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desi_shawrty
July 23rd, 2006, 08:52 PM
Desi girls and guys hate on each other so much:no:
I don't know that many desis in real so I really don't know how they really are but I dout we're that bad. :rolleyes:
I have nothing against desi guys at all they seem like every other guy to me(not judging from this site though)
I don't find a big problem with desi girls either when ever someone makes a thread hatting on us to me it just sounds like all other girls.
So what's the reoson to hate so much or am I missing something here.
Oh and I suggest everyone learns to live with it cause most of you will end up with a desi as your life partner.
niroism
July 23rd, 2006, 08:54 PM
I am indiscriminate...I hate everyone equally!!:cool:
desi_shawrty
July 23rd, 2006, 08:56 PM
I am indiscriminate...I hate everyone equally!!:cool:
lol atleast you're not prejudice :p
poetichustla
July 23rd, 2006, 08:56 PM
desis hate.
its the cool thing to do.
chunky
July 23rd, 2006, 08:56 PM
well, it's better to hate someone else than to hate yourself.
selina_786
July 23rd, 2006, 08:56 PM
They can't be seein' others happy yo. Especially there own kind. It was pretty hot today and I bought meself an icecream.. my cousin had nonce but you should've seen those evils she had for me - like she was about to snatch my icecream offa me :(
SUPER_BOY
July 23rd, 2006, 08:57 PM
They can't be seein' others happy yo. Especially there own kind. It was pretty hot today and I bought meself an icecream.. my cousin had nonce but you should've seen those evils she had for me - like she was about to snatch my icecream offa me :(
Kids :no:
selina_786
July 23rd, 2006, 08:58 PM
Kids :no:
I know.. wtf.
desi_shawrty
July 23rd, 2006, 09:01 PM
well, it's better to hate someone else than to hate yourself.
It's better to not hate at all.
desi_shawrty
July 23rd, 2006, 09:02 PM
They can't be seein' others happy yo. Especially there own kind. It was pretty hot today and I bought meself an icecream.. my cousin had nonce but you should've seen those evils she had for me - like she was about to snatch my icecream offa me :(
lol:no:
Geezer
July 23rd, 2006, 09:02 PM
It's gotta be a mix of jealousy and general lack of courtesy.
TYPE_R_GINO
July 23rd, 2006, 09:03 PM
i got mad luv for all the ladiez..... :wavey:
Holla @ ur boyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!!! :dance3:
chunky
July 23rd, 2006, 09:03 PM
It's better to not hate at all.
to know love, you must also know hate. :idea:
desi_shawrty
July 23rd, 2006, 09:05 PM
to know love, you must also know hate. :idea:
You must also know how to love the one you hate hahahaha I just came up with that corny line cause I couldn't think of anything else.
but why hate on someone you're gonna have to settle with later on anyways.
desi_shawrty
July 23rd, 2006, 09:06 PM
It's gotta be a mix of jealousy and general lack of courtesy.
Well I don't know why desi guys would be jealous of desi girls or desi girls be jealous of desi guys.:dunno:
desi_shawrty
July 23rd, 2006, 09:06 PM
i got mad luv for all the ladiez..... :wavey:
Holla @ ur boyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!!! :dance3:
there you go
good for you lolz
chunky
July 23rd, 2006, 09:12 PM
You must also know how to love the one you hate hahahaha I just came up with that corny line cause I couldn't think of anything else.
but why hate on someone you're gonna have to settle with later on anyways.
LOL, nice try.
I was just stating that love is best contrasted with hate. Everything is relative, one man's love is another man's hate etc.
Anyhow, I don't reccomend settling down with someone you hate. Unless it's a person you hate to love. Like if omgitssana fell in love with a white guy. she'd hate to love him, b/c her parents would beat her mercilessly no doubt.
desi_shawrty
July 23rd, 2006, 09:15 PM
LOL, nice try.
I was just stating that love is best contrasted with hate. Everything is relative, one man's love is another man's hate etc.
Anyhow, I don't reccomend settling down with someone you hate. Unless it's a person you hate to love. Like if omgitssana fell in love with a white guy. she'd hate to love him, b/c her parents would beat her mercilessly no doubt.
lol Well yeh like you said if omgitssana was to fall for a white guy she'll be in big trouble so she knows not to do that. Just like atleast 90% of the desis parents want them to be with another desi so why do desis have to criticize the desis of the opposite sex when they know they'll end up with one.
I just don't get it!!
TYPE_R_GINO
July 23rd, 2006, 09:16 PM
there you go
good for you lolz
:lol: thanx!!
ur rite though....too much hate goin on in da desi community :no:
chunky
July 23rd, 2006, 09:17 PM
lol Well yeh like you said if omgitssana was to fall for a white guy she'll be in big trouble so she knows not to do that. Just like atleast 90% of the desis parents want them to be with another desi so why do desis have to criticize the desis of the opposite sex when they know they'll end up with one.
I just don't get it!!
well, I would like to bang a desi chick before I decide which ethnicity is my favorite. You can't buy before you try!
=Surge=
July 23rd, 2006, 09:20 PM
The culture just needs to adapt to the times. In many cases, although effective at times, it is backward and too restrictive. I also think that many desi chicks are raised like cattle in a way: just to become wives and bear children. That attitude is too narrow and destructive, especially in western society. And by the way, LOL @ life partner and LOL @ desi. Yea right.
desi_shawrty
July 23rd, 2006, 09:21 PM
well, I would like to bang a desi chick before I decide which ethnicity is my favorite. You can't buy before you try!
:lol::no:
Well hopefull you're not expecting a virgin wife lol
and you're in bangaladesh it shouldn't be a problem finding one there lolz
BaByGirL24
July 23rd, 2006, 09:22 PM
it's due to:
boredom
and
entertainment
desi_shawrty
July 23rd, 2006, 09:23 PM
The culture just needs to adapt to the times. In many cases, although effective at times, it is backward and too restrictive. I also think that many desi chicks are raised like cattle in a way: just to become wives and bear children. That attitude is too narrow and destructive, especially in western society. And by the way, LOL @ life partner and LOL @ desi. Yea right.
lol well someguys do like house wifes I've herd from a few but it'll take couple generations for everyone to settle normally in the states atleast. this is the first generation so alot of people are confused about alotta stuff. I don't think uk. people have the same problem cause they've been there for generations now.
desi_shawrty
July 23rd, 2006, 09:24 PM
it's due to:
boredom
and
entertainment
Well I don't know if they just do this on rd or they really think that way:dunno:
nasdaq50
July 23rd, 2006, 09:25 PM
Desi girls and guys hate on each other so much:no:
I don't know that many desis in real so I really don't know how they really are but I dout we're that bad. :rolleyes:
I have nothing against desi guys at all they seem like every other guy to me(not judging from this site though)
I don't find a big problem with desi girls either when ever someone makes a thread hatting on us to me it just sounds like all other girls.
So what's the reoson to hate so much or am I missing something here.
Oh and I suggest everyone learns to live with it cause most of you will end up with a desi as your life partner.
u got a nice pair of tits and a nice face, u should show more skin
BaByGirL24
July 23rd, 2006, 09:25 PM
Well I don't know if they just do this on rd or they really think that way:dunno:
what would you say about me? did you think i was like that in real :D
=Surge=
July 23rd, 2006, 09:27 PM
lol well someguys do like house wifes I've herd from a few but it'll take couple generations for everyone to settle normally in the states atleast. this is the first generation so alot of people are confused about alotta stuff. I don't think uk. people have the same problem cause they've been there for generations now.
Yea, but its going to take some time. I just see through all the fascades and bullshit certain societies have created to manifest control of the public. it's hilarious, but I respect its effectiveness. That in itself is another thread and a half.
desi_shawrty
July 23rd, 2006, 09:28 PM
what would you say about me? did you think i was like that in real :D
haha no
Me and yasir were just talking about that couple days ago you seem nicer and have a better personality in person lolz
sososikh
July 23rd, 2006, 09:28 PM
You have to pick and choose your desi friends. Im telling you me and my partners only kick it with thorough people. Like the general consensus says desi people not all, but alot tend to have jeleaous tendencies. They hate to see you doing better than them and are always in competion with you. Around here we call them Mr. Me too's. I live in a desi infested area and i was naive and use to have a whole lot of friends, now 2 years outta high school i have a crew of 10 - 15 real dudes and we have 1 motto " Its a secret society all we ask is trust".
zimmy24
July 23rd, 2006, 09:29 PM
I also think that many desi chicks are raised like cattle in a way: just to become wives and bear children. That attitude is too narrow and destructive, especially in western society. And by the way, LOL @ life partner and LOL @ desi. Yea right.
:ugh: what kinda families do u guys have :ugh:
BaByGirL24
July 23rd, 2006, 09:30 PM
haha no
Me and yasir were just talking about that couple days ago you seem nicer and have a better personality in person lolz
gee thanks...and true..i dont bitch around in real like i do on rd lol...i dunno about other people. I just find it fun to pick on people online...you know what im talking about. :D
desi_shawrty
July 23rd, 2006, 09:32 PM
gee thanks...and true..i dont bitch around in real like i do on rd lol...i dunno about other people. I just find it fun to pick on people online...you know what im talking about. :D
lol well it's just the net you can say what ever and its not like you're gonna get hurt in anyway lol
I act pretty much like my self on here but just a little dumber:lol:
desi_shawrty
July 23rd, 2006, 09:36 PM
:ugh: what kinda families do u guys have :ugh:
haha the ones that come from the villages back home lol j/k
I know this family who lives here and all the kids were born and rasied in the states but they all get married to there cousins and stuff this one girl got engaged to her cousin back home in pak. when she was 15 and now she's 17 she'll get married to him when she graduates and he'll come here then and live at her house till he gets a job and can live on his own. I don't think she's gonna go to college after that either cause I asked her what she's gonna do after she graduates she was just like I don't really know at all. So I don't think she will go back to school and just live as a house wife after. Oh and the guy she got engaged to is in his mid 20s
sheerin
July 23rd, 2006, 09:39 PM
well I don't hate anyone last yr I started frenshman yr in h.s and these desi girls wanted to be my friends and all and this girl I knw she was like a older sis to me and told me not 2 hang out with desi girls in our school cause they cut and do bad stuff so I listened to her and then when I tried to ignore the desi girls and guys they started calling me a whore and bitch and stuff I just ignored them :no:
BaByGirL24
July 23rd, 2006, 09:40 PM
lol well it's just the net you can say what ever and its not like you're gonna get hurt in anyway lol
I act pretty much like my self on here but just a little dumber:lol:
haha..nah i dont think you act dumb..i seen dumber people on here *cough* not gonna say....:lol: i think you're pretty mature in comparison with the "other' person since you guys are the same age i believe.
desi_shawrty
July 23rd, 2006, 09:40 PM
well I don't hate anyone last yr I started frenshman yr in h.s and these desi girls wanted to be my friends and all and this girl I knw she was like a older sis to me and told me not 2 hang out with desi girls in our school cause they cut and do bad stuff so I listened to her and then when I tried to ignore the desi girls and guys they started calling me a whore and bitch and stuff I just ignored them :no:
Oh that's messed up from all these stories I'm starting to get scared of desi people lol
=Surge=
July 23rd, 2006, 09:42 PM
:ugh: what kinda families do u guys have :ugh:
I actually have a great family, and my mother is British educated from a top university. I'm speaking from observing of my peers and the culture, as well as this site.
desi_shawrty
July 23rd, 2006, 09:43 PM
haha..nah i dont think you act dumb..i seen dumber people on here *cough* not gonna say....:lol: i think you're pretty mature in comparison with the "other' person since you guys are the same age i believe.
:rofl:
lol sana you make it so un-obvious right :lol:
Well if I take you as an example I would say in real you're fun, nice, and like jogers lolz but some people do take rd really seriously so I don't know if they just mess around on here when they say stuff or they mean it.
sheerin
July 23rd, 2006, 09:43 PM
Oh that's messed up from all these stories I'm starting to get scared of desi people lol
na there are a few good desi ppl u just have to knw that...........come to my to the mella u will see who are nice and good just by who they hang out with
desi_shawrty
July 23rd, 2006, 09:43 PM
I actually have a great family, and my mother is British educated from a top university. I'm speaking from observing of my peers and the culture, as well as this site.
This site sets a bad example of desis to me atleast
I don't think we're that bad in real lol
asian_guy_786
July 23rd, 2006, 09:44 PM
Don’t become angry and paradise will be yours
BaByGirL24
July 23rd, 2006, 09:50 PM
:rofl:
lol sana you make it so un-obvious right :lol:
Well if I take you as an example I would say in real you're fun, nice, and like jogers lolz but some people do take rd really seriously so I don't know if they just mess around on here when they say stuff or they mean it.
i think a lot of people do it for time pass....and i do get tired of being nice all the time on rd...but i dont see why they gotta assume i fight because i'm jealous? i never get jealous of anyone...
btw my mom wanted your number so she can talk to your mom...hook me up when u can.
desi_shawrty
July 23rd, 2006, 10:40 PM
i think a lot of people do it for time pass....and i do get tired of being nice all the time on rd...but i dont see why they gotta assume i fight because i'm jealous? i never get jealous of anyone...
btw my mom wanted your number so she can talk to your mom...hook me up when u can.
lol I remember my mom called once They talked about every thing besides writing eachothers numbers down lol I'll pm it to ya.
desi_playa
July 23rd, 2006, 10:49 PM
i think a lot of people do it for time pass....and i do get tired of being nice all the time on rd...but i dont see why they gotta assume i fight because i'm jealous? i never get jealous of anyone...
btw my mom wanted your number so she can talk to your mom...hook me up when u can.
Our mommies are talking:eyebrow:
zimmy24
July 23rd, 2006, 10:49 PM
haha the ones that come from the villages back home lol j/k
I know this family who lives here and all the kids were born and rasied in the states but they all get married to there cousins and stuff this one girl got engaged to her cousin back home in pak. when she was 15 and now she's 17 she'll get married to him when she graduates and he'll come here then and live at her house till he gets a job and can live on his own. I don't think she's gonna go to college after that either cause I asked her what she's gonna do after she graduates she was just like I don't really know at all. So I don't think she will go back to school and just live as a house wife after. Oh and the guy she got engaged to is in his mid 20s
:ugh: thank god i dont know any pakis like that in real life.
zimmy24
July 23rd, 2006, 10:52 PM
I actually have a great family, and my mother is British educated from a top university. I'm speaking from observing of my peers and the culture, as well as this site.
lol Rd is the last place u should be observing desi ppl. I used to like desi guys but after being on RD i have started avoiding them :p
desi_playa
July 23rd, 2006, 10:57 PM
lol Rd is the last place u should be observing desi ppl. I used to like desi guys but after being on RD i have started avoiding them :p
Is this zimyad shah the VIII??
zimmy24
July 23rd, 2006, 10:57 PM
no its zimyad shah II
shhhhh
BaByGirL24
July 23rd, 2006, 10:57 PM
Our mommies are talking:eyebrow:
:yes: :Oops:
your mommy likes me :anxious:
sheerin
July 23rd, 2006, 11:00 PM
no its zimyad shah II
shhhhh
u'r a single male ;)
desi_playa
July 23rd, 2006, 11:08 PM
:yes: :Oops:
your mommy likes me :anxious:
does she??
desi_playa
July 23rd, 2006, 11:09 PM
no its zimyad shah II
shhhhh
oh ok.
BaByGirL24
July 23rd, 2006, 11:09 PM
does she??
:anxious: of course..it was obvious...a lot of mommies like me.
roh@n
July 23rd, 2006, 11:22 PM
well dat how it is , there nuttin really we can do about it desi r different in everyway juss look on de forms here lol
sum hate sum like sum dis like and soo forth.............itss wateverr lol
u go always find deis and even others dat will hate u juss hav ta hang wit the desi ppl who r gud with u.
TigerStyle786
July 23rd, 2006, 11:45 PM
hating? hehe its more like jealousy..its a common trait in humans.. if u've got a nice car... n ur nehbor sees it.. he will be jealous.. unless he's a non-materialistic such as myself..u get? its not juz limited to desi people
i rememba tellin this muslim girl to dress propa she woz exposin a bit too much n i received a Big time LOW rating.. funny people, hate is a waste of energy.. nex time ur angry take ur anger out on pillow
jibran251
July 24th, 2006, 12:23 AM
I dun't hate anyone........................I dislike 3 people.
1. Shaquille O'Neal (Just cuz)
2. This kid named TOny
3. Haven't decided.
I am probobaly one of the most patient people you'll ever see.
I get cussed out and don't say nothin. My brother hits me and sometimes it might hurt. And I dun't hit him back. .................................................. .
I don't get what I want and I'm happy with what I have.
p0rt_1337
July 24th, 2006, 12:40 AM
Desis have jealousy inherent in their blood, from the old days in india (inc pakistan), where if anyone had anything, people wud hate. the attitude of wanting to keep up with the jones's or the kumars whatever dont help.
hindus are the a good example (i was born one myself) - they even have a god of MONEY! hardly encouraging proper values IMO.
plus now most western desis are materialistic twats, all abt the money and the possessions. i do ok in terms of salary but i dont shove anything in anyones face.
i could never understand why desis are always hating on each other and so mistrusting of each other. if anything ALL desis irrespective of religion should be STICKING TOGETHER against greater "enemies".
if u ask me i think its all down to insecurity and lack of clear guidence from religion.
SIXPAK GQ
July 24th, 2006, 01:33 AM
Desi girls and guys hate on each other so much:no:
I don't know that many desis in real so I really don't know how they really are but I dout we're that bad. :rolleyes:
I have nothing against desi guys at all they seem like every other guy to me(not judging from this site though)
I don't find a big problem with desi girls either when ever someone makes a thread hatting on us to me it just sounds like all other girls.
So what's the reoson to hate so much or am I missing something here.
Oh and I suggest everyone learns to live with it cause most of you will end up with a desi as your life partner.
not just desis....in other communities too like East Asian..Desi probably the most. Its the just the way we are raised. Everyone wants to better then other desis it seems like.
SIXPAK GQ
July 24th, 2006, 01:35 AM
They can't be seein' others happy yo. Especially there own kind. It was pretty hot today and I bought meself an icecream.. my cousin had nonce but you should've seen those evils she had for me - like she was about to snatch my icecream offa me :(
i dont think its about happiness issue.........
SIXPAK GQ
July 24th, 2006, 01:36 AM
Well I don't know why desi guys would be jealous of desi girls or desi girls be jealous of desi guys.:dunno:
its mostly girls hating on girls......not just desis but other ethncitiies too.....
SIXPAK GQ
July 24th, 2006, 01:39 AM
lol Well yeh like you said if omgitssana was to fall for a white guy she'll be in big trouble so she knows not to do that. Just like atleast 90% of the desis parents want them to be with another desi so why do desis have to criticize the desis of the opposite sex when they know they'll end up with one.
I just don't get it!!
why does it matter how we end up with......i am ending up with a non desi..i already know that..but i have respect for desis ..they can do whatever they want with their lives..i could care less.....
desi_shawrty
July 24th, 2006, 01:44 AM
not just desis....in other communities too like East Asian..Desi probably the most. Its the just the way we are raised. Everyone wants to better then other desis it seems like.
I know all races hate against each other or what ever but on these forums from the way people make threads guys hating on girls and the girls doing the same is pretty pathetic don't ya think so. It's like freakin 2nd 3rd grade when guys and girls would fight each other and say oh we're better and all that. I find it really immature and stupid.
SIXPAK GQ
July 24th, 2006, 01:51 AM
haha the ones that come from the villages back home lol j/k
I know this family who lives here and all the kids were born and rasied in the states but they all get married to there cousins and stuff this one girl got engaged to her cousin back home in pak. when she was 15 and now she's 17 she'll get married to him when she graduates and he'll come here then and live at her house till he gets a job and can live on his own. I don't think she's gonna go to college after that either cause I asked her what she's gonna do after she graduates she was just like I don't really know at all. So I don't think she will go back to school and just live as a house wife after. Oh and the guy she got engaged to is in his mid 20s
i feel sorry for that girl who was raised here and got engagedto a guy in pakistan. there is no chemistry.....she has no career goals since she is not going to college....age gap too.....pathetic....
SIXPAK GQ
July 24th, 2006, 02:04 AM
hating? hehe its more like jealousy..its a common trait in humans.. if u've got a nice car... n ur nehbor sees it.. he will be jealous.. unless he's a non-materialistic such as myself..u get? its not juz limited to desi people
i rememba tellin this muslim girl to dress propa she woz exposin a bit too much n i received a Big time LOW rating.. funny people, hate is a waste of energy.. nex time ur angry take ur anger out on pillow
if u have a nice car and i dont...i will be thinking that that peron must be broke now they paid so much for that car....so basically little by little that expensive car is making them broke...cars depreciate in value big time...
basically most people have nice cars to show off..it does mean they are rich...even i can pull off a luxury car with monthly payments....the less expensive car will take me point a to point b also....
SIXPAK GQ
July 24th, 2006, 02:17 AM
I know all races hate against each other or what ever but on these forums from the way people make threads guys hating on girls and the girls doing the same is pretty pathetic don't ya think so. It's like freakin 2nd 3rd grade when guys and girls would fight each other and say oh we're better and all that. I find it really immature and stupid.
b/c this is the internet....it doesnt hurt their real life reputation....anyone can talk smack behind the screen....its good that i dont have to participate in such thread..i usually make my own thread and be in it......
Foxy_Lay_D
July 24th, 2006, 02:21 PM
Dont hate them all
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