so me n my ex...

[youheartme2]

Me n my ex were goin out for about 2 years... planned to marry in another couple years, etc. etc. I was actually 15 pounds heavier when we first started going out than I am now, but he jus left me... the main reason being: "Lose 10 pounds and then I'll take u back."

He keeps arguing with me that "I won't do anything to make him happy... I wont try for him..." When I did everything in the world that I could do for him in our relationship... Now I told him NO I will not be in a relationship with someone who cares so much about my WEIGHT and will leave me over it... He acts like I'm the bitch of the century... The worst part is... I never said I wouldnt do it.. but I dont want to lose weight under the condition that If i don't he will leave me... IM NOT EVEN FAT!!! UHHG!!

Oh and he also says... "No guy will ever be happy with the way you are..."

I need reassurance that I did the right thing by telling him to take a hike... :( my feelings are hurt.. lol.

[Monaa]

U look pretty.. n tht u can get much better guys.. u seem young..so all gd...:yes: n yes fuck him.

[PreciousPari]

He won't marry you because of your weight?

Um and why do you want him back?

Btw, where in San Diego are you?

[youheartme2]

He won't marry you because of your weight?

Um and why do you want him back?

Btw, where in San Diego are you?


I dont want him back... I just feel guilty I guess cuz of his whole "You won't do this to make me happy" thing... :neutral:

Im in Scripps Ranch/Mira Mesa area... r u from here?

[Peacemaker]

u know the answer why bother asking

[youheartme2]

u know the answer why bother asking

guilt and need for reassurance :(

[SpicyBrownRapper]

I need pictures of your teets to reassure you that you did the right thing.

[bad_cheque]

Fun fact: She's half-white/half-pakistani.

[pakette]

What the fudge?

You should've dumped his ass the first time he called you "fat"..they can only do that after marriage.

[PreciousPari]

I dont want him back... I just feel guilty I guess cuz of his whole "You won't do this to make me happy" thing... :neutral:

Im in Scripps Ranch/Mira Mesa area... r u from here?

There is no reason for you to feel guilty with a guy like that. He's a prick and no one deserves that kind of mental abuse.

Oh I see. Yeah Im SD too, well outside of SD...in North County.

[kohli_sahib]

he dumped you because you gained some weight?

nice job fatty. can't even hold down a fucking asshole like that. who the hell WOULD want you.

[RacingSoul]

Me n my ex were goin out for about 2 years... planned to marry in another couple years, etc. etc. I was actually 15 pounds heavier when we first started going out than I am now, but he jus left me... the main reason being: "Lose 10 pounds and then I'll take u back."

He keeps arguing with me that "I won't do anything to make him happy... I wont try for him..." When I did everything in the world that I could do for him in our relationship... Now I told him NO I will not be in a relationship with someone who cares so much about my WEIGHT and will leave me over it... He acts like I'm the bitch of the century... The worst part is... I never said I wouldnt do it.. but I dont want to lose weight under the condition that If i don't he will leave me... IM NOT EVEN FAT!!! UHHG!!

Oh and he also says... "No guy will ever be happy with the way you are..."

I need reassurance that I did the right thing by telling him to take a hike... :( my feelings are hurt.. lol.

thats just shallow :no: but at the same time, u shud take care of urself & show such ppl who u REALLY are ;)

[youheartme2]

What the fudge?

You should've dumped his ass the first time he called you "fat"..they can only do that after marriage.


I know... :( He has a way of making me feel like everything he tells me is right and if I dont listen then Im a lil bitch.. :rolleyes: ... took me a while to realize who the real bitch is :x

[youheartme2]

he dumped you because you gained some weight?

nice job fatty. can't even hold down a fucking asshole like that. who the hell WOULD want you.

Lol.. i didnt gain wait.. actually I LOST weight since i first met him :(

[BengalTigeress45]

You did the right thing :yes:. He should love you no matter what your weight is.

[pakette]

I know... :( He has a way of making me feel like everything he tells me is right and if I dont listen then Im a lil bitch.. :rolleyes: ... took me a while to realize who the real bitch is :x

Call his home, and call his mother fat.

Ok no kidding. You will find someone that loves you for who you are, even if you are 10 weights overweight. :lol:

Keeding, you are not even fat. :neutral:

[youheartme2]

There is no reason for you to feel guilty with a guy like that. He's a prick and no one deserves that kind of mental abuse.

Oh I see. Yeah Im SD too, well outside of SD...in North County.



Really... in the esco area?

Maybe u kno him.. lol.. thats where he lives too.

[xbadkarmax]

Your ex is an idiot, seriously, you can get any guy you want, why settle for him? You're verryyy pretty, and that is pretty retarded of him. Don't even think twice about it, and don't ever think about going back to him. :)

[carpe_diem]

Nice Camry.

[youheartme2]

Ok I wana make something clearr.... Lol...



Im not overweight, I'm like... average I guess... and I didnt GAIN weight... actually I have lost weight over the past 2 years.. he wants me to be heroine-chic skinny.... that's the issue :\

[youheartme2]

Your ex is an idiot, seriously, you can get any guy you want, why settle for him? You're verryyy pretty, and that is pretty retarded of him. Don't even think twice about it, and don't ever think about going back to him. :)



Thank you :) :bhapi:

[SpicyBrownRapper]

Pics of your teets so I can assure you did the right thing... plz.

[Walktheline]

Your next thread should be "Poll: who looooves oxygen?"
That'll really reel 'em in.

[HSB47]

lol im surprised none of the guys on here have hit on her yet!!

[foreverconfused]

what a shallow asshole. you're far better off without him.

[RacingSoul]

Ok I wana make something clearr.... Lol...
Im not overweight, I'm like... average I guess... and I didnt GAIN weight... actually I have lost weight over the past 2 years.. he wants me to be heroine-chic skinny.... that's the issue :\

skinny chicks r weird...just imagine their bony-selves pressing against ur body while havin sex...thats sure to leave a mark :neutral:

125-130lbs just does it for me :D

[PreciousPari]

Really... in the esco area?

Maybe u kno him.. lol.. thats where he lives too.

No, O'side.
Whats his name? Is he desi? I hardly know any desis in my area because now, there is a great abundance of them. I have no idea where they came from. lol
All the desis we know are in Del Mar, Scripps and Mira Mesa.

[nas592]

oh my gosh ur ex was a sore loser... breakin up due 2 weight...man ur not even fat... his got issues

[youheartme2]

Nice Camry.


thanks... Its new...Its my baby... :)

[Adnan786]

So you dont want him back? You dont miss him? You dont wish that he was here with you right now on good terms? After your done with getting reassurance online, you will have to face your demons by yourself alone. Im not saying go back to someone who mentally abused you, but at the same time dont get carried away with others support, no ones in this boat apart from you. Sometimes simply misunderstanding get carried too far. Im sure you could talk/get through anything if you put your mind to it, but if you havnt tried everything in your power and failed or if you dont want anything to do with him because you cant forgive or cant be bothered with him then thats an entirely different matter. I dont think your fat, and anyone else that does is either anorexic or registered as blind. Someone thats special to me keeps saying to me 'Adz you deserve someone thinner/prettier' etc etc and i tell her that if she lost weight id like her less lol, so that she doesnt feel the pressure to do anything drastic. Ok i think im egtting carried away here, just in one of those moods. Now post an essay in my thread lol.

[Peacemaker]

guilt and need for reassurance :(

lol guilt wtf????? :neutral:
u aint bad looking..so its not like u gonna stay a wench for the rest of ur life.
regarding reassurance nobody can give u that.

[pakette]

So you dont want him back? You dont miss him? You dont wish that he was here with you right now on good terms? After your done with getting reassurance online, you will have to face your demons by yourself alone. Im not saying go back to someone who mentally abused you, but at the same time dont get carried away with others support, no ones in this boat apart from you. Sometimes simply misunderstanding get carried too far. Im sure you could talk/get through anything if you put your mind to it, but if you havnt tried everything in your power and failed or if you dont want anything to do with him because you cant forgive or cant be bothered with him then thats an entirely different matter. I dont think your fat, and anyone else that does is either anorexic or registered as blind. Someone thats special to me keeps saying to me 'Adz you deserve someone thinner/prettier' etc etc and i tell her that if she lost weight id like her less lol, so that she doesnt feel the pressure to do anything drastic. Ok i think im egtting carried away here, just in one of those moods. Now post an essay in my thread lol.

Go get laid.

[bad_cheque]

Ok I wana make something clearr.... Lol...



Im not overweight, I'm like... average I guess... and I didnt GAIN weight... actually I have lost weight over the past 2 years.. he wants me to be heroine-chic skinny.... that's the issue :\
You are not overweight. Why the hell are you worried about being with him? He doesn't even respect you.

Btw, rd is not a great place to boost your self-esteem. There are way too many assholes here.

[youheartme2]

No, O'side.
Whats his name? Is he desi? I hardly know any desis in my area because now, there is a great abundance of them. I have no idea where they came from. lol
All the desis we know are in Del Mar, Scripps and Mira Mesa.



His name is Farrukh...

I go to school at Cal State San Marcos... cool that u live in the area :)

[youheartme2]

You are not overweight. Why the hell are you worried about being with him? He doesn't even respect you.

Btw, rd is not a great place to boost your self-esteem. There are way too many assholes here.


lol.. well... i dont wana boost my self esteem.. by gain reassurance.. I mean that I want to gain reassurance that I did the right thing by telling him to leave me alone and go find sum1 else.

[jigga man23]

His name is Farrukh...

I go to school at Cal State San Marcos... cool that u live in the area :)

Listen the only reason you should be guilty for is for yourself. Meaning you want to be more physically fit, and feel healthy.

[youheartme2]

Listen the only reason you should be guilty for is for yourself. Meaning you want to be more physically fit, and feel healthy.


I dunno... i been all insecure... goin to the gym a lot now cuz i feel all... un-hot .. lol

[bad_cheque]

main reason some of the females in this world goes anorexic
and make themselves look ugly.

[jigga man23]

I dunno... i been all insecure... goin to the gym a lot now cuz i feel all... un-hot .. lol

Girl do it for yourself, don't do it cuz some loser said you have to.

[bad_cheque]

I dunno... i been all insecure... goin to the gym a lot now cuz i feel all... un-hot .. lol
Refer to post # 37.

Seriously stay healthy. Anyone who likes a person for superficial reasons is not worth it. He is a future whorer.

[jigga man23]

I dunno... i been all insecure... goin to the gym a lot now cuz i feel all... un-hot .. lol

He could have come at this in a different angle. He should have been like hey why don't we join the gym together, that way we can both look better. In a relationship there has to equal sacrafices from both partners, for a healthy relationship. Most guys don't do it but it's required!!

[ania]

Are you serious? :neutral: Do you even have to ask that question? Stop taking off weight, and as someone mentioned, do so for yourself, not for anyone else.

[malkeet]

Me n my ex were goin out for about 2 years... planned to marry in another couple years, etc. etc. I was actually 15 pounds heavier when we first started going out than I am now, but he jus left me... the main reason being: "Lose 10 pounds and then I'll take u back."

He keeps arguing with me that "I won't do anything to make him happy... I wont try for him..." When I did everything in the world that I could do for him in our relationship... Now I told him NO I will not be in a relationship with someone who cares so much about my WEIGHT and will leave me over it... He acts like I'm the bitch of the century... The worst part is... I never said I wouldnt do it.. but I dont want to lose weight under the condition that If i don't he will leave me... IM NOT EVEN FAT!!! UHHG!!

Oh and he also says... "No guy will ever be happy with the way you are..."

I need reassurance that I did the right thing by telling him to take a hike... :( my feelings are hurt.. lol.

ur ex sounds like a knob...............move on

[21cent]

what a jerk

[Adnan786]

Go get laid.

Go eat shit. Sex should be an art of lovemaking, not an animal fest to see 'who can shag the most bitches'. Ill lay/get laid when im good and ready with the right special someone.

[P4ki4Lyf]

what an asshole. Fuck him, you deserve SO much better than a dumb shit like him :no:

[SpicyBrownRapper]

Go eat shit. Sex should be an art of lovemaking, not an animal fest to see 'who can shag the most bitches'. Ill lay/get laid when im good and ready with the right special someone.

You REAALLLLLYYYYY need to get laid.

[youheartme2]

...:\

[pakette]

Go eat shit. Sex should be an art of lovemaking, not an animal fest to see 'who can shag the most bitches'. Ill lay/get laid when im good and ready with the right special someone.

Oh, you have something on your lip.

I think its whip cream.

[bad_cheque]

Go eat shit. Sex should be an art of lovemaking, not an animal fest to see 'who can shag the most bitches'. Ill lay/get laid when im good and ready with the right special someone.

Here is something you wrote in another thread:


Why are you so bitter? Did someone leave a bad taste in your mouth? And wtf, how many girls are 'magnetically' attracted to you? Dude i seriously find you repulsive, i challenge you to put up pictures of your ex's and ill do the same, so we can see who the fuck is the bigger minger here. Who are you to judge me anyways fag. Talk about the teapot calling the 'kettle' black.

So many "specials"

PS: the bolding was done by me.

[Febreze]

So yur 18 and started going out two years ago...Thats pretty young. If this is his first relationship he might be wondering about what else is out there. A lot of times ppl will act like jerks in order to be able to get a chance to see what else is out there. Cant say for sure but Ive seen it happen tons.

[NYGujjuGirl]

okay frist you shouldn't feel guilty at all cuz this guy is a total.... :mad:
and second..u did the frist thing...u shouldn't go back to someone who only care about what u look like...cuz that not rite...i'm sure u have more to offer than ur body....u did the rite thingz...and dont worrie....u'll soon find a guy who wantz u more than just how much u weight

take care girl

[21cent]

if he really loved u he wouldt do that

[bad_cheque]

Oh she's 18. Figures. I am out.

[Adnan786]

You REAALLLLLYYYYY need to get laid.

lol. Nah its just one of those nights, its hot and stuffy, life isnt exactly that great and these mosquitos insist on sucking your blood when life is doing more thne its fair share anyways. I think i need some fresh air.

btw dude, i made a thread that was kinda inspired by something that you said. Ive given recognition to you for it, i hope thats ok and that you dont mind (http://forums.ratedesi.com/showthread.php?t=174598).

[Adnan786]

Thats wut my ex thought sex was :\

I hope he didnt influence your views. Dont change yourself for others. Change yourself for yourself.

[hunggar]

Me n my ex were goin out for about 2 years... planned to marry in another couple years, etc. etc. I was actually 15 pounds heavier when we first started going out than I am now, but he jus left me... the main reason being: "Lose 10 pounds and then I'll take u back."

He keeps arguing with me that "I won't do anything to make him happy... I wont try for him..." When I did everything in the world that I could do for him in our relationship... Now I told him NO I will not be in a relationship with someone who cares so much about my WEIGHT and will leave me over it... He acts like I'm the bitch of the century... The worst part is... I never said I wouldnt do it.. but I dont want to lose weight under the condition that If i don't he will leave me... IM NOT EVEN FAT!!! UHHG!!

Oh and he also says... "No guy will ever be happy with the way you are..."

I need reassurance that I did the right thing by telling him to take a hike... :( my feelings are hurt.. lol.



The fact that you even came to the forum to see what other people think means ur a complete loser.

It just shows that u got no self respect. The fact that when he said that to you, you instantly didn't tell him to go get bent means I got no sympathy for you.

How the hell to u girls expect to get respect if you cant even give urselves respect? and then? And then u bitch about us guys being dogs and this and that.

Listen the guy got problems but if u cant even sort urself out then how do u expect anyone else to sort themselves out?

[Adnan786]

Oh, you have something on your lip.

I think its whip cream.

lol. I apologise if it seemed like i was lashing out. The smilies wasnt loading on my comp, and so i couldnt include any to lighten the mood of the post.

[pakette]

lol. I apologise if it seemed like i was lashing out. The smilies wasnt loading on my comp, and so i couldnt include any to lighten the mood of the post.

You take your anger out thru the smilies? :nuts:




















Lol kidding.

[nadiafreez]

Me n my ex were goin out for about 2 years... planned to marry in another couple years, etc. etc. I was actually 15 pounds heavier when we first started going out than I am now, but he jus left me... the main reason being: "Lose 10 pounds and then I'll take u back."

He keeps arguing with me that "I won't do anything to make him happy... I wont try for him..." When I did everything in the world that I could do for him in our relationship... Now I told him NO I will not be in a relationship with someone who cares so much about my WEIGHT and will leave me over it... He acts like I'm the bitch of the century... The worst part is... I never said I wouldnt do it.. but I dont want to lose weight under the condition that If i don't he will leave me... IM NOT EVEN FAT!!! UHHG!!

Oh and he also says... "No guy will ever be happy with the way you are..."

I need reassurance that I did the right thing by telling him to take a hike... :( my feelings are hurt.. lol.


go infront of him.

look him in the eye.

take out a TRIPPLE CHEESE BURGER out of your purse

and take a big bite.

and then say yea i wanna be fat. and yes i like cheese.

and show him the middle finger :p

[Mr_Enigma]

You REAALLLLLYYYYY need to get laid.
Help me? You seem to be the resident sexpert here.

SaT

[Adnan786]

Here is something you wrote in another thread:




So many "specials"

PS: the bolding was done by me.

Thats kinda out of context. Ive made mistakes when i was younger that im not too proud of, but ive not gone around sleeping with girls. With age wisdom and maturity should come, and i dont believe in the 'using and abusing game'. My ex's wernt right for me, but i was too dumb to realise that back then, hence they are my ex's.

[Geezer]

Me n my ex were goin out for about 2 years... planned to marry in another couple years, etc. etc. I was actually 15 pounds heavier when we first started going out than I am now, but he jus left me... the main reason being: "Lose 10 pounds and then I'll take u back."

He keeps arguing with me that "I won't do anything to make him happy... I wont try for him..." When I did everything in the world that I could do for him in our relationship... Now I told him NO I will not be in a relationship with someone who cares so much about my WEIGHT and will leave me over it... He acts like I'm the bitch of the century... The worst part is... I never said I wouldnt do it.. but I dont want to lose weight under the condition that If i don't he will leave me... IM NOT EVEN FAT!!! UHHG!!

Oh and he also says... "No guy will ever be happy with the way you are..."

I need reassurance that I did the right thing by telling him to take a hike... :( my feelings are hurt.. lol.

Good riddance. If he had said 'put 10 pounds on and then I'll take you back' I would've agreed with him :Pelvic2:

[Adnan786]

You take your anger out thru the smilies? :nuts:






Lol kidding.


THATS IT Grrrr.... lol.....Im a calm and patient individual.*takes deep breaths, (because he's just farted)* lol.

[pakette]

THATS IT Grrrr.... lol.....Im a calm and patient individual.*takes deep breaths, (because he's just farted)* lol.

:ugh:

[jus_me]

Go eat shit. Sex should be an art of lovemaking, not an animal fest to see 'who can shag the most bitches'. Ill lay/get laid when im good and ready with the right special someone.

only a virgin would say something that ludicrous.

and girl who started the thread..is the guy himself perfect? i doubt it..tell him to fuck off, youre better off without someone like him..i cant believe he broke up with you because you wouldnt drop 15 lbs..id understand if you were a fatty but youre clearly not.

[FScott]

go on a diet, yo!


the time and energy you wasted into typing that shit sob story up, you could have been on a treadmill!

[all_eyes_0njatti]

Me n my ex were goin out for about 2 years... planned to marry in another couple years, etc. etc. I was actually 15 pounds heavier when we first started going out than I am now, but he jus left me... the main reason being: "Lose 10 pounds and then I'll take u back."

He keeps arguing with me that "I won't do anything to make him happy... I wont try for him..." When I did everything in the world that I could do for him in our relationship... Now I told him NO I will not be in a relationship with someone who cares so much about my WEIGHT and will leave me over it... He acts like I'm the bitch of the century... The worst part is... I never said I wouldnt do it.. but I dont want to lose weight under the condition that If i don't he will leave me... IM NOT EVEN FAT!!! UHHG!!

Oh and he also says... "No guy will ever be happy with the way you are..."

I need reassurance that I did the right thing by telling him to take a hike... :( my feelings are hurt.. lol.
WHEN he asked u to loose weight for him .. u shud hav told him to build muscles like salman khan .. and grow long hair like john abraham....
WHTEVR U DO DONT GET BAK WID HIM .. COZ EVEN IF U END UP LOOSIN WEIGHT FOR HIM ... HE'LL TELL U SUMTHIN ELSE IS WRONG WID U :)

[Adnan786]

only a virgin would say something that ludicrous.

and girl who started the thread..is the guy himself perfect? i doubt it..tell him to fuck off, youre better off without someone like him..i cant believe he broke up with you because you wouldnt drop 15 lbs..id understand if you were a fatty but youre clearly not.


This girl i knew wanted to have sex with me and when i told her how i felt about it she said 'you dont know what your missing out on, but i assure you that its allot' to which i replied 'since ive never tried or experienced what you speak highly of, i cant be in a position to be missing out on anything'. Ignorance is bliss thou right.

[jus_me]

This girl i knew wanted to have sex with me and when i told her how i felt about it she said 'you dont know what your missing out on, but i assure you that its allot' to which i replied 'since ive never tried or experienced what you speak highly of, i cant be in a position to be missing out on anything'. Ignorance is bliss thou right.

not really, for example..if a car is hurtling towards you at 100 miles an hour and you dont see it or hear it and it runs you over then you wont really be in bliss.

but first time sex is overrated, people expect fireworks and its nothing more than a damp squib.

[p0rt_1337]

Lol.. i didnt gain wait.. actually I LOST weight since i first met him :(


dump the fag.

dont feel guilty.

lose 20 pounds.

then parade around with his best freind!

:Paper:

[sk3243]

i am certain there are more reasons he dumped you other than just the weight thing your not telling us about.

[saintz]

Me n my ex were goin out for about 2 years... planned to marry in another couple years, etc. etc. I was actually 15 pounds heavier when we first started going out than I am now, but he jus left me... the main reason being: "Lose 10 pounds and then I'll take u back."

He keeps arguing with me that "I won't do anything to make him happy... I wont try for him..." When I did everything in the world that I could do for him in our relationship... Now I told him NO I will not be in a relationship with someone who cares so much about my WEIGHT and will leave me over it... He acts like I'm the bitch of the century... The worst part is... I never said I wouldnt do it.. but I dont want to lose weight under the condition that If i don't he will leave me... IM NOT EVEN FAT!!! UHHG!!

Oh and he also says... "No guy will ever be happy with the way you are..."

I need reassurance that I did the right thing by telling him to take a hike... :( my feelings are hurt.. lol.
that is fucked

i have no advice, jus...thats fucked

[youheartme2]

i am certain there are more reasons he dumped you other than just the weight thing your not telling us about.


Nope. thats exactly what he said to me. "ur fucking fat and I want a skinny girl. I have had girls that are so much better than you."

[saintz]

Nope. thats exactly what he said to me. "ur fucking fat and I want a skinny girl. I have had girls that are so much better than you."
:rofl: @ being with him for 2 years before he said that

he probably had the other girls while he was with you

you're cute

move on

[youheartme2]

thanks :P

[Gonad]

Another 15lbs wouldn't hurt. :dunno:















I kid. If he broke up with you over 15lbs, then obviously he's got some serious issues with his standards.

[samosa321]

Please retain your dignity and disassociate from this guy. He sounds like a jerk.

[Danish_S]

Me n my ex were goin out for about 2 years... planned to marry in another couple years, etc. etc. I was actually 15 pounds heavier when we first started going out than I am now, but he jus left me... the main reason being: "Lose 10 pounds and then I'll take u back."

He keeps arguing with me that "I won't do anything to make him happy... I wont try for him..." When I did everything in the world that I could do for him in our relationship... Now I told him NO I will not be in a relationship with someone who cares so much about my WEIGHT and will leave me over it... He acts like I'm the bitch of the century... The worst part is... I never said I wouldnt do it.. but I dont want to lose weight under the condition that If i don't he will leave me... IM NOT EVEN FAT!!! UHHG!!

Oh and he also says... "No guy will ever be happy with the way you are..."

I need reassurance that I did the right thing by telling him to take a hike... :( my feelings are hurt.. lol.

sounds like a loser. it was the right thing

[Adnan786]

not really, for example..if a car is hurtling towards you at 100 miles an hour and you dont see it or hear it and it runs you over then you wont really be in bliss.

but first time sex is overrated, people expect fireworks and its nothing more than a damp squib.


My point being i would be missing out, if i had experienced it before and then stopped, with withdrawal symptons, but since thats not the case its not applicable. Its like looking at a particular dish of food that everyone says is sooo nice but you dont know because youve never tried it, althou if you did you might like it so much that you eat nothing else for a month or you would make effort to eat it on a regular basis. Dont try it and you wont know any better.

[bigkid]

u r not fat, it has to b something else like your body type

sum1 said u have manly build, not me, but i dont think so

sounds like that guy found sum1 he likes better for some
shallow reason but your definitely not fat imo

[Canadian_jatti]

You did the right thing :yes:. He should love you no matter what your weight is.
:werd:

[NYC101]

Me n my ex were goin out for about 2 years... planned to marry in another couple years, etc. etc. I was actually 15 pounds heavier when we first started going out than I am now, but he jus left me... the main reason being: "Lose 10 pounds and then I'll take u back."

He keeps arguing with me that "I won't do anything to make him happy... I wont try for him..." When I did everything in the world that I could do for him in our relationship... Now I told him NO I will not be in a relationship with someone who cares so much about my WEIGHT and will leave me over it... He acts like I'm the bitch of the century... The worst part is... I never said I wouldnt do it.. but I dont want to lose weight under the condition that If i don't he will leave me... IM NOT EVEN FAT!!! UHHG!!

Oh and he also says... "No guy will ever be happy with the way you are..."

I need reassurance that I did the right thing by telling him to take a hike... :( my feelings are hurt.. lol.

kinda stupid to even go out with a guy like that

[boink_y]

Thats not surprising. I would leave a girl if she got fat. It maens that they dont care about what they look like. NO self-confidence. Also, they look fat. Everyone would make fun of me for dating a fattie.

Did you sleep with him? If so, then you have nothing more to offer him anyways. Shoulda kept him waiting until you were married. Its your fault.

[vgirl]

Nope. thats exactly what he said to me. "ur fucking fat and I want a skinny girl. I have had girls that are so much better than you."
errr what an absolute JERK. its good you aren't still together. no guy who loves you would ever say anything like that. if you are healthy and happy with your weight and feel like you don't need to be any skinnier then who cares what he says.

you should know within yourself that you look great and that he isnt worth your time. word.

[saintz]

that is fucked

i have no advice, jus...thats fucked
^ thats some good advice right there

[UnevenButtocks]

^ thats some good advice right there


good one, quoting yourself, hotstuff :lol:


And as far as the story, some guys are so despicable.

[Foxy_Lay_D]

Me n my ex were goin out for about 2 years... planned to marry in another couple years, etc. etc. I was actually 15 pounds heavier when we first started going out than I am now, but he jus left me... the main reason being: "Lose 10 pounds and then I'll take u back."

He keeps arguing with me that "I won't do anything to make him happy... I wont try for him..." When I did everything in the world that I could do for him in our relationship... Now I told him NO I will not be in a relationship with someone who cares so much about my WEIGHT and will leave me over it... He acts like I'm the bitch of the century... The worst part is... I never said I wouldnt do it.. but I dont want to lose weight under the condition that If i don't he will leave me... IM NOT EVEN FAT!!! UHHG!!

Oh and he also says... "No guy will ever be happy with the way you are..."

I need reassurance that I did the right thing by telling him to take a hike... :( my feelings are hurt.. lol.
Sorry 2 say sweeti but ur ex or ur bf whatever he is is such a ASSHOLE!!
If a boy really love's you and care about you he doesnt look at ur weight he
just look how u are like a person and how u are inside.
U can find a better one dont waste ur time on him.
Foxy

[jspot]

honestly, most men don't like fatties.

[izzzy]

Its shocking.....

WAT A LOSER

Trust me you did the right thing, any guy that is soooo concerned with a womans appearance to that level.. needs an ass whooping..

did you give him an ass whooping then tell him to do one?

hope so :D

[sikhsta]

yea youheartme2, ur def. a keeper, u will be better off with someone who loves you for who you are
:wavey:

[shareif_munda]

What kinda boy f was he, after 2 years aswell.

Ur really pretty btw, and u did the right thing. U shud have left him ealier... men like that disgust me :mad:

[shareif_munda]

Thats not surprising. I would leave a girl if she got fat. It maens that they dont care about what they look like. NO self-confidence. Also, they look fat. Everyone would make fun of me for dating a fattie.

Did you sleep with him? If so, then you have nothing more to offer him anyways. Shoulda kept him waiting until you were married. Its your fault.


U sound like a bigger dickhead than her ex, tosser! :mad:

[alee_x]

u must be dumb to even need advice..he treats u lyk shit..u dnt need him...standard.. dtz lyk telin ur man u aint redy to sleep wid him n he sayz if u love me den u will.....he obviously dunt love u!duhhhhhh.....

[shamera]

Me n my ex were goin out for about 2 years... planned to marry in another couple years, etc. etc. I was actually 15 pounds heavier when we first started going out than I am now, but he jus left me... the main reason being: "Lose 10 pounds and then I'll take u back."

He keeps arguing with me that "I won't do anything to make him happy... I wont try for him..." When I did everything in the world that I could do for him in our relationship... Now I told him NO I will not be in a relationship with someone who cares so much about my WEIGHT and will leave me over it... He acts like I'm the bitch of the century... The worst part is... I never said I wouldnt do it.. but I dont want to lose weight under the condition that If i don't he will leave me... IM NOT EVEN FAT!!! UHHG!!

Oh and he also says... "No guy will ever be happy with the way you are..."

I need reassurance that I did the right thing by telling him to take a hike... :( my feelings are hurt.. lol.

Dude that's fucked up. You look skinny. I've got health problems so my ex would get MAD at me for losing weight.