WHY do some DESI GUYS cause so much drama???

[xodesicutieox]

Then they like to blame it on us desi girls :no:

Well why do you :squint:

[selina_786]

Cuz girlz be playin da foolz.

[xodesicutieox]

Cuz girlz be playin da foolz.

hehe i know. i love how the guys have nothing to say about it...they know its true!! :p

[xodesicutieox]

OMG...i remember my ex. lol. LMAOOOOOOO!!

haha yeah some ex's are like that...waht did he do??

[...Hero...]

:gay:

Because we're worth it

[xodesicutieox]

:gay:

Because we're worth it
lol, well in that case do u think that desi girls that cause drama are worth it?

[CrazyXZac]

i just drop it and walk away...

no pussy is worth all that drama.

[jus_me]

lol when guys create drama its not called drama, its called "word on the street is"

desi guys love gossip more than desi girls do..any who tell you different are lying!

[PaiN infLictioN]

shut the faaack up :slap:

[...Hero...]

lol, well in that case do u think that desi girls that cause drama are worth it?

Nah not really, I like simple personalities.

[Squishdwg]

I cause zero drama, so cant help u out!

[di vinci]

Then they like to blame it on us desi girls :no:

Well why do you :squint:


becauase u lote generally play mind games with us thats y its ur fault

[PaGaLkHaN]

If it wasnt for the drama.... would u love us and be with is? It makes the relationship so much more interesting! It kinda gives it a bang... if u know what i mean! :Pelvic2:

[Aurovon]

Why is there a movie genre called drama?

Because it's fun. Makes the time go by faster.

Tick Tock Tick Tock

[xodesicutieox]

lol when guys create drama its not called drama, its called "word on the street is"

desi guys love gossip more than desi girls do..any who tell you different are lying!
:werd:

[xodesicutieox]

If it wasnt for the drama.... would u love us and be with is? It makes the relationship so much more interesting! It kinda gives it a bang... if u know what i mean! :Pelvic2:
hehe but sometimes drama gets annoying and really old. especially if someone doesnt have much patience...lol

[jus_me]

becauase u lote generally play mind games with us thats y its ur fault

well you guys are dumb, if you know we play mind games then why do you fall for them time after time after time?

:neutral:

[Vision350z]

desi girls cause way more drama than desi guys, so pleaaaase dont even TRY to compare :neutral: desi girls n their weird ass mentalities, i cant stand em... most rather. as for the guys, well i barely hang out wit desi guys neway, most of em do cause drama but i wudnt say as much as the chics. its always about provin whoz got bigger balls and whoz got more testosterone, so fucking immature

[xodesicutieox]

well you guys are dumb, if you know we play mind games then why do you fall for them time after time after time?

:neutral:
:p i agree. they say that we play mind games, but at the same time so do they. then they get mad cuz we dont get them either lol

[xodesicutieox]

desi girls cause way more drama than desi guys, so pleaaaase dont even TRY to compare :neutral: desi girls n their weird ass mentalities, i cant stand em... most rather. as for the guys, well i barely hang out wit desi guys neway, most of em do cause drama but i wudnt say as much as the chics. its always about provin whoz got bigger balls and whoz got more testosterone, so fucking immature
however, i think most drama is started because or by a desi guy.

[Vision350z]

well you guys are dumb, if you know we play mind games then why do you fall for them time after time after time?

:neutral:
well, maybe most desi guys are dumb :) which is why i've been stayin away from desi chics. my current gf is an afghan n im happy wit her, no retarded little drama issues to worry about, if anythin, only bigger ones that aren't race specific

[xodesicutieox]

lol. we went out for like an year, then i liked someone else, and i had to break up with him, and he just spread rumors and shit. : l
aww its ok :grouphug:

[Aurovon]

however, i think most drama is started because or by a desi guy.

Negative.

[di vinci]

well you guys are dumb, if you know we play mind games then why do you fall for them time after time after time?

:neutral:

because we pretend that u r smarter then us so we can, do our own shit wid out u realising wats going on. we we get caught out we blame u :p

[xodesicutieox]

Negative.
well in many cases they are...come on, dont blame desi girls 100%! lol

[xodesicutieox]

lol....it's not really upseting.
haha do u talk to him at all anymore?

[jus_me]

well, maybe most desi guys are dumb :) which is why i've been stayin away from desi chics. my current gf is an afghan n im happy wit her, no retarded little drama issues to worry about, if anythin, only bigger ones that aren't race specific

desi guys and girls are perfectly matched to each other when it comes to being petty and playing mind games

every single guy ive had a relationship has played mind games and done stupid shit like that so im never ever going to get with a desi guy again, im engaged to a white guy :) and people laugh at that, i dont give a damn..i knew ages ago i wouldnt marry a desi.

[Vision350z]

however, i think most drama is started because or by a desi guy.where do u live? :confused: wichita or sumthin? :confused: well over here on the east coast, it's incredibly rare to find a girl that'll commit herself to u n stay wit u. even after, say, 2 years, she'll run off like a cat bein chased by a dog sayin she's scared of commitment even tho she always told the guy that he was mr perfect. bla bla n bla, same old damn stories

desi guys jus start drama w/in themselves at least, desi chics start drama wit both guys n girls. ive had pretty bad experiences wit chics n im probly onna the nicest n most respectful n caring guys u'll meet, in person that is

[jus_me]

because we pretend that u r smarter then us so we can, do our own shit wid out u realising wats going on. we we get caught out we blame u :p


wow, you know some dumb desi girls :p

i would clock on pretty fast if you were messing me about.

[xodesicutieox]

desi guys and girls are perfectly matched to each other when it comes to being petty and playing mind games

every single guy ive had a relationship has played mind games and done stupid shit like that so im never ever going to get with a desi guy again, im engaged to a white guy :) and people laugh at that, i dont give a damn..i knew ages ago i wouldnt marry a desi.
desi guys sometimes cause so much drama that at one point i was also thinking of only going out with white guys...then i met one or two that so far seem normal, so im ok for now lol

[Aurovon]

well in many cases they are...come on, dont blame desi girls 100%! lol

Oh I don't. It's 110% actually.

[di vinci]

desi guys and girls are perfectly matched to each other when it comes to being petty and playing mind games

every single guy ive had a relationship has played mind games and done stupid shit like that so im never ever going to get with a desi guy again, im engaged to a white guy :) and people laugh at that, i dont give a damn..i knew ages ago i wouldnt marry a desi.


dam, ur sa sad, going for a white dude, wats wrong u just havnt found the right desi guy

[xodesicutieox]

where do u live? :confused: wichita or sumthin? :confused: well over here on the east coast, it's incredibly rare to find a girl that'll commit herself to u n stay wit u. even after, say, 2 years, she'll run off like a cat bein chased by a dog sayin she's scared of commitment even tho she always told the guy that he was mr perfect. bla bla n bla, same old damn stories

desi guys jus start drama w/in themselves at least, desi chics start drama wit both guys n girls. ive had pretty bad experiences wit chics n im probly onna the nicest n most respectful n caring guys u'll meet, in person that is
lmao...no but i guess there are too many desis where i live and drama is inevitable from either party.

[xodesicutieox]

Oh I don't. It's 110% actually.

hmm...u've never seen a desi guy cause drama? interesting lol. well thats good then!! desi guy drama is usually the worst

[Aurovon]

hmm...u've never seen a desi guy cause drama? interesting lol. well thats good then!! desi guy drama is usually the worst

Sure I have.

Look at India/Pakistan

[xodesicutieox]

lol nope. if we ever see each other, we always ignore each other. but i'm the only one out of most of my friends who doesnt' have a guy anymore, so there always trying to hook me up, and it gets annoying.
yeah i know what u mean lol

[jus_me]

dam, ur sa sad, going for a white dude, wats wrong u just havnt found the right desi guy


haha..yeah, that would be it..a desi guy can never be at fault, it must be me who hasnt looked hard enough.

[Vision350z]

desi guys and girls are perfectly matched to each other when it comes to being petty and playing mind games

every single guy ive had a relationship has played mind games and done stupid shit like that so im never ever going to get with a desi guy again, im engaged to a white guy :) and people laugh at that, i dont give a damn..i knew ages ago i wouldnt marry a desi.
thats good, im proud of u :) white guys usually tend to treat desi women with FAR more respect than desi guys. u made a good choice, ignore what people say, u got my support ;)

if i dint have 2 older sisters i probly wuda never realized how retarded desi dudes are, pretty pathetic

[Aurovon]

But I bet Kashmir was over a hot bitch though.

[xodesicutieox]

But I bet Kashmir was over a hot bitch though.

:rofl:

[di vinci]

haha..yeah, that would be it..a desi guy can never be at fault, it must be me who hasnt looked hard enough.


have u ever fort, u already decide u wanted a white guy and non of ur desi guys measure up to ur unrealistic concept of the perfect man so u went with the white dude to fit in

[jus_me]

thats good, im proud of u :) white guys usually tend to treat desi women with FAR more respect than desi guys. u made a good choice, ignore what people say, u got my support ;)

if i dint have 2 older sisters i probly wuda never realized how retarded desi dudes are, pretty pathetic

thanks :D yeah i dont give a damn if people say you should marry an indian guy, what will everyone think? everyone isnt the person who will spend the rest of their lives with him, i am..im not going to be unhappy for the sake of society accepting me with a desi husband.

indian guys are idiots...funny, you would think they'd have more respect for women seeing as the ones i know are all mama's boys.

[xodesicutieox]

thanks :D yeah i dont give a damn if people say you should marry an indian guy, what will everyone think? everyone isnt the person who will spend the rest of their lives with him, i am..im not going to be unhappy for the sake of society accepting me with a desi husband.

indian guys are idiots...funny, you would think they'd have more respect for women seeing as the ones i know are all mama's boys.
same here...every desi guy i know are so caught up in their own little worlds. i know not everyone is like that but the desi guys who live in my city are a poor representation.

[jus_me]

have u ever fort, u already decide u wanted a white guy and non of ur desi guys measure up to ur unrealistic concept of the perfect man so u went with the white dude to fit in

eh?

i didnt want a white guy before i started dating, then i was all ready to marry a desi guy

it was desi guys who changed my view on stuff and that made me decide i wasnt going to marry one of them..

who said i wanted a perfect man? that would be kinda boring..no makeup sex? :rolleyes:

i wanted a guy who treated me as a person, not as some kinda second mother/slave who did everything for him and took all the abuse he wished to dish out..and thats what ive got.

[xodesicutieox]

eh?

i didnt want a white guy before i started dating, then i was all ready to marry a desi guy

it was desi guys who changed my view on stuff and that made me decide i wasnt going to marry one of them..

who said i wanted a perfect man? that would be kinda boring..no makeup sex? :rolleyes:

i wanted a guy who treated me as a person, not as some kinda second mother/slave who did everything for him and took all the abuse he wished to dish out..and thats what ive got.
i agree that many still have that mentality...but not all are like that. do u ever wish u spent more time trying to find the perfect desi guy than being engaged to someone who is white and some desis dont approve of? (not saying that ur fiancee isnt perfect for u)

[shy_sadia]

Guys want SEX :) and they get frustrated at us INNOCENT girls because of it:angel:

[di vinci]

eh?

i didnt want a white guy before i started dating, then i was all ready to marry a desi guy

it was desi guys who changed my view on stuff and that made me decide i wasnt going to marry one of them..

who said i wanted a perfect man? that would be kinda boring..no makeup sex? :rolleyes:

i wanted a guy who treated me as a person, not as some kinda second mother/slave who did everything for him and took all the abuse he wished to dish out..and thats what ive got.

u had the wrong guy then, u should have waited, anyway in a relationship a women should nevr ber treated like a slave, one thing i have to say make up sex is thebest!!!!!!!!!!

[jus_me]

eh?

i didnt want a white guy before i started dating, then i was all ready to marry a desi guy

it was desi guys who changed my view on stuff and that made me decide i wasnt going to marry one of them..

who said i wanted a perfect man? that would be kinda boring..no makeup sex? :rolleyes:

i wanted a guy who treated me as a person, not as some kinda second mother/slave who did everything for him and took all the abuse he wished to dish out..and thats what ive got.
i agree that many still have that mentality...but not all are like that. do u ever wish u spent more time trying to find the perfect desi guy than being engaged to someone who is white and some desis dont approve of? (not saying that ur fiancee isnt perfect for u)

no, not really.

its hard to explain, this guy has been my best friend for nearly 7 years..he knows me better than anybody else, even my own mother.

i dont really care if desis dont approve of him, as i said..im the one marrying him, not them.

my parents are totally fine with it so i dont give a damn if desi aunties dont like it.

[jus_me]

u had the wrong guy then, u should have waited, anyway in a relationship a women should nevr ber treated like a slave, one thing i have to say make up sex is thebest!!!!!!!!!!

thats what im saying..i dated a few guys and realised that in the end they were all the same..treating me like im a second class citizen compared to them, that im only there for their needs etc..

just-off-period sex is even better but thats enough sex talk, back to the desi boys.

[harika]

I'm gonna have to agree with you. Especially the desi guys I know, there so much drama. Reason why I don't hang out with them or date them.

[Vision350z]

thanks :D yeah i dont give a damn if people say you should marry an indian guy, what will everyone think? everyone isnt the person who will spend the rest of their lives with him, i am..im not going to be unhappy for the sake of society accepting me with a desi husband.

indian guys are idiots...funny, you would think they'd have more respect for women seeing as the ones i know are all mama's boys.
thats cuz they're still busy suckin their mamas' teets. they cant live witout their moms, n they expect u to be jus like em.

bull shit, i always wished i wasnt a fuckin desi

[harika]

thats cuz they're still busy suckin their mamas' teets. they cant live witout their moms, n they expect u to be jus like em.

bull shit, i always wished i wasnt a fuckin desi

why?

[laal mia]

yep thats right just some

[mp3]

Desi women are the drama queens. You will make an argument out of nothing and will bring some random crap in from nowhere that is probably weeks old. There are those desi guys that jut cant help them selves and make a huge drama out of trivial stuff. But girls will just go of on a tangent, u will start with something small and wil go on for hours about anything. It doesnt matter if we are listening just have to have a presence, actually as long as you know u can annoy us, as we could leave a room and u will shout as long as some sound is getting to our ears.

[jus_me]

thats cuz they're still busy suckin their mamas' teets. they cant live witout their moms, n they expect u to be jus like em.

bull shit, i always wished i wasnt a fuckin desi

yeah its annoying..its kinda freaky too in a way, that they want a mother/fuck buddy rolled into one :ugh:

when i was younger my mum was always trying to teach me how to cook and telling me that it was what a good wife done, my dad used to shout at her and tell her how id never be somebodies slave and that whoever married me would have to share the workload with me like he (my dad) did with my mum,,

its true though, desi boys expect far too much from desi girls, just because their mothers spoil them becuase theyre carrying the family name, it doesnt mean their wives will do the same.

[di vinci]

thats what im saying..i dated a few guys and realised that in the end they were all the same..treating me like im a second class citizen compared to them, that im only there for their needs etc..

just-off-period sex is even better but thats enough sex talk, back to the desi boys.


women r alot horny, wen they just finshed there periods, and agressive in a sexual way

the things with most desi guys is they been to mommyfied by there mum, and they rather have the women do everything then them actually getting off there own arse to do sumting. in reality most desi guys never grow up from being mummys lil boy. u know the thing is guys need to start treating their women like queens intsead of hoe, and most desi concept of the perfect women is so distorted

[xodesicutieox]

no, not really.

its hard to explain, this guy has been my best friend for nearly 7 years..he knows me better than anybody else, even my own mother.

i dont really care if desis dont approve of him, as i said..im the one marrying him, not them.

my parents are totally fine with it so i dont give a damn if desi aunties dont like it.
as longas ur family doesnt care...then ur right who care about everyone else. will u invite ur desi ex-bf to the wedding? hehe

[harika]

Desi women are the drama queens. You will make an argument out of nothing and will bring some random crap in from nowhere that is probably weeks old. There are those desi guys that jut cant help them selves and make a huge drama out of trivial stuff. But girls will just go of on a tangent, u will start with something small and wil go on for hours about anything. It doesnt matter if we are listening just have to have a presence, actually as long as you know u can annoy us, as we could leave a room and u will shout as long as some sound is getting to our ears.
Please don't generalize.

[xodesicutieox]

Desi women are the drama queens. You will make an argument out of nothing and will bring some random crap in from nowhere that is probably weeks old. There are those desi guys that jut cant help them selves and make a huge drama out of trivial stuff. But girls will just go of on a tangent, u will start with something small and wil go on for hours about anything. It doesnt matter if we are listening just have to have a presence, actually as long as you know u can annoy us, as we could leave a room and u will shout as long as some sound is getting to our ears.
:werd:

[mp3]

Please don't generalize.


thread is about desi guys, so thought i would add a comment about the girls.

[laal mia]

Please don't generalize.

woww sweetheart change that sig of your, scared tha shitt out of me

[mp3]

:werd:

Out of all that u agree with the one comment. This is a male bashing thread is it. i think you all need to agree with the rest too

[xodesicutieox]

Out of all that u agree with the one comment. This is a male bashing thread is it. i think you all need to agree with the rest too

I agree somewhat. You said 'some' desi guys...but u then go on to talk about 'all' desi girls

now that is being unfair. and no this isnt a male bashing thread, im not like that. im just talking about some guys.

[nayeemx33]

I find this really weird, a desi girl calling other people drama queens :neutral:

[xodesicutieox]

I find this really weird, a desi girl calling other people drama queens :neutral:
more like drama king :D

[harika]

thread is about desi guys, so thought i would add a comment about the girls.
oh, I agree with everything you said. Just don't generalize, because all desi girls aren't like that.

[harika]

woww sweetheart change that sig of your, scared tha shitt out of me
Good.

[nayeemx33]

oh, I agree with everything you said. Just don't generalize, because all desi girls aren't like that.

Just like every desi guys doesn't cause drama :neutral:

[mp3]

I agree somewhat. You said 'some' desi guys...but u then go on to talk about 'all' desi girls

now that is being unfair. and no this isnt a male bashing thread, im not like that. im just talking about some guys.


Damn right all desi women, show me a woman who doesn't talk too much and i will show u a gujarati who will give a customer 1 pence off his purchase

[jus_me]

women r alot horny, wen they just finshed there periods, and agressive in a sexual way

the things with most desi guys is they been to mommyfied by there mum, and they rather have the women do everything then them actually getting off there own arse to do sumting. in reality most desi guys never grow up from being mummys lil boy. u know the thing is guys need to start treating their women like queens intsead of hoe, and most desi concept of the perfect women is so distorted

its not even hoe..its because the mums treat the sons like royalty, the sons dont realise how to properly treat a woman..because the dads treat the mums like slaves the sons think its ok to do that.

boys need to learn that women arent here just for them..i blame old mentalities.

and lol, no ex's are coming to the wedding :)

[di vinci]

its not even hoe..its because the mums treat the sons like royalty, the sons dont realise how to properly treat a woman..because the dads treat the mums like slaves the sons think its ok to do that.

boys need to learn that women arent here just for them..i blame old mentalities.

and lol, no ex's are coming to the wedding :)


can i come, o love weddings

[xodesicutieox]

Just like every desi guys doesn't cause drama :neutral:
i said SOME!! :)

[jus_me]

can i come, o love weddings

lol, i dont even know when the big day is myself.

[xodesicutieox]

its not even hoe..its because the mums treat the sons like royalty, the sons dont realise how to properly treat a woman..because the dads treat the mums like slaves the sons think its ok to do that.

boys need to learn that women arent here just for them..i blame old mentalities.

and lol, no ex's are coming to the wedding :)

haha yeah i somewhat agree with that

[harika]

Just like every desi guys doesn't cause drama :neutral:
Some do. Some don't.

[xodesicutieox]

Some do. Some don't.
yeah but then they ALL go around blaming desi girls without realizing that sometimes they are the cause of it :yes:

[di vinci]

lol, i dont even know when the big day is myself.
let me no so i can by a suit, do my hair, get a manicures and all the bits and bobs ready, ps i dnt mind be the brides maid too

[Vision350z]

yeah its annoying..its kinda freaky too in a way, that they want a mother/fuck buddy rolled into one :ugh:

when i was younger my mum was always trying to teach me how to cook and telling me that it was what a good wife done, my dad used to shout at her and tell her how id never be somebodies slave and that whoever married me would have to share the workload with me like he (my dad) did with my mum,,

its true though, desi boys expect far too much from desi girls, just because their mothers spoil them becuase theyre carrying the family name, it doesnt mean their wives will do the same.
nicely said, ur dad's a rare one to have brought u up like that, no wonder ur not as closed minded as so many other naive desi chics. both my bro in laws are paki n i know for a fact my sisters got really damn effin lucky to find guys that treat em like nothin less than goddesses.

wish u guys the best in the future ;)

[harika]

yeah but then they ALL go around blaming desi girls without realizing that sometimes they are the cause of it :yes:
Sorry, not all of them do.

The desi guys I know are drama queens, yes.

but that doesn't mean I haven't met genuinely good desi guys.

[350z]

Then they like to blame it on us desi girls :no:

Well why do you :squint:

go date non desi guys, problem solved.

[Vision350z]

go date non desi guys, problem solved.
lol

[xodesicutieox]

Sorry, not all of them do.

The desi guys I know are drama queens, yes.

but that doesn't mean I haven't met genuinely good desi guys.

I never said I havent met any good desi guys. If you read previous posts I said I am not attacking the personalities of all desi guys.

And I will say not ALL of them do, if u can find me some desi guy who thinks that desi girls cause no drama... :slap2:

[xodesicutieox]

go date non desi guys, problem solved.
naw thats ok...i didnt say i think all desi guys are like that, but there are some. why are u guys in denial that some guys do cause drama???

[350z]

naw thats ok...i didnt say i think all desi guys are like that, but there are some. why are u guys in denial that some guys do cause drama???

where did I deny on my post?

[jus_me]

nicely said, ur dad's a rare one to have brought u up like that, no wonder ur not as closed minded as so many other naive desi chics. both my bro in laws are paki n i know for a fact my sisters got really damn effin lucky to find guys that treat em like nothin less than goddesses.

wish u guys the best in the future ;)

yeah hes quite unconventional is my dad..

nearly every woman in my family is unhappy with the husband she has..my dad said he didnt want me turning out like that and so i could marry whoever i wanted to..its not like i ran out to find a white guy to rebel against my parents, which is what most of the asian community thinks..it annoys them that my parents get on so well with my fiance.

thanks :) you must be the first desi guy who has said that, the rest are all like "yeah..she couldnt find a proper indian guy so she went for second best" if only they knew that THEY were second best.

[xodesicutieox]

where did I deny on my post?
no that wasnt meant for u...only the first sentence. the denial thing was just a thought.

[harika]

I never said I havent met any good desi guys. If you read previous posts I said I am not attacking the personalities of all desi guys.

And I will say not ALL of them do, if u can find me some desi guy who thinks that desi girls cause no drama... :slap2:

lol, I agree that all desi guys think desi girls cause drama.
But this is were I disagreed with you, that they blame desi girls when they might be the cause of it.

yeah but then they ALL go around blaming desi girls without realizing that sometimes they are the cause of it :yes:

[xodesicutieox]

lol, I agree that all desi guys think desi girls cause drama.
But this is were I disagreed with you, that they blame desi girls when they might be the cause of it.
well the ones that i know do. they think that they are always right and girls are always wrong...like i said the guys that live in my city are a poor representation, and i used to hate desi guys and like white guys because of that.

[harika]

well the ones that i know do. they think that they are always right and girls are always wrong...like i said the guys that live in my city are a poor representation, and i used to hate desi guys and like white guys because of that.
yeah, I know what you mean. Because of the lack of desi guys where I live, I've had a poor representation as well. The ones I have met are so.. wannabe gangsterrr.. lol.

[xodesicutieox]

yeah, I know what you mean. Because of the lack of desi guys where I live, I've had a poor representation as well. The ones I have met are so.. wannabe gangsterrr.. lol.
:rofl: that type is so interesting...r they like from the white suburbs also??

[harika]

:rofl: that type is so interesting...r they like from the white suburbs also??
YES! that's exactly what get's me.. I'm like, your friken from KW why are you talking like that?

ex.. aiight aiight, for reaaal? ye ye,

and KW is pretty much the farthest thing you can get from *gangster ville*

[xodesicutieox]

YES! that's exactly what get's me.. I'm like, your friken from KW why are you talking like that?

ex.. aiight aiight, for reaaal? ye ye,

and KW is pretty much the farthest thing you can get from *gangster ville*
haha dont know what KW is...but anyway, its kinda cute when a guy pretends to be all 'gangsta' but when he is really into it, like thinking he is one...then its just stupid. some of the desi guys on the mainsite are really weird for that. a lot of them are like from the hood kind of places but still...i wonder waht their parents say :sarb:

[harika]

haha dont know what KW is...but anyway, its kinda cute when a guy pretends to be all 'gangsta' but when he is really into it, like thinking he is one...then its just stupid. some of the desi guys on the mainsite are really weird for that. a lot of them are like from the hood kind of places but still...i wonder waht their parents say :sarb:
I understand if there from like, NJ or whatever.. but like, come on.. I live in Canada.. and not even in Toronto.

and KW is where i'm from..

[desi_shawrty]

lol I don't really know any desi guys in real so can't say anything about it. Although this website sets such a bad examples of desis cause everyone is always hatting on each other too much.

[xodesicutieox]

lol I don't really know any desi guys in real so can't say anything about it. Although this website sets such a bad examples of desis cause everyone is always hatting on each other too much.
there arent a lot in holland?? hmm well im sure u might known some in detroit! although the ones in detroit arent that bad...big cities=more people=more privacy=not much drama. lol

[chunky]

lol I don't really know any desi guys in real so can't say anything about it. Although this website sets such a bad examples of desis cause everyone is always hatting on each other too much.

except you. because you are an awesome example of lots of things.

[Vision350z]

yeah hes quite unconventional is my dad..

nearly every woman in my family is unhappy with the husband she has..my dad said he didnt want me turning out like that and so i could marry whoever i wanted to..its not like i ran out to find a white guy to rebel against my parents, which is what most of the asian community thinks..it annoys them that my parents get on so well with my fiance.

thanks :) you must be the first desi guy who has said that, the rest are all like "yeah..she couldnt find a proper indian guy so she went for second best" if only they knew that THEY were second best.
sadly i gotta agree lool, even tho im a desi guy myself. but i honestly consider myself part of that rare breed, not to sound cocky or conceited. after onna my sister's broke off an engagement over a fake ring n divorcing another man after he would occasionally hit her, they jus told her to marry a white guy instead, n started givin examples of all our previous white family friends haha. luckily she found a good paki guy herself tho, they're out there, but sumtimes it's not even worth all the shit u gotta go thru to find one. n it goes the same for desi chics. i'm wit an afghan now n my family loves her, hell, my lil nieces tell me they miss her all the time as well.

[jus_me]

sadly i gotta agree lool, even tho im a desi guy myself. but i honestly consider myself part of that rare breed, not to sound cocky or conceited. after onna my sister's broke off an engagement over a fake ring n divorcing another man after he would occasionally hit her, they jus told her to marry a white guy instead, n started givin examples of all our previous white family friends haha. luckily she found a good paki guy herself tho, they're out there, but sumtimes it's not even worth all the shit u gotta go thru to find one. n it goes the same for desi chics. i'm wit an afghan now n my family loves her, hell, my lil nieces tell me they miss her all the time as well.

my cousins are in love with my fiance, they are 5 and 7 and everytime they see him they drag him away and spend all nigh talking to him and im left there pining for him :neutral:

he gets on pretty well with them and their parents..the rest of my family dont like him much but i dont care..theyre just pissed that he treats me so well and that were not even married yet whereas their husbands treat them like crap..he treated me the same when we were mates but they didnt mind so much then becuase they never thought we would get together..it burns them up how much money he is willing to spend on me (not that i let him) and that nobody spends money on them..

my mum is so used to him coming around to eat that she lays a place for him at the table

[Vision350z]

my cousins are in love with my fiance, they are 5 and 7 and everytime they see him they drag him away and spend all nigh talking to him and im left there pining for him :neutral:

he gets on pretty well with them and their parents..the rest of my family dont like him much but i dont care..theyre just pissed that he treats me so well and that were not even married yet whereas their husbands treat them like crap..he treated me the same when we were mates but they didnt mind so much then becuase they never thought we would get together..it burns them up how much money he is willing to spend on me (not that i let him) and that nobody spends money on them..

my mum is so used to him coming around to eat that she lays a place for him at the table
hahahaha, very true, i can totally buy that. thats awesome ur parents are like that again, seems like the dude is a good guy considerin he's gettin along that well wit ur family

[sikhsta]

lol

drama isnt in my vocabulary :dance3:

[Foxy_Lay_D]

Then they like to blame it on us desi girls :no:

Well why do you :squint:
Dont know yaar