Ok so i have been avoiding this guy for a while

[SillyKitty]

ok here is the story

and Cancelling meets for like a month now.. Because he gave me wierd vibes



but he showed up at work.. and was so adorable that i wanted to be his friend.. and i am really big on that.. (friendship) k to clear why i really want to be his friend.. is because of his adorable ways.. and that he would call me up at 12 to get directions.. or text me to wake him up etc.





but yea.. what can i do.. so this dont turn into a "relationship" or u know what i mean?
because.. he is So not my type..
he is Arab, plus i think he is a horn dog but i donno i think all good lookin guys are players.. :dunno: i cud be wrong... but now i think he is being pissed at me.. saying stuff like.." we been textin for 10 years now.. so dont meet if u dont want to"


and ya.. if u can tell.. THAT kinda hit me on the head :lol:
but i dont want nothing but friendship


AND.. what u guys think? if u had a gf and she wanted to have guy friends like that..




Ps: quick.. i gotta text him back..

[roy_desi]

i think you're a dumbass.

[SillyKitty]

i think you're a dumbass.
:gtfo: and i think u are just an ASS

[Chronos]

you've been texting for 10 years, huh? sounds like a pedophile to me.

[illomatic]

dont meet.

[SillyKitty]

you've been texting for 10 years, huh? sounds like a pedophile to me.
lol shut up.. its just his way of saying.. "too long"

[roy_desi]

:gtfo: and i think u are just an ASS
i think so too.

whatever go fucking meet him already. don't give me that "womens intuition" bullshit you might like him a lot.

[illomatic]

if ur not gonna go out with him


tell him in a txt

"i am not interested. but we can be friends"

but that might backfire, cuz some guys see that as a girl thats just playing hard to get... so
just stop txting him and dont meet hm.

[SillyKitty]

i think so too.

whatever go fucking meet him already. don't give me that "womens intuition" bullshit you might like him a lot.

well if a guy isnt my type.. i wont like him no matter how hot he is..

[Chronos]

lol shut up.. its just his way of saying.. "too long"

I can just picture it now...

you: sooo... how long is your weewee?

him: we've been txting for 10 years, gurl.

[SillyKitty]

if ur not gonna go out with him


tell him in a txt

"i am not interested. but we can be friends"

but that might backfire, cuz some guys see that as a girl thats just playing hard to get... so
just stop txting him and dont meet hm.


Hmm but i want him as a friend though..so i guess i will MEET him.. and have a GREAT time.. so he wont turn my friendship down lol :lol:

but i donno if iwant to have a bf in my life at some point.. do u think he cud mind?

shit i know :lol: he must been thinkin that i am just PLAYIN hard to get :no:

[jus_me]

if ur not gonna go out with him


tell him in a txt

"i am not interested. but we can be friends"

but that might backfire, cuz some guys see that as a girl thats just playing hard to get... so
just stop txting him and dont meet hm.

if she stops texting him then he will think that she is playing even harder to get.

tell the guy to do one.

[SillyKitty]

I can just picture it now...

you: sooo... how long is your weewee?

him: we've been txting for 10 years, gurl.
:roflbow: hahahahhahahahahahahahahhaah

:lol:

Chronos.. Chronoss.. missed yaaa..

[KurtaPyjama]

if his brand of friendship is really worth it then tell him if not cut him loose.

don't be immature.

[Chronos]

:roflbow: hahahahhahahahahahahahahhaah

:lol:

Chronos.. Chronoss.. missed yaaa..

and you're probably still confusing me for Cronicas. :rolleyes:

[SillyKitty]

if she stops texting him then he will think that she is playing even harder to get.

tell the guy to do one.
Do what?

and.. yea.. what do i text him now?

after the last thing he text me


Shit i feel like a dummy..

but its just that.. i dont want to mess this up.
I might regret not being his friend.

[SillyKitty]

and you're probably still confusing me for Cronicas. :rolleyes:


:sarb: maybe

but Obsidian is Cronicas :mrhappy:

[nygirl]

saira ur always confused :p

[SillyKitty]

if his brand of friendship is really worth it then tell him if not cut him loose.

don't be immature.

well it is.. plus i am in a new city.. i have limited amount of friends here lol

and if u knew me in real u would know i am really really close to my friends.. more than my family

[SillyKitty]

saira ur always confused :p
:ashamed: oh yesss !

lol


btu i am not confused on this one..

i really wanna be his friend..

[jus_me]

Do what?

and.. yea.. what do i text him now?

after the last thing he text me


Shit i feel like a dummy..

but its just that.. i dont want to mess this up.
I might regret not being his friend.

tell him to piss off :)

i think you might have to just give up on being friends, a guy wont text you for ages just to be mates with you and i think you saying to him that you want to just be mates is giving him false hope as he will think that if you let him in as a mate, you will (in time) start seeing him as boyfriend material.

[KurtaPyjama]

well it is.. plus i am in a new city.. i have limited amount of friends here lol

and if u knew me in real u would know i am really really close to my friends.. more than my family

so why don't you just tell him. this is so childish.

[Chronos]

:sarb: maybe

but Obsidian is Cronicas :mrhappy:

ooh! now we're getting somewhere.

oh and by the by, how can you tell whether someone would make such a great friend in one visit? don't be silly, even if your name suggests otherwise. you're getting too hung up on this trivial matter.

[SillyKitty]

tell him to piss off :)

i think you might have to just give up on being friends, a guy wont text you for ages just to be mates with you and i think you saying to him that you want to just be mates is giving him false hope as he will think that if you let him in as a mate, you will (in time) start seeing him as boyfriend material.


lol.. no way.. he doesnt need ANY hopes.. trust me :no:

well the other reason for me not goin out with him is .. he really looks like a player.. meaning veryy goodlookin...

and i am always careful about that typa guys.. cuz i cant ever imagine them being serious..


So i am thinking he just wanna have sex.. and thats it..


I am not up for that.

[SillyKitty]

so why don't you just tell him. this is so childish.


well.. not really

trust me.. :lol: if u think that just tellin him would do the trick.. u are SOOO wrong..


that doesnt work like that with guys..

[KurtaPyjama]

well.. not really

trust me.. :lol: if u think that just tellin him would do the trick.. u are SOOO wrong..


that doesnt work like that with guys..

sounds like great friendship material

[SillyKitty]

ooh! now we're getting somewhere.

oh and by the by, how can you tell whether someone would make such a great friend in one visit? don't be silly, even if your name suggests otherwise. you're getting too hung up on this trivial matter.YES :mrhappy:


well its because of his ways.. like how he depends on me.. i like that..
like he would call me in the middle of the night for directions..
or like text me to wake him up at a certain time..

[SillyKitty]

sounds like great friendship material

read my last post..


thats why i wanna be his freind..

[Chronos]

YES :mrhappy:


well its because of his ways.. like how he depends on me.. i like that..
like he would call me in the middle of the night for directions..
or like text me to wake him up at a certain time..

oh my. you're going to get yourself into a world of trouble.

my advice: drop it. you'll find out on your own whether a run-of-the-mill friendship with him is at all possible without any effort.

[Imperfectionist]

I can just picture it now...

you: sooo... how long is your weewee?

him: we've been txting for 10 years, gurl.
:rofl:

[gorjuzkuri]

just chill with him...you can reverse the whole desi mentality...and actually be a REAL friend. Ive had guy friends that i thought bad of or i knew they wanted a relationship. But, i chilled with them..and let them realize there was like a line where all separates. And, i have had any problems with these guys. Chill with him and be his friend...it never hurts to have a lot of friends.

[chunky]

LOL. Get over yourself. Not every guy that wants to talk to you is interested in you. From what you've told so far, there really is no indication that he's into you.

[SillyKitty]

oh my. you're going to get yourself into a world of trouble.

my advice: drop it. you'll find out on your own whether a run-of-the-mill friendship with him is at all possible without any effort.

Why is that?

[SillyKitty]

LOL. Get over yourself. Not every guy that wants to talk to you is interested in you. From what you've told so far, there really is no indication that he's into you.


ok.. then why would he wanna call and text to meet me for like a month? :neutral:

get over ur hate for me:lol:

[SillyKitty]

just chill with him...you can reverse the whole desi mentality...and actually be a REAL friend. Ive had guy friends that i thought bad of or i knew they wanted a relationship. But, i chilled with them..and let them realize there was like a line where all separates. And, i have had any problems with these guys. Chill with him and be his friend...it never hurts to have a lot of friends.

:hug: yaaay my twinnie.. u think soo muchhh like me its unbelivable !


yes i would do JUST that :)

thankss :hug:

[ewwwww]

Guys will do or say anything and I mean ANYTHING to get the woman of their desire. Once they do get her, thats when they show u who they really are plus there is no challnge anymore. Point is, he is being 'adorable' for this reason. Hate to break it to you, but no he isnt all that sweet. And it would work best for you to ignore him. This way you won't get hurt.

[KurtaPyjama]

LOL

just lol.

[chunky]

ok.. then why would he wanna call and text to meet me? :neutral:

get over ur hate for me:lol:

Because if you've never met someone before, it's nice to put a face to all the conversations? Your vanity is playing tricks on you. Dude probably couldn't put up with your emotionally unstable nature in a relationship.

I don't hate you. You make all the wrong assumptions about people. frrealz.

[SillyKitty]

Guys will do or say anything and I mean ANYTHING to get the woman of their desire. Once they do get her, thats when they show u who they really are plus there is no challnge anymore. Point is, he is being 'adorable' for this reason. Hate to break it to you, but no he isnt all that sweet. And it would work best for you to ignore him. This way you won't get hurt.
but he is Never gonna get me "that way"

:neutral:

[gorjuzkuri]

:hug: yaaay my twinnie.. u think soo muchhh like me its unbelivable !


yes i would do JUST that :)

thankss :hug:
yayy...where u been at love?
And, hows the break treating you?
I wonder if u have to be a bhartayanaari like me...we have guests coming over from places...and my moms made it clear that i have to ACT like im a good girl. And, my mom has to ACT like she cooks all the time.

[gorjuzkuri]

Guys will do or say anything and I mean ANYTHING to get the woman of their desire. Once they do get her, thats when they show u who they really are plus there is no challnge anymore. Point is, he is being 'adorable' for this reason. Hate to break it to you, but no he isnt all that sweet. And it would work best for you to ignore him. This way you won't get hurt.
ORRRRRRRRRR.....YOU COULD HURT HIS EGO BY JUST KEEPING TO FRIENDS...AND THAT WAY NO ONE GETS HURT. AND, HES AT LOSS lol...innit? Everything doesnt have to be HATE IT OR LOVE IT type, u know? Whatcha think?

[SillyKitty]

Because if you've never met someone before, it's nice to put a face to all the conversations? Your vanity is playing tricks on you. Dude probably couldn't put up with your emotionally unstable nature in a relationship.

I don't hate you. You make all the wrong assumptions about people. frrealz.what u on about there?


u dont hate me?

lol ya right.. u tellin me that i need to get over myself? when i seriously need to know what i should do..

i dont see u goin to ANY OTHER girls threads that are much simillar to mine :rolleyes: and telling them this.. :no: so there u go.. u have issues with me..

[ewwwww]

but he is Never gonna get me "that way"

:neutral:

Well, then he'll stop being aborable after a while.

My ex was oh-so-adorable and oh-so-perfect till I said yes. Then 2 months after we were dating he 'dumped' me by just ignoring me.

[SillyKitty]

Well, then he'll stop being aborable after a while.

My ex was oh-so-adorable and oh-so-perfect till I said yes. Then 2 months after we were dating he 'dumped' me by just ignoring me.

but i dont want to be his gf.. so being an ex isnt a question..

[chunky]

what u on about? there


u dont hate me?

lol ya right.. u tellin me that i need to get over myself? when i am seriously need to know what i should do..

i dont see u goin to OTHER girls threads that are much simillar to mine :rolleyes: and telling them this.. :no: so there u go.. u have issues with me..

What I'm saying is that if you've been talking to someone on the phone/text/online for years and then you finally have the chance to talk in person, most people like to see what the other person is like in real life. Unless he's spoken specifically about wanting to do you (which you haven't given any indication that he has) he probably just wants to see what you're like in real life.

And yes, you need to get over yourself. You don't see me in other girl's threads because you're so into yourself you only read your own threads. You just have issues with yourself.

[SillyKitty]

yayy...where u been at love?
And, hows the break treating you?
I wonder if u have to be a bhartayanaari like me...we have guests coming over from places...and my moms made it clear that i have to ACT like im a good girl. And, my mom has to ACT like she cooks all the time.
:hug: i have been workin my BUTT offff..

so theres no break..:no:


nahh i dont gotta be that lol

shit :no: thats proper annoyin.. i hope u are coping

[SillyKitty]

What I'm saying is that if you've been talking to someone on the phone/text/online for years and then you finally have the chance to talk in person, most people like to see what the other person is like in real life. Unless he's spoken specifically about wanting to do you (which you haven't given any indication that he has) he probably just wants to see what you're like in real life.
And yes, you need to get over yourself. You don't see me in other girl's threads because you're so into yourself you only read your own threads. You just have issues with yourself.


WTF :rofl:

i met him at work.. in real life.. and we chatted long enough ..in real life
u have NO idea what u talkin about Chunky.. :neutral:

[chunky]

WTF :rofl:

i met him at work.. in real life.. and we chatted long enough ..in real life
u have NO idea what u talkin about Chunky.. :neutral:

If you met him once, wtf is wrong with meeting him again? crazy.

[SillyKitty]

If you met him once, wtf is wrong with meeting him again? crazy.
ok he is a customer at where i work..

u didnt read anything did u ? :neutral:


so i am talkin about PROPER meeting... like chillin

[chunky]

ok he is a customer at where i work..

u didnt read anything did u ? :neutral:


so i am talkin about PROPER meeting... like chillin

:rofl: no, I didn't.

He might be into you, he might not. Unless you think he's a rapist, no reason not to hang out. Just don't let him pay for anything or hold your hand etc.

[gorjuzkuri]

:hug: i have been workin my BUTT offff..

so theres no break..:no:


nahh i dont gotta be that lol

shit :no: thats proper annoyin.. i hope u are coping
its madd annoying thats what it is...someones coming to "SEE" me...hes our relative so hes gonna have to stay in the house. Considering, the guest room is right next door to mine, upstairs. Thats gonna be something lol. my nanny just called to tell me to keep the door locked at night! Wtf...like we are gonna get our groove on or something haha. Whatcha been busy doing hun? :hug: Any new years resolutions? My 2006 was that i would be brutally honest...and ive lived upto that.
Anywho, did u come up what you were gonna do with this guy? Is he hot lol?

[Aurovon]

Ask him to play a game of blackjack with you. If you win, then he can never text you ever again. But if you lose, he can fuck you all day long...

[desi_uk]

just ignore him he just wants sex

[SillyKitty]

:rofl: no, I didn't.

He might be into you, he might not. Unless you think he's a rapist, no reason not to hang out. Just don't let him pay for anything or hold your hand etc.
UGHGHHHH :mad: chunkyyyyyyy!!


HAHA i know what u mean i never let a guy pay any way :lol:

cuz he might ask me for a favor later..:p

[WildWolfdog]

He obviously likes you. Calling at 12 am for directions and texting to wake him up aren't "friendly things" - it's his way of letting you know he likes you and by not getting things cleared you're leading him on. The longer this goes on the more awkward it will be when you finally do tell him you want to be just friends - though it seems like you will end up going out with him to "give it a try and maybe he might be different" - lol so yeah that's my sypnosis on this.

Advice - tell him today, tomorrow, as soon as possible that you wanted to make sure they're just friends and that you're not interested in him - make up a story about how you're getting engaged or something.

[SillyKitty]

its madd annoying thats what it is...someones coming to "SEE" me...hes our relative so hes gonna have to stay in the house. Considering, the guest room is right next door to mine, upstairs. Thats gonna be something lol. my nanny just called to tell me to keep the door locked at night! Wtf...like we are gonna get our groove on or something haha. Whatcha been busy doing hun? :hug: Any new years resolutions? My 2006 was that i would be brutally honest...and ive lived upto that.
Anywho, did u come up what you were gonna do with this guy? Is he hot lol?
:o
WOAA ! well and u are OK with that?

:o that "SOMEONES comeing to see u? "

omg i would be sooo pissedd and outrageddd that i think i would stand outside the door with a CHAPPAL in my hand :mad:

and i m 100% serious.. KASAM !




:rofl: at ur grannnyyy




well busy workin in Guess. :no: so u know people shoppin till they drop

ahh i never make any resolutions..


wel no not yet.. i donno what to do..

[SillyKitty]

Ask him to play a game of blackjack with you. If you win, then he can never text you ever again. But if you lose, he can fuck you all day long...
:ashamed: i would lose for sure.. never played that..

but i dont want him to stop textin.. i like him as a friend.

[ssjasper2003]

Youve never met the guy?

Your choice

[SillyKitty]

Youve never met the guy?

Your choice
:lol: i guess u didnt read the post either..

[SillyKitty]

He obviously likes you. Calling at 12 am for directions and texting to wake him up aren't "friendly things" - it's his way of letting you know he likes you and by not getting things cleared you're leading him on. The longer this goes on the more awkward it will be when you finally do tell him you want to be just friends - though it seems like you will end up going out with him to "give it a try and maybe he might be different" - lol so yeah that's my sypnosis on this.

Advice - tell him today, tomorrow, as soon as possible that you wanted to make sure they're just friends and that you're not interested in him - make up a story about how you're getting engaged or something.


:) NICEST Advice so far


thanks.

[SillyKitty]

just ignore him he just wants sex
I hate it about guys..

isnt there any other way of goin around sex?

[T.Dimera]

listen up....

97% of guys on this planet are morons when it comes to being able to identify if a woman is 'intersted in them romantically'. It's these very same guys who Always mistake a girl being 'friendly' with 'she really wants me now...look shes being nice and smiling at me' These same guys think ever coworker, waitress, saleswomen, cashier wants to jump their bones because they smiled at them. Your problem is you are a nice friendly girl who likes to have friends...thus you are going to have this problem for a long long time.

Whats the solution? Well you could develop a 'bitch shield' which most girls do to avoid having guys develop feelings over them because they misunderstood your friendlyness as something else. haha

Now that you are equiped with this knowledge..next time you meet a guy through work or whatever..you need to take control of the situation...I'll tell you later how to do to that

[desi_uk]

I hate it about guys..

isnt there any other way of goin around sex?
its not just guys mostly girls now but they are good at hiding it and turning things around

[hellayah]

lol...so this is y u made the arab thread......well tell him straight up that u jus wanna be friends.....wallah i jus wanna be friends with u habibi...he will be like ok..lol

[Aurovon]

He wants to be friend with your vagina, not your cranium. Okay?

[yo2344]

This is all u gotta say,


"U should meet my boyfreind, you both have the same personality"

"I think we will be good freinds"

"Ur like my a brother to me"

The last one is a killer, look at his face when u say the last one to him. Trust me, these do work.

[SillyKitty]

listen up....

97% of guys on this planet are morons when it comes to being able to identify if a woman is 'intersted in them romantically'. It's these very same guys who Always mistake a girl being 'friendly' with 'she really wants me now...look shes being nice and smiling at me' These same guys think ever coworker, waitress, saleswomen, cashier wants to jump their bones because they smiled at them. Your problem is you are a nice friendly girl who likes to have friends...thus you are going to have this problem for a long long time.

Whats the solution? Well you could develop a 'bitch shield' which most girls do to avoid having guys develop feelings over them because they misunderstood your friendlyness as something else. haha

Now that you are equiped with this knowledge..next time you meet a guy through work or whatever..you need to take control of the situation...I'll tell you later how to do to that

I knew i was gonna get a quality advice from u..
and yes i agree with you whole heartedly..

i think guys think i am easy or what ever.. because i am really nice and friendly :no:

i mean its ridiculous.. that even like guys who are TOTALLY out of my leage would ask for my numbers or ask me out.. ( aka guys who i dont like ) JUST cuz i am super nice.. and allways smiling.. :neutral:

makes me want to be a bitch sometimes



HAHA.. yea a bitch shield..

yes.. sure.. i will be lookin forward to that :) hah I have a Guru at my work.. who always talks about these kinda things with me.. he named me "dangerous" :neutral: So u can be my RD Guru :p

[desi_uk]

lol...so this is y u made the arab thread......well tell him straight up that u jus wanna be friends.....wallah i jus wanna be friends with u habibi...he will be like ok..lol
do you even know what wallah means?

[SillyKitty]

its not just guys mostly girls now but they are good at hiding it and turning things around
:hand: not me

[desi_uk]

:hand: not me
yeah yeah

[SillyKitty]

lol...so this is y u made the arab thread......well tell him straight up that u jus wanna be friends.....wallah i jus wanna be friends with u habibi...he will be like ok..lol


yes.. lol

duhhh



yea i will tell him that. they have an open mind about that, i can figure.

[SillyKitty]

He wants to be friend with your vagina, not your cranium. Okay?
whats a Cranium?


i dont get guys sometimes :dunno: he Knows i am muslim..

[hellayah]

do you even know what wallah means?
Swear To God ... and they say it alll the time.......so wrong

[chunky]

He obviously likes you. Calling at 12 am for directions and texting to wake him up aren't "friendly things" - it's his way of letting you know he likes you and by not getting things cleared you're leading him on. The longer this goes on the more awkward it will be when you finally do tell him you want to be just friends - though it seems like you will end up going out with him to "give it a try and maybe he might be different" - lol so yeah that's my sypnosis on this.

Advice - tell him today, tomorrow, as soon as possible that you wanted to make sure they're just friends and that you're not interested in him - make up a story about how you're getting engaged or something.

Do you remember the thread sillykitty made about getting directions for a friend? Lawl, it all makes sense now.

The real question is, who likes whom. :think:

[SillyKitty]

This is all u gotta say,


"U should meet my boyfreind, you both have the same personality"

"I think we will be good freinds"

"Ur like my a brother to me"

The last one is a killer, look at his face when u say the last one to him. Trust me, these do work.
LOL

i know they do..

but once.. this guy made a pass at me.. saying " breakfast on you dinner on me.. (or was it Dinner on me Breakfast on you) " :rofl: any ways..
so i was like.. i dont think my bf would like that..

he goes " well i think we have something in comon"




:no:


thas now stupid guys are

[SillyKitty]

Do you remember the thread sillykitty made about getting directions for a friend? Lawl, it all makes sense now.

The real question is, who likes whom. :think:
:lol: i like him


ok


there..

i lke him..











but just as a friend :p
i dont see any chemistry

[gorjuzkuri]

:o
WOAA ! well and u are OK with that?

:o that "SOMEONES comeing to see u? "

omg i would be sooo pissedd and outrageddd that i think i would stand outside the door with a CHAPPAL in my hand :mad:

and i m 100% serious.. KASAM !




:rofl: at ur grannnyyy




well busy workin in Guess. :no: so u know people shoppin till they drop

ahh i never make any resolutions..


wel no not yet.. i donno what to do..
Well, i told her i wasnt interested and shes cool with it. But, she still wants to "polish" my face, so i look good...like wtf haha? Olala youre a busy woman...working at guess eh...where do u live again? I told my mom im gonna act really mean, look uglier than i already am, leave all the pots and pans in the kitchen, and make him regret he ever came. Shes like okkkk sureee lol.

[T.Dimera]

I knew i was gonna get a quality advice from u..
and yes i agree with you whole heartedly..

i think guys think i am easy or what ever.. because i am really nice and friendly :no:

i mean its ridiculous.. that even like guys who are TOTALLY out of my leage would ask for my numbers or ask me out.. ( aka guys who i dont like ) JUST cuz i am super nice.. and allways smiling.. :neutral:

makes me want to be a bitch sometimes



HAHA.. yea a bitch shield..

yes.. sure.. i will be lookin forward to that :) hah I have a Guru at my work.. who always talks about these kinda things with me.. he named me "dangerous" :neutral: So u can be my RD Guru :p


being a bitch is an easy fix..but its not your personality so I doubt it would be effective for you...

as for the guys out of your league...most girls their attracted to probably don't even acknowledge their exsistence..so when you smile at them...they lose on sense of reality...

I'll send you my invoice in the mail...quality feedback isn't free :p

cheers

[yo2344]

LOL

i know they do..

but once.. this guy made a pass at me.. saying " breakfast on you dinner on me.. (or was it Dinner on me Breakfast on you) " :rofl: any ways..
so i was like.. i dont think my bf would like that..

he goes " well i think we have something in comon"




:no:


thas now stupid guys are

lmao, the only hope is to turn on the bitchy shield.

[ii_khushi86_ii]

Oh, I just love how you threw the word, "Arab" in there.

Just be straightforward with him. That's it.

[chunky]

:lol: i like him


ok


there..

i lke him..











but just as a friend :p
i dont see any chemistry

so why are you sweating this dude then? If you're not into him, you're not into him.

If some bird I hardly know calls me at 12am looking for directions, she's not going to get much out of me unless she's the kind of girl i'm interested in. If I'm not interested, fuck her, I need my beauty sleep.

[WildWolfdog]

Do you remember the thread sillykitty made about getting directions for a friend? Lawl, it all makes sense now.

The real question is, who likes whom. :think:

Lol I actually don't but I'm sure she did, eyez n0t g@nn doubt da chunkzy - but you're right, she might have feelings, which she's trying to suppress because she feels the guy is a player and is arab, etc.

:) NICEST Advice so far

thanks.

You're welcome.

[WildWolfdog]

so why are you sweating this dude then? If you're not into him, you're not into him.

If some bird I hardly know calls me at 12am looking for directions, she's not going to get much out of me unless she's the kind of girl i'm interested in. If I'm not interested, fuck her, I need my beauty sleep.

Yeh man, either reject call or put it on silent, if the girl is not one who interests you, or a really close friend with a major problem you know she's calling about (which might lead you to options 1 and 2 anyway lol).

[chunky]

Lol I actually don't but I'm sure she did, eyez n0t g@nn doubt da chunkzy - but you're right, she might have feelings, which she's trying to suppress because she feels the guy is a player and is arab, etc.



You're welcome.

she did make a thread about guys being players too.


:think:

:roflbow:

Arab guys are players (not talkin about SPORTS playerssss.. LMAO people) (http://forums.ratedesi.com/showthread.php?t=202170)

Helllppppppppp Quickkkk :( - someone is stuck at 11 475 commercial lane laurel delaware 19956 (http://forums.ratedesi.com/showthread.php?t=202367)

[SillyKitty]

Well, i told her i wasnt interested and shes cool with it. But, she still wants to "polish" my face, so i look good...like wtf haha? Olala youre a busy woman...working at guess eh...where do u live again? I told my mom im gonna act really mean, look uglier than i already am, leave all the pots and pans in the kitchen, and make him regret he ever came. Shes like okkkk sureee lol.
ok.. :neutral: then why are they still coming over if they are ok with it?
DONT fall for it.. :eek:


yea.. very very busy.. coming home at 1 or 2 am every night.. its such a drag:no:

i live in new york now..




hahah like that movie.. Kuch Khatti Kuch mitthi... u know the one with Kajol as twins

[Dr Phil]

ok here is the story
wtf i knew you didnt want me after all

[SillyKitty]

being a bitch is an easy fix..but its not your personality so I doubt it would be effective for you...

as for the guys out of your league...most girls their attracted to probably don't even acknowledge their exsistence..so when you smile at them...they lose on sense of reality...

I'll send you my invoice in the mail...quality feedback isn't free :p

cheers


:( why not? not even for ur Shishya? (meaning Student )


lol u are right i cant be a bitch.. cuz.. it REALLY shows when i am even SLIGHTLY pissed.. then every one gives me a hard time over that.. :neutral: especially friends..

like i would have this sarcasm in my face. :neutral:

[SillyKitty]

lmao, the only hope is to turn on the bitchy shield.
lol

but i dont want people to have the notion that i think i am all that..

[Dr Phil]

lol

but i dont want people to have the notion that i think i am all that..
OK look the SIMPLE fact that you prob lead him on thinking that your interested being all nice to him smiling and then turning him down by saying"we are only friends" makes you a not very nice person god i hate girls that do that..

[SillyKitty]

Oh, I just love how you threw the word, "Arab" in there.

Just be straightforward with him. That's it.
:neutral: where have u been? i have been makin thread about the same guy for coupla days now :kekeke:
i seriously need some advice on arab people.

if they are worth my time or not.


and i cant be straightforward with someone who isnt straight forward with me..

[SillyKitty]

so why are you sweating this dude then? If you're not into him, you're not into him.

If some bird I hardly know calls me at 12am looking for directions, she's not going to get much out of me unless she's the kind of girl i'm interested in. If I'm not interested, fuck her, I need my beauty sleep.


lol.. i am a pretty nice friend.. plus i had nothing to do that time..
and it was raining in Delaware..


and yes .. i do like him as a friend.

alll these.



i am sweating it because i like the way he depended on me lol..
some people loves to be needed.

[SillyKitty]

wtf i knew you didnt want me after all
i donno maybe i do :dunno:

[SillyKitty]

OK look the SIMPLE fact that you prob lead him on thinking that your interested being all nice to him smiling and then turning him down by saying"we are only friends" makes you a not very nice person god i hate girls that do that..


He is NOT the one who will be heartbroken in this trust mee lol


no matter what i do.. he wont..


but I will.. if i lay with him :lol:

[gorjuzkuri]

ok.. :neutral: then why are they still coming over if they are ok with it?
DONT fall for it.. :eek:


yea.. very very busy.. coming home at 1 or 2 am every night.. its such a drag:no:

i live in new york now..




hahah like that movie.. Kuch Khatti Kuch mitthi... u know the one with Kajol as twins
lollllllllll....omggg i thought i was the only one that thought abt that movie everytime some kinda RISHTA talk came up. Thats what i was thinking...i was gonna sing that song KHUD BHI NAACHOONGI TUJH KO BHI NACHAAONGI...and then that song BHATKEEE PAANCHIII from some move ermm what was it...prem ki deewani?

Arent ur parents the typical ones that say ahhhh 1 am 2 am...where were u...are u sure u werent out with some boyy shoyyy? (fob accent!) lol

[SillyKitty]

lollllllllll....omggg i thought i was the only one that thought abt that movie everytime some kinda RISHTA talk came up. Thats what i was thinking...i was gonna sing that song KHUD BHI NAACHOONGI TUJH KO BHI NACHAAONGI...and then that song BHATKEEE PAANCHIII from some move ermm what was it...prem ki deewani?

Arent ur parents the typical ones that say ahhhh 1 am 2 am...where were u...are u sure u werent out with some boyy shoyyy? (fob accent!) lol
hahahah.. man we are sistahs from diffrent mothaz.. lol

:rofl: haha i would love to be there and tape you..

lol mann trust me they accuse me of that.. but i guess they know i am at work since my mom knows the crazy hours there..


plus my mom or dad picks me up from subway station