Love... What's the Point???

[sexxichic2envy]

It's those who are forunate that find TRUE love. It's the greatest feeling in the world to envelop yourself in someone else's life.. to share their happiness and pain... to be their sole source of comfort.

Love is amazing... it's beautiful. But what is the point of love if you can't be with the person you fall in love with all because of stupid beliefs? There is no point.

Many a time I hear the saying: It's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all.

If you ask me... that's bullshit... Why would you want to go through that pain?? Wouldn't you be better off not loving rather than giving your all for something, only to have it taken away once you've grown dependent on it?

Love is a war....... a neverending war... it swallows you like the black plague...it diminishes your soul entirely......and it kills you internally while you're forced to live, breathe and face it.

I'd rather brand my ass with "Fuck Off" than love someone.

Yes... this is me being emo. Allow me.

What's your take on it?? Diss & Cuss

[.Mazzy.]

Is love that feeling that hits my stomach when I'm talking to you? It's a rather purrrtiful feeling.

[w1ld]

http://www.p45.net/postcards/dumped_lge.gif

[dr0pitlikeitzh0t]

Men don't talk about love, therefore, your user title is misleading.

[ilyas@!!oops!!]

just buy PS2 then u b alright.......:Paper:

[sexxichic2envy]

Is love that feeling that hits my stomach when I'm talking to you? It's a rather purrrtiful feeling.
:lol: I think it is.

[sexxichic2envy]

Men don't talk about love, therefore, your user title is misleading.
:shame: Not true. Men can be very emo... you'd be surprised.

[dr0pitlikeitzh0t]

:shame: Not true. Men can be very emo... you'd be surprised.
Oh so you like 'em emo bwoiz, eh?

http://www.etniesmotox.com/site-images/news/article/emo-hairfull.jpg

[(sic)]

i take it your marriage was arranged?

[LokiLaufeyson]

I feel a JIHAD on love brewing.

[sexxichic2envy]

Oh so you like 'em emo bwoiz, eh?
I love boys who cry. :love:

[.Mazzy.]

:lol: I think it is.
Do you get it too? I hope you does.

[sarb]

lolers, someone got rejected

roflmaomgbbq

[sexxichic2envy]

i take it your marriage was arranged?
lOl I'm not married besharam. :slap:

[sexxichic2envy]

lolers, someone got rejected

roflmaomgbbq
You're an idiot.

[dr0pitlikeitzh0t]

I love boys who cry. :love:
give him some of this if nothing else works:

http://www.onion-router.net/Images/onion.gif

:thumleft:

[.Mazzy.]

i take it your marriage was arranged?
I didn't propose to her yet. :neutral:

[(sic)]

lOl I'm not married besharam. :slap:
i thought you were?

[ORaNGe dAsY]

You have a life pardner just like :tetter:.

[sexxichic2envy]

give him some of this if nothing else works
:thumleft:
:lol: I'd rather sock em in the balls and watch him cry in agony.

[dr0pitlikeitzh0t]

:lol: I'd rather sock em in the balls and watch him cry in agony.
:Ohno:

[sexxichic2envy]

i thought you were?
Nope. I'm a free woman. :)

[LokiLaufeyson]

just buy PS2 then u b alright.......:Paper:

What are you in 1999, it's a ps3 :hand:

[LokiLaufeyson]

Nope. I'm a free woman. :)

AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH FREE AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHA WOMAN, SAME SENTENCE :rofl:

[ORaNGe dAsY]

What are you in 1999, it's a ps3 :hand:
loller.

[sexxichic2envy]

I feel a JIHAD on love brewing.
Please elaborate.

[sexxichic2envy]

AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH FREE AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHA WOMAN, SAME SENTENCE :rofl:
lol I am..... aside from cooking, cleaning, and being barefoot n pregnnnint.

[*CUTIEE*]

Why do ppl worry about love so much. I mean jeeez, if it's gonna happen, then shit it's gonna happen. If it's real it's real and if it's not ..then it's not.

PPl complain so much about how love sucks bla bla , yet they always looking for a relationship or some kind of way to be with someone. Let love find you, true love will come when you least expect.

First thing, Love yourself. Cuz if you don't love yourself, don't expect for someone else to love you like that. PPl these days act as if they NEED To be in a relationship or that they need someone in their life a mate to love them ...Lot's of you need to pray...that's what you REALLY need to do.

[Echelon]

It's those who are forunate that find TRUE love. It's the greatest feeling in the world to envelop yourself in someone else's life.. to share their happiness and pain... to be their sole source of comfort.

Love is amazing... it's beautiful. But what is the point of love if you can't be with the person you fall in love with all because of stupid beliefs? There is no point.

Many a time I hear the saying: It's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all.

If you ask me... that's bullshit... Why would you want to go through that pain?? Wouldn't you be better off not loving rather than giving your all for something, only to have it taken away once you've grown dependent on it?

Love is a war....... a neverending war... it swallows you like the black plague...it diminishes your soul entirely......and it kills you internally while you're forced to live, breathe and face it.

I'd rather brand my ass with "Fuck Off" than love someone.

Yes... this is me being emo. Allow me.

What's your take on it?? Diss & Cuss"You want the wisdom to know the difference between what you can and can't change? Here's step 13: everything disappears. Love, trees, rocks, steel, plastic, human beings. None of us get out alive. Now, you can huddle in a group and face it one day at a time, or you can be grateful that when your body rubs against somebody else's it explodes with enough pleasure to make you forget, even for a minute, that you're only a walking pile of ashes Now THAT is the truth. If you're strong it'll make you free, if you're weak, it'll make you...you."
Christian Troy

[LokiLaufeyson]

Please elaborate.

A war on love. A so called "true love"....every relationship needs to be worked on. I don't believe you find that one true love. That perfect partner. That's all a crock of bull, and so is love.

It's just a mix of emotions and humans don't know how to express it. It's lust if anything.

[sexxichic2envy]

Why do ppl worry about love so much. I mean jeeez, if it's gonna happen, then shit it's gonna happen. If it's real it's real and if it's not ..then it's not.

PPl complain so much about how love sucks bla bla , yet they always looking for a relationship or some kind of way to be with someone. Let love find you, true love will come when you least expect.

First thing, Love yourself. Cuz if you don't love yourself, don't expect for someone else to love you like that. PPl these days act as if they NEED To be in a relationship or that they need someone in their life a mate to love them ...Lot's of you need to pray...that's what you REALLY need to do.
What are you on about???? No one here is LOOKING for a relationship. Don't make assumptions.......I posted a part of my opinion.... I didn't relay the facts or details.

Secondly, I love myself...... ALOT.........check the username... I'm vain.

[LokiLaufeyson]

lol I am..... aside from cooking, cleaning, and being barefoot n pregnnnint.

Other than that, or on the highway to freedom

[sexxichic2envy]

"You want the wisdom to know the difference between what you can and can't change? Here's step 13: everything disappears. Love, trees, rocks, steel, plastic, human beings. None of us get out alive. Now, you can huddle in a group and face it one day at a time, or you can be grateful that when your body rubs against somebody else's it explodes with enough pleasure to make you forget, even for a minute, that you're only a walking pile of ashes Now THAT is the truth. If you're strong it'll make you free, if you're weak, it'll make you...you."
Christian Troy
Wow. Deep, ma brotha. :applause:

[.Mazzy.]

What are you on about???? No one here is LOOKING for a relationship. Don't make assumptions.......I posted a part of my opinion.... I didn't relay the facts or details.

Secondly, I love myself...... ALOT.........check the username... I'm vain.
You don't know how much I love vanity. No joke. :neutral:

[*CUTIEE*]

What are you on about???? No one here is LOOKING for a relationship. Don't make assumptions.......I posted a part of my opinion.... I didn't relay the facts or details.

Secondly, I love myself...... ALOT.........check the username... I'm vain.hun, i wasn't even talking about you. I was just saying to everyone in General.

and yes that's Great that you love yourself. In this world...YOu'll need to love yourself.

[sexxichic2envy]

A war on love. A so called "true love"....every relationship needs to be worked on. I don't believe you find that one true love. That perfect partner. That's all a crock of bull, and so is love.

It's just a mix of emotions and humans don't know how to express it. It's lust if anything.
No love is great.......but only if circumstances don't force you to end things. Lust is something completely different........

[.Mazzy.]

No love is great.......but only if circumstances don't force you to end things. Lust is something completely different........
Infatuation is jokes.

[LokiLaufeyson]

No love is great.......but only if circumstances don't force you to end things. Lust is something completely different........

nothing should come in the way of love then :|

How cheesey...
http://www.thecheesemobile.com/_images/why/cheese.jpg

[awesome0]

idk , i only love myself innit. and cookies and milk . yeah thats it.

but really i dont think its "Love" until u've spent half a lifetime with the person and u truly know the meaning of beeing there for eachother through good times and bad :gay:

[sexxichic2envy]

You don't know how much I love vanity. No joke. :neutral:
I'd rather be surrounded by vain individuals than compliment fishing low self esteem havin mofos.

Which is why we'd make great babies. :)

[sexxichic2envy]

idk , i only love myself innit. and cookies and milk . yeah thats it.
You're on the right path, buddy.

[sexxichic2envy]

nothing should come in the way of love then :|

How cheesey...
http://www.thecheesemobile.com/_images/why/cheese.jpg
:D Hahahaha that post sounded funny coming from YOU

[awesome0]

You're on the right path, buddy.
edit*

[.Mazzy.]

I'd rather be surrounded by vain individuals than compliment fishing low self esteem havin mofos.

Which is why we'd make great babies. :)
I just find vanity to be a turn on. When someone thinks they're better than me, there's this sense of-- Competition for the lack of a better word. That creates fire [Love/lust..].

[sexxichic2envy]

hun, i wasn't even talking about you. I was just saying to everyone in General.

and yes that's Great that you love yourself. In this world...YOu'll need to love yourself.
Ok then, carry on.

And my apologies.........I assumed you were talking about me being that I created an emo thread.

I'm highly disappointed in myself. I feel like a ............like a girl... :ugh:

[*CUTIEE*]

Ok then, carry on.

And my apologies.........I assumed you were talking about me being that I created an emo thread.

I'm highly disappointed in myself. I feel like a ............like a girl... :ugh:but you're a girl.......? ya :sarb:

[sexxichic2envy]

but you're a girl.......? ya :sarb:
Unfortunately yes, but I feel like a guy. :razz:

[*CUTIEE*]

Unfortunately yes, but I feel like a guy. :razz:haha. i'd like to ask why? :lol:

[sexxichic2envy]

I just find vanity to be a turn on. When someone thinks they're better than me, there's this sense of-- Competition for the lack of a better word. That creates fire [Love/lust..].
lol I don't really think I'm better than anyone else.

Pero....... it's a cold fact that I must come to terms with. Let's mud wrestle. :dance3:

[.Mazzy.]

lol I don't really think I'm better than anyone else.

Pero....... it's a cold fact that I must come to terms with. Let's mud wrestle. :dance3:
I was thinking chocolate fudge, hot but not too hot. :neutral:

[LokiLaufeyson]

:D Hahahaha that post sounded funny coming from YOU

Tell me about it, i think i've lost all credibility

[.AK.]

what is loveee
baby dont hurt me
dont hurt me
no moreee
:headfone:

[sexxichic2envy]

haha. i'd like to ask why? :lol:
I love sports. I've been told I'm like "one of the guys" on numerous occasions. I sometimes wish I had a penis. I hate when girls get all dramatic and whiney. I hate shopping. I'd pick football over opera. And last but not least.... I have a perverted, sick...sick mind. :no:

[hmguy]

I think you're giving up way to easily

[*CUTIEE*]

I love sports. I've been told I'm like "one of the guys" on numerous occasions. I sometimes wish I had a penis. I hate when girls get all dramatic and whiney. I hate shopping. I'd pick football over opera. And last but not least.... I have a perverted, sick...sick mind. :no:ohhh i hateee the dramatic whiney girls also..and i love sports too. :yes:. so basically you wish you were a guy....LOL @wishing u had a penis :lol: That would be some other problems :p

[sexxichic2envy]

I was thinking chocolate fudge, hot but not too hot. :neutral:
Can we lick the tub clean afterwards? :hyper:

[.Mazzy.]

Can we lick the tub clean afterwards? :hyper:
I was thinking we can do like lions and lick each other clean too. :neutral:

[sexxichic2envy]

Tell me about it, i think i've lost all credibility
It's ok. I know you're still an asshole at heart. I won't let you lose your rep. :)

[sexxichic2envy]

what is loveee
baby dont hurt me
dont hurt me
no moreee
:headfone:
:lol:

[LokiLaufeyson]

It's ok. I know you're still an asshole at heart. I won't let you lose your rep. :)

An asshole, with the heart of simba :love:

I think it's quite disturbing i have a rep...:ugh:

[sexxichic2envy]

I think you're giving up way to easily
First piece of advice I've gotten which I agree with.... i think I need to fight for this.

(fuckin kundalis) :mad:

[sexxichic2envy]

ohhh i hateee the dramatic whiney girls also..and i love sports too. :yes:. so basically you wish you were a guy....LOL @wishing u had a penis :lol: That would be some other problems :p
lol you may be on the same boat as me. I say we put those girls in a timecapsule and bury them. Let the future generation worry about them. I really do wish I had a penis... it'd make life so much easier. A penis solves everything innit?

[sexxichic2envy]

I was thinking we can do like lions and lick each other clean too. :neutral:
RAWRRRRR!!!!!!!!!!!!! Shag like a beast.....ohhhh yeahhhhhhhhh :Pelvic2:

[.Mazzy.]

RAWRRRRR!!!!!!!!!!!!! Shag like a beast.....ohhhh yeahhhhhhhhh :Pelvic2:
My name means "brave" in some language and it means "man with the heart of a lion" in Arabic. [Insert Simba's face here]

[sexxichic2envy]

An asshole, with the heart of simba :love:

I think it's quite disturbing i have a rep...:ugh:
:p

It's ok.......if you don't have a rep on RD you're a nobody. :no: Damn desis

[sexxichic2envy]

My name means "brave" in some language and it means "man with the heart of a lion" in Arabic. [Insert Simba's face here]
Do you have the stamina of a lion, too??? :naughty:

[LokiLaufeyson]

:p

It's ok.......if you don't have a rep on RD you're a nobody. :no: Damn desis

I'd rather be a complete nobody then...

Desi's are sooooooooo self concious about what others think of them

[.Mazzy.]

Do you have the stamina of a lion, too??? :naughty:
I took boxing darling. I'd be a failure if I didn't have stamina. The owner used to call me 'Quiet Storm'; I was the most quiet guy there but I could beat the shit out of any. Me = quickly angered/choleric. :ashamed:

Tigers have the best sex btw, supposedly. It's a common myth in any pind you go to. I'd love to make out with-- Never mind. :neutral:

[LokiLaufeyson]

I took boxing darling. I'd be a failure if I didn't have stamina. The owner used to call me 'Quiet Storm'; I was the most quiet guy there but I could beat the shit out of any. Me = quickly angered/choleric. :ashamed:

Tigers have the best sex btw, supposedly. It's a common myth in any pind you go to. I'd love to make out with-- Never mind. :neutral:

:google:

I didn't know you boxed, what was your weight class?

[.Mazzy.]

:google:

I didn't know you boxed, what was your weight class?
Gawddd, I answered this question sooo many times already. According to the WBA I was Light Heavyweight & right now I'd be Cruiserweight; though I'm sure I'd be a tad bit slow. :neutral:

[sexxichic2envy]

I'd rather be a complete nobody then...

Desi's are sooooooooo self concious about what others think of them
Not me. I'm vain... no ones opinion about me matters more than my own... And i think I'm the best thing since Duracell batteries........ :)

[LokiLaufeyson]

Gawddd, I answered this question sooo many times already. According to the WBA I was Light Heavyweight & right now I'd be Cruiserweight; though I'm sure I'd be a tad bit slow. :neutral:

Sorry dude, i know the feeling when your repeating yourself over and over again. :lol: Wank alot, that'll increase your hand speed. :|

i'm lightweight, light welter :hs: Highly gay, but i cannot put no weight on. :(

[.Mazzy.]

Not me. I'm vain... no ones opinion about me matters more than my own... And i think I'm the best thing since Duracell batteries........ :)
I think you're the best thing since Aishwarya Rai. :Oops: Why were my thoughts written? Errr, something's wrong.

[sexii mamii 2nv]

Fuck Love....

[sexii mamii 2nv]

I'd rather be a complete nobody then...

Desi's are sooooooooo self concious about what others think of them


I AGREE....U SO RIGHT

[LokiLaufeyson]

Not me. I'm vain... no ones opinion about me matters more than my own... And i think I'm the best thing since Duracell batteries........ :)

Wow, i too have an high opinion of myself, and call myself god on more than one occasion.

:werd:

Best thing since the dawn of man :cool:

[R.J]

I AGREE....U SO RIGHT

Here Gumbo, it's your twin.

[yo2344]

Fuck Love....

come talk to me and i'll show u wats real love

[.Mazzy.]

come talk to me and i'll show u wats real love
You're a fob. It'd be hard talking to you.

[LokiLaufeyson]

I AGREE....U SO RIGHT

You'll come to learn this is always the case.

[LokiLaufeyson]

come talk to me and i'll show u wats real love

Smoooooooooooth like very smoooooooooooth stuff

:|

[sexxichic2envy]

I think you're the best thing since Aishwarya Rai. :Oops: Why were my thoughts written? Errr, something's wrong.
aye haye....vut a comparison.....

My contacts > Ash's eyes.

:Paper:

[Ash_s2002]

It's those who are forunate that find TRUE love. It's the greatest feeling in the world to envelop yourself in someone else's life.. to share their happiness and pain... to be their sole source of comfort.

Love is amazing... it's beautiful. But what is the point of love if you can't be with the person you fall in love with all because of stupid beliefs? There is no point.

Many a time I hear the saying: It's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all.

If you ask me... that's bullshit... Why would you want to go through that pain?? Wouldn't you be better off not loving rather than giving your all for something, only to have it taken away once you've grown dependent on it?

Love is a war....... a neverending war... it swallows you like the black plague...it diminishes your soul entirely......and it kills you internally while you're forced to live, breathe and face it.

I'd rather brand my ass with "Fuck Off" than love someone.

Yes... this is me being emo. Allow me.

What's your take on it?? Diss & Cuss
how long did that take to type?

[sexxichic2envy]

Fuck Love....
:rofl: :rofl: :rofl:


GRREAAAAT USERNAME!!!!!!!! :thumrigh:

:thumleft:

[.Mazzy.]

aye haye....vut a comparison.....

My contacts > Ash's eyes.

:Paper:
Yesssir. Your skin = more lickable than Aishes.

[Foxy_Lay_D]

Life is a Biatch sometimes and sometimes you can nothing do about it.
Or yeh run away with t hat guy but is he really worth for it?

[LokiLaufeyson]

how long did that take to type?

ZING!!!

He just called you mentally retarded, or phyiscally retarded. A bit of both maybe :neutral:

[Ash_s2002]

ZING!!!

He just called you mentally retarded, or phyiscally retarded. A bit of both maybe :neutral:
:neutral: :rolleyes:

[PuNjabi_RaNi*]

"Love is amazing... it's beautiful. But what is the point of love if you can't be with the person you fall in love with all because of stupid beliefs? There is no point. "

^^^

Jaz 100% agree with you on that, fuckin shame you cant be with the person you fall in love with because of beliefs :no: all that effort then its gone. Society wont ever change, unless we ourselves take a step forward.

[LokiLaufeyson]

"Love is amazing... it's beautiful. But what is the point of love if you can't be with the person you fall in love with all because of stupid beliefs? There is no point. "

^^^

Jaz 100% agree with you on that, fuckin shame you cant be with the person you fall in love with because of beliefs :no: all that effort then its gone. Society wont ever change, unless we ourselves take a step forward.

Question is, Do you have the bottle go against society? :google:

I say fuck society and tradition, they hold us back.

[sexxichic2envy]

Wow, i too have an high opinion of myself, and call myself god on more than one occasion.

:werd:

Best thing since the dawn of man :cool:
LOL
LLO
OLL

[sexxichic2envy]

how long did that take to type?
Not long. My finger muscles work quick. Masterbating makes for great hand exercise. :yes:

[yo2344]

You're a fob. It'd be hard talking to you.

lol, i got owned. I learn my lesson.

[sexxichic2envy]

Yesssir. Your skin = more lickable than Aishes.
Other parts are just as lickable... :naughty:

[PuNjabi_RaNi*]

Question is, Do you have the bottle go against society? :google:

I say fuck society and tradition, they hold us back.

To be honest, yes i do :| society are the one's who inflict opinions and try to change or use religion as a excuse for every single damn thing.

I believe in my religion for what it really is - Teaching equality. I dont believe in people fuckin it up :no:

[sexxichic2envy]

lol, i got owned. I learn my lesson.
LOL@ admitting ownage.

[.Mazzy.]

Other parts are just as lickable... :naughty:
I'd like to come to your bakery then. :neutral:

[yo2344]

LOL@ admitting ownage.


Wat can i say, a real man admits it. I want a group hug now :grouphug:

[sexxichic2envy]

"Love is amazing... it's beautiful. But what is the point of love if you can't be with the person you fall in love with all because of stupid beliefs? There is no point. "

^^^

Jaz 100% agree with you on that, fuckin shame you cant be with the person you fall in love with because of beliefs :no: all that effort then its gone. Society wont ever change, unless we ourselves take a step forward.
Yeah nabs.... it sucks when you have two people deep in love... who can't be together based on a buch of backward mindsets.

I'd challenge this... and I have. But I can't ask someone to sacrifice everything for me... including family.. I can't be that selfish.

It sucks that we have Sikh people who rely on Kundalis to determine their life partner...... :neutral:

[sexxichic2envy]

I'd like to come to your bakery then. :neutral:
Come on in baby.... you'll find everything here except rolls and muffin tops. You can batter my batter any day.... :eyebrow:

[.Mazzy.]

Come on in baby.... you'll find everything here except rolls and muffin tops. You can batter my batter any day.... :eyebrow:
lol.. That's hot; I mean, you're creative. I <3 creativity. How's your creativity when it comes to positions? ;)

[LokiLaufeyson]

To be honest, yes i do :| society are the one's who inflict opinions and try to change or use religion as a excuse for every single damn thing.

I believe in my religion for what it really is - Teaching equality. I dont believe in people fuckin it up :no:

:thumleft:

People are to quick to say they are doing it in the name of religion, dragging their faith though the mud.

[sexxichic2envy]

sexxichic2envy, why are you wasting your time online? since you realize love is pointless, why dont you go find yourself a fuck buddy (err, i mean friend "with benefits", since you desi girls care so very much about calling the same shit with a different name :rolleyes: )?
Number one dude guy, do NOT compare me to other desi girls.... for I've risen above the norm.... I'm not a typical desi chic and do not like being grouped with them.

Second.... if it was about physical satisfaction... I'd ram a dildo inside of me and stroke away until I oozed like a crushed bug.

[sexxichic2envy]

lol.. That's hot; I mean, you're creative. I <3 creativity. How's your creativity when it comes to positions? ;)
I had the creator of the Kama asking ME for tips. :cool:

[PuNjabi_RaNi*]

Yeah nabs.... it sucks when you have two people deep in love... who can't be together based on a buch of backward mindsets.

I'd challenge this... and I have. But I can't ask someone to sacrifice everything for me... including family.. I can't be that selfish.

It sucks that we have Sikh people who rely on Kundalis to determine their life partner...... :neutral:

Yeah it does, that person can have all the qualities you are looking for yet when the matter of religion arises, everyone starts having their piece to say. For us Jaz, our elders think more about the history and what happened back then - yes deep down they are still bitter about it and have reason. But times have changed, people do... we all deserve happniess :dunno:

Its hard, because its not just about one individual, but more bout family etc... list goes on.

[.Mazzy.]

I had the creator of the Kama asking ME for tips. :cool:
[Insert a kitten's attempt at being mean] Is flexibility an asset? :neutral:

[PuNjabi_RaNi*]

:thumleft:

People are to quick to say they are doing it in the name of religion, dragging their faith though the mud.

Religion isnt seen for what it really is - i bet those who use it as a excuse havent got the first clue about it lol.

One thing about sikhism is that, guru nanak preached about mankind, equality and peace towards everyone - how i wish more people would think like that :no:

[sexxichic2envy]

Yeah it does, that person can have all the qualities you are looking for yet when the matter of religion arises, everyone starts having their piece to say. For us Jaz, our elders think more about the history and what happened back then - yes deep down they are still bitter about it and have reason. But times have changed, people do... we all deserve happniess :dunno:

Its hard, because its not just about one individual, but more bout family etc... list goes on.
Exactly. This could be the one person that completes you, understands you, and genuinely loves you... but then the family (which only wants your supposed happiness) comes in the way and tells you it can't happen. It's not even a matter of religion in this case. It's a matter of people letting FUCKIN ASTROLOGY tell them that we WON'T LAST. And because Pundit Ji says it's a no go.........we have to call a quits. Insaaf kithay gaya!??

[sexxichic2envy]

i just did. what now? :rambo:

go for it. if you need a coupon code to adam and eve, holla.
Nothing. But it felt empowering just to post that to the guy in green. :lol:

I may need more than a coupon code... i have a whole wish list. Wanna help a fellow RD'er out?

[surface2air]

I made a love thread too!!! :hyper:

do i get a cookie?

[PuNjabi_RaNi*]

Exactly. This could be the one person that completes you, understands you, and genuinely loves you... but then the family (which only wants your supposed happiness) comes in the way and tells you it can't happen. It's not even a matter of religion in this case. It's a matter of people letting FUCKIN ASTROLOGY tell them that we WON'T LAST. And because Pundit Ji says it's a no go.........we have to call a quits. Insaaf kithay gaya!??

Jaz, i have never liked the whole pandit thing :no: out of anyone in my family, im against it. My gran however does believe in it :dunno: one person's kismat should not be told by another - yet leave it in the hands of God. What path we take is on our own two feet. We have to go through the ups and downs ourselves, screw bull crap predictions :| exactly insaaf kithay gaya/

[LokiLaufeyson]

Religion isnt seen for what it really is - i bet those who use it as a excuse havent got the first clue about it lol.

One thing about sikhism is that, guru nanak preached about mankind, equality and peace towards everyone - how i wish more people would think like that :no:

Well, the thing with religion is that it's open for interpretation. People just think differently.

That would never happen, humans are not humble enough to be like that. There is something within us that is our downfall. Greed, power and all that crap.

I personally think, we should kill all humans :Paper:

[PuNjabi_RaNi*]

Well, the thing with religion is that it's open for interpretation. People just think differently.

That would never happen, humans are not humble enough to be like that. There is something within us that is our downfall. Greed, power and all that crap.

I personally think, we should kill all humans :Paper:

Lol man i get what you mean - we all have those certain flaws about us :|

[sexxichic2envy]

I made a love thread too!!! :hyper:

do i get a cookie?
Haha no you get a razor. I'll call you when it's time to slit wrists.

[Space-Cowboy]

Oh yeah!

Some people say my love cannot be true
Please believe me, my love, and I'll show you
I will give you those things you thought unreal
The sun, the moon, the stars all bear my seal



Follow me now and you will not regret,
leaving the life you led before we met
You are the first to have this love of mine
Forever with me 'till the end of time


Now I have you with me, under my power
Our love grows stronger now with every hour
Look into my eyes, and you will see who I am
MY name is Lucifer, please take my hand



Your love for me has just got to be real before you know the way I'm going to feel I'm going to feel I'm going to feel

[yo2344]

Haha no you get a razor. I'll call you when it's time to slit wrists.



damn girl, no mercy

[LokiLaufeyson]

Lol man i get what you mean - we all have those certain flaws about us :|

We? Speak for yourself, i am bloody brilliant :mrhappy:

Seriously, we all know our flaws, it's whether you choose to get rid of those, although humans will always find a flaw within ourselves. Perfection is a myth.

[sexxichic2envy]

Jaz, i have never liked the whole pandit thing :no: out of anyone in my family, im against it. My gran however does believe in it :dunno: one person's kismat should not be told by another - yet leave it in the hands of God. What path we take is on our own two feet. We have to go through the ups and downs ourselves, screw bull crap predictions :| exactly insaaf kithay gaya/
I never believed in it either, but his family does. It was the one phase we had to pass.... everything else would've been sorted out somehow.

I believe (d) the same thing.... that it's all in God's hands. We shouldn't base our lives on what someone has predicted for us. If we were supposed to know what tomorrow held.....we would. But as humans we're also responsible for making our own destiny......but some people can't grasp that. They fear life... and so they let someone else determine where they're going...

Sorry if that didn't make sense... i tend to ramble sometimes. :ashamed:

[PuNjabi_RaNi*]

We? Speak for yourself, i am bloody brilliant :mrhappy:

Seriously, we all know our flaws, it's whether you choose to get rid of those, although humans will always find a flaw within ourselves. Perfection is a myth.

Lol @ bloody brilliant :slap: :lol:

Aye, it is a choice to get rid of those flaws, more like taking a ton off your shoulders. Its crazy how much society can pressure one individual.. seriously sometimes there is no escape lol - its like a open free jail.

[sexxichic2envy]

Oh yeah!

Some people say my love cannot be true
Please believe me, my love, and I'll show you
I will give you those things you thought unreal
The sun, the moon, the stars all bear my seal



Follow me now and you will not regret,
leaving the life you led before we met
You are the first to have this love of mine
Forever with me 'till the end of time


Now I have you with me, under my power
Our love grows stronger now with every hour
Look into my eyes, and you will see who I am
MY name is Lucifer, please take my hand



Your love for me has just got to be real before you know the way I'm going to feel I'm going to feel I'm going to feel
Doesn't it suck hearing all these stupid love songs on the radio......

[sexxichic2envy]

damn girl, no mercy
None at all. :)

[Space-Cowboy]

Doesn't it suck hearing all these stupid love songs on the radio......


It's Black Sabbath... read it again, it's anything BUT a love song.... :firedevi:

[*CUTIEE*]

lol you may be on the same boat as me. I say we put those girls in a timecapsule and bury them. Let the future generation worry about them. I really do wish I had a penis... it'd make life so much easier. A penis solves everything innit?it solves ALOT of problems..but it CREATES alot of problems aswell...if ya get what im saying :p ;)

[LokiLaufeyson]

Lol @ bloody brilliant :slap: :lol:

Aye, it is a choice to get rid of those flaws, more like taking a ton off your shoulders. Its crazy how much society can pressure one individual.. seriously sometimes there is no escape lol - its like a open free jail.

Well it's true...i don't lie. infact, bloody brilliant, is just degrading to myself if anything. I am better than that. :|

I don't bow to the pressure of society, or give in. It'll go against the person i am. Fuck society, i am a shepherd. :Paper:

[sexxichic2envy]

It's Black Sabbath... read it again, it's anything BUT a love song.... :firedevi:
:razz: I didnt say IT was a love song. I was just asking a question in general because your post reminded me of it. hahaha

[surface2air]

Haha no you get a razor. I'll call you when it's time to slit wrists.too late this shit is flowing out like a fountain...

If you can find it in your heart to love every person and look beyond their imperfections and silly annoying things they do (like picking their nose while I m trying to eat a greek salad :mad: ) then you have truly understood love.
Love is all.

[.Mazzy.]

:razz: I didnt say IT was a love song. I was just asking a question in general because your post reminded me of it. hahaha
I'te lubely. Me = outty. Ttyl. :love:

[PuNjabi_RaNi*]

I never believed in it either, but his family does. It was the one phase we had to pass.... everything else would've been sorted out somehow.

I believe (d) the same thing.... that it's all in God's hands. We shouldn't base our lives on what someone has predicted for us. If we were supposed to know what tomorrow held.....we would. But as humans we're also responsible for making our own destiny......but some people can't grasp that. They fear life... and so they let someone else determine where they're going...

Sorry if that didn't make sense... i tend to ramble sometimes. :ashamed:

:kiss:

Yeah i guess it does matter on the other person as well - we all have to compromise. You are right, there are those who do fear life :| hence they want to know where it will end up going. What is the point of living, if you cant handle what will or wont happen.

As you mentioned, yes destiny can be made by ourselves, and it can be changed. I hate regrets to be honest..i dont want to die with regrets :|.

[Arshy]

:kiss:

Yeah i guess it does matter on the other person as well - we all have to compromise. You are right, there are those who do fear life :| hence they want to know where it will end up going. What is the point of living, if you cant handle what will or wont happen.

As you mentioned, yes destiny can be made by ourselves, and it can be changed. I hate regrets to be honest..i dont want to die with regrets :|.
how you doing lazy ass? ;)

[PuNjabi_RaNi*]

how you doing lazy ass? ;)

Lol oye tu hai lazy :p

hey arshy :hug: im not bad thanks, hows you boxer sahib?

[sexxichic2envy]

i've seen your pictures (the ones you've posted). so if thats you :boink: :buttsex:

i can hook you up with free shipping too. hmm... 20% off, a free gift with any purchase, free shipping... i don't know if any body can hook you up with something better than that. :cool2:
hahaha yeaaaa that's me. :cuddle:

Free s & h?? Oh, now you're talking!! Ok so, you've made a great proposal. Now tell me, what types of toys do you offer?? I'm not talking handcuffs and furry shoes... those are so 1980's. It's 07..... I need something that can stimulate the punani as well as tickle the butthole.

[TheSkyIsBlue]

i pray to god i never fall in love in my life...ever :neutral:

[sexxichic2envy]

qft
:ashamed:

[sexxichic2envy]

i pray to god i never fall in love in my life...ever :neutral:
i used to do the same.

[sexxichic2envy]

:kiss:

Yeah i guess it does matter on the other person as well - we all have to compromise. You are right, there are those who do fear life :| hence they want to know where it will end up going. What is the point of living, if you cant handle what will or wont happen.

As you mentioned, yes destiny can be made by ourselves, and it can be changed. I hate regrets to be honest..i dont want to die with regrets :|.
I guess now I can write my book on how to be an emo man in a hot woman's body. :no:

[nayeemx33]

What's love got to do, got to do with it
What's love but a second hand emotion
What's love got to do, got to do with it
Who needs a heart when a heart can be broken

[Chocolateee]

You got this one life... Don't shut all doors.

[sexxichic2envy]

im not selling anything, y0. its adam and eve. you've never heard of em? :o and i thought you're one of hte enlightened ones. :no:

i think you're talking about a 5x triple pleasure. you can also get a rabbit and a bullet. :dunno:
I am enlightened.........but I go to "The Love Shack" :lol:

I've seen the rabbit and bullet......... it's not as advanced as I'd like. :neutral: Highly disappointing......... TRUST ME :anxious:

[TheVanityAffair]

Well, honestly I woudln't let my family or whoever force me into being with someone I DON'T love. We all love eachother, so sure I may love this guy....but ONLY as a person. I guess that's easier said than done, to actually go against your family to be with the one man you love. But then agian, your family is also Love. Love's everywhere :neutral: It helps me get through each and every single day :]

Btw, I love that pink.

[sexxichic2envy]

Well, honestly I woudln't let my family or whoever force me into being with someone I DON'T love. We all love eachother, so sure I may love this guy....but ONLY as a person. I guess that's easier said than done, to actually go against your family to be with the one man you love. But then agian, your family is also Love. Love's everywhere :neutral: It helps me get through each and every single day :]

Btw, I love that pink.
Yeah... it's a tug of war between duty to one's family....and love. Fackin hell mayne.

I'm done being forced into things.... this situation is sorta different.

And thanks! Pink was the closest I could get to red......:lol:

[sexxichic2envy]

oh ok. never heard of it.

there are like eleventy million different versions of the rabbit. which one did you use? the bullet is useful and handy, and serves its purpose. i didnt say its something revolutionary, just that with the rabbit, it will get the job done for you.
I had the beaver......the butterfly which straps around you waist....and many, many more. (I'm a pervert)

I need to patent an invention. I'll create the ultimate sex toy...... everyone in the world will be placing bids on it. I'll only make 10 though..... and let people offer me millions for it...... yeah it'll be THAT good.....

It'll be so good..... clubs which were once filled with men and women searching for a sex buddy, will be vacant.

Yes... I have a dream. :salut:

[sexxichic2envy]

ok, dr king.
How dare you reply with 3 words and a comma? :slap:

[sunrize]

It's those who are forunate that find TRUE love. It's the greatest feeling in the world to envelop yourself in someone else's life.. to share their happiness and pain... to be their sole source of comfort.

Love is amazing... it's beautiful. But what is the point of love if you can't be with the person you fall in love with all because of stupid beliefs? There is no point.

Many a time I hear the saying: It's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all.

If you ask me... that's bullshit... Why would you want to go through that pain?? Wouldn't you be better off not loving rather than giving your all for something, only to have it taken away once you've grown dependent on it?

Love is a war....... a neverending war... it swallows you like the black plague...it diminishes your soul entirely......and it kills you internally while you're forced to live, breathe and face it.

I'd rather brand my ass with "Fuck Off" than love someone.

Yes... this is me being emo. Allow me.

What's your take on it?? Diss & Cuss
Everything you say is true - and it really hurts when you are not with the person you want to be with.

[TheVanityAffair]

Yeah... it's a tug of war between duty to one's family....and love. Fackin hell mayne.

I'm done being forced into things.... this situation is sorta different.

And thanks! Pink was the closest I could get to red......:lol:

Well, if you have the heart to...do what YOU want to do. It'll be the only way that you truly are HAPPY. Do it for yourself, not for others, there's a difference between doing it for someone else, and doing it because of them.

Hah, pink is cool :] I like. I'd take pink over red any day =P

[sexxichic2envy]

Everything you say is true - and it really hurts when you are not with the person you want to be with.
Hurts like a big black man taking a white girl's virginity. :yes:



:tears:

[sexxichic2envy]

no pics, no care. :hand:
:squint: You've seen pics.......

[sexxichic2envy]

Well, if you have the heart to...do what YOU want to do. It'll be the only way that you truly are HAPPY. Do it for yourself, not for others, there's a difference between doing it for someone else, and doing it because of them.

Hah, pink is cool :] I like. I'd take pink over red any day =P
I have the heart...... but he doesn't. He loves his mother and can't bear to put her through pain.....which I can understand and I wouldn't ask him to choose.

It only takes 25 bucks..... join me and we shall reign supreme. :lollol:

[sexxichic2envy]

MAZZY COME BACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i miss jue :tears:

[larki_jatti]

Love hurts but the happy times make the pain worth it. As long as everything works out in the end, I don't care how much pain/problems i run into on the way due to different beliefs etc like you said

[larki_jatti]

Yeah... it's a tug of war between duty to one's family....and love. Fackin hell mayne.

I'm done being forced into things.... this situation is sorta different.

And thanks! Pink was the closest I could get to red......:lol:

dude, i know too well what you're talkin about

[sexxichic2envy]

Love hurts but the happy times make the pain worth it. As long as everything works out in the end, I don't care how much pain/problems i run into on the way due to different beliefs etc like you said
I agree. But would you say it's worth it to go through the pain and then lose that person.....when you know you two have a relationship so perfect that people envy it......? When you know your love is true?

[sexxichic2envy]

dude, i know too well what you're talkin about
You share a similar experience?

[larki_jatti]

I agree. But would you say it's worth it to go through the pain and then lose that person.....when you know you two have a relationship so perfect that people envy it......? When you know your love is true?
If the love is true, I wouldn't give it up. It would hurt like crazy if the other person wants to give it up though, cuz they don't wanna deal with the drama/pain involved.

I'm not sure what your experience is, but by the sounds of it my experience is identical to yours, except i'm in your bfs position.

[sexxichic2envy]

what desi girl doesn't? :rolleyes: its their battle cry.
:lol: Stop being a penis

[TheVanityAffair]

I have the heart...... but he doesn't. He loves his mother and can't bear to put her through pain.....which I can understand and I wouldn't ask him to choose.

It only takes 25 bucks..... join me and we shall reign supreme. :lollol:

Oh, that's the problem :neutral: :hug: Well, I'm glad you're able to understand that. And I think that...I don't know maybe if he really wanted it badly then he would have came around. I'm not trying to make you feel bad or say he doesn't love you. I don't know you two, and I'm not going to say he doesn't love you ya know? But you should NEVER have to ask him to choose. That's going too far. That's a decision he has to make on his own, his decision will have his ups and downs. And if chooses that over you, then it's something he'll just have to live with for the rest of his life, unfortunately, you also do too :hug:

25$ Sorry, I don't work. Too bad my I only volunteer :dunno: I had paid subscription on my other username, but that's only because someone bought it for me :lol: One day I signed on to see I was orange :shock:

[larki_jatti]

on top? :o
hells yeah

[sexxichic2envy]

If the love is true, I wouldn't give it up. It would hurt like crazy if the other person wants to give it up though, cuz they don't wanna deal with the drama/pain involved.

I'm not sure what your experience is, but by the sounds of it my experience is identical to yours, except i'm in your bfs position.
Wow.. I'm sorry to hear that hun.

well... I'm willing to give up everything and anything. And after realizing we can't be together... and after trying to stay positive.. i finally told him that it's better off to end things. But he refuses... he says we'll find a way.

The situation is... his family believes in horoscope matching (kundali matching).. it's supposed to determine whether you'll have a happy married life or whatnot. His pundit told him that if we get married we'll end up in divorce. What's worse is...the pundit says he will marry the next girl he falls in love with... who he predicted he will meet in 3 weeks. 3 WEEKS!

I've sacrificed alot to be with him simply because I know our love is true.... but he says his mother strongly believes in this and he can't go against her... (and unless they'd matched, there is no way we could be together) which i completely understand and i wouldn't want a man who'd turn against his mother anyway. But he doesn't want to end things. He says we need to keep faith and things will somehow work out on their own.

[sexxichic2envy]

sexist :hand:
I can't be a sexist against men. Read my title.

[sexxichic2envy]

hells yeah
btw are you two of the same religion?

[larki_jatti]

Wow.. I'm sorry to hear that hun.

well... I'm willing to give up everything and anything. And after realizing we can't be together... and after trying to stay positive.. i finally told him that it's better off to end things. But he refuses... he says we'll find a way.

The situation is... his family believes in horoscope matching (kundali matching).. it's supposed to determine whether you'll have a happy married life or whatnot. His pundit told him that if we get married we'll end up in divorce. What's worse is...the pundit says he will marry the next girl he falls in love with... who he predicted he will meet in 3 weeks. 3 WEEKS!

I've sacrificed alot to be with him simply because I know our love is true.... but he says his mother strongly believes in this and he can't go against her... (and unless they'd matched, there is no way we could be together) which i completely understand and i wouldn't want a man who'd turn against his mother anyway. But he doesn't want to end things. He says we need to keep faith and things will somehow work out on their own.
Do you think he's being honest and sincere? Or do you think it's possible for him to fall in love and marry someone in 3 weeks? Are the both of you the same religion?
I wish these things had a simple answer.. but there isn't any. If I were you though, I'd stick around for a little while at least, and see if there is potential for anything. It's good that he doesnt wanna hurt his parents, but who is he living for? If its true love, his parents should understand and let you to live your lives (and face the consequences too, hopefully not including divorce).

My situation is that I am Muslim, and my parents only believe in arranged marriage. My bf is christian, but willing to become Muslim (he studied it when he first met me, before we started dating) and my parents STILL WON'T accept him. It's bs. So he told me that I would have to choose, and he doesnt wanna be a homewrecker and pull me away from my parents, but he also wants to be with me more than anything in the world. And he knows its MY decision. I packed most of my stuff this morning, cuz he wants me to come live with him. I'm scared though, cuz it's like an irreversible decision. :Ohno:
I hope everything works out for the two of you baby girl :hug:

[sexxichic2envy]

Oh, that's the problem :neutral: :hug: Well, I'm glad you're able to understand that. And I think that...I don't know maybe if he really wanted it badly then he would have came around. I'm not trying to make you feel bad or say he doesn't love you. I don't know you two, and I'm not going to say he doesn't love you ya know? But you should NEVER have to ask him to choose. That's going too far. That's a decision he has to make on his own, his decision will have his ups and downs. And if chooses that over you, then it's something he'll just have to live with for the rest of his life, unfortunately, you also do too :hug:

25$ Sorry, I don't work. Too bad my I only volunteer :dunno: I had paid subscription on my other username, but that's only because someone bought it for me :lol: One day I signed on to see I was orange :shock:
Yeah, I would NEVER ask him to choose btwn me and his mother. That's not love... because I know he'd be miserable away from her... and as someone who loves him... I'd rather him stay with her and be happy...

You can always find another chic, but not another mother. His mother has been through alot... which is why he said he could give anything for me... but he can't sacrifice her... and i told him i wouldn't want him to.

HAHHAAHA i wish someone had bought me a subscription!! :tears: That was 25 bucks of hard earned cash.....:no:

[TheVanityAffair]

Yeah, I would NEVER ask him to choose btwn me and his mother. That's not love... because I know he'd be miserable away from her... and as someone who loves him... I'd rather him stay with her and be happy...

You can always find another chic, but not another mother. His mother has been through alot... which is why he said he could give anything for me... but he can't sacrifice her... and i told him i wouldn't want him to.

HAHHAAHA i wish someone had bought me a subscription!! :tears: That was 25 bucks of hard earned cash.....:no:

You're a caring person. I'm glad you're not one of those psycho girlfriends :lol: The bond those two share is very special, and it's really really good to hear you understand/appreciate it. I'm sure you can get through it, just need to be strong. Keep your head up high :] There's going to be many other things in life that you'll encounter which may make this now seem minor as opposed to other problems.

Haha, it was weird. I don't even know why he bought it for me :dunno: Sadly, I don't even use that username anymore. Well, that wasn't 25$ it was only $10, lol

[insomniac987]

It's those who are forunate that find TRUE love. It's the greatest feeling in the world to envelop yourself in someone else's life.. to share their happiness and pain... to be their sole source of comfort.

Love is amazing... it's beautiful. But what is the point of love if you can't be with the person you fall in love with all because of stupid beliefs? There is no point.

Many a time I hear the saying: It's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all.

If you ask me... that's bullshit... Why would you want to go through that pain?? Wouldn't you be better off not loving rather than giving your all for something, only to have it taken away once you've grown dependent on it?

Love is a war....... a neverending war... it swallows you like the black plague...it diminishes your soul entirely......and it kills you internally while you're forced to live, breathe and face it.

I'd rather brand my ass with "Fuck Off" than love someone.

Yes... this is me being emo. Allow me.

What's your take on it?? Diss & Cuss

very well put....i agree

[SpicyBrownRapper]

It's those who are forunate that find TRUE love. It's the greatest feeling in the world to envelop yourself in someone else's life.. to share their happiness and pain... to be their sole source of comfort.

Love is amazing... it's beautiful. But what is the point of love if you can't be with the person you fall in love with all because of stupid beliefs? There is no point.

Many a time I hear the saying: It's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all.

If you ask me... that's bullshit... Why would you want to go through that pain?? Wouldn't you be better off not loving rather than giving your all for something, only to have it taken away once you've grown dependent on it?

Love is a war....... a neverending war... it swallows you like the black plague...it diminishes your soul entirely......and it kills you internally while you're forced to live, breathe and face it.

I'd rather brand my ass with "Fuck Off" than love someone.

Yes... this is me being emo. Allow me.

What's your take on it?? Diss & Cuss


Its a sense of security, a sense of feeling you've found the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. It really bothers me when someone puts forth a question like "what is the point of love?" because I feel like those questions only emerge from someone who's single (obviously) or someone who's never been in love. Or maybe from a person who's not at the point in life where he starts thinking about love/marriage/family/children. I think any sane person would want to eventually spread his seed and start a family. Well, to have that, one would ideally need to get to the point where you want to start a family with someone you love, you're not going to start it with some bum you picked up on the side of the street. So really, the point of love is to find someone you can spend the rest of the life with, and not end up turning into a miserable fuck with no family.

[sexxichic2envy]

Do you think he's being honest and sincere? Or do you think it's possible for him to fall in love and marry someone in 3 weeks? Are the both of you the same religion?
I wish these things had a simple answer.. but there isn't any. If I were you though, I'd stick around for a little while at least, and see if there is potential for anything. It's good that he doesnt wanna hurt his parents, but who is he living for? If its true love, his parents should understand and let you to live your lives (and face the consequences too, hopefully not including divorce).

My situation is that I am Muslim, and my parents only believe in arranged marriage. My bf is christian, but willing to become Muslim (he studied it when he first met me, before we started dating) and my parents STILL WON'T accept him. It's bs. So he told me that I would have to choose, and he doesnt wanna be a homewrecker and pull me away from my parents, but he also wants to be with me more than anything in the world. And he knows its MY decision. I packed most of my stuff this morning, cuz he wants me to come live with him. I'm scared though, cuz it's like an irreversible decision. :Ohno:
I hope everything works out for the two of you baby girl :hug:
OMG........:hug:You poor thing. This must be sooo tough on you. It sucks that he's willing to convert for you yet your family still can't see past society norms and accept him. I'm really really sorry to hear that... but you know what...eventually they'll come around. Afterall, you're their daughter. (i know how family rejection feels. I've been told I should've been aborted and my family offered me the poison to kill myself)

I know he's sincere. Of anybody i've ever know... no one has loved me like he has and does. The pundit didnt say he'd marry in 3 weeks or fall in love... he'll meet her in 3...and eventually the rest will follow. It's heart breaking to even imagine the man i love with someone else.

You're taking a big step... and i commend you for not giving up on love. It's hard to go against family.......but you have to live for you and make yourself happy before you can make others happy. I'm only a pm away if you ever need to talk. I sincerely hope that things work out for you. :kiss:

[UnevenButtocks]

OMG........:hug:You poor thing. This must be sooo tough on you. It sucks that he's willing to convert for you yet your family still can't see past society norms and accept him. I'm really really sorry to hear that... but you know what...eventually they'll come around. Afterall, you're their daughter. (i know how family rejection feels. I've been told I should've been aborted and my family offered me the poison to kill myself)

I know he's sincere. Of anybody i've ever know... no one has loved me like he has and does. The pundit didnt say he'd marry in 3 weeks or fall in love... he'll meet her in 3...and eventually the rest will follow. It's heart breaking to even imagine the man i love with someone else.

You're taking a big step... and i commend you for not giving up on love. It's hard to go against family.......but you have to live for you and make yourself happy before you can make others happy. I'm only a pm away if you ever need to talk. I sincerely hope that things work out for you. :kiss:


what the damn, I almost dropped my soda reading that, wtf, what kinda family do you have, how can they do that to their kid?! :neutral:

[larki_jatti]

OMG........:hug:You poor thing. This must be sooo tough on you. It sucks that he's willing to convert for you yet your family still can't see past society norms and accept him. I'm really really sorry to hear that... but you know what...eventually they'll come around. Afterall, you're their daughter. (i know how family rejection feels. I've been told I should've been aborted and my family offered me the poison to kill myself)

I know he's sincere. Of anybody i've ever know... no one has loved me like he has and does. The pundit didnt say he'd marry in 3 weeks or fall in love... he'll meet her in 3...and eventually the rest will follow. It's heart breaking to even imagine the man i love with someone else.

You're taking a big step... and i commend you for not giving up on love. It's hard to go against family.......but you have to live for you and make yourself happy before you can make others happy. I'm only a pm away if you ever need to talk. I sincerely hope that things work out for you. :kiss:
Yeah it kills him too, cuz he's the most loving person, and doesn't pass judgements or hate people.. and then to be rejected jsut because he's white baffles him. It makes my family look horrible to him too, and that hurts. I wish there was some magical answer. :(
Wow wtf, why are desi parents so unreasonable. Family is supposed to be the closest thing.. yet look at how many problems we have. :no: What could you possibly have done to make your parents so upset?
Does your bf believe in waht the pundit said? I believe we are in charge of our own destinies, and we hafta take it into our own hands. You two seem to have something special.. I can't imagine letting it go.. :( AND FUCK NO, ID RATHER NEVER HAVE LOVED AT ALL THAN LOVED AND LOST. idiot whoever made that saying up :|
yeah, i'm gonna pm you in a bit cuz theres details id rahter not say here :hug:

[Echelon]

LoL! You bitches are seriously fucked up. I'm glad my psycho analytical skills are up a notch so i can detect which bitches i should associate with and which ones i should ignore.

[nayeemx33]

OMG........:hug:You poor thing. This must be sooo tough on you. It sucks that he's willing to convert for you yet your family still can't see past society norms and accept him. I'm really really sorry to hear that... but you know what...eventually they'll come around. Afterall, you're their daughter. (i know how family rejection feels. I've been told I should've been aborted and my family offered me the poison to kill myself)


:eek:

[Echelon]

like who?I'm talking about in real life over RateDesi.
I dont mind associating with fucked up bitches on RD because generally they're more likely to get their gear off on webcam and there is no liability on my part.

[harvey_mayway]

It's those who are forunate that find TRUE love. It's the greatest feeling in the world to envelop yourself in someone else's life.. to share their happiness and pain... to be their sole source of comfort.

Love is amazing... it's beautiful. But what is the point of love if you can't be with the person you fall in love with all because of stupid beliefs? There is no point.

Many a time I hear the saying: It's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all.

If you ask me... that's bullshit... Why would you want to go through that pain?? Wouldn't you be better off not loving rather than giving your all for something, only to have it taken away once you've grown dependent on it?

Love is a war....... a neverending war... it swallows you like the black plague...it diminishes your soul entirely......and it kills you internally while you're forced to live, breathe and face it.

I'd rather brand my ass with "Fuck Off" than love someone.

Yes... this is me being emo. Allow me.

What's your take on it?? Diss & Cuss



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[Arshy]

Lol oye tu hai lazy :p

hey arshy :hug: im not bad thanks, hows you boxer sahib?
not well at all, i drank a whole bottle of mango lassi and then realised it was past it's sell by date...

i feel sick right now, no wonder it tasted a little zesty...
damn... :mad:

[sexxichic2envy]

You're a caring person. I'm glad you're not one of those psycho girlfriends :lol: The bond those two share is very special, and it's really really good to hear you understand/appreciate it. I'm sure you can get through it, just need to be strong. Keep your head up high :] There's going to be many other things in life that you'll encounter which may make this now seem minor as opposed to other problems.

Haha, it was weird. I don't even know why he bought it for me :dunno: Sadly, I don't even use that username anymore. Well, that wasn't 25$ it was only $10, lol
LOL @ psycho gf....... nahhhh... I've seen my share of psychos.. I'd rather not fall into that category. I don't have a mother so I can sympathize with him... Thanks for the support... :hug:

What was your other username??

[sexxichic2envy]

very well put....i agree
Thank You. I love the way I word things. :lol:

[Arshy]

Thank You. I love the way I word things. :lol:
so do i... :Pelvic2:

[sexxichic2envy]

what the damn, I almost dropped my soda reading that, wtf, what kinda family do you have, how can they do that to their kid?! :neutral:
They give new meaning to the words :dysfunctional & psychotic :no:

[desi_uk]

to find love you need an open mind and heart

love grows

[UnevenButtocks]

They give new meaning to the words :dysfunctional & psychotic :no:


Are you still living with them?

That's just crazy, how can someone do that to their own blood :no:

[sexxichic2envy]

Its a sense of security, a sense of feeling you've found the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. It really bothers me when someone puts forth a question like "what is the point of love?" because I feel like those questions only emerge from someone who's single (obviously) or someone who's never been in love. Or maybe from a person who's not at the point in life where he starts thinking about love/marriage/family/children. I think any sane person would want to eventually spread his seed and start a family. Well, to have that, one would ideally need to get to the point where you want to start a family with someone you love, you're not going to start it with some bum you picked up on the side of the street. So really, the point of love is to find someone you can spend the rest of the life with, and not end up turning into a miserable fuck with no family.
Spicy, my love... you missed the whole point. I have loved........and lost. Hence the thread. :no:

[Echelon]

Fuck, look at all these sob stories, they make me cry not because they elicit sadness but because they are pathetic.

All you bitches need to learn a fact in life, if you're with someone who's not fully into you, then you should gain some dignity and leave them, period.
Perhaps you should give them chances here and there to get their act together, but honestly, it's going to reach a level where your relationship is nothing more than a charade and you're wasting valuable time.
The only way to get over shit is to stop being such emo queens, pick yourself up and look for potential suitors. Relationships are based on investments, potential candidates are like business proposals, bitches are commodities. If an investment goes bad you try and do things to rectify the issue, but if its pathetic you bail. You find other opportunities.

Quit living in the past and discussing it amongst other emos.

[larki_jatti]

Its a sense of security, a sense of feeling you've found the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. It really bothers me when someone puts forth a question like "what is the point of love?" because I feel like those questions only emerge from someone who's single (obviously) or someone who's never been in love. Or maybe from a person who's not at the point in life where he starts thinking about love/marriage/family/children. I think any sane person would want to eventually spread his seed and start a family. Well, to have that, one would ideally need to get to the point where you want to start a family with someone you love, you're not going to start it with some bum you picked up on the side of the street. So really, the point of love is to find someone you can spend the rest of the life with, and not end up turning into a miserable fuck with no family.
:rofl:

[UnevenButtocks]

Fuck, look at all these sob stories, they make me cry not because they elicit sadness but because they are pathetic.

All you bitches need to learn a fact in life, if you're with someone who's not fully into you, then you should gain some dignity and leave them, period.
Perhaps you should give them chances here and there to get their act together, but honestly, it's going to reach a level where your relationship is nothing more than a charade and you're wasting valuable time.
The only way to get over shit is to stop being such emo queens, pick yourself up and look for potential suitors. Relationships are based on investments, potential candidates are like business proposals, bitches are commodities. If an investment goes bad you try and do things to rectify the issue, but if its pathetic you bail. You find other opportunities.

Quit living in the past and discussing it amongst other emos.

You have a point there, but I don't think you really paid attention to what they said when you read their posts. Try again, snookems?:)

And stop calling girls bitches, you're only putting yourself down.

Your potatoes in my cabbage soup?:D

[larki_jatti]

Fuck, look at all these sob stories, they make me cry not because they elicit sadness but because they are pathetic.

All you bitches need to learn a fact in life, if you're with someone who's not fully into you, then you should gain some dignity and leave them, period.
Perhaps you should give them chances here and there to get their act together, but honestly, it's going to reach a level where your relationship is nothing more than a charade and you're wasting valuable time.
The only way to get over shit is to stop being such emo queens, pick yourself up and look for potential suitors. Relationships are based on investments, potential candidates are like business proposals, bitches are commodities. If an investment goes bad you try and do things to rectify the issue, but if its pathetic you bail. You find other opportunities.

Quit living in the past and discussing it amongst other emos.
this is not about not 'fully being into someone'

its about uncontrollable problems that don't have anything to do with the two of you aka race, religion, family etc. nothing pathetic about that, and it doesnt mean you ditch the person and look for someone else. it means you work through it

[sexxichic2envy]

so do i... :Pelvic2:
:eyebrow: Oh yea??

[UnevenButtocks]

this is not about not 'fully being into someone'

its about uncontrollable problems that don't have anything to do with the two of you aka race, religion, family etc. nothing pathetic about that, and it doesnt mean you ditch the person and look for someone else. it means you work through it


Does he live by himself, how are you going to move in with him? I sure hope this works out for you guys.

[SpicyBrownRapper]

Spicy, my love... you missed the whole point. I have loved........and lost. Hence the thread. :no:

Ok, baby, I read it now. I usually just go by the subject line.

Love is amazing... it's beautiful. But what is the point of love if you can't be with the person you fall in love with all because of stupid beliefs? There is no point.

If someone is not willing to compromise for love, then its not love at all.

IMO, love comes before a lot of aspects of your beliefs, be it religion (which I'm gonna guess is what this is directed towards) and you've got to be able to make sacrifices and compromises, likewise for the guy. You two have got to reach a middle ground on things that you might not agree with, and thats where love starts.

Falling madly for someone doesn't mean its love, love is something experienced between two people who are on the same page, and are willing to do some things that you otherwise might not have done.

[Arshy]

:eyebrow: Oh yea??
don't take me there... :D

[larki_jatti]

Does he live by himself, how are you going to move in with him? I sure hope this works out for you guys.
yeah he's been living on his own since he was 18 :)
I've met his parents, they live like a couple streets away from him. he just likes being independent and doing everything for himself
he's asked me to move in with him a couple times.. thank you, i know it'll work :)

[larki_jatti]

Ok, baby, I read it now. I usually just go by the subject line.



If someone is not willing to compromise for love, then its not love at all.

IMO, love comes before a lot of aspects of your beliefs, be it religion (which I'm gonna guess is what this is directed towards) and you've got to be able to make sacrifices and compromises, likewise for the guy. You two have got to reach a middle ground on things that you might not agree with, and thats where love starts.

Falling madly for someone doesn't mean its love, love is something experienced between two people who are on the same page, and are willing to do some things that you otherwise might not have done.
amen :salut:

[Echelon]

You have a point there, but I don't think you really paid attention to what they said when you read their posts. Try again, snookems?:)

And stop calling girls bitches, you're only putting yourself down.

Your potatoes in my cabbage soup?:DNaw, I've read what i needed to read to conclude how emo this shit is.

I mean seriously, its amazing how much people lack dignity in relationships but when they're single they're totally pretentious (like a lot of desi girls) -- they wouldn't even let God touch their clit.
And.. when they realise how dumb they have been and how much time they've wasted and how a guy's hand has been up their asses playing with their emotions.. their self esteem deteriorates even further..
Then they get all emo and defensive and they dickblock for ages. Til another man with enough charm comes along and plays with their emotions. Its a never ending cycle.

Girls never learn, its why mean exploit them and its why men are classified as 'jerks'.

Bitches, bitches, bitches - Is famous from the 70's, basically it means girls who are dependent or puppets to a "pimp". I use bitches underline girls who are vulnerable or are a puppet to emotions/persons/ideals. It may or may not have sexual connotations of slut etc. I dont mind peoples misintepretations as long as the expression in my mind is 'clear'.

[UnevenButtocks]

yeah he's been living on his own since he was 18 :)
I've met his parents, they live like a couple streets away from him. he just likes being independent and doing everything for himself
he's asked me to move in with him a couple times.. thank you, i know it'll work :)


I'll pray for you guys...at least the other set of parents doesn't mind.


Those look like wedding pics in your sig ;)

[sexxichic2envy]

Yeah it kills him too, cuz he's the most loving person, and doesn't pass judgements or hate people.. and then to be rejected jsut because he's white baffles him. It makes my family look horrible to him too, and that hurts. I wish there was some magical answer. :(
Wow wtf, why are desi parents so unreasonable. Family is supposed to be the closest thing.. yet look at how many problems we have. :no: What could you possibly have done to make your parents so upset?
Does your bf believe in waht the pundit said? I believe we are in charge of our own destinies, and we hafta take it into our own hands. You two seem to have something special.. I can't imagine letting it go.. :( AND FUCK NO, ID RATHER NEVER HAVE LOVED AT ALL THAN LOVED AND LOST. idiot whoever made that saying up :|
yeah, i'm gonna pm you in a bit cuz theres details id rahter not say here :hug:
ok hun...we'll talk via pm

[sexxichic2envy]

LoL! You bitches are seriously fucked up. I'm glad my psycho analytical skills are up a notch so i can detect which bitches i should associate with and which ones i should ignore.
Dude.... get your penis out of a knot. This thread is NOT about loving someone who doesn't love you as much. It's about two people loving each other equally yet going through crap because of society, family, religion, etc.

R-E-A-D

[Echelon]

this is not about not 'fully being into someone'

its about uncontrollable problems that don't have anything to do with the two of you aka race, religion, family etc. nothing pathetic about that, and it doesnt mean you ditch the person and look for someone else. it means you work through itI've realised that but again, you're still a puppet to your famil/culture/religion.
You're not fully independant, you have mindset that subconsciously thinks about the thoughts of others and how they'll react to your current relationship.
You're bitching about it constantly.

The only reason why your family/religion/culture is even playing a part in this is because you're not the one in control.
Had you been far more independant, the decisions which you find difficult to make, would be much much easier.

[UnevenButtocks]

Naw, I've read what i needed to read to conclude how emo this shit is.

I mean seriously, its amazing how much people lack dignity in relationships but when they're single they're totally pretentious (like a lot of desi girls) -- they wouldn't even let God touch their clit.
And.. when they realise how dumb they have been and how much time they've wasted and how a guy's hand has been up their asses playing with their emotions.. their self esteem deteriorates even further..
Then they get all emo and defensive and they dickblock for ages. Til another man with enough charm comes along and plays with their emotions. Its a never ending cycle.

Girls never learn, its why mean exploit them and its why men are classified as 'jerks'.

Bitches, bitches, bitches - Is famous from the 70's, basically it means girls who are dependent or puppets to a "pimp". I use bitches underline girls who are vulnerable or are a puppet to emotions/persons/ideals. It may or may not have sexual connotations of slut etc. I dont mind peoples misintepretations as long as the expression in my mind is 'clear'.


But that's not always the case and I don't think it's the case here but even if it was maybe we all need to make some mistakes before we learn our lessons. It's easy for you to say what you say when you're not in a situation like this, but it's hard to think that way when you're heartbroken and can't stop thinking about the other person.


and..."they wouldn't even let God touch their clit" :D you iz nasty

[larki_jatti]

I'll pray for you guys...at least the other set of parents doesn't mind.


Those look like wedding pics in your sig ;)
That's very sweet of you :hug:. Yeah, he's very fortunate. His parents support his every decision. He's like, "I could go burn down a house, and my parents would have my back.. they wouldn't 'disown' me... I can't understand how its possible for parents to disown their own children.. it doesnt make any sense."
He's right eh.


:shhh: my sig is suppposed to be subtle, only thedude (& now you) hav figured it out so far :p

[sexxichic2envy]

Naw, I've read what i needed to read to conclude how emo this shit is.

I mean seriously, its amazing how much people lack dignity in relationships but when they're single they're totally pretentious (like a lot of desi girls) -- they wouldn't even let God touch their clit.
And.. when they realise how dumb they have been and how much time they've wasted and how a guy's hand has been up their asses playing with their emotions.. their self esteem deteriorates even further..
Then they get all emo and defensive and they dickblock for ages. Til another man with enough charm comes along and plays with their emotions. Its a never ending cycle.

Girls never learn, its why mean exploit them and its why men are classified as 'jerks'.

Bitches, bitches, bitches - Is famous from the 70's, basically it means girls who are dependent or puppets to a "pimp". I use bitches underline girls who are vulnerable or are a puppet to emotions/persons/ideals. It may or may not have sexual connotations of slut etc. I dont mind peoples misintepretations as long as the expression in my mind is 'clear'.
You're so off the topic at hand. This isn't about women who fall for guys who are playing them. I'm not stupid, nor vulnerable... yet at the end of the day I'm human and I have loved as any human does, will, or has. I think you've had fucked up experiences with women yourself and so you use that as a baseline to talk down to other women or make assumptions.

[larki_jatti]

I've realised that but again, you're still a puppet to your famil/culture/religion.
You're not fully independant, you have mindset that subconsciously thinks about the thoughts of others and how they'll react to your current relationship.
You're bitching about it constantly.

The only reason why your family/religion/culture is even playing a part in this is because you're not the one in control.
Had you been far more independant, the decisions which you find difficult to make, would be much much easier.
of course Im not fully independent of family/religion/culture. Im human, after all.
you sound like people should get over relationships like we're robots or something.
guess what, in real life, things dont work like that

[sexxichic2envy]

Are you still living with them?

That's just crazy, how can someone do that to their own blood :no:
I live with my father.

It's the whole: Girls are a burden thing.

They hate that I have all non desi friends.... they hate that I'm independent... they hate that I feel a woman should be educated and free to choose who she loved and live as she wishes.

[Echelon]

But that's not always the case and I don't think it's the case here but even if it was maybe we all need to make some mistakes before we learn our lessons. It's easy for you to say what you say when you're not in a situation like this, but it's hard to think that way when you're heartbroken and can't stop thinking about the other person.


and..."they wouldn't even let God touch their clit" :D you iz nastyThis is bullshit, i've had girls try to play games with me to ensure i don't "cheat" when i've never been in a relationship and cheated.
Girls play petty games because they don't have a proper conscience during a relationship that they become totally wrapt in awe to the point that they have to stop and use tactics on how to ensure 'he doesn't think im some slut to fuck around with'.

I can easily read females who toy with me and try and be pretentious. I stop and wonder and look in the mirror and say "look at me im a pretty boy with lots of money, im the most handsome desi bachelor ever, why would this bitch try and pretend she's too good for me".
Then i stop talking to them and realise that they were foolish.
A few months later i get abused by her friends for being a jerk and not giving 'her' enough attention.

I belive in being mutual, not a slave. Theres no chance i'll ever get whipped, my ego is just too big.

[UnevenButtocks]

That's very sweet of you :hug:. Yeah, he's very fortunate. His parents support his every decision. He's like, "I could go burn down a house, and my parents would have my back.. they wouldn't 'disown' me... I can't understand how its possible for parents to disown their own children.. it doesnt make any sense."
He's right eh.


:shhh: my sig is suppposed to be subtle, only thedude (& now you) hav figured it out so far :p


WHOAAAA!!! Congrats!! :kiss: :dance3: :dance3: In that case, I encourage the move in :D

[larki_jatti]

WHOAAAA!!! Congrats!! :kiss: :dance3: :dance3: In that case, I encourage the move in :D
:mrhappy: thankkkkkkk youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu :dance2: balleballe

[Echelon]

of course Im not fully independent of family/religion/culture. Im human, after all.
you sound like people should get over relationships like we're robots or something.
guess what, in real life, things dont work like thatThis is coming from someone who decided to be a subconscious rebel and go out with a whiteboy.
I also recall your fetish for that fobby looking short indian dude in a thread a few months ago. You have some serious psychological issues which need to be addressed.


But granted, i'll say this, if you were independant:
1-Family, if you were your own lady and took hold of your life (grab destiny by its horns), progressively throughout your entire life, you'd subliminally be moving away from the grasp of your compuslive parents. This may entail wealth financially, doing things independantly, being mature. My parents were always conservative, but ive managed to be totally independant without any of their help.
2-Religion, piety is one thing, but ultra-piety is another. I think religion should be interpreted for its poetry and art, not necessarily its dogmatic fear enducing notion of going to hell/judgement blah blah.
3-Culture, I only consider the art and colour of culture, the traditional aspects as long as they dont oppress individuals.

[larki_jatti]

This is bullshit, i've had girls try to play games with me to ensure i don't "cheat" when i've never been in a relationship and cheated.
Girls play petty games because they don't have a proper conscience during a relationship that they become totally wrapt in awe to the point that they have to stop and use tactics on how to ensure 'he doesn't think im some slut to fuck around with'.

I can easily read females who toy with me and try and be pretentious. I stop and wonder and look in the mirror and say "look at me im a pretty boy with lots of money, im the most handsome desi bachelor ever, why would this bitch try and pretend she's too good for me".
Then i stop talking to them and realise that they were foolish.
A few months later i get abused by her friends for being a jerk and not giving 'her' enough attention.

I belive in being mutual, not a slave. Theres no chance i'll ever get whipped, my ego is just too big.
wow you are something. maybe the girls aren't playin games, girls like and need attention. i wouldnt be surprised if the same ego you boastfully talk about today, is the reason you end up lonely and unhappy

[nayeemx33]

Do you think he's being honest and sincere? Or do you think it's possible for him to fall in love and marry someone in 3 weeks? Are the both of you the same religion?
I wish these things had a simple answer.. but there isn't any. If I were you though, I'd stick around for a little while at least, and see if there is potential for anything. It's good that he doesnt wanna hurt his parents, but who is he living for? If its true love, his parents should understand and let you to live your lives (and face the consequences too, hopefully not including divorce).

My situation is that I am Muslim, and my parents only believe in arranged marriage. My bf is christian, but willing to become Muslim (he studied it when he first met me, before we started dating) and my parents STILL WON'T accept him. It's bs. So he told me that I would have to choose, and he doesnt wanna be a homewrecker and pull me away from my parents, but he also wants to be with me more than anything in the world. And he knows its MY decision. I packed most of my stuff this morning, cuz he wants me to come live with him. I'm scared though, cuz it's like an irreversible decision. :Ohno:
I hope everything works out for the two of you baby girl :hug:

Does your husband have to be a paki?
Anyways good luck to you.

[Shh! Dont tell]

It's those who are forunate that find TRUE love. It's the greatest feeling in the world to envelop yourself in someone else's life.. to share their happiness and pain... to be their sole source of comfort.

Love is amazing... it's beautiful. But what is the point of love if you can't be with the person you fall in love with all because of stupid beliefs? There is no point.

Many a time I hear the saying: It's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all.

If you ask me... that's bullshit... Why would you want to go through that pain?? Wouldn't you be better off not loving rather than giving your all for something, only to have it taken away once you've grown dependent on it?

Love is a war....... a neverending war... it swallows you like the black plague...it diminishes your soul entirely......and it kills you internally while you're forced to live, breathe and face it.

I'd rather brand my ass with "Fuck Off" than love someone.

Yes... this is me being emo. Allow me.

What's your take on it?? Diss & CussWord.



I rather not love at all then to love someone and not have them. :(




:hug: I like emo-ness.

[Echelon]

You're so off the topic at hand. This isn't about women who fall for guys who are playing them. I'm not stupid, nor vulnerable... yet at the end of the day I'm human and I have loved as any human does, will, or has. I think you've had fucked up experiences with women yourself and so you use that as a baseline to talk down to other women or make assumptions.This is bullshit, you're not "vulnerable".
Being in love is vulnerable.
Not everyone has experienced love.

My assumptions are coming from your emo-state.

[UnevenButtocks]

This is bullshit, i've had girls try to play games with me to ensure i don't "cheat" when i've never been in a relationship and cheated.
Girls play petty games because they don't have a proper conscience during a relationship that they become totally wrapt in awe to the point that they have to stop and use tactics on how to ensure 'he doesn't think im some slut to fuck around with'.

I can easily read females who toy with me and try and be pretentious. I stop and wonder and look in the mirror and say "look at me im a pretty boy with lots of money, im the most handsome desi bachelor ever, why would this bitch try and pretend she's too good for me".
Then i stop talking to them and realise that they were foolish.
A few months later i get abused by her friends for being a jerk and not giving 'her' enough attention.

I belive in being mutual, not a slave. Theres no chance i'll ever get whipped, my ego is just too big.

Maybe so...

But think you're being blinded by your ego. You think you have it all together and are so smart, but you don't and you're not. And you're not happy either. Happy people don't spend so much time writing paragraphs on how their argument is better than others, like you do on your regular basis. You'll (as in YOU, echelon) never be in a mutual relationship because you're too used to looking for faults in other people, and convincing others you're better than them and when you do that, you ruin things.

[Shh! Dont tell]

Oh wait is this about the pundit?


Is he still saying that crap?

[larki_jatti]

This is coming from someone who decided to be a subconscious rebel and go out with a whiteboy.
I also recall your fetish for that fobby looking short indian dude in a thread a few months ago. You have some serious psychological issues which need to be addressed.


But granted, i'll say this, if you were independant:
1-Family, if you were your own lady and took hold of your life (grab destiny by its horns), progressively throughout your entire life, you'd subliminally be moving away from the grasp of your compuslive parents. This may entail wealth financially, doing things independantly, being mature. My parents were always conservative, but ive managed to be totally independant without any of their help.
2-Religion, piety is one thing, but ultra-piety is another. I think religion should be interpreted for its poetry and art, not necessarily its dogmatic fear enducing notion of going to hell/judgement blah blah.
3-Culture, I only consider the art and colour of culture, the traditional aspects as long as they dont oppress individuals.
Independence is a long over-due gift that I owe myself. Currently at home, I can't even go to the store alone. You wanna talk about conservative parents. :no: Congrats on being indepedent, Im sure it's a good feeling. :)
I agree with your views on family and culture for the most part, but religion I take a little more seriously.
And LOL that indian dude is my friends fiance. The thread was a joke :lol:. Funny that you remember though

[larki_jatti]

Does your husband have to be a paki?
Anyways good luck to you.
paki & doctor

:no:

[nayeemx33]

paki & doctor

:no:

Tell your bf to become a doctor :p

[UnevenButtocks]

Tell your bf to become a doctor :p


And get a tan :rofl: and grow a beard :rofl:



:neutral:

[nayeemx33]

And get a tan :rofl: and grow a beard :rofl:



:neutral:

Remember they are pakis. Pakis love being fair skin. So the guy has to become a doctor only.


P.S. Are you rich? If so, I'll marry you.

[Shh! Dont tell]

And get a tan :rofl: and grow a beard :rofl:



:neutral:Your back!




:wavey:

[Echelon]

Maybe so...

But think you're being blinded by your ego. You think you have it all together and are so smart, but you don't and you're not. And you're not happy either. Happy people don't spend so much time writing paragraphs on how their argument is better than others, like you do on your regular basis. You'll (as in YOU, echelon) never be in a mutual relationship because you're too used to looking for faults in other people, and convincing others you're better than them and when you do that, you ruin things.
You think you have it all together and are so smart, but you don't and you're not.No one has it 'all together' we live in an ephemeral transitory world where perfection is illusive. However on a comparative scale, im in the upper echelons of having my shit together.

Happy people don't spend so much time writing paragraphs on how their argument is better than othersI'm only persuading you to adhere to my contention because im doing you a favour. I'm a good somaritan you see, and good somaritans are happy people.

I may be blunt, but being blunt is necessary. Just look at the American idol judges, a prime example.

You'll (as in YOU, echelon) never be in a mutual relationship because you're too used to looking for faults in other people, and convincing others you're better than them and when you do that, you ruin things.I disagree, i think the problem with a lot of people in RateDesi and desi's in general are their failure to know how to compromise and reach reasonable tangible targets which are achievable and not just optimistic 'ideals'. Im a pragmatist. I bairly sugar anything. I'm the face of objectivity, babe.

I have my faults and imperfections. I've already admitted im arrogant/cocky/rude/vulgar. Some of the shit i say is satire so you could never really use that for any objective discussion. However on a comparative scale i think i'd be a better suitor for most mutual relationships than 99% of desis. I know how to treat a lady when i see one.

[UnevenButtocks]

Your back!




:wavey:


what, why, is there a spider on it!!?? :neutral:


kidding, hiiiiii :D

[UnevenButtocks]

No one has it 'all together' we live in an ephemeral transitory world where perfection is illusive. However on a comparative scale, im in the upper echelons of having my shit together.

I'm only persuading you to adhere to my contention because im doing you a favour. I'm a good somaritan you see, and good somaritans are happy people.

I may be blunt, but being blunt is necessary. Just look at the American idol judges, a prime example.

I disagree, i think the problem with a lot of people in RateDesi and desi's in general are their failure to know how to compromise and reach reasonable tangible targets which are achievable and not just optimistic 'ideals'. Im a pragmatist. I bairly sugar anything. I'm the face of objectivity, babe.

I have my faults and imperfections. I've already admitted im arrogant/cocky/rude/vulgar. Some of the shit i say is satire so you could never really use that for any objective discussion. However on a comparative scale i think i'd be a better suitor for most mutual relationships than 99% of desis. I know how to treat a lady when i see one.

omg, there is hope for you after all, you didn't use "bitch" once in that entire post. Oh babyyyy :kiss:

And you're not going me a favor because I am not and have never been in love and it's not a big deal to me right now, but I can see your point.

[UnevenButtocks]

Remember they are pakis. Pakis love being fair skin. So the guy has to become a doctor only.


P.S. Are you rich? If so, I'll marry you.


Yes, financially and physically.

Are you studying to become a doctor?

You can't be fair because I am TOO fair. ;)


PS call me ahahha not

[Echelon]

omg, there is hope for you after all, you didn't use "bitch" once in that entire post. Oh babyyyy :kiss:

And you're not going me a favor because I am not and have never been in love and it's not a big deal to me right now, but I can see your point.Well im glad you see the light, maybe the others will quit bein' so emo and take control of their lives.

[sexxichic2envy]

Oh wait is this about the pundit?


Is he still saying that crap?
:yes: :(

[sexxichic2envy]

Word.



I rather not love at all then to love someone and not have them. :(




:hug: I like emo-ness.
I need a hug and some rough sex.

[sexxichic2envy]

This is bullshit, you're not "vulnerable".
Being in love is vulnerable.
Not everyone has experienced love.
My assumptions are coming from your emo-state.
Which is why I said does, WILL or HAS loved.

Eh, think what you want. As an outsider looking in, it's easy to talk shit. I have no more to say on the subject because you obviously believe you know how women are. And me being someone who isn't normally emo..... i don't have the balls to retalliate. plus, i'm drunk.

[Shh! Dont tell]

what, why, is there a spider on it!!?? :neutral:


kidding, hiiiiii :DHeylo!


Hows ur contispation going? *last time I talked to you was over that*

[Shh! Dont tell]

:yes: :(And your parents are buying it?



Is this even a proper pundit? Like does he ask for money, or even hint about it?

[Shh! Dont tell]

I need a hug and some rough sex.:hug:






Kamre mein aajaa! :eyebrow:

[sexxichic2envy]

And your parents are buying it?



Is this even a proper pundit? Like does he ask for money, or even hint about it?
i only have a father. and he doesn't know... and nor would accept because my baby is ramgarhia and i'm jatt. :no:

supposedly this pundit is someone his family has been using for the past 15 years. kaceyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy hold me.

[Shh! Dont tell]

i only have a father. and he doesn't know... and nor would accept because my baby is ramgarhia and i'm jatt. :no:

supposedly this pundit is someone his family has been using for the past 15 years. kaceyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy hold me.Woah!


I'm Tharkan... like him! woo. Okay enough of my celebration. *I havent met/heard of a fellow tharkan*


Awww... Does he believe in it? Is there anyway around it?

[Shh! Dont tell]

Like with me... I cant marry before 25, or get married to the first risthay or guy I find cause he'll die. I cant reverse mine.. or do anything to make it work in my favor... but for some if you do some "uppahs" I guess they are called, the pundit could make it work in your favor.




:hug: I wish I could hug you and comfort you. If you need someone to talk...I'll be more than happy to give out my number to you.

[ladoo20]

No one has it 'all together' we live in an ephemeral transitory world where perfection is illusive. However on a comparative scale, im in the upper echelons of having my shit together.

I'm only persuading you to adhere to my contention because im doing you a favour. I'm a good somaritan you see, and good somaritans are happy people.

I may be blunt, but being blunt is necessary. Just look at the American idol judges, a prime example.

I disagree, i think the problem with a lot of people in RateDesi and desi's in general are their failure to know how to compromise and reach reasonable tangible targets which are achievable and not just optimistic 'ideals'. Im a pragmatist. I bairly sugar anything. I'm the face of objectivity, babe.

I have my faults and imperfections. I've already admitted im arrogant/cocky/rude/vulgar. Some of the shit i say is satire so you could never really use that for any objective discussion. However on a comparative scale i think i'd be a better suitor for most mutual relationships than 99% of desis. I know how to treat a lady when i see one.

i could not agree with you more. compromise is something can save a relationship. however we are reluctant to compromise because it involves sacrifice, and we are scared of sacrificing because we are selfish human beings who just want to recieve.

[Arshy]

Like with me... I cant marry before 25, or get married to the first risthay or guy I find cause he'll die. I cant reverse mine.. or do anything to make it work in my favor... but for some if you do some "uppahs" I guess they are called, the pundit could make it work in your favor.




:hug: I wish I could hug you and comfort you. If you need someone to talk...I'll be more than happy to give out my number to you.
i need a shoulder to lean on too.... :)

[Shh! Dont tell]

i need a shoulder to lean on too.... :)lol



Awww...whats your dealio? :hug:

[Arshy]

lol



Awww...whats your dealio? :hug:
my wrist hurts.... :D

[ladoo20]

my wrist hurts.... :D

you said the same to me :mad:


trying to get attention i see;)

[Arshy]

you said the same to me :mad:


trying to get attention i see;)
errr excuse me...i asked you what you were wearing...and you nearly gave me a thappar... :)

[Arshy]

you said the same to me :mad:


trying to get attention i see;)
oh i rememba now, but you gave me no luv... :(

[Shh! Dont tell]

my wrist hurts.... :D:lol: Apply some ice to it and dont put any pressure on it.




:kiss: A kiss for your wrist.



*hey, it sorta rhymed.*

[Imperfectionist]

:mad:

[Shh! Dont tell]

you said the same to me :mad:


trying to get attention i see;)Hey, your back. :lol:

[Arshy]

:lol: Apply some ice to it and dont put any pressure on it.




:kiss: A kiss for your wrist.



*hey, it sorta rhymed.*
oh wow she get's your phone number
and all i get is ice treatment....i see how it works now

and yes it did rhyme .... :neutral:

[ladoo20]

Hey, your back. :lol:
eh not rly just post whenever something looks interesting
i'm about to go get waxed, need to kill an hour


sigh

[ladoo20]

oh i rememba now, but you gave me no luv... :(

cuz you were faking it :hand:

[Arshy]

cuz you were faking it :hand:
wow....
no more stripping for you...that's it :mad:

Daydream delusion
Limousine Eyelash
Oh, baby with your pretty face
Drop a tear in my wine glass

[RacingSoul]

uh huh...

[Shh! Dont tell]

oh wow she get's your phone number
and all i get is ice treatment....i see how it works now

and yes it did rhyme .... :neutral:
:p


Sorry.

[cipher108z]

"Love Is A Trick Mother Nature Plays On Us Just For Us To Reproduce"

basically Its A Chemical Imbalance....just Lyke Any Other Drug And Once You Get Tried Or Tolerant....you Find A New Drug....samething Applies For Love

[BoO bOo]

It's those who are forunate that find TRUE love. It's the greatest feeling in the world to envelop yourself in someone else's life.. to share their happiness and pain... to be their sole source of comfort.

Love is amazing... it's beautiful. But what is the point of love if you can't be with the person you fall in love with all because of stupid beliefs? There is no point.

Many a time I hear the saying: It's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all.

If you ask me... that's bullshit... Why would you want to go through that pain?? Wouldn't you be better off not loving rather than giving your all for something, only to have it taken away once you've grown dependent on it?

Love is a war....... a neverending war... it swallows you like the black plague...it diminishes your soul entirely......and it kills you internally while you're forced to live, breathe and face it.

I'd rather brand my ass with "Fuck Off" than love someone.

Yes... this is me being emo. Allow me.

What's your take on it?? Diss & Cuss

:werd: nikkkaa

love is a beautiful feeling coz u know someone is there thinkin of you and care for you. :(

[deepdeeps]

Love has done this to me: :tears:

[SillyKitty]

It's those who are forunate that find TRUE love. It's the greatest feeling in the world to envelop yourself in someone else's life.. to share their happiness and pain... to be their sole source of comfort.

Love is amazing... it's beautiful. But what is the point of love if you can't be with the person you fall in love with all because of stupid beliefs? There is no point.

Many a time I hear the saying: It's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all.

If you ask me... that's bullshit... Why would you want to go through that pain?? Wouldn't you be better off not loving rather than giving your all for something, only to have it taken away once you've grown dependent on it?

Love is a war....... a neverending war... it swallows you like the black plague...it diminishes your soul entirely......and it kills you internally while you're forced to live, breathe and face it.

I'd rather brand my ass with "Fuck Off" than love someone.

Yes... this is me being emo. Allow me.

What's your take on it?? Diss & Cuss


*sigh*

My motto is..

its better to NEVER love at all then to go through the pain that comes with it..



its sucky.. and makes ur life a living hell

love is confusing..
its like a drug.. u will get addicted to it.. and the person.. even when u know its bad..

and u have to get a daily dose of it or that person.. lol



so who ever knws how to get over it.. is the true champion :cool:

[T.Dimera]

*sigh*

My motto is..

its better to NEVER love at all then to go through the pain that comes with it..



its sucky.. and makes ur life a living hell

love is confusing..
its like a drug.. u will get addicted to it.. and the person.. even when u know its bad..

and u have to get a daily dose of it or that person.. lol



so who ever knws how to get over it.. is the true champion :cool:

you're still young...when you meet the right mature guy....i'm confident you'll be singing a different tune