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SillyKitty
September 17th, 2006, 07:04 PM
Love
does it mean any thing?
hmmm after a lot of thinking.. i have cme to this conclusion..
GUYs love.. cuz they wanna get into ur pants.. or.. they just like to get the attention or play around..
cuz to them love= sex
i am sure as hell the term.. "Love making"
was started by a man
gurls love.. cuz they think they are living in a fairy tale.. and like to think of themselves as Cinderella or.. snowhite.. or some other princess..
or.. like to get into a guys pant ( most unlikely cuz guys dont need any bullshit like " i love u" to give it up lol )
what do u think RD?
sarb
September 17th, 2006, 07:05 PM
i think you need a big black man to satisfy you.
aachoudhry
September 17th, 2006, 07:06 PM
hi
i thikn youre incorrect
immature guys/scum tell you they "love" you to get into your pants
SillyKitty
September 17th, 2006, 07:06 PM
i think you need a big black man to satisfy you.
hardy har har.....
ana
September 17th, 2006, 07:07 PM
Can go both ways.
I think you can fall in love with anyone, meaning you can learn to love someone.
Boys that want to get into your pants don't love you, duh.
GT & MK KING
September 17th, 2006, 07:08 PM
i'm engaged with the person i am gonna marry in 2 yrs.
i love her very much
madam_jade
September 17th, 2006, 07:09 PM
I think your "epiphany" has been the subject of movies, music, and comedy for quite some decades now.
sarb
September 17th, 2006, 07:09 PM
i'm engaged with the person i am gonna marry in 2 yrs.
i love her very much
2 yrs? nice buffer time to bail out. :D
SillyKitty
September 17th, 2006, 07:09 PM
hi
i thikn youre incorrect
immature guys/scum tell you they "love" you to get into your pants
maybe.. well i would love to be incorrect..
Aurovon
September 17th, 2006, 07:10 PM
Love is simple, don't try to analyze it. That's not love, that's playing games...which the majority get trapped in.
GT & MK KING
September 17th, 2006, 07:10 PM
2 yrs? nice buffer time to bail out. :D
:lol:
Rizla
September 17th, 2006, 07:10 PM
Yawn yawn yawn..
Same old girly crap..
illin
September 17th, 2006, 07:11 PM
guys who have to lie and say "i love you" to get some ass, are pathetic
sheerin
September 17th, 2006, 07:11 PM
love is something you can't define. Love is something that is so strong that no emotions compete with.
MENACINGSTRANGER
September 17th, 2006, 07:12 PM
Love
does it mean any thing?
hmmm after a lot of thinking.. i have cme to this conclusion..
GUYs love.. cuz they wanna get into ur pants.. or.. they just like to get the attention or play around..
cuz to them love= sex
i am sure as hell the term.. "Love making"
was started by a man
gurls love.. cuz they think they are living in a fairy tale.. and like to think of themselves as Cinderella or.. snowhite.. or some other princess..
or.. like to get into a guys pant ( most unlikely cuz guys dont need any bullshit like " i love u" to give it up lol )
what do u think RD?
Sometimes i think youre a tranny.
SillyKitty
September 17th, 2006, 07:12 PM
Can go both ways.
I think you can fall in love with anyone, meaning you can learn to love someone.
Boys that want to get into your pants don't love you, duh.
yeah true..
but i have seen guys.. who can be soo crazy over u.. that they can do anything for u.. but wants to get pysical too..
i mean i dont see a guy who doesnt give the physical part of "love" a lottt of importance...
suhailio
September 17th, 2006, 07:12 PM
Alot of people say that 'Love hurts', that ain't true. It only hurts if you do anal.
Angelos
September 17th, 2006, 07:13 PM
i love u kitty
Aurovon
September 17th, 2006, 07:13 PM
Love is AIDS.
Always In Deep Shit!
GT_Starrr
September 17th, 2006, 07:13 PM
I think your "epiphany" has been the subject of movies, music, and comedy for quite some decades now.
I think she took the whole GT & MK King engagement thang hard.
SillyKitty
September 17th, 2006, 07:13 PM
i'm engaged with the person i am gonna marry in 2 yrs.
i love her very muchawwwww soo cuuuuutee :)
but why 2 yearss bro?
if i was in love i would wanna marry my man asap
madam_jade
September 17th, 2006, 07:14 PM
I think she took the whole GT & MK King engagement thang hard.
I think MENACINGSTRANGER has the right idea.
SillyKitty
September 17th, 2006, 07:14 PM
i love u kitty
:kiss: love u too my angel
sheerin
September 17th, 2006, 07:14 PM
Love is AIDS.
Always In Deep Shit!
:rofl: how is it going Aurovon?
ana
September 17th, 2006, 07:15 PM
awwwww soo cuuuuutee :)
but why 2 yearss bro?
if i was in love i would wanna marry my man asap
for the physical part?
Like how your guys want to?
We all want the same thing at the end.
Gosh.
Pakidoll82
September 17th, 2006, 07:16 PM
Love is simple, don't try to analyze it. That's not love, that's playing games...which the majority get trapped in.
:werd:
In life you meet the one person who truly does love u.....
jus_me
September 17th, 2006, 07:16 PM
lol@epiphany.
love is a pile of bollocks..people always overestimate what it means to be in love with another person.
as maroon 5 so eloqeuntly put its "its not always rainbows and butterflies, its compromise that moves us along"
so yeah..think about it.
sheerin
September 17th, 2006, 07:16 PM
for the physical part?
Like how your guys want to?
We all want the same thing at the end.
Gosh.
Ana I find ur post intersting ;)
SillyKitty
September 17th, 2006, 07:16 PM
Love is simple, don't try to analyze it. That's not love, that's playing games...which the majority get trapped in.
mannnnn
love is scaryyyyy
i was always scared when i was in love about loosing them
but later found out i wasnt in love..
cuz the only people I love are my parents and friends not some guys
Walktheline
September 17th, 2006, 07:17 PM
Love is simple, don't try to analyze it. That's not love, that's playing games...which the majority get trapped in.
Preach on, brothaman!
GT & MK KING
September 17th, 2006, 07:18 PM
I think she took the whole GT & MK King engagement thang hard.
:lol: u gotta be trippn...she is happy for me that i am engaged
awwwww soo cuuuuutee :)
but why 2 yearss bro?
if i was in love i would wanna marry my man asap
cuz we got college to finish. summer we'll have a wonderful shaadhi.
i'll work on the papers when i come back for her to come here and have one here as well (to make it legit here cuz it's legit in pakistan). ur invited once i found out where n when here.
SillyKitty
September 17th, 2006, 07:19 PM
I think your "epiphany" has been the subject of movies, music, and comedy for quite some decades now.
yaa lol
i was thinking it that way cuz.. i was listening to this song..
" dil se dil.. milte hai.. do badaan se badaan miltey hai.. when i make love to u.." loll
from the movie jawaani diwaani haha
Ravaged23
September 17th, 2006, 07:19 PM
Love is AIDS.
Always In Deep Shit!
:roflwtf:
SillyKitty
September 17th, 2006, 07:20 PM
Yawn yawn yawn..
Same old girly crap..
boooooooo hooooooooo
Aurovon
September 17th, 2006, 07:20 PM
mannnnn
love is scaryyyyy
i was always scared when i was in love about loosing them
but later found out i wasnt in love..
cuz the only people I love are my parents and friends not some guys
A lot of folks can relate to that. It's normal. But you know it's for good when you don't even have to worry about losing them because of the strong bond yall have built upon.
SillyKitty
September 17th, 2006, 07:20 PM
guys who have to lie and say "i love you" to get some ass, are pathetic
most of them then.. :lol:
madam_jade
September 17th, 2006, 07:20 PM
When a bollywood song triggers a deep, emotional thought....make sure you drive a staple through your palm. And for godsakes...don't make a thread.
Rizla
September 17th, 2006, 07:21 PM
boooooooo hooooooooo
Love, so many things i gotta tell ya.
ana
September 17th, 2006, 07:21 PM
If they're in love with you, they're not going anywhere.
Trust meeeeeeeee.
Angelos
September 17th, 2006, 07:23 PM
:kiss: love u too my angel
http://images.google.no/images?q=tbn:lDbT07CaubBNzM:http://www.sallad.net/blog
theyre not as beautiful as u tho
Aurovon
September 17th, 2006, 07:23 PM
If they're in love with you, they're not going anywhere.
Trust meeeeeeeee.
They might go on a vacation, but home sweet home...
Pakidoll82
September 17th, 2006, 07:24 PM
If they're in love with you, they're not going anywhere.
Trust meeeeeeeee.
EXAXTLY!!! being too insecure is scary!!! LOVE is aboutt being there not leaving when things get tough....
SillyKitty
September 17th, 2006, 07:25 PM
love is something you can't define. Love is something that is so strong that no emotions compete with.
yup.. :)
its baddd
cuz u get paranoid when u think u might lose them
(talking about parents and family here)
ana
September 17th, 2006, 07:25 PM
They might go on a vacation, but home sweet home...
I am a vacation. :hand:
SillyKitty
September 17th, 2006, 07:26 PM
Alot of people say that 'Love hurts', that ain't true. It only hurts if you do anal.
:lollol:
GT_Starrr
September 17th, 2006, 07:28 PM
:werd:
In life you meet the one person who truly does love u.....
wtf are you talking about, lots of people love me.
ilikecheese
September 17th, 2006, 07:30 PM
lmfaoo roflzzz zee waflez.
ur views on love? oooh wow..
ahahaha lmfao omg i cnt stop laughing...
ana
September 17th, 2006, 07:31 PM
Love is pancakes, heated syrup, and strawberries on a Saturday morning.
Pakidoll82
September 17th, 2006, 07:35 PM
wtf are you talking about, lots of people love me.
there is no need to curse..
let me rephrase that... besides family and friends... u meet one person in ur life who loves u unconditonally, ur other half... ;)
bmw
September 17th, 2006, 07:37 PM
I'd rather make pyaar than make love. :think:
suhailio
September 17th, 2006, 07:38 PM
I'd rather make pyaar than make love. :think:
Just by saying it in urdu doesn't mean that it sounds more sensible.
GT_Starrr
September 17th, 2006, 07:40 PM
there is no need to curse..
let me rephrase that... besides family and friends... u meet one person in ur life who loves u unconditonally, ur other half... ;)
i didn't curse, i said wtf...If you read it as a curse, that's your own fault.
bmw
September 17th, 2006, 07:40 PM
Just by saying it in urdu doesn't mean that it sounds more sensible.
whatchu talking about? It works for me. :dunno:
versatil
September 17th, 2006, 08:00 PM
Love. Evol spelled backwards. ::deep::
versatil
September 17th, 2006, 08:01 PM
there is no need to curse..
let me rephrase that... besides family and friends... u meet one person in ur life who loves u unconditonally, ur other half... ;)
what if you meet 2 of them and fairly often? that would make them quarters wouldn't it?
SillyKitty
September 17th, 2006, 08:23 PM
Love is AIDS.
Always In Deep Shit!
yea u get aids from free love..
SillyKitty
September 17th, 2006, 08:23 PM
I think she took the whole GT & MK King engagement thang hard.
hardy har har
Pakidoll82
September 17th, 2006, 08:24 PM
what if you meet 2 of them and fairly often? that would make them quarters wouldn't it?
yeh ok... :D
PaGaLkHaN
September 17th, 2006, 08:25 PM
huh? :sarb:
BaByGirL24
September 17th, 2006, 08:25 PM
awww i missed you girl, where have you been?
SillyKitty
September 17th, 2006, 08:26 PM
for the physical part?
Like how your guys want to?
We all want the same thing at the end.
Gosh.
naaah geeez.. not for the pysical part lol.
i heard that when 2 people fall in love.. the devil allways want to fuck it up... if people dont get married quick...
Marriage = Consent from God to have sex.. lol
SillyKitty
September 17th, 2006, 08:26 PM
awww i missed you girl, where have you been?
:hug: AWWWWWW i missed u too hunnie
i was in bangladesh..
how are things?
darn it.. i gotta go.. take care :kiss:
ana
September 17th, 2006, 08:27 PM
naaah geeez.. not for the pysical part lol.
i heard that when 2 people fall in love.. the devil allways want to fuck it up... if people dont get married quick...
Marriage = Consent from God to have sex.. lol
Well, Islam reccomends early marriage for obvious reasons. Actually, obvious REASON.
BaByGirL24
September 17th, 2006, 08:27 PM
:hug: AWWWWWW i missed u too hunnie
i was in bangladesh..
how are things?
darn it.. i gotta go.. take care :kiss:
ohhh! did you have fun? pics? :D
we will talk when you return, ta-ta
Space-Cowboy
September 17th, 2006, 08:27 PM
Love
does it mean any thing?
hmmm after a lot of thinking.. i have cme to this conclusion..
GUYs love.. cuz they wanna get into ur pants.. or.. they just like to get the attention or play around..
cuz to them love= sex
i am sure as hell the term.. "Love making"
was started by a man
gurls love.. cuz they think they are living in a fairy tale.. and like to think of themselves as Cinderella or.. snowhite.. or some other princess..
or.. like to get into a guys pant ( most unlikely cuz guys dont need any bullshit like " i love u" to give it up lol )
what do u think RD?
http://forums.ratedesi.com/showthread.php?t=180924
PaGaLkHaN
September 17th, 2006, 08:28 PM
awww i missed you girl, where have you been?
hey u have alot of haters on this site... people were bad mouthing u... but unlike immature people on this site... i wont say the names!! but i wanted to let u know that u have a fan club miss sana...
PaGaLkHaN
September 17th, 2006, 08:28 PM
:hug: AWWWWWW i missed u too hunnie
i was in bangladesh..
how are things?
darn it.. i gotta go.. take care :kiss:
where the hell is my hug
BaByGirL24
September 17th, 2006, 08:29 PM
hey u have alot of haters on this site... people were bad mouthing u... but unlike immature people on this site... i wont say the names!! but i wanted to let u know that u have a fan club miss sana...
lol i know who they are so you can name some if you want.
PaGaLkHaN
September 17th, 2006, 08:31 PM
lol i know who they are so you can name some if you want.
its so funny.... i have alot of haters too... mine is because i dont put out lol but no.. i dont want anymore e drama on this site then there already is.. but i did want to let u know... i stick up for u!! :wavey:
Gimmeck
September 17th, 2006, 08:34 PM
Ive never abused to term "love"
versatil
September 17th, 2006, 08:34 PM
yeh ok... :D
Since I can have quarters you should be able to have more than one-half. However, I'm afraid if we split your half in half we'd have 2 dead halves of your half. I'm not sure if you could do anything with that asides from sit in a cell serving out your manslaughter sentence. :(
chak_de_phate
September 17th, 2006, 08:34 PM
Love
does it mean any thing?
hmmm after a lot of thinking.. i have cme to this conclusion..
GUYs love.. cuz they wanna get into ur pants.. or.. they just like to get the attention or play around..
cuz to them love= sex
i am sure as hell the term.. "Love making"
was started by a man
gurls love.. cuz they think they are living in a fairy tale.. and like to think of themselves as Cinderella or.. snowhite.. or some other princess..
or.. like to get into a guys pant ( most unlikely cuz guys dont need any bullshit like " i love u" to give it up lol )
what do u think RD?
Yes, it is true that most men would tell a woman that they love them to get into their pants....but most is not all. I know guys in serious long relationships that haven't slept with their gf. If love is just sex then it isn't really love is it?
ana
September 17th, 2006, 08:35 PM
I'm going to bottle lovers.
BaByGirL24
September 17th, 2006, 08:35 PM
its so funny.... i have alot of haters too... mine is because i dont put out lol but no.. i dont want anymore e drama on this site then there already is.. but i did want to let u know... i stick up for u!! :wavey:
oh yeah..and they're mostly girls, i agree. perhaps it's jealousy, a lot of people in real life are jealous of me...girls that is..that's why i don't talk to them that much. i only have a few girl friends, cause if i have to many, there will be drama, therefore i try to stay away from them.
i do have many guy friends, they are better.
selina_786
September 17th, 2006, 08:35 PM
Bollywood believes in 'pyar' at first sight.
fr00ti
September 17th, 2006, 08:36 PM
You just haven't met the right guy yet.
ana
September 17th, 2006, 08:37 PM
You just haven't met the right guy yet.
Oyyy jeeeee, aur apko vo sahi ladka milgaya?
Aiiiiihaiiiii, javaaani kya cheez hai!
PaGaLkHaN
September 17th, 2006, 08:39 PM
oh yeah..and they're mostly girls, i agree. perhaps it's jealousy, a lot of people in real life are jealous of me...girls that is..that's why i don't talk to them that much. i only have a few girl friends, cause if i have to many, there will be drama, therefore i try to stay away from them.
i do have many guy friends, they are better.
i think they hate on " US " cause of our beauty... what.. are we supposed to hate God cause we know people want us... jeez! *sigh* and ur right..mostly girls but there are guys too...but i think they are the ones u said no too!! i have a lot of guy haters.... what are we gonna do
versatil
September 17th, 2006, 08:39 PM
Bollywood believes in 'pyar' at first sight.
ROFL
i just noticed pyar is "rayp" spelled backwards :rofl:
Pakidoll82
September 17th, 2006, 08:40 PM
Since I can have quarters you should be able to have more than one-half. However, I'm afraid if we split your half in half we'd have 2 dead halves of your half. I'm not sure if you could do anything with that asides from sit in a cell serving out your manslaughter sentence. :(
lol acha... now ur making my head hurt... :sarb: :(
versatil
September 17th, 2006, 08:40 PM
You just haven't met the right guy yet.
:neutral:
versatil
September 17th, 2006, 08:40 PM
lol acha... now ur making my head hurt... :sarb: :(
Socrates for the win! :cheers:
fr00ti
September 17th, 2006, 08:41 PM
Oyyy jeeeee, aur apko vo sahi ladka milgaya?
Aiiiiihaiiiii, javaaani kya cheez hai!
LOL...
Decency does exist in the male gender.. quite a few of them.. :p
fr00ti
September 17th, 2006, 08:42 PM
:neutral:
a-bisthar..why the :|?
selina_786
September 17th, 2006, 08:42 PM
Men know exactly what the definition of 'love' is. Women can't tell when a man REALLY is head over heels for them, I mean in love with them hence women are foolish.
Most women will give their all to a man who supposedly provides them security, confidance, compliments, money, and etc etc etc, BUT, those are all perequisite to Love, the 3 silly words 'I love you' make a huge difference. In other words, all is in control of the woman, but she has it in her head that a man can only be a good bf/husband material if hes in love with her, for those other (as mentioned above) essential requirements of the relationship to follow on. Buwahahhaha Women.
BaByGirL24
September 17th, 2006, 08:43 PM
i think they hate on " US " cause of our beauty... what.. are we supposed to hate God cause we know people want us... jeez! *sigh* and ur right..mostly girls but there are guys too...but i think they are the ones u said no too!! i have a lot of guy haters.... what are we gonna do
:werd: to everything you said.
versatil
September 17th, 2006, 08:44 PM
a-bisthar..why the :|?
I dunno. The "Right guy" didn't sound appropriate. Right guys perhaps. but right guy? hrm.
selina_786
September 17th, 2006, 08:44 PM
ROFL
i just noticed pyar is "rayp" spelled backwards :rofl:
:rofl: :rofl:
versatil
September 17th, 2006, 08:45 PM
Men know exactly what the definition of 'love' is. Women can't tell when a man REALLY is head over heels for them, I mean in love with them hence women are foolish.
Most women will give their all to a man who supposedly provides them security, confidance, compliments, money, and etc etc etc, BUT, those are all perequisite to Love, the 3 silly words 'I love you' make a huge difference. In other words, all is in control of the woman, but she has it in her head that a man can only be a good bf/husband material if hes in love with her, for those other (as mentioned above) essential requirements of the relationship to follow on. Buwahahhaha Women.
"in love" doesn't last forever. D:
selina_786
September 17th, 2006, 08:46 PM
"in love" doesn't last forever. D:Okay thanx for putting it in simpler context, biatch. No woman will believe that :hand: Ofcourse, Except I. LOL
ana
September 17th, 2006, 08:46 PM
LOL @ rayp.
Smart desis. Prewarned their kids.
PaGaLkHaN
September 17th, 2006, 08:50 PM
:werd: to everything you said.
its ok... when u see or hear people bashing me.. u can protect and stick up for me... and if i see the same.. ill stick up for u!!
ladoo20
September 17th, 2006, 08:52 PM
love should not exist before you finish ur education!
GT & MK KING
September 17th, 2006, 08:53 PM
love should not exist before you finish ur education!
thats what me and my fiancee are doin...we r finishn college and gettn married. she is in pakistan and i am here.
versatil
September 17th, 2006, 08:53 PM
Okay thanx for putting it in simpler context, biatch. No woman will believe that :hand: Ofcourse, Except I. LOL
I wasn't putting anything into any context. I was just saying the effect of being in love or the state of being in love is not in some fantasy stasis. It wears off after some time and both partners gotta work it out from then on. If you're amazing like me you'll either make it seem as if it never wore off in the first place... or just panic and get acquainted with your local cliff. :|
versatil
September 17th, 2006, 08:54 PM
love should not exist before you finish ur education!
Yes. That's why you go to school and meet tons of guys.
Foxy_Lay_D
September 17th, 2006, 08:54 PM
Love
does it mean any thing?
hmmm after a lot of thinking.. i have cme to this conclusion..
GUYs love.. cuz they wanna get into ur pants.. or.. they just like to get the attention or play around..
cuz to them love= sex
i am sure as hell the term.. "Love making"
was started by a man
gurls love.. cuz they think they are living in a fairy tale.. and like to think of themselves as Cinderella or.. snowhite.. or some other princess..
or.. like to get into a guys pant ( most unlikely cuz guys dont need any bullshit like " i love u" to give it up lol )
what do u think RD?
Sorry dude not all girls live's in a fairy tale/Bollywood movies lol. Atleast im not. And i think that a guy can care for a girl its not always about the sex.
selina_786
September 17th, 2006, 08:55 PM
I wasn't putting anything into any context. I was just saying the effect of being in love or the state of being in love is not in some fantasy stasis. It wears off after some time and both partners gotta work it out from then on. If you're amazing like me you'll either make it seem as if it never wore off in the first place... or just panic and get acquainted with your local cliff. :|
Umm okay, I kinda.. knew that. Did I? :confused:
Anywayz yup, agree with you.
ladoo20
September 17th, 2006, 08:56 PM
Yes. That's why you go to school and meet tons of guys.
you can meet them...who says u gotta love em...
no one is capable of love before they can become independent...
so figure out who u are and then ruin someone elses life by falling in love with them:)
Riddemz
September 17th, 2006, 08:56 PM
Love
hmmm after a lot of thinking.. i have cme to this conclusion..
GUYs love.. cuz they wanna get into ur pants.. or.. they just like to get the attention or play around..
cuz to them love= sex
well you wasted time thinking
selina_786
September 17th, 2006, 08:57 PM
Girls shouldnt be allowed to have boyfriends before the age of 18, seriously look at all of these lovechilds roaming around the streets with no idea of whom their father is.
versatil
September 17th, 2006, 08:59 PM
you can meet them...who says u gotta love em...
no one is capable of love before they can become independent...
so figure out who u are and then ruin someone elses life by falling in love with them:)
what do you mean noone is capable of love before they can become independent? before they can become or before they become? or are you trying to say noone is capable of a marriage sort of relationship before they're independent?
wtf are you saying? D:
versatil
September 17th, 2006, 09:00 PM
Girls shouldnt be allowed to have boyfriends before the age of 18, seriously look at all of these lovechilds roaming around the streets with no idea of whom their father is.
::tugs skirt, looks up::
:tears:
Are you my daddy?
PaGaLkHaN
September 17th, 2006, 09:00 PM
Girls shouldnt be allowed to have boyfriends before the age of 18, seriously look at all of these lovechilds roaming around the streets with no idea of whom their father is.
I AGREE!!!! i'm one of those love childs..... fathers day is so confusing for me..
selina_786
September 17th, 2006, 09:00 PM
::tugs skirt, looks up::
:tears:
Are you my daddy?
:rofl: Meri besati ho gayee hahahaha :p
selina_786
September 17th, 2006, 09:01 PM
I AGREE!!!! i'm one of those love childs..... fathers day is so confusing for me..
Does that explain why you hate homos? :p
Bad joke, bad joke. I'm just bored, sorry :neutral:
Foxy_Lay_D
September 17th, 2006, 09:02 PM
well you wasted time thinking
She was thinkin with her pussy lol
selina_786
September 17th, 2006, 09:02 PM
She was thinkin with her pussy lol
:rofl:
ladoo20
September 17th, 2006, 09:05 PM
what do you mean noone is capable of love before they can become independent? before they can become or before they become? or are you trying to say noone is capable of a marriage sort of relationship before they're independent?
wtf are you saying? D:
before you can love someone, you need to know who you are...
you need to be independent character wise..such as having low self esteem that you need a man or a woman to boost it up for you. thats just one example...when you are confident of who you are, and independent from your weak side, then you are ready to love someone.
otherwise you will always want that person to fullfill ur empty gaps...and they will never be able to satisfy you...
Space-Cowboy
September 17th, 2006, 09:07 PM
Romantic love is just an emotional bi-product.. of our instinctive need to reproduce.
versatil
September 17th, 2006, 09:10 PM
:rofl: Meri besati ho gayee hahahaha :p
What? :|
PaGaLkHaN
September 17th, 2006, 09:12 PM
Does that explain why you hate homos? :p
Bad joke, bad joke. I'm just bored, sorry :neutral:
you have got it my child... my god u have a lot of posts!!! how do u do it
selina_786
September 17th, 2006, 09:14 PM
What? :|
Shite, my bad. I forgot you iz pure coconutty.
I said, you has put me down :ashamed:
versatil
September 17th, 2006, 09:15 PM
before you can love someone, you need to know who you are...
you need to be independent character wise..such as having low self esteem that you need a man or a woman to boost it up for you. thats just one example...when you are confident of who you are, and independent from your weak side, then you are ready to love someone.
otherwise you will always want that person to fullfill ur empty gaps...and they will never be able to satisfy you...
:no:
Either you have a lot of growing up to do or you're not entirely sure what you're talking about hence are having much difficulty trying to articulate whatever the hell it is you're trying to say. Independent... character-wise? Or just downright independent? (Latter as in you can't enter a relationship being/becoming co-dependent?)
What's all this nonsense about being ready to love someone? If you're not confident and all that jazz then the chances are you're still in a vulnerable state in which you cannot help who you fall for.
What does satifying you have anything to do with this conversation? Contentment is contentment, love is love, happiness is happiness, they're different things.
versatil
September 17th, 2006, 09:16 PM
Shite, my bad. I forgot you iz pure coconutty.
I said, you has put me down :ashamed:
...
I don't get it.
Did you just call me hairy and full of puss in the face? :(
versatil
September 17th, 2006, 09:16 PM
you have got it my child... my god u have a lot of posts!!! how do u do it
like this.
fr00ti
September 17th, 2006, 09:18 PM
:no:
Either you have a lot of growing up to do or you're not entirely sure what you're talking about hence are having much difficulty trying to articulate whatever the hell it is you're trying to say. Independent... character-wise? Or just downright independent? (Latter as in you can't enter a relationship being/becoming co-dependent?)
What's all this nonsense about being ready to love someone? If you're not confident and all that jazz then the chances are you're still in a vulnerable state in which you cannot help who you fall for.
What does satifying you have anything to do with this conversation? Contentment is contentment, love is love, happiness is happiness, they're different things.
Try taking your own advice as well, Bisthar :p
versatil
September 17th, 2006, 09:25 PM
Try taking your own advice as well, Bisthar :p
huh?
SillyKitty
September 19th, 2006, 06:30 PM
:lol: u gotta be trippn...she is happy for me that i am engaged
cuz we got college to finish. summer we'll have a wonderful shaadhi.
i'll work on the papers when i come back for her to come here and have one here as well (to make it legit here cuz it's legit in pakistan). ur invited once i found out where n when here.
hit me up if u can and we will talk. ;)
u got that right
any ways.. so why not get married and then finish college?
fattygirl
September 19th, 2006, 06:31 PM
I dont know what it will take for you to realize that girls and guys are all the same, think about it. We all think alike :hand:
SillyKitty
September 19th, 2006, 06:33 PM
A lot of folks can relate to that. It's normal. But you know it's for good when you don't even have to worry about losing them because of the strong bond yall have built upon.
yea true.. its good when u DONT have to worry about losing them..
but then its not passionate.. u just kinda take each other for granted.. if u dont get scared about losing them some day..
i sometimes thrive on that lol.. on that rush.. that makes it all so interesting..
SillyKitty
September 19th, 2006, 06:33 PM
When a bollywood song triggers a deep, emotional thought....make sure you drive a staple through your palm. And for godsakes...don't make a thread.
make sure u dont read em..
:neutral:
SillyKitty
September 19th, 2006, 06:34 PM
Love, so many things i gotta tell ya.
I know..
SillyKitty
September 19th, 2006, 06:35 PM
http://images.google.no/images?q=tbn:lDbT07CaubBNzM:http://www.sallad.net/blog
theyre not as beautiful as u tho
awwwwwwww
:hug:
u are soo sweeet.... :tears:
SillyKitty
September 19th, 2006, 06:38 PM
Yes, it is true that most men would tell a woman that they love them to get into their pants....but most is not all. I know guys in serious long relationships that haven't slept with their gf. If love is just sex then it isn't really love is it?
Ok the thing isssss
guys just turn bad after dating me..
i donno how come..
maybe cuz i am too sweet with them.. (not just them.. i am sweet with every one who deserves it)
so they get this wrong idea about me being an easy target..
and thats where they are WRONG
SillyKitty
September 19th, 2006, 06:50 PM
Bollywood believes in 'pyar' at first sight.
i had pyaar at first sight at this melaaaaaaaa :eek:
lol.. well not really.. just a lil crush..
that guy was daamn good looking.. plays guitar.. glasses on.. had a bandana. and a scorpio..
but.. he ressembles and uncle of mine.. who i have the biggest crush on.. lol
SillyKitty
September 19th, 2006, 06:51 PM
You just haven't met the right guy yet.
hmmmm i guess i never will.. :dunno:
cuz.. this palm reader told me.. that i would never have a love marriage.. :no:
that like totally broke my heart..
SillyKitty
September 19th, 2006, 06:52 PM
i think they hate on " US " cause of our beauty... what.. are we supposed to hate God cause we know people want us... jeez! *sigh* and ur right..mostly girls but there are guys too...but i think they are the ones u said no too!! i have a lot of guy haters.... what are we gonna dopagal khaaan.. u look like the owner of the restaurant i work at :eek: he is sylheti..
SillyKitty
September 19th, 2006, 06:54 PM
Men know exactly what the definition of 'love' is. Women can't tell when a man REALLY is head over heels for them, I mean in love with them hence women are foolish.
Most women will give their all to a man who supposedly provides them security, confidance, compliments, money, and etc etc etc, BUT, those are all perequisite to Love, the 3 silly words 'I love you' make a huge difference. In other words, all is in control of the woman, but she has it in her head that a man can only be a good bf/husband material if hes in love with her, for those other (as mentioned above) essential requirements of the relationship to follow on. Buwahahhaha Women.
hmmm.. not for me.. i dont really need all thouse..
i let my heart decide on whether i love that perticular guy or not..
not what he can provide me..
SillyKitty
September 19th, 2006, 06:58 PM
I wasn't putting anything into any context. I was just saying the effect of being in love or the state of being in love is not in some fantasy stasis. It wears off after some time and both partners gotta work it out from then on. If you're amazing like me you'll either make it seem as if it never wore off in the first place... or just panic and get acquainted with your local cliff. :|
blaaaah..
love is complecated.. maybe no one should fall in love.. everrrr
SillyKitty
September 19th, 2006, 06:59 PM
Sorry dude not all girls live's in a fairy tale/Bollywood movies lol. Atleast im not. And i think that a guy can care for a girl its not always about the sex.
yes and those typa guys are very rare.. other then that type
either they are not sexually attracted to her (which is the worst) or he is gay.. or he is just too scared to make a move..
or he is just a rare gem of a guy...
SillyKitty
September 19th, 2006, 07:02 PM
She was thinkin with her pussy lol
naah sex dont flick an interest in me any more..
i was thinking more like a guy.. ( most of the guys that iss)
SillyKitty
September 19th, 2006, 07:03 PM
Romantic love is just an emotional bi-product.. of our instinctive need to reproduce.
Hmmmmmmmmm....
good point...
but i hate that point...
SillyKitty
September 19th, 2006, 07:08 PM
I dont know what it will take for you to realize that girls and guys are all the same, think about it. We all think alike :hand:
not really
because guys pack loads of testosterone (maybe wrong spelling)
but yea i know where u getting at though.. girls wanna have equal rights..
maybe even surpass the guys.. money education.. sexuality.. etc
Space-Cowboy
September 19th, 2006, 07:39 PM
Hmmmmmmmmm....
good point...
but i hate that point...
but it's true.....
:mrhappy:
Suga_Lips
September 19th, 2006, 07:50 PM
i agree with you, but i also think that not all girls and guys are like that...for example....ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years now...and i love him very much...and he does too....and they're other ways to express "love" instead of the sexual way...and we didnt have to have sex to express our love to each other....so ya :eek:
SillyKitty
September 19th, 2006, 08:01 PM
i agree with you, but i also think that not all girls and guys are like that...for example....ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years now...and i love him very much...and he does too....and they're other ways to express "love" instead of the sexual way...and we didnt have to have sex to express our love to each other....so ya :eek:yea i got u.. i guess its cuz i move around too much that i cudnt connect with guys tha much..
but it's true.....
:mrhappy:unfortunately
T.Dimera
September 19th, 2006, 10:12 PM
i never really been in love before...i got my career set so it seems like next logical step...from my experience...finding 'that connection' with someone is a lot more difficult then it is in the movies or in fairy tales....
SillyKitty
September 20th, 2006, 07:14 PM
i never really been in love before...i got my career set so it seems like next logical step...from my experience...finding 'that connection' with someone is a lot more difficult then it is in the movies or in fairy tales....
for some reason it used 2 b too easy for me before.....(finding the connection)
but i ruined myself with the insanity of that force... so i m kinda takin it all easy now..and focusing on family..ONLY
T.Dimera
September 20th, 2006, 10:02 PM
for some reason it used 2 b too easy for me before.....(finding the connection)
but i ruined myself with the insanity of that force... so i m kinda takin it all easy now..and focusing on family..ONLY
I gathered that about you...
I have a lot of things going on in my life...I'd like to believe I have all the qualities girls look for..and I get dates...its just difficult to find that connection..and I'm not getting any younger
SillyKitty
September 20th, 2006, 10:06 PM
I gathered that about you...
I have a lot of things going on in my life...I'd like to believe I have all the qualities girls look for..and I get dates...its just difficult to find that connection..and I'm not getting any younger
lol.. how old are u?
hmm ya.. i donno what made me do what ever i did before.. actually.. its not my fault.. its the circumstances..
now i am just clearing my head slowly but surely.. and finding out that if it has to happen it will happen.. i dont have to rush anything.. and i have put that in my head soo fiercely ... to the point of not caring anymore(about love or what ever u call it)
because i have A LONGGG way to go.. to make my parents happy
T.Dimera
September 20th, 2006, 10:21 PM
lol.. how old are u?
hmm ya.. i donno what made me do what ever i did before.. actually.. its not my fault.. its the circumstances..
now i am just clearing my head slowly but surely.. and finding out that if it has to happen it will happen.. i dont have to rush anything.. and i have put that in my head soo fiercely ... to the point of not caring anymore(about love or what ever u call it)
because i have A LONGGG way to go.. to make my parents happy
my philosophy is to live life happily and let things fall into place...but every once in a while..you need to give life a little nudge to make things happen...
you were probably a younger when you fell hard in those emotions...1st loves are always the hardest...
I'm 25
SillyKitty
September 20th, 2006, 10:26 PM
my philosophy is to live life happily and let things fall into place...but every once in a while..you need to give life a little nudge to make things happen...
you were probably a younger when you fell hard in those emotions...1st loves are always the hardest...
I'm 25
hmmmm.. i guess so.. but i wasnt happy for a second in my first relationship.
well see an astrologer.. they cud give you really great advices ... i never listened to my astrologer.. untill recently.. and i feel much better..
T.Dimera
September 20th, 2006, 10:38 PM
hmmmm.. i guess so.. but i wasnt happy for a second in my first relationship.
well see an astrologer.. they cud give you really great advices ... i never listened to my astrologer.. untill recently.. and i feel much better..
you really believe in that :sarb: what did yours tell you?
SillyKitty
September 20th, 2006, 10:46 PM
you really believe in that :sarb: what did yours tell you?
a lot of things that rang true for me..
and it was to the point too..
like he told me how i really am.. and what i need to do in order to handle my self..
its because.. of my moon..
this is what it says..
" your emotional intensity is difficult to miss. You can be quite compulsive, and when you are in a "groove" may find it difficult to get out. Men may be especially intimidated by your sensuality, and if you have control issues, you may even project an aura of power that can overwhelm any man who gets close to you (at least occasionally). With your moon in that aspect, you can be emotionally volatile. You may feel overly defensive, and can react to others in inappropriate ways when you feel insecure. Your lack of trust for me can be extremely marked. So it would be wise if u just not get into a fickle relationship. You have to be content with yourself first and have to handle yourself, before you want to get into a relationship."
aand a whole lot more.. thats just a fraction of it..
T.Dimera
September 20th, 2006, 10:57 PM
a lot of things that rang true for me..
and it was to the point too..
like he told me how i really am.. and what i need to do in order to handle my self..
its because.. of my moon..
this is what it says..
" your emotional intensity is difficult to miss. You can be quite compulsive, and when you are in a "groove" may find it difficult to get out. Men may be especially intimidated by your sensuality, and if you have control issues, you may even project an aura of power that can overwhelm any man who gets close to you (at least occasionally). With your moon in that aspect, you can be emotionally volatile. You may feel overly defensive, and can react to others in inappropriate ways when you feel insecure. Your lack of trust for me can be extremely marked. So it would be wise if u just not get into a fickle relationship. You have to be content with yourself first and have to handle yourself, before you want to get into a relationship."
aand a whole lot more.. thats just a fraction of it..
did he predict your future? or just tell you who you are...
SillyKitty
September 20th, 2006, 11:03 PM
did he predict your future? or just tell you who you are...
predicting future? no one can really do that..
they can just tell you what you SHOULD do.. and what changes u might expect..
he gave me some advices.. besically guided me..
T.Dimera
September 20th, 2006, 11:28 PM
predicting future? no one can really do that..
they can just tell you what you SHOULD do.. and what changes u might expect..
he gave me some advices.. besically guided me..
some astrologists claim they can predict the future based on your sign and star patterns...hmmm anyways, i might do it for fun...I'm a libra to this should be interesting
SillyKitty
September 20th, 2006, 11:32 PM
some astrologists claim they can predict the future based on your sign and star patterns...hmmm anyways, i might do it for fun...I'm a libra to this should be interesting
Uh not really.. they just want ur money.. they charge like 200 dollars per question which is ridiculous.. and they know people wont spend THAT much money for mere advices. So they exaggerate and talk about they can predict the future.
sure.. i will give you the web address..
GT & MK KING
September 20th, 2006, 11:51 PM
u got that right
any ways.. so why not get married and then finish college?
at the moment, i'm tryn to finish my degree and so is she. that's why we're waitn for 2 yrs...by that time we're gonna be done by then. our shaadhi will be amazing...chek my pics of my bro's wedding.
i wanna have what he had during his wedding. (the fancy car that he rented, the 5-Star hotel he stayed at for 10 days, married a beautiful woman)
T.Dimera
September 20th, 2006, 11:57 PM
Uh not really.. they just want ur money.. they charge like 200 dollars per question which is ridiculous.. and they know people wont spend THAT much money for mere advices. So they exaggerate and talk about they can predict the future.
sure.. i will give you the web address..
perhaps you can PM it to me...this should be interesting...
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