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jus_me
December 27th, 2006, 08:12 PM
Have any of you ever known a person who has a split personality?

If so, how did you get rid of the fucker?

I know a dude, he works with me and he is always switching moods and i feel so damn strange around him.

He says stuff which he knows makes me feel uncomfortable, when i tell him he acts as if im a bitch, when ive said nothing wrong :sarb:

I told him before xmas that he confused me (because he did) and then he turned around and called me arrogant, ME? ARROGANT? After showing him how i was superior to him, I told him to leave me alone, which he did.

Today i got a text from him asking me some random shit, how can i tell him to fuck off?

akuza
December 27th, 2006, 08:17 PM
stick on some leo sayer and get that party swinging :cool:

just tell him to fuck off.

R.J
December 27th, 2006, 08:18 PM
Get your husband to lay a beatdown on him.

jus_me
December 27th, 2006, 08:21 PM
stick on some leo sayer and get that party swinging :cool:

just tell him to fuck off.

akashen i have tried that, he just doesnt listen.

making advances towards a married woman :no:

thats what i dont understand

there are drop dead gorgeous birds at work who are single, yet he thinks id do him, ***** please, gyals dem be havin standardz yeh :rolleyes:

i told him to leave me alone before xmas and he did, and then today he texted me and i told him to leave me alone and he kept texting :no: i may have to change the number.

what i dont understand is this

if you like a girl and you tell her this, then why switch on her the next time you talk to her? its not the fact that i WANT him to be lovey dovey with me, i want the opposite, ive got a boyfriend :giggle: and he knows this, why cant he just be horrible to me all the time? he is trying to play mind games but im way beyond them, im not an idiot..why cant he just be a bastard to me all the time? he seems to think that if he carries on playing hard to get, il "wake up" and leave simon :rolleyes:

jus_me
December 27th, 2006, 08:22 PM
Get your husband to lay a beatdown on him.

i could knock him out myself, hes a wimp.

i have hit him "accidentally" with a stapler and a filing cabinet drawer.

akuza
December 27th, 2006, 08:24 PM
akashen i have tried that, he just doesnt listen.

making advances towards a married woman :no:

thats what i dont understand

there are drop dead gorgeous birds at work who are single, yet he thinks id do him, ***** please, gyals dem be havin standardz yeh :rolleyes:

i told him to leave me alone before xmas and he did, and then today he texted me and i told him to leave me alone and he kept texting :no: i may have to change the number.

what i dont understand is this

if you like a girl and you tell her this, then why switch on her the next time you talk to her? its not the fact that i WANT him to be lovey dovey with me, i want the opposite, ive got a boyfriend :giggle: and he knows this, why cant he just be horrible to me all the time? he is trying to play mind games but im way beyond them, im not an idiot..why cant he just be a bastard to me all the time? he seems to think that if he carries on playing hard to get, il "wake up" and leave simon :rolleyes:
brown man ting?
you know the deal bebs, just get me to phone him up on number hidden, I'll breathe on the phone heavily for about 20mins then do it again every 5minutes, then get that muffling voice ting professor frink had and say "fuck off from jus_her" simple as that.

Even simpler would be to shame him in front of some people he/you know then he'll get the drift.

sheerin
December 27th, 2006, 08:27 PM
You better do something quick.........cause I heard some violent things about people like him.

I am not sure. If he says something violent. i would call the police and get a restaining(sp?) order

jus_me
December 27th, 2006, 08:33 PM
brown man ting?
you know the deal bebs, just get me to phone him up on number hidden, I'll breathe on the phone heavily for about 20mins then do it again every 5minutes, then get that muffling voice ting professor frink had and say "fuck off from jus_her" simple as that.

Even simpler would be to shame him in front of some people he/you know then he'll get the drift.


everyone in the dept knows what he is doing

he says stuff that makes me feel uncomfortable when simon says it, so you know it must be out there (lol) as he can say practically anything to me.

he isnt brown..er bist (sind?) white.

lol frink master.

what i dont get is, ive told him im married, other people have told that he is fighting a losing battle but he just doesnt shut up, and he switches for no reason.

for example, last week of work, we were talking about something..i cant remember what but the subject somehow went onto who you would marry if you could have anyone in the world, so i said "john frusciante BUT simon too, id have to have both :lol: " nobody even asked this guy and he just butted in and said "id marry her, must be one lucky fucker who gets to bed her every night" (wtf?) anyway, i didnt say anything (too morally outraged) and then later on i was doing some caseworkage and he was telling this other guy (mark) how im such a bitch who thinks far too highly of herself when she knows fuck all about anything (which i dont deny..im no brainbox) and when mark said "so why must you chase after her all the time?" (god i love this boy) he (the freak) went mad, chucking files around and everything.

killuminati87
December 28th, 2006, 05:30 AM
send an email around work naming and shaming him :)

or hit him on the head with a metal pipe :sarb:

yeeee
December 28th, 2006, 05:43 AM
bi polar :think:

akuza
December 28th, 2006, 07:43 AM
everyone in the dept knows what he is doing

he says stuff that makes me feel uncomfortable when simon says it, so you know it must be out there (lol) as he can say practically anything to me.

he isnt brown..er bist (sind?) white.

lol frink master.

what i dont get is, ive told him im married, other people have told that he is fighting a losing battle but he just doesnt shut up, and he switches for no reason.

for example, last week of work, we were talking about something..i cant remember what but the subject somehow went onto who you would marry if you could have anyone in the world, so i said "john frusciante BUT simon too, id have to have both :lol: " nobody even asked this guy and he just butted in and said "id marry her, must be one lucky fucker who gets to bed her every night" (wtf?) anyway, i didnt say anything (too morally outraged) and then later on i was doing some caseworkage and he was telling this other guy (mark) how im such a bitch who thinks far too highly of herself when she knows fuck all about anything (which i dont deny..im no brainbox) and when mark said "so why must you chase after her all the time?" (god i love this boy) he (the freak) went mad, chucking files around and everything.
Punk him out that's the only way to go, those insecure fah-reaks need their arse whomped.
Get big daddy cool on his arse, I KNOW he'll take him down all the way down to chinatown. (then break a plate on his face)

yussi
December 28th, 2006, 07:52 AM
i had the same problme with my mate but were good now.. always changing moods maan.. he got pisse doff with me that i wasnt walking next to him on OXFORD street once :neutral: i mean its everyone for themsleves on that street!.. i told him u frustrate me you need to sort out WHO U ARE are u my mate or what.. i kinda made him feel bad but it worked.. just put the guy in his place and say "just b/c ur moods change so quickly doesnt mean my opinion of you will" :) good luck!

killuminati87
December 28th, 2006, 09:46 AM
i had the same problme with my mate but were good now.. always changing moods maan.. he got pisse doff with me that i wasnt walking next to him on OXFORD street once :neutral: i mean its everyone for themsleves on that street!.. i told him u frustrate me you need to sort out WHO U ARE are u my mate or what.. i kinda made him feel bad but it worked.. just put the guy in his place and say "just b/c ur moods change so quickly doesnt mean my opinion of you will" :) good luck!


..hitting them with a metal pipe is easier and quicker...

jus_me
December 28th, 2006, 11:04 AM
You better do something quick.........cause I heard some violent things about people like him.

I am not sure. If he says something violent. i would call the police and get a restaining(sp?) order


im not scared of him as such.

he is a wimp and ive been taught to fight so im good on that score.

i just want him to fuck off and leave me alone.

i should seek him out and destroy him (yeah, you read right :cool2: )

DasJa
December 28th, 2006, 11:37 AM
me = :gay:

akuza
December 28th, 2006, 11:38 AM
me = :gay:
:werd:

DasJa
December 28th, 2006, 11:40 AM
:werd:
very nifty!! Please stop modifying my posts. I was just indicating how ridiculously boring this topic is :bored:

akuza
December 28th, 2006, 11:41 AM
very nifty!! Please stop modifying my posts. I was just indicating how ridiculously boring this topic is :bored:
please avert your gaze to the top of this page...........and see that it's based within the UK forum therefore English, Scottish, Welsh, Northern Irish persons should post in such a thread. Thank you.

jus_me
December 28th, 2006, 11:45 AM
very nifty!! Please stop modifying my posts. I was just indicating how ridiculously boring this topic is :bored:

run along and get your generic tattoo, dickwad.

DasJa
December 28th, 2006, 11:50 AM
run along and get your generic tattoo, dickwad.
http://linuxmafia.com/~rick/pictures/stfu-big.png

jus_me
December 28th, 2006, 11:52 AM
http://linuxmafia.com/~rick/pictures/stfu-big.png

yeah how about you take your own advice?

you e-gangsters make me laugh..

im so very scared of what you can do to me via words.

jus_me
December 29th, 2006, 03:59 PM
he's started being nice again now

still no apology but i think that he has FINALLY given up as his last text read "ok well fine, have it your way, you cant say i didnt try" (after sending a bajillion to which i didnt reply)

man i am so great :cool2:

i hope he has finally fucked off

killuminati87
December 29th, 2006, 04:23 PM
he's started being nice again now

still no apology but i think that he has FINALLY given up as his last text read "ok well fine, have it your way, you cant say i didnt try" (after sending a bajillion to which i didnt reply)

man i am so great :cool2:

i hope he has finally fucked off

congratulations :dance3:

shadyzgal08
December 29th, 2006, 04:28 PM
moody people piss the fuck outta me :mad: :mad:

killuminati87
December 29th, 2006, 04:31 PM
moody people piss the fuck outta me :mad: :mad:

and you probably piss the fuck outta moody people :yes:, with your upbeat attitude and bubbly nature :mad:

shadyzgal08
December 29th, 2006, 04:32 PM
and you probably piss the fuck outta moody people :yes:, with your upbeat attitude and bubbly nature :mad:
indeed i do :p

stupid moody people lol like make up your fucking mind :neutral:

*CUTIEE*
December 29th, 2006, 04:49 PM
I'd get somebody to k1ck his 4ss.

mp3
December 29th, 2006, 05:07 PM
stick on some leo sayer and get that party swinging :cool:

just tell him to fuck off.


:rofl: You been watching too much Goodness Gracious

_A-s-H-i_
December 29th, 2006, 05:11 PM
crak the fucker on the hed

jus_me
December 29th, 2006, 05:17 PM
moody people piss the fuck outta me :mad: :mad:

see i dont mind people being moody because i can be a moody bitch when the fancy takes me but this guy is weird.

its like for example, say if you like this guy, why would you be niec to him one day and then just switch on him the next time you saw him?

he knows full well that im never going to leave simon so why bother even trying it on, its like he realises this and then forgets that ive told him he has no chance :sarb:

and you know i thought i got rid of him?

well ive had 5 more texts since i last wrote something on here..he apologised to me in german because due to me speaking the odd word in the office, he thinks im fluent in the language :sarb:

mp3
December 29th, 2006, 05:21 PM
Have any of you ever known a person who has a split personality?

If so, how did you get rid of the fucker?

I know a dude, he works with me and he is always switching moods and i feel so damn strange around him.

He says stuff which he knows makes me feel uncomfortable, when i tell him he acts as if im a bitch, when ive said nothing wrong :sarb:

I told him before xmas that he confused me (because he did) and then he turned around and called me arrogant, ME? ARROGANT? After showing him how i was superior to him, I told him to leave me alone, which he did.

Today i got a text from him asking me some random shit, how can i tell him to fuck off?

Just ignore it and see if he just leaves you alone. If this continues, see how he is with other people and what they did. If he is targetting you for some reason you might need to take it further.

jus_me
December 29th, 2006, 05:25 PM
Just ignore it and see if he just leaves you alone. If this continues, see how he is with other people and what they did. If he is targetting you for some reason you might need to take it further.

its kinda hard to ignore him because he works with me but trust me, i keep my distance, he is the one who always comes over to speak to me.

he even gets the same train to work as me so ive started taking a different train because i dont want to even see him.

what i dont understand is the fact that 1)ive told him im not interested 2)there are millions of girls at work who are prettier than me and are single too, so why not go after them?

i am ignoring him at the moment and have been ever since he decided to get mad at me for "leading him on" but he just keeps on hounding me, i know he is trying to push me so much that i actually retaliate and then say sorry (i cant help being so kind natured :lol:) and then he will try and worm his way back in again, but not this time..he can keep on talking.

2Stupid2Duck
December 29th, 2006, 05:29 PM
i hate clingy people at work!!!!

tell him you will report him if he keeps persisting!

mp3
December 29th, 2006, 05:31 PM
its kinda hard to ignore him because he works with me but trust me, i keep my distance, he is the one who always comes over to speak to me.

he even gets the same train to work as me so ive started taking a different train because i dont want to even see him.

what i dont understand is the fact that 1)ive told him im not interested 2)there are millions of girls at work who are prettier than me and are single too, so why not go after them?

i am ignoring him at the moment and have been ever since he decided to get mad at me for "leading him on" but he just keeps on hounding me, i know he is trying to push me so much that i actually retaliate and then say sorry (i cant help being so kind natured :lol:) and then he will try and worm his way back in again, but not this time..he can keep on talking.

Well you shouldnt have to start catching other trains because of him. If thats the case that he is interested in you and wont take no for and answer, it is like harassment. If he is trying to push you over the edge. I can only advise the following.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ajdg93mhhX4

killuminati87
December 29th, 2006, 05:32 PM
see i dont mind people being moody because i can be a moody bitch when the fancy takes me but this guy is weird.

its like for example, say if you like this guy, why would you be niec to him one day and then just switch on him the next time you saw him?

he knows full well that im never going to leave simon so why bother even trying it on, its like he realises this and then forgets that ive told him he has no chance :sarb:

and you know i thought i got rid of him?

well ive had 5 more texts since i last wrote something on here..he apologised to me in german because due to me speaking the odd word in the office, he thinks im fluent in the language :sarb:


aww he's just trying to impress you, in his own sad freaky way.

jus_me
December 29th, 2006, 05:32 PM
i have hit him with office supplies in the past but he thinks im just messing around on account of me "hitting" my mates with the supplies too

i've told his boss but she takes no notice because shes a slag and thinks that all the guys that she works with have "taken a shine to her" and is thus scared to say anything to them as she thinks she has a chance with em :no:

jus_me
December 29th, 2006, 05:34 PM
Well you shouldnt have to start catching other trains because of him. If thats the case that he is interested in you and wont take no for and answer, it is like harassment. If he is trying to push you over the edge. I can only advise the following.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ajdg93mhhX4

yeah i know i shouldnt have to but i just can stand seeing him, he really annoys me that much.

and i cant see that youtube image.

jus_me
December 29th, 2006, 05:36 PM
aww he's just trying to impress you, in his own sad freaky way.

thats what i thought at first too but i told him that im not interested because i have a husband :rolleyes:

what really confuses me is the way he acts.

i understand that if you like a girl you can play hard to get and be mean to her but he takes it to another level, the stuff he says about me isnt mean in a jokey way, he actually means it and i can tell he does because when he says it, he doesnt have that jokey tone in his voice, he is really serious.

mp3
December 29th, 2006, 05:36 PM
yeah i know i shouldnt have to but i just can stand seeing him, he really annoys me that much.

and i cant see that youtube image.

Try it now.

Well if it has become that unbearable, you might have to complain. But make sure how you go about this. As if no one else sees it they might blame you.

jus_me
December 29th, 2006, 05:39 PM
Try it now.

Well if it has become that unbearable, you might have to complain. But make sure how you go about this. As if no one else sees it they might blame you.

everyone sees it and they have told him to give up but he wont listen.

its not even as if im getting off on the attention, ive ignored him and he says stuff like ok, i wont bother anymore and then 10 minutes later ive got another text.

2Stupid2Duck
December 29th, 2006, 05:40 PM
everyone sees it and they have told him to give up but he wont listen.

its not even as if im getting off on the attention, ive ignored him and he says stuff like ok, i wont bother anymore and then 10 minutes later ive got another text.

giv him a link to this thread, should be pretty clear for him then!

lol

killuminati87
December 29th, 2006, 05:42 PM
thats what i thought at first too but i told him that im not interested because i have a husband :rolleyes:

what really confuses me is the way he acts.

i understand that if you like a girl you can play hard to get and be mean to her but he takes it to another level, the stuff he says about me isnt mean in a jokey way, he actually means it and i can tell he does because when he says it, he doesnt have that jokey tone in his voice, he is really serious.

Has he met your husband? he might think your bullshiting and telling your friends to lie too?

the mean stuff.. maybe he's a crack head?

jus_me
December 29th, 2006, 05:44 PM
Has he met your husband? he might think your bullshiting and telling your friends to lie too?

the mean stuff.. maybe he's a crack head?


yeah he has met my husband, all my mates have met him..he somehow seems to think that if he pesters me enough, il complain to my husband, we will break up because of the constant complaining and il go running to him, which is never going to happen because my husband has coped with my constant bitching for 7 years :lol:

i think he is just an attention seeker

oh another text, joy!

killuminati87
December 29th, 2006, 05:47 PM
yeah he has met my husband, all my mates have met him..he somehow seems to think that if he pesters me enough, il complain to my husband, we will break up because of the constant complaining and il go running to him, which is never going to happen because my husband has coped with my constant bitching for 7 years :lol:

i think he is just an attention seeker

oh another text, joy!
what a freak.. well atleast you'll always look popular with your barrage of txts

jus_me
December 29th, 2006, 05:50 PM
what a freak.. well atleast you'll always look popular with your barrage of txts

:lol:

id rather never be texted again than have texts from him for life :neutral:
i should hire a firm to get him beaten up :cool2:

mp3
December 29th, 2006, 05:54 PM
he knows your maried and still is going at it then it is troubling. As first it might have just been persistance but going after married women, thats not on. A complaint or a good beating will do the trick.

Arshy on the forums has a security firm, if thats what you are looking for. :rofl:

jus_me
December 29th, 2006, 06:02 PM
:lol: excellent.

i want to know what he said in german, anyone know a site that does decent translations?

killuminati87
December 29th, 2006, 06:03 PM
:lol:

id rather never be texted again than have texts from him for life :neutral:
i should hire a firm to get him beaten up :cool2:

get the Akashy massive to do him over. They'll (he'll) bring the streats right on to the pest :D

killuminati87
December 29th, 2006, 06:04 PM
:lol: excellent.

i want to know what he said in german, anyone know a site that does decent translations?

babblefish
freetranslations.com

not perfect but they do the job :D

jus_me
December 29th, 2006, 06:11 PM
danke schon :)

he wrote some crap like "im sorry for upsetting you, i was going through a rough patch at the time, can we be mates again?"

1)we were never mates
2)fuck the hell off turdface


i get the feeling that if i dont tell him the two above points, he may never stop hounding me, but then if i DO tell him, he might think everything is ok again :sarb:

killuminati87
December 29th, 2006, 06:17 PM
danke schon :)

he wrote some crap like "im sorry for upsetting you, i was going through a rough patch at the time, can we be mates again?"

1)we were never mates
2)fuck the hell off turdface


i get the feeling that if i dont tell him the two above points, he may never stop hounding me, but then if i DO tell him, he might think everything is ok again :sarb:

bitte schon ;)

well how about you send a txt with 2 followed by 1
simple, and it flows.

*BabyGirl*
December 29th, 2006, 06:20 PM
and you probably piss the fuck outta moody people :yes:, with your upbeat attitude and bubbly nature :mad:


:rofl:

jus_me
December 29th, 2006, 06:21 PM
bitte schon ;)

well how about you send a txt with 2 followed by 1
simple, and it flows.

plan!

but..the last time i did that

he flipped out

then he apologised using the rough time excuse

you can see the bind im in.

killuminati87
December 29th, 2006, 06:24 PM
plan!

but..the last time i did that

he flipped out

then he apologised using the rough time excuse

you can see the bind im in.

let the baby spit out his dummy and cry. He needs to get the message. try mass txting it to him :sarb:

jus_me
December 30th, 2006, 01:17 PM
update on the situation

last nite i told him, in no uncertain terms to fuck off and leave me alone.

he got pissed off and said fine.

so i was like yay, all is good :dance2:

switched my phone off, went to bed.

woke up in the morning, 15 new text messages :rolleyes: (i was actually hoping they were from someone else but i knew they would be from him)

he told me about his xmas before i told him to fuck off (i didnt ask, he just blabbed on)

in the texts that followed he went on about what happened at xmas (embellishing the story even moreso than before..he went from losing his wallet on an empty tube to being mugged by 5 guys :neutral: )

then he said "i dont think il text you anymore, you know how to get in contact with me and apologise" ***** what? fuck you am i apologising to him, what do i have to say sorry for? being married? being down-right sexy? :eyebrow: :lol:

oh yeah, and he came out with "you have offended me in the past too, well duh..thats what im TRYING to do, so you piss off but you never ever understood it"

its funny how after i finally told him to fuck off that he decided to say something back, took him a whole night to formulate something (which anyone could formulate in five minutes)

il bet my bottom dollar that HE will be the one who makes the move AGAIN.