Desi girls would u get with someone outside ur religion?

[iampoe]

its annoying and frustrating... you desi girls have pissed me off way to much on this matter

nonetheless, what would you girls do?
would u fight to be with ur man even if he was of another religion, and it wasnt allowed?
Ones who have done it or are doing it, how do you go about it?

[boink_y]

No. People who are of my religion are smart. Everyone else is going to Hell (well, there is no Hell in my religion... but they will probably reincarnate into a cockroach. Why would anyone date a roach? ewww)

[iampoe]

No. People who are of my religion are smart. Everyone else is going to Hell (well, there is no Hell in my religion... but they will probably reincarnate into a cockroach. Why would anyone date a roach? ewww)

sighhhhhhhhhhh* if ur hindu, can you tell me where in ur religion it says that ur not supposed to go our with people of other religions

[selina_786]

No.

[pakette]

Nope.

[pakette]

No. People who are of my religion are smart. Everyone else is going to Hell (well, there is no Hell in my religion... but they will probably reincarnate into a cockroach. Why would anyone date a roach? ewww)

Think again.. :lol:

[T.Dimera]

i'd prefer the same...last few girls i've come across have chosen guys outside our religion...

[boink_y]

sighhhhhhhhhhh* if ur hindu, can you tell me where in ur religion it says that ur not supposed to go our with people of other religions


All I need to know about my religion, I learned from my mom and dad. My mom would kill me if I married a kallu. Therefore, I just sleep with them and then dispose of them. I do the same with all women of a different religion.

[Advocate]

Nope

[iampoe]

damn this is one reason i have lost most of my attraction to my own cultures girls.

[legallybrown]

I am doing it, I couldnt help it and I'll eventually let my parents know

[Lady Pimp]

I wouldn't. I don't think it would work.

[boink_y]

damn this is one reason i have lost most of my attraction to my own cultures girls.


Thats understandable... question is... why is it that most women of your culture seem to have absolutely no interest in you?

[selina_786]

damn this is one reason i have lost most of my attraction to my own cultures girls.
Thats okay, we still have faith in 1389043657653283203446 other men.

[iampoe]

I am doing it, I couldnt help it and I'll eventually let my parents know

desi girls to me gave a whole new meaning to
not appreciating someone for who they are, but leaving them for what theyre not

i hope im wrong one day tho lol

[pakette]

desi girls to me gave a whole new meaning to
not appreciating someone for who they are, but leaving them for what theyre not

i hope im wrong one day tho lol

:-s

How old are you?

[selina_786]

desi girls to me gave a whole new meaning to
not appreciating someone for who they are, but leaving them for what theyre not

i hope im wrong one day tho lol
Don't be so stupid. Blame the older damn generation.

[foreverconfused]

nope - gotta be hindu. i mean, not that i have anything against other religions...

i don't have any caste/language preferences though

[Advocate]

Thats okay, we still have faith in 1389043657653283203446 other men.
:salut: exactly

[fr00ti]

I'd have no problem with it.. if they were okay with my background.. I wouldn't want someone to pressure me to convert without my liking or confirmation.. or else.. they go out the door.

[Mz_Newyawk]

nope!
bc men from my race\religion r hot enuff to keep me satisfied!
i dont need to go outside lookin for nething more hotter!

[iampoe]

Thats understandable... question is... why is it that most women of your culture seem to have absolutely no interest in you?

hun they all have had interest in me,4 girls have left me like this... stunned is a good word

[Be||a]

nope!
bc men from my race\religion r hot enuff to keep me satisfied!
i dont need to go outside lookin for nething more hotter!
She was asking because of religion related issues that would come up, not because of the way they look, dumbass.

[pakette]

nope!
bc men from my race\religion r hot enuff to keep me satisfied!
i dont need to go outside lookin for nething more hotter!

:werd:

Paki/Persian/Arabic... we got it all. :coold:

[Mz_Newyawk]

She was asking because of religion related issues that would come up, not because of the way they look, dumbass.
i was abt to edit and add that!
but some smartass ...:roll:

[iampoe]

:-s

How old are you?

im 19 ya i kno lol but ... its happened quite a bit in the past 2 years

[Mz_Newyawk]

:werd:

Paki/Persian/Arabic... we got it all. :coold:
hell ya!
*high 5's*
lol imagine marrying a chappta!!

[iampoe]

I'd have no problem with it.. if they were okay with my background.. I wouldn't want someone to pressure me to convert without my liking or confirmation.. or else.. they go out the door.

hey sneha :)...im glad ur like that

[pakette]

hell ya!
*high 5's*
lol imagine marrying a chappta!!

:rofl: i saw that.

[Mz_Newyawk]

:rofl: i saw that.
hehe :giggle:

[selina_786]

hey sneha :)...im glad ur like thatYou have to understand that most desi parents are still living in the dark ages with backward mentality. Just because we prefer not to date anyone outside our religion does not mean we think of them any different to guys of our religion, its just that incase the relationship gets serious and nearly onto marriage is where the truble begins with family. Besides I'm not willing to lose all my family/friends (no matter how silly they are about this sensitive subject) over 1 person. I'd rather watch my steps before hand.

Everyone is equal but we don't have any 'real' way to prove it to ya 'lads' :rolleyes:

[fr00ti]

hey sneha :)...im glad ur like that
lol hey rich..

I guess I am like that..because my parents gave me the right:

-as long as I finish my education.. I can be with whoever I want to be with..

So technically I don't think it's the girls..it's usually the parents.

[boink_y]

damn selina, you have a ton of posts.

[selina_786]

damn selina, you have a ton of posts.
Yup... lol.

[pakette]

lol hey rich..

I guess I am like that..because my parents gave me the right:

-as long as I finish my education.. I can be with whoever I want to be with..

So technically I don't think it's the girls..it's usually the parents.

Or maybe it depends on religion too? :neutral:

[boink_y]

All you girls who think you have a choice...

wait until your time comes.

nuff said.

[LaFarzi]

i would, but i havent. i havent met anyone who amazes me yet.

[iampoe]

You have to understand that most desi parents are still living in the dark ages with backward mentality. Just because we prefer not to date anyone outside our religion does not mean we think of them any different to guys of our religion, its just that incase the relationship gets serious and nearly onto marriage is where the truble begins with family. Besides I'm not willing to lose all my family/friends (no matter how silly they are about this sensitive subject) over 1 person. I'd rather watch my steps before hand.

Everyone is equal but we don't have any 'real' way to prove it to ya 'lads' :rolleyes:

yes yes i know ive heard the same speech... parents, marriage, all that countless times lol. but i feel as if love and religion should have no influences on one another.
especially when it comes to ditching a dude after a while cause hes not that religion. I hope this generation can change all that. see for me i cant find a desi girl of my religion as easy as say some of u.
PLUS desis also judge someone based on the region they are from in india also or just in general if theya re pakis, bengalis, or (guju/punjabis/malu) all that shit

[iampoe]

All you girls who think you have a choice...

wait until your time comes.

nuff said.

what if one day ur time comes and u meet someone u feel is perfect in ur eyes but is some other religion?

[selina_786]

yes yes i know ive heard the same speech... parents, marriage, all that countless times lol. but i feel as if love and religion should have no influences on one another.
especially when it comes to ditching a dude after a while cause hes not that religion. I hope this generation can change all that. see for me i cant find a desi girl of my religion as easy as say some of u.
PLUS desis also judge someone based on the region they are from in india also or just in general if theya re pakis, bengalis, or (guju/punjabis/malu) all that shit
Yes unfortunately along with religion, we also have a backdated culture.
Yea I do think its sad for girls to date ppl they know they can't be with if it did get serious.
Well I'm not sure how much you know about any religion but it influences ones life overall if followed by thoroughly.

[PreciousPari]

No, because Im not allowed to AND its personal preference.

[boink_y]

what if one day ur time comes and u meet someone u feel is perfect in ur eyes but is some other religion?


Then that person is a moron. Why would they meet someone of a different religion anyways?

[selina_786]

what if one day ur time comes and u meet someone u feel is perfect in ur eyes but is some other religion?Thats kinda silly (personally), why even bother finding out how perfect someone can be in your eyes if you know you're going to have trouble marrying/committing to her in the first place? Surely perfect at first sighting doesnt really exist does it?

Anyway y'all prolly get boggled and I ain't heartless either. lol

[boink_y]

No, because Im not allowed to AND its personal preference.

Didnt you do it in the past???

[PreciousPari]

Didnt you do it in the past???

Nope.

[Riddemz]

ideally i would want a girl that doesnt follow any specific religion, but if i ever do fall in love with a girl who is a part of a religion, i just hope that she isnt too religious

[iampoe]

Yes unfortunately along with religion, we also have a backdated culture.
Yea I do think its sad for girls to date ppl they know they can't be with if it did get serious.
Well I'm not sure how much you know about any religion but it influences ones life overall if followed by thoroughly.

my shit is so complicated, im like a indian mutt.. im from north/south india and parents are hindu and catholic, im catholic.

so ive learned alot of religion..one thing it does to me is it leaves out alot of options. So me and a desi girl takes alot of struggle to get everything going. im afraid to hear stuff like " i CANT be with u" instead of a plain old no

[boink_y]

Nope.
I did. Ha! Im better than you! Eat it!

[iampoe]

Then that person is a moron. Why would they meet someone of a different religion anyways?

everything happens for a reason? some of those corny sayings could mean some truth

[PreciousPari]

I did. Ha! Im better than you! Eat it!

Because you have bigger pussy lips? :lol:

[boink_y]

everything happens for a reason? some of those corny sayings could mean some truth
Bullshit.
Thats like saying "homosexuality is genetic"

Who the hell beleives in that crap?

[lankanbaby]

I'd only date a christian or a buddhist. Anyone else I can't relate to as far as religious concerns.

[MiZz MiNi]

its annoying and frustrating... you desi girls have pissed me off way to much on this matter

nonetheless, what would you girls do?
would u fight to be with ur man even if he was of another religion, and it wasnt allowed?
Ones who have done it or are doing it, how do you go about it?
yes i would...im actually with a guy who isn't my religion and no one has said nething about it not being allowed...i think religion doesn't play as big a part in a relationship as everyone believes it does...we just deal he is muslim and i am hindu he can practice w/e he wants and i can practice my religion he just isn't allowed to eat beef in my house or really around me...my family is pretty open about our relationship tho so they could careless wht religion he is...he also isn't all tht religious so i guess tht helps

[boink_y]

yes i would...im actually with a guy who isn't my religion and no one has said nething about it not being allowed...i think religion doesn't play as big a part in a relationship as everyone believes it does...we just deal he is muslim and i am hindu he can practice w/e he wants and i can practice my religion he just isn't allowed to eat beef in my house or really around me...my family is pretty open about our relationship tho so they could careless wht religion he is...he also isn't all tht religious so i guess tht helps
you look like a ****** in your sig.

[iampoe]

Bullshit.
Thats like saying "homosexuality is genetic"

Who the hell beleives in that crap?

man u dont understand.. may i ask what religion are u

[boink_y]

man u dont understand.. may i ask what religion are u
buddhist.

[iampoe]

yes i would...im actually with a guy who isn't my religion and no one has said nething about it not being allowed...i think religion doesn't play as big a part in a relationship as everyone believes it does...we just deal he is muslim and i am hindu he can practice w/e he wants and i can practice my religion he just isn't allowed to eat beef in my house or really around me...my family is pretty open about our relationship tho so they could careless wht religion he is...he also isn't all tht religious so i guess tht helps

yeah damn, whenever i see couples like this or hear in person i am really pleased. i tell them too lol

[lankanbaby]

buddhist.

you are? It says hindu in your RD profile

[MiZz MiNi]

yeah damn, whenever i see couples like this or hear in person i am really pleased. i tell them too lol
:p thanks i guess...

[boink_y]

you are? It says hindu in your RD profile
i lied to try and fit in with the desi community.

[iampoe]

i lied to try and fit in with the desi community.

Lol...why do that?
u see i gotta deal witht he same stuff all the time lol

[lankanbaby]

Lol...why do that

cause desis are the most judgemental people. They caste off whatever that's different to them.

[boink_y]

Lol...why do that?
u see i gotta deal witht he same stuff all the time lol


Are you black?

[iampoe]

lol hell no , im indian

[MiZz MiNi]

cause desis are the most judgemental people. They caste off whatever that's different to them.
:yes: thts so tru

[boink_y]

cause desis are the most judgemental people. They caste off whatever that's different to them.
No, Jews are.

[boink_y]

lol hell no , im indian
Then get an arraged marriage to an Indian and forget this nonsense!

[White.Washed]

Yeh.

[ORaNGe dAsY]

heyell no, you crazy.

[MiZz MiNi]

heyell no, you crazy.
whts wrong with it? :sarb:

[lankanbaby]

No, Jews are.

bullshit I have jewish friends. And they treat me like an equal. And my ex was jewish. He was the most open minded person I've ever met.

[boink_y]

my ex was jewish. .


You dated a non desi?


Fukin disgrace.

[lankanbaby]

You dated a non desi?


Fukin disgrace.

awww does that make you jealous??

it's ok there are still girls for you :p

[boink_y]

awww does that make you jealous??

it's ok there are still girls for you :p
no, youre probably fugly like most srilankan girls. dark skinned too.

i wouldnt date someone who dated a jew. jew cokk? ewww!

[NumbaOneStunna]

nyet

[lankanbaby]

no, youre probably fugly like most srilankan girls. dark skinned too.

i wouldnt date someone who dated a jew. jew cokk? ewww!

lol oh my god, you fucking people never cease to amaze me. I get a kick out of showing this shit to my white friends. Keep up the good work ;)

[NumbaOneStunna]

bullshit I have jewish friends. And they treat me like an equal. And my ex was jewish. He was the most open minded person I've ever met.
eh why did you guys break up then?

[ORaNGe dAsY]

whts wrong with it? :sarb:
I dont approve of it, that's all.

[lankanbaby]

eh why did you guys break up then?

my parents

[boink_y]

lol oh my god, you fucking people never cease to amaze me. I get a kick out of showing this shit to my white friends. Keep up the good work ;)


damn thats pathetic. you bring white people to a desi forum?

[MiZz MiNi]

I dont approve of it, that's all.
um ok...and y not?

[boink_y]

my parents
hence: fukin disgrace.

[NumbaOneStunna]

lol oh my god, you fucking people never cease to amaze me. I get a kick out of showing this shit to my white friends. Keep up the good work ;)
you have white friends!!!!
if only we were as lucky as you :(

[boink_y]

you have white friends!!!!
if only we were as lucky as you :(
I have white friends too. I got them from this other chat room...

[ORaNGe dAsY]

um ok...and y not?
If you're true to your religion, you'd want your husband or wife to be of the same religion also. Avoids conflicts/arguments/hassles in the long run.

[lankanbaby]

damn thats pathetic. you bring white people to a desi forum?

yea... to show how stupid and judgemental MOST of you all are. It's great!

In fact I showed some of the shit you all say to my desi friends and they shake their heads in embarasment. Like I said keep up the good fucking work. :p

[ORaNGe dAsY]

I have white friends too. I got them from this other chat room...
lol.

[ORaNGe dAsY]

yea... to show how stupid and judgemental MOST of you all are. It's great!

In fact I showed some of the shit you all say to my desi friends and they shake their heads in embarasment. Like I said keep up the good fucking work. :p
You'll find stupid and judgmental ppl in every race....what's your point? :-s

[NumbaOneStunna]

If you're true to your religion, you'd want your husband or wife to be of the same religion also. Avoids conflicts/arguments/hassles in the long run.
what argument?
one backhand from me generally ends her whining :D

[lankanbaby]

You'll find stupid and judgmental ppl in every race....what's your point? :-s

wait did I ever say there weren't judgemental people in other races??

when the fuck did I say that??

I was only speaking of desis. What the fuck is your point??

[MiZz MiNi]

If you're true to your religion, you'd want your husband or wife to be of the same religion also. Avoids conflicts/arguments/hassles in the long run.
yeah being the same religion avoids tht in the long run but i can't agree with u bc u can be as tru as u want to ur religion but tht doesn't change how u feel for someone u can't just like someone bc of wht religion they r

[ORaNGe dAsY]

what argument?
one backhand from me generally ends her whining :D
Dayng, you've been here since 2003? :o




you sure about that? :-s

[ORaNGe dAsY]

wait did I ever say there weren't judgemental people in other races??

when the fuck did I say that??

I was only speaking of desis. What the fuck is your point??
Holy monkey, calm down lanky. No need to get the panties in a bunch.

[lankanbaby]

Holy monkey, calm down lanky. No need to get the panties in a bunch.

great come back

so what's your fucking point again?

[iampoe]

lol what happened here...

[ORaNGe dAsY]

yeah being the same religion avoids tht in the long run but i can't agree with u bc u can be as tru as u want to ur religion but tht doesn't change how u feel for someone u can't just like someone bc of wht religion they r


Say wa? How can you not like a person cuz of what religion/race they are? I'm pretty sure a person can. :-s

[sheerin]

srry but I have honor for my parents and I wouldn't do something like that for my parents sake........so thats a no for me

[ORaNGe dAsY]

great come back

so what's your fucking point again?
oooo, posting for comebacks now aren't we? :-s



I derno, I asked you first tho. All I got was profanity and questions instead. =/

[lankanbaby]

oooo, posting for comebacks now aren't we? :-s



I derno, I asked you first tho. All I got was profanity and questions instead. =/

cause you made up something I never even mentioned dumbass

[NumbaOneStunna]

Dayng, you've been here since 2003? :o




you sure about that? :-s
yeah and they disabled my sig while i was gone tsk tsk

[NumbaOneStunna]

cause you made up something I never even mentioned dumbass
lankanbaby cam down, read the torah or something

[boink_y]

yea... to show how stupid and judgemental MOST of you all are. It's great!

In fact I showed some of the shit you all say to my desi friends and they shake their heads in embarasment. Like I said keep up the good fucking work. :p
Listen up, Ms.A-Jew-has-been-in-my-cooch, You are Desi. You are a disgrace of a Desi, but you are Desi. Therefore, no matter how much you complain to the other whities in your little e-group, you are just dissing yourself. Stupid jew-lover.

[ORaNGe dAsY]

cause you made up something I never even mentioned dumbass
How did I make up anything when I asked a simple question? :-s.....monkeyheffer.

[ORaNGe dAsY]

yeah and they disabled my sig while i was gone tsk tsk
oh noez. :|

[lankanbaby]

Listen up, Ms.A-Jew-has-been-in-my-cooch, You are Desi. You are a disgrace of a Desi, but you are Desi. Therefore, no matter how much you complain to the other whities in your little e-group, you are just dissing yourself. Stupid jew-lover.

lol I'm actually mixed. My dad's part dutch and portuguese. He's a catholic. You have anything else to say to me?

[xxjessxx]

my ex was catholic. and he was really open to my culture and like tried learning about it. it was cool.

[Fake Desi Boy]

yeah being the same religion avoids tht in the long run but i can't agree with u bc u can be as tru as u want to ur religion but tht doesn't change how u feel for someone u can't just like someone bc of wht religion they r
i couldn't agree any more.

[NumbaOneStunna]

my ex was catholic. and he was really open to my culture
and you opened up real nice for him i bet :D

[Fake Desi Boy]

and you opened up real nice for him i bet :D
i knew a retaded statment would come sooner or later. you sound so lonely and deprived.

[xxjessxx]

and you opened up real nice for him i bet :D


haha gotta admit that made me laugh. but naw :)

[boink_y]

lol I'm actually mixed. My dad's part dutch and portuguese. He's a catholic. You have anything else to say to me?


God Dam youre dumb. Youre still DESI!!!!

WTF Was your mother?

[MiZz MiNi]

Say wa? How can you not like a person cuz of what religion/race they are? I'm pretty sure a person can. :-s
i meant u can't base y u like someone off of their religion bc its not like they r walking around with a sign around their neck saying wht religion they r

[boink_y]

i meant u can't base y u like someone off of their religion bc its not like they r walking around with a sign around their neck saying wht religion they r

Yes, many people do. The Cross, Ohm, Allah, etc pendant around their necks.

[TheNewPriest]

I think the only girls here who wont date somebody of another religion are those who only intend to possibly marry people they date.


Everyone else is probably a skank ho freak nasty.

[NumbaOneStunna]

haha gotta admit that made me laugh. but naw :)
eh thats not fair
all that work from the catholic boy for nothing? boooo

[NumbaOneStunna]

i meant u can't base y u like someone off of their religion bc its not like they r walking around with a sign around their neck saying wht religion they r
excuse me but how can you not expect your husband to eat beef, which i am sure he loves, in his own house? Or are you gonna leave whenever he decides to have some steak?

[desiqt4eva]

Hmm yes, I've been out with lots of Sikh guys, while i'm Hindu. But my dad is Sikh and my mom is Hindu....so i guess going out with Sikh guys doesnt count as going out with someone of a different religion....not really sure if i would go out with a muslim or a christian guy....guess my parents would kill me if i did....

[boink_y]

Hmm yes, I've been out with lots of Sikh guys, while i'm Hindu. But my dad is Sikh and my mom is Hindu....so i guess going out with Sikh guys doesnt count as going out with someone of a different religion....not really sure if i would go out with a muslim or a christian guy....guess my parents would kill me if i did....
holy fukkk youre scary looking and damn ugly!

[lankanbaby]

God Dam youre dumb. Youre still DESI!!!!

WTF Was your mother?


yea you're point?

when did I deny I was desi? At least I'm part desi.

[desiqt4eva]

holy fukkk youre scary looking and damn ugly!

Thanks :D at least i have a pic up

[NumbaOneStunna]

yea you're point?

when did I deny I was desi? At least I'm part desi.
did you ever date a desi?

[MiZz MiNi]

Yes, many people do. The Cross, Ohm, Allah, etc pendant around their necks.
tru..but who goes around looking at ppl's necks/tatoos

[lankanbaby]

did you ever date a desi?

yea my current bf

[TheNewPriest]

tru..but who goes around looking at ppl's necks/tatoos

As a vampire, I find this question very offensive.

[Fake Desi Boy]

eh thats not fair
all that work from the catholic boy for nothing? boooo
that's cuz he already had enough sexual experiences with his priest lol

[NumbaOneStunna]

yea my current bf
whoz better in bed? him or openmindedstein?

[boink_y]

Making fun of "Desis" to white peopple basically means youre making fun of yourself, ditz.

Looking at poeple is pretty important when you want to judge them superficially - that means looking at their necks too.

the ugly girl - please remove your pics, youre so nasty!

[TheNewPriest]

that's cuz he already had enough sexual experiences with his priest lol

HAHA!

[boink_y]

yea my current bf
If I were him, I would only fukk u in the but. (unless the jew has been there too)

[MiZz MiNi]

excuse me but how can you not expect your husband to eat beef, which i am sure he loves, in his own house? Or are you gonna leave whenever he decides to have some steak?
i never said i was marrying the boy...but i wouldn't have a problem if he ate it if we did get married but my parents don't want beef in our house so he has to follow their rules...and he just doesn't eat beef in front of me outta respect

[weapon]

any religion wo restricts you..confines you and trains you not to be with somone you truly love , if they are of a differnt religion from you.. is not a religion at all..its a prison..point blank.
start waking up and get off that fairy tale stuff.. believing in santa is for kids.

[iampoe]

my ex was catholic. and he was really open to my culture and like tried learning about it. it was cool.

thats awesome.. im catholic too, was he malu?

[Fake Desi Boy]

thats awesome.. im catholic too, was he malu?
did this priest touch you in your no-no place as well? pisses me off when it reaches the desi world grr :mad:

[iampoe]

any religion wo restricts you..confines you and trains you not to be with somone you truly love , if they are of a differnt religion from you.. is not a religion at all..its a prison..point blank.
start waking up and get off that fairy tale stuff.. believing in santa is for kids.

thats true man, its how i feel.. god never told anyone to marry someone that he commands.. the people thru time influenced decisions and told the people what to do. god never told anyone who to marry!, he said love someone who will love u back

[TheNewPriest]

any religion wo restricts you..confines you and trains you not to be with somone you truly love , if they are of a differnt religion from you.. is not a religion at all..its a prison..point blank.
start waking up and get off that fairy tale stuff.. believing in santa is for kids.

this is trash and means nothing. you are just being angsty and a pseudo intellectual.

[duIce kisses]

yeah i woulddd..considering my whole family done it..sure why not LOL

[EwLookItsYou]

I am.. I'll let her know when im in college and she can't beat the shit outta me. but she'd prolly understand more.. its not that hes from another culture its just that hes a good person..
And from what shes seen n wat i've seen.. im not sure sticking to this culture would be the best thing? I can't stand seeing females keeping their mouth shut just for the sake of peace in the house.. forget love.
the sad thing is my mom is so jaded by the whole stick to ur own culture thing that shed advocate dating a bengali guy who was indecent over a decent guy whose not.. =/
My dad though, he would back me up more.. hes way more open-minded.. hes just like whatever makes you happy and is good for u.

[MiZz MiNi]

I am.. I'll let her know when im in college and she can't beat the shit outta me. but she'd prolly understand more.. its not that hes from another culture its just that hes a good person..
And from what shes seen n wat i've seen.. im not sure sticking to this culture would be the best thing? I can't stand seeing females keeping their mouth shut just for the sake of peace in the house.. forget love.
the sad thing is my mom is so jaded by the whole stick to ur own culture thing that shed advocate dating a bengali guy who was indecent over a decent guy whose not.. =/
My dad though, he would back me up more.. hes way more open-minded.. hes just like whatever makes you happy and is good for u.
wht is ur bf?

[xxjessxx]

thats awesome.. im catholic too, was he malu?

no he was portuguese

[Fake Desi Boy]

yeah i woulddd..considering my whole family done it..sure why not LOL
and this is how u came into existance lol

[iampoe]

no he was portuguese

coool, i got portuguese roots too but its like hundreds of years bac lol

[EwLookItsYou]

wht is ur bf?
hes white! ;) but ive gone out with desi guys 2.. first white bf.

[duIce kisses]

and this is how u came into existance lol
yessssssssss you got it dudee LOL my sister's husband is pr and korean soo ummm after that one i think i can marry anyone i please LOL ;)

[MiZz MiNi]

hes white! ;) but ive gone out with desi guys 2.. first white bf.
:) nice...i've never dated a white boy but i've dated a hispanic boy then the rest were paki or indian...good luck hun i hope everything works out between u two :hug:

[EwLookItsYou]

:) nice...i've never dated a white boy but i've dated a hispanic boy then the rest were paki or indian...good luck hun i hope everything works out between u two :hug:
heh yeah i kinda sorta dated a PR guy but it awkward cuz we were like best friends at the time.
but yeah, thanks i appreciate it! :hug:

[duIce kisses]

i dated different kinds of guys..and i'd sayy the paki one and the pr one were the sweetest but my bf now who i been wid for a year :) is by far the sweetest and the bestest and i love him ;=)

[MiZz MiNi]

heh yeah i kinda sorta dated a PR guy but it awkward cuz we were like best friends at the time.
but yeah, thanks i appreciate it! :hug:
yeah the guy i dated was PR too..the break up was awkward for us bc he was like one of my best friends cus...and ur welcome

[Fake Desi Boy]

i dated different kinds of guys..and i'd sayy the paki one and the pr one were the sweetest but my bf now who i been wid for a year :) is by far the sweetest and the bestest and i love him ;=)
damn i wish there were more nice girls like you who actually like sweet guys.
most that i've come across are turned off by good guys.

[duIce kisses]

damn i wish there were more nice girls like you who actually like sweet guys.
most that i've come across are turned off by good guys.
i rather date sweet guys then sleezy dirtbagss anyday LOL i mean looks will also fade away with age soo why would you waste your time with someone who is not worth it...sweet guys will actually be there for you and love you for who you aree :eek:

[EwLookItsYou]

yeah the guy i dated was PR too..the break up was awkward for us bc he was like one of my best friends cus...and ur welcome
haha yeah same here. well i mean we only went out for like a week or 2 n then it just felt awkward so we're both like uhh.. lets just.. not. lol. i did kinda go out w/ this bengali dude tho.. friends first too.. he was like a guy version of me lol but stuff we cudn control happened n yeah~ so i dun really have a preference in guys based on culture..

[Fake Desi Boy]

i rather date sweet guys then sleezy dirtbagss anyday LOL i mean looks will also fade away with age soo why would you waste your time with someone who is not worth it...sweet guys will actually be there for you and love you for who you aree :eek:
preach on cutie! :)

[duIce kisses]

preach on cutie! :)
thanksss and your by far the nicest personn hereee;=) most of the people are how shall i say....cocky?

[BiJLi]

religion is more imp than a guy

[duIce kisses]

religion is more imp than a guy
soo hmm let me see you rather be married to someone of your religion who beats you and treats you bad..rather than someone other than your religion that treats you good? thats quite sad..it's 2006...

[BiJLi]

soo hmm let me see you rather be married to someone of your religion who beats you and treats you bad..rather than someone other than your religion that treats you good? thats quite sad..it's 2006...
who said i was gonna marry a dead beat?does that say anywhere in my COMMENT? nopez sure doesnt.and as for it being 2006 im aware wat year it is,that doenst mean a persons beliefs have to change according to the year! but i can see how someone like you who lacks religious morals would comment like that

[duIce kisses]

who said i was gonna marry a dead beat?does that say anywhere in my COMMENT? nopez sure doesnt.and as for it being 2006 im aware wat year it is,that doenst mean a persons beliefs have to change according to the year! but i can see how someone like you who lacks religious morals would comment like that
don't get your panties all in a bunch..i'm just saying..speaking my mind..and you said it like it doesnt matter who the guy that religion is important more so i was giving an example..and don't be so quick to judge me ..because you don't know me..so suck it up ..because thats just my opinion!

[Fake Desi Boy]

thanksss and your by far the nicest personn hereee;=) most of the people are how shall i say....cocky?
sweet. ;) hmm...yea i couldn't ever be cocky, even if i was hot enough to be. lol

[duIce kisses]

sweet. ;) hmm...yea i couldn't ever be cocky, even if i was hot enough to be. lol
hey don't say that i think your cute and your hair is adorable;=)

[duIce kisses]

damn some of these bitches on heree are so quick to snapp lolll

[Fake Desi Boy]

hey don't say that i think your cute and your hair is adorable;=)
thank u beautiful. ::blushes::

[BiJLi]

don't get your panties all in a bunch..i'm just saying..speaking my mind..and you said it like it doesnt matter who the guy that religion is important more so i was giving an example..and don't be so quick to judge me ..because you don't know me..so suck it up ..because thats just my opinion!
i dont wanna know you.oh and maybe you shoudlve said that you were giving an example so that way i wouldve known wtf u were talking bout.yea bitches here are quick to snap you being one of em

[duIce kisses]

wanna be in my phone conference? :)

[Fake Desi Boy]

damn some of these bitches on heree are so quick to snapp lolll
u should be kind enough to share one of ur tampons with him.

[duIce kisses]

i dont wanna know you.oh and maybe you shoudlve said that you were giving an example so that way i wouldve known wtf u were talking bout.yea bitches here are quick to snap you being one of em
i don't need to explain every little detail and you should have known it was an example considering you saying you wouldn't be with a beater...and yi'm not snapping at anyone..your the one getting all heated LOL

[duIce kisses]

u should be kind enough to share one of ur tampons with him.
haha shove it up thier ass instead

[swtemptationz]

i wouldnt want to cuz i kno a few ppl who have n it just creates sum problems that can b avoided. (not problems with families but problems regarding the religion of children and a lot of other things)

[BiJLi]

i don't need to explain every little detail and you should have known it was an example considering you saying you wouldn't be with a beater...and yi'm not snapping at anyone..your the one getting all heated LOL
hahaha no im not getting heated.and UMMM no it wanst a small detail it was a big detail u left out that made my comment come out differently to you then it wouldve been.

[Fake Desi Boy]

haha shove it up thier ass instead
:rofl:

[duIce kisses]

hahaha no im not getting heated.and UMMM no it wanst a small detail it was a big detail u left out that made my comment come out differently to you then it wouldve been.
okay just as long as your not mad :eek:

[Fake Desi Boy]

i wouldnt want to cuz i kno a few ppl who have n it just creates sum problems that can b avoided. (not problems with families but problems regarding the religion of children and a lot of other things)
that depends on the individual they are with. for example, my future children can be apart of just about any major religion that my wife wants. sikhism, islam, hiduism, christianity, etc.

[swtemptationz]

that depends on the individual they are with. for example, my future children can be apart of just about any major religion that my wife wants. sikhism, islam, hiduism, christianity, etc.

that makes sense... you seem like ud b open to letting your wife choose a religion for ur kids.
but there r some couples who each want their kids to learn their religion... for example one of my parent's friends kids.... they're kind of "lost" when it comes to religion because they were both taught to follow sikhism n islam.

[jassika]

yes possibly. have to be open minded. i'd still be able to incorporate what i love about the sikh lifestyle

[Fake Desi Boy]

yes possibly. have to be open minded. i'd still be able to incorporate what i love about the sikh lifestyle
hell yea!

[desi_chickan]

its a very personal issue and probably uniquie in each case however very difficult... especially for girls

a sikh girl i met briefly, told me she was married to a muslim guy, i was a bit shocked cos she also told me her family had outcasted her, her family wanted to kill her, i wouldnt believe her cos how can people that loved her feel so strongly about her choice in life???

apparently the guy is a copper so she wasnt worried .. but i think i was traumatised by story she told me ...!!!!

[nayeemx33]

apparently the guy is a copper so she wasnt worried .. but i think i was traumatised by story she told me ...!!!!

What's a copper?

[(outlandish)]

its a very personal issue and probably uniquie in each case however very difficult... especially for girls

a sikh girl i met briefly, told me she was married to a muslim guy, i was a bit shocked cos she also told me her family had outcasted her, her family wanted to kill her, i wouldnt believe her cos how can people that loved her feel so strongly about her choice in life???

apparently the guy is a copper so she wasnt worried .. but i think i was traumatised by story she told me ...!!!!


A sikh can't marry a Muslim.. A Muslim who marries a Sikh or a Hindu is not a Muslim anymore... so he doesn't have a religion anymore..

[(outlandish)]

yes i would...im actually with a guy who isn't my religion and no one has said nething about it not being allowed...i think religion doesn't play as big a part in a relationship as everyone believes it does...we just deal he is muslim and i am hindu he can practice w/e he wants and i can practice my religion he just isn't allowed to eat beef in my house or really around me...my family is pretty open about our relationship tho so they could careless wht religion he is...he also isn't all tht religious so i guess tht helps


he's not Muslim anymore..

[R.J]

Some real depressing posts in this thread...... one should judge someone as a human first and religion shouldn't even come into question.

:werd: ified.

[Space-Cowboy]

any religion wo restricts you..confines you and trains you not to be with somone you truly love , if they are of a differnt religion from you.. is not a religion at all..its a prison..point blank.
start waking up and get off that fairy tale stuff.. believing in santa is for kids.


What religion are you? It says under your profile 'too old for fairytales'. You're Pakistani... I'm guessing you were most likely born a Muslim. What made you turn away?

[ermsomething]

I'd only get with a hindu girl, either gujrati/punjabi or Anyone else that is Hindu as well. I dont think anyone would mind me getting with a sikh girl either as my older cuzin has married a sikh girl. I dont think my family would accept any other religions than those two.

[ermsomething]

A sikh can't marry a Muslim.. A Muslim who marries a Sikh or a Hindu is not a Muslim anymore... so he doesn't have a religion anymore..
does it say that in your religion?

[Space-Cowboy]

I'd only get with a hindu girl, either gujrati/punjabi or Anyone else that is Hindu as well. I dont think anyone would mind me getting with a sikh girl either as my older cuzin has married a sikh girl. I dont think my family would accept any other religions than those two.


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Buddhist, Jain :!:

[ermsomething]

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Buddhist, Jain :!:
:sarb: yeh and those two!

[iampoe]

Some real depressing posts in this thread...... one should judge someone as a human first and religion shouldn't even come into question.

:werd: ified.


damn right man... it is very sad

[princess_punjabi]

its funny cuz my mom said i can marry anyone...gora,kaala,cheena ...but not a muslim :(

[MiZz MiNi]

its funny cuz my mom said i can marry anyone...gora,kaala,cheena ...but not a muslim :(
:rofl: my dad said i could marry ne one too...just not a kalu

[Canadian_jatti]

no i wouldnt date them

[nawtysaika]

erm am a muslim gurl... alhumdulillah...! wil always go for a muslim lad....

n if othas wna go against their religion... i dont hv a problem with them....