arranged marriage or love marriage?

[ilikecheese]

which would u go for?

r u brainwashed by the west and think that you gotta date, and fall in love for a happy marriage?

or do you trust your parents to pick out a girl for you first, and then get to know her a little before the marriage to see if you can spend your life with her? (this is the arranged marriage i'm talking about, not the ones where your parents just pick a guy/girl for you and thats that.)

[thebrownone]

eternal bondage

[Spork]

A recording of Pope John Paul II’s poetry set to a disco beat reached Number 3 on the Polish pop charts.

[punjabi_gurl_17]

i will go 4 arrange.....i dun have problem....

[*~MuFFiN~*]

u cud go either way..

find a guy/girl on ur own , date em, kno em, the whole 9...

or leave it up to ur parents...

i don tthink either way is wrong...

but id prefer a love marriage

[cunninglinguist]

civil partnership

[surface2air]

I have never thought about marraige until this thread.

Thank you Ilikecheese.

[zuiwaziri]

I dont believe 2 strangers can just get married.

I wud want to meet the person myself and not via my parents just cuz i kno the girls family will kno my family and tht's when family politicking etc comes in.

I wanna meet a girl myself, research her background, and then propose the idea to my parents, who better do the rest!!!

[thebrownreason]

influenced/brain washed by western culture????
who the fuck still picks out their child's mate for life?

[pachaas Paisa]

How about arranged + love? why isnt there such an option?

[NYzNiCCa]

I dont believe 2 strangers can just get married.

I wud want to meet the person myself and not via my parents just cuz i kno the girls family will kno my family and tht's when family politicking etc comes in.

I wanna meet a girl myself, research her background, and then propose the idea to my parents, who better do the rest!!!

Tu kanjar khaanay vich phassay ga!

[thebrownreason]

I dont believe 2 strangers can just get married.

I wud want to meet the person myself and not via my parents just cuz i kno the girls family will kno my family and tht's when family politicking etc comes in.

I wanna meet a girl myself, research her background, and then propose the idea to my parents, who better do the rest!!!


i agree

[sonikudi_69]

You dont really get to know a person till you marry them. So arranged marriage or love it really doesnt matter, theres a 50/50 chance that they will work or not. It all depends on if you want your marriage to work or not.

[nmguy20]

eternal bondage
:werd:

[gujulicious]

"brainwashed by the western culture?"
yeah i don't think that's the right way of putting it.

[cunninglinguist]

You dont really get to know a person till you marry them. So arranged marriage or love it really doesnt matter, theres a 50/50 chance that they will work or not. It all depends on if you want your marriage to work or not.
right, and how many people get married NOT wanting it to work?

[cunninglinguist]

"brainwashed by the western culture?"
yeah i don't think that's the right way of putting it.
i think he's brainwashed by eastern culture

[gujulicious]

i think he's brainwashed by eastern culture
lol, seems like it

[sonikudi_69]

right, and how many people get married NOT wanting it to work?
well some ppl dont take it seriously...after being married 3 months and then gettin a divorce does not show u wanted it to really work, and unfortunately that seems pretty common these days :-|

[ilikecheese]

How about arranged + love? why isnt there such an option?
well one has to come first.

your brings bring you two together, you get to know each other, and fall in love and then decide to marry, thats kinda like arranged :-P

you date a girl, fall in love, introduce her to the rents for approval, thats love

[zuiwaziri]

Tu kanjar khaanay vich phassay ga!
Standard!!

[lagaan]

Love. My parents know me, but only as their daughter. They don't know what kind of wife/partner I'd be, and I want my own say in that shit. :mrhappy:

[di vinci]

Love. My parents know me, but only as their daughter. They don't know what kind of wife/partner I'd be, and I want my own say in that shit. :mrhappy:


u know love marriage are over rated and the dating scene is long best thing to do is date when ur bored just ask ur rents to hook u up.

[Churailiya]

u know love marriage are over rated and the dating scene is long best thing to do is date when ur bored just ask ur rents to hook u up.
:yes: agreed

[Angelno15]

I think for a while Id try to find a guy myself however if Im getting on abit then I wouldnt have a problem with my parents setting me up with a guy. I mean if Im not married by 35 then I must be doing somethng wrong. But it would oly have to be them setting me up on a date and then just leaving it at that.
Im quite lucky my parents dont expect me to have an arranged marriage and they dont care about the tace just as long as hes christian. In fact I think my parents expect that Ill marry a white guy.

[Angelno15]

u know love marriage are over rated and the dating scene is long best thing to do is date when ur bored just ask ur rents to hook u up.

So if you were dating a girl and she fell for you would you consider marriage?

[ilikecheese]

I think for a while Id try to find a guy myself however if Im getting on abit then I wouldnt have a problem with my parents setting me up with a guy. I mean if Im not married by 35 then I must be doing somethng wrong. But it would oly have to be them setting me up on a date and then just leaving it at that.
Im quite lucky my parents dont expect me to have an arranged marriage and they dont care about the tace just as long as hes christian. In fact I think my parents expect that Ill marry a white guy.
we wont be missing out if u do marry one :wavey:

[Angelno15]

How rude! Why are you hating on me just because I wanna marry somebody whose the same religion. Religion is important to me. Theres plenty of other folk around here that say they would only marry a muslim/hindu.

[di vinci]

So if you were dating a girl and she fell for you would you consider marriage?


nope i would tell her stright im too young and immature for a serious relationship if she stays around then i think about! p.s. i been hurt once it aint gonna happend again my moto date, date and when ur bored let the family hook u up

[Angelno15]

I respect that you said you'd tell her out-right. Theres so many guys where I live that date plenty of girls and after the girls have fallen in love with the guys and they get rid as soon as their parents think its time for them to settle down. It happens alot between the muslim and white girls here.

[di vinci]

I respect that you said you'd tell her out-right. Theres so many guys where I live that date plenty of girls and after the girls have fallen in love with the guys and they get rid as soon as their parents think its time for them to settle down. It happens alot between the muslim and white girls here.

its better to tell them about whats going on i dnt like carrying ppl n giving them a false hope of marriage its so wrong

[ilikecheese]

How rude! Why are you hating on me just because I wanna marry somebody whose the same religion. Religion is important to me. Theres plenty of other folk around here that say they would only marry a muslim/hindu.
I'm not hating on you. Why would you think I would hate you? I don't even know you to hate you. I'm just saying if you were to marry a white guy, we, or should I say I since I can't speak for all desi guys, wouldn't be missing out on much. More like your nothing special to be missed.

[Angelno15]

Im sorry I didnt know we knew each other before I wrote that paragraph. You must know me to know that Im not special. I think thats a bit judgemental. My mummy says Im special all the time :D

[ilikecheese]

Im sorry I didnt know we knew each other before I wrote that paragraph. You must know me to know that Im not special. I think thats a bit judgemental. My mummy says Im special all the time :D
As in retarded? (But I meant by your outer appearance)

[lagaan]

u know love marriage are over rated and the dating scene is long best thing to do is date when ur bored just ask ur rents to hook u up.
Love marriages are only overrated by Desis in Bollywood movies. I'm not saying it's amazing and the only successful way to find a partner. I'm talking about my personal preference. I'm not into the whole "date around" thing. I'm in a long-distance relationship which is actually hard as balls and takes a lot of patience and character. Thank you. </rant>

[laal mia]

arranged ofcourse

[Angelno15]

As in retarded? (But I meant by your outer appearance)

OK whatever. I obviously said something that got to you for you to be mean and make personal comments. Im sorry.

[ilikecheese]

OK whatever. I obviously said something that got to you for you to be mean and make personal comments. Im sorry.
I'm sorry for not thinking your attractive? How is that mean? At least I didnt say you looked like a clown when you put on makeup :| I don't think that girl will ever PM me again :yes:

[Angelno15]

Why would you talk about my personal appearance when we were talking about arranged marriages. I didnt as for you to comment. If you wanted to say something about my appearance go to my main RD page and leave a comment there. I just wanna know what I said for the personal comment.

[ilikecheese]

Why would you talk about my personal appearance when we were talking about arranged marriages. I didnt as for you to comment. If you wanted to say something about my appearance go to my main RD page and leave a comment there. I just wanna know what I said for the personal comment.
Well this is a rating site right? Where everything on by what you look like, right?

[nawtysaika]

any really... both r good in their own ways

but av kinda started believin that love comes after marriage :dunno:

[ilikecheese]

any really... both r good in their own ways

but av kinda started believin that love comes after marriage :dunno:
really? to many heartbreaks?

[nawtysaika]

really? to many heartbreaks?

erm naaa not really... i seem to like alot ov guys lol.... n they seem to like me but then the love never really exists... its always the like like business

:sarb:

[Angelic_19]

which would u go for?

r u brainwashed by the west and think that you gotta date, and fall in love for a happy marriage?

or do you trust your parents to pick out a girl for you first, and then get to know her a little before the marriage to see if you can spend your life with her? (this is the arranged marriage i'm talking about, not the ones where your parents just pick a guy/girl for you and thats that.)

Whatever floats your boat???....

[ilikecheese]

erm naaa not really... i seem to like alot ov guys lol.... n they seem to like me but then the love never really exists... its always the like like business

:sarb:
business? WTF? r u a hooker!

[ilikecheese]

Whatever floats your boat???....
suck my stinky toe?

its just a poll... vote and poof!

[nawtysaika]

business? WTF? r u a hooker!

:no:
:angel:
i never really fall in love
:dunno:

[ilikecheese]

:no:
:angel:
i never really fall in love
:dunno:
maybe u never meet the right guy :buttsex:

[nawtysaika]

maybe u never meet the right guy :buttsex:
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[americanmohit]

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[americanmohit]

i prefer love marriage :neutral:

[ilikecheese]

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[ilikecheese]

:Oops:
:kekeke:
:cuddle:
:giggle:

[selina_786]

RD posters have run out of ideas on new topics to discuss.

[cunninglinguist]

RD posters have run out of ideas on new topics to discuss.
that happened months back

[amir_q]

I used to believe and want a love marriage, not anymore... love came, and went :( , dont think i'll fall in love agen, now i'd prefer to have an arranged marriage...

+ freshie girls treat you better, are more faithful, & have more respect for their husbands... ;)

[cunninglinguist]

I used to believe and want a love marriage, not anymore... love came, and went :( , dont think i'll fall in love agen, now i'd prefer to have an arranged marriage...

+ freshie girls treat you better, are more faithful, & have more respect for their husbands... ;)
ain't that the truth!

[nawtysaika]

:cuddle:
:giggle:


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[mebabysham]

love. anything else scares me.. and.. i dont quite consider "marriage"

[cute_hunny]

luv den arranged :chew:

[jat_jatt_sardar]

is there a such thing as arranged love marriage, cos I prefer that? lol

[Malaika__]

Love. I'd actually save my parents from a lot of headache by finding my own hubby :p

[brown jewels]

both...i don't mind...i trust my parents...

[P*I*M*P]

both... love is good but arrange only if both the partners agree

[out1aw]

i prefer love marriage :neutral:


is that mona in ur pic lol, i think i asked u in the other thread earlier.

but yeh personaly i wouldnt mind arranged or love as long as the two people can live with eachother its all good , sometimes love just aint enough

[americanmohit]

arrange marriage sucksssss :o

[RajaMag]

love marriage all the way. what's love without a little drama.

[x_desigal_xx]

I would prefer..in fact I know mind will end up being a love marriage, but I'm open to both.

Arranged doesn't have to be one's parents forcing their daughter or son into marrying. If they want u to meet a guy/girl, you like him, things get along..y not?