. It depends on how connected your family is to a community or better yet how big a fuck they give about what other people think. If they only care about your own happiness then you pretty much have it made. Go my parents.

[di vinci]

Yeah, it is. It reminds me of that scene in Bend it Like Beckham when she's like, "White? No way. Black..out of the question..Muslim?.. *Makes decapitating motion*...something like that. :rofl:


Although, I think white people seem to be the most acceptable non-Desis to marry in the eyes of non-Muslim Desi parents.


i think those families just want the british raj back

[freshmanik_13]

my parents are like that too, i wont marry a black chick, not cuz of my parents jus cuz im not attracted to them, but if i end up lovin a muslim chick then why not

[21cent]

I dont think my parents would object to either black or muslim. It depends on how connected your family is to a community or better yet how big a fuck they give about what other people think. If they only care about your own happiness then you pretty much have it made. Go my parents.

ur wouldt mind if ur sister brought home a black guyhttp://z.about.com/d/movies/1/0/3/f/8/bench04020640.jpg

[Miz Jatti]

:dance3: fight fight!! it's anuvva e-fight!!!!





:ashamed: oh crap, i missed the fucking fight.

[Miz Jatti]

i think those families just want the british raj back


:werd:



damn, those goray r hot :love:

[di vinci]

I dont think my parents would object to either black or muslim. It depends on how connected your family is to a community or better yet how big a fuck they give about what other people think. If they only care about your own happiness then you pretty much have it made. Go my parents.


i think im screwed in directly im related to nearly 3000+ ppl in the uk. they all are blood relations through some great grandfather having too many wives n kids.

[Geezer]

ur wouldt mind if ur sister brought home a black guy http://z.about.com/d/movies/1/0/3/f/8/bench04020640.jpg

As long as he treats her right I dont really mind. It's hard enough trying to find the right partner, why limit yourself to your own race or kind. Take a good look at the RD population, not many gems around are there lol

[ssjasper2003]

Good thing I dont follow any religion. Would that hinder my choices with your parents?

[di vinci]

:werd:



damn, those goray r hot :love:

u lot r fuking blind. a women with natural tan is gorgeous white guys lack the va va voom.chav wannabe. i fort u were into me

[Geezer]

i think im screwed in directly im related to nearly 3000+ ppl in the uk. they all are blood relations through some great grandfather having too many wives n kids.

He sounds like the mack :p

[PuNjabi_RaNi*]

:dance3: fight fight!! it's anuvva e-fight!!!!





:ashamed: oh crap, i missed the fucking fight.

Enjoy puttari

http://www.cfhf.net/lyrics/images/teletubbies.jpg

[di vinci]

He sounds like the mack :p


he the reason why we got too many fuking land disputes back home. im glad he never had viagra then he would have moved over the boarder

[Miz Jatti]

Enjoy puttari

http://www.cfhf.net/lyrics/images/teletubbies.jpg


:Punch: i hate those stooopid things


oh man, liven up my monday night yaaro .... i wana e-fight :(

[Miz Jatti]

he the reason why we got too many fuking land disputes back home. im glad he never had viagra then he would have moved over the boarder


we have strict border control matey ---- :Poke: stay on ur side pleej :hand:

[PuNjabi_RaNi*]

:Punch: i hate those stooopid things


oh man, liven up my monday night yaaro .... i wana e-fight :(

No :hand: go to bed.

i shall tuck you in later.

[di vinci]

we have strict border control matey ---- :Poke: stay on ur side pleej :hand:


we do not belive in the creation of india, bangladesh or pakistan. so we can come as we pleased. im comming to get u!

stop with poking me it not cool anymore. do u really think all that poking gona make me buy u flowers for velentines think again. now my arms gone dead :(

[kudiPaTaKa]

but he's a BRIT, he speaks with an accent :p
British accents :love:

[kudiPaTaKa]

i bet u $100 ur parents cant tell the difference between a muslim and a sikh
It's not about the looks.

[Geezer]

It's not about the looks.

lol that's what he meant

[Miz Jatti]

No :hand: go to bed.

i shall tuck you in later.


:ashamed: hanji bibi ji

[kudiPaTaKa]

lol that's what he meant
I know...?

[Miz Jatti]

we do not belive in the creation of india, bangladesh or pakistan. so we can come as we pleased. im comming to get u!

stop with poking me it not cool anymore. do u really think all that poking gona make me buy u flowers for velentines think again. now my arms gone dead :(


piss orf :hand: illegal immigrants da lot of yous


:dance3: woohooo!!!! i wanta hot date to da cinema too!!

[*PrOjeCT KaL]

I know people of a different religion who have married each other - and they are very happy -)
it was jus a suggestion love...im sure ppl could be happy if the loves there :D

[di vinci]

piss orf :hand: illegal immigrants da lot of yous


:dance3: woohooo!!!! i wanta hot date to da cinema too!!
im not gona even ask now. me immigrant i can trace back my family tree since they stop burning the bodies. i think u got a little bit of the raj in u

[Elmo]

what makes u hindu girls think we would marry u?
Ownerism :rofl:

[kudiPaTaKa]

I also think it depends on how conservative your parents are, you know.
Mine are pretty straight on Punjabi and want me to marry only a Punjabi. With difficulty, I got them to loosen up on the caste deal, but he still has to be Punjabi. :ashamed:

But yes, I also know tons of people who have married outside of their religion and are happy. :D

[*PrOjeCT KaL]

not really muslim guys marry girls from another religions not only marry them but convert their ass and the stupid girl leaves her family for him :roflbow:
thats a vice versa trend my friend...and yeh u mean "girls from other religions"

[kudiPaTaKa]

Does he have to be Sikh or can be Hindu Punjabi or Christian Punjabi?
Oh yes, I forgot. He has to be Sikh, too. :ashamed:

Lame, huh?

[Miz Jatti]

im not gona even ask now. me immigrant i can trace back my family tree since they stop burning the bodies. i think u got a little bit of the raj in u


:mrhappy: i'm whitewashed innit, u fake bake


:ashamed: its cos im INDIAN innit ... u pakistanis think ur it just cos u got more taxis than our lot

[*PrOjeCT KaL]

I also think it depends on how conservative your parents are, you know.
Mine are pretty straight on Punjabi and want me to marry only a Punjabi. With difficulty, I got them to loosen up on the caste deal, but he still has to be Punjabi. :ashamed:

But yes, I also know tons of people who have married outside of their religion and are happy. :D
ive noticed for girls its different thou...most jatt sikh parants would want there girls marrying jatt mundya

[di vinci]

:mrhappy: i'm whitewashed innit, u fake bake


:ashamed: its cos im INDIAN innit ... u pakistanis think ur it just cos u got more taxis than our lot
and more kebab vans and kebab shops. dont worry one day we will have more mosque too. opps we dooo. next we need to conquer wales :D

[kudiPaTaKa]

ive noticed for girls its different thou...most jatt sikh parants would want there girls marrying jatt mundya
My theory is that Jatt parents have this superiority complex and refuse to marry anyone outside of their caste. It's just the way it rolls these days.

[sexxichic2envy]

I'm going to marry a horse and tape our very own season of NewlyWeds :love:

[sexxichic2envy]

My theory is that Jatt parents have this superiority complex and refuse to marry anyone outside of their caste. It's just the way it rolls these days.
:rolleyes: Oh gawd, tell me about it. My dad is all "Jatts this.. Jatts that"

We're farmers... woo-fuckin-hoo.

[jattniz_chuttni]

So I've been speaking with a lot of desi chicks and d*cks about marriage. It's a common thing to hear that most hindus and sikhs won't marry muslims or blacks due to parental breakdowns and disownership threats. Why is that?:sarb: And if you decide to go against the grain how would you deal with the family?


Discuss cause I'm curious! Hmmm. Well, I know my parents wouldn't approve because one day while my mom was cooking in the kitchen, I said to her, "Mom... I'm going to marry a Muslim."
She gasped said "What?!" and then proceeded to stare me down with her nostrils flared. I was just kidding with her and she totally spazzed.

Then I remember kidding with my dad and saying, "Papa... I'm going to marry a black man."

He yelled back, "Don't joke around about those things!"

So I'm not even going to ask why they'd disapprove. They're dead prejudice against both groups of people. :no:

[Miz Jatti]

I'm going to marry a horse and tape our very own season of NewlyWeds :love:


hawww that's haraam :slap:

[Miz Jatti]

and more kebab vans and kebab shops. dont worry one day we will have more mosque too. opps we dooo. next we need to conquer wales :D


wudnt mind a bit of hot welsh in me :kekeke:

[Geezer]

Hmmm. Well, I know my parents wouldn't approve because one day while my mom was cooking in the kitchen, I said to her, "Mom... I'm going to marry a Muslim."
She gasped said "What?!" and then proceeded to stare me down with her nostrils flared. I was just kidding with her and she totally spazzed.

Then I remember kidding with my dad and saying, "Papa... I'm going to marry a black man."

He yelled back, "Don't joke around about those things!"

So I'm not even going to ask why they'd disapprove. They're dead prejudice against both groups of people. :no:

It's fear of the unknown plus what the community may think.

[sexxichic2envy]

hawww that's haraam :slap:
Kya reh... I'm a haraami naw mean. :afro:
We live like rebels...

[kudiPaTaKa]

:rolleyes: Oh gawd, tell me about it. My dad is all "Jatts this.. Jatts that"

We're farmers... woo-fuckin-hoo.
Farming is cool, but I used to wonder what was so special about Jatts. I assumed they originated from royal blood or something. Then my mom told me and I was awe-strucken. But farming is a big part of Punjab, so I can understand the big deal.

[chunky]

I'm a black muslim. and what?

[sexxichic2envy]

Farming is cool, but I used to wonder what was so special about Jatts. I assumed they originated from royal blood or something. Then my mom told me and I was awe-strucken. But farming is a big part of Punjab, so I can understand the big deal.
I still don't see what the big deal is. I just consider it to be pointless... especially if you're Sikh. The caste system goes against the foundation of our religion. Now you have gurudwara esp. for Jatts/Ramgarhias/Tharkans/Pappay...etc... it's pathetic. My family would probably start planning my murder if they thought I'd marry a non-jatt. I guess I should pick a burial plot because I have no intention of marrying a Jatt munda. :neutral:

[Miz Jatti]

I still don't see what the big deal is. I just consider it to be pointless... especially if you're Sikh. The caste system goes against the foundation of our religion. Now you have gurudwara esp. for Jatts/Ramgarhias/Tharkans/Pappay...etc... it's pathetic. My family would probably start planning my murder if they thought I'd marry a non-jatt. I guess I should pick a burial plot because I have no intention of marrying a Jatt munda. :neutral:


:squint: khasma nu khaaniye - tere vargay ta bethere vekhe aah. mai tere bapu nu das di aah .....

[Miz Jatti]

I'm a black muslim. and what?


:mrhappy: r u fit?

[kudiPaTaKa]

I still don't see what the big deal is. I just consider it to be pointless... especially if you're Sikh. The caste system goes against the foundation of our religion. Now you have gurudwara esp. for Jatts/Ramgarhias/Tharkans/Pappay...etc... it's pathetic. My family would probably start planning my murder if they thought I'd marry a non-jatt. I guess I should pick a burial plot because I have no intention of marrying a Jatt munda. :neutral:
You're right, it IS pathetic because it goes against the foundations of our religion. People ask me why I don't use my surname or whatever. Well HELLO PEOPLE!! Guru Gobind Singh Ji and the Gurus presented "Kaur" and "Singh" to us so we couldn't differentiate between the castes. It was an attempt to eliminate the system altogether. We see how well it's working today.

We are one lame class of people. Slow to progress with the rest of the world. :no:

[sexxichic2envy]

:squint: khasma nu khaaniye - tere vargay ta bethere vekhe aah. mai tere bapu nu das di aah .....
:roflbow: Oh my Gahhhh... haven't heard that in ages!! My nanny used to say that all the time.. lmfao

Daas de baapu nu!! Saade viche bhi jattan da koon haan... ussi kisse tho nahin daar de!! :rambo:

I really don't like Jatt munde tho.. so arrogant and cocky without cause/reason ... :Puker:

[jattniz_chuttni]

It's fear of the unknown plus what the community may think. Yep. My parents are insanely racist and they can't admit it. And what pisses me off is that stereotyping and racism is something that we all know BEST.

Even if I was to take a test on my best subject or whatever, I know my highest score (all of ours actually) would come out highest on the test in which was based on stereotypes.

Saddening, but true. It's what we're taught most throroughly throughout our lifetimes. :no:

[sexxichic2envy]

You're right, it IS pathetic because it goes against the foundations of our religion. People ask me why I don't use my surname or whatever. Well HELLO PEOPLE!! Guru Gobind Singh Ji and the Gurus presented "Kaur" and "Singh" to us so we couldn't differentiate between the castes. It was an attempt to eliminate the system altogether. We see how well it's working today.

We are one lame class of people. Slow to progress with the rest of the world. :no:
werd! Our people are taking steps back instead of forward. My dad does Jaap Ji Sahib da paat in the morning and then preaches about the superiority of Jatts by evening....... :no: Talk about contradiction.

I'm MiZz Jaz'mene Kaur...... pleasure to meetchya fella princess. :cool:

[kudiPaTaKa]

werd! Our people are taking steps back instead of forward. My dad does Jaap Ji Sahib da paat in the morning and then preaches about the superiority of Jatts by evening....... :no: Talk about contradiction.

I'm MiZz Jaz'mene Kaur...... pleasure to meetchya fella princess. :cool:

Tsk tsk tsk...I know tons of people like that. Lol.
Oh well, whatever.

Pleasure to meet you as well. :cool:

[Miz Jatti]

Tsk tsk tsk...I know tons of people like that. Lol.
Oh well, whatever.

Pleasure to meet you as well. :cool:


:werd: n some of those idiot bandars even have jatt in their avis and sigs. i say we send em across the border. :yes:




i iz a JATT, saare mere pichey hatt :Peace:

[Miz Jatti]

:roflbow: Oh my Gahhhh... haven't heard that in ages!! My nanny used to say that all the time.. lmfao

Daas de baapu nu!! Saade viche bhi jattan da koon haan... ussi kisse tho nahin daar de!! :rambo:

I really don't like Jatt munde tho.. so arrogant and cocky without cause/reason ... :Puker:


i havta agree with u on that one -- maa de laad ne bigaray :mad:

haha u paagal - tere vich khoon shayad hoga par lagda aah kadi koyi JATT nayi hoga :kekeke:

[kudiPaTaKa]

:werd: n some of those idiot bandars even have jatt in their avis and sigs. i say we send em across the border. :yes:




i iz a JATT, saare mere pichey hatt :Peace:
You have it as well.

[Miz Jatti]

You have it as well.


:neutral: yes.


i was takin the piss. :mrhappy:




sorry, bad habit :ashamed:

[MoonChildChick]

My thread got moved and is 7 pages long!:cheers:

[PakPlaya69]

My thread got moved and is 7 pages long!:cheers:

Same stands for muslim guys , we are not allowed to marry hindu gals or any non muslim gals , unless she is the cleanest and converted into a muslim , which ain possible , :(

[desirably_Beauty]

Hmmm..let me just say that it's very hard being in a relationship with someone from a different religion.Iam Muslim and my boyfriend is Sikh;we've been dating for a year now and honestly neither one of us have told our families.His family wont have any problems with it BUT my family...........HELL YA! Besides being two diferent religions we're both from two different ethnicity,so it'll be so much harder.My parents would actually disown me if they ever found out.

It's a hard position to be in especially the more the relationship gets more and more serious :( BUT he and I are both going to stick together..we both have taught the other about our own religion. Our relationship works on the basis of Love, Trust, and Respect. One does not have to agree with the other but there must be respect.

[TheLoneAvenger]

Same stands for muslim guys , we are not allowed to marry hindu gals or any non muslim gals , unless she is the cleanest and converted into a muslim , which ain possible , :(

It's not like there's some shortage of Muslim females in the community. And spare me any bs about having a "soul mate" who happens to be of another religion.

[medena06]

There are a billion muslims in the world...plenty to choose from. Why screw our lives over by interreligious dating/marrying :ugh:



A hot, Muslim, arab business man in a suit :love:

[Z4K5T4R]

It's so stupid no offence to Hindus and Sikhs but most are so westernised and are pretty much western, following more english tradition than their own but then when it comes to their kids marry someone it's a NO to a black and NO to Muslims and most cases NO to whites. Wtf, isn't that messed up though? It's like most my SIkh mates are brought up all westernised - go clubbing do this do that but then don't marry this or that because it's against what you believe. So DON'T flipping let your kids do all that and expect them not to run away with some white/black/muslim chic/chicni/bloke.

And i admit most Pakistani and Bangladeshi families act backwards so when they say NO to a white, NO to a black and NO to a Sikh or Hindu you kind of expect it!

[Miz Jatti]

It's so stupid no offence to Hindus and Sikhs but most are so westernised and are pretty much western, following more english tradition than their own but then when it comes to their kids marry someone it's a NO to a black and NO to Muslims and most cases NO to whites. Wtf, isn't that messed up though? It's like most my SIkh mates are brought up all westernised - go clubbing do this do that but then don't marry this or that because it's against what you believe. So DON'T flipping let your kids do all that and expect them not to run away with some white/black/muslim chic/chicni/bloke.



ur an outsider, u just dont understand :squint:

[Z4K5T4R]

ur an outsider, u just dont understand :squint:Understand what? Please clarify one line sentence doesn't exactly make much sense.

[Miz Jatti]

Understand what? Please clarify one line sentence doesn't exactly make much sense.


Sorry, at this moment in time, we are no longer taking applications. Thank you for your interest and have a good day. :mrhappy:

[Space-Cowboy]

It's so stupid no offence to Hindus and Sikhs but most are so westernised and are pretty much western, following more english tradition than their own but then when it comes to their kids marry someone it's a NO to a black and NO to Muslims and most cases NO to whites.


Generalizations are all the rave these days....

Wtf, isn't that messed up though? It's like most my SIkh mates are brought up all westernised - go clubbing do this do that but then don't marry this or that because it's against what you believe. So DON'T flipping let your kids do all that and expect them not to run away with some white/black/muslim chic/chicni/bloke.

If they go to clubs..... and Muslims don't...... then I don't see the connection between them going to clubs and "running away with Muslim guys". As far as Black/White is concerned.... if he/she is secular..... and/or willing to accept any one of the Karmic faiths as their own [Hindu, Sikh, Buddhist, Jain], then I have no problems with my kids going with them.


And i admit most Pakistani and Bangladeshi families act backwards so when they say NO to a white, NO to a black and NO to a Sikh or Hindu you kind of expect it!

I see your point about Black/White..... but you're not supposed to be getting with anyone outside the "People of the Book" [i.e. Muslims, Christians, Jews], so you'd, in theory, have to say no to Sikh and Hindu....

[Bengal!z]

what makes u hindu girls think we would marry u?


hahahah good one
muslims chicks > hairy indian ones

[Space-Cowboy]

Muslim families over here are lenient with their sons, and will end up falling for stupid excuses such as "Mom, I'm spending the night at my buddy's house to watch a Kal Ho Na Ho marathon." or "I'm going to the masjid for a Muslim male youth group, and then crashing at Rashid's apartment."


In reality, these guys dominate the Desi club scene prowling on any pussy they can get. So yes, there's a chance of a non-Muslim Desi girl finding a Muslim guy at the club.


Ah..... well in that case, we'll just have to convert that Muslim guy into an Eastern faith now won't we? ;)


:p

[sikhndconquer]

So I've been speaking with a lot of desi chicks and d*cks about marriage. It's a common thing to hear that most hindus and sikhs won't marry muslims or blacks due to parental breakdowns and disownership threats. Why is that?:sarb: And if you decide to go against the grain how would you deal with the family?


Discuss cause I'm curious!

well that goes same for muslim chicks, there parents will disown then if they marry into other religion..

[sikhndconquer]

I still don't see what the big deal is. I just consider it to be pointless... especially if you're Sikh. The caste system goes against the foundation of our religion. Now you have gurudwara esp. for Jatts/Ramgarhias/Tharkans/Pappay...etc... it's pathetic. My family would probably start planning my murder if they thought I'd marry a non-jatt. I guess I should pick a burial plot because I have no intention of marrying a Jatt munda. :neutral:

i could see why

[Space-Cowboy]

How about she answers this for us? Why is it that these Muslim guys want girls to convert for them, when they're out at a club trying to get laid and wasted???


Sheesh..follow your religion first, before you expect someone else too. :no:

I wonder how that would be after your wife becomes a devout Muslim after marrying these kind of men. Wouldn't it be odd for the "Muslim" husband going out to clubs and getting free booty on the side, while the wife is at home reading the Quran and trying her best to be a good Muslim for her in-laws? :no:


All the more reason to convert these Muslim guys into Buddhism such that they may come to free themselves of Self Delusions and Self Indulgences... and give up their sexual and alcoholic desires in order to seek a path of Enlightenment....




:cool:






I'm on a roll :p









No I'm not :|




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[foreverconfused]

Marrying a Muslim would not be so much of a problem if it wasn't required in Islam for the non-Muslim to convert... Can you really blame Hindu and Sikh parents for being against the idea of their kids giving up their religion?

I know I'll marry Indian, but supposing I had to choose between a desi muslim and a white or black guy, I would choose the white or black guy, and I know my parents would show slightly less disapproval than they would if I chose the desi muslim... because there is a greater chance of either of those two races being more secular. :(

[Space-Cowboy]

Marrying a Muslim would not be so much of a problem if it wasn't required in Islam for the non-Muslim to convert... Can you really blame Hindu and Sikh parents for being against the idea of their kids giving up their religion?

I know I'll marry Indian, but supposing I had to choose between a desi muslim and a white or black guy, I would choose the white or black guy, and I know my parents would show slightly less disapproval than they would if I chose the desi muslim... because there is a greater chance of either of those two races being more secular. :(


I thought we've already been through this..... you're going to marry a 40 year old heart surgeon who's 5'2 tall....

:-s












:kekeke:

[foreverconfused]

I thought we've already been through this..... you're going to marry a 40 year old heart surgeon who's 5'2 tall....

:-s


:kekeke:

:squint: No I'm not. Now stop, or I'll arrange your marriage with one of the 60 year old Punjabi aunties who are friends with my mom... revenge is sweet. :kekeke:

[Space-Cowboy]

:squint: No I'm not. Now stop, or I'll arrange your marriage with one of the 60 year old Punjabi aunties who are friends with my mom... revenge is sweet. :kekeke:


What makes you think I'd say no to that kind of an arranged marriage?


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And one more thing......... you're still long over due for a picwhoring on RD :squint:

:Oops:

[Z4K5T4R]

Generalizations are all the rave these days....



If they go to clubs..... and Muslims don't...... then I don't see the connection between them going to clubs and "running away with Muslim guys". As far as Black/White is concerned.... if he/she is secular..... and/or willing to accept any one of the Karmic faiths as their own [Hindu, Sikh, Buddhist, Jain], then I have no problems with my kids going with them.



I see your point about Black/White..... but you're not supposed to be getting with anyone outside the "People of the Book" [i.e. Muslims, Christians, Jews], so you'd, in theory, have to say no to Sikh and Hindu....Lol don't make me laugh. Most SIkhs and Hindus girls are allowed by their parents to go clubbing and do their own thing. With majority of Muslim they have that restriction unless they decide to do it behind their parents back to go clubbing that is beyond the parental teaching.

You can get with anyone from any background but as long as you want to tie the knot they have to be converted to Islam. Which i think is a fair enough decision to make. Love a Muslim expect to accept that relgion. And again no offence but majority of other religions don't follow their religious teachings alot.


P.S Did you search for my name so you can tackle on what i say........as usual?

[whiteass]

So I've been speaking with a lot of desi chicks and d*cks about marriage. It's a common thing to hear that most hindus and sikhs won't marry muslims or blacks due to parental breakdowns and disownership threats. Why is that?:sarb: And if you decide to go against the grain how would you deal with the family?


Discuss cause I'm curious!

Curious about what? :neutral: :wavey:

[whiteass]

Would marrying a black Muslim cause their heads to explode?

Probably. :dance3: :dance3:

[whiteass]

i always joke about with my parents about how im gonna marry a black man and its funny seeing their reaction :rofl:

:dance3: :dance3:

[whiteass]

once again thank gawd im black

Serious you black? :sarb:

[coyne20]

Not to throw fuel into the fire on this heated discussion and no offence to Islam in any way. But Islam is a totally missionary religion when it comes to marriage with a non-muslim. The non muslim would have to convert to Islam. In a way, it is a strategic yet unorthodox approach to bring people into your own faith. I have been to many bars and clubs to see mainly young pakistani/bengali guys luring/trying it on with young naive Indian girls (sikh and hindu). Most indian parents are fearful/concerned about their daughters eloping with a muslim simply cos of Indias past history where there have been many forced conversions during the time of partition and before. With blacks Im not too sure why but I guess its cos of the image and player lifestyle that they seem to engross within the mainstream.

[Space-Cowboy]

You really didn't read what I wrote at all did you?

Lol don't make me laugh. Most SIkhs and Hindus girls are allowed by their parents to go clubbing and do their own thing.

Where did I say they weren't? Please be so kind as to point out the exact line.


With majority of Muslim they have that restriction unless they decide to do it behind their parents back to go clubbing that is beyond the parental teaching.

Thank you for parroting out which I've already said in the previous post. Again, did you even bother to read it?

The fact is, if Sikh and Hindu girls go to clubs, and Muslims can't because of restrictions..... then there's no way for said Sikh/Hindu to 'run off' with the Muslim guy she met at a bar. Now..... if said Muslim guy is also at the bar...... then he, by your own definition, isn't a very good Muslim.... and has no business trying to convert the girl anyway........

And hey...... my personal stance is, if he's not a very good Muslim, then he might as well convert to the girl's faith anyway. :wavey:


You can get with anyone from any background but as long as you want to tie the knot they have to be converted to Islam. Which i think is a fair enough decision to make. Love a Muslim expect to accept that relgion.


Either that or the Muslim can guy can convert to the girl's religion..... Simple as that. The point is both you and I agree that they have to be the same religion. So to get around this hassle, Sikh/Hindu girls wouldn't try to get with Muslim guys anyway-- which wouldn't be a problem, since, again, a proper Muslim, by your definition, wouldn't be at a bar. And if he is, again, by your definition, he's not a good Muslim, --- Thus he should just convert to the girl's religion.


And again no offence but majority of other religions don't follow their religious teachings alot.

A huge chunk of Muslims don't either. Ironically, it's THESE Muslims that proselytize their religion the most, to fill the void of their own hipocrisy and insecurity.

At any point now, you may feel free to ask yourself, how good of a Muslim you are, if you've had your picture up [which you've had], on a rating site.




P.S Did you search for my name so you can tackle on what i say........as usual?

Please point out just one instance when I've done this. No, really, I'm quite curious.

In fact, I'll even paypal forward $20 to you if you can find conclusive evidence to me searching for your name specifically. :wavey:






And no offense, you talk about people not following their religion properly... Maybe quite a few Muslims need to go back and re-study Islam, because, as I've said, they're not following their religion properly. Right now, in Iraq, there are MORE Iraqi civilians dying at the hands of rival sects, than dying at the hands of the invading U.S. forces. I don't know how they justify it, but it's certainly not justifiable under any verse that I've read in the Quran.

[punjabi*princess]

sadly its true - my folks will probably disown me if i married a muslim or a black.....


not that i m supporting them in their beliefs but since i really dont wanna hurt my parents feelings ever - i wont ever get myself involved with a muslim or a black



so true with my parents lol

[zooni]

it would be safe to marry within your religion or culture usually trying to make a relationship in a new enviornment will require to much effort =/

[foreverconfused]

I think it's more than that. I don't know how to put it in words, but there's just something about the personality and upbringing with Desi Muslim males (even if they're not religious) that just wouldn't click with people like you and me. I think that's what our parents also imply when they say not to date Muslim guys. Even though we have some similarities (like language, food, native clothing, etc), I still get the feeling that I'm from a different world when I talk to them. :dunno: I feel like I can easily click more with non-Desis compared to them.

Maybe I should have said,

it's the issue of converting +
the uber-conservative attitudes +
low tolerance for views that oppose islamic law +
the support for ridiculous conspiracy theories, such as the ones that litter RD +
bizarre obsession with arabs and desire claim to arab descent
Etc, etc

Holy crap, Kama. It's no wonder you click more easily with non-desis. :o

I guess it's mostly the Paki Muslims who post crap like this on RD...

[Atharvan]

Because he will never respect her Religion, they never do.

[Space-Cowboy]

I love the "You're not that religious anyway, so what would you know" excuse when you try to explain a misconception of theirs about Hinduism.


Another equally retarded comment from a Pakistani male was, "You're not that religious, so why does it bother you if we make fun of Hinduism?" :rolleyes:


You can easily turn that on them...... see, The Prophet specifically said that other religions and peoples are to be respected.... so if they disrespect Hinduism, then they're not really following the words of The Prophet, so THEY'RE not religious........ so..... if you make fun of their religion, and they call you on it... you say... ]"You're not that religious, so why does it bother you if we make fun of Islam?"



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[no people, I'm not dissing Islam, I'm merely showing how respect works both ways]

[whiteass]

Not to throw fuel into the fire on this heated discussion and no offence to Islam in any way. But Islam is a totally missionary religion when it comes to marriage with a non-muslim. The non muslim would have to convert to Islam. In a way, it is a strategic yet unorthodox approach to bring people into your own faith. I have been to many bars and clubs to see mainly young pakistani/bengali guys luring/trying it on with young naive Indian girls (sikh and hindu). Most indian parents are fearful/concerned about their daughters eloping with a muslim simply cos of Indias past history where there have been many forced conversions during the time of partition and before. With blacks Im not too sure why but I guess its cos of the image and player lifestyle that they seem to engross within the mainstream.

:blahblah: :blahblah: You seem to blurt things out without any evidence. You need to be careful before you get :Punch:

[whiteass]

it would be safe to marry within your religion or culture usually trying to make a relationship in a new enviornment will require to much effort =/

:rolleyes:

[whiteass]

Definitely. There are Indian jews as well, but non-Indian and non-black Jews are definitely more acceptable in comparison to Muslims and blacks. My cousin married a Jew, and nobody seemed to care.

Why is that then? :eek:

[TheLoneAvenger]

Not to throw fuel into the fire on this heated discussion and no offence to Islam in any way. But Islam is a totally missionary religion when it comes to marriage with a non-muslim. The non muslim would have to convert to Islam. In a way, it is a strategic yet unorthodox approach to bring people into your own faith. I have been to many bars and clubs to see mainly young pakistani/bengali guys luring/trying it on with young naive Indian girls (sikh and hindu).

Yeah, you have a point. Is this a bad thing? Being a Muslim, I don't consider it so, but coming from an outsiders perspective it probably seems fairly rigid. But religion isn't going to be politically correct.

As to your comments about seeing Pakistani/Bengali guys in clubs and bars, chances are they're trying to get some and they'll probably have a higher success rate with a Sikh or Hindu in that setting. I doubt there's much of an underlying desire to convert them/steal them away from their original faith.

[whiteass]

Maybe I should have said,

it's the issue of converting +
the uber-conservative attitudes +
low tolerance for views that oppose islamic law +
the support for ridiculous conspiracy theories, such as the ones that litter RD +
bizarre obsession with arabs and desire claim to arab descent
Etc, etc

Holy crap, Kama. It's no wonder you click more easily with non-desis. :o

I guess it's mostly the Paki Muslims who post crap like this on RD...

:sarb:

[whiteass]

Because he will never respect her Religion, they never do.

Who is this 'he'? :sarb:

[whiteass]

You can easily turn that on them...... see, The Prophet specifically said that other religions and peoples are to be respected.... so if they disrespect Hinduism, then they're not really following the words of The Prophet, so THEY'RE not religious........ so..... if you make fun of their religion, and they call you on it... you say... ]"You're not that religious, so why does it bother you if we make fun of Islam?"



:kekeke:









[no people, I'm not dissing Islam, I'm merely showing how respect works both ways]

Is this a saying or did you read it somewhere? :sarb:

[whiteass]

Yeah, you have a point. Is this a bad thing? Being a Muslim, I don't consider it so, but coming from an outsiders perspective it probably seems fairly rigid. But religion isn't going to be politically correct.

As to your comments about seeing Pakistani/Bengali guys in clubs and bars, chances are they're trying to get some and they'll probably have a higher success rate with a Sikh or Hindu in that setting. I doubt there's much of an underlying desire to convert them/steal them away from their original faith.

Exactly. :)

[whiteass]

Read the previous posts. I guess it's a bit hard to explain unless you're a Hindu, Sikh or Christian. You do know that a lot of Indian Christians don't want their kids marrying Desi Muslims either, but give more leeway when it comes to marrying a Hindu or a Sikh on average.

Is this something that you believe or a fact that you have acquired? :sarb:

So far as I know a Jew has to marry a Jew. For instance, Sacha Baron Cohen (Borat) is a Jew, his fiance/wife is a Christian. For them to be able to get married she has decided to convert to the Jewish faith. If she did not convert then they both cannot get married since Sacha will not convert to Christianity.

[Space-Cowboy]

Is this a saying or did you read it somewhere? :sarb:

Sura 9
"But the treatires are not dissolved with those Pagans with whom you have entered into alliance and who have you subsequently failed you in aught, nor aided anyone against you. So fulfill your engagements with them to the end of their term: for God Loves the righteous."


2:256 There is no compulsion in religion, for the right way is clearly from the wrong way. Whoever therefore rejects the forces of evil and believes in God, he has taken hold of a support most unfailing, which shall never give way, for God is All Hearing and Knowing.

16:82 But if they turn away from you, (O Prophet remember that) your only duty is a clear delivery of the Message (entrusted to you).

6:107 Yet if God had so willed, they would not have ascribed Divinity to aught besides him; hence, We have not made you their keeper, nor are you (of your own choice) a guardian over them.


These seem to suggest, that your Prophet wanted your people to respect other faiths..... which clearly doesn't happen on these boards, as there are many Muslims here on RD who are quite Xenophobic.... thus going against the teachings of The Prophet.

In this very thread alone, there are several. So, Kama was right in her response, as was I.

[Space-Cowboy]

Is this something that you believe or a fact that you have acquired? :sarb:

So far as I know a Jew has to marry a Jew. For instance, Sacha Baron Cohen (Borat) is a Jew, his fiance/wife is a Christian. For them to be able to get married she has decided to convert to the Jewish faith. If she did not convert then they both cannot get married since Sacha will not convert to Christianity.

They're getting married... she's not converting.... both families are ok with it.

[whiteass]

Sura 9
"But the treatires are not dissolved with those Pagans with whom you have entered into alliance and who have you subsequently failed you in aught, nor aided anyone against you. So fulfill your engagements with them to the end of their term: for God Loves the righteous."


2:256 There is no compulsion in religion, for the right way is clearly from the wrong way. Whoever therefore rejects the forces of evil and believes in God, he has taken hold of a support most unfailing, which shall never give way, for God is All Hearing and Knowing.

16:82 But if they turn away from you, (O Prophet remember that) your only duty is a clear delivery of the Message (entrusted to you).

6:107 Yet if God had so willed, they would not have ascribed Divinity to aught besides him; hence, We have not made you their keeper, nor are you (of your own choice) a guardian over them.


These seem to suggest, that your Prophet wanted your people to respect other faiths..... which clearly doesn't happen on these boards, as there are many Muslims here on RD who are quite Xenophobic.... thus going against the teachings of The Prophet.

In this very thread alone, there are several. So, Kama was right in her response, as was I.


What's with the *your*. Plus this is a forum where the comments are posted by people all around the world using a computer and not able to see who they are talking to. Anyone of those persons could say they follow a certain religion but actually they don't.

Are you refering to response Kama gave to the question regarding Jews?

[TheLoneAvenger]

They're getting married... she's not converting.... both families are ok with it.

I thought she was. This may be incorrect...
http://www.somethingjewish.co.uk/articles/854_staines__massive_wed.htm

[TheLoneAvenger]

It's just something that I've seen. A lot of people don't follow their religious rules now these days, but the Muslims in my life are the ones that are the most adamant about marrying within their own kind. You can find a higher amount of second-generation non-Muslim Desis that are okay with not converting someone, regardless of what their religion says. And, liberal attitudes like that are one of the reasons why non-Muslim Desis have a harder time fitting in with Muslims yet it's easier for non-Muslim Desis to get along with each other regardless of religious diferences.

Valid observation.

Islam just seems to generally evoke this type of action amongst its' believers.