Do any of you see yourself in the swinger lifestyle? [Archive]

addiction01

July 28th, 2006, 12:50 AM

Yep, if the love thing doesn't it work out, which I'm pretty sure it won't, I'm surely going to be a swinger.

The way I see it atleast fifty percent of this world is male so basically three out of six billion, I can't imagine settling for just one.

alphaPAKI

July 28th, 2006, 01:08 AM

seems kinda greasy to me, they show those people on tv who are mentally healthy about that kind of thing but i guess it boils down to personal preference, i can see the swinging thing being kind of not healthy only because how would the marriage manage to wind down into old age properly with all that blatent extramarrital sex

thats just my rambled argument

metaGlass

July 28th, 2006, 01:09 AM

I've known a couple of swinging couples before. I don't think I could ever get into anything like that though.

Felonius Monk

July 28th, 2006, 01:12 AM

Well I've dated a couple of girls I wanted to trade.

Rogue

July 28th, 2006, 05:03 AM

:rofl: i looooovvvvveeee my swinger lifestyle ;)

:Pelvic2::Pelvic2::Pelvic2:

http://i85.photobucket.com/albums/k51/designrogue/swinger5.jpg

http://i85.photobucket.com/albums/k51/designrogue/swinger4.jpg

http://i85.photobucket.com/albums/k51/designrogue/swinger2.jpg

http://i85.photobucket.com/albums/k51/designrogue/swinger1.jpg

http://i85.photobucket.com/albums/k51/designrogue/swinger3.jpg

boredatwork

July 28th, 2006, 05:15 AM

awww thats adorable. Thats a cool swing under a tree. I wanna swing with u.

Rogue

July 28th, 2006, 05:16 AM

awww thats adorable. Thats a cool swing under a tree. I wanna swing with u.hehe, thanks...today was actually a religious holiday. called tejo. ladies go to the park to swing during "sawaan ka mahaina" (rainy month in india)

The Anti Desi

July 28th, 2006, 05:17 AM

If life were perfect and did not need Islam, I probably would......

jumpn jza

July 28th, 2006, 05:21 AM

i don't see a problem with it...a lil wife swapping never hurt anyone

...Hero...

July 28th, 2006, 05:45 AM

i don't see a problem with it...a lil wife swapping never hurt anyone

Ring me when you get married, a little hero never hurt anybody either. :)

impactcrew

July 28th, 2006, 06:24 AM

Went to a swingers party once with this goriya and talent there was poor apart from a few good lookin ladies all the rest were maturely fat obese ladies!

**bambina**

July 28th, 2006, 08:52 AM

:no:

mr photographer

July 28th, 2006, 09:05 AM

:no:

what are you shaking your head for ... you been swinging from one man to another :p

akuza

July 28th, 2006, 09:06 AM

http://i85.photobucket.com/albums/k51/designrogue/swinger1.jpg

rogue - an intellect and an ass :cool2: now thats like money in your pocket

nikefc7

July 28th, 2006, 09:19 AM

did this weeks episode of suger rush inspire this thread?

**bambina**

July 28th, 2006, 11:33 AM

what are you shaking your head for ... you been swinging from one man to another :p

i wish!!!

u will be happy to know, i have finally settled!

:p

STUpendous

July 28th, 2006, 12:02 PM

monogamy is pretty unhealthy for the mind

boredatwork

July 28th, 2006, 12:10 PM

hehe, thanks...today was actually a religious holiday. called tejo. ladies go to the park to swing during "sawaan ka mahaina" (rainy month in india)

cool never heard of it before. No wonder swings are so common back home.

I like your leafy neighbourhood.

human-nature

July 28th, 2006, 12:13 PM

hehe, thanks...today was actually a religious holiday. called tejo. ladies go to the park to swing during "sawaan ka mahaina" (rainy month in india)
Can i swing with u?

Rogue

July 28th, 2006, 04:09 PM

rogue - an intellect and an ass :cool2: now thats like money in your pocket :rofl: yea, my "ass up in the air" shot...ahahahahaha

cool never heard of it before. No wonder swings are so common back home.

I like your leafy neighbourhood. :) yea, that's why i love northern cali better, it's more scenic than southern cali.

Can i swing with u? come on over ;)

reaz

July 28th, 2006, 04:11 PM

:rofl: yea, my "ass up in the air" shot...ahahahahaha

ma'am, you're guilty of derailing my thread with such obscenities such as picture of a real swing and yourself.

you need to be corrected.

Rogue

July 28th, 2006, 04:12 PM

ma'am, you're guilty of derailing my thread with such obscenities such as picture of a real swing and yourself.

you need to be corrected.
;) do i? i must say that i very much enjoyed doing so.

reaz

July 28th, 2006, 04:13 PM

;) do i? i must say that i very much enjoyed doing so.

Yes you do. NO SWINGING FOR YOU!

Rogue

July 28th, 2006, 04:14 PM

Yes you do. NO SWINGING FOR YOU! why not? don't be such a party pooper. come swing with me. :eyebrow:

reaz

July 28th, 2006, 04:20 PM

why not? don't be such a party pooper. come swing with me. :eyebrow:

YOU VERY VERY BAD GURL!

PreciousPari

July 28th, 2006, 04:26 PM

Omg no way. It seems fun when you think about it. lol haha jk What about you reaz? ;)

Sweet Miasma

July 28th, 2006, 04:29 PM

i had a dream where my husband was marrying another woman...and im sitting there crying...and it was soo bad that i was crying in my sleep and my husband woke me up and i was sobbing...
so no i couldnt see myself in that lifestyle

PreciousPari

July 28th, 2006, 04:32 PM

Sweet Miasma

July 28th, 2006, 04:35 PM

Awww I had a dream like that once. But it wasn't just any girl. It was his psychotic ex. lol
lol....the girl in my dream is not someone my husband is familiar with....
but after i woke up...he kept asking me what she looked like and if she was hot :no:

reaz

July 28th, 2006, 04:40 PM

Omg no way. It seems fun when you think about it. lol haha jk What about you reaz? ;)

Depends.

PreciousPari

July 28th, 2006, 04:41 PM

lol....the girl in my dream is not someone my husband is familiar with....
but after i woke up...he kept asking me what she looked like and if she was hot :no:

Haha typical! :no:

PreciousPari

July 28th, 2006, 04:42 PM

Depends.

Hmm on what? :think: If SHE was into it, because we all know you are. :tongue:

PrOfFaSeE

July 28th, 2006, 04:42 PM

trading partners and the sort?

i am sure there has to be a few desi swingers.
yeah baby :p

im groovy like that :|

everythings swinging apart from my right arm which has a sprained rotator cuff

reaz

July 28th, 2006, 04:54 PM

Hmm on what? :think: If SHE was into it, because we all know you are. :tongue:

No. Basically all parties have to be content.

Rogue

July 28th, 2006, 04:55 PM

YOU VERY VERY BAD GURL!
:yes: you betcha.

reaz

July 28th, 2006, 04:55 PM

yeah baby :p

im groovy like that :|

everythings swinging apart from my right arm which has a sprained rotator cuff

well a sprain is definitely better than a tear. RC injuries are one of the worst alongside ACL tears.

reaz

July 28th, 2006, 04:56 PM

:yes: you betcha.

stay away! you're too obscene for me with all that swinging and rainy season stuff.

PreciousPari

July 28th, 2006, 04:59 PM

No. Basically all parties have to be content.

Uh huh. Omg so you would if they were? :shock: My my, we learn something new about you everyday. lol ;)

Rogue

July 28th, 2006, 04:59 PM

stay away! you're too obscene for me with all that swinging and rainy season stuff. :rofl: all in the name of religion, baby. hehe. :bhapi: okay okay, i'm just messing with you. but topic related, I don't know, if it was no strings attached and I knew that there were no other feelings involved, and it was only physical...and if my best friend ended up as my husband...(and since both of us *are* kind of kinky) and we both understood and were okay with that...i think way later down in our married life, I can see us experimenting with many many different things including that one, provided that the feeling and enjoyment is mutual with no issues or consequences in the aftermath.

reaz

July 28th, 2006, 05:02 PM

:rofl: all in the name of religion, baby. hehe. :bhapi: okay okay, i'm just messing with you. but topic related, I don't know, if it was no strings attached and I knew that there were no other feelings involved, and it was only physical...and if my best friend ended up as my husband...(and since both of us *are* kind of kinky) and we both understood and were okay with that...i think way later down in our married life, I can see us experimenting with many many different things including that one, provided that the feeling and enjoyment is mutual with no issues or consequences in the aftermath.

yea. you pretty much echoed my thoughts there. however, it would have to be a nsa relationship.

Sweet Miasma

July 28th, 2006, 05:04 PM

Haha typical! :no:
werd!!
im here sobbing and hes asking me all that...lol

reaz

July 28th, 2006, 05:06 PM

werd!!
im here sobbing and hes asking me all that...lol

he was teasing you. i think that dream occurred because of your insecurities related to your pregnancy. :P

EverBlazinGyal

July 28th, 2006, 05:11 PM

YOU VERY VERY BAD GURL!
lol

SIXPAK GQ

July 28th, 2006, 05:14 PM

trading partners and the sort?

i am sure there has to be a few desi swingers.

it is my fantasy

but not if i am in a serious relationship
only with hoes though
i know there are desi swingers especially in pakistan/india

**bambina**

July 28th, 2006, 05:19 PM

is this where the men put the car keys in the bowl and the women pick?

reaz

July 28th, 2006, 05:24 PM

is this where the men put the car keys in the bowl and the women pick?

LOL. I think that's how it's done. :P

**bambina**

July 28th, 2006, 05:27 PM

LOL. I think that's how it's done. :P

yep. the women pick, and who;s ever car they pick, they go with that guy.

can u imagine the disappointment of the womans face when she picks her husbands!

boredatwork

July 29th, 2006, 06:42 AM

yep. the women pick, and who;s ever car they pick, they go with that guy.

can u imagine the disappointment of the womans face when she picks her husbands!

Or imagine her joy when she picks the keys to a new VW golf.

Or so ads have led me to believe.

crazytamil

August 5th, 2006, 06:54 PM

Swingers lifestyle is mainly for married couples who are in an adverse situation where they can no longer have sex with each other! The spark between them that kept their relationship going is totally missing & they are on the verge of cheating or heading towards divorce. To try and bring back this spark to their life, both spouses come to a mutual agreement where they arrange to have sex with one or more different people, but also not want to betray each other. This is what leads to swinging. A threesome is the weakest form of it.

However, if you were a single & did not have much experience with relationships - swinging is NOT for you! It can be very derogatory to your life, not only the incident, but also in your future relationships.

As for me who is currently single & haven't had a relationship in like a long-ass time, no way am I going to a swingers!