SOME EX-GIRLFRIENDS are.....

[sexxichic2envy]

Conniving, Trifling, Back stabbing, Manipulative, Cunning, Selfish, Shameless, Sneaky, Scandalous, wicked (not wicked as in cool for you UK'ers), devlish BITCHES....

Any of you have stories of exs you would like to share???

Well let me tell you....my man's ex...the dumb bitch....even though she has a man, insists on sending him messages like 'i miss you' , 'i went to where we had our first date *memories*' , 'You will always hold a special place in my heart' ..........:blahblah: :blowme:

He's so fuckin naive, he says she's happy with the man she's with and she means nothing by it. Fuckin men sometimes are so ignorant... doesn't he understand how sneaky and caniving some bitches can be?!?!

Ladies......amirite, or amirite??! :raving:

[.AK.]

ahahahhahah

ahahahhahahaha
ahahhahahaa

[sexxichic2envy]

ahahahhahah

ahahahhahahaha
ahahhahahaa
:slap: feel my pain damnit!

:eyebrow:

[Shh! Dont tell]

No one's naive in this world anymore. Your guy should know that she still misses him.

[FScott]

i hope she steals him, inshallah.

[.AK.]

:slap: feel my pain damnit!

:eyebrow:
let me point out the obious things in this:
a) she still likes ur guy
b) ur guy still likes her if he's defending thatmabey not something ud wanna hear but its tru
c) u shoulda be hella pissed off right now

[sexxichic2envy]

No one's naive in this world anymore. Your guy should know that she still misses him.
Shit, i don't know. He says, well why would she still think of me when she has a man? I wanted to shake him violently at this time and tell him to wake up and smell the stench of a scandalous woman!!!

:no: I don't want to stoop to her level... But I'm majboor :ashamed:

[sexxichic2envy]

i hope she steals him, inshallah.
:D I hope you suck on your own unnecessary self-confidence and choke.

[BijouxBisous]

don't blame the woman's tricks... blame the man's dick.

[sexxichic2envy]

let me point out the obious things in this:
a) she still likes ur guy
b) ur guy still likes her if he's defending thatmabey not something ud wanna hear but its tru
c) u shoulda be hella pissed off right now

a)i know
b)maybe....it was a whole 4 years
c) pissed is an understatement
d) holla fo a dolla!

[.AK.]

Shit, i don't know. He says, well why would she still think of me when she has a man? I wanted to shake him violently at this time and tell him to wake up and smell the stench of a scandalous woman!!!

:no: I don't want to stoop to her lever... But I'm majboor :ashamed:
tell him u miss ur ex and that u went by the place u and ur ex had ur date n it brought memories. he'lll feel soo nice then, and when he goes oh :Blah: thats not right, be like exactly so stop talking to ur ex(and at this time point out u werent serious about wut u said about UR ex)

[sexxichic2envy]

don't blame the woman's tricks... blame the man's dick.
:think: interesting point of view.

[MissAdore]

i hope she steals him, inshallah.
:lol:

[FScott]

:D I hope you suck on your own unnecessary self-confidence and choke.why would self confidence by unnecessary? i really hope you get dumped like a truck, yo. inshallah.

[Shh! Dont tell]

Shit, i don't know. He says, well why would she still think of me when she has a man? I wanted to shake him violently at this time and tell him to wake up and smell the stench of a scandalous woman!!!

:no: I don't want to stoop to her lever... But I'm majboor :ashamed:WTF?


Okay, I give you all rights to hit your man... get some sense into him. She obviously doesnt want to be friends if she's sending messages like "i miss you" and shit. She's still liking him. And like ali said, it also could be your guy still has feelings for her.





I hope not.

[jus_me]

did your bf tell you about the messages or did you find them yourself?

my fiances exes leave him alone :)

there is one girl he dated for a few months and we are mates..not very close mates but we go out together and stuff.

[.AK.]

don't blame the woman's tricks... blame the man's dick.
im guessing thats why theres a "i miss u" in ur sig? im sorry for being blessed:hand:

[sexxichic2envy]

why would self confidence by unnecessary? i really hope you get dumped like a truck, yo. inshallah.
Don't you have a drama or picwhore thread u should be making???

[MissAdore]

If a guy is naive enough to fall for his ex's trap.. is he really smart enough for you?

[FScott]

Don't you have a drama or picwhore thread u should be making???Nope, I'm all your's yo. And patiently waiting for the "MY BF'S EXGIRLFRIEND STOLE HIM FROM ME."...I'll be here with a box of tissues, innit? Inshallah.

[.AK.]

a)i know
b)maybe....it was a whole 4 years
c) pissed is an understatement
d) holla fo a dolla!
a) deal with her b4 it gets worse, and these kinda things do get worse
b) 4 years eh? how long ago after they broke up did u guys start, n why'd they break up?
c) i can imagine, id shoot the bitch if i was in ur place
d) hollllaaaaaaaaaa! (pm me for my paypal address for the dolla)

[.AK.]

If a guy is naive enough to fall for his ex's trap.. is he really smart enough for you?
is that a trick question?

[FScott]

If a guy is naive enough to fall for his ex's trap.. is he really smart enough for you?lol, she can't spell "coniving". He'd have to be suffering from Down's Syndrome to be "not smart enough" for her. Innit?

[FScott]

a) deal with her b4 it gets worse, and these kinda things do get worse
b) 4 years eh? how long ago after they broke up did u guys start, n why'd they break up?
c) i can imagine, id shoot the bitch if i was in ur place
d) hollllaaaaaaaaaa! (pm me for my paypal address for the dolla)
only puerto ricans do that.

[MissAdore]

is that a trick question?
Nope. I think of it this way.. if a guy is naive enough to fall for his ex's bullshit, then he aint worthy of you.

[sexxichic2envy]

did your bf tell you about the messages or did you find them yourself?

my fiances exes leave him alone :)

there is one girl he dated for a few months and we are mates..not very close mates but we go out together and stuff.
I saw them on his myspace :lol:

Not all exes are like that... but this chick pretends to be sweet and then leaves shit like that purposely knowing I'll read it. :rolleyes:

[.AK.]

only puerto ricans do that.
we dont have them in canada:( and i like latin women:(

[sweet_like_choc]

i hope she steals him, inshallah.

lollllll

[.AK.]

Nope. I think of it this way.. if a guy is naive enough to fall for his ex's bullshit, then he aint worthy of you.
is that a trick answer?

[FScott]

we dont have them in canada:( and i like latin women:(You have Degrassi, you ungrateful monkey.

[MissAdore]

lol, she can't spell "coniving". He'd have to be suffering from Down's Syndrome to be "not smart enough" for her. Innit?
She's just in a bad mood.. she needs some time to rant.

[jus_me]

I saw them on his myspace :lol:

Not all exes are like that... but this chick pretends to be sweet and then leaves shit like that purposely knowing I'll read it. :rolleyes:

lol..maybe she is just doing it for that reason, that you will see it and then question him and break up with him so she can worm her way in. Then she can turn around and say she didnt DO anything to break you up, which would be true because you just assumed from the messages you read.


yeah ive got a psycho ex..he still decides to play mind games with me now and then but they dont work anymore :D

maybe you should just ignore what shes saying..is your bf protective of his phone aswell?

[MissAdore]

is that a trick answer?
:slap:

[sexxichic2envy]

lol, she can't spell "coniving". He'd have to be suffering from Down's Syndrome to be "not smart enough" for her. Innit?
Well, idiot, at least if you're going to correct me, correct me correctly. It's two 'n's...... dumb emo bitch

[MissAdore]

There was this girl who just hooked up with this guy and they broke up like a week later, and right infront of me she telling this girl who the guy she went out likes not to go out with him.

i'm like WTF!
After readin that I was like WTF! too.. guess we're on the same boat

[.AK.]

You have Degrassi, you ungrateful monkey.
so that IS FScott?:think:

[FScott]

She's just in a bad mood.. she needs some time to rant.Ranting isn't going to do anything. It's her boyfriend, grow up and speak to him, don't bitch about it on a site and blame the ex for saying, "I miss you." I hate insecure girls like her.

[Officer Khan]

Conniving, Trifling, Back stabbing, Manipulative, Cunning, Selfish, Shameless, Sneaky, Scandalous, wicked (not wicked as in cool for you UK'ers), devlish BITCHES....

Any of you have stories of exs you would like to share???

Well let me tell you....my man's ex...the dumb bitch....even though she has a man, insists on sending him messages like 'i miss you' , 'i went to where we had our first date *memories*' , 'You will always hold a special place in my heart' ..........:blahblah: :blowme:

He's so fuckin naive, he says she's happy with the man she's with and she means nothing by it. Fuckin men sometimes are so ignorant... doesn't he understand how sneaky and caniving some bitches can be?!?!

Ladies......amirite, or amirite??! :raving:


I say kill the bitch or just plainly beat the shit outta her

[MissAdore]

I saw them on his myspace :lol:

Not all exes are like that... but this chick pretends to be sweet and then leaves shit like that purposely knowing I'll read it. :rolleyes:
So she's trying to make you jealous and you're saying it's working on you.. haha you suck.

People always try to be cool on myspace, hi5, etc where everyone can read all their comments

[sexxichic2envy]

lol..maybe she is just doing it for that reason, that you will see it and then question him and break up with him so she can worm her way in. Then she can turn around and say she didnt DO anything to break you up, which would be true because you just assumed from the messages you read.


yeah ive got a psycho ex..he still decides to play mind games with me now and then but they dont work anymore :D

maybe you should just ignore what shes saying..is your bf protective of his phone aswell?
Wow, well good luck to you, too, hun. Ex's are crazy. And you're absolutely right.. I think she's doing it for that specific reason.

And no, he's not protective of his phone. He let's me look through it.....

[sexxichic2envy]

So she's trying to make you jealous and you're saying it's working on you.. haha you suck.

People always try to be cool on myspace, hi5, etc where everyone can read all their comments
No, not jealous. Jealous is when I think she has a chance with him. It's annoying though when they're over and she's leaving messages for him.

[MissAdore]

Well, idiot, at least if you're going to correct me, correct me correctly. It's two 'n's...... dumb emo bitch
And now you're taking out your anger on FScott :rolleyes:

Why can't you learn to deal with your emotions properly?

[MissAdore]

Ranting isn't going to do anything. It's her boyfriend, grow up and speak to him, don't bitch about it on a site and blame the ex for saying, "I miss you." I hate insecure girls like her.
:werd:

[sexxichic2envy]

I say kill the bitch or just plainly beat the shit outta her
:thumrigh: good answer!!! I don't know about homocide...BUT leaving some black and blues might prove to be beneficial

[addiction01]

Hey Didi, don't worry about it, if he's treating you like that, it's not worth it.

[FScott]

Well, idiot, at least if you're going to correct me, correct me correctly. It's two 'n's...... dumb emo bitch
So, Listen, don't make me start leaving your BF sexy myspace comments, kay? If you knew how to spell "conniving" correctly, why didn't you do it before? Why did you make a joke out of yourself and possibly put your english teacher's hard work to shame? If my children ever do that crap, I'll beat them. Inshallah. I have a high regard for teachers of English - the second most awesome language in the world.

[addiction01]

And now you're taking out your anger on FScott :rolleyes:

Why can't you learn to deal with your emotions properly?
Oh shit, e-back.

I don't understand why ppl post in threads if they really have nothing productive to say.

[sexxichic2envy]

And now you're taking out your anger on FScott :rolleyes:

Why can't you learn to deal with your emotions properly?
Oh, dear. By replying to her when's she obviously trying to be a bitch, doesn't mean I'm taking my anger out on her. And you kissing her ass doesn't help either. Go ahead, please jump on the bandwagon

[sexxichic2envy]

Oh shit, e-back.

I don't understand why ppl post in threads if they really have nothing productive to say.
:werd:

E-back...the latest express train to e-popularity

[FScott]

:werd:
If a girl was leaving the object of my affection "love notes"..I'd...
1. check her myspace out and see if he was reciprocating and ask him about it.
2. just ask him about it.
3. ask him about it.

Sure, it's fine to post a thread but like, jesus atleast talk to the man you're tonguing. Innit?

[MissAdore]

No, not jealous. Jealous is when I think she has a chance with him. It's annoying though when they're over and she's leaving messages for him.
So you made a whole thread about her.. and you aren't jealous? What a waste of time :neutral:

If you know that she's just annoying and doesn't have a chance with your bf then just get over it and move on with your life.. spend some time with your boyfriend, instead of ranting on RD

[Officer Khan]

:thumrigh: good answer!!! I don't know about homocide...BUT leaving some black and blues might prove to be beneficial

Yeah but wear a mask so that she cant press charges, and use ur hands as tools 2 hurt her!!!!!!! Feels good believe meh! :D

[FScott]

so that IS FScott?:think:what? :neutral:

[sexxichic2envy]

Hey Didi, don't worry about it, if he's treating you like that, it's not worth it.
Kidha Bhenji.... Lambhi kahani hain.......:no:
Tuhadi yaad bahoth aundi si.......:tears:

[MissAdore]

Oh shit, e-back.

I don't understand why ppl post in threads if they really have nothing productive to say.
If you go back and read I said exactly what you said in your first post.. he aint worth it :rolleyes:

[addiction01]

Kidha Bhenji.... Lambhi kahani hain.......:no:
Tuhadi yaad bahoth aundi si.......:tears:
Dumbass you should of PMed me :(.

Er I don't understand wot happened, but you're strong you'll be good.

[addiction01]

If you go back and read I said exactly what you said in your first post.. he aint worth it :rolleyes:
Nah that's not the point of wot I said, you obviously jumped on the FScott wagon. But wotever you do your suck ass thing, it may be your style of posting.

[sexxichic2envy]

So you made a whole thread about her.. and you aren't jealous? What a waste of time :neutral:

If you know that she's just annoying and doesn't have a chance with your bf then just get over it and move on with your life.. spend some time with your boyfriend, instead of ranting on RD
Seriously, how old are you? Making a thread doesn't make me jealous. I have a right to be pissed off, and yea I made a thread. I'm sorry I couldn't make one picwhoring or an appreciation thread.
Do you even know what jealousy means??

[MissAdore]

Oh, dear. By replying to her when's she obviously trying to be a bitch, doesn't mean I'm taking my anger out on her. And you kissing her ass doesn't help either. Go ahead, please jump on the bandwagon
If agreeing with someone's point of view that makes much more sense than the threadmaker's is called ass kissing.. then yes, I am kissing FScott's bum big time

[.AK.]

what? :neutral:
WHAT* is FScott

[sexxichic2envy]

If agreeing with someone's point of view that makes much more sense than the threadmaker's is called ass kissing.. then yes, I am kissing FScott's bum big time
I could give two shits if you agreed with her. You said I was taking my anger out on her......

Please make a bit of sense. A brain comes in handy

[MissAdore]

If a girl was leaving the object of my affection "love notes"..I'd...
1. check her myspace out and see if he was reciprocating and ask him about it.
2. just ask him about it.
3. ask him about it.

Sure, it's fine to post a thread but like, jesus atleast talk to the man you're tonguing. Innit?
:yes: Communication is the key to a healty relationship

[sexxichic2envy]

Dumbass you should of PMed me :(.

Er I don't understand wot happened, but you're strong you'll be good.
PM me...... main tuhani poori gaal daas di haan

[MissAdore]

Nah that's not the point of wot I said, you obviously jumped on the FScott wagon. But wotever you do your suck ass thing, it may be your style of posting.
Yup, I did jump on her wagon.. because I do agree with what she has to say. If you have problems with our opinions then just stay off the FScott wagon :hand:

[addiction01]

Yup, I did jump on her wagon.. because I do agree with what she has to say. If you have problems with our opinions then just stay off the FScott wagon :hand:
Immature much? Er, wotever I'm not going to get on your ass, if Aku associates with you there must be something in you. Anyways, I'm out.

[MissAdore]

Seriously, how old are you? Making a thread doesn't make me jealous. I have a right to be pissed off, and yea I made a thread. I'm sorry I couldn't make one picwhoring or an appreciation thread.
Do you even know what jealousy means??
Right.. and what are you trying to prove by ranting about her? :rolleyes:

[MissAdore]

WHAT* is FScott
Ali :lol:

[FScott]

If agreeing with someone's point of view that makes much more sense than the threadmaker's is called ass kissing.. then yes, I am kissing FScott's bum big timethat was sexy. i have a huge boner now.

[sexxichic2envy]

Right.. and what are you trying to prove by ranting about her? :rolleyes:
Let's see, Einstein. Perhaps the fact that his ex leaving poinless comments to him pissed me off????

[MissAdore]

I could give two shits if you agreed with her. You said I was taking my anger out on her......

Please make a bit of sense. A brain comes in handy
Maybe you could use your brain to carry out a mature conversation with your boyfriend about this instead of bitching on RD

[.AK.]

Ali :lol:
ji? :-s im lost

[FScott]

WHAT* is FScottd'ju mean, "who"

[MissAdore]

that was sexy. i have a huge boner now.
:anxious:

Let's get it onnnnnnnnnn :Pelvic2:

[.AK.]

d'ju mean, "who"
WHO* is FScott?


answer me alredy:squint:

[imdaman99]

so how many ex girlfriends have u had, my dear closet lesbo :p

[Diamond_babe]

My cousins ex is mental.. She cut her arm and shit. I mean if you want to fucking die, drink some poison or hang yourself up yo.

[MissAdore]

Let's see, Einstein. Perhaps the fact that his ex leaving poinless comments to him pissed me off????
then go tell him to delete those comments off his myspace if it's pissing you off so much

[MissAdore]

ji? :-s im lost
WHAT is FScott?

Answer: Human

[FScott]

WHO* is FScott?


answer me alredy:squint:Some guy in a movie.

[sexxichic2envy]

Maybe you could use your brain to carry out a mature conversation with your boyfriend about this instead of bitching on RD
First off, I have spoken to him. Assumption is the mother of all fuck ups. RD's forums are a place to talk... about anything you want.I do hope you realized that once you signed up.

[hakaanpathan]

Well thats what happens when you throw yourself to men like other typical desi girls. Why don't you tell him to change his number? I'm sure he would do that for you. Why don't you both just get married and stop hoein around.

:p

[sexxichic2envy]

so how many ex girlfriends have u had, my dear closet lesbo :p
:razz: just a few. None of em were kinky enough.

[sexxichic2envy]

My cousins ex is mental.. She cut her arm and shit. I mean if you want to fucking die, drink some poison or hang yourself up yo.
:ugh: She cut herself??? Ok, now SHE has something wrong with her. So cutting herself was a way to scare your cousin into getting back with her?

[Ravaged23]

My cousins ex is mental.. She cut her arm and shit. I mean if you want to fucking die, drink some poison or hang yourself up yo.


nah if i wanted to die i would go skydiving and just not open my parachute always did want to be able to fly ;)

[MissAdore]

First off, I have spoken to him. Assumption is the mother of all fuck ups. RD's forums are a place to talk... about anything you want.I do hope you realized that once you signed up.
Oh really? I thought we could only talk about Bollywood.. damn.. what a waste of all those Bollywood threads that I made :p

[sexxichic2envy]

nah if i wanted to die i would go skydiving and just not open my parachute always did want to be able to fly ;)
lol, that was random

[Ravaged23]

lol, that was random


some times u just gotta speak ur mind :eek:

[FScott]

sexxichic, be cool my baby, relax.

tell us what your boyfriend said

[Diamond_babe]

nah if i wanted to die i would go skydiving and just not open my parachute always did want to be able to fly ;)

Not everyone can afford skydiving yo. Especially when you want to die.

:ugh: She cut herself??? Ok, now SHE has something wrong with her. So cutting herself was a way to scare your cousin into getting back with her?

I dont know. Its a mental condition. Some people tend to harm themselves so that others will feel sorry for them and stuff. Weirdos.

[Rogue]

I've had some pretty psycho exes..., but i have remained in touch with like 2 of them (that were not psychos) that i tried to salvage a friendship with. both of them are in relationships and do say stuff like that from time to time in between other normal conversations...and i just let them know that "we had some good times which i'll always cherish myself, but don't ever forget about that woman (we became friends after he introduced her to me) with you that loves you and that you love back. you two have a great thing going, don't ever do anything to jeapordize that...cuz then you're gonna have something else to regret." (technically this chick who "cares" about him should kind of back off if she really does...i can't ever say "i miss you" to an ex even if i did cuz that'd be pretty selfish and could really screw up a lot of things. more harm in it than good)

...there was only one of my exes whose ex tried to contact me...this guy (who I actually never really had extremely strong feelings for even when i was dating him) who had some kind of sexual fling with some white chick months before he was dating me and this chick tried to contact me to send me conversations that she had had with him...and he freaked out and warned me about her (which obviously wasn't a good sign), but yea, when this girl did contact me on friendster (and she hooked back up to the other indian guy she had cheated on with the guy i was dating way back then) i politely declined...

but yea, i ended up dumping him a few months later anyway...and yea, he gave me some issues post dumping him too. but ah...it's all taken care of now.
good riddance to bad rubbish.

[sexxichic2envy]

Not everyone can afford skydiving yo. Especially when you want to die.



I dont know. Its a mental condition. Some people tend to harm themselves so that others will feel sorry for them and stuff. Weirdos.
Yea...ain't that the truth. So what happened after that? Did she finally come to her senses?

[sexxichic2envy]

some times u just gotta speak ur mind :eek:
You speaketh the truth. :yes:

[FScott]

Well thats what happens when you throw yourself to men like other typical desi girls. Why don't you tell him to change his number? I'm sure he would do that for you. Why don't you both just get married and stop hoein around.

:pYou are such an idiot.

[Ravaged23]

[QUOTE=Diamond_babe]Not everyone can afford skydiving yo. Especially when you want to die.


good pt.....oK then how bout a rooftop jump from the empire state building....nah scratch that i wouldnt want to end up in a dirty gutter....ah who cares i dont wanna off myself neway :o

[hakaanpathan]

You are such an idiot.

shut up ugly.

[sexxichic2envy]

I've had some pretty psycho exes..., but i have remained in touch with like 2 of them (that were not psychos) that i tried to salvage a friendship with. both of them are in relationships and do say stuff like that from time to time in between other normal conversations...and i just let them know that "we had some good times which i'll always cherish myself, but don't ever forget about that woman (we became friends after he introduced her to me) with you that loves you and that you love back. you two have a great thing going, don't ever do anything to jeapordize that...cuz then you're gonna have something else to regret." (technically this chick who "cares" about him should kind of back off if she really does...i can't ever say "i miss you" to an ex even if i did cuz that'd be pretty selfish and could really screw up a lot of things. more harm in it than good)

...there was only one of my exes whose ex tried to contact me...this guy (who I actually never really had extremely strong feelings for even when i was dating him) who had some kind of sexual fling with some white chick months before he was dating me and this chick tried to contact me to send me conversations that she had had with him...and he freaked out and warned me about her (which obviously wasn't a good sign), but yea, when this girl did contact me on friendster (and she hooked back up to the other indian guy she had cheated on with the guy i was dating way back then) i politely declined...

but yea, i ended up dumping him a few months later anyway...and yea, he gave me some issues post dumping him too. but ah...it's all taken care of now.
good riddance to bad rubbish.
Wow... you've had your share of drama. That's what I told him, that if she really cared about him, she wouldn't try to interfere and sabotage what he currently has with me. Me and him have been friends for a long time. And I've always loved him...and the first time they broke up (first time was a temporary break up)... even tho I had feelings for him, I told him to try and talk to her and get back together, because his happiness mattered to me.

So yesterday he tells me she swung by his job just to say hi. And then I'm told I'm not supposed to be mad.

[jus_me]

Wow, well good luck to you, too, hun. Ex's are crazy. And you're absolutely right.. I think she's doing it for that specific reason.

And no, he's not protective of his phone. He let's me look through it.....

thanks :)

its quite obvious why she is doing it then, just to get a reaction out of you and its working..

just ignore her, does your bf talk about her generally? or did he bring her up before you read the messages on myspace?

[sexxichic2envy]

thanks :)

its quite obvious why she is doing it then, just to get a reaction out of you and its working..

just ignore her, does your bf talk about her generally? or did he bring her up before you read the messages on myspace?
No, actually he's nonchalant about the whole situation. And no, he doesn't bring her up. Actually, he doesn't even like talking about her (she cheated on him when they were together).

And you're right.....she does it to get a reaction, and I'm giving into it. I still think girls are CONNIVING (there ya go FScott, correct spelling..)

And the quicker men realize how fucked up some chics can be, the better.

[Diamond_babe]

Yea...ain't that the truth. So what happened after that? Did she finally come to her senses?

I dont know.. Shes probably walking around with one arm or something :dunno:

[Sweet_LiL_Hunnie]

i think it's just some ppl in general but girls are more catty than guys and we're bitchier so i guess there are more issues between females than girls and guys.

i'd tell a story but now i look back on all the gay lame confrontations i'd have or fights or whatever and feel pretty immature about that stuff. now days I just ignore dumb bitches and get on with my own life...if anything i'll make sure they know that i've heard the shit they are doing or saying and leave like a classy lady should.

[mr photographer]

Conniving, Trifling, Back stabbing, Manipulative, Cunning, Selfish, Shameless, Sneaky, Scandalous, wicked (not wicked as in cool for you UK'ers), devlish BITCHES....

Any of you have stories of exs you would like to share???

Well let me tell you....my man's ex...the dumb bitch....even though she has a man, insists on sending him messages like 'i miss you' , 'i went to where we had our first date *memories*' , 'You will always hold a special place in my heart' ..........:blahblah: :blowme:

He's so fuckin naive, he says she's happy with the man she's with and she means nothing by it. Fuckin men sometimes are so ignorant... doesn't he understand how sneaky and caniving some bitches can be?!?!

Ladies......amirite, or amirite??! :raving:


and some girls are so stupid they don't know when they're being played :D

two for the price of one :salut:

[sexxichic2envy]

I dont know.. Shes probably walking around with one arm or something :dunno:
:lol:

[jus_me]

No, actually he's nonchalant about the whole situation. And no, he doesn't bring her up. Actually, he doesn't even like talking about her (she cheated on him when they were together).

And you're right.....she does it to get a reaction, and I'm giving into it. I still think girls are CONNIVING (there ya go FScott, correct spelling..)

And the quicker men realize how fucked up some chics can be, the better.

yeah, just ignore her

i think you should on become suss of him if he starts acting shifty and not letting you see his phone

until he starts doing that id say trust him..unless he could be talking to her on the phone when hes at work and stuff?

[sexxichic2envy]

and some girls are so stupid they don't know when they're being played :D

two for the price of one :salut:
chup, Sohail!!!
(lol btw i like the bulletin... GIRLS ARE...)

[Rogue]

Wow... you've had your share of drama. That's what I told him, that if she really cared about him, she wouldn't try to interfere and sabotage what he currently has with me. Me and him have been friends for a long time. And I've always loved him...and the first time they broke up (first time was a temporary break up)... even tho I had feelings for him, I told him to try and talk to her and get back together, because his happiness mattered to me.

So yesterday he tells me she swung by his job just to say hi. And then I'm told I'm not supposed to be mad.yea, i can see why that would cause you emotional distress...is this something that suddenly started happening recently?

in any case, the girl should be considerate of your feelings as well as his and if she's talking to him normally and stuff, then that's fine. but it should be minus whatever emotions she still harbors from their previous relationship. she could be just mentally-perverse and "testing the waters" to see how close he really is to you and how far she can get.

but in any case. talk to him and let him know that you do trust him, but you can't help but question this girl's motives when she says stuff like that and reminences about whatever she and him had. and you should also point out to him what you just pointed out to me about how despite you had those feelings for him, you kept them to yourself so you could help him focus on trying to get back wtih this girl so he could be happy. do you even know how he responds to this girl when she says all those things? he should also be a wiser man and say something similar to what i said to my exes. (ie: tell her that if she wants to salvage a friendship, that she must avoid talking about their previous relationship and any other intimate feelings that she still has....because it's selfish and inappropriate.)...i wonder if her guy knows that she's doing this, it sounds to me like even though she has a guy now, she must be emotionally/physically unsatisfied to some extent (because i noticed that when my exes would say stuff like that to me, it's usually when they were unsatisfied with their partner for some reason or another) because she's still going back to her ex to tell him stuff like that.

[sexxichic2envy]

i think it's just some ppl in general but girls are more catty than guys and we're bitchier so i guess there are more issues between females than girls and guys.

i'd tell a story but now i look back on all the gay lame confrontations i'd have or fights or whatever and feel pretty immature about that stuff. now days I just ignore dumb bitches and get on with my own life...if anything i'll make sure they know that i've heard the shit they are doing or saying and leave like a classy lady should.
You're a bigger person than I am, in that sense. Because it would take alot for me to walk away from a confrontation without punching a bitch. :no:

And you're right, girls are definitely more catty. Which explains why I get along alot better with my male co-workers. No gossip, no he-said she-said..and most importantly, no jealousy and fucked up motives.

[Ravaged23]

No, actually he's nonchalant about the whole situation. And no, he doesn't bring her up. Actually, he doesn't even like talking about her (she cheated on him when they were together).

And you're right.....she does it to get a reaction, and I'm giving into it. I still think girls are CONNIVING (there ya go FScott, correct spelling..)

And the quicker men realize how fucked up some chics can be, the better.


thanks for the tip :icon_pis: now im ready

[sexxichic2envy]

yeah, just ignore her

i think you should on become suss of him if he starts acting shifty and not letting you see his phone

until he starts doing that id say trust him..unless he could be talking to her on the phone when hes at work and stuff?

No, I do trust him. For the most part he hasn't done anything or said anything which would make me suspect him. And I definitely don't want to accuse him of things with unless I have facts or evidence. He's given me access to all his email accounts, and his myspace, so I have no reason to think he's out doing the tango with another chic.

But yea, i think i need to start ignoring it.

[sikh_est_jatt]

Conniving, Trifling, Back stabbing, Manipulative, Cunning, Selfish, Shameless, Sneaky, Scandalous, wicked (not wicked as in cool for you UK'ers), devlish BITCHES....

Any of you have stories of exs you would like to share???

Well let me tell you....my man's ex...the dumb bitch....even though she has a man, insists on sending him messages like 'i miss you' , 'i went to where we had our first date *memories*' , 'You will always hold a special place in my heart' ..........:blahblah: :blowme:

He's so fuckin naive, he says she's happy with the man she's with and she means nothing by it. Fuckin men sometimes are so ignorant... doesn't he understand how sneaky and caniving some bitches can be?!?!

Ladies......amirite, or amirite??! :raving:


My ex girl friend is an ANGEL !!!! :angel:
I know she still loves me and maybe i have feelings for her too......Damn we shouldnt have ever broken up..... :(

[Sweet_LiL_Hunnie]

You're a bigger person than I am, in that sense. Because it would take alot for me to walk away from a confrontation without punching a bitch. :no:

And you're right, girls are definitely more catty. Which explains why I get along alot better with my male co-workers. No gossip, no he-said she-said..and most importantly, no jealousy and fucked up motives.

Yah my mom never thought she'd live to see the day i'm not fighting or yelling at dumb bitches but somehow you just grow up you know? Also karma man, i've seen it bite those girls in the ass so we all learn to become bigger people bc things will always find a way to work out.

As for girls that string along guys, men do the same thing just not as often. Some girls do that because they need a back up in life, once she's married she wont fuck around with lame txts to your friend.

[jus_me]

No, I do trust him. For the most part he hasn't done anything or said anything which would make me suspect him. And I definitely don't want to accuse him of things with unless I have facts or evidence. He's given me access to all his email accounts, and his myspace, so I have no reason to think he's out doing the tango with another chic.

But yea, i think i need to start ignoring it.

im not trying to make you paranoid or anything but maybe he is doing all this openness so you dont suss out something is going on

like when he goes to work he might be talking to her then

but ignore that for now, id only pay notice to that if he started missing dates etc..coming home late from work and so forth.

[mr photographer]

chup, Sohail!!!
(lol btw i like the bulletin... GIRLS ARE...)

u just keep a close eye on ur man ;) watch that he doesnt stray can easily happen :D

[sexxichic2envy]

yea, i can see why that would cause you emotional distress...is this something that suddenly started happening recently?

in any case, the girl should be considerate of your feelings as well as his and if she's talking to him normally and stuff, then that's fine. but it should be minus whatever emotions she still harbors from their previous relationship. she could be just mentally-perverse and "testing the waters" to see how close he really is to you and how far she can get.

but in any case. talk to him and let him know that you do trust him, but you can't help but question this girl's motives when she says stuff like that and reminences about whatever she and him had. and you should also point out to him what you just pointed out to me about how despite you had those feelings for him, you kept them to yourself so you could help him focus on trying to get back wtih this girl so he could be happy. do you even know how he responds to this girl when she says all those things? he should also be a wiser man and say something similar to what i said to my exes. (ie: tell her that if she wants to salvage a friendship, that she must avoid talking about their previous relationship and any other intimate feelings that she still has....because it's selfish and inappropriate.)...i wonder if her guy knows that she's doing this, it sounds to me like even though she has a guy now, she must be emotionally/physically unsatisfied to some extent (because i noticed that when my exes would say stuff like that to me, it's usually when they were unsatisfied with their partner for some reason or another) because she's still going back to her ex to tell him stuff like that.
Precisely! You see, it's not really about him. I feel as though she is disrespecting me by doing all this. There is no doubt in my mind that he is dedicated to me. But at the same time, he doesn't understand what the big deal is with her leaving him msgs.

And yea, like you said, it's not that i don't trust him.. It's her motives I'm uncertain of....I don't want to make a mountain out of a molehill...but I definitely want to put an end to all this before it gets out of hand. And if I know her the way I think I do, things will eventually get to that point.

You're a good woman to have put those type of limits on your friendships with your exs. Unfortunately, not everyone understands that even though the person is ur ex, it doesn't automatically mean they've lost feelings for you...or lost the hope that one day you'll get back together.

[sexxichic2envy]

My ex girl friend is an ANGEL !!!! :angel:
I know she still loves me and maybe i have feelings for her too......Damn we shouldnt have ever broken up..... :(
Why did you break up then if you don't mind me asking?

[sexxichic2envy]

Yah my mom never thought she'd live to see the day i'm not fighting or yelling at dumb bitches but somehow you just grow up you know? Also karma man, i've seen it bite those girls in the ass so we all learn to become bigger people bc things will always find a way to work out.

As for girls that string along guys, men do the same thing just not as often. Some girls do that because they need a back up in life, once she's married she wont fuck around with lame txts to your friend.
:lol: well good for you hun. Like i said, it takes alot to walk away and be the bigger person. I know what goes around comes around, but sometimes it feels like it takes too long to come around. :mad:

[sexxichic2envy]

u just keep a close eye on ur man ;) watch that he doesnt stray can easily happen :D
Fikar not! If he does, it'll be his loss. I'm not one to get played and still wait in the shadows in hopes that he'll change. There's wayyyy too many fish in the sea for that.

[mr photographer]

Fikar not! If he does, it'll be his loss. I'm not one to get played and still wait in the shadows in hopes that he'll change. There's wayyyy too many fish in the sea for that.

:eyebrow: ;)

[sexxichic2envy]

im not trying to make you paranoid or anything but maybe he is doing all this openness so you dont suss out something is going on

like when he goes to work he might be talking to her then

but ignore that for now, id only pay notice to that if he started missing dates etc..coming home late from work and so forth.
:werd: Well I'll keep an eye out. You never know nowadays. Commitment and faithful seem to have become words of the past.

And if he is out frikking and frakking....he's a done deal . I don't have time for all that drama.

[sexxichic2envy]

:eyebrow: ;)
:naughty: :cuddle:

[mr photographer]

:naughty: :cuddle:

btw did i forget to mention how sexy u are looking in ur new pix ... rawrrrrr :eyebrow:

[Rogue]

Precisely! You see, it's not really about him. I feel as though she is disrespecting me by doing all this. There is no doubt in my mind that he is dedicated to me. But at the same time, he doesn't understand what the big deal is with her leaving him msgs.

And yea, like you said, it's not that i don't trust him.. It's her motives I'm uncertain of....I don't want to make a mountain out of a molehill...but I definitely want to put an end to all this before it gets out of hand. And if I know her the way I think I do, things will eventually get to that point.

You're a good woman to have put those type of limits on your friendships with your exs. Unfortunately, not everyone understands that even though the person is ur ex, it doesn't automatically mean they've lost feelings for you...or lost the hope that one day you'll get back together.you gotta talk to him man. and definitely him know that knowing how she is and knowing the types of messages she's leaving and this recent "meeting up at work" thing... (which i'm guessing she would only dare to cuz she knows you won't be there) ....he should place those limits on her and if she doesn't comply, then yea... there is no mistake in the motives behind her actions. tell him that yea, she's got a man, but the only reason she'd do these things is if she was unsatisfied and seeking that satisfaction elsewhere... your guy sounds like a good guy and one that probably wouldn't do anything, but seriously, he's gotta wisen up and make more of an effort to handle the situation and prevent her from starting any shady business. the whole dropping by at work thing to say "hi" sounds a bit weird.

man, i feel bad for her guy.

[Rogue]

:no: cheaters never really do change and your guy might be vulnerable. you should point out to your boyfriend that this is probably exactly what she did to him behind his back right before she cheated on him.

[sexxichic2envy]

btw did i forget to mention how sexy u are looking in ur new pix ... rawrrrrr :eyebrow:
:lol: Why, thank you..... your words of endearment are appreciated my love.
I figured i didn't have any 'desi' pics up... so the sari seemed like just the thing to desify my page

[sikh_est_jatt]

My cousins ex is mental.. She cut her arm and shit. I mean if you want to fucking die, drink some poison or hang yourself up yo.
Lolz.....dey just want attention cuz dey noe dat dey wouldnt immediately die wid a cut or some shytt !!!!

ATTENTION WHORES !!!!

[sexxichic2envy]

you gotta talk to him man. and definitely him know that knowing how she is and knowing the types of messages she's leaving and this recent "meeting up at work" thing... (which i'm guessing she would only dare to cuz she knows you won't be there) ....he should place those limits on her and if she doesn't comply, then yea... there is no mistake in the motives behind her actions. tell him that yea, she's got a man, but the only reason she'd do these things is if she was unsatisfied and seeking that satisfaction elsewhere... your guy sounds like a good guy and one that probably wouldn't do anything, but seriously, he's gotta wisen up and make more of an effort to handle the situation and prevent her from starting any shady business. the whole dropping by at work thing to say "hi" sounds a bit weird.

man, i feel bad for her guy.
:hug: You're a smart girl... and definitely someone worth talking to on this forum full of imbeciles who have nothing contructive to say.

I feel bad for her man, too. There he is thinking his girl is dedicated to him...while she's out making moves on my man. :no: The funniest thing is when she stopped by his job she acted as if she didn't know he was working that day. She said she was just driving by and noticed his car so she popped in. My man is a good guy, a very good guy... but he insists it's innocent and baseless. Being a woman, i know exactly how innocent she is...and how innocent her motives are. I've never had a problem with them speaking...this stuff just started happening recently though.

Maybe she got bored of her man and is now fishing in old waters........:dunno: Whatever the case may be, i need to put a stop to it.

[sexxichic2envy]

:no: cheaters never really do change and your guy might be vulnerable. you should point out to your boyfriend that this is probably exactly what she did to him behind his back right before she cheated on him.
yup! and when she cheated, she didn't tell him. It was her friend who told him... And THEN she finally admitted doing it.

[sikh_est_jatt]

yup! and when she cheated, she didn't tell him. It was her friend who told him... And THEN she finally admitted doing it.

Dont blame only da girl .... btw trust me ,no guy can be "Too dedicated".......Dont trust us too much ..... Unless he is an angel like me :angel:

[Rogue]

:hug: You're a smart girl... and definitely someone worth talking to on this forum full of imbeciles who have nothing contructive to say.

I feel bad for her man, too. There he is thinking his girl is dedicated to him...while she's out making moves on my man. :no: The funniest thing is when she stopped by his job she acted as if she didn't know he was working that day. She said she was just driving by and noticed his car so she popped in. My man is a good guy, a very good guy... but he insists it's innocent and baseless. Being a woman, i know exactly how innocent she is...and how innocent her motives are. I've never had a problem with them speaking...this stuff just started happening recently though.

Maybe she got bored of her man and is now fishing in old waters........:dunno: Whatever the case may be, i need to put a stop to it.

yup! and when she cheated, she didn't tell him. It was her friend who told him... And THEN she finally admitted doing it.
:bhapi: haha, thanks. and no worries...i'm sure it's gonna work itself out just fine without too much further drama. the girl definitely seems to be of a selfish manipulative abusive sort of bitch...

:) good luck and best wishes to you and your man and her man. i hope he learns the truth, too.

[R.J]

:bhapi: haha, thanks. and no worries...i'm sure it's gonna work itself out just fine without too much further drama. the girl definitely seems to be of a selfish manipulative abusive sort of bitch...

:) good luck and best wishes to you and your man and her man. i hope he learns the truth, too.

Everyone needs The Truth.

:salut:

[sexxichic2envy]

Dont blame only da girl .... btw trust me ,no guy can be "Too dedocated".......Dont trust us too much ..... Unless he is an angel like me :angel:
lol why would i blame him when he hasn't done anything???

[yussi]

ok well this isnt MY experience but its kinda fuked up and my cuzzin nva lives it dwn.. oook well ma cuzzin had a girl and he had a gr8 best m8 aswell.. the downfall began wen he introduced the 2 to eachother.. it wasnt long until tha m8 was arranging PRIVATE links with my cuzzins girl... not gr8 is it?? and well wen my cuzzn and the girl broke up due to other reasons.. the 1st things the ex girl does.. she calls up his best m8.. tha nxt thing tha best m8 does... begins to fuk her.. and this is all on the day my cuzn and the girl broke up... i dunno hues mre in tha wrng with in this one? o yeh and btw.. tha best m8s fuked the girl still thinking she was with my cuzn... gr8 guy isnt he?? :ughJit:

[sexxichic2envy]

:bhapi: haha, thanks. and no worries...i'm sure it's gonna work itself out just fine without too much further drama. the girl definitely seems to be of a selfish manipulative abusive sort of bitch...

:) good luck and best wishes to you and your man and her man. i hope he learns the truth, too.
:razz: That's what I'm talking about!! the heathen!!!!
Thank U!!! And good luck to you... and good luck with the exs who still want you! :wink: That's what happens when you're a sexy mahfakka!

[sikh_est_jatt]

lol why would i blame him when he hasn't done anything???
How do u noe dat he doesnt meet her in private ?
A thief never tells no1 that he is gonna make a robbery !!!
now cmon does he?

[sexxichic2envy]

Everyone needs The Truth.

:salut:
:eyebrow: We ALL need the Truth.. .come come gimme sum!

[sexxichic2envy]

How do u noe dat he doesnt meet her in private ?
A thief never tells no1 that he is gonna make a robbery !!!
now cmon does he?
Yeah but trust is the foundation of every relationship. Being suspicious of him with any evidence or reason is like sabotaging my own relationship. it's dumb.

[sexxichic2envy]

ok well this isnt MY experience but its kinda fuked up and my cuzzin nva lives it dwn.. oook well ma cuzzin had a girl and he had a gr8 best m8 aswell.. the downfall began wen he introduced the 2 to eachother.. it wasnt long until tha m8 was arranging PRIVATE links with my cuzzins girl... not gr8 is it?? and well wen my cuzzn and the girl broke up due to other reasons.. the 1st things the ex girl does.. she calls up his best m8.. tha nxt thing tha best m8 does... begins to fuk her.. and this is all on the day my cuzn and the girl broke up... i dunno hues mre in tha wrng with in this one? o yeh and btw.. tha best m8s fuked the girl still thinking she was with my cuzn... gr8 guy isnt he?? :ughJit:
Oh damn.... Well then he wasn't much of a mate then was he? :no: Fo shame! Doesn't he know the guy code??? "bros before hoes"...:rofl:

[yussi]

Oh damn.... Well then he wasn't much of a mate then was he? :no: Fo shame! Doesn't he know the guy code??? "bros before hoes"...:rofl:
OMGGG THAT CODE!!! i get told that all tha tym!!! hahaha bros b4 hoes bruvvv lol.. well tha "m8" is kinda heartless wen it cums to gettin a girl.. hes doesnt cre hu he hurt jus aslong as he gets tha girl.. hes done it 2 me AND my cuzzn.. and the fuked up thing is that my cuzzn.. IS STILL THE GUYS M8! :s

[sikh_est_jatt]

Yeah but trust is the foundation of every relationship. Being suspicious of him with any evidence or reason is like sabotaging my own relationship. it's dumb.
Hmm....What u can do is be nice to him ---nothin extra ordinary - Just ordinary to nice.....And you get some spy stuff which helps....Cmon it helped me !!!

[sexxichic2envy]

OMGGG THAT CODE!!! i get told that all tha tym!!! hahaha bros b4 hoes bruvvv lol.. well tha "m8" is kinda heartless wen it cums to gettin a girl.. hes doesnt cre hu he hurt jus aslong as he gets tha girl.. hes done it 2 me AND my cuzzn.. and the fuked up thing is that my cuzzn.. IS STILL THE GUYS M8! :s
Well the guy's a prick then......and your cousin is dumb for still befriending him because this guy obviously doesn't know the meaning of friendship. Well dont you worry...eventually with all that sleeping around he's doing, his dick is gunna fall off.

[madam_jade]

So what kind of ex-girlfriendare yougonna be?

[yussi]

Well the guy's a prick then......and your cousin is dumb for still befriending him because this guy obviously doesn't know the meaning of friendship. Well dont you worry...eventually with all that sleeping around he's doing, his dick is gunna fall off.
i second/third and fourth that!PREACCCH!!! (cool thread btw.. good way 2 vent lol)

[sexxichic2envy]

Hmm....What u can do is be nice to him ---nothin extra ordinary - Just ordinary to nice.....And you get some spy stuff which helps....Cmon it helped me !!!
:think: A spy kit u say..........complete with binoculars and a tape recorder??? :hyper:

[sikh_est_jatt]

Your guy is a Psyche......Cuz if i was in his place and i was in Love with You then i would have told da girl (Ex) To - F*** OFF !!! if she wanted to talk dat kind of stuff wid me !!!

[sexxichic2envy]

i second/third and fourth that!PREACCCH!!! (cool thread btw.. good way 2 vent lol)
:kekeke:
Thanks.......As you can see...some of the 'chics' didn't like me venting. Typical dumb desi broads. :no:

[sikh_est_jatt]

:think: A spy kit u say..........complete with binoculars and a tape recorder??? :hyper:
Damn ... u so low - tech..... Nope there is dis military store in Manhattan called Quark - i get my stuff from there...but its Crazily Expensive......

What u should do is goto a Radioshack......and Den Holl@ at me....For What kind of stuff u need !!!

[sexxichic2envy]

So what kind of ex-girlfriendare yougonna be?
:lol: I won't be his ex....and if I do become one.....he'll be a memory and that's it. I dont have the time or energy to go around trying to ruin peoples relationships. Exs are exs for a reason.

[sexxichic2envy]

Damn ... u so low - tech..... Nope there is dis military store in Manhattan called Quark - i get my stuff from there...but its Crazily Expensive......

What u should do is goto a Radioshack......and Den Holl@ at me....For What kind of stuff u need !!!
lol omg u were serious? and btw, exactly how did it help you???

[yussi]

:kekeke:
Thanks.......As you can see...some of the 'chics' didn't like me venting. Typical dumb desi broads. :no:
hahaha LOL @ "desi broads".. same with my m8.. i use them to vetn alot.. aint reli fair.. im always sayin i hate this n thaaat.. after a while.. they get annoyed lol.. oo maybe this cud b RD'S officical venting thread?? taht wud b sooo hot! lol .. dnt worry.. if u need sum1 to vent with.. im here.. we cn make sweet venting 2getha :p

[sexxichic2envy]

a) deal with her b4 it gets worse, and these kinda things do get worse
b) 4 years eh? how long ago after they broke up did u guys start, n why'd they break up?
c) i can imagine, id shoot the bitch if i was in ur place
d) hollllaaaaaaaaaa! (pm me for my paypal address for the dolla)
Sorry Ali... i didn't see this until just now.
a) Working on it as we speak/type/whatever
b)We started about 8 months after
c)I don't wanna get bum-raped in jail.....so i'll just disarrange her face for now
d) pm'ing in progress

[sexxichic2envy]

hahaha LOL @ "desi broads".. same with my m8.. i use them to vetn alot.. aint reli fair.. im always sayin i hate this n thaaat.. after a while.. they get annoyed lol.. oo maybe this cud b RD'S officical venting thread?? taht wud b sooo hot! lol .. dnt worry.. if u need sum1 to vent with.. im here.. we cn make sweet venting 2getha :p
lol... yeah just make a thread. It may be annoying...but then again you'll get your frustrations out, and you'll get some opinions. 99% of those opinions will be useless...or biased...but hey it's RD...that's a given.

btw, welcome. and yeah, kermit got nothin on him.

hOlla!

[sikh_est_jatt]

lol omg u were serious? and btw, exactly how did it help you???
Ohk..... well da quark stuff was infra red spy cams da size of pinheads and den turbo mics which picked up signal from da other side of da wall.....so u cud hear what some1 is talkin on da fone or wid some 1 even if u are outside da house.......u place one unit inside which wirelessly transmits da signal to ure recieving unit....

[Rogue]

:razz: That's what I'm talking about!! the heathen!!!!
Thank U!!! And good luck to you... and good luck with the exs who still want you! :wink: That's what happens when you're a sexy mahfakka!:roflbow: i haven't heard that one in ages... lol, and from what you've told us, so true.

and thanks, lol, but i'm pretty stuck on my bestfriend/ex (sort of, not really)/significant other...lol, so there's still tons of other love-related drama in my life regarding him for now. i swear, it's NEVER easy. ever. but meh, you gotta take a little dirt to keep what you love no matter what a moron they can be at times...