how many of you females live according to the rule: "Wrong ring, wrong guy"?

[pachaas Paisa]

Just be honest

Discuss

[ii_khushi86_ii]

Err.. what does that rule mean?

[pachaas Paisa]

Err.. what does that rule mean?

if the man gets you not so good wedding or engagement ring, the deal is off :p

[Princess_Ligi]

I think bitches like that need to get their heads out of their own asses and worry if the actual guy giving you the "not so great" ring is deservant of marrying.

[Enammmmm]

tell me u just made this rule up, cuz the ring i chose, cant get any nicer.



http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v675/Enammmmm/GOAL.jpg

[pachaas Paisa]

I think bitches like that need to get their heads out of their own asses and worry if the actual guy giving you the "not so great" ring is deservant of marrying.
yeah well you'd be surprised there are actually plenty.

[Enammmmm]

I think bitches like that need to get their heads out of their own asses and worry if the actual guy giving you the "not so great" ring is deservant of marrying.


WORD preach on woman, btw did u get married?

[hellayah]

one karat diamond ring just dont cut it anymore

[Princess_Ligi]

WORD preach on woman, btw did u get married?
Not yet, still in the process of planning.

[ii_khushi86_ii]

if the man gets you not so good wedding or engagement ring, the deal is off :p
Oh.

Well, depends on what you think is "not so good" -- if its actually artificial, I'd ask "what the hell? why?" but I wouldn't call off the deal.

If by "not so good" you mean "doesn't live up to your standards", I'd accept it anyway. At least he bought something.

[ana]

I don't.

I just want a good husband. I want a nice ring ofcourse, but I'm not irrational, I'll take whatever he can afford.

[pachaas Paisa]

Oh.

Well, depends on what you think is "not so good" -- if its actually artificial, I'd ask "what the hell? why?" but I wouldn't call off the deal.

If by "not so good" you mean "doesn't live up to your standards", I'd accept it anyway. At least he bought something.

how important is it?

[Enammmmm]

I don't.

I just want a good husband. I want a nice ring ofcourse, but I'm not irrational, I'll take whatever he can afford.



lies.

[ii_khushi86_ii]

how important is it?
What? A ring? I see it as tradition, so I think its pretty important. I'd be a little ticked off if it was artificial, but calling off the whole thing is going a bit too far.

[pachaas Paisa]

What? A ring? I see it as tradition, so I think its pretty important. I'd be a little ticked off if it was artificial, but calling off the whole thing is going a bit too far.


why is a tradition considered.. important, after all it's only a cliched tradition, why does it have to be practiced to signify a lifestyle

[Dr Phil]

What? A ring? I see it as tradition, so I think its pretty important. I'd be a little ticked off if it was artificial, but calling off the whole thing is going a bit too far.
So you favor the ring more then the actual marriage.

[TheSkyIsBlue]

they all are; they just wont admit it.

co-sign :no:

[ana]

lies.

No really. I'm serious. But I know I'm going to get a pimped out ring. If not by him, then I'll get it myself and wear it on the other hand. I will always rock his ring on the right finger.

[TheSkyIsBlue]

yup, mang. look at the post right above yours. that ana girl said she doesn't live by that rule, but look at what she said in the ring thread.

lmao :rofl:

[*CUTIEE*]

Hell no. I don't care about the ring or what kind of ring it is. He just better have a nice penis to put me to sleep.

































































































Im kidding. :| and no i really dont live by that rule! It's not the ring that matters its about the love. and girls that do live by that rule, are said!

[ii_khushi86_ii]

why is a tradition considered.. important, after all it's only a cliched tradition, why does it have to be practiced to signify a lifestyle
It doesn't have to be. Its more of a preference with me. Well.. with the engagement ring, I don't mind not having one, but I would like a wedding ring.

Our family's tradition is to have gold engagement rings, not the silver diamond kind, anyway. And I don't like gold.

[ana]

Brooo, i did not own3d. look at my post above.

[pachaas Paisa]

furthermore to prove that desi girls are money hungry

DesipariXXX: hey
Pachaas Paisa: hey
DesipariXXX: wassup
Pachaas Paisa: nothing much how are tyou
Desipari: m ok...
DesipariXXX: hows everythin
DesipariXXX: school
Pachaas Paisa: school? i droppedo ut
DesipariXXX: lol really
Pachaas Paisa: yes
DesipariXXX: wiat...u being seirous

DesipariXXX signed off at 12:46:57 AM


pwned :p

I swear to You i did not make that up, although the drop out part.. i was only joking to see her reaction

[Dr Phil]

Hell no. I don't care about the ring or what kind of ring it is. He just better have a nice penis to put me to sleep.

































































































Im kidding. :| and no i really dont live by that rule! It's not the ring that matters its about the love. and girls that do live by that rule, are said!
I have a nice penis that WONT put you to sleep. Dam desi girls always want the opposite of what I have

[ii_khushi86_ii]

So you favor the ring more then the actual marriage.
No.

[Dr Phil]

No.
hm but u said u would be a tad dissapointed on a day that is suppose to be the happiest day of you life because of the ring?

[ii_khushi86_ii]

hm but u said u would be a tad dissapointed on a day that is suppose to be the happiest day of you life because of the ring?
Being a tad disappointed over one thing doesn't mean it ruins the whole day.

[ana]

Haven't any of ya'll read a psychology book. Women,when choosing their partners, look for stability, meaning money, over attractiveness. Men basically want trophy wives.

And us being desis, you should know that this trend of desi girls who want a lux lifestyle without any hard work will not die out anytime soon. Most of our kind are gold diggers. Deal with it?

Personally, I am not. But when choosing a partner, I'm going to look for an educated man. But education does not always = $.

[Felonius Monk]

hm but u said u would be a tad dissapointed on a day that is suppose to be the happiest day of you life because of the ring?
Would you be disappointed if your wife showed up to your wedding wearing jeans and a t-shirt. It was pretty clear from her post that she was referring to the indifference shown by buying a plastic ring, not the actual value of the ring.

[ana]

riiiiiiiiiiiiight!

I wanna poke ur eye with my left pinky right now.

[pachaas Paisa]

If most women are getting masters and higher degrees, we men have to strive for it higher options and do the impossible.

because.. no matter how rich she can be.. stability cant be guaranteed without his higher level status.

[Dr Phil]

Being a tad disappointed over one thing doesn't mean it ruins the whole day.
I guess?

[*CUTIEE*]

I have a nice penis that WONT put you to sleep. Dam desi girls always want the opposite of what I havewhn i said put me to sleep, i meant he'll do me soo good cuz of his long thick penis that i would fall asleep. THt my friend, is what i meant. :)



Of course, i was jk tho. :kekeke:

[TheSkyIsBlue]

furthermore to prove that desi girls are money hungry

DesipariXXX: hey
Pachaas Paisa: hey
DesipariXXX: wassup
Pachaas Paisa: nothing much how are tyou
Desipari: m ok...
DesipariXXX: hows everythin
DesipariXXX: school
Pachaas Paisa: school? i droppedo ut
DesipariXXX: lol really
Pachaas Paisa: yes
DesipariXXX: wiat...u being seirous

DesipariXXX signed off at 12:46:57 AM


pwned :p

I swear to You i did not make that up, although the drop out part.. i was only joking to see her reaction

hahahaha :lol:

[ispeakadatruth!!]

if the man gets you not so good wedding or engagement ring, the deal is off :p


are hindoos even supposed to wear wedding rings or is it just a western tradition?? :sarb:


i shall be rocking the thali...:cool:

[Felonius Monk]

furthermore to prove that desi girls are money hungry

DesipariXXX: hey
Pachaas Paisa: hey
DesipariXXX: wassup
Pachaas Paisa: nothing much how are tyou
Desipari: m ok...
DesipariXXX: hows everythin
DesipariXXX: school
Pachaas Paisa: school? i droppedo ut
DesipariXXX: lol really
Pachaas Paisa: yes
DesipariXXX: wiat...u being seirous

DesipariXXX signed off at 12:46:57 AM


pwned :p

I swear to You i did not make that up, although the drop out part.. i was only joking to see her reactionLol.

[Dr Phil]

whn i said put me to sleep, i meant he'll do me soo good cuz of his long thick penis that i would fall asleep. THt my friend, is what i meant. :)



Of course, i was jk tho. :kekeke:
sure...let ur wild side come out its okay u dont have to be afriad because ur desi and if you want that you gotta go black

[ana]

If most women are getting masters and higher degrees, we men have to strive for it higher options and do the impossible.

because.. no matter how rich she can be.. stability cant be guaranteed without his higher level status.

Equal to or greater than.

But in America, it's all game. She can make more money, the normal and SANE dudes won't mind.

[Enammmmm]

yup, mang. look at the post right above yours. that ana girl said she doesn't live by that rule, but look at what she said in the ring thread.


Thank you!

here's the proof

I'm getting a $25,000 ring.


Source:http://forums.ratedesi.com/showthread.php?t=202213&page=5&pp=25

[pachaas Paisa]

Equal to or greater than.

But in America, it's all game. She can make more money, the normal and SANE dudes won't mind.

eh believe, a woman with a phD wouldnt want a man with any less.

[*CUTIEE*]

sure...let ur wild side come out its okay u dont have to be afriad because ur desi and if you want that you gotta go blackyeah you're right, i shouldd just let it all out, right. ROFLLL :rofl: :kekeke:

[ana]

why not your ring finger? you dont wanna hurt the finger that's gonna wear that big rock? :rolleyes: desi girls... :no:

It's more convenient to poke with pinky rather than the ring. Duh. I'd have to stick out my ring, while the rest of the fingers have to flex, i'm not trying to bharatnatiyam BROOO.

[ana]

Thank you!

here's the proof




Source:http://forums.ratedesi.com/showthread.php?t=202213&page=5&pp=25

I still am. If I don't recieve it from the guy, I'll have to recieve it from the jewelers myself.

Ya'll are a buncha haters.

[ana]

would you mind, ana banana?

Mind if he made more money? No
Mind if he made equal? No
Mind if he made less? No

[pachaas Paisa]

eh dont waste your time on this girl ana,

[Dr Phil]

yeah you're right, i shouldd just let it all out, right. ROFLLL :rofl: :kekeke:
I can feel the inner thoughts of a female. ;)

[TheSkyIsBlue]

I still am. If I don't recieve it from the guy, I'll have to recieve it from the jewelers myself.

Ya'll are a buncha haters.

ya right...girls are too cheap! :neutral:

u will do anything to make him pay for it :rolleyes:

[ana]

awwww somebody got pwn3d awwwwww

:grouphug:

:grouphug:

Not! Brother Dude.

[*CUTIEE*]

I can feel the inner thoughts of a female. ;)is that so? ;) tell me what i'm thinking right now. :p :Pelvic2:

[Enammmmm]

I still am. If I don't recieve it from the guy, I'll have to recieve it from the jewelers myself.

Ya'll are a buncha haters.


oh bequiet pinnochio :liar2:

[Sketchy]

I believe that

[pachaas Paisa]

I believe that


i know that.

[Sketchy]

i know that.
Chup.

[pachaas Paisa]

Chup.


*chups*

[ana]

ya right...girls are too cheap! :neutral:

u will do anything to make him pay for it :rolleyes:

Uh, no.

Why would I wanna put my future husband in misery over a ring? Whatever he can dish out is acceptable. If I really really really really want that 25,000 ring, I'm sure I can dish out some change myself.

You know speaking of what guys get girls, what about what girls get guys? I cannot WAITTTTTTTTT to be married so I can start saving for some anniversary to get him an awesome car, with that HUGE RED BOW on top, like in those Mercedes commercials. Weeee!

[Sketchy]

*chups*
I called back to share something funny but you didn't answer.
You unfortunate

[ana]

ok, i know you're a paki and all, and i know you packers do the whole cousin thing, but i thought that's what it's limited to. i didnt know you do the whole brother-sister thing too. dang!

oh well, whatever floats your boat. i'll try not to be judgmental, bro. :dunno:

Since when did I cross the border and claim citizenship to Pakizzle?

Vande Mataram bro. :salut:

[TheSkyIsBlue]

Uh, no.

Why would I wanna put my future husband in misery over a ring? Whatever he can dish out is acceptable. If I really really really really want that 25,000 ring, I'm sure I can dish out some change myself.

You know speaking of what guys get girls, what about what girls get guys? I cannot WAITTTTTTTTT to be married so I can start saving for some anniversary to get him an awesome car, with that HUGE RED BOW on top, like in those Mercedes commercials. Weeee!

marry me :love:

lol...gotta say...lucky guy...if you're being honest that is and not bullshitting :rolleyes: :neutral:

[ana]

you live in afghanistan? :scratch:

:p

yes...um...pushto pushto tawda pushto.

[pachaas Paisa]

I called back to share something funny but you didn't answer.
You unfortunate

i couldnt answer sorry, mom will throw a hanger at me

[TheSkyIsBlue]

you know she's bullshitting. that's her only way out after she got caught with all those lies about the ring. i pwn3d her, enam pwn3d her, you pwn3d her. so now that she can't talk about the ring any more, she's taking the only option left, i.e saying she'll buy her guy some stuff too.

:lol:

:google:

[Sketchy]

i couldnt answer sorry, mom will throw a hanger at me
:hand: :rolleyes:
You would have, if I were some hot girl...talking about cute stuff, as opposed to constipation and underwears

[ana]

i knew it! those camel fuckers! :no:

so, sup homie? i see you've meet anil. that's a nice picture he had in his sig. :Oops:

Nah, I'm from the I, N of DIA.

Yea, he's pretty fly, in a John Mayer kinda way.

[fragiledoll]

i dont believe in the wrong ring rule. coz a wrong guy can make you wear a 20 carat A Grade, Tear Drop cut, Diamond ring.

[pachaas Paisa]

:hand: :rolleyes:
You would have, if I were some hot girl...talking about cute stuff, as opposed to constipation and underwears


gross.. go take a shower :no:

[ana]

i dont believe in the wrong ring rule. coz a wrong guy can make you wear a 20 carat A Grade, Tear Drop cut, Diamond ring.

ooowwwwwwww.

Go on sista gurl!

[Angel Frm Heaven]

Oh well...i know im getting my de beers ;) ;)

[ana]

marry me :love:

lol...gotta say...lucky guy...if you're being honest that is and not bullshitting :rolleyes: :neutral:

Yea I am BSing about wasting some 80,000 that'll take me how long to earn after paying off all these loans?

[Sketchy]

gross.. go take a shower :no:
No, it's cold
I'm about to sleep, i DID just work the longest shift of my life.

[ana]

durka durka jihad? :o

yeah, he is :boink: and so are you :Oops:

Yea, it's the Lake Michigan water.
They test them E.coli realllllll good.

[fragiledoll]

ooowwwwwwww.

Go on sista gurl!

Thank you. Thank you.

Learning Gemstones helps alot :lol: . So thats my story..

[pachaas Paisa]

No, it's cold
I'm about to sleep, i DID just work the longest shift of my life.

all day no shower.. you worked, sweated your ass off and no shower? :-s

[ana]

im gonna go take a dump the next time im there. we'll see if you like that water then. :hand:

:p Join the rest of the bums living on the beaches.

[yo2344]

Everyone should watch "Blood Diamond". Very good movie. You will be amaze what people do for a stone. I know when I get married no diamonds.

[Sketchy]

all day no shower.. you worked, sweated your ass off and no shower? :-s
I'll take one tomorrow morning! what does it matteR? no ones gonna smell me right now

[bad_cheque]

It doesn't have to be. Its more of a preference with me. Well.. with the engagement ring, I don't mind not having one, but I would like a wedding ring.

Our family's tradition is to have gold engagement rings, not the silver diamond kind, anyway. And I don't like gold.
In India even wedding rings are made of gold. So are you saying that you won't take a gold wedding ring?

Anyway diamonds are considered to bring bad omen in my community. I wonder if the American born members of my community wear diamonds.

[fragiledoll]

Everyone should watch "Blood Diamond". Very good movie. You will be amaze what people do for a stone. I know when I get married no diamonds.

cool. will watch. .

[pachaas Paisa]

I'll take one tomorrow morning! what does it matteR? no ones gonna smell me right now

i can smell it from all the way here

[ana]

Hahahahahha.

[ii_khushi86_ii]

In India even wedding rings are made of gold. So are you saying that you won't take a gold wedding ring?

Anyway diamonds are considered to bring bad omen in my community. I wonder if the American born members of my community wear diamonds.
All of them? I wasn't too sure about the wedding band, because some of my aunts have a silver one, and I thought I could just ask for a silver wedding band.

Strangely, I am wearing a gold ring right now..... yes, I've realized that just made me sound like a total hypocrite.. maybe I should have worded it to "gold is not my first preference".

[bad_cheque]

All of them? I wasn't too sure about the wedding band, because some of my aunts have a silver one, and I thought I could just ask for a silver wedding band.

Strangely, I am wearing a gold ring right now..... yes, I've realized that just made me sound like a total hypocrite.. maybe I should have worded it to "gold is not my first preference".
I know that Kashmiris prefer silver but never heard of Punjabis prefering silver. I am wondering if it was just a cheaper option. I mean no offence by the way.

[ii_khushi86_ii]

I know that Kashmiris prefer silver but never heard of Punjabis prefering silver. I am wondering if it was just a cheaper option. I mean no offence by the way.
None taken. But I don't think my preference has anything to do with my culture. :p I just adore silver.

[bad_cheque]

None taken. But I don't think my preference has anything to do with my culture. :p I just adore silver.
lol I wasn't judging your preferences

But yeah there is a cultural influence in your preferences. If you were brought up in India, I am 100% sure that you would be dreaming of the 100 tolas of gold you would wearing at your wedding. :p

[ii_khushi86_ii]

lol I wasn't judging your preferences

But yeah there is a cultural influence in your preferences. If you were brought up in India, I am 100% sure that you would be dreaming of the 100 tolas of gold you would wearing at your wedding. :p
Its possible.

But since I'm not, I can only go ":ugh:" at all the gold on top of a huge lehnga with heavy embroidery. Pretty and all, but I know I'm going to be incredibly frustrated if I have to wear that.

[bad_cheque]

Its possible.

But since I'm not, I can only go ":ugh:" at all the gold on top of a huge lehnga with heavy embroidery. Pretty and all, but I know I'm going to be incredibly frustrated if I have to wear that.
Interesting :D

[ii_khushi86_ii]

Interesting :D
You're trying to decipher exactly what I mean by "frustrating", aren't you? :squint:

; )

[NinjaPanther]

I am just giving her an onion ring. :neutral:

[gujulicious]

haha..i wouldnt necessarily think he was the WRONG guy but idk...i really want my wedding ring to be a certain way...the way i want...coz i know exaccccctly what i want so hopefully hell ask me before bringing out some weird lookin one

[gujulicious]

I am just giving her an onion ring. :neutral:
AHAHHAHAHA lol

i feel sorry for your woman

[pachaas Paisa]

haha..i wouldnt necessarily think he was the WRONG guy but idk...i really want my wedding ring to be a certain way...the way i want...coz i know exaccccctly what i want so hopefully hell ask me before bringing out some weird lookin one

what if he cant get yu what you want exactly

why is it so important? how long will you continue to live in your fantasy island?

[ragdoll.]

i'd be a little pissed off but eh who carez

[ana]

haha..i wouldnt necessarily think he was the WRONG guy but idk...i really want my wedding ring to be a certain way...the way i want...coz i know exaccccctly what i want so hopefully hell ask me before bringing out some weird lookin one

What's the fun in that???

Oh i planned my ring, and gave it to him, and then he proposed. It was magical.

versus.

We were ________, and out of nowhere, there he was with eyes blah blah blah, insert emotion, i was speechless, bla bla.

The latter is WAYYYYYYYY better.

Oh you know I was at the Bean taking pics, and this guy proposed to his woman. It was beautiful, I just wanted to go hug them.

[gujulicious]

what if he cant get yu what you want exactly

why is it so important? how long will you continue to live in your fantasy island?

lol @ fantasy island.

of course id tell him how i wanted it before it got super duper serious

so if hes smart he;ll remember..
and if he doesnt then i guess he could very well be the wrong one lol :dunno:



j/p

[gujulicious]

What's the fun in that???

Oh i planned my ring, and gave it to him, and then he proposed. It was magical.

versus.

We were ________, and out of nowhere, there he was with eyes blah blah blah, insert emotion, i was speechless, bla bla.

The latter is WAYYYYYYYY better.

Oh you know I was at the Bean taking pics, and this guy proposed to his woman. It was beautiful, I just wanted to go hug them.

well its different for everyone.

i can tell him how i want and then he can "magically" whip it out of "nowhere" sometime..and it'lll stil lbe "romantic"

:gayfight:

[ana]

Haha, as u say.

We just all want a happy ending.

[pachaas Paisa]

lol @ fantasy island.

of course id tell him how i wanted it before it got super duper serious

so if hes smart he;ll remember..
and if he doesnt then i guess he could very well be the wrong one lol :dunno:



j/p


Okay as long as you're jping

[pachaas Paisa]

You have got to be kidding me.


yeah, well read the thread to actually see how these girls think.

[Echelon]

Girls are very idealistic. Coupled with the desi genome, you'd expect at least on a subconscious level to think about whether the ring is suitable. Consider these two thought processes:
1\This ring is ugly, he doesn't know my tastes. Hmm, he doesn't know me at all... I guess he isn't right for me or it isn't the right time.
2\This was not how i pictured it in my dream =(

[ana]

Girls are very idealistic. Coupled with the desi genome, you'd expect at least on a subconscious level to think about whether the ring is suitable. Consider these two thought processes:
1\This ring is ugly, he doesn't know my tastes. Hmm, he doesn't know me at all... I guess he isn't right for me or it isn't the right time.
2\This was not how i pictured it in my dream =(

:p :neutral:

[pachaas Paisa]

Girls are very idealistic. Coupled with the desi genome, you'd expect at least on a subconscious level to think about whether the ring is suitable. Consider these two thought processes:
1\This ring is ugly, he doesn't know my tastes. Hmm, he doesn't know me at all... I guess he isn't right for me or it isn't the right time.
2\This was not how i pictured it in my dream =(
stupid dreamers