Love - real?

[simplyzara]

Do you beleive in Love? whats ur opinion on it? Have u ever loved? been hurt? lets discuss love

[roy_desi]

loved once.

been hurt.

moved on.

[Paki and Proud]

Do you beleive in Love? whats ur opinion on it? Have u ever loved? been hurt? lets discuss love

i believe. ive never loved. never been hurt. id love to love :love:

[.Mazzy.]

The only type of love existent to man, available to man, is famliy love. I don't think I need to explain what family love is. :neutral:

[.Mazzy.]

i believe. ive never loved. never been hurt. id love to love :love:
Infatuation.

[khanvict]

love, in it's purest form, does exist & i believe in it but most people tend to mistake love with infatuation...

[nazimhamed]

Then I saw her face, now I'm a believer. Great song!

[surface2air]

http://www.fotothing.com/photos/027/02797915c52294bed676cd93f7f9898a.jpg

I like how you misspelled your own username in the sig. "SimlyZara" and then it says Honest, Simple and Intelligent...I think not...

[simplyzara]

loved once.

been hurt.

moved on.


was it easy to move on?

[Nilü]

Do you beleive in Love? whats ur opinion on it? Have u ever loved? been hurt? lets discuss love
Yes i believe in love but not that bollywood type.
Yes ive been loved still be
Not hurt not really.

[nazimhamed]

Its often hard to differentiate between love and lust :sarb:

[.Mazzy.]

love, in it's purest form, does exist & i believe in it but most people tend to mistake love with infatuation...
The latter is such a generalization. The former is also a hint of stupidity. RD is home to desilands' most stupidest. :p

[simplyzara]

http://www.fotothing.com/photos/027/02797915c52294bed676cd93f7f9898a.jpg

I like how you misspelled your own username in the sig. "SimlyZara" and then it says Honest, Simple and Intelligent...I think not...


i did it on purpose! people who know me, know how i am!

[EverBlazinGyal]

there is no such thing.
go to school. get a good education. find a wicked job.
and then get married to the person your parents pick out for you and make some damn babies.
jeez.

[TheSkyIsBlue]

yes i believe in love...but i never wanna fall in love...ever!

[simplyzara]

The only type of love existent to man, available to man, is famliy love. I don't think I need to explain what family love is. :neutral:


so you think you cant never love a woman as much as you love your parents?

[roy_desi]

was it easy to move on?
no.

[khanvict]

Its often hard to differentiate between love and lust :sarb:

lust is when you desire someone because of their physical appearance...love is when you desire someone despite their physical appearance?

[.Mazzy.]

so you think you cant never love a woman as much as you love your parents?
You really think Mazzy has a heart that can love? :neutral:

[simplyzara]

i believe. ive never loved. never been hurt. id love to love :love:


but you think you cant love!

[simplyzara]

You really think Mazzy has a heart that can love? :neutral:


I hope so ... everyone has a heart to love

[Paki and Proud]

Infatuation.

with what. with love?

dont think so.

id love to love. end of.

[.Mazzy.]

I hope so ... everyone has a heart to love
Mine has gone to you. :Oops:



:neutral:

[simplyzara]

Its often hard to differentiate between love and lust :sarb:


i dont think its hard...when you love, you know it. You feel like you can spend all your life with that person!

[Nilü]

so you think you cant never love a woman as much as you love your parents?
I think the way you love your parents is different like how
you love a woman or man.

[killingeye]

I love few times..it is fun..only first time it hurts :idea:

[.Mazzy.]

with what. with love?

dont think so.

id love to love. end of.
I gave your head more credit than you deserve you mangled brain. Loving to love is infatuation. FUCK!!!

[nazimhamed]

lust is when you desire someone because of their physical appearance...love is when you desire someone despite their physical appearance?

oh in that case I've never loved, nor will I ever do

[simplyzara]

Mine has gone to you. :Oops:



:neutral:


its impossible...

[nazimhamed]

I love few times..it is fun..only first time it hurts :idea:

:buttsex:?

[.Mazzy.]

its impossible...
You say this why?

[Paki and Proud]

I gave your head more credit than you deserve you mangled brain. Loving to love is infatuation. FUCK!!!

duck out u boog. mangled brain..

so from one sentence ur judging the very aspect charachter that makes me who i am.

i gave ur little head more credit than u deserved

[killingeye]

:buttsex:?


i dont talk to guys about love..can only discuss with gurls :mad:

[Paki and Proud]

i dont talk to guys about love..can only discuss with gurls :mad:
and me

[simplyzara]

You say this why?


because you do not know me enough

[killingeye]

and me

are you a guy?

:p

[nazimhamed]

i dont talk to guys about love..can only discuss with gurls :mad:

k my bad :Oops:

I thought you were a girl

[Paki and Proud]

are you a guy?

:p
ye.. but a special one

[killingeye]

k my bad :Oops:

I thought you were a girl

yes I am lesbian

you asshole :mad:

[nazimhamed]

i dont think its hard...when you love, you know it. You feel like you can spend all your life with that person!

Love is blind. People who think they are in love, are usually madly in lust with each other.

They realise that later, when the physical attraction fades.

[P4ki4Lyf]

i believe in it.

[.Mazzy.]

duck out u boog. mangled brain..

so from one sentence ur judging the very aspect charachter that makes me who i am.

i gave ur little head more credit than u deserved
lol.. Yes, that is exactly what I did. :rolleyes: Wow @ your levels of cognition.
To describe your existence, we can use Newton's theory of 'action-reaction forces'. Actually, that would not be applicable here.


Hmmm, let's-- Errr -- They say the equation must always remain balanced. For every Einstein there will be a 'Paki and Proud'.

[killingeye]

ye.. but a special one



LMAO..are you flirting with a guy :idea:

:gay:

[nazimhamed]

yes I am lesbian

you asshole :mad:

your asshole bigger than my asshole :buttsex:

[.Mazzy.]

because you do not know me enough
& you push me away from yourself when I try. :tears:

[killingeye]

your asshole bigger than my asshole :buttsex:


:neutral:


*walks away*

[killingeye]

i believe in it.


i believe in you :wavey:

[di vinci]

Do you beleive in Love? whats ur opinion on it? Have u ever loved? been hurt? lets discuss love


i did once but when love fails u lose all hope in loving again. my mates got the best line of all "sleep with the girl for the night then leave like the theif in the morning"

[Paki and Proud]

lol.. Yes, that is exactly what I did. :rolleyes: Wow @ your levels of cognition.
To describe your existence, we can use Newton's theory of 'action-reaction forces'. Actually, that would not be applicable here.


Hmmm, let's-- Errr -- They say the equation must always remain balanced. For every Einstein there will be a 'Paki and Proud'.

:rolleyes: :rolleyes:

oh dear. yes there was a typo. i meant aspect of my charachter..

wow..

anyway, if u doubt me, just ask simplyzara

laters.

[di vinci]

i dont think its hard...when you love, you know it. You feel like you can spend all your life with that person!


but when some one falls out of love its gone for ever

[.Mazzy.]

:rolleyes: :rolleyes:

oh dear. yes there was a typo. i meant aspect of my charachter..

wow..

anyway, if u doubt me, just ask simplyzara

laters.
I'm just playing 'witchu' dawwwg.

Oh, & I don't care enough to ask.

Peas & carrots home-e.

[Paki and Proud]

I'm just playing 'witchu' dawwwg.

Oh, & I don't care enough to ask.

Peas & carrots home-e.

whatever puddu

[killingeye]

i did once but when love fails u lose all hope in loving again. my mates got the best line of all "sleep with the girl for the night then leave like the theif in the morning"


you are right but depends who you in love with..since all the fishes are not same in the pound ;)

[.Mazzy.]

whatever puddu
Awww, you got your panties in a bunch. Want me to untangle them for you?

[Paki and Proud]

Awww, you got your panties in a bunch. Want me to untangle them for you?

:rolleyes: :rolleyes:

[di vinci]

you are right but depends who you in love with..since all the fishes are not same in the pound ;)

women r women thats what u need do learn quickly. they think alike, everything they do is similar, women r predictable. theres not enough fishes in the pond the best ones are taken and ur left with the self centered bitches :D

[simplyzara]

women r women thats what u need do learn quickly. they think alike, everything they do is similar, women r predictable. theres not enough fishes in the pond the best ones are taken and ur left with the self centered bitches :D



its called generalization. Not all women are the same!

[.Mazzy.]

women r women thats what u need do learn quickly. they think alike, everything they do is similar, women r predictable. theres not enough fishes in the pond the best ones are taken and ur left with the self centered bitches :D
You really need to move on. Wow, I pity you.

[chunky]

Do you beleive in Love? whats ur opinion on it? Have u ever loved? been hurt? lets discuss love

is love real? only if she suckin dick.

[PuNjabi_RaNi*]

I do believe in love - its just got to find you.

When you feel and think like you never did before - then you know its something special.

[Guddia]

there is no such thing.
go to school. get a good education. find a wicked job.
and then get married to the person your parents pick out for you and make some damn babies.
jeez.


true that

I don't believe in LOVE, its all BS

[Paki and Proud]

women r women thats what u need do learn quickly. they think alike, everything they do is similar, women r predictable. theres not enough fishes in the pond the best ones are taken and ur left with the self centered bitches :D

ive said it before. this guy cracks me up

[Paki and Proud]

I do believe in love - its just got to find you.

When you feel and think like you never did before - then you know its something special.

and what if it never finds you. can u ever be happy with someone u dont love

[simplyzara]

is love real? only if she suckin dick.


so you would like your wife to ....? i dont wanna say those dirty words

[di vinci]

You really need to move on. Wow, I pity you.
differance is iv been datting since i was 14 so it gives me abetter insight into what im talking about. u on the other hand just have an e-girlfriend which we all arent sure if its an he or she. in ur case most likely to be a he :Pelvic2:

[.Mazzy.]

differance is iv been datting since i was 14 so it gives me abetter insight into what im talking about. u on the other hand just have an e-girlfriend which we all arent sure if its an he or she. in ur case most likely to be a he :Pelvic2:
You lil' girl, I won't gloat about how much cunt I've gotten 'cause that serves no purpose online. All I will say is, I can pwn you at will, so do yourself a favour and stfu while your only 4325987540983275932587932 miles behind.

[chunky]

so you would like your wife to ....? i dont wanna say those dirty words

If I can't fall in love with a girl that ain't suckin dick, do you think I could marry one that ain't suckin dick?

[ana]

I think you can fall in love with anybody, so I don't really believe in "One person out there for everybody". I think there's tons out there for you. It's for you to choose who you'll pick as ur partner.

[PuNjabi_RaNi*]

and what if it never finds you. can u ever be happy with someone u dont love

Then i will find it myself.

[simplyzara]

If I can't fall in love with a girl that ain't suckin dick, do you think I could marry one that ain't suckin dick?


so ur wife does that for you and then she kisses your children good night!?

[CorruptNightfall]

I think you can fall in love with anybody, so I don't really believe in "One person out there for everybody". I think there's tons out there for you. It's for you to choose who you'll pick as ur partner.

Agreed~!

[di vinci]

You lil' girl, I won't gloat about how much cunt I've gotten 'cause that serves no purpose online. All I will say is, I can pwn you at will, so do yourself a favour and stfu while your only 4325987540983275932587932 miles behind.


and in bitch terms that is iv watch alot of porn iknow what it looks like iv got the theory side sorted n had practice with my wrist. well done mazzy ur a real man woof woof :dance3:

[swT teMptAtioNz]

i do believe in love, at first i didnt.. until a year ago..
after being with this guy for a year.. when we broke up, it started to hit me that i fell in love with him..
i did get hurt along the way.. but in the end, no matter how bad the situation wus between me & him, it came down to "i still love him..." .. and even now as i'm sittin here.. i can say that he's taken a special place in my heart that no one can take..
i'm glad my first love wasnt a disaster.. he was a really reallyyy good and genuine guy.. and i'm thankful for that.

[chunky]

so ur wife does that for you and then she kisses your children good night!?

Are you trying to tell me that my dick is dirty? Bitch please, cocks are cleaner than the average person's mouth.

[Paki and Proud]

Then i will find it myself.

but didnt u say love finds u ;)

what would u do if u never found it.. could u be really happy with a guy u dont love.. oh and the boots :drool:

[Paki and Proud]

Are you trying to tell me that my dick is dirty? Bitch please, cocks are cleaner than the average person's mouth.
:no:

[.Mazzy.]

and in bitch terms that is iv watch alot of porn iknow what it looks like iv got the theory side sorted n had practice with my wrist. well done mazzy ur a real man woof woof :dance3:
From you're inability to move on and inadequacies as a person, I'd be surprised if you've -- More over, you're 23+ and on RD. Congratulate yourself please.

Btw, I've never watched porn in my life, so that's another mistake on your part. It really behooves you to stfu; really, it does.

[chunky]

i do believe in love, at first i didnt.. until a year ago..
after being with this guy for a year.. when we broke up, it started to hit me that i fell in love with him..
i did get hurt along the way.. but in the end, no matter how bad the situation wus between me & him, it came down to "i still love him..." .. and even now as i'm sittin here.. i can say that he's taken a special place in my heart that no one can take..
i'm glad my first love wasnt a disaster.. he was a really reallyyy good and genuine guy.. and i'm thankful for that.

but did he shoplift the punanai?

[di vinci]

From you're inability to move on and inadequacies as a person, I'd be surprised if you've -- More over, you're 23+ and on RD. Congratulate yourself please.

Btw, I've never watched porn in my life, so that's another mistake on your part. It really behooves you to stfu; really, it does.


for me rd is a lil amusement, something call time pass. for u it seems its more then just time pass u actually care what people think of you thats y u dont show ur picture.

[nazimhamed]

Anyone under 20 who claims to have loved is deluded.

Puppy love doesn't count as love :rolleyes:

[di vinci]

but did he shoplift the punanai?


thats what always happens with the first love lol

[swT teMptAtioNz]

but did he shoplift the punanai?


nope..
he wasnt like other guys.. i told him i didnt wanna do this and didnt wanna do that.. and he respected that.. thats why I STILL have respect for him.. cuz i mean.. he knew i loved him... but he never did anythin to me that he knew would make me feel uncomfortable..
even tho we broken up, i'm managing to keep a friendship with him.. cuz he wusnt just my boyfriend at the time, he wus like a best friend i've never had..

[Naz_85]

I used to believe in love. I guess I still do. But I dnt think it's for me cos I've been hurt too many times to fall into that trap again. Unless one particular ex changes his mind, then it's arranged marriage for me! woo(!)

Love makes it too easy to hurt someone or to be hurt.

[swT teMptAtioNz]

and other thing i wanna add to this thread.. you never know when love comes your way... its totally unpredictable..
and when your in love.. you do the most craziest things for the other person, and not think about the consequences...

[di vinci]

I used to believe in love. I guess I still do. But I dnt think it's for me cos I've been hurt too many times to fall into that trap again. Unless one particular ex changes his mind, then it's arranged marriage for me! woo(!)

Love makes it too easy to hurt someone or to be hurt.


damm, such a fool. not u but ur ex

[nazimhamed]

nope..
he wasnt like other guys.. i told him i didnt wanna do this and didnt wanna do that.. and he respected that.. thats why I STILL have respect for him.. cuz i mean.. he knew i loved him... but he never did anythin to me that he knew would make me feel uncomfortable..
even tho we broken up, i'm managing to keep a friendship with him.. cuz he wusnt just my boyfriend at the time, he wus like a best friend i've never had..

was he :gay:?

[chunky]

nope..
he wasnt like other guys.. i told him i didnt wanna do this and didnt wanna do that.. and he respected that.. thats why I STILL have respect for him.. cuz i mean.. he knew i loved him... but he never did anythin to me that he knew would make me feel uncomfortable..
even tho we broken up, i'm managing to keep a friendship with him.. cuz he wusnt just my boyfriend at the time, he wus like a best friend i've never had..

then it wasn't really love. :p

and friendship with an ex is tough. i'm on good terms with all of my ex's. well most. Most of them hate me for awhile, but then realize i'm pretty much the best they've ever had and then they try to get back with me. I don't do second chances though. So then they get mad and the cycle repeats.

[.Mazzy.]

for me rd is a lil amusement, something call time pass. for u it seems its more then just time pass u actually care what people think of you thats y u dont show ur picture.
For a 23+ year old man, there are multifarious ways in which one can amuse their self. It's called unavailibility of pic you gimped brain. God, I hate talking to deinstitutionalized folk; 'tis worse than community service.

I will say no more. Keep on frolicking ol' man.

[swT teMptAtioNz]

I used to believe in love. I guess I still do. But I dnt think it's for me cos I've been hurt too many times to fall into that trap again. Unless one particular ex changes his mind, then it's arranged marriage for me! woo(!)

Love makes it too easy to hurt someone or to be hurt.


see thats your fault hunnie... youve been hurt too many times.. no its not your fault you got hurt.. its your fault that you chose to be with a guy who would end up hurting you...
just wait it out.. dont rush into relationships.. if youve been hurt too many guys, then dont be with "too many" guys... be single for a longg time... and hopefully love will come knockin at your door...

[chunky]

and other thing i wanna add to this thread.. you never know when love comes your way... its totally unpredictable..
and when your in love.. you do the most craziest things for the other person, and not think about the consequences...

word, so he's the first guy you 3rd based with? awesome. maybe it was love then!

[ilyas@!!oops!!]

Do you beleive in Love? whats ur opinion on it? Have u ever loved? been hurt? lets discuss love
i believe in sacred love....... ;)

[chunky]

tha d00d is reading. :Ohno:

[simplyzara]

and other thing i wanna add to this thread.. you never know when love comes your way... its totally unpredictable..
and when your in love.. you do the most craziest things for the other person, and not think about the consequences...


i agree with the last sentence. And love is not about sex. its a pure feeling, it is when you look into person's eyes and you can see yourself spending the rest of your life with him, having children with him...

[swT teMptAtioNz]

was he :gay:?


see.. thats what i hate about the forums.. you talk some serious talk.. and then ppl say stupid shit..
just cuz he chose not to take my virginity doesnt mean hes gay... it means that hes smart enough to NOT take it.. he knew i'd regret havin sex before marriage..
hes got brains unlike most of you

[di vinci]

For a 23+ year old man, there are multifarious ways in which one can amuse their self. It's called unavailibility of pic you gimped brain. God, I hate talking to deinstitutionalized folk; 'tis worse than community service.

I will say no more. Keep on frolicking ol' man.


so what am i gona do, its christmass eve and most places i know are shut. i aint old. unlike u my age dosnt effect what i can do and i cant do, its not called unavilability of picture it call if i show my picture when im cussing people they will rip it out of me on the forums. shouldnt u be doing ur home work

[swT teMptAtioNz]

i agree with the last sentence. And love is not about sex. its a pure feeling, it is when you look into person's eyes and you can see yourself spending the rest of your life with him, having children with him...
exactly... and these stupid guys on these forums are askin if my ex is gay.. cuz he never had sex with me?... how stupid is that..
relationships dont necessarily need to have sex in order to make it work..

[chunky]

i agree with the last sentence. And love is not about sex. its a pure feeling, it is when you look into person's eyes and you can see yourself spending the rest of your life with him, having children with him...

well if that isn't a pretty way of saying "let's bang" then I don't know what is.

[LokiLaufeyson]

Love is a product of stupid people

[swT teMptAtioNz]

:werd: she friendzoned that pussywhipped lil bitch, and called him her boyfriend.


you dont have a say in my personal relationship..
i hate how you interfer and always try comin into other ppls business..
just like last night your askin me "WHAT R U DOIN UP SO LATE" or whatever.. its none of your concern.. so get off my back man

[simplyzara]

exactly... and these stupid guys on these forums are askin if my ex is gay.. cuz he never had sex with me?... how stupid is that..
relationships dont necessarily need to have sex in order to make it work..


exactly, i was with my ex for 8 months, I spent with him like a week in the same house, NOTHING, no sex...its not the main thing, its not even important

[chunky]

:werd: she friendzoned that pussywhipped lil bitch, and called him her boyfriend.

QFT! :rofl:

[di vinci]

see.. thats what i hate about the forums.. you talk some serious talk.. and then ppl say stupid shit..
just cuz he chose not to take my virginity doesnt mean hes gay... it means that hes smart enough to NOT take it.. he knew i'd regret havin sex before marriage..
hes got brains unlike most of you

thats what u call a guy who actually cared for you. most guys have a one track mind, get the girl have sex, get kinky then say i cant get marid because im already engaged

[swT teMptAtioNz]

and how do you have children with him? sex, right?

girls... :no:


AFTER marriage you have kids... and have sex.

[simplyzara]

and how do you have children with him? sex, right?

girls... :no:


eventually when I would get married, then I would make love to him

[Naz_85]

see thats your fault hunnie... youve been hurt too many times.. no its not your fault you got hurt.. its your fault that you chose to be with a guy who would end up hurting you...
just wait it out.. dont rush into relationships.. if youve been hurt too many guys, then dont be with "too many" guys... be single for a longg time... and hopefully love will come knockin at your door...

Well I really thought I was sorted. I kept myself guarded for a long time, in this last relationship. But in the end, if someone loses faith, thats all there is to it. They need to be able to see hard times happen in most relationships. you gotta work through them, right? I just don't know...if I wait for him, will I be being a fool?

And when i say I've been hurt too much, I mean by anyone I loved and trusted. That includes friends and family as well as guys.

di vinci Thanks. But he's no fool. i think he just doesn't think about the good over the bad.

[nazimhamed]

see.. thats what i hate about the forums.. you talk some serious talk.. and then ppl say stupid shit..
just cuz he chose not to take my virginity doesnt mean hes gay... it means that hes smart enough to NOT take it.. he knew i'd regret havin sex before marriage..
hes got brains unlike most of you

:lol: k calm down

[ilyas@!!oops!!]

all girls need TLC from a man......if they don't get it they start crying!!! :p :neutral:

[swT teMptAtioNz]

thats what u call a guy who actually cared for you. most guys have a one track mind, get the girl have sex, get kinky then say i cant get marid because im already engaged

yeah explain that please to these stupid guys on the forums..

[.Mazzy.]

so what am i gona do, its christmass eve and most places i know are shut. i aint old. unlike u my age dosnt effect what i can do and i cant do, its not called unavilability of picture it call if i show my picture when im cussing people they will rip it out of me on the forums. shouldnt u be doing ur home work
Misconceptions once again. My pic used to be on the forum and there are many people who have seen me; showing my pic is not the matter. There are just many people who don't deserve to see myself, you being one of them.

What are you to do on Christmas Eve, friends is a nice theoretical. Now, you, being as brain gimped as you are, are going to through the same spit at me and therefore I will answer your question before hand. I'm working on my novel which is why I'm concurrently on RD. Now, stfu.

Doing homework? Let's put it this way, if I applied for your job, you'd end up in the unemployment line.

[chunky]

exactly, i was with my ex for 8 months, I spent with him like a week in the same house, NOTHING, no sex...its not the main thing, its not even important

It's funny how all the girls are like "*sigh* love" are the ones that ain't suckin dick.

[LokiLaufeyson]

AFTER marriage you have kids... and have sex.

Bastard children are the future

[nazimhamed]

eventually when I would get married, then I would make love to him

make love, I like, classy

[chunky]

AFTER marriage you have kids... and have sex.

then what the fuck are you doing falling in love before marriage? Shouldn't you wait until after marriage to fall in love?

[swT teMptAtioNz]

if you dont want people to talk about your shit, then dont talk about it on the forums. if you mention it here, it's up for discussion. are you really that dumb?

i dont care if you talk about relationship..
but your comin up with the most gayest conclusions ever... ah wahtever. buzz off buddy
i dont have anything bad or good to say to you.

[Paki and Proud]

if you dont want people to talk about your shit, then dont talk about it on the forums. if you mention it here, it's up for discussion. are you really that dumb?

up for discussion.. yes

but up for ridicule? no!

[simplyzara]

It's funny how all the girls are like "*sigh* love" are the ones that ain't suckin dick.


I would never do that in my life...i dont care whateva whoever think about me...a person who loves me will accept me the way I am!

[Gimmeck]

Yes I do Zara.

Just beacuse people fail to recognize it, they start to question love. Its there, not always what you want it to be, but its there. I believe its not what it is, its what you make out of it.

[.Mazzy.]

Misconceptions once again. My pic used to be on the forum and there are many people who have seen me; showing my pic is not the matter. There are just many people who don't deserve to see myself, you being one of them.

What are you to do on Christmas Eve, friends is a nice theoretical. Now, you, being as brain gimped as you are, are going to through the same spit at me and therefore I will answer your question before hand. I'm working on my novel which is why I'm concurrently on RD. Now, stfu.

Doing homework? Let's put it this way, if I applied for your job, you'd end up in the unemployment line.
Throw*

[chunky]

lmao @ 17yr old girls talking like they know what love is.

[di vinci]

Well I really thought I was sorted. I kept myself guarded for a long time, in this last relationship. But in the end, if someone loses faith, thats all there is to it. They need to be able to see hard times happen in most relationships. you gotta work through them, right? I just don't know...if I wait for him, will I be being a fool?

And when i say I've been hurt too much, I mean by anyone I loved and trusted. That includes friends and family as well as guys.

di vinci Thanks. But he's no fool. i think he just doesn't think about the good over the bad.


i know how u feel similar thing happend to me a few years back, and it got me in a hard way. trusting ppl again takes alot of work, now i just dont trust that many ppl

[nazimhamed]

i dont care if you talk about relationship..
but your comin up with the most gayest conclusions ever... ah wahtever. buzz off buddy
i dont have anything bad or good to say to you.

:idea: maybe if he'd popped your cherry you'd still be together? Stuff like that brings people close, especially if the sex is good.

[Paki and Proud]

if you eat shit, you eat shit. doesn't matter how nicely you put it, you're a shiteater. same way, if you have sex, you have sex. why call it by a different name?


theres a difference between sex outside marriage and after marriage. think of sex as something more emotional than physical

[simplyzara]

you mean you'd want him to fuck your brains out?

its the same shit. dont know why you girls gotta say things like "make love".

if you eat shit, you eat shit. doesn't matter how nicely you put it, you're a shiteater. same way, if you have sex, you have sex. why call it by a different name?


Well, I never done it, i cannot differentiate it.

But What I heard from my friends, its totally different things. But I am not goign to comment on it because I do not know!

[swT teMptAtioNz]

Well I really thought I was sorted. I kept myself guarded for a long time, in this last relationship. But in the end, if someone loses faith, thats all there is to it. They need to be able to see hard times happen in most relationships. you gotta work through them, right? I just don't know...if I wait for him, will I be being a fool?

And when i say I've been hurt too much, I mean by anyone I loved and trusted. That includes friends and family as well as guys.

di vinci Thanks. But he's no fool. i think he just doesn't think about the good over the bad.


of course.. every relationship has ups and downs.. every guy should know that in order to make a relationship work, you should work through the problems.. and if you expect the relationship to change, then you should try makin a few changes in yourself.. for example, if a girl is always callin a guy.. like ALL the time... and he doesnt like it.. the girl should minimize her calls..

honestly i hope you meet someone who'll be good to you.. every girl deserves that.. but you need to be careful who you choose to be with.. most guys are just plain jerks.

[chunky]

I would never do that in my life...i dont care whateva whoever think about me...a person who loves me will accept me the way I am!

what if the one you love REALLY REALLY wants you to suck some dick, but doesn't pressure you because he knows you get upset about it.

If he loves you enough not to pressure you for it, do you love him enough to suck some dick?

[chunky]

what are you? 17? and now you're gonna teach me about relationships? nga please!

you're a prissy teenager chick who's in constant parental lockdown, so you go behind your parent's back and fool around with a guy, then you come in here and take the moral high ground. you can't; you just can't. tell your parents you had a boyfriend, and your mom would call you a whore. so how the hell are you gonna act all high and mighty here? stfu, n00b, and gtfo.

reference post # 219

[swT teMptAtioNz]

what are you? 17? and now you're gonna teach me about relationships? nga please!

you're a prissy teenager chick who's in constant parental lockdown, so you go behind your parent's back and fool around with a guy, then you come in here and take the moral high ground. you can't; you just can't. tell your parents you had a boyfriend, and your mom would call you a whore. so how the hell are you gonna act all high and mighty here? stfu, n00b, and gtfo.

see there you go again.. talking like you know me so well.. and you actually spent so much time typin all that. i must really have an effect on you :rolleyes:
and fyi, my mom knew about him. i told her bout it myself.. and this whole "parental lockdown" .. not all desi parents are like that.

[TheSkyIsBlue]

of course.. every relationship has ups and downs.. every guy should know that in order to make a relationship work, you should work through the problems.. and if you expect the relationship to change, then you should try makin a few changes in yourself.. for example, if a girl is always callin a guy.. like ALL the time... and he doesnt like it.. the girl should minimize her calls..

honestly i hope you meet someone who'll be good to you.. every girl deserves that.. but you need to be careful who you choose to be with.. most guys are just plain jerks.

clingy girls are soooo effin annoying :neutral:

[killingeye]

women r women thats what u need do learn quickly. they think alike, everything they do is similar, women r predictable. theres not enough fishes in the pond the best ones are taken and ur left with the self centered bitches :D


maybe you are right but aint agree..all the women are not same..there are so many bitches..but still I believe there could better love for me..there could be better gurl for me...and tell you true there are few...world is not end with good gurls lol...my first rule in love..never broke heart in love..I loved few times yeah..the real love..love is part of life..not life itself ;)

[simplyzara]

what if the one you love REALLY REALLY wants you to suck some dick, but doesn't pressure you because he knows you get upset about it.

If he loves you enough not to pressure you for it, do you love him enough to suck some dick?

I would leave him! SOme things i promised I would never do in my life. I always keep it. I would step over my pride to go down on a guy, I would leave him!

[chunky]

I can't wait until these girls hit their 20's and realize how love really works.

[TheSkyIsBlue]

sex is sex. whether you do it after you get married or before, it can be just as emotional and physical. and sex with someone outside of marriage can be just as emotional too.

this isn't some indian movie. it's the real world.

dude...this is out of topic but how in the world did your colts lose to the texans today? :sarb: :neutral: :neutral:

[swT teMptAtioNz]

clingy girls are soooo effin annoying :neutral:


ya i know.. but ya agree right? if you like a girl.. she constantly calls you... and if you tell her you dont like it.. you'd be glad if she minimized her calls to once a day or so..

[di vinci]

Misconceptions once again. My pic used to be on the forum and there are many people who have seen me; showing my pic is not the matter. There are just many people who don't deserve to see myself, you being one of them.

What are you to do on Christmas Eve, friends is a nice theoretical. Now, you, being as brain gimped as you are, are going to through the same spit at me and therefore I will answer your question before hand. I'm working on my novel which is why I'm concurrently on RD. Now, stfu.

Doing homework? Let's put it this way, if I applied for your job, you'd end up in the unemployment line.


then how will that work, will u buy me out of my business, i dont think u got what it takes to do my job. u dont have the balls to work 7 days a week and chase after ur employees just to make sure they turn up on time. the reason why i do my job is taht im actually good at it, daddy never put me where i am today if daddy did i wouldnt be sat here talking to you

u writing a book what is it tosser guide to being a lovable pansie on rd

[Paki and Proud]

what are you? 17? and now you're gonna teach me about relationships? nga please!

you're a prissy teenager chick who's in constant parental lockdown, so you go behind your parent's back and fool around with a guy, then you come in here and take the moral high ground. you can't; you just can't. tell your parents you had a boyfriend, and your mom would call you a whore. so how the hell are you gonna act all high and mighty here? stfu, n00b, and gtfo.

:no:

age aint nothing but a number.. so u cant falll in love with someone behind ur parents back..

[CorruptNightfall]

ya i know.. but ya agree right? if you like a girl.. she constantly calls you... and if you tell her you dont like it.. you'd be glad if she minimized her calls to once a day or so..

If she calls constantly through the day and this is addressed to her that she does and she still continues then there is a problem.

Now if the guy doesnt say anything thats his own problem :p

[Naz_85]

i know how u feel similar thing happend to me a few years back, and it got me in a hard way. trusting ppl again takes alot of work, now i just dont trust that many ppl


:werd: They have to prove themselves somehow, right?

[Paki and Proud]

lol you should read some more of this girl's posts, mang. in one thread, she acts all pious, in another she talks about sex with random guys and talks about her tits and ass.

lets not bring up shit from other threads into this. thanks

[chunky]

I would leave him! SOme things i promised I would never do in my life. I always keep it. I would step over my pride to go down on a guy, I would leave him!

Then you're in capable of love and no man will ever be good enough for you because you haven't the slightest idea what it means to share a moment with someone. You're just an anal retentive greedy girl that's focused on your own needs. You don't want a man, you want a fucking dog to keep on a leash to do your bidding.

That's not love.

[di vinci]

maybe you are right but aint agree..all the women are not same..there are so many bitches..but still I believe there could better love for me..there could be better gurl for me...and tell you true there are few...world is not end with good gurls lol...my first rule in love..never broke heart in love..I loved few times yeah..the real love..love is part of life..not life itself ;)


maybe it is that every girl iv met i compare her agaisnt and ex that i loved. most women i met dont add up and have to many bad habits for me to contend with

[TheSkyIsBlue]

ya i know.. but ya agree right? if you like a girl.. she constantly calls you... and if you tell her you dont like it.. you'd be glad if she minimized her calls to once a day or so..

to me...she should know...i dont need to tell her...and if she keeps doing that...well...then the time comes for me to find another girl :neutral:

[Paki and Proud]

then how will that work, will u buy me out of my business, i dont think u got what it takes to do my job. u dont have the balls to work 7 days a week and chase after ur employees just to make sure they turn up on time. the reason why i do my job is taht im actually good at it, daddy never put me where i am today if daddy did i wouldnt be sat here talking to you

u writing a book what is it tosser guide to being a lovable pansie on rd

di vinci at work!

[swT teMptAtioNz]

lets not bring up shit from other threads into this. thanks

Exactly. this thread is about love and i gave my feedback.. this TheDude guy is always commentin on evrything i say..
that other dude wus right.. he is a stalker :neutral:

[di vinci]

:werd: They have to prove themselves somehow, right?


yep they need to prove that they are wordy, but i just cant open up like i used to. im not the same man i was then.

[chunky]

lets not bring up shit from other threads into this. thanks

OH SNAP CAPTAIN SAVE-A-HOE IS HERE!

:Ohno:

[CorruptNightfall]

lol you should read some more of this girl's posts, mang. in one thread, she acts all pious, in another she talks about sex with random guys and talks about her tits and ass.

OMG I recall her talking about her breasts in some random thread and saying shes huge and to check out her profile... Please... attention whore :neutral:

[swT teMptAtioNz]

oh, so you're not on parental lockdown? really? prove it. until you prove it, you're just all talk, and im right.

its a forum, and im posting here cuz i got nothing better to do. so, i'd rather own dumbasses like you. that's why i "spent so much typin all that". if you weren't a dumbass, you'd realize that it doesn't take too much type "all that", but you're a dumbass. so what would you know?

do you think i give a fuck about what you think? no i dont.. if i cared, i'd be more than happy to prove myself to you.. but i dont need to prove anyone.. esp. you.. your a freaky online person.. you dont know me in real life.. so just fuck off

[LokiLaufeyson]

Exactly. this thread is about love and i gave my feedback.. this TheDude guy is always commentin on evrything i say..
that other dude wus right.. he is a stalker :neutral:

What exactly do know about love....muppet!

[chunky]

Exactly. this thread is about love and i gave my feedback.. this TheDude guy is always commentin on evrything i say..
that other dude wus right.. he is a stalker :neutral:

thedude has every right to express his opinion that you're a moron. :idea:

[simplyzara]

Then you're in capable of love and no man will ever be good enough for you because you haven't the slightest idea what it means to share a moment with someone. You're just an anal retentive greedy girl that's focused on your own needs. You don't want a man, you want a fucking dog to keep on a leash to do your bidding.

That's not love.


I am 21, I have dated few guys, and i know how it is out there. The real men DO NOT WANT they wives to go down on them because they respect them and thats kind of man I would marry.
Sharing a moment is not all about pleasure...YES I WANT a VERY strong man besides me who will respect me and not be self-obsessed!

[.Mazzy.]

then how will that work, will u buy me out of my business, i dont think u got what it takes to do my job. u dont have the balls to work 7 days a week and chase after ur employees just to make sure they turn up on time. the reason why i do my job is taht im actually good at it, daddy never put me where i am today if daddy did i wouldnt be sat here talking to you

u writing a book what is it tosser guide to being a lovable pansie on rd
lol.. An entrepreneur, you're deffo not worth my time. Nice job guessing what kind of balls I have. I'd break your teeth were we to meet & that is all that is relevant. My parents have never authored my direction, yet another misconception on your part. What are you now, 0/5?

The bolded is an example of your genius.

Lastly, my novel could not be such as I'm not too greatly loved on RD & would also hope that you stop wanking to my posts. My novel is without a title at the moment and the plot is too long to type for someone as brain gimped at yourself. You are truly a cockamamie hombre.

[Paki and Proud]

why not? she's the same person.

different topic.. different feelings.. different emotions yaar

we say (type) things we dont mean sometimes.

[chunky]

I am 21, I have dated few guys, and i know how it is out there. The real men DO NOT WANT they wives to go down on them because they respect them and thats kind of man I would marry.
Sharing a moment is not all about pleasure...YES I WANT a VERY strong man besides me who will respect me and not be self-obsessed!

:roflbow: that is the biggest lie ever. If you're wondering why they left you, you have your answer now.

Have you had sex before? How do you know what it's about if you've never had sex? How do you know that going down is disrespectful if you've never gone down? You're so full of shit!

[swT teMptAtioNz]

if you dont give a fuck about what i think, what were you trying to prove by saying that you're not on lockdown and i dont know you and your mom knows about your ex? what exactly were you trying to prove?

you have no legs to stand on right now, dumbass.


blah blah blah. you need to get off your ass and find a job.. instead of tryina hunt down all the threads and seeing what i say..
anyways i'm done talkin to you, TheDude. your not worth my time to even argue with

[.Mazzy.]

If I ever fell in love, something I do not believe in, I would not want that girl to blow me. I would not want any woman I hold respect for to give me brains. It's utterly disrespectful in fact, for multifarious reasons. The only girl who would be authorized to blow me would have to be a hot chick that I dislike[Hate..].

[chunky]

do you even know what stalker means, dumbass?

since you claim im a stalker, why dont you go somewhere where i cant stalk you? bye bye :wave:

lawl. you know, I banned her in that other thread, and she came right back when I unbanned her. Hilarious.

[LokiLaufeyson]

The stupidity on RD never ceases to amaze me

[chunky]

The stupidity on RD never ceases to amaze me

shut up. :idea:

[TheSkyIsBlue]

I am 21, I have dated few guys, and i know how it is out there. The real men DO NOT WANT they wives to go down on them because they respect them and thats kind of man I would marry.
Sharing a moment is not all about pleasure...YES I WANT a VERY strong man besides me who will respect me and not be self-obsessed!

ic...what about u...would u also want your future husband not to go down on u in return? just wondering :sarb: :neutral:

[Paki and Proud]

OH SNAP CAPTAIN SAVE-A-HOE IS HERE![/SIZE]
:Ohno:

:no:

oh dear. what have i said that is wrong, offensive or harmful?

compae that answer to when u ask urself the same question.

and the only hoes that need saving is u and thedude.. if u want my services, just drop a PM

[simplyzara]

:roflbow: that is the biggest lie ever. If you're wondering why they left you, you have your answer now.

Have you had sex before? How do you know what it's about if you've never had sex? How do you know that going down is disrespectful if you've never gone down? You're so full of shit!


there is saying "let me go and kill myself and see how it feels"
I wouldnt put myself in that situation in the first place and then regret for the rest of my life. I think there is no point in this argument. I have my own beleifs and moral values on which I would never step on. If guys do not accept me the way I am, then let it be your way "i will end up alone". i do not mind, at least i wont loose my pride.

[di vinci]

lol.. An entrepreneur, you're deffo not worth my time. Nice job guessing what kind of balls I have. I'd break your teeth were we to meet & that is all that is relevant. My parents have never authored my direction, yet another misconception on your part. What are you now, 0/5?

The bolded is an example of your genius.

Lastly, my novel could not be such as I'm not too greatly loved on RD & would also hope that you stop wanking to my posts. My novel is without a title at the moment and the plot is too long to type for someone as brain gimped at yourself. You are truly a cockamamie hombre.


break my teeth i would love to see the day when a poof breaks my teeeth. what are u gona do call the poof brigrade on me. i bet u havnt even got a book all u posses is a a title. so u wank, i heard its a good way of keeping u testicles in shape. i should right a bokk called
self love the only way to true happiness by mazzy the mutt

[Paki and Proud]

if your morality/religion/culture dictates that you can't have sex with some one before marriage and you are an avid supporter of that, how the hell do you justify falling in love/going out with some one before marriage? how?


and "age aint nothing but a number"? please, keep the cliches coming. im sure you enjoyed bridget jones' diary. i heard part 2 is out.

its true though. u cant help when u fall in love. and dont watch movies.

and not everyone here is muslim/sikh/hindu!!

[LokiLaufeyson]

shut up. :idea:

Erm no... :neutral:

[Paki and Proud]

lawl. you know, I banned her in that other thread, and she came right back when I unbanned her. Hilarious.
that is as good as it gets


:no:

[.Mazzy.]

break my teeth i would love to see the day when a poof breaks my teeeth. what are u gona do call the poof brigrade on me. i bet u havnt even got a book all u posses is a a title. so u wank, i heard its a good way of keeping u testicles in shape. i should right a bokk called
self love the only way to true happiness by mazzy the mutt
God, I'm too tired to reply. I'm done. Peas & carrots. Go drink over your broken heart.

[chunky]

there is saying "let me go and kill myself and see how it feels"
I wouldnt put myself in that situation in the first place and then regret for the rest of my life. I think there is no point in this argument. I have my own beleifs and moral values on which I would never step on. If guys do not accept me the way I am, then let it be your way "i will end up alone". i do not mind, at least i wont loose my pride.

:roflbow:

this is hypocrisy at it's finest. You probably reject sex before marriage and things like oral sex due to religious dogma, yet you embrace so boldly PRIDE, something that is most likely condemned by the same religion that claim to have such moral adherence too.

hilarious.

[FaRiDooN]

Do you beleive in Love? whats ur opinion on it? Have u ever loved? been hurt? lets discuss love


LOL . . Love is a Misunderstanding between 2 FOOLS =)

[Paki and Proud]

whatever religion you choose to follow, and whatever you worldview is, if your morality/religion/culture dictates that you can't have sex with some one before marriage and you are an avid supporter of that, how the hell do you justify falling in love/going out with some one before marriage? thats contradictory. plain and simple.

u seem to think that u cant fall in love without sex, am i right. otherwise its not contradictory

[chunky]

lol n00bs :no:

well, now no one can "stalk" her. hope she's happy.

lawl, did sameer make the very special people their own forum so I can go and taunt them?

[Paki and Proud]

:roflbow:

this is hypocrisy at it's finest. You probably reject sex before marriage and things like oral sex due to religious dogma, yet you embrace so boldly PRIDE, something that is most likely condemned by the same religion that claim to have such moral adherence too.

hilarious.

depends what religion, surely?

[chunky]

Erm no... :neutral:

Don't make me go Count DooKu on you and stab you with my shit-sabre.

[.Mazzy.]

:roflbow:

this is hypocrisy at it's finest. You probably reject sex before marriage and things like oral sex due to religious dogma, yet you embrace so boldly PRIDE, something that is most likely condemned by the same religion that claim to have such moral adherence too.

hilarious.
I'm sure she meant respect by pride. Perhaps I'm wrong though.

[simplyzara]

:roflbow:

this is hypocrisy at it's finest. You probably reject sex before marriage and things like oral sex due to religious dogma, yet you embrace so boldly PRIDE, something that is most likely condemned by the same religion that claim to have such moral adherence too.

hilarious.


To your surprise, i am christian Orthodox and not from a very religious family.
This is something I beleive in MYSELF, not BIBLE, nor my parents! Its called moral values!

[muslimbeauty06]

love is only after marriage.

[chunky]

depends what religion, surely?

If you consider any of the big three, hinduisim, and bhuddisim, humility is the name of the game. Pride is what gets you into trouble.

You can hide behind ambiguities all day long, but it's very likely that pride is just as much of a harbinger of bad as premarital sex and oral sex according to the moral authorities that have defined her world view.

[.Mazzy.]

love is only after marriage.
:rofl:

[Paki and Proud]

If you consider any of the big three, hinduisim, and bhuddisim, humility is the name of the game. Pride is what gets you into trouble.

You can hide behind ambiguities all day long, but it's very likely that pride is just as much of a harbinger of bad as premarital sex and oral sex according to the moral authorities that have defined her world view.

Why can't you speak like theis all the way throughout this thread?

She is not promoting premarital sex or oral sex. I think we'll agree to disagree on the subject that perhaps her culture promotes love and sees marriage as a stage of love, but not the first one!

[chunky]

To your surprise, i am christian Orthodox and not from a very religious family.
This is something I beleive in MYSELF, not BIBLE, nor my parents! Its called moral values!

LOL. Regardless of what you say, your morality was shaped by your childhood influences which include the Church and your parents.

[simplyzara]

so, people who choose to do otherwise are immoral?


each person defines moral values in their own way...I do not have the right to say whats moral or immoral for others...for me it would be immoral

[Paki and Proud]

so, people who choose to do otherwise are immoral?
different moral values, perhaps?

[chunky]

love is only after marriage.

fuck. <3

let's get married.

[chunky]

Why can't you speak like theis all the way throughout this thread?

She is not promoting premarital sex or oral sex. I think we'll agree to disagree on the subject that perhaps her culture promotes love and sees marriage as a stage of love, but not the first one!

:rofl: what's so different about my manner of typing now vs. previously?

She's promoting stupidity is what she's doing.

[Paki and Proud]

:rofl: what's so different about my manner of typing now vs. previously?

She's promoting stupidity is what she's doing.

Re: the first about.. that shit about sucking dick etc im not going to quote :no:

promoting stupidity? i guess ur definition of stupidity is the same as my definiton for self-respect

[simplyzara]

LOL. Regardless of what you say, your morality was shaped by your childhood influences which include the Church and your parents.


Well, yes my parents did play a role, mostly my Father. But regardless, maybe it sounds very childish but i even regret kissing someone else, I wish my husband would be the first one to do it.

[muslimbeauty06]

fuck. <3

let's get married.
:colors: :wavey:

[Aurovon]

L u o s v t e

Heh Heh Heh

[simplyzara]

:rofl: what's so different about my manner of typing now vs. previously?

She's promoting stupidity is what she's doing.


Stupid people are those who are unable to agree and think that they are always right!

[insomniac987]

love, in it's purest form, does exist & i believe in it but most people tend to mistake love with infatuation...
yup

[chunky]

Re: the first about.. that shit about sucking dick etc im not going to quote :no:

promoting stupidity? i guess ur definition of stupidity is the same as my definiton for self-respect

to have that much pride around the person you claim to be kindred spirits with is retarded and stupid.

[chunky]

:colors: :wavey:

how you doin tonite :naughty:

[chunky]

Stupid people are those who are unable to agree and think that they are always right!

LMAO. self pwnage much?

[muslimbeauty06]

how you doin tonite :naughty:
Good and its afterNoon right now here..Bored :(

[killingeye]

maybe it is that every girl iv met i compare her agaisnt and ex that i loved. most women i met dont add up and have to many bad habits for me to contend with



lol you met the wrong gurls then...I met only one wrong gurl..other then that I never met wrong gurl all gurls are good kind honest lovely sweet and many more..it just that they met a wrong person lol..in my case its opposite ;)

edit : but still i am honest..never cheat anyone..but I get love when I need it.

[Paki and Proud]

let's say you do get married to some one just like you (or as you're portraying yourself to be)... you know, with the same "moral values".

do you think your husband would be ok with you having kissed some one else or been in a relationship with somebody else? dont you think he'd be disgusted (maybe that's too strong a word?) that you kissed somebody else, just like he would be had you gone down on somebody else?

i wouldnt be disgusted :D :D

nobody is perfect. u fall in love with ta person and their imperfections/history

[simplyzara]

you're acting like you're always right, that your "moral values" dictate what love is. are you saying you're stupid?


NO. im not saying i am always right. If u refer to my previous posts, i said, its what I beleive in, and there is no point in the argument because obviously we disagree. You and him may be right and many people might agree with you but that is not going to change my mind in that matter.

[Paki and Proud]

you're acting like you're always right, that your "moral values" dictate what love is. are you saying you're stupid?

:no: moral values dont have anything to do with love. moral values dictate what level of pride u deem urself to have

and if ur moral values dicate that u can have roal sex, then so be it. but then u have to realise, that some people may think u lack self respect. obviously, in ur own eyes, u dont lack self respect, but u have to agree that others may think this.

[simplyzara]

let's say you do get married to some one just like you (or as you're portraying yourself to be)... you know, with the same "moral values".

do you think your husband would be ok with you having kissed some one else or been in a relationship with somebody else? dont you think he'd be disgusted (maybe that's too strong a word?) that you kissed somebody else, just like he would be had you gone down on somebody else?


You cannot compare those things, they are completely different. I am sure, nowadays there isnt a man who would think the way I do. This forum proves it. its ok, everyone have their own opinions.

[Paki and Proud]

really? what if she went down on that guy too? what if they had sex? you'd be fine either way?

then why are you looking down on pre-marital sex?

u asked me a question then answered it urself..

:no: and i wouldnt marry a non-virgin. as in my eyes, it shows that the girl has no slef respect, self control or dignity. obviously to u, she may be heaven, but to me, no, i wouldnt marry her. thats my answer and thats why i look down on pre marital sex

[simplyzara]

whoa whoa whoa! so a girl who has pre-marital sex has no self-respect or dignity, but the girl who kissed a guy before marriage does? whoa! dont tell me you dont see the contradiction there, champ!



Is she kissed 20 guys, maybe there is a contradiction...but if it was 1, then no

[simplyzara]

so, if you're saying you're not always right, and you're still hell-bent on doing what you're doing, that's pretty headstrong of you, isnt it?


Well in this matter, I beleive in my moral values, which I find is good for myself. Im not Opposing it onto anyone. Im not telling you, "live the life, i am living".
The difference between us is that you and your friend are calling me stupid because of what I beleive is good for me!

[muslimbeauty06]

kissing someone doesnt make u bad person? :rolleyes:

[Paki and Proud]

whoa whoa whoa! so a girl who has pre-marital sex has no self-respect or dignity, but the girl who kissed a guy before marriage does? whoa! dont tell me you dont see the contradiction there, champ!

theres limits. ur comparing sex to a kiss. theres no contradiciton

this is the way ive been brought up by my influences.

obviously, the ideal wife would be virgin, and "non-kissed" but get real. theres limits.

ok. ill make it simple.

i think i have self respect, dignity. yet have kissed a girl.
i would like my wife to have self respect, dignity. yet she cant have kissed a guy.

^^that is hypocritical, dont u think. if i hadnt kissed a girl, then i would probably want my wife to non-kissed too.. but u have to understand its the 21st century, and relationships are natural. but if a girl was to have had sex before marriage, then she, IN MY EYES AND ACCORDING TO MY VALUES, has no self respect dignity.

if i wasnt a virgin, then my values would obviusly be different.

[simplyzara]

if she sucked one cock, then?

im not going to comment on it. because as I said its not the same thing!

[Paki and Proud]

no, they dont. :slap:

since when do moral values dictate pride?

since you love cliches, i'll take your cliche and up you one: Pride comes before the fall.

what kind of moral values would lead to your fall?

moral values change as meet differing influences.

anyway im just talking about myself. obviusoly, for you, u seem to be influenced by different things, different values, so ig uess we have to agree to disgaree

[muslimbeauty06]

theres limits. ur comparing sex to a kiss. theres no contradiciton

this is the way ive been brought up by my influences.

obviously, the ideal wife would be virgin, and "non-kissed" but get real. theres limits.

ok. ill make it simple.

i think i have self respect, dignity. yet have kissed a girl.
i would like my wife to have self respect, dignity. yet she cant have kissed a guy.

^^that is hypocritical, dont u think. if i hadnt kissed a girl, then i would probably want my wife to non-kissed too.. but u have to understand its the 21st century, and relationships are natural. but if a girl was to have had sex before marriage, then she, IN MY EYES AND ACCORDING TO MY VALUES, has no self respect dignity.

if i wasnt a virgin, then my values would obviusly be different.
:ughwerd: :bigok:

[Paki and Proud]

kissing someone doesnt make u bad person? :rolleyes:
:yes:

[chunky]

Good and its afterNoon right now here..Bored :(

oh yeah, I forget that you're a west side player.

you should keep some bubble gum on hand for later tonight. :naughty:

[Paki and Proud]

:ughwerd: :bigok:

:cheers:

[simplyzara]

theres limits. ur comparing sex to a kiss. theres no contradiciton

this is the way ive been brought up by my influences.

obviously, the ideal wife would be virgin, and "non-kissed" but get real. theres limits.

ok. ill make it simple.

i think i have self respect, dignity. yet have kissed a girl.
i would like my wife to have self respect, dignity. yet she cant have kissed a guy.

^^that is hypocritical, dont u think. if i hadnt kissed a girl, then i would probably want my wife to non-kissed too.. but u have to understand its the 21st century, and relationships are natural. but if a girl was to have had sex before marriage, then she, IN MY EYES AND ACCORDING TO MY VALUES, has no self respect dignity.

if i wasnt a virgin, then my values would obviusly be different.

exactly

[chunky]

:no: moral values dont have anything to do with love. moral values dictate what level of pride u deem urself to have

and if ur moral values dicate that u can have roal sex, then so be it. but then u have to realise, that some people may think u lack self respect. obviously, in ur own eyes, u dont lack self respect, but u have to agree that others may think this.

BULLSHIT! You are supporting her as she ties her morality to her sexuality. Love is tied implicitly to sexuality. You and she both are tying morality to love.

[chunky]

Is she kissed 20 guys, maybe there is a contradiction...but if it was 1, then no

LOL. that's hilarious.

[Paki and Proud]

BULLSHIT! You are supporting her as she ties her morality to her sexuality. Love is tied implicitly to sexuality. You and she both are tying morality to love.

Love is not tied implicitly to sexuality. thats my opinion.

[muslimbeauty06]

oh yeah, I forget that you're a west side player.

you should keep some bubble gum on hand for later tonight. :naughty:
yea i have Bubble gum want some?

[chunky]

im not going to comment on it. because as I said its not the same thing!

if you're intimate with a man, your kiss means as much to you as sucking dick means to another girl. It is the same - it's a physical manifestation of emotion.

That's where girls like you are fucking up - you tie sex to emotion.

[chunky]

Love is not tied implicitly to sexuality. thats my opinion.

Bullshit. You believe that you should only have sex with someone you love correct?

[simplyzara]

if you're intimate with a man, your kiss means as much to you as sucking dick means to another girl. It is the same - it's a physical manifestation of emotion.

That's where girls like you are fucking up - you tie sex to emotion.


Everyone has their opinions on it. I do not agree.

[chunky]

yea i have Bubble gum want some?

keep it around, i'm gonna make a thread about blowing bubbles later tonight. :p

[muslimbeauty06]

keep it around, i'm gonna make a thread about blowing bubbles later tonight. :p

ok ill try lol

[chunky]

Everyone has their opinions on it. I do not agree.

lawl. I like how all of a sudden it's different strokes for different folks.

If you have not felt the kind of attraction to a man that you're willing to make sacrifices to be with him, then you don't know real love. period.

[Paki and Proud]

if you're intimate with a man, your kiss means as much to you as sucking dick means to another girl. It is the same - it's a physical manifestation of emotion.

That's where girls like you are fucking up - you tie sex to emotion.

Tying it to emotion means you will enjoy it more, no?

Chunky, all this thread, everyon will have different beliefs,limits etc

just because your lmits are less "stringent" than others, it doesnt mean that you are right. and vice versa. i know that perhaps my limits on what i deem to be acceptable are stricter, but i acknowledge that there are people like your self that dont pay much attention to the girls physical past.

It's life. Innit.

[chunky]

ok ill try lol

practice your technique. I'm gonna pwn you all. :rambo:

[simplyzara]

i'll quote echelon here:


I can see that u r consistently ignoring the comments that I have made about not opposing my beleifs onto others. Everyone does whats good for themselves. Im not discriminating, nor saying those girls who had sex before marriage are immoral. If I did, prove me wrong, and give me the reference to the post!

[Paki and Proud]

Bullshit. You believe that you should only have sex with someone you love correct?
I think i mis-interpreted your definiton of sexuality then.

I interpreted as you claiming that u cannot love without sex, which makes sense with what you have posted earlier

[simplyzara]

lawl. I like how all of a sudden it's different strokes for different folks.

If you have not felt the kind of attraction to a man that you're willing to make sacrifices to be with him, then you don't know real love. period.


its not out of sudden, i have been saying this, since the page 9. There are greater sacrifices you can do for the one you love. In my OPINION, going down on a guy is not a sacrifice...

[LokiLaufeyson]

Don't make me go Count DooKu on you and stab you with my shit-sabre.

:thumleft:


http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v505/Locdog07/council23.jpg
True is, what they say?

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v505/Locdog07/council20.jpg
What you say, *****?

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v505/Locdog07/council19.jpg
What they say, true is it?

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v505/Locdog07/council24.jpg
...Whatch'yoo talking bout Yoda?

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v505/Locdog07/council4.jpg
Big the rumors say a dark mans privates are. True is it?

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v505/Locdog07/council17.jpg
No, yeah, I heard that too...

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v505/Locdog07/council12.jpg
Me too.
Yeah.

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v505/Locdog07/council15.jpg
...

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v505/Locdog07/council22.jpg
...

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v505/Locdog07/council24.jpg
I'm so not sharing this...

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v505/Locdog07/council23.jpg
Come on, curious I am. Want to know how I stack up, I do.

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v505/Locdog07/council7.jpg
Come on, Mace. Just show us how big it is.

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v505/Locdog07/council4.jpg
Come on.

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v505/Locdog07/council24.jpg
...

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v505/Locdog07/council20.jpg
...

...


http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v505/Locdog07/council21.jpg
...

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v505/Locdog07/council17.jpg
My God man...

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v505/Locdog07/council16.jpg
Wow...

Now that's love people

[illin]

blah

http://i34.photobucket.com/albums/d120/bupper/david.jpg

[Geezer]

"No matter how good she looks - no matter how sweet she talks - somebody, somewhere is sick and tired of putting up with her shit."

:rofl:

[illin]

"No matter how good she looks - no matter how sweet she talks - somebody, somewhere is sick and tired of putting up with her shit."

:rofl:

its true

[chunky]

Tying it to emotion means you will enjoy it more, no?

Chunky, all this thread, everyon will have different beliefs,limits etc

just because your lmits are less "stringent" than others, it doesnt mean that you are right. and vice versa. i know that perhaps my limits on what i deem to be acceptable are stricter, but i acknowledge that there are people like your self that dont pay much attention to the girls physical past.

It's life. Innit.

You'll never know until you've tried it both ways.

Everyone is different, yes. This girl set off the bullshit alarms with her wishy washy takes on love. She's in love with the idea of being in love. She's defining what love is before she's ever experienced it. Inevitably her preconceived notions will prevent her from ever truly knowing love.

People that are truly capable of love do not place excessive limits on love. Love is limitless, you cannot confine it to a certain set of actions or feelings. You cannot say "true love does not entail this" or "true love does not entail that."

Placing limits on love bastardizes its very essence.

[chunky]

I think i mis-interpreted your definiton of sexuality then.

I interpreted as you claiming that u cannot love without sex, which makes sense with what you have posted earlier

not everything I say is to be taken at face value. Sometimes, you have to throw a little bait out there. ;)

[LokiLaufeyson]

You'll never know until you've tried it both ways.

Everyone is different, yes. This girl set off the bullshit alarms with her wishy washy takes on love. She's in love with the idea of being in love. She's defining what love is before she's ever experienced it. Inevitably her preconceived notions will prevent her from ever truly knowing love.

People that are truly capable of love do not place excessive limits on love. Love is limitless, you cannot confine it to a certain set of actions or feelings. You cannot say "true love does not entail this" or "true love does not entail that."

Placing limits on love bastardizes its very essence.

You actually believe there is a one true love? :ugh:

[simplyzara]

like chunky said, you're doing the whole "different strokes for diffrent folks" thing.

that's now how morality works.

you cant do something thats obviously wrong even according to your belief system, then turn around and twist the words, and say its ok, because you didnt take the next step which according to you is worse.

i keep using the shiteating example over and over again. so i'll use it here again. whether you eat a spoonful or a bowl of shit, you ate shit, and if eating shit is wrong according to your beliefs, then you've just done something wrong.


no its not the same. A spoon of shyt is not as much as the bowl of shyt. U can eat the spoon of shyt and then learn from your mistakes. But when You will eat the whole of bowl of shyt, it will be too late.

[Paki and Proud]

You'll never know until you've tried it both ways.

Everyone is different, yes. This girl set off the bullshit alarms with her wishy washy takes on love. She's in love with the idea of being in love. She's defining what love is before she's ever experienced it. Inevitably her preconceived notions will prevent her from ever truly knowing love.

People that are truly capable of love do not place excessive limits on love. Love is limitless, you cannot confine it to a certain set of actions or feelings. You cannot say "true love does not entail this" or "true love does not entail that."

Placing limits on love bastardizes its very essence.

Typical desi love thread. People have confused each other over "love" and "marriage"

But i dont believe in "theres only one out there" for everybody. if it means im ruling out falling in love with a non virgin, then so be it. its a personal sacrifice.

[chunky]

You actually believe there is a one true love? :ugh:

dawg, when did indicate that love was limited to one person?

[Paki and Proud]

no its not the same. A spoon of shyt is not as much as the bowl of shyt. U can eat the spoon of shyt and then learn from your mistakes. But when You will eat the whole of bowl of shyt, it will be too late.

:werd:

[LokiLaufeyson]

:rofl: that shit was good, mang!

It featured in the best RD thread ever :gay:

[simplyzara]

You'll never know until you've tried it both ways.

Everyone is different, yes. This girl set off the bullshit alarms with her wishy washy takes on love. She's in love with the idea of being in love. She's defining what love is before she's ever experienced it. Inevitably her preconceived notions will prevent her from ever truly knowing love.

People that are truly capable of love do not place excessive limits on love. Love is limitless, you cannot confine it to a certain set of actions or feelings. You cannot say "true love does not entail this" or "true love does not entail that."

Placing limits on love bastardizes its very essence.

How do you know I never loved? You are very wrong there but i am not going to discuss my relationship in here.
According to you, True love does not place excessive limits on love. What does make you think that YOU know the tue definition of true love?

[Paki and Proud]

who says you still can't learn? its not like thats all the shit in the world. there's more than just a bowl of shit in this world, homie. again, you're picking and choosing what's convenient to you, and what makes you look like a good person.

coz she is a good person??

dotn judge everyone by your own values

[simplyzara]

who says you still can't learn? its not like thats all the shit in the world. there's more than just a bowl of shit in this world, homie. again, you're picking and choosing what's convenient to you, and what makes you look like a good person.


Thats what you and your friend chunky do in this thread as well..

[chunky]

what if the one you love REALLY REALLY wants you to suck some dick, but doesn't pressure you because he knows you get upset about it.

If he loves you enough not to pressure you for it, do you love him enough to suck some dick?

I would leave him! SOme things i promised I would never do in my life. I always keep it. I would step over my pride to go down on a guy, I would leave him!

I made my point about placing limits on love with that post.

I know you ngaz love how I bring all my shit full circle.

[LokiLaufeyson]

dawg, when did indicate that love was limited to one person?

That's true...my apologies...

I personally believe love is a bullshit concept. I think it's just a mix, a bag of emotions, and humans confused, cannot grasp what they are feeling, and say it's love. When in reality it's a mix of emotions...It's lust if anything.

:gay:

[simplyzara]

I made my point about placing limits on love with that post.

I know you ngaz love how I bring all my shit full circle.


I never said, I dont place limits on love.
A guy who would love me wouldnt ask me in the first place to go down on him.

[nazimhamed]

:no: so much hate in a thread dedicated to love

[chunky]

How do you know I never loved? You are very wrong there but i am not going to discuss my relationship in here.
According to you, True love does not place excessive limits on love. What does make you think that YOU know the tue definition of true love?

Am I the one trying define some kind of formula that defines love? You say love can't involve dicksucking. I'm asking you "what if it does?"

You never know what love will entail, that is my whole point, b.

[LokiLaufeyson]

which one? was bipride in it?

She posted, but all great work was put in by me...

http://forums.ratedesi.com/showthre...98&page=1&pp=25

[LokiLaufeyson]

:no: so much hate in a thread dedicated to love

"love" and hate go hand in hand.

[simplyzara]

:bowdown: now that's pwnag3!


his post did not make sense, because I never said I dont put limits on love!

[Paki and Proud]

that doesn't answer my post, does it?

it does. you think she is conveniently picking and choosing what makes her look a good person.

if she is a good person, then this picking and choosing is not convenient, its natural

[chunky]

That's true...my apologies...

I personally believe love is a bullshit concept. I think it's just a mix, a bag of emotions, and humans confused, cannot grasp what they are feeling, and say it's love. When in reality it's a mix of emotions...It's lust if anything.

:gay:

another thread, another time. For now, I must hit the stores before they lock down. I need some damn clay bar so I can give my baby (my car) some love tonight.