What would you do if..

[Juuulia]

Okay, so I was at a friend's party.. and I met this guy.
Didn't know how old he was, he didn't know how old I was (18).

I'm the type of person who can go for months without guy/girl physical contact, but when I want it, I want it. Haha.

So it turns out we found ourselves together, there was a connection of some sort.. and we ended up making out. Nothing much, just hugging/kissing type thing.

He does the typical guy thing and slips me his number and e-mail in my hand before we left.

I go home and find out he's dated two of my friend's sisters, and another friend, and that he is... *gulp* in his thirties!!! .. I thought he was the age of my friends whom he said he knew: 26- which would not have been so bad.

Anyway, I figure, you know what, fine. It happened, I don't need to e-mail him.

.. then, chico e-mails me (yesterday) and says, basically that it was good to meet me and if i want to keep in touch to e-mail him.

I kind of still feel like I should just not write to him, too many complications..

On the other hand, given his age, and the fact that we did makeout, that I owe him an e-mail, otherwise he'll think I just use people.Haha. *bad influence from my brother, i swear, i don't do i often!! lol

I feel kind of obligated.. because he wrote to me.

I think that he might ask to meet me again, or go on a date, in which case, I would have to spill the details about him being that old, my age, and that I'm not interested in a relationship at this point.. which might get complicated.

Here's the tricky part.. I might bump into him several times this month in Toronto, because there are events that we're planning to go to, and it's kind of a big group of friends..

What would you do?

a) Email him back. If so, what do I say. "Yeah, it was great making out with you, too."

b) Don't. Just make out with him again or avoid him next time you see him.

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[suhailio]

Do you like him?, if yes & you don't mind about his age, then carry on see'ing him.

If not, then tell him to fuck off & next time he tries contacting you, you will pop a cap in his ass, or will get someone to do it.

End of discussion.

[Juuulia]

Do you like him?, if yes & you don't mind about his age, then carry on see'ing him.

If not, then tell him to fuck off & next time he tries contacting you, you will pop a cap in his ass, or will get someone to do it.

End of discussion.
well..

I don't like him as in boyfriend/relationship type. He was good at the physical contact though. lol.

I wouldn't want to "see him" as in date him, but I wouldn't mind seeing him in reality, or not. Either way would be fine for me.

That's the hard part. I'm very neutral when it comes to seeing him, but I don't want to date him. I'm not sure whether or not I should write to him or not :dunno:

[suhailio]

well..

I don't like him as in boyfriend/relationship type. He was good at the physical contact though. lol.

I wouldn't want to "see him" as in date him, but I wouldn't mind seeing him in reality, or not. Either way would be fine for me.

That's the hard part. I'm very neutral when it comes to seeing him, but I don't want to date him. I'm not sure whether or not I should write to him or not :dunno:

In other words, you just want to meet him for some no strings attached action. Believe it or not, but that's the truth.

[UnevenButtocks]

Okay, so I was at a friend's party.. and I met this guy.
Didn't know how old he was, he didn't know how old I was (18).

I'm the type of person who can go for months without guy/girl physical contact, but when I want it, I want it. Haha.

So it turns out we found ourselves together, there was a connection of some sort.. and we ended up making out. Nothing much, just hugging/kissing type thing.

He does the typical guy thing and slips me his number and e-mail in my hand before we left.

I go home and find out he's dated two of my friend's sisters, and another friend, and that he is... *gulp* in his thirties!!! .. I thought he was the age of my friends whom he said he knew: 26- which would not have been so bad.

Anyway, I figure, you know what, fine. It happened, I don't need to e-mail him.

.. then, chico e-mails me (yesterday) and says, basically that it was good to meet me and if i want to keep in touch to e-mail him.

I kind of still feel like I should just not write to him, too many complications..

On the other hand, given his age, and the fact that we did makeout, that I owe him an e-mail, otherwise he'll think I just use people.Haha. *bad influence from my brother, i swear, i don't do i often!! lol

I feel kind of obligated.. because he wrote to me.

I think that he might ask to meet me again, or go on a date, in which case, I would have to spill the details about him being that old, my age, and that I'm not interested in a relationship at this point.. which might get complicated.

Here's the tricky part.. I might bump into him several times this month in Toronto, because there are events that we're planning to go to, and it's kind of a big group of friends..

What would you do?

a) Email him back. If so, what do I say. "Yeah, it was great making out with you, too."

b) Don't. Just make out with him again or avoid him next time you see him.

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That's nasty, he's too old for you and only wants you for booty. Don't get involved unless you don't mind giving it up to someone who seems to be a manwhore and who only wants you for the sexin'. And wtf you move fast, I remember how innocent you were when you first started posting on here. Wait, is he the one who gave you them ugly ass hickies?:lol:

[Juuulia]

In other words, you just want to meet him for some no strings attached action. Believe it or not, but that's the truth.
Yes.. and no. (haha typical indian answer) accompained with a head shake. lol

I mean, this isn't a common, daily, or even monthly practice for me. So I don't "need" to and nor to I "want" to.

However, if given the opportunity, and I felt like it... perhaps, yes.

But it's not something I'm going to try to set up. Or try to get him to. I'd rather not, and if it happens, it happens. I don't go all the way with people, either. lol.

You haven't answered the e-mail question though..

[Juuulia]

That's nasty, he's too old for you and only wants you for booty. Don't get involved unless you don't mind giving it up to someone who seems to be a manwhore and who only wants you for the sexin'. And wtf you move fast, I remember how innocent you were when you first started posting on here. Wait, is he the one who gave you them ugly ass hickies?:lol:
Hahaha

No no.. I'm innocent. I don't even need to post an angel emoticon. lol.

See, I'm probably considered bad by my good friends, and good by my 'bad' friends. That's how it works..

But the thing is.. I know that if your first moments/interactions with a person are physical, the person doesn't like you for who you are, they just want you, exactly, for booty. haha.

If I'm on the same boat though, in this case, where yeah, I don't want a relationship right now, and especially not with this guy, haha, but it was kind of nice being together without having to explain anything.

So maybe I should quit while I'm ahead? haha.. but he did write to me.. *guilt*

[UnevenButtocks]

Hahaha

No no.. I'm innocent. I don't even need to post an angel emoticon. lol.

See, I'm probably considered bad by my good friends, and good by my 'bad' friends. That's how it works..

But the thing is.. I know that if your first moments/interactions with a person are physical, the person doesn't like you for who you are, they just want you, exactly, for booty. haha.

If I'm on the same boat though, in this case, where yeah, I don't want a relationship right now, and especially not with this guy, haha, but it was kind of nice being together without having to explain anything.

So maybe I should quit while I'm ahead? haha.. but he did write to me.. *guilt*

Exactly. If he was able to get a kiss so soon after meeting you then at this point he's probably thinking he can get a lot more the next time he sees you and you don't want to find yourself in that situation.

You don't have to write him back at all (remember, you don't owe anyone anything, especially a stranger) but if you really do feel like you have to reply to him then just say something generic that doesn't invite a reply back. Although, your reply, regardless of how crappy it is would only be an invite for him to try again at least one more time after that. But really, don't reply. You know what he's after, so why would you dignify his intention with a reply? If you see him again flat out deny you ever got his email.

[Fatty4life]

So you got a hickie by a 30 year old? Not so hot anymore, is it? :|

[RajaMag]

the answer is friends with benefits

[Areez_UK_HUSTLER]

the answer is friends with benefits


:rofl: dilemas dilemas :rofl:

Avoid the whole dilema, by showing me around toronto when I come out on the 1st! ;-)

:rofl:

[NedFlanders]

Okay, so I was at a friend's party.. and I met this guy.
Didn't know how old he was, he didn't know how old I was (18).

I'm the type of person who can go for months without guy/girl physical contact, but when I want it, I want it. Haha.

So it turns out we found ourselves together, there was a connection of some sort.. and we ended up making out. Nothing much, just hugging/kissing type thing.

He does the typical guy thing and slips me his number and e-mail in my hand before we left.

I go home and find out he's dated two of my friend's sisters, and another friend, and that he is... *gulp* in his thirties!!! .. I thought he was the age of my friends whom he said he knew: 26- which would not have been so bad.

Anyway, I figure, you know what, fine. It happened, I don't need to e-mail him.

.. then, chico e-mails me (yesterday) and says, basically that it was good to meet me and if i want to keep in touch to e-mail him.

I kind of still feel like I should just not write to him, too many complications..

On the other hand, given his age, and the fact that we did makeout, that I owe him an e-mail, otherwise he'll think I just use people.Haha. *bad influence from my brother, i swear, i don't do i often!! lol

I feel kind of obligated.. because he wrote to me.

I think that he might ask to meet me again, or go on a date, in which case, I would have to spill the details about him being that old, my age, and that I'm not interested in a relationship at this point.. which might get complicated.

Here's the tricky part.. I might bump into him several times this month in Toronto, because there are events that we're planning to go to, and it's kind of a big group of friends..

What would you do?

a) Email him back. If so, what do I say. "Yeah, it was great making out with you, too."

b) Don't. Just make out with him again or avoid him next time you see him.

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I think (based on your comments) you not keen to take this any further.
Ideal would have been if it ended there and you both never heard from each other. But he mailed you already.

So, my suggestion is mail him back, but make it clear that was a once off and that its best to leave it like that.

If you chose just to ignore the dude, you are gonna run into him sooner or later and its going to be awkward.

My 2cents!

Now Wheres my cookies??

[DasJa]

Email him, but tell him he was bad at wat he did, u've had better...and if he really wants a li'l some some...he will get u flowers and dinner! Ofcourse if he does indeed gets u flowers n dinner...u'll hafta give him some "love me long time - sucky sucky" action :cheers:
I'm sure I helped. My work here is done!

[jassika]

if u wanna do him again then write back, if not then dont.

i find it really stupid that ur even considering the word "relationship" here. dont be thinkin that u used him cause its not like he asked u out or anything. if he's like 30 and expects to go out with u then ur a loser for hooking up with that much of a loser

[musicchic33]

:rofl:

I just stopped at 30s.

[gorjuzkuri]

email him...and see what happens from there on out...and if he tries to make another move or what not...try to imply or infer that u sort of feel uncomfortable with him. simple. :D

[PakPlaya69]

Okay, so I was at a friend's party.. and I met this guy.
Didn't know how old he was, he didn't know how old I was (18).

I'm the type of person who can go for months without guy/girl physical contact, but when I want it, I want it. Haha.

So it turns out we found ourselves together, there was a connection of some sort.. and we ended up making out. Nothing much, just hugging/kissing type thing.

He does the typical guy thing and slips me his number and e-mail in my hand before we left.

I go home and find out he's dated two of my friend's sisters, and another friend, and that he is... *gulp* in his thirties!!! .. I thought he was the age of my friends whom he said he knew: 26- which would not have been so bad.

Anyway, I figure, you know what, fine. It happened, I don't need to e-mail him.

.. then, chico e-mails me (yesterday) and says, basically that it was good to meet me and if i want to keep in touch to e-mail him.

I kind of still feel like I should just not write to him, too many complications..

On the other hand, given his age, and the fact that we did makeout, that I owe him an e-mail, otherwise he'll think I just use people.Haha. *bad influence from my brother, i swear, i don't do i often!! lol

I feel kind of obligated.. because he wrote to me.

I think that he might ask to meet me again, or go on a date, in which case, I would have to spill the details about him being that old, my age, and that I'm not interested in a relationship at this point.. which might get complicated.

Here's the tricky part.. I might bump into him several times this month in Toronto, because there are events that we're planning to go to, and it's kind of a big group of friends..

What would you do?

a) Email him back. If so, what do I say. "Yeah, it was great making out with you, too."

b) Don't. Just make out with him again or avoid him next time you see him.

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ur fuked in the head dumb kid , u make out with a 30 plus guy n still feel obliged to email him , far out matee , u ve gota be starving to be makin out with a 30 yr old cunt heh , do urself a favour next u go out ask their age fst be4 u giv som lipservice .

[Canadian_jatti]

dunt email hin and dunt make out with him thas hella old!

[MissAdore]

e-mail him. it's called common courtesy :p

[T.Dimera]

he knew you were 18 eh...interesting....some guys when they get older don't mind going for younger girls....in my case...its older girls and i'm 26 :neutral:

[Juuulia]

An update:

I e-mailed him back out of "responsibility" and "courtesy" and he's e-mailed twice since then, and been in San Francisco for meetings..

Last paragraph of his last corresspondence:

">Hey listen - I was thinking it would be nice to get together sometime.
>Would you be up for that? Aside from looking into your beautiful eyes
>again, we could do something fun/constructive/silly - I have a few
>ideas. I could come by and pick you up in Bradford and we'd go from
>there. Think your brothers would give the 'ok'?"

Haha, so Mr. Geologist doesn't know my age (I'm assuming) and doesn't know that I know his. He's starting to sound date-ish, which is troubling. Haha.

I hate turning guys down because it makes me feel bad, because I always like to stay friends with everyone, or at least be in good books.

[RacingSoul]

Okay, so I was at a friend's party.. and I met this guy.
Didn't know how old he was, he didn't know how old I was (18).

I'm the type of person who can go for months without guy/girl physical contact, but when I want it, I want it. Haha.

So it turns out we found ourselves together, there was a connection of some sort.. and we ended up making out. Nothing much, just hugging/kissing type thing.

He does the typical guy thing and slips me his number and e-mail in my hand before we left.

I go home and find out he's dated two of my friend's sisters, and another friend, and that he is... *gulp* in his thirties!!! .. I thought he was the age of my friends whom he said he knew: 26- which would not have been so bad.

Anyway, I figure, you know what, fine. It happened, I don't need to e-mail him.

.. then, chico e-mails me (yesterday) and says, basically that it was good to meet me and if i want to keep in touch to e-mail him.

I kind of still feel like I should just not write to him, too many complications..

On the other hand, given his age, and the fact that we did makeout, that I owe him an e-mail, otherwise he'll think I just use people.Haha. *bad influence from my brother, i swear, i don't do i often!! lol

I feel kind of obligated.. because he wrote to me.

I think that he might ask to meet me again, or go on a date, in which case, I would have to spill the details about him being that old, my age, and that I'm not interested in a relationship at this point.. which might get complicated.

Here's the tricky part.. I might bump into him several times this month in Toronto, because there are events that we're planning to go to, and it's kind of a big group of friends..

What would you do?

a) Email him back. If so, what do I say. "Yeah, it was great making out with you, too."

b) Don't. Just make out with him again or avoid him next time you see him.

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Haha, best response wins cookies!!

i dont kno but if i saw someone go :blahblah: like that ^ i'd punch the shit outta them.

[vgirl]

reply straight out that you've heard that he's 30 and since you are only 18, you feel thats a bit too old for you to get too closely involved with someone

i don't see whats wrong with saying that. i doubt he's going to be offended cos you say he's too 'old' for u. he is.

[SillyKitty]

I would say NOT to email him..
because he sounds like a player to me..

if he knows how old u are and if he STILL continues to wanna go out with you.. then he is a perv..
Plus he dated 2 of ur other friends? who are what? 18 too? so does this guy date ONLY young girls.. :neutral: ?

thats another sign RIGHT there

[roy_desi]

this is gonna end you getting fucked then crying over why he left you.