why do people refuse to date/marry their own race

[alphaPAKI]

why are people repelled by their own race when it comes to dating?

not only is there 10 threads on how indian/punjabi/paki/bengali guys are all pricks, but i see it all the time with people i know, they refuse to date people from their own race, even my sister always hated the idea of paki guys and married the whitest guy ever

now compare this to past generations, that were the complete opposite and very extreme about only marrying within their race. mixed marriages are like a brand new thing to the mainstream.


Heres my theory:
I take a biological perspective to this. By mixing races we are effectively creating offspring that are genetically stronger and have better chances for survival. I mean look at mixed race children, they are less susceptible to genetically inheritied diesase, they are sexually selected for and turn out very attractive. If anything being repelled by your own race makes evolutionary sense.




Any takers?

[aachoudhry]

sure why not

i think people have different reasons for it all

but the biggest one being taboo
you want what you cant have

sorry to be abrupt but im tired :neutral:

[alphaPAKI]

sure why not

i think people have different reasons for it all

but the biggest one being taboo
you want what you cant have

sorry to be abrupt but im tired :neutral:
yeah but these days what the hell is really stopping you other then a few weeks of drama at most, especially given the fact that women are capable of being independant

if anything you cant have your own race anymore :|

[Swe3tGurlJazmine]

Because they are insecure as hell and probably have some kind of grudge against their parents.

[aachoudhry]

yeah but these days what the hell is really stopping you other then a few weeks of drama at most, especially given the fact that women are capable of being independant

if anything you cant have your own race anymore :|

i guess

but depends on the case
i mean parents can still stop you
community gossip -- im not saying these are good reasons or that everyone actaully listens to them but they are there and do make an impact

[nayeemx33]

To be different.

[alphaPAKI]

Because they are insecure as hell and probably have some kind of grudge against their parents.
speak for yourself :Poke:

[gorjuzkuri]

i prefer marrying into my own race...for some reason other races dont seem to be the clicking sensation for me. I mean i have nothing against anyone...there are times when im like god why cant the "desis" be like that. However, its just understanding, cultural barriers, in a sense its two different worlds. So, i just like sticking with the routine.

[alphaPAKI]

i guess

but depends on the case
i mean parents can still stop you
community gossip -- im not saying these are good reasons or that everyone actaully listens to them but they are there and do make an impact
i dont see how parents could really put a stop to it, i mean disowning wont even stop it, the only way i can see parents actually putting a stop to things is by killing or burning one of the people


this concept of 'community' is pretty trivial if you ask me

[aachoudhry]

i prefer marrying into my own race...for some reason other races dont seem to be the clicking sensation for me. I mean i have nothing against anyone...there are times when im like god why cant the "desis" be like that. However, its just understanding, cultural barriers, in a sense its two different worlds. So, i just like sticking with the routine.

i agree

i would prefer that

but i mean love is love

whatever happens will happen

and i dont mind it either way

[aachoudhry]

i dont see how parents could really put a stop to it, i mean disowning wont even stop it, the only way i can see parents actually putting a stop to things is by killing or burning one of the people


this concept of 'community' is pretty trivial if you ask me

i think they could -- we're too spoiled to listen to everything our parents say

hey dont persecute me -- i told you i didnt really believe in it i just said that some other people do

[alphaPAKI]

i prefer marrying into my own race...for some reason other races dont seem to be the clicking sensation for me. I mean i have nothing against anyone...there are times when im like god why cant the "desis" be like that. However, its just understanding, cultural barriers, in a sense its two different worlds. So, i just like sticking with the routine.
its not hard to see why some people prefer their own race, it provides a sense of security, common upbringing, identification and understanding in its own right

[Spiky]

you sister liked white cawk.

[alphaPAKI]

i agree

i would prefer that

but i mean love is love

whatever happens will happen

and i dont mind it either way
http://www.ilovecheese.com/images/cheeseguide/large/brick_img.jpe

[alphaPAKI]

you sister liked white cawk.
i know, i can live with that though cause it could always be worse; i.e. black cawk

[aachoudhry]

http://www.ilovecheese.com/images/cheeseguide/large/brick_img.jpe

???

[alphaPAKI]

???
your post wasnt cheesy enough, so i thought id take the liberty

[gorjuzkuri]

i agree

i would prefer that

but i mean love is love

whatever happens will happen

and i dont mind it either way
exactly, thats why i never act too arrogant or too sure of anything. Cause when you least expect it, it happens to you. I dont wanna say that omg im gonna marry into my own race, AND THATS FINAL! Cause, either its me or i have this bad luck with getting jinxed of having karma play a role on me. So i stay cool with everything.

[nayeemx33]

i know, i can live with that though cause it could always be worse; i.e. black cawk

Racist :neutral:

[aachoudhry]

your post wasnt cheesy enough, so i thought id take the liberty

but dont yo uagree

corny cheesey is over rated -- i cant be heartfelt even if it sound so :neutral:

[alphaPAKI]

To be different.
mixed dating and marriages are pretty common now, nothing different about it really

[Spiky]

i know, i can live with that though cause it could always be worse; i.e. black cawk


:rofl: U racist.

[Spiky]

Honestly....except very few...I dont like Indian women....I prefer white...for obvious reasons....

[alphaPAKI]

Racist :neutral:
you concise bastard :shakefis:

[gorjuzkuri]

its not hard to see why some people prefer their own race, it provides a sense of security, common upbringing, identification and understanding in its own right
yup...plus its hammered into us...and has been for like centuries...so do something against the will of your family...is like asking for banishment.

[alphaPAKI]

but dont yo uagree

corny cheesey is over rated -- i cant be heartfelt even if it sound so :neutral:
im one of those people who dont really believe in love, i just like to bang :Pelvic2:

[nayeemx33]

As long as my children marries a practicing muslim, race doesn't matter to me. :neutral:

[aachoudhry]

im one of those people who dont really believe in love, i just like to bang :Pelvic2:

:bsflag:

[alphaPAKI]

Honestly....except very few...I dont like Indian women....I prefer white...for obvious reasons....
white is tight :thumrigh:

[alphaPAKI]

yup...plus its hammered into us...and has been for like centuries...so do something against the will of your family...is like asking for banishment.
i guess you proved aachoudhry's point of familial pressures

[alphaPAKI]

As long as my children marries a practicing muslim, race doesn't matter to me. :neutral:
even if he was a nig with a 12 inch tool? :sarb:

[alphaPAKI]

:bsflag:
alright alright...

im a callussed individual who's developed a fear of commitment and attaching

happy?

[sunrize]

why are people repelled by their own race when it comes to dating?

not only is there 10 threads on how indian/punjabi/paki/bengali guys are all pricks, but i see it all the time with people i know, they refuse to date people from their own race, even my sister always hated the idea of paki guys and married the whitest guy ever

now compare this to past generations, that were the complete opposite and very extreme about only marrying within their race. mixed marriages are like a brand new thing to the mainstream.


Heres my theory:
I take a biological perspective to this. By mixing races we are effectively creating offspring that are genetically stronger and have better chances for survival. I mean look at mixed race children, they are less susceptible to genetically inheritied diesase, they are sexually selected for and turn out very attractive. If anything being repelled by your own race makes evolutionary sense.




Any takers?
We are all mixed race. Black people are the original race, Homo Sapiens, everybody else are secondary.

[aachoudhry]

alright alright...

im a callussed individual who's developed a fear of commitment and attaching

happy?

yes havent we all developed that fear?

[nayeemx33]

even if he was a nig with a 12 inch tool? :sarb:

I don't want to know how long his tool is. As long as he can take care of my daughter and is a practicing muslim. :neutral:

[jennifer-]

Yay for mixed race-ness. :p

I think its because its become more socially acceptable now these days that to be honest, most people don't see what the problem is with multi-racial relationships. Plus, what my friends say who are turned off by their own race is that they usually have bad experience with their kind and are attracted to something "newer". Plus, there is always the "grass is greener on the other side" theory.

[aachoudhry]

I don't want to know how long his tool is. As long as he can take care of my daughter and is a practicing muslim. :neutral:

oh i understand now :neutral:

[alphaPAKI]

We are all mixed race. Black people are the original race, Homo Sapiens, everybody else are secondary.
i think you mean monkeys were the original race, everything else is a derivative











you know what i mean you technical bastard :shakefis:

[illin]

im not opposed to the idea, but usually i find that most pakistani girls arent my type

[alphaPAKI]

yes havent we all developed that fear?
http://www.mbari.org/staff/oreilly/schoolPresentation/seafloor/ropedepth.gif

[alphaPAKI]

I don't want to know how long his tool is. As long as he can take care of my daughter and is a practicing muslim. :neutral:
what if he was AZN with a 2 inch toy, then what?

[nayeemx33]

oh i understand now :neutral:

What are you talking about? :neutral:

[nayeemx33]

what if he was AZN with a 2 inch toy, then what?

Any race is allowed except paki :kekeke:

[sunrize]

i think you mean monkeys were the original race, everything else is a derivative



No. Black People. I know what i said.

[aachoudhry]

What are you talking about? :neutral:

do you have a daughter?

or were you saying in general if you happen to have a daughter?

[alphaPAKI]

Yay for mixed race-ness. :p

I think its because its become more socially acceptable now these days that to be honest, most people don't see what the problem is with multi-racial relationships. Plus, what my friends say who are turned off by their own race is that they usually have bad experience with their kind and are attracted to something "newer". Plus, there is always the "grass is greener on the other side" theory.
definately more socially acceptable now, like i said its mainstream

i dont buy the 'bad experience' bit though, cause you could have a bad experience with any race person, cant discount an entire race cause they made a bad choice

[The Anti Desi]

Your own race gets boring :bored:

[The Anti Desi]

Yay for mixed race-ness. :p

I think its because its become more socially acceptable now these days that to be honest, most people don't see what the problem is with multi-racial relationships. Plus, what my friends say who are turned off by their own race is that they usually have bad experience with their kind and are attracted to something "newer". Plus, there is always the "grass is greener on the other side" theory.
Ditto :D

[alphaPAKI]

Any race is allowed accept paki :kekeke:
i guess your not a fan of seven inch schlongs :|

[aachoudhry]

Any race is allowed accept paki :kekeke:

*except

[alphaPAKI]

i think you mean monkeys were the original race, everything else is a derivative



No. Black People. I know what i said.
go enjoy some massive penises and soul food

[nayeemx33]

i guess your not a fan of seven inch schlongs :|

Did you mean 7 centimeter? :neutral:

[alphaPAKI]

Your own race gets boring :bored:
i dont see how thats possible

[nayeemx33]

*except

Fuck, how did I make a stupid error like that :neutral:

Thanks :D

[alphaPAKI]

Did you mean 7 centimeter? :neutral:
when was the last time you saw a guy measure himself in centimeters? i mean really...

[nayeemx33]

do you have a daughter?

or were you saying in general if you happen to have a daughter?

In general.

[nayeemx33]

when was the last time you saw a guy measure himself in centimeters? i mean really...

I heard pakis doing it. :neutral:

[aachoudhry]

Fuck, how did I make a stupid error like that :neutral:

Thanks :D

no problem :mrhappy:

[aachoudhry]

In general.

oh :neutral:

[nayeemx33]

oh :neutral:

Whats wrong now?

[alphaPAKI]

I heard pakis doing it. :neutral:
in that case, 18000cm :coold:

[aachoudhry]

Whats wrong now?

nothings wrong my dear

:neutral:

[nayeemx33]

in that case, 18cm :coold:

:lol:

[desi_shawrty]

I rather marry within my own race cause then my family would be happy too and it'll all be simple. Other thing i would have more in common with that guy but I want a desi guy who knows where he comes from like isn't too white washed but i don't want him to be too desi either does that make sence

[alphaPAKI]

I rather marry within my own race cause then my family would be happy too and it'll all be simple. Other thing i would have more in common with that guy but I want a desi guy who knows where he comes from like isn't too white washed but i don't want him to be too desi either does that make sence
so you want the ideal in every aspect basically



have you ever dated before?

[sunrize]

go enjoy some massive penises and soul food
Paki!!

[Playboi07]

are you a chick?

[alphaPAKI]

Paki!!
and how! :cool2:

[The Anti Desi]

i dont see how thats possible
I thought that way too......but now I could care less. Bengali or not Bengali....why the hell should I care??

I just get pissed off at desis.

[alphaPAKI]

I thought that way too......but now I could care less. Bengali or not Bengali....why the hell should I care??

I just get pissed off at desis.
being indifferent to race is one thing, im specifically talking about people who are repelled by their own race only

[sunrize]

and how! :cool2:
Paki paki

[EverBlazinGyal]

the only thing that appeals to me about marrying out of my race/ethnicity is the "hot children" point you brought up, but other than that i really don't understand why these kids are going "omg eeeeew ________ people are so gross!" when they themselves are one of those "gross people".

i wanna get married to a pakistani. the end.

[saxakali]

I didn't know it was so prevalent, but my guess would be
for economic and/or political reasons :sarb:

[kasak]

I thought that way too......but now I could care less. Bengali or not Bengali....why the hell should I care??

I just get pissed off at desis.

rnt u a desi yoself? :sarb:

i dont no wats gonna happen in ma future.......but i wanna marry a bengali guy.....frm dhaka :dance3: ........de r gud looking nd gud charactered.....although a bit 'rogchota'...but so m i we can work dat out :D

[graphicDESIgner]

I'm too lazy to read what everyone else said,
but basically on some level everyone thinks their
race is the best and they refuse to associate with
lesser peoples.

I'm indifferent to the whole thing...mix, stay separate,
whatever. As long as I get a decent girl it's all the same.

[alphaPAKI]

Paki paki
yep yep! :salut:

[alphaPAKI]

the only thing that appeals to me about marrying out of my race/ethnicity is the "hot children" point you brought up, but other than that i really don't understand why these kids are going "omg eeeeew ________ people are so gross!" when they themselves are one of those "gross people".

i wanna get married to a pakistani. the end.
so you'd take one for the team just for hot kids eh? youd be a selfless mother

good luck finding the paki thats right for you :salut:

[alphaPAKI]

I didn't know it was so prevalent, but my guess would be
for economic and/or political reasons :sarb:
i doubt its socioeconomic reasons, people at that age generally dont think about that as a factor when dating, and if that were the case no one would date blacks

[alphaPAKI]

Those are all nationalities that you mentioned and not really races. I hope you do realize that Desis are technically a mixed breed. But, mixed breeds can be over-rated and the idea that they're more beautiful is something regurgitated by Western media.

Priyanka Gandhi (Sonia Gandhi's daughter) looks pretty ordinary. Her full-bred white mom was better-looking. There was that one half-British cousin of Karisma Kapoor who was also kind of gross-looking. Rain Pryor is another half-white/half-black mix that went wrong. Russell Peters claims to be 25% white, but he's no GQ model look-alike. The list can go on.
what about all those hot mixed models and pornstars ?

[desi_kuri]

why are people repelled by their own race when it comes to dating?

not only is there 10 threads on how indian/punjabi/paki/bengali guys are all pricks, but i see it all the time with people i know, they refuse to date people from their own race, even my sister always hated the idea of paki guys and married the whitest guy ever

now compare this to past generations, that were the complete opposite and very extreme about only marrying within their race. mixed marriages are like a brand new thing to the mainstream.


Heres my theory:
I take a biological perspective to this. By mixing races we are effectively creating offspring that are genetically stronger and have better chances for survival. I mean look at mixed race children, they are less susceptible to genetically inheritied diesase, they are sexually selected for and turn out very attractive. If anything being repelled by your own race makes evolutionary sense.




Any takers?

this somehow reminds me of Darwins theory .. except in his theory... the offsprings are sterile (sp)

[EverBlazinGyal]

so you'd take one for the team just for hot kids eh? youd be a selfless mother

good luck finding the paki thats right for you :salut:
i know, eh? i really amaze myself sometimes.

[alphaPAKI]

I'm too lazy to read what everyone else said,
but basically on some level everyone thinks their
race is the best and they refuse to associate with
lesser peoples.

I'm indifferent to the whole thing...mix, stay separate,
whatever. As long as I get a decent girl it's all the same.
what if she was black, with severely contrasting pink insides?

[alphaPAKI]

this somehow reminds me of Darwins theory .. except in his theory... the offsprings are sterile (sp)
well darwin's theory was the basis of my hypothesis there

and when you're thinking of sterile offspring i think you're thinking of cross-species breeding :|

[nayeemx33]

what if she was black, with severely contrasting pink insides?

What do you have against black people? :neutral:

[alphaPAKI]

i know, eh? i really amaze myself sometimes.
so you're the easily entertainable type

i want waffles

[desi_kuri]

well darwin's theory was the basis of my hypothesis there

and when you're thinking of sterile offspring i think you're thinking of cross-species breeding :|

yes... . i thought i should just share that. i'm very bored after iftar man... its just me and the bio book for the rest of the whole weekend :mad:

[alphaPAKI]

What do you have against black people? :neutral:
nothing! they're a fine and proud people, i just use them as an example more often then not

[alphaPAKI]

yes... . i thought i should just share that. i'm very bored after iftar man... its just me and the bio book for the rest of the whole weekend :mad:
cherish those moments, it only goes downhill from there

[saxakali]

Well of course I don't mean in all cases...
This just comes to mind when I see a lot of these asian(chinese, etc) girls with white guys who look like they are well off, when I'm in NYC...and I see some many of these chinese guys who are left single:-(

lol...not sure if its just me, but it makes me uncomfortable with how you refer to "blacks" in your comment...after all, its reasonable to say, that there are black people at all economic levels, ever though some can safely say a large proportion of them are low income :neutral:

i doubt its socioeconomic reasons, people at that age generally dont think about that as a factor when dating, and if that were the case no one would date blacks

[alphaPAKI]

Well of course I don't mean in all cases...
This just comes to mind when I see a lot of these asian(chinese, etc) girls with white guys who look like they are well off, when I'm in NYC...and I see some many of these chinese guys who are left single:-(

lol...not sure if its just me, but it makes me uncomfortable with how you refer to "blacks" in your comment...after all, its reasonable to say, that there are black people at all economic levels, ever though some can safely say a large proportion of them are low income :neutral:
so that disproves your socioeconomic point

i guess its back to playing the saxaphone for you :Poke:

[Love_Baby]

why are people repelled by their own race when it comes to dating?

not only is there 10 threads on how indian/punjabi/paki/bengali guys are all pricks, but i see it all the time with people i know, they refuse to date people from their own race, even my sister always hated the idea of paki guys and married the whitest guy ever

now compare this to past generations, that were the complete opposite and very extreme about only marrying within their race. mixed marriages are like a brand new thing to the mainstream.


Heres my theory:
I take a biological perspective to this. By mixing races we are effectively creating offspring that are genetically stronger and have better chances for survival. I mean look at mixed race children, they are less susceptible to genetically inheritied diesase, they are sexually selected for and turn out very attractive. If anything being repelled by your own race makes evolutionary sense.




Any takers?

if u really think about it desis r the least open minded when it comes to marrying different races...theres like 0.1 % of brown ppl who married "another" race n by tht i mean white or sumthin totally different not indian marrying paki

so i think ur completely wrong..yeah sure they'll say tht they hatedating their own race...but at the end of the day who do they marry? yeah u guessed it their own kind :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

[alphaPAKI]

if u really think about it desis r the least open minded when it comes to marrying different races...theres like 0.1 % of brown ppl who married "another" race n by tht i mean white or sumthin totally different not indian marrying paki

so i think ur completely wrong..yeah sure they'll say tht they hatedating their own race...but at the end of the day who do they marry? yeah u guessed it their own kind :rolleyes: :rolleyes:
wow, you're so argumentative about it

hate to break it to you but mixed race marriages are pretty common, almost everyone i know has at least one in their family somewhere

your trapped in denial

[SillyKitty]

I think.. its because.. we know our own race more.. and we allways tend to pick out the negative things of what we own or what we are.... like for example.. padosan ki biwi always zyada achhi lagti hai.. hai na?

we always think the grass is greener on the other side..

and by being a desi.. we know what are our shortcomings and faults..
but we tend to over look the other races because we are too busy trying to uncover their mystery..

[Love_Baby]

wow, you're so argumentative about it

hate to break it to you but mixed race marriages are pretty common, almost everyone i know has at least one in their family somewhere

your trapped in denial


wht r u talkin about? u said sumthin n made a topic about it n i replied with wht i think...is tht too much for u? :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

anyway its not common...c;mon u shud no...its usually bc of family basically setting it in stone tht u cant marry outside ur race/religioon

a lot of ppl date or even get serious with different races but marriage is very uncommon if u didnt no tht thn i duno wht to say to u

n did ur sister marry a white person? or did she jus marry a white-washed desi? theres a difference

[alphaPAKI]

I think.. its because.. we know our own race more.. and we allways tend to pick out the negative things of what we own or what we are.... like for example.. padosan ki biwi always zyada achhi lagti hai.. hai na?

we always think the grass is greener on the other side..

and by being a desi.. we know what are our shortcomings and faults..
but we tend to over look the other races because we are too busy trying to uncover their mystery..
hmmmm

sounds more like a subconscious effort to eliminate possibilities of dating one's own race

[alphaPAKI]

wht r u talkin about? u said sumthin n made a topic about it n i replied with wht i think...is tht too much for u? :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

anyway its not common...c;mon u shud no...its usually bc of family basically setting it in stone tht u cant marry outside ur race/religioon

a lot of ppl date or even get serious with different races but marriage is very uncommon if u didnt no tht thn i duno wht to say to u

n did ur sister marry a white person? or did she jus marry a white-washed desi? theres a difference
woah woah, calm down now, no need to get violent


but yeah i do think it is very common, im not sure what kinda tight knit straight edge community you come from but thats just what ive encountered, i really have a feeling you're living a sheltered existance, you probably think its uncommon for desi's to date

yes there is a huge difference between a white dude and a white washed desi, thats why i said white dude

[SillyKitty]

hmmmm

sounds more like a subconscious effort to eliminate possibilities of dating one's own race


well just think about it..

the desi guys always bitchin about how the desi girls are bitches and naggs too much.. yada yada yada.. givin examples from their gfs to their moms and aunts..

same thing with desi gurls.. we would complain about how yal are chauvinistic pigs.. always want us to do all your work.. at home.. and how ya'll are controlling.. etc etc..

its cuz we all grew up with it..
and some are tired of it.. some like it.. (yet they complain just for the heck of it)

so some people look out for something new.. :dunno:

[Angelno15]

I think theres alot of reasons. Theres no one answer.

1, Maybe they dont like desi mentality such as the gossip, the comparing and how strict the culture is. Im not saying all desis are like but the majority are

2, In my town the desis are quite working class and there are more white guys from middle class families. Maybe they want a boy with prospects.

3, A few people I know see dating white as a status thing. Alot of people have the misconception that white generally date good looking desis.

4, People are attracted to who they are attracted to.

5, I date white because my parents want me to be with some one whose christian. They wouldnt be happy if I went with someone from a different religion. I dont know any christian desi guys.

[alphaPAKI]

well just think about it..

the desi guys always bitchin about how the desi girls are bitches and naggs too much.. yada yada yada.. givin examples from their gfs to their moms and aunts..

same thing with desi gurls.. we would complain about how yal are chauvinistic pigs.. always want us to do all your work.. at home.. and how ya'll are controlling.. etc etc..

its cuz we all grew up with it..
and some are tired of it.. some like it.. (yet they complain just for the heck of it)

so some people look out for something new.. :dunno:
so you're saying it stems from dissatisfaction from home life? and a person wanting to gear towards a more traditional image of what a nuclear family should be with their own established values rather then those passed on by culture?

[alphaPAKI]

I think theres alot of reasons. Theres no one answer.

1, Maybe they dont like desi mentality such as the gossip, the comparing and how strict the culture is. Im not saying all desis are like but the majority are

2, In my town the desis are quite working class and there are more white guys from middle class families. Maybe they want a boy with prospects.

3, A few people I know see dating white as a status thing. Alot of people have the misconception that white generally date good looking desis.

4, People are attracted to who they are attracted to.

5, I date white because my parents want me to be with some one whose christian. They wouldnt be happy if I went with someone from a different religion. I dont know any christian desi guys.
all good points, and numbered to boot

1. fair enough, but thats a blanket observation and you wont necessarily end up with a spouse with a stereotypical 'desi mentality' who gossips uncontrollably etc, i can see marrying outside of someones race as a way to escape the community in general though

2. cant associate money with race

3. very true, among my friends you get alot of respect for getting with a hot white girl, the larger the disparity in color the more respect

4. indeed they are

5. alot of non-whites are christians, if you brought home a black, brown or hispanic christian would that be a problem?

[alphaPAKI]

You HAVE to be good-looking to be a model or pornstar. They're not going to let an ugly mixed girl be a model, which is why the media fools you into thinking that most mixed breeds look good. By that same logic, I could say that South Indians are the best-looking because of all the hot Southies chicks in the industry. :neutral: In reality though, it would be a silly thing to say. If mixed breeds truly did look better, people wouldn't be saying that Desis are ugly. Your everyday Desi is a mixed breed, in case you forgot.

Here's an Indian/white mix. She is Sonia Gandhi's daughter and Indira Gandhi's grand-daughter. Even her pure Indian grandmother Indira and great-grandfather Nehru were more attractive than her.

http://news.indiainfo.com/2004/04/19/priyanka.jpg
i see your point, so i guess you can rid the argument for hot mixed babies from the debate, but the point still remains that children of mixed race, and im not talking about 'desi mixed', im talking about extremely unrelated races, are generally less prone to genetically inherited diseases

[Monica152]

im against inter racial marriages
nd suprisingly my mom wnts me to marry a white guy or sumthin
she thinks all desi guys these days r not wrth it
but after everythin i wud stick to indian guys becauz their my own race
nd i dat way we wnt hve problems understanding each other

[shadyzgal08]

i see your point, so i guess you can rid the argument for hot mixed babies from the debate, but the point still remains that children of mixed race, and im not talking about 'desi mixed', im talking about extremely unrelated races, are generally less prone to genetically inherited diseases
i learned that in my bio class too....the disease thing lol

[UnevenButtocks]

i see your point, so i guess you can rid the argument for hot mixed babies from the debate, but the point still remains that children of mixed race, and im not talking about 'desi mixed', im talking about extremely unrelated races, are generally less prone to genetically inherited diseases


that ugly girl is the exception to the rule, let's be honest, for the most part interracial children are above average lookswise.

[alphaPAKI]

im against inter racial marriages
nd suprisingly my mom wnts me to marry a white guy or sumthin
she thinks all desi guys these days r not wrth it
but after everythin i wud stick to indian guys becauz their my own race
nd i dat way we wnt hve problems understanding each other
i swear your mom's pulling reverse psychology on you to keep you motivated to stick to indian, it's genius

[alphaPAKI]

i learned that in my bio class too....the disease thing lol
are you saying i should be a bio professor?

[alphaPAKI]

that ugly girl is the exception to the rule, let's be honest, for the most part interracial children are above average lookswise.
http://www.funmunch.com/celebrities/athletes/tiger_woods/enlarge/enlarge.jpg

i know you want him, he invented the term 'oblenesian' as a blanket term for mixed race individuals, never caught on though, i have no idea why it stuck with me though

[shadyzgal08]

are you saying i should be a bio professor?
noo but hey watever floats your boat lol but i was just sayin that i learned that disease thing in bio class

[Monica152]

i swear your mom's pulling reverse psychology on you to keep you motivated to stick to indian, it's genius

i never thought of it like dat
lol thanxs for lettin me knoe
dat explains alot

[UnevenButtocks]

http://www.funmunch.com/celebrities/athletes/tiger_woods/enlarge/enlarge.jpg

i know you want him, he invented the term 'oblenesian' as a blanket term for mixed race individuals, never caught on though, i have no idea why it stuck with me though


:rofl: shut up now, that's just a bad close up

[alphaPAKI]

noo but hey watever floats your boat lol but i was just sayin that i learned that disease thing in bio class
you think you're so great with your bio class, well i say shove it! :Poke:

[alphaPAKI]

i never thought of it like dat
lol thanxs for lettin me knoe
dat explains alot
im always on top of things B :salut:

[UnevenButtocks]

you think you're so great with your bio class, well i say shove it! :Poke:

you're just mad 'cause she told everyone where YOU got it from

[shadyzgal08]

you think you're so great with your bio class, well i say shove it! :Poke:
actually to tell u the truth i hate it...i wanted to drop but its kinda late

[alphaPAKI]

:rofl: shut up now, that's just a bad close up
http://www.africanamericans.com/images2/TigerWoods.jpg

[alphaPAKI]

actually to tell u the truth i hate it...i wanted to drop but its kinda late
yeah bio and science in general sucks ass, i switched out of it after 1 year of wasting my time with it

[shadyzgal08]

yeah bio and science in general sucks ass, i switched out of it after 1 year of wasting my time with it
yeah but i love chem...haha everyone i know though hates it :neutral:

[Understanding]

i know, i can live with that though cause it could always be worse; i.e. black cawk

Indeed. It could ALWAYS be worse . That dreaded, gosh-darn black cawk ... :neutral:

[UnevenButtocks]

Indeed. It could ALWAYS be worse . That dreaded, gosh-darn black cawk ... :neutral:


:rofl: aw, man, don't take it personally, you're not even black, you're like...dark brown

[UnevenButtocks]

http://www.africanamericans.com/images2/TigerWoods.jpg


I think he's handsome-beauty in the eye of the beholder kinda thing, nah?

[shadyzgal08]

I think he's handsome-beauty in the eye of the beholder kinda thing, nah?
i agree :)

[alphaPAKI]

you're just mad 'cause she told everyone where YOU got it from
you're just mad cause i ate your burrito

http://www.dfci.harvard.edu/pat/support/nutrition/recipe/images/breakfast-burrito.jpg

[UnevenButtocks]

you're just mad cause i ate your burrito

http://www.dfci.harvard.edu/pat/support/nutrition/recipe/images/breakfast-burrito.jpg


...and now you can't stop farting ;)

[Understanding]

:rofl: aw, man, don't take it personally, you're not even black, you're like...dark brown

I'm not takin' it seriously. I just love poppin' my bald head in2 racial subjects all out of the blue :mrgreen: ! Just havin' fun.

[alphaPAKI]

yeah but i love chem...haha everyone i know though hates it :neutral:
chem is no good :thumbdow:

[nayeemx33]

Indeed. It could ALWAYS be worse . That dreaded, gosh-darn black cawk ... :neutral:

:rofl:

[alphaPAKI]

Indeed. It could ALWAYS be worse . That dreaded, gosh-darn black cawk ... :neutral:
its just too damn big, i want my sister to walk properly after all

[shadyzgal08]

chem is no good :thumbdow:
omg dont say that...i <3 chem n i swear i dont kno why cuz i cant do math to save my life lol

[alphaPAKI]

I think he's handsome-beauty in the eye of the beholder kinda thing, nah?
i get ya, i get those too sometimes with peculiar looking females

[alphaPAKI]

...and now you can't stop farting ;)
i know you're not so mad about that part though :eyebrow:

[alphaPAKI]

I'm not takin' it seriously. I just love poppin' my bald head in2 racial subjects all out of the blue :mrgreen: ! Just havin' fun.
way to rub it in that no one can pull off baldness like a black man

[UnevenButtocks]

i know you're not so mad about that part though :eyebrow:



ahaha of course not because your farts smell like roses :D

[shadyzgal08]

i know you're not so mad about that part though :eyebrow:
hahahahahaha

[UnevenButtocks]

way to rub it in that no one can pull off baldness like a black man

stop sucking up to him now, you said what you said, be a man and stand by it :rofl:


I kid, I kid

[Understanding]

its just too damn big, i want my sister to walk properly after all

Well ... since u put it that way ... I am pretty well hung :dance2: and that can be a pain sometimes ... no pun intended :p .

[alphaPAKI]

omg dont say that...i <3 chem n i swear i dont kno why cuz i cant do math to save my life lol
we should go into business and set up a meth lab or something

[shadyzgal08]

we should go into business and set up a meth lab or something
haha i got the perfect place: my basement

[alphaPAKI]

ahaha of course not because your farts smell like roses :D
i can put some in a jar for you if you want

[nayeemx33]

its just too damn big, i want my sister to walk properly after all

:lol:
Nice coverup.

[alphaPAKI]

stop sucking up to him now, you said what you said, be a man and stand by it :rofl:


I kid, I kid
i always stand by what i say, ill leave the sucking to you as usual

[Existentialist]

I'm dating a white guy because I love him because he is a good man. I hope that sums it up for you. I'm mixed, my cousins are mixed but no that doesn't make us disease immune. Logically there are more than a few factors other than genes that affect our health. A mixed child can become obese and develop diabetes, simplest case.

About your biological theory, can you please back that up with actual research. It's interesting to state but as a Scientist myself, you don't state something with research.

We are all mixed since earliest of times, that whole Aryan and Dravidian theory. Still didn't make us disease resistant. :o

[alphaPAKI]

I'm dating a white guy because I love him because he is a good man. I hope that sums it up for you. I'm mixed, my cousins are mixed but no that doesn't make us disease immune. Logically there are more than a few factors other than genes that affect our health. A mixed child can become obese and develop diabetes, simplest case.

About your biological theory, can you please back that up with actual research. It's interesting to state but as a Scientist myself, you don't state something with research.

We are all mixed since earliest of times, that whole Aryan and Dravidian theory. Still didn't make us disease resistant. :o
thats perfectly fine and acceptable, nothing wrong with mixed race dating, what im wondering is what drives people to be completely repelled from their own race and exclusively date other races

as for the science behind my theory, i just kinda extended darwin's theory of evolution and my basic knowledge of genetics as an explanation, the part of greater immunity to genetically inherited diseases is true though, dont get offended by pseudoscience, i dont care enough to go out and research and cite sources, just wanted to discuss a topic

[graphicDESIgner]

what if she was black, with severely contrasting pink insides?

No biggie...but if she were pink with severely contrasting
black insides I might not approve. :ugh:

[alphaPAKI]

What's funny is that people on stormfront.org say that not being attracted to your own kind is a form of mental illness. :p

I will be honest. I went through a stage in middleschool where I was repelled by Desi boys, but that was only because the non-Indian population dominated the handful of Desi boys that I was exposed too. I was too young to realize that a higher population will obviously result in a higher probability of cute and nice non-Desi guys.


Once I got more exposed to more and more Desi males, my opinions dramatically changed and now I would prefer to be with an Indian guy. But I can't find the right guy and somehow fall in love with a non-Indian guy..then oh well.
that makes sense, when your younger really you have no idea what you want

[alphaPAKI]

No biggie...but if she were pink with severely contrasting
black insides I might not approve. :ugh:
reminds me of a wafer i ate once

[alphaPAKI]

That happens to a lot of Desis that I've talked to. They want to stay away from Desis when they're young, but then start liking them when they get older.

How old are these people that are repelled by their own race? The ones that you speak of?
i dunno, could be any age range

obviously alot of people go through this as a phase but for others its a lasting preference

[Understanding]

What's funny is that people on stormfront.org say that not being attracted to your own kind is a form of mental illness. :p

I will be honest. I went through a stage in middleschool where I was repelled by Desi boys, but that was only because the non-Indian population dominated the handful of Desi boys that I was exposed too. I was too young to realize that a higher population will obviously result in a higher probability of cute and nice non-Desi guys.


Once I got more exposed to more and more Desi males, my opinions dramatically changed and now I would prefer to be with an Indian guy. But I can't find the right guy and somehow fall in love with a non-Indian guy..then oh well.

Lol @ people from Stormfront :p ! If they honestly believe that then that would mean that some of America's forefather's some of whom Stormfront idolize [like Thomas Jefferson] were "sick in the head". Its a not so well kept secret that Mr. Jefferson wasn't just one of those slavemasters who raped young black girls ... nope. Mr. Jefferson took it a step further by having a full-fledged relationship with a black slave girl and had a bunch of babies with her.

But getting 2 some of the other good points u made ... I can completely relate. All thru school: elementary, middle and high school I was surrounded by [and therefore attracted 2] 2 white girls ... and Jewish white girls at that lol :D !!! Since that was what the very, very large majority of the population was made up of that's what I was exposed 2. It was so funny cuz' when I got 2 college it was a bit of a shock 4 me 2 not meet any people with last names like Weinberger, Rubinfeld or Levy or 2 not have Jewish holidays off. Looking at myself now and how I thought back then I kinda' laugh sometimes.

[jat_jatt_sardar]

why are people repelled by their own race when it comes to dating?

not only is there 10 threads on how indian/punjabi/paki/bengali guys are all pricks, but i see it all the time with people i know, they refuse to date people from their own race, even my sister always hated the idea of paki guys and married the whitest guy ever

now compare this to past generations, that were the complete opposite and very extreme about only marrying within their race. mixed marriages are like a brand new thing to the mainstream.


Heres my theory:
I take a biological perspective to this. By mixing races we are effectively creating offspring that are genetically stronger and have better chances for survival. I mean look at mixed race children, they are less susceptible to genetically inheritied diesase, they are sexually selected for and turn out very attractive. If anything being repelled by your own race makes evolutionary sense.




Any takers?
Well I thought playas dated other races cos thy find it disrespectful dating their own girls? lol
Yeah but marrying out of race, thats different...