So Why don't U wanna GET MARRIED right NOW?

[saxakali]

:sarb:

[aachoudhry]

bc i im too young

[krazii aqqie]

erm. for starters, it's illegal.

[Flow_Motion]

Cause the women here aren't wifey material... They're just for show really...

[junglist215]

erm. for starters, it's illegal.

why are you gay?

[SillyKitty]

Hmm its because, i wanna stay with my parents for ever.. :mrgreen:


PLUS i wanna marry someone who i CANT live wid out..

and so far i never met any one like that.
oh and i very much doubt that i ever will..

so no marriage for me..

[saxakali]

Since when? :mad:

erm. for starters, it's illegal.

[saxakali]

in VC or RD?

Cause the women here aren't wifey material... They're just for show really...

[saxakali]

thats A new Desi Attitude :sarb:
bc i im too young

[versatil]

cuz. i just woke up. who the hell wants to get married first thing in the evening?

[Ravaged23]

cuz i think she would want more than just a hallway closet to live in....rent is expensive these days....

[Flow_Motion]

in VC or RD?
In real life... I'm starting to learn that... At the same time... Arranged marriages aren't too appealing to me either...

[aachoudhry]

thats A new Desi Attitude :sarb:

im not your typical desi?

i mean it is young for a guy to get married at 20

im gonna wait for a while

[P4ki4Lyf]

2 young.

[versatil]

watching power rangers mystic force w/ my lil bro. it's quite painful. so i'm watching toei spiderman to counter it (google japanese spiderman and check for a link to pistol wimp).

too busy watching lame ass tv / vids to be bothered to being shaadificated. :hand:

[saxakali]

Oh your a guy...at 20

well naturally
thats understandable :)


im not your typical desi?

i mean it is young for a guy to get married at 20

im gonna wait for a while

[saxakali]

IC..I am amazed...those AM's are still SO COMMON!...as I noticed in the classifieds of these DESI papers :eek:
In real life... I'm starting to learn that... At the same time... Arranged marriages aren't too appealing to me either...

[aachoudhry]

yes

[saxakali]

RITE.. :o Def. sounds too immature for marriage now!

watching power rangers mystic force w/ my lil bro. it's quite painful. so i'm watching toei spiderman to counter it (google japanese spiderman and check for a link to pistol wimp).

too busy watching lame ass tv / vids to be bothered to being shaadificated. :hand:

[TheHibiscus]

Cuz like, I haven't found the PERFECTEST wedding dress and like the caterer said to come back when there's a groom involved.


Bastard.

[saxakali]

You sound like an IDEALIST :o when it coms to marriage...

but you know

Experience is a good teacher :)

Your parents must really like you too... :p

Hmm its because, i wanna stay with my parents for ever.. :mrgreen:


PLUS i wanna marry someone who i CANT live wid out..

and so far i never met any one like that.
oh and i very much doubt that i ever will..

so no marriage for me..

[saxakali]

Isn't the age of consent in NJ like 16?


erm. for starters, it's illegal.

[saxakali]

LOL...you sound very eager :p

Cuz like, I haven't found the PERFECTEST wedding dress and like the caterer said to come back when there's a groom involved.


Bastard.

[SIXPAK GQ]

they dont meet my expectations

[SillyKitty]

You sound like an IDEALIST :o when it coms to marriage...

but you know

Experience is a good teacher :)

Your parents must really like you too... :p

yea i think i am..
Plus i think i dont need someone to complete me and my life.. like marriage or kids..

i am happy just the way i am now..

and about parets.. hmm they are too controlling.. and unconsciously makin me totally dependent on them.. :neutral:

[TheHibiscus]

LOL...you sound very eager :p

Lol. It's the physics I've been studying. Makes me realize that if I could land a position as a trophy wife (lol, land, like on my back, haha), I wouldn't have to do any more physics, EVER.

[saxakali]

aaah..man with HIGH Standards!
no narcissism I take it? :sarb:

they dont meet my expectations

[saxakali]

OK..So its like you're practicing on being a good wife

So you will get a guy who will do everything for you,

while you just sit back

and eat chocolates or have your favorite desert?or be pampered for the rest of your life by him?

Lol. It's the physics I've been studying. Makes me realize that if I could land a position as a trophy wife (lol, land, like on my back, haha), I wouldn't have to do any more physics, EVER.

[papaya]

the only reason i have is.. cuz we are saving money so that when i do get married in FEb of next year.. i can bawl out of control

i saw this beautiful lengha .. it comes out to about 5000 cdn dollars... everyones saying im nuts to buy it.. but "ive got my eyes set on (you) IT"

anyone remember that song... i got my eyes set on you??

[saxakali]

Well I guess you're WORTH IT(and especially for a once-in a-lifetime occasion like this!...

....like that way of planning too...

and yeah I know the song...very UPBEAT late 80's early 90's.. :p

U got SEXY EYES BTW;)

All the B$EST




the only reason i have is.. cuz we are saving money so that when i do get married in FEb of next year.. i can bawl out of control

i saw this beautiful lengha .. it comes out to about 5000 cdn dollars... everyones saying im nuts to buy it.. but "ive got my eyes set on (you) IT"

anyone remember that song... i got my eyes set on you??

[shadyzgal08]

the only reason i have is.. cuz we are saving money so that when i do get married in FEb of next year.. i can bawl out of control

i saw this beautiful lengha .. it comes out to about 5000 cdn dollars... everyones saying im nuts to buy it.. but "ive got my eyes set on (you) IT"

anyone remember that song... i got my eyes set on you??
u mean the jay sean one?? :sarb:

[papaya]

u mean the jay sean one?? :sarb:


No No, No .. its an old 80's song

I got my eyes set on you

[shadyzgal08]

No No, No .. its an old 80's song

I got my eyes set on you
ohh lol :p the only one i kno is the one by that jay sean fag lol

[saxakali]

I think the beatles dude sang this one...not sure if the titles right...

it could be

"I got my mind set on you" :)

similar id
ohh lol :p the only one i kno is the one by that jay sean fag lol

[alphaPAKI]

cause i wanna bang whores and do drugs for at least the next 5-10 years

[PurpLE HeArtS]

Hmm its because, i wanna stay with my parents for ever.. :mrgreen:


PLUS i wanna marry someone who i CANT live wid out..

and so far i never met any one like that.
oh and i very much doubt that i ever will..

so no marriage for me..
thats because u havent MET me. ;)

[kwitcherbitchin]

cause i wanna bang whores and do drugs for at least the next 5-10 years

lol...at least you're considerate enough to do that without getting married.

[alphaPAKI]

lol...at least you're considerate enough to do that without getting married.
woah! never thought of the possibility of just doing both


well i guess its not only that but all the prime poon gets freed up between 27-32, when all the doctors and lawyers become available, those sluts :)

[saxakali]

Oh you're one a those

RISKY RISKY :rolleyes:

just be safe and make sure u don't catch a disease

that might keep u off the marriage market when your ready :sarb:

cause i wanna bang whores and do drugs for at least the next 5-10 years

[alphaPAKI]

Oh you're one a those

RISKY RISKY :rolleyes:

just be safe and make sure u don't catch a disease

that might keep u off the marriage market when your ready :sarb:
i think a disease would just spice things up and give my tool a little more tang then the average guy

[SillyKitty]

thats because u havent MET me. ;)
:p are u sure ?

[saxakali]

As long as you're not bothered being alone...

You're an INDEPENDENT woman as far as that is concerned!

Typical desi parents u have: TOO CONTROLLING! :p

Can say that from experience!




yea i think i am..
Plus i think i dont need someone to complete me and my life.. like marriage or kids..

i am happy just the way i am now..

and about parets.. hmm they are too controlling.. and unconsciously makin me totally dependent on them.. :neutral:

[The Anti Desi]

I want to, but I don't have anyone. :dunno:

[TheHibiscus]

OK..So its like you're practicing on being a good wife

So you will get a guy who will do everything for you,

while you just sit back

and eat chocolates or have your favorite desert?or be pampered for the rest of your life by him?

I am not getting married any time soon - and practising to be a wife, hmm, not in the Indian sense of the word, I don't cook, take orders or bend down over whenever he wishes me to.

I pity anyone who ever gets me for a wife, I do.

[saxakali]

LOL...I---CAN"T--IMAGINE--HOWWWW it would do that?

and I am afraid to ask why :ugh:

you FREAK!!!

i think a disease would just spice things up and give my tool a little more tang then the average guy

[SillyKitty]

As long as you're not bothered being alone...

You're an INDEPENDENT woman as far as that is concerned!

Typical desi parents u have: TOO CONTROLLING! :p

Can say that from experience!


hmm nah.. as long as i have friends.. i dont need any bf.

yea too tired of that controll... but I love them..

you have controlling parents too?

[kwitcherbitchin]

woah! never thought of the possibility of just doing both


well i guess its not only that but all the prime poon gets freed up between 27-32, when all the doctors and lawyers become available, those sluts :)

lol true...rich smart sluts. can't go wrong there. :o

[saxakali]

Are U searching HARD enuf??? :sarb:
I want to, but I don't have anyone. :dunno:

[thebrownreason]

ill marry some chick when im damn well near 27-30
have some fun til then hopefully

[gorjuzkuri]

marriage...seems fun for a while. Then...reality hits....life gets boring...and i cant get caught up in boredom.

[saxakali]

yes friend help to fill a void if there is any...

and YEAH

My parents were very controlling..ie. reading my mail, very inquisitve of everything I do.., talk about paranoia :rolleyes:

hmm nah.. as long as i have friends.. i dont need any bf.

yea too tired of that controll... but I love them..

you have controlling parents too?

[saxakali]

cool...need to spread those wild oates ;) ill marry some chick when im damn well near 27-30
have some fun til then hopefully

[alphaPAKI]

LOL...I---CAN"T--IMAGINE--HOWWWW it would do that?

and I am afraid to ask why :ugh:

you FREAK!!!
you'll just have to wait and see :naughty:

[The Anti Desi]

Are U searching HARD enuf??? :sarb:
Only I am serious about it.....no one else is.

[alphaPAKI]

lol true...rich smart sluts. can't go wrong there. :o
not to mention all the me-time id get with them working their butts off all the time, i think i could sneak in drugs and whores easier with them cause of that, its all win-win :thumrigh:

[saxakali]

when i look at your avatar pic--seems like thats exactly what your thinking....and like "you coulda had a V8 :rolleyes: " lol:p

guess u say that from experience? :sarb:

marriage...seems fun for a while. Then...reality hits....life gets boring...and i cant get caught up in boredom.

[The Anti Desi]

lol true...rich smart sluts. can't go wrong there. :o
Me like sugar aunties :D

[saxakali]

not even the older aunties? :sarb:

I'm SURPRISED! :sarb:

Only I am serious about it.....no one else is.

[gorjuzkuri]

when i look at your avatar pic--seems like thats exactly what your thinking....and like "you coulda had a V8 :rolleyes: " lol:p

guess u say that from experience? :sarb:
haha...i mean...ive always been pretty close with the elderly people. Or, i guess i would say i matured before the regular kids my age did. So, i would listen to ladies talk...and all they would ever bicker about was how marriage is fun in the beginning then it just revolves around husband and kids. And, that its a dead end....YOU DONT REALLY GET LADOO FOR GETTING MARRIED. I guess you could say i just listened to them too carefully and am a bit hesitant towards the whole marriage process. But, engagement i think should be fun lolz. Contradicting a bit?

[SillyKitty]

yes friend help to fill a void if there is any...

and YEAH

My parents were very controlling..ie. reading my mail, very inquisitve of everything I do.., talk about paranoia :rolleyes:
lol they are like that? same here.. not my emails.. my mails.. and my diary.. so i stopped writing personal diaries :no:

[The Anti Desi]

not even the older aunties? :sarb:

I'm SURPRISED! :sarb:
Everyone thinks I joke when I mention aunties. Have not found a hot single auntie yet.....

[saxakali]

I kinda did the same thing when I was younger...sitting down being quiet and just listening to my relatives when they visit or at special gatherings...My mind was attuned to listening and learning...

But now, I could see how its possible to "learn from thier mistakes" to try to not let things get so boring... may take some effort and thought, but

its possible...

I mean all relationship don't turn out the same

we all have different chemistries( some good, some not so good)

after all, good marriages do exist!

It could be a trial and error experience( something to learn from too)... :neutral:


haha...i mean...ive always been pretty close with the elderly people. Or, i guess i would say i matured before the regular kids my age did. So, i would listen to ladies talk...and all they would ever bicker about was how marriage is fun in the beginning then it just revolves around husband and kids. And, that its a dead end....YOU DONT REALLY GET LADOO FOR GETTING MARRIED. I guess you could say i just listened to them too carefully and am a bit hesitant towards the whole marriage process. But, engagement i think should be fun lolz. Contradicting a bit?

[saxakali]

...thought u were joking too :p Well aren't u OPEN :o !!!!..Would think nice lookin mature women would be more desperate & available: well...the non-desi ones if u include them... :neutral:

esp 4 young desi goth stud like u :)

Everyone thinks I joke when I mention aunties. Have not found a hot single auntie yet.....

[Peacemaker]

coz u touch urself at nite...and the thought that disgusts me...mayb thats why

[gorjuzkuri]

I kinda did the same thing when I was younger...sitting down being quiet and just listening to my relatives when they visit or at special gatherings...My mind was attuned to listening and learning...

But now, I could see how its possible to "learn from thier mistakes" to try to not let things get so boring... may take some effort and thought, but

its possible...

I mean all relationship don't turn out the same

we all have different chemistries( some good, some not so good)

after all, good marriages do exist!

It could be a trial and error experience( something to learn from too)... :neutral:

Yah...i mean its not that their marriages havent worked out. Mashallah...all of theirs are doing fine. Granted, some havent...and its sad because i was really inspired by those relationships. But, even with the happy/satisfied couples they are just like STAY SINGLEEE!!! its not fun...theres nothing to do. But, i just think they say it because the grass is always greener on the other side.

[saxakali]

And I thought u liked it :sarb: :rolleyes: ..Shoulda said sumthin... :mad:

you should know

COMMUNICATION IS KEY
in any relationship :neutral:

coz u touch urself at nite...and the thought that disgusts me...mayb thats why

[The Anti Desi]

...thought u were joking too :p Well aren't u OPEN :o !!!!..Would think mature women would be more desperate & available: well...the non-desi ones if u include them... :neutral:
Non-desi aunties too. Maybe the Catholic Nuns or the Mormon moms.

[saxakali]

dunno bout them, sound kinda offlimits...U aim high don't u :p

like em innocent?, (like someone u might wanna corrupt) :sarb:
Non-desi aunties too. Maybe the Catholic Nuns or the Mormon moms.

[MOMENTUM]

:sarb: well I am not where I want to be right now :neutral:
not emotionally, financially prepared for the commitment...

[SIXPAK GQ]

aaah..man with HIGH Standards!
no narcissism I take it? :sarb:

actually no i dont have high standards. my standards are very low and still nothing even close out there.. what does that tell you?

[T.Dimera]

haven't met anyone that i could see myself settling down with. I've come to realize finding that 'someone' is probably one of the most diffcult things in life to find...and those that do, should consider themselves very fortunate

[SIXPAK GQ]

haven't met anyone that i could see myself settling down with. I've come to realize finding that 'someone' is probably one of the most diffcult things in life to find...and those that do, should consider themselves very fortunate
not fortunate..they just settle for less...and some wait for BBD.

[saxakali]

NO THANKS :rolleyes:

you'll just have to wait and see :naughty:

[saxakali]

Well I'll tell ya this...it doesn't sound good for houston :neutral: ...

maybe u should think about movin to greener pastures :sarb:


actually no i dont have high standards. my standards are very low and still nothing even close out there.. what does that tell you?

[saxakali]

WOW, I am surprised they would tell you to stay single, I wonder if its maybe because they also thought you were too young at the time they told you. :sarb:

And i guess you want your marriage to be very special..like one of those ideal type of things.

like we read in romance novels, or maybe see in our favorite movies: american or desi. :)

Yah...i mean its not that their marriages havent worked out. Mashallah...all of theirs are doing fine. Granted, some havent...and its sad because i was really inspired by those relationships. But, even with the happy/satisfied couples they are just like STAY SINGLEEE!!! its not fun...theres nothing to do. But, i just think they say it because the grass is always greener on the other side.

[JadeSun]

OH PUHLEEEZE.. :rolleyes:

marriage is 4 da BURDS

chirp chirp chirp

[SIXPAK GQ]

Well I'll tell ya this...it doesn't sound good for houston :neutral: ...

maybe u should think about movin to greener pastures :sarb:

WRONG. houston is the 4th largest city in the usa with very high population. its quite diverse.

[Spork]

Shed human skin is a major food source for the house dust mite.

[saxakali]

Be that as it may, It may not be the right place for you if you are havin such difficulties...

Or either you are not being straight with me or str8 with yourself with what u want :scratch:

WRONG. houston is the 4th largest city in the usa with very high population. its quite diverse.

[SIXPAK GQ]

Be that as it may, It may not be the right place for you if you are havin such difficulties...

Or either you are not being straight with me or str8 with yourself with what u want :scratch:

I know what i want..but i dont have time to date...i have other things to do..women are last thing on my mind....

[Love_Baby]

:sarb:

to be honest, the only reason is tht my bf didnt propose

no jus jokin...i jus dont hav THE perfect guy yet....i dont think age matters...wht r divorces for, rite?

[Angel Frm Heaven]

I'll get (lol) married now...i will i will...

[jat_jatt_sardar]

I graduated and need a job now, wouldn;t mind being married but I need a job cos no point otherwise lol.

[jat_jatt_sardar]

I have a question, people get together all the time, can they be considered husband and wife even though they not had a ceremony, thats like being married right?

[T.Dimera]

reality will hit you when your friends start to get married off....and things will never be the same

[flyest_786]

Coz the Real Madrid v Barcalona game kicks off in 10 mins ..........