Shaadi Season?

[htownzdevil]

is it me or is it shaadi season? cuz i have known way too many people get married in the last few months and all of them are young.

i know a few girls that have gotten married lately at a young age 20/21. thats understandable i get it. but these guys...

a friend of my friend got married in nov. he's 21 an shes 24. its not the age that i find weird its the fact that hes 21 and he jus got married. i thought guys were anti-shaadi til late twenties.

one of my friends brothers jus got married this past weekend and hes the same age as me, 20. again why are these guys getting married so0 young?

am i missing something??

and why cant i find a guy like that? :sarb:

[dayven]

now why would a guy marry a girl thats older than him :sarb:

[htownzdevil]

my question is why would a girl marry a guy thats 3 years younger than him.. especially at this age..like if she was like 34 and he was 31 thats different.guys are established then but at 21....

im not sure exactly why but theYre married now so0 yuh lol

[dayven]

my question is why would a girl marry a guy thats 3 years younger than him.. especially at this age..like if she was like 34 and he was 31 thats different.guys are established then but at 21....

im not sure exactly why but theYre married now so0 yuh lol


I say that shadi is gonna last about 1yr... :o

[htownzdevil]

hmmmm i dont think so0.. i think it will last.. for now lol.. tsk tsk tsk i shouldnt jinx them.. i wish them happiness :)

[dayven]

hmmmm i dont think so0.. i think it will last.. for now lol.. tsk tsk tsk i shouldnt jinx them.. i wish them happiness :)


ya true...what the hell we know right? its their choice...hope its last long.. :D

[deepdeeps]

is it me or is it shaadi season? cuz i have known way too many people get married in the last few months and all of them are young.

i know a few girls that have gotten married lately at a young age 20/21. thats understandable i get it. but these guys...

a friend of my friend got married in nov. he's 21 an shes 24. its not the age that i find weird its the fact that hes 21 and he jus got married. i thought guys were anti-shaadi til late twenties.

one of my friends brothers jus got married this past weekend and hes the same age as me, 20. again why are these guys getting married so0 young?

am i missing something??

and why cant i find a guy like that? :sarb:

He must be a fob.

[Enammmmm]

close-minded idiots.

[htownzdevil]

i never said i was closed minded i was jus curious t0 kn0w. im happy for all the couples that got married. its not everday u see a 20 yr old desi guy get married.

[TheLoneAvenger]

is it me or is it shaadi season? cuz i have known way too many people get married in the last few months and all of them are young.

i know a few girls that have gotten married lately at a young age 20/21. thats understandable i get it. but these guys...

a friend of my friend got married in nov. he's 21 an shes 24. its not the age that i find weird its the fact that hes 21 and he jus got married. i thought guys were anti-shaadi til late twenties.

one of my friends brothers jus got married this past weekend and hes the same age as me, 20. again why are these guys getting married so0 young?

am i missing something??

and why cant i find a guy like that? :sarb:

Are these desis muslim or random?

Generally, a virgin guy is probably going to be itchin to get married earlier. This rule isn't true all the time, but from personal experiences that just tends to be the case.

I'm around 23, which I guess is early twenties and I'm looking to get married soon (next year or so), while some of my desi classmates aren't even considering it until they're 28-30.

[maryammmm]

when i was in pakistan last april i had two weddings to go to every weekend. so i went to like 8 weddings that month!
it was horribleeee but fun!

[T.Dimera]

my ideal situation would be to get married in my late 20s..which gives me a few years...most of my friends are married, engaged or about to be...so yeah...i'm a late bloomer

[spice_of_life]

yea seriously its annoying all my friends are gettin engaged or gettin married...

[muslimbeauty06]

(word)all my cousins are getting married or engaged..

[Atta]

when i was in pakistan last april i had two weddings to go to every weekend. so i went to like 8 weddings that month!
it was horribleeee but fun!


coz you went in wedding season ;)

[Enammmmm]

i never said i was closed minded i was jus curious t0 kn0w. im happy for all the couples that got married. its not everday u see a 20 yr old desi guy get married.


sorry I wasnt calling you close-minded


to explain, ive almost tied a knot with a 28 yr old but it didnt go through and Im glad but now im about to marry a 19 yr old....so am i just a confused "fob" ....the whole term fob has no definition, it has lost its joking side. I see more american born people act stupid and "fobbish" than Desi born.

And for young guys getting married, I say its a great thing, if they make a mistake, they will learn like any other aged guy. But for the most part Ive seen young guys make it just fine dude.

[PakPlaya69]

I say that shadi is gonna last about 1yr... :o
haram , dont talk like that about somone marriage , come on man , wish them good luck and hope their marriage lasts forever :D

[PakPlaya69]

when i was in pakistan last april i had two weddings to go to every weekend. so i went to like 8 weddings that month!
it was horribleeee but fun!


I was there too , its te best to go to shaddis, its also cause its after muharam and the wheather is good before it gets all hot near june or what ever, i love the perving in shaddis hehe , the gals giggling and and laughing and smiling and they keep lookin at you but when you look they act like they werent lookin at all , shy ones haii allah :p

[Enammmmm]

haram , dont talk like that about somone marriage , come on man , wish them good luck and hope their marriage lasts forever :D


now thats proper thinking. :cheers:

[PakPlaya69]

now thats proper thinking. :cheers:


No worries, what do you say , me and you give it a go :p

[xzOtk]

sorry I wasnt calling you close-minded


to explain, ive almost tied a knot with a 28 yr old but it didnt go through and Im glad but now im about to marry a 19 yr old....so am i just a confused "fob" ....the whole term fob has no definition, it has lost its joking side. I see more american born people act stupid and "fobbish" than Desi born.

And for young guys getting married, I say its a great thing, if they make a mistake, they will learn like any other aged guy. But for the most part Ive seen young guys make it just fine dude.

If you don't mind me asking, how old are you?

[htownzdevil]

these guys are muslims... i wanna get married so0n though.. in the next few years.. inshallah..as soon as i find my guy lol

im not the type who wants to "experience" things lol i dont party, go clubbing, drink, smoke or any of that stuff.. so0 im pretty much past all that so0 theres nothing left to experience.. and i dont wanna be like 30 and have my first kid.. like my sister lol shes gonna be like 50 when her kid is 18 lol .. shes not pregnant yet but inshallah she will be right after her shaadi :) but yuh i dont wanna be an old mom..

i think its kinda cool to have two mature yet young people be in such a serious relationship.