girls: why pull strings?

[sexy_kuta]

im curious about your opinions,

why do girls pull strings after the relationships end. meaning, why do you insist that you stay connected with your ex, you want them around because you think they will come in "handy" in the furture,

if one person walks away, the other follows, but in this case im curious on why the girl follows, im more focus on that, so please dont say "guys do that too" because they do, but im curious, i want to see it from the girl side perpective

[PakPlaya69]

im curious about your opinions,

why do girls pull strings after the relationships end. meaning, why do you insist that you stay connected with your ex, you want them around because you think they will come in "handy" in the furture,

if one person walks away, the other follows, but in this case im curious on why the girl follows, im more focus on that, so please dont say "guys do that too" because they do, but im curious, i want to see it from the girl side perpective


They want guys around even after the break up cause they love the attention and don want it ending suddenly , its like they want you around untill they find a replacement and then they giv you a boot , some gals do that cause they still have hope of a reunion, or they try to make you jealous by mentioning other guys , its all mind games bro , :rolleyes:

[Arshy]

some women are control freaks...

FACT!

[muslimbeauty06]

some women are control freaks...

FACT!


IM not!!But yes some are :eek:

[Arshy]

IM not!!But yes some are :eek:
i bet you are too...sometimes!

[muslimbeauty06]

i bet you are too...sometimes!
if the Guy starts acting like an ass hole are a jerkk to do it on purpose

[Arshy]

if the Guy starts acting like an ass hole are a jerkk to do it on purpose
you see women do it without noticing...and when you point it out to them...the typical response would be...

"so you're trying to say im wrong"...

not saying you're one of them women, but dya see where im coming from?

[roy_desi]

i never return calls of my ex or respond to emails.

i limit communication.

[sexy_kuta]

They want guys around even after the break up cause they love the attention and don want it ending suddenly , its like they want you around untill they find a replacement and then they giv you a boot , some gals do that cause they still have hope of a reunion, or they try to make you jealous by mentioning other guys , its all mind games bro , :rolleyes:

thats true., but i wanna see a girl put this in her own words. you see bro, thats from our perpective. i wanna see it from a girls view. on why does she do it. she must have a reason. some girls wanna do it because it makes them feel secure. or having a shoulder to cry on cuz the dick their fucking is making them cry.

[gorjuzkuri]

A. Guys become a habit to girls...so they cant get rid of them just that fast

B. They love attention...if the guy that gives em the most attention leaves...then they have to search fast for another

C. Cause, girls like to keep it cool and mature with the guy....they think that they didnt spend so much damn time...just to go out and then never speak to the animal again haha jk.

D. im glad u mentioned that sentence about us saying "guys do it too" i think u remember the debate between you and me last time haha.


NOW THE GIRLS P.O.V:
we do it cause we are innocent, confused, and are just soo emotionally unstable that we still need yall....true story! lol

[sexy_kuta]

A. Guys become a habit to girls...so they cant get rid of them just that fast

B. They love attention...if the guy that gives em the most attention leaves...then they have to search fast for another

C. Cause, girls like to keep it cool and mature with the guy....they think that they didnt spend so much damn time...just to go out and then never speak to the animal again haha jk.

D. im glad u mentioned that sentence about us saying "guys do it too" i think u remember the debate between you and me last time haha.


NOW THE GIRLS P.O.V:
we do it cause we are innocent, confused, and are just soo emotionally unstable that we still need yall....true story! lol

LOl yeh, i dont wanna go through another "debate" again :P

im just curious because im about to change my number...
because i cant be left alone. if u know what i mean

[freshmanik_13]

oye that shits true, when u break up with a chick the guy jus wants to forget about her but the girl always insists to be annoying bitch and keep talking to you.

[BENGALI4EVA1]

WATCHU TALKIN BOUT WILLIS :sniff:

[fragiledoll]

it takes time to forget him, stopping communication right away can be difficult .... evrything goes step by step.

[sexy_kuta]

it must be hard then, but sometimes ppl dont understand, its like you have to litterly hit them in the forehead, if you tell your ex that you dont wanna be friends and that you want to break all bridges between the two of you. its like they dont understand. they forget that on purpose "ok i know i didnt hear that"

but i guess its all about self control right? how bad do you want it.

[ewwwww]

Closure is IMPORTANT. It rarely ever happens esp in desi relationships where the girl is usually under parental lockdown. Without closure it is hard for her to move on.

[htownzdevil]

i must say i agree with gorjuzkuri.

1. guys do become habits with girls. being with someone for so long they become a habit u just cant kick. and some dont even want to get rid of it.

girls think differently not every girL wants the guy to be around until she finds a replacement.

its the habit that gets me. its hard letting someone go.. even if u let them go as a boyfriend.. but completely cutting them off can be tough. hmmm maybe like a sense of security... is that so wrong?

[L_A_X__addiction]

im curious about your opinions,

why do girls pull strings after the relationships end. meaning, why do you insist that you stay connected with your ex, you want them around because you think they will come in "handy" in the furture,

if one person walks away, the other follows, but in this case im curious on why the girl follows, im more focus on that, so please dont say "guys do that too" because they do, but im curious, i want to see it from the girl side perpective


yeah, some women are control freaks, and some women are psychos, and some are normal, and some are sweet...whatever they are, the main reason for staying friends is usually so that things aren't awkward afterwards, you can agree to be friendly and civil to eachother and it's the nicest way of ending something without being like oh so fuck you pretty much. i don't know if this makes sense, i mean -- it does in my head but sometimes explaining is a bit harder.

[gorjuzkuri]

i must say i agree with gorjuzkuri.

1. guys do become habits with girls. being with someone for so long they become a habit u just cant kick. and some dont even want to get rid of it.

girls think differently not every girL wants the guy to be around until she finds a replacement.

its the habit that gets me. its hard letting someone go.. even if u let them go as a boyfriend.. but completely cutting them off can be tough. hmmm maybe like a sense of security... is that so wrong?
lol i agree...but, the thing with guys is...if u are too clingy they hate it...and if u arent clingy enough/independent they still hate it! So, basically lose lose situation loll.

[Existentialist]

I don't know, I'm the opposite for a girl.
If the relationship is severed I want to move on asap. I made the mistake of waiting and caring to oblige a friendship once and was taken advantage of emotionally.
I don't like holding myself back especially when it's not going to work out\\broken off beyond repair. I just want my space to freaking move on and not be stuck in the vicious circle of guessing how to make them happy and trying to do the right thing in order not to regret.
I know what I want, the type of guy i'm looking for so if I don't love him and he fails to be that man, he can get out of my way. I will usually stick it through until I see it cannot work out permanently and if he doesn't want to make it work and sits there complaining that he doesn't know what to do with his feelings, automatic fuck off. Waste of time.
My last 2 exs' insisted on friendships after, I told them to fuck off. Mature? No. Smart? Definitely. You have to be selfish sometimes to move on to preserve oneself.

Usually friends = fuck buddies/nice way to move on without feeling bad.

[dayven]

lol i agree...but, the thing with guys is...if u are too clingy they hate it...and if u arent clingy enough/independent they still hate it! So, basically lose lose situation loll.


But I still love you.... :wavey:

[Existentialist]

lol i agree...but, the thing with guys is...if u are too clingy they hate it...and if u arent clingy enough/independent they still hate it! So, basically lose lose situation loll.

They're emotionally retarded.
Funny thing is when they're clingy and needy it's called "love."

[htownzdevil]

very well put existentialist. i can understand where your coming from

simply put: girls just dont want to be hurt..