boring most weddin ovda year!!!!

[nawtysaika]

i went to a rweeeally religious weddin.... if one is that religious then y announce a weddin n invite othas

dats wat da invitation card shud say: "come n bore urself" :mad:

da thing that rweeeeally pissed me ov is dat i dint even get to c da groooom....

[suhailio]

Fix your English up Saika :squint:

[nawtysaika]

Fix your English up Saika :squint:

oi..... my english is PERFECT

[suhailio]

oi..... my english is PERFECT

Boring most wedding ovda year.

'Yh u r rite'

[nawtysaika]

Boring most wedding ovda year.

'Yh u r rite'

Lol.... hmm.... u r lurning ;)

[nyc_craziest]

all these desi functions are almost always boring. learn quick , and never attend one again/

[nawtysaika]

all these desi functions are almost always boring. learn quick , and never attend one again/

no... usually da mehndi hv this stage where all these ppl do bhangra n then gurls do luddy n all....

n then at da main day all that cheeyness wid da groom... gettin money ov him... feedin him....

n chekin all da guys wid all da shervaanis or ties on.... dancing infront ovda groom wen he comes in... n all

but nothing like that existed in this weddin...
there was no music.... wur nasheeds on!

[shadab]

i went to a rweeeally religious weddin.... if one is that religious then y announce a weddin n invite othas

dats wat da invitation card shud say: "come n bore urself" :mad:

da thing that rweeeeally pissed me ov is dat i dint even get to c da groooom....
are you retarded?

[nyc_craziest]

no... usually da mehndi hv this stage where all these ppl do bhangra n then gurls do luddy n all....

n then at da main day all that cheeyness wid da groom... gettin money ov him... feedin him....

n chekin all da guys wid all da shervaanis or ties on.... dancing infront ovda groom wen he comes in... n all

but nothing like that existed in this weddin...
there was no music.... wur nasheeds on!
ummm yeah?

im not familar with desi words/ events.

[nawtysaika]

are you retarded?

lol... yeh u wud b aswel if u went to that weddin....

[miss_khan]

boring most?! haha!


ok really i know what you mean but what do you expect at religious weddings? molvis doing the ludi?? come on, you should respect that not complain.

[twisted_heat]

i went to a rweeeally religious weddin.... if one is that religious then y announce a weddin n invite othas

dats wat da invitation card shud say: "come n bore urself" :mad:

da thing that rweeeeally pissed me ov is dat i dint even get to c da groooom....

The title of your thread has been nominated for the "FOBage sentance of the day" award.

I will PM you later if you win.

[nawtysaika]

ummm yeah?

im not familar with desi words/ events.

ah wel... iL invite u to my weddin... n its not gna PUT u to sleeeep.... probly da best weddin ul eva go to.. hehe

[Monaa]

u mean u didnt see da groom?

:scratch:

how bout da bride...

[nawtysaika]

boring most?! haha!


ok really i know what you mean but what do you expect at religious weddings? molvis doing the ludi?? come on, you should respect that not complain.

oki i dint expect them to do bhangra or nefin... but i did wna c da groom u know... i dont even know who my friend got married to...

[nawtysaika]

The title of your thread has been nominated for the "FOBage sentance of the day" award.

I will PM you later if you win.

Lol... am lookin farward to ur PM

[miss_khan]

oki i dint expect them to do bhangra or nefin... but i did wna c da groom u know... i dont even know who my friend got married to...


im sure you will get to see the pics someday!

[nawtysaika]

u mean u didnt see da groom?

:scratch:

how bout da bride...

yeh da brides my fwend... was wid her... sittin wid her yawning LoL (messhing)

[nawtysaika]

im sure you will get to see the pics someday!

NO PICS ALLOWED.... NO PICS WUR TAKEN

[kashif1986]

NO PICS ALLOWED.... NO PICS WUR TAKEN

you will see him eventually since it was ur friend who got married

[Mz23BabyPhat]

NO PICS ALLOWED.... NO PICS WUR TAKEN


What was the point of inviting ppl then and having a wedding?

I've never been to a religious wedding and even if there was,I would never go.

[ElDiablo]

so basically u wanted to look at the groom and his non existant friends and then dance around like a complete idiot and go back home. If u wanna dance go clubbing, muslim weddings arent supposed to be about dancing.

[ElDiablo]

NO PICS ALLOWED.... NO PICS WUR TAKEN

video? besides who gives a shit, its not like you married him.

[ORaNGe dAsY]

no... usually da mehndi hv this stage where all these ppl do bhangra n then gurls do luddy n all....

n then at da main day all that cheeyness wid da groom... gettin money ov him... feedin him....

n chekin all da guys wid all da shervaanis or ties on.... dancing infront ovda groom wen he comes in... n all

but nothing like that existed in this weddin...
there was no music.... wur nasheeds on!
holy crap. Even after 5 minutes, and I still can't decipher what you typed. :no:

[Mz23BabyPhat]

so basically u wanted to look at the groom and his non existant friends and then dance around like a complete idiot and go back home. If u wanna dance go clubbing, muslim weddings arent supposed to be about dancing.




What's wrong with dancing and having a good time? Better than sitting and listening to anasheed...nobody wants a boring party..it's all about having a good time at weddings.

[T.Dimera]

look on the bright side...now you know what NOT to do when you get married so it won't be boring

[nawtysaika]

you will see him eventually since it was ur friend who got married

shes moving to birmingham.....yeh probly in a few weeks....

[ElDiablo]

What's wrong with dancing and having a good time? Better than sitting and listening to anasheed...nobody wants a boring party..it's all about having a good time at weddings.

Yeh, im not against that at all, just if someone wants a religious wedding, why get angry about it.
If you want to party theres places to go, ive been to all types of weddings, some very simple and i have to say, the hype some weddings are given pisses me off. Invite 1000 people, spend as much money as possible only for the marraige to fail after a yr, ive see that happen too.

Basically all im saying is, its not worth making a thread over.
I know i dont want a bunch of slappers at my wedding who are only there to perv on guys and dance like retards, fuck that.

[STUpendous]

im glad im not the only one who hasnt understood a word posted by her in this thread

[_A-s-H-i_]

i went to a rweeeally religious weddin.... if one is that religious then y announce a weddin n invite othas

dats wat da invitation card shud say: "come n bore urself" :mad:

da thing that rweeeeally pissed me ov is dat i dint even get to c da groooom....
i hate weddins they suck :D
and they are too long
last one i went to was ma aunties i just wanted to go home!

[nawtysaika]

What was the point of inviting ppl then and having a wedding?

I've never been to a religious wedding and even if there was,I would never go.

yeh it was a very close fwend ov mine from skool.... so i had to go... even tho am hvin exams

[Mz23BabyPhat]

Yeh, im not against that at all, just if someone wants a religious wedding, why get angry about it.
If you want to party theres places to go, ive been to all types of weddings, some very simple and i have to say, the hype some weddings are given pisses me off. Invite 1000 people, spend as much money as possible only for the marraige to fail after a yr, ive see that happen too.

Basically all im saying is, its not worth making a thread over.
I know i dont want a bunch of slappers at my wedding who are only there to perv on guys and dance like retards, fuck that.


Chillll Mr.Tabib.......why you getting all upset here,guess she was bored.lol

p.s why would ppl dance like retards? :p

[Mz23BabyPhat]

yeh it was a very close fwend ov mine from skool.... so i had to go... even tho am hvin exams


Was it a mixed party?

[asian_guy_786]

What's wrong with dancing and having a good time? Better than sitting and listening to anasheed...nobody wants a boring party..it's all about having a good time at weddings.

:werd:

[nawtysaika]

so basically u wanted to look at the groom and his non existant friends and then dance around like a complete idiot and go back home. If u wanna dance go clubbing, muslim weddings arent supposed to be about dancing.

i dont usually dance at weddings.... but weddins widout dance is boring

[nawtysaika]

video? besides who gives a shit, its not like you married him.

NO VIDEO EITHER

[Mz23BabyPhat]

:werd:

:werd:

I love it when im right. :mrhappy:

[nawtysaika]

What's wrong with dancing and having a good time? Better than sitting and listening to anasheed...nobody wants a boring party..it's all about having a good time at weddings.

EXACTLY

[asian_guy_786]

:werd:

I love it when im right. :mrhappy:

have you ever been to a pakistani lahorey wedding :p

now they know how to party at weddings...

im lahorey :D

[ElDiablo]

Chillll Mr.Tabib.......why you getting all upset here,guess she was bored.lol

p.s why would ppl dance like retards? :p

I just dont like people having a go at the religious folk. Desis generally piss me off with just about every silly thing they do, its the good, quite religious folk who keep me sane.

[ElDiablo]

NO VIDEO EITHER

If theyre happy with it, why are so upset?

The only reason they invited you was to take your money.

[ElDiablo]

have you ever been to a pakistani lahorey wedding :p

now they know how to party at weddings...

im lahorey :D

all they do is dance a few times, cruise in cars......thats normal.

:sarb:

[nawtysaika]

look on the bright side...now you know what NOT to do when you get married so it won't be boring

hmmmm :sarb:

[asian_guy_786]

all they do is dance a few times, cruise in cars......thats normal.

:sarb:

wtf are you talking about

LOL

[nawtysaika]

im glad im not the only one who hasnt understood a word posted by her in this thread

omg

[FatGeezer]

i went to a rweeeally religious weddin.... if one is that religious then y announce a weddin n invite othas

dats wat da invitation card shud say: "come n bore urself" :mad:

da thing that rweeeeally pissed me ov is dat i dint even get to c da groooom....
grrr it really annoys me when people call themselves "muslims" and then think all the external hindu/sikh/western influenced inputs are "muslim" weddings.

You invite others because a marriage is supposed to be an OPEN affair. It shouldnt be done in secret but with as many people as possible present so everyone KNOWS the couple are married, it is supposed to be a joyous occasion that is shared with as many people as possible.

And its quite selfish of you to say that because you go to a wedding to share COUPLES happiness, not for yourself. And that includes RESPECTING however they wish to proceed with the wedding. Youre theyre for THEM, not for YOUR enjoyment.

I'm sure if we go to other extremes you'd be mighty pissed off if someone came on here and posted "I went to an islamic wedding and it was full of kanjirs and marassees dancing and besharam girls everywhere strutting theyre stuff" . Each to theyre own at the end of the day, so sorry the couple couldnt entertain YOU on THEIR wedding day.

Give others some respect for goodness sake.

[nawtysaika]

Was it a mixed party?

Noooooooooooo

[ElDiablo]

wtf are you talking about

LOL

wtf are u such an idiot i have to explain myself

read it

all they do is dance a few times, cruise in cars......thats normal.

lahori weddings are normal, theres nothing special about them.

[asian_guy_786]

wtf are u such an idiot i have to explain myself

read it



lahori weddings are normal, theres nothing special about them.

not all weddings are the same... :D

plus when someone in my family gets married we dont cruise around in cars...

anyways bro dont wanna Argue with you on a matter like this

peace

[ElDiablo]

not all weddings are the same... :D

plus when someone in my family gets married we dont cruise around in cars...

anyways bro dont wanna Argue with you on a matter like this

peace

lol, i dont want to argue over this either. But you get my point, theyre normal weddings, nothing extra special about them.

ma salaam

[asian_guy_786]

lol, i dont want to argue over this either. But you get my point, theyre normal weddings, nothing extra special about them.

ma salaam

yeha true...to be honest...nikkah is the most important part...the rest is just Traditions...it just depends on your family....what there like... id rather like simple weddings...not OTT...but ppl these days forget dua for the ppl that are Actually getting married and just talk about the decoration pieces and how bad the food was...

walikum asalam

[nawtysaika]

grrr it really annoys me when people call themselves "muslims" and then think all the external hindu/sikh/western influenced inputs are "muslim" weddings.

You invite others because a marriage is supposed to be an OPEN affair. It shouldnt be done in secret but with as many people as possible present so everyone KNOWS the couple are married, it is supposed to be a joyous occasion that is shared with as many people as possible.

And its quite selfish of you to say that because you go to a wedding to share COUPLES happiness, not for yourself. And that includes RESPECTING however they wish to proceed with the wedding. Youre theyre for THEM, not for YOUR enjoyment.

I'm sure if we go to other extremes you'd be mighty pissed off if someone came on here and posted "I went to an islamic wedding and it was full of kanjirs and marassees dancing and besharam girls everywhere strutting theyre stuff" . Each to theyre own at the end of the day, so sorry the couple couldnt entertain YOU on THEIR wedding day.

Give others some respect for goodness sake.


wel i agree wid wat u said but DUH i dint get to c da COUPLE TOGETHER..... thats wat pissed me ov.... cud i hv not even seen who my fwend go married to?

[bangsta101]

i went 2 da most of da hhook party yestaday. dey werent desi but dey were brown. lol.

[nawtysaika]

yeha true...to be honest...nikkah is the most important part...the rest is just Traditions...it just depends on your family....what there like... id rather like simple weddings...not OTT...but ppl these days forget dua for the ppl that are Actually getting married and just talk about the decoration pieces and how bad the food was...

walikum asalam

wel dats wat am saying... if u r gna hv a simplest weddin eva... just dont invite ppl.. do nakkah n do rukhsatti.....

[asian_guy_786]

wel dats wat am saying... if u r gna hv a simplest weddin eva... just dont invite ppl.. do nakkah n do rukhsatti.....

okay :rolleyes:

:p

[FatGeezer]

wel dats wat am saying... if u r gna hv a simplest weddin eva... just dont invite ppl.. do nakkah n do rukhsatti.....
did you even read my post? Its SUNNAT.
Participating and being a witness is SAWAB.

Or is dancing>sawab for you?

[FatGeezer]

wel i agree wid wat u said but DUH i dint get to c da COUPLE TOGETHER..... thats wat pissed me ov.... cud i hv not even seen who my fwend go married to?
go visit them afterwards when they invite you in the privacy of theyre own home. having a stage or putting the couple together isnt an islamic tradition. Would you like all girls sitting there perving at your husband on the wedding day? Maybe you wouldnt mind but some would. there IS such a thing as "respect".

[nawtysaika]

did you even read my post? Its SUNNAT.
Participating and being a witness is SAWAB.

Or is dancing>sawab for you?

wel i aint seen da flippin groooooooooom...i dono who da guy she got married to...

n dancing n all is gud wen its there.... not saying its sawab....

[Mz23BabyPhat]

have you ever been to a pakistani lahorey wedding :p

now they know how to party at weddings...

im lahorey :D


No..i've never been to a desi wedding at all.. :*-(

Take me with you next time there's a lahorey wedding. :dance3:

[FatGeezer]

wel i aint seen da flippin groooooooooom...i dono who da guy she got married to...

n dancing n all is gud wen its there.... not saying its sawab....
islamically you dont have a right to, so if THEY wish to excercise that option then why cant you just respect theyre wishes?

you are not a mehram for him, so if he looks at you it is GUNNAH.

[Mz23BabyPhat]

I just dont like people having a go at the religious folk. Desis generally piss me off with just about every silly thing they do, its the good, quite religious folk who keep me sane.


I understand what ur saying. :D

[nawtysaika]

go visit them afterwards when they invite you in the privacy of theyre own home. having a stage or putting the couple together isnt an islamic tradition. Would you like all girls sitting there perving at your husband on the wedding day? Maybe you wouldnt mind but some would. there IS such a thing as "respect".

uff.... wel if u wna have an islamic weddin.. i aint stoppin u....

i found it boring... so i said it... plus its not like my hubby is gna b naked n all da gurls r gna b pervin at him.... n its not like whereva hes gna go there r only gna b men around him...

[FatGeezer]

wel i aint seen da flippin groooooooooom...i dono who da guy she got married to...

n dancing n all is gud wen its there.... not saying its sawab....

no its NOT good, its all gunnah, but like I said, each to their own. Im not here trying to preach to you but I will CORRECT you when you have misconceptions about Islam.

[FatGeezer]

uff.... wel if u wna have an islamic weddin.. i aint stoppin u....

i found it boring... so i said it... plus its not like my hubby is gna b naked n all da gurls r gna b pervin at him.... n its not like whereva hes gna go there r only gna b men around him...
like I said, what problem do you have of RESPECTING what the couples/families wishes were for the day?

It was THEIR wedding, not yours. you can do whatever you wish on your own.

Youre talking about an Islamic wedding in the derogotary sense. So much of being proud of being a muslim :no:

[nawtysaika]

no its NOT good, its all gunnah, but like I said, each to their own. Im not here trying to preach to you but I will CORRECT you when you have misconceptions about Islam.

soweeee
dancing is fun n music at da background is enjoyable....
is dat betr?

[Mz23BabyPhat]

Noooooooooooo


Was the bride okay with having a religious wedding or was it her family that wanted it?

[nawtysaika]

like I said, what problem do you have of RESPECTING what the couples/families wishes were for the day?

It was THEIR wedding, not yours. you can do whatever you wish on your own.

Youre talking about an Islamic wedding in the derogotary sense. So much of being proud of being a muslim :no:

yeh.... but in an islamic weddin...

y wur da gurls wearin saaris with their stomach showin if they r that religious then cover urselves up first.....

[nawtysaika]

Was the bride okay with having a religious wedding or was it her family that wanted it?

she was oki wid it....

[nawtysaika]

Was the bride okay with having a religious wedding or was it her family that wanted it?

n yeh only 2weeks ago she found out that shes gettin married

[FatGeezer]

soweeee
dancing is fun n music at da background is enjoyable....
is dat betr?
maybe for you but I guess not for them. back to my point, why cant you just respect theyre wishes and be happy for the married couple?

[FatGeezer]

yeh.... but in an islamic weddin...

y wur da gurls wearin saaris with their stomach showin if they r that religious then cover urselves up first.....
well y dont you go ask them? I thought u said it was segregated anyway? theres no ruling for women having to cover themselves infront of other women, related or non-related. It only applies to non-mehram men.

[HiGHland~Heather]

Firstly, please learn how to type in english - it will make life easier for everyone. :)

Secondly, what kind of friend are you? Instead of requesting to see him in private or whatever, you're here bitching about how boring an Islamic wedding is?

As FatGeezer said, if you want to imitate Hindu/Sikh/Christian traditions be my guest but DO NOT denegrate or disrespect others for wishing to follow the way of the prophet(saw) correctly or as best as they can.

And FYI, it is an islamic duty to invite people to your nik'ah as its a community affair and a joyous occassion.........there may not be bhangra or luddi but I sure as hell am sure there is BARAKAH!

Gosh, I really feel for your friend, what a waste of an invitation and what a way to display your happiness for her......who needs enemies with a 'friend' like you?

[Mz23BabyPhat]

n yeh only 2weeks ago she found out that shes gettin married

wow! :shock:

Since she was okay with it,it's all good then.

[nawtysaika]

well y dont you go ask them? I thought u said it was segregated anyway? theres no ruling for women having to cover themselves infront of other women, related or non-related. It only applies to non-mehram men.

ah Excuse me... i was watchin this islamic programme the otha day n gurls arent allowed to reveal themselves to other women...

plus especially the tummy bcoz thats where the littul baby lives or summat like that

[nawtysaika]

maybe for you but I guess not for them. back to my point, why cant you just respect theyre wishes and be happy for the married couple?

i AM happy for the couple... but cant i tell u if i had da boring most day ov my life.... grrrrrrr

[FatGeezer]

ah Excuse me... i was watchin this islamic programme the otha day n gurls arent allowed to reveal themselves to other women...

plus especially the tummy bcoz thats where the littul baby lives or summat like that

Please provide proof in terms of either verses from the quran or reference to strong hadith if youre gonna throw around comments like that trying to wiggle your way out of a corner.

I feel sorry for the "freind" of yours for having such a selfish freind like you. Im sure she'd be chuffed to bits knowing you were moaning on about how boring her wedding day was for you.

I just hope that i some twisted and freaky way karma comes and kicks your butt and the person thats gonne be marrying you is a strict MOLVI. :rofl:

[random_buoy]

Double Standards. Discussions like "Check out my jugs" or "Would you hit it" are totally fine. But the moment someone says something that isn't acceptable to them, they'll start bitching.

[FatGeezer]

i AM happy for the couple... but cant i tell u if i had da boring most day ov my life.... grrrrrrr
not if youre gonna put others down and be derogotary about your religion.

[FatGeezer]

Double Standards. Discussions like "Check out my jugs" or "Would you hit it" are totally fine. But the moment someone says something that isn't acceptable to them, they'll start bitching.
check my lardy arse before you open your mouth

[random_buoy]

check my lardy arse before you open your mouth

go hump a dog or something....It'll help burn some of that excess fat.

[FatGeezer]

no thanks. I like it. infact i think im abit underweight. Oh, and the "dog" i hump would just happen to be your mama.... :Pelvic2:

[nawtysaika]

Firstly, please learn how to type in english - it will make life easier for everyone. :)

Secondly, what kind of friend are you? Instead of requesting to see him in private or whatever, you're here bitching about how boring an Islamic wedding is?

As FatGeezer said, if you want to imitate Hindu/Sikh/Christian traditions be my guest but DO NOT denegrate or disrespect others for wishing to follow the way of the prophet(saw) correctly or as best as they can.

And FYI, it is an islamic duty to invite people to your nik'ah as its a community affair and a joyous occassion.........there may not be bhangra or luddi but I sure as hell am sure there is BARAKAH!

Gosh, I really feel for your friend, what a waste of an invitation and what a way to display your happiness for her......who needs enemies with a 'friend' like you?

i agree
lol.... nice one.... but duH she knew exactly wat sorta time i had there.... so phuhleeese dont go on bout bitchiness......

[random_buoy]

no thanks. I like it. infact i think im abit underweight. Oh, and the "dog" i hump would just happen to be your mama.... :Pelvic2:


lol... what kinda idiot comes up with a comeback like that? Oh... I know... a 14 yr old fat loser. and it took u like 10 minutes.

[FatGeezer]

lol... what kinda idiot comes up with a comeback like that? Oh... I know... a 14 yr old fat loser. and it took u like 10 minutes.
well this "14 year old fat loser" still did your momma doggy style...
:dance3:

heck, you could even by my illegitimate son!
now that would make you a b'stard wouldnt it!

stand tall and show some respect to your lardy daddy!
:dance3:

[random_buoy]

If you got arse raped by u r uncle, when u were little, go talk to a psychiatrist or just jump off a tall building.

[nawtysaika]

Please provide proof in terms of either verses from the quran or reference to strong hadith if youre gonna throw around comments like that trying to wiggle your way out of a corner.

I feel sorry for the "freind" of yours for having such a selfish freind like you. Im sure she'd be chuffed to bits knowing you were moaning on about how boring her wedding day was for you.
I just hope that i some twisted and freaky way karma comes and kicks your butt and the person thats gonne be marrying you is a strict MOLVI. :rofl:

wel findin da verses... hmm u sound quite religious so u can do that urself since u claim to say that gurls can reveal themselves infront ov other women...
i do want a religous man.... but not sum1 whos OTT
she knew i was bored... apart frm da time wen tried crackin jokes to make her laff wen she was crying

[FatGeezer]

i agree
lol.... nice one.... but duH she knew exactly wat sorta time i had there.... so phuhleeese dont go on bout bitchiness......
erm, do i need to quote you on the posts where you were moaning about why people were invited and why they didnt just do a rukhsti?

[FatGeezer]

wel findin da verses... hmm u sound quite religious so u can do that urself since u claim to say that gurls can reveal themselves infront ov other women...
i do want a religous man.... but not sum1 whos OTT
she knew i was bored... apart frm da time wen tried crackin jokes to make her laff wen she was crying


no. YOU THREW a definite decision in. There is no mention in the quran of women having to cover infront of others. When there is no such explicit decision then it is up to yourself to decide, eveyrthing within reason.

[FatGeezer]

lol... what kinda idiot comes up with a comeback like that? Oh... I know... a 14 yr old fat loser. and it took u like 10 minutes.
oh and in that 10 minutes I was just off having a quickie with that ol' "dawg" again....

expect a little sibling in 9 months...

[vikvik12]

calling their marraige boring? you have spawned bad luck on their marraige and it'll be your fault if it results in a divorce.

[nawtysaika]

not if youre gonna put others down and be derogotary about your religion.

listen u fatgeezer... i dont hv a problem wid u... u hv ur marriage da way u wna... i found da marriage borin but i had to go to it coz it was my fwends...i aint regretin coz i had to be there for her coz i wanted to... n i dont feel ashamed ov sayin that da marriage was boring coz i aint gna lie.... so phuhleeese just stop argueing... da marriage was boring coz it just was...

[nawtysaika]

not if youre gonna put others down and be derogotary about your religion.

oki if it was da religion fied... no need to ova dress... no need to spend extra money on party poppers ... hv it simple.... just givin me a flippin hedake.... keep ur comments to urself coz u just argueing thats all

[nawtysaika]

no thanks. I like it. infact i think im abit underweight. Oh, and the "dog" i hump would just happen to be your mama.... :Pelvic2:

talkin bout ur religion n then comin up wid things like that... go sort urself out

[nawtysaika]

lol... what kinda idiot comes up with a comeback like that? Oh... I know... a 14 yr old fat loser. and it took u like 10 minutes.

hehe.... EXACTLY!

[nawtysaika]

no. YOU THREW a definite decision in. There is no mention in the quran of women having to cover infront of others. When there is no such explicit decision then it is up to yourself to decide, eveyrthing within reason.

go find me a verse inda quran that all da gurls can sit widout clothes infront ov eachother if they wish....

[nawtysaika]

oh and in that 10 minutes I was just off having a quickie with that ol' "dawg" again....

expect a little sibling in 9 months...

u need to lurn how to repect sum1z mum ... shame on u....

i said the weddin was boring... n iL still say it...but u... uffff

[nawtysaika]

calling their marraige boring? you have spawned bad luck on their marraige and it'll be your fault if it results in a divorce.

lol... thanks for ur comment....
i said i had a boring time... i dint wish bad luck to the couple u freak.... bet u never got off ur PC....u need to go out more :p

[vikvik12]

I'm sorry..?
What?..PC?..Go out more?..Eh?

[nawtysaika]

:werd:

ah not another one..... :sarb: lol

[nawtysaika]

I'm sorry..?
What?..PC?..Go out more?..Eh?

annoying lamer... i told u i had a boring day so i dont want u to annoy me more.... just find sum1 else to bug!

[vikvik12]

Annoying Lamer?.. What?.. Think outside of the bubble?..Please?..Boring day?..Annoy you?..What on earth..?...Insects?

[the_vicked]

ah,, surely it was a religious weddin then,,, n songs r an integral part ,,, no fun without em,,, happens,,,

[ezbreezyfresh]

lol wtf chutiyas..why you gotta bring hindus into this...just because your ppl like to copy us it's not our fault... :rolleyes:

[Canadian_jatti]

all these desi functions are almost always boring. learn quick , and never attend one again/
:werd:

[FatGeezer]

oki if it was da religion fied... no need to ova dress... no need to spend extra money on party poppers ... hv it simple.... just givin me a flippin hedake.... keep ur comments to urself coz u just argueing thats all
errr, i think if youre gonna post something on here ive got as much right to make a comment about it as you have. People in glass houses shouldnt throw stones

[FatGeezer]

listen u fatgeezer... i dont hv a problem wid u... u hv ur marriage da way u wna... i found da marriage borin but i had to go to it coz it was my fwends...i aint regretin coz i had to be there for her coz i wanted to... n i dont feel ashamed ov sayin that da marriage was boring coz i aint gna lie.... so phuhleeese just stop argueing... da marriage was boring coz it just was...
just stop bitching about it and just be happy for them. youre still alive arent you?

[FatGeezer]

talkin bout ur religion n then comin up wid things like that... go sort urself out
the two are not analagous. Im sorted fine thanks. I think YOU need to go sort yourself out.

[FatGeezer]

hehe.... EXACTLY!
ooh got someone on your side now have we? its amazing how weak willed some people are and just jump in alliance with people they would otherwise not get on with just because theyre being criticised....

[FatGeezer]

go find me a verse inda quran that all da gurls can sit widout clothes infront ov eachother if they wish....
i think you have a problem with coherency...

care to be :Owned: much?

Surah 33. The Clans, The Coalition, The Combined Forces, verse 55
"The women may relax (their dress code) around their fathers, their sons, their brothers, the sons of their brothers, the sons of their sisters, the other women, and their (female) servants. They shall reverence GOD. GOD witnesses all things."

happy?

Oh, and your insistence on taking what I siad to an extreme by "stripping" women doesnt do much for your perception either.

[FatGeezer]

u need to lurn how to repect sum1z mum ... shame on u....

i said the weddin was boring... n iL still say it...but u... uffff
and you need to respect other people full stop. What I said is clearly jestful slander but what you are going on about is serious criticism of Islam.

[FatGeezer]

Annoying Lamer?.. What?.. Think outside of the bubble?..Please?..Boring day?..Annoy you?..What on earth..?...Insects?
dont worry, shes got her knickers in a twist because not everyones brown nosin' her

[!sunny!]

well thas how a real muslim wedding is.

male and females arent supposed to see each other. u don see that often.

[Seeeeeeema]

i went to a rweeeally religious weddin.... if one is that religious then y announce a weddin n invite othas

dats wat da invitation card shud say: "come n bore urself" :mad:

da thing that rweeeeally pissed me ov is dat i dint even get to c da groooom....
hahah thats funny and so dum :no:

i hope the bride gottu see him that would be scary if she didnt :p

[Clueless_uk]

*sigh


I wish I went to a wedding...boring or not boring


looks like the only one I will go to...is my own :ashamed:

[..::Bobby::..]

i went to a rweeeally religious weddin.... if one is that religious then y announce a weddin n invite othas

dats wat da invitation card shud say: "come n bore urself" :mad:

da thing that rweeeeally pissed me ov is dat i dint even get to c da groooom....
I couldn't understand what you said. But when was this weddin' and in english please....

[nawtysaika]

i think you have a problem with coherency...

care to be :Owned: much?

Surah 33. The Clans, The Coalition, The Combined Forces, verse 55
"The women may relax (their dress code) around their fathers, their sons, their brothers, the sons of their brothers, the sons of their sisters, the other women, and their (female) servants. They shall reverence GOD. GOD witnesses all things."

happy?

Oh, and your insistence on taking what I siad to an extreme by "stripping" women doesnt do much for your perception either.

still dont mean u cud show ur tummy.... so phuleeese.... just drop it

[nawtysaika]

hahah thats funny and so dum :no:

i hope the bride gottu see him that would be scary if she didnt :p

Lol... yeh she probly has seen him by now.....

she was tellin me dat one ov her bhaabhi's or sista was tellin her to say "NO" wen da molvi asks her if shes happy to marry da guy bla bla... lol

[nawtysaika]

*sigh


I wish I went to a wedding...boring or not boring


looks like the only one I will go to...is my own :ashamed:

awww.... iL try inviting u to mine... keke

[FatGeezer]

still dont mean u cud show ur tummy.... so phuleeese.... just drop it
err, i just gave you the proof and now you want ME to drop it?

Dont you realise when youve been :Owned:?

[nawtysaika]

I couldn't understand what you said. But when was this weddin' and in english please....

THE WEDDING WAS YESTERDAY... IT WAS MY FRIEND'S WEDDING.... THE WHOLE CEREMONY WAS KIND OF RELIGIOUS AND I WAS QUITE BORED....AND I DIDN'T EVEN GET TO SEE THE GROOM....

[snak3]

the groom proabably wasnt all that.......worry about the food :p

[nawtysaika]

err, i just gave you the proof and now you want ME to drop it?

Dont you realise when youve been :Owned:?

so still duznt say u can walk around wid ur tummy out wen u around otha gurls.... ???

[nawtysaika]

the groom proabably wasnt all that.......worry about the food :p

HEHE... da food i wasnt rweeeally botherd bout.... :sarb:

[random_buoy]

HEHE... da food i wasnt rweeeally botherd bout.... :sarb:

thats all i think about at weddings. :D

[snak3]

HEHE... da food i wasnt rweeeally botherd bout.... :sarb:

why not?....whats the point of going to a wedding then?

[nawtysaika]

thats all i think about at weddings. :D

LoL.... u go for naanz or da chawal... hehe

[nawtysaika]

why not?....whats the point of going to a wedding then?

2 c da bride n da groom... n 2 check all da mundays out in shervaaneees... hehe

[snak3]

2 c da bride n da groom... n 2 check all da mundays out in shervaaneees... hehe

hmmmm.......strange :p

[nawtysaika]

ah,, surely it was a religious weddin then,,, n songs r an integral part ,,, no fun without em,,, happens,,,

sachee.... bilkul boring thi..... no songs no fun

[random_buoy]

LoL.... u go for naanz or da chawal... hehe

biryani.

[nawtysaika]

hmmmm.......strange :p

lol.... u sure dats strange.... wel seeing u am sure u always da hot topic amongst all da gurlz.... ;)

[nawtysaika]

biryani.

lamb or chicken :p

[snak3]

lol.... u sure dats strange.... wel seeing u am sure u always da hot topic amongst all da gurlz.... ;)

yes.........its like ive got an eye on me 24/7 :p .......it gets annoying after a while though.....esp when i dont want anything to do with em..

[nawtysaika]

yes.........its like ive got an eye on me 24/7 :p .......it gets annoying after a while though.....esp when i dont want anything to do with em..

aww... seems like u need to cover urself up more than gurls keke
:p

[random_buoy]

lamb or chicken :p

lamb. :dribble:

afterall...i'm hyderabadi

[FatGeezer]

so still duznt say u can walk around wid ur tummy out wen u around otha gurls.... ???
stop being so thick. whats FORBIDDEN is written, if everything that was ALLOWED was to be written the book would go on forever. Religion KERBS puts in check your actions, no PROMOTES.

you hvae no sense of coherency whatsoever and now youre just arguing cos your big dumb-ass ego wont admit you were in the wrong.

where the hell does it show you can show your face or your hands or your toes or your nails?
grow up and be realistic.

[FatGeezer]

2 c da bride n da groom... n 2 check all da mundays out in shervaaneees... hehe


prooves my point EXACTLY bout women perving on men to which you responded "well its not as if theyre naked"

ever heard the term "undressing with your eyes"?

[random_buoy]

prooves my point EXACTLY bout women perving on men to which you responded "well its not as if theyre naked"

ever heard the term "undressing with your eyes"?

:D I do it all the time.

[nawtysaika]

stop being so thick. whats FORBIDDEN is written, if everything that was ALLOWED was to be written the book would go on forever. Religion KERBS puts in check your actions, no PROMOTES.

you hvae no sense of coherency whatsoever and now youre just arguing cos your big dumb-ass ego wont admit you were in the wrong.

where the hell does it show you can show your face or your hands or your toes or your nails?
grow up and be realistic.

listen u FATGEEZER.... it was a religious weddin... gud for them.... wat da hek is gettin to u... i was bored so i flippin said it n wil say it again.... wats flippin botherin u....?

n yeh u gotta go in detail about the gurls coverin themselves infront ov otha gurls.... i hv hurd this better times dat gurls cant expose their tummy n all to other gurls so i will proove my point inshAllah very soon.....

[HERCS]

weddings r boring fullstop.....its scary to receive any wedding invitation cards

[snak3]

prooves my point EXACTLY bout women perving on men to which you responded "well its not as if theyre naked"

ever heard the term "undressing with your eyes"?

of course...if it was me at the wedding...they'd be checking me out instead of some random fat geezer :p

[FatGeezer]

listen u FATGEEZER.... it was a religious weddin... gud for them.... wat da hek is gettin to u... i was bored so i flippin said it n wil say it again.... wats flippin botherin u....?

n yeh u gotta go in detail about the gurls coverin themselves infront ov otha gurls.... i hv hurd this better times dat gurls cant expose their tummy n all to other gurls so i will proove my point inshAllah very soon.....


before you said you saw it on telly the other day and now youre saying youve heard it alot and Im asking you for proof and you havent provided any whilst I have provided proof which shows there is NO stipulation on how women dress in front of other women. Youre miseducated and Im correcting you on it.

[nawtysaika]

prooves my point EXACTLY bout women perving on men to which you responded "well its not as if theyre naked"

ever heard the term "undressing with your eyes"?

so i did include dat its not as if they never gna come infront ov a woman in this world....

[nawtysaika]

of course...if it was me at the wedding...they'd be checking me out instead of some random fat geezer :p

obviously they dont wna scare themselves wid all that excess fat

[FatGeezer]

listen u FATGEEZER.... it was a religious weddin... gud for them.... wat da hek is gettin to u... i was bored so i flippin said it n wil say it again.... wats flippin botherin u....?

n yeh u gotta go in detail about the gurls coverin themselves infront ov otha gurls.... i hv hurd this better times dat gurls cant expose their tummy n all to other gurls so i will proove my point inshAllah very soon.....
oh, and if was gonna be touchy about being called fat i think i would have shot myself in the foot when i called myself "fatgeezer", so no need to to highlight my e-attributes

[FatGeezer]

so i did include dat its not as if they never gna come infront ov a woman in this world....
what happens in the rest of the world isnt what you made the thread about. it was about the wedding. stop throwing red herrings in.

[nawtysaika]

before you said you saw it on telly the other day and now youre saying youve heard it alot and Im asking you for proof and you havent provided any whilst I have provided proof which shows there is NO stipulation on how women dress in front of other women. Youre miseducated and Im correcting you on it.

i told u iL prooooov it to u... so i wil... i got exam on wed n w8 till i get ova my exams iL make sure i shut ur mouth! n yeh if u providin prooof.... i want more of it....

n yeh i dont wna lurn anyfin of a fatgeezer who duznt know how to respect sum1z mum... forget teaching me summat....

[nawtysaika]

weddings r boring fullstop.....its scary to receive any wedding invitation cards

LoL.... yeh especially da one i went to yesterday..... :neutral:

[FatGeezer]

i told u iL prooooov it to u... so i wil... i got exam on wed n w8 till i get ova my exams iL make sure i shut ur mouth! n yeh if u providin prooof.... i want more of it....

n yeh i dont wna lurn anyfin of a fatgeezer who duznt know how to respect sum1z mum... forget teaching me summat....

jeez I gave you a full verse of the Quran. IS THAT NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR YOU?

So you doubt the word of the quran now?

well it shows your true colours.

I give other people as much as they respect me and thats anyway off topic again so stop throwing more red herrings in.

[nawtysaika]

what happens in the rest of the world isnt what you made the thread about. it was about the wedding. stop throwing red herrings in.

wats ur problem... i really dont get it... if i was bored at a religious weddin.... wats biting u?

[FatGeezer]

wats ur problem... i really dont get it... if i was bored at a religious weddin.... wats biting u?
that your bitching at something that is SUNNAT.

[nawtysaika]

jeez I gave you a full verse of the Quran. IS THAT NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR YOU?

So you doubt the word of the quran now?

well it shows your true colours.

I give other people as much as they respect me and thats anyway off topic again so stop throwing more red herrings in.

DUH... i aint disagreeing... i did say earlia dat duz dat mean gurls can reveal their tummy in infront ov otha gurls... i was saying if u cud get sumat abit more detailed.... n stop twisting my words n come to pathetic conclusions....

[snak3]

wats ur problem... i really dont get it... if i was bored at a religious weddin.... wats biting u?

dont worry about it sweety.....our friend here is probably pissed that he wasnt invited to the wedding......DOH :p

[nawtysaika]

that your bitching at something that is SUNNAT.

yeh if it was that religious... y get a HUMMER etc etc.. y spend money on that.... please just stop throwin that on me ova n ova again.....

[nawtysaika]

dont worry about it sweety.....our friend here is probably pissed that he wasnt invited to the wedding......DOH :p

LoL..... hmm i shud hv thot like that too....
:sarb:

[FatGeezer]

DUH... i aint disagreeing... i did say earlia dat duz dat mean gurls can reveal their tummy in infront ov otha gurls... i was saying if u cud get sumat abit more detailed.... n stop twisting my words n come to pathetic conclusions....
what more detailed do you want than a verse of the quran?

In a book where the whole distribution of wealth in wills is described in a few sentences you want it to explicitly say to you wahat you are allowed to show to other women?

I told you before but you seem to have a problem with comprehension. Islam lets you do ANYTHING except what it puts a LIMIT on.

[FatGeezer]

dont worry about it sweety.....our friend here is probably pissed that he wasnt invited to the wedding......DOH :p
yea, all that food i missed out on...

[Seeeeeeema]

Lol... yeh she probly has seen him by now.....

she was tellin me dat one ov her bhaabhi's or sista was tellin her to say "NO" wen da molvi asks her if shes happy to marry da guy bla bla... lol
meaning did she see him before getting married to him?

[FatGeezer]

yeh if it was that religious... y get a HUMMER etc etc.. y spend money on that.... please just stop throwin that on me ova n ova again.....
so now you keep adding things.

If they do one thing wrong so according to you they may aswell do everything wrong?

Im only throwing back at you your own words. But like I said, your dumb-ass ego wont let you admit you are bitching about something you dont have a right over.

[snak3]

yea, all that food i missed out on...


food is food whichever way u look at it.....anyway give her a break..i dont think we need another afghan zamarai dude around here

[nawtysaika]

what more detailed do you want than a verse of the quran?

In a book where the whole distribution of wealth in wills is described in a few sentences you want it to explicitly say to you wahat you are allowed to show to other women?

I told you before but you seem to have a problem with comprehension. Islam lets you do ANYTHING except what it puts a LIMIT on.

luk i hv watced DR ISRAAR AHMHEDs videos (da translation ovda QURAN)n all the eppisodes r downstairs... n i will watch em to find dat part again.... n i remember watchin it... wel iL watch it n confirm all wid u so please dont talk bout it again n am gna make sure i giv full proooof to u on ur fatface

[nawtysaika]

meaning did she see him before getting married to him?

shes seen him but shes never talked to him tho

[FatGeezer]

food is food whichever way u look at it.....anyway give her a break..i dont think we need another afghan zamarai dude around here
its not a case of afghan zamarai dude or whatever. Like I said many times, each to theyre own, im not telling her how to live her life, but when someone is being derogatory about Islam weather it be hindus or christiands or sikhs or even other muslims I will correct them when they have wrong assumptions. Especially when they start throwing false "fatwas" in. Miseducation within muslims themselves is the greatest cause of disrepute amongst muslims.

She should be proud of the fact that at least someone in this day and age tried to do an islamically correct wedding rather than bitch about how she got bored at someone elses wedding cos there was no dancing and music. She can do whatever she likes in her own wedding.

[FatGeezer]

luk i hv watced DR ISRAAR AHMHEDs videos (da translation ovda QURAN)n all the eppisodes r downstairs... n i will watch em to find dat part again.... n i remember watchin it... wel iL watch it n confirm all wid u so please dont talk bout it again n am gna make sure i giv full proooof to u on ur fatface
like I said, i gave you the verse of the quran as is. I doubt very much youll find Dr Israar saying:

You may show the following to other women:
1. Your hands
2. Your fingernails
3. Your hair
4. your feet
5. Your toenails
6. ....
and so on.

So the quran doesnt mention the above explicitly so does that mean theyre not mentioned you cant show em?

[nawtysaika]

its not a case of afghan zamarai dude or whatever. Like I said many times, each to theyre own, im not telling her how to live her life, but when someone is being derogatory about Islam weather it be hindus or christiands or sikhs or even other muslims I will correct them when they have wrong assumptions. Especially when they start throwing false "fatwas" in. Miseducation within muslims themselves is the greatest cause of disrepute amongst muslims.

She should be proud of the fact that at least someone in this day and age tried to do an islamically correct wedding rather than bitch about how she got bored at someone elses wedding cos there was no dancing and music. She can do whatever she likes in her own wedding.

look if it was dat religious then y spend money on hiring cars... u rweeally dono the whole thing n u just goin on n on bout me bitching.... my fwend exactly knew how boring da weddin was.... wats it to u.... i was flippin bored n i will say it ova n ova again.....

[nawtysaika]

like I said, i gave you the verse of the quran as is. I doubt very much youll find Dr Israar saying:

You may show the following to other women:
1. Your hands
2. Your fingernails
3. Your hair
4. your feet
5. Your toenails
6. ....
and so on.

So the quran doesnt mention the above explicitly so does that mean theyre not mentioned you cant show em?


dats y v have hadiths aswel to guide us....
n yeh i told u i dont wna argue more on this till i get time to prooov my point....

[FatGeezer]

look if it was dat religious then y spend money on hiring cars... u rweeally dono the whole thing n u just goin on n on bout me bitching.... my fwend exactly knew how boring da weddin was.... wats it to u.... i was flippin bored n i will say it ova n ova again.....


i see youre still ahving problems with comprehension again.
I addressed this point before.
If they did a few things wrong does that make it ok for them to do EVERYTHING wrong? Why cant you be positive and APPLAUD them for what they did do islamically right instead of bitching about what they did do right?

And i'll keep saying again your a nitwit for bitching about something that is sunnat.

[nawtysaika]

i see youre still ahving problems with comprehension again.
I addressed this point before.
If they did a few things wrong does that make it ok for them to do EVERYTHING wrong? Why cant you be positive and APPLAUD them for what they did do islamically right instead of bitching about what they did do right?

And i'll keep saying again your a nitwit for bitching about something that is sunnat.

IF SUM1 ASKS ME HOW WAS MY DAY.....?

I TELL THEM... OH I WENT TO THIS WEDDING.... THEY ASK ME... DID U HV A GUD TIME... U WANT ME TO LIE TO THEM N SAY AAAAHH I HAD AN AMAZING TIME...?

I WILL TELL EVY1 DA TRUTH.... I WAS BORED BORED BORED.... N U R EVEN BORING DAN DAT!

[FatGeezer]

dats y v have hadiths aswel to guide us....
n yeh i told u i dont wna argue more on this till i get time to prooov my point....
the hadith are just historical documents written by various people. They are not holy in themselves but portray the traditions of Islam. As with all historical documents written by MAN, they may be influenced to error or misconception or change. Many hadith are debated heavily about theyre validity's, and again people with misnomers like yourself assum that the hadith themselves are cast in stone and rival the quran itself.

However the Quran is GOD's word in its original form.

Quran>hadith

[FatGeezer]

IF SUM1 ASKS ME HOW WAS MY DAY.....?

I TELL THEM... OH I WENT TO THIS WEDDING.... THEY ASK ME... DID U HV A GUD TIME... U WANT ME TO LIE TO THEM N SAY AAAAHH I HAD AN AMAZING TIME...?

I WILL TELL EVY1 DA TRUTH.... I WAS BORED BORED BORED.... N U R EVEN BORING DAN DAT!
more incoherencies. You should really look that word up.

NO-ONE ASKED YOU HOW YOUR DAY WAS.

Instead you just made a thread of your own accord bitching about how boring a sunnat was.

[nawtysaika]

more incoherencies. You should really look that word up.

NO-ONE ASKED YOU HOW YOUR DAY WAS.

Instead you just made a thread of your own accord bitching about how boring a sunnat was.


coz most ovda ppl i talk to now know me here so instead ov tellin evy1 individually bout it... i decided to make a thread.... no1 had a problem but summat went up urs...u surely r related to that family rnt u?

[FatGeezer]

coz most ovda ppl i talk to now know me here so instead ov tellin evy1 individually bout it... i decided to make a thread.... no1 had a problem but summat went up urs...u surely r related to that family rnt u?


oh yes im sure that was the case.
Im sure u just didnt want a load of "e-sympathy" about how oh so boring your day was.

Just because no-one else may have picked on or bothered on picking on your misconceptions doesnt mean Im not going to. "muslims" bitch about being picked on by hindus and jews and christians and sikhs but they dont realise how corrupt they themselves are in theyre thinking.

No Im not related to the family but im related to ISLAM and Im PROUD of that and if youre going to speak or spread derogatory comments about it without proof, I WILL STOP YOU in your tracks, no matter what religion or sex or colour or creed you are. Like I said, do what you want at your own wedding but dont bitch about someone following a sunnat at someone elses wedding cos your bitching about Islam directly itself.

[nawtysaika]

oh yes im sure that was the case.
Im sure u just didnt want a load of "e-sympathy" about how oh so boring your day was.

Just because no-one else may have picked on or bothered on picking on your misconceptions doesnt mean Im not going to. "muslims" bitch about being picked on by hindus and jews and christians and sikhs but they dont realise how corrupt they themselves are in theyre thinking.

No Im not related to the family but im related to ISLAM and Im PROUD of that and if youre going to speak or spread derogatory comments about it without proof, I WILL STOP YOU in your tracks, no matter what religion or sex or colour or creed you are. Like I said, do what you want at your own wedding but dont bitch about someone following a sunnat at someone elses wedding cos your bitching about Islam directly itself.


check urself out 1st.... u think u r a good muslim?
B4 U CORRECT OTHERS U RWEEEALLY NEED TO CORRECT URSELF UP AT 1ST N UR COMMENTS ON OTHAS MUM.... (ABOUT FUCKIN SUM1S MUM N CALLIN THEM A DOG) u rweeally got no room to talk n i aint gna reply to ur comment again coz u r just a waste ov time u FATGEEZER.....

[FatGeezer]

check urself out 1st.... u think u r a good muslim?
B4 U CORRECT OTHERS U RWEEEALLY NEED TO CORRECT URSELF UP AT 1ST N UR COMMENTS ON OTHAS MUM.... (ABOUT FUCKIN SUM1S MUM N CALLIN THEM A DOG) u rweeally got no room to talk n i aint gna reply to ur comment again coz u r just a waste ov time u FATGEEZER.....

that word again: coherency....


I explained the difference before. Im not goinf to repeat myself. I didnt bitch on ISLAM itself.

[FatGeezer]

anyway, i thought you were gonna leave a few posts back and not respond until you had the "proof"?

lie much?

[nawtysaika]

anyway, i thought you were gonna leave a few posts back and not respond until you had the "proof"?

lie much?

i said i wont argue on that topic.... bout gurl exposin to a gurl....

gna reply to other stuff..... n dont ask me questions now coz dont wna talk to u :p
n yeh i can c u just enjoyin botherin me.. it wont take u newhere :p

[FatGeezer]

i said i wont argue on that topic.... bout gurl exposin to a gurl....

gna reply to other stuff..... n dont ask me questions now coz dont wna talk to u :p
n yeh i can c u just enjoyin botherin me.. it wont take u newhere :p
if thats how you see correcting you then goodluck to the molvi who marries you.

[nawtysaika]

if thats how you see correcting you then goodluck to the molvi who marries you.

it surely wont b u so dont worry bout it....

[random_buoy]

if thats how you see correcting you then goodluck to the molvi who marries you.

What/who is a molvi?

[FatGeezer]

it surely wont b u so dont worry bout it....
more like thank god it aint gonna be me, and i aint no molvi

[boredatwork]

more like thank god it aint gonna be me, and i aint no molvi

do you believe in "cultural heritige"? What do you see as culture. Or do you only follow whats islamic, and any influences that are native, secular, or other religions should be cleansed. Can muslims from nigeria to morroco to indonesia have seperate cultures?

[ViGiLaNtE-X]

i went to a rweeeally religious weddin.... if one is that religious then y announce a weddin n invite othas

dats wat da invitation card shud say: "come n bore urself" :mad:

da thing that rweeeeally pissed me ov is dat i dint even get to c da groooom....
u shud try sitting thru and indian/sri lankan wedding......its looong......luckily my snoring was drowned out by loud shanahee music

[FatGeezer]

do you believe in "cultural heritige"? What do you see as culture. Or do you only follow whats islamic, and any influences that are native, secular, or other religions should be cleansed. Can muslims from nigeria to morroco to indonesia have seperate cultures?
culture as long as it doesnt interfere or hinder or go against religion is ofcourse a good thing, it gives identity. However most people fail to differentiate between culture and religion. Take fro example "forced marriages", they are completely unislamic yet in desiland and even here in UK amongst desi's, it still happens. On the otherhand take for example drinking alcohol which again ais a strict no no, yet the "muslims" of turkey generally dont have an issue with it whilst obviously in the middle east there is a strict issue with it.

I think culture and religion need to be segregated and viewed independantly before being integrated again.

To some peopl the religion will mean more to them than the culture, in which case religion will take presedence.

However in some cases the culture will mean more than the religion, in which case the culture will take presedence.

With regards to Islam, most people fail to comprehend that being a muslim doesnt just mean reading the quran or praying, its how you live your life in every aspect of it. But I suppose many beleive redemption will be theyres if they simply practice a few aspects of it or have islamic names or islamic parents.

[nawtysaika]

What/who is a molvi?

lol.. i dont even know.... da FATGEEZER mayb knows summat v dont....

[nawtysaika]

more like thank god it aint gonna be me, and i aint no molvi

coz talkin bout fkin othas mums aint gna make u a molvi eitha

[nawtysaika]

u shud try sitting thru and indian/sri lankan wedding......its looong......luckily my snoring was drowned out by loud shanahee music

LoL... hehe

trust me i was trying my best not to yawn... hehe

[larki_jatti]

grrr it really annoys me when people call themselves "muslims" and then think all the external hindu/sikh/western influenced inputs are "muslim" weddings.

You invite others because a marriage is supposed to be an OPEN affair. It shouldnt be done in secret but with as many people as possible present so everyone KNOWS the couple are married, it is supposed to be a joyous occasion that is shared with as many people as possible.

And its quite selfish of you to say that because you go to a wedding to share COUPLES happiness, not for yourself. And that includes RESPECTING however they wish to proceed with the wedding. Youre theyre for THEM, not for YOUR enjoyment.

I'm sure if we go to other extremes you'd be mighty pissed off if someone came on here and posted "I went to an islamic wedding and it was full of kanjirs and marassees dancing and besharam girls everywhere strutting theyre stuff" . Each to theyre own at the end of the day, so sorry the couple couldnt entertain YOU on THEIR wedding day.

Give others some respect for goodness sake.
well said

[boredatwork]

culture as long as it doesnt interfere or hinder or go against religion is ofcourse a good thing, it gives identity. However most people fail to differentiate between culture and religion. Take fro example "forced marriages", they are completely unislamic yet in desiland and even here in UK amongst desi's, it still happens. On the otherhand take for example drinking alcohol which again ais a strict no no, yet the "muslims" of turkey generally dont have an issue with it whilst obviously in the middle east there is a strict issue with it.

I think culture and religion need to be segregated and viewed independantly before being integrated again.

To some peopl the religion will mean more to them than the culture, in which case religion will take presedence.

However in some cases the culture will mean more than the religion, in which case the culture will take presedence.

With regards to Islam, most people fail to comprehend that being a muslim doesnt just mean reading the quran or praying, its how you live your life in every aspect of it. But I suppose many beleive redemption will be theyres if they simply practice a few aspects of it or have islamic names or islamic parents.

Yeah but i cant see how people can keep their culture and strictly follow scripture. Take pakistan. According to scripture you can't follow secular holidays like national day, quaid b'day or independence day, as they are all anniversaries. Then you can't have festivals that are native to punjab like basant, because they originate from other religions, even though they have been celebrated in lahore for centuries. Same goes for norouz and Zoroastrian. And the flashy elaborate dresses which clash with the need dress simply.

At the end of day a great deal of culture will have pre Islamic undertones. How do muslims reconcile what they have always followed in their families, with the need to be purely islamic. Arent you denying pakistani heritage by saying eliminating everything that is not islamic. What is left of pakistani culture if you strip out anything that vaguely conflicts with islam?

[Seeeeeeema]

shes seen him but shes never talked to him tho
gosh what if he has a lisp... scary!

[nawtysaika]

gosh what if he has a lisp... scary!

whoooopsi... hehe

[nawtysaika]

Yeah but i cant see how people can keep their culture and strictly follow scripture. Take pakistan. According to scripture you can't follow secular holidays like national day, quaid b'day or independence day, as they are all anniversaries. Then you can't have festivals that are native to punjab like basant, because they originate from other religions, even though they have been celebrated in lahore for centuries. Same goes for norouz and Zoroastrian. And the flashy elaborate dresses which clash with the need dress simply.

At the end of day a great deal of culture will have pre Islamic undertones. How do muslims reconcile what they have always followed in their families, with the need to be purely islamic. Arent you denying pakistani heritage by saying eliminating everything that is not islamic. What is left of pakistani culture if you strip out anything that vaguely conflicts with islam?

hmm... :sarb:

[FatGeezer]

Yeah but i cant see how people can keep their culture and strictly follow scripture. Take pakistan. According to scripture you can't follow secular holidays like national day, quaid b'day or independence day, as they are all anniversaries. Then you can't have festivals that are native to punjab like basant, because they originate from other religions, even though they have been celebrated in lahore for centuries. Same goes for norouz and Zoroastrian. And the flashy elaborate dresses which clash with the need dress simply.

At the end of day a great deal of culture will have pre Islamic undertones. How do muslims reconcile what they have always followed in their families, with the need to be purely islamic. Arent you denying pakistani heritage by saying eliminating everything that is not islamic. What is left of pakistani culture if you strip out anything that vaguely conflicts with islam?


You fail to recognise Islam is a culture in itself that promotes social integration.

According to WHAT scripture can you not celebrate independance day? but theyre are WAYS of celebrating. Dancing around is not Islamic. Having all the family around or visiting other people and socialising IS islamic. According to your theories the only way you can "celebrate" is to do things completely contradictory to Islam, not so.

Basant is a hindu tradition. Islam does not pretend to neither claims to compromise itself for other religions. Celebrating festivals which are contradictory to Islamic faith is plain and simple wrong within Islam. So what if its been celebrated for centuries? If after following the wrong path for years you discover the right path, why should you carry on following the wrong path for purely sentimental reasons?

With regards to dressing in nice clothes there is nothing wrong with that. It ALL has to do with INTENTION. People nowadays dont realise that within Islam, Intention is the fundamental beleif. If your intentions for wearing nice clothes is to feel good for yourself and to share the joy of celebration then there is nothing wrong with that, however if your intention of dressing up is so you can strut your tits'n'arse or to get attention from the opposite sex (aside from people who are mehram to you) then it is wrong. Infact within Islam it is sunnat to dress well on fridays and especially on eid days, with new clothes, as in those days you are making an extra effort to go present yourself in front of God.

Pakistans Heritage started in 1947 with Islam as its cornerstone. Any history before that is Indian history. Like I said, once you discover the right path, following the wrong path for purely sentimental reasons is competely wrong. Its like quitting smoking cos its gonna kill you but then yet still doing it quite regularly cos you remember it felt good, ultimately it means you havent quit smoking at all. Likewise if you claim to be muslim yet cant let go of your non-muslim roots then your faith needs serious readress.

When Islam became prevalent at its advent and alcohol was forbidden, the streets of arabia were flooded with it when everyone emptied their stockpiles. Islam does not compromise with culture.

Either you put religion first or you put culture first. The decision is upto each and everyone themselves. But dont be a hypocrite by claiming to subscribe to the faith and yet still be derogatory about it. Thats what pisses me off. Everyone makes mistakes and does wrong, no-one is perfect and no-ones faith is perfect. But standing there and slandering your own religion is a complete different league to doing wrong.

Oh, and if you refer to "scriptures" or any other text/statements I'd like to see the source pease just in case it has been misinterperated or misunderstood. It is always best to be clear with such things when talking about decisions or interpretations of faith.

[boredatwork]

You fail to recognise Islam is a culture in itself that promotes social integration.

According to WHAT scripture can you not celebrate independance day? but theyre are WAYS of celebrating. Dancing around is not Islamic. Having all the family around or visiting other people and socialising IS islamic. According to your theories the only way you can "celebrate" is to do things completely contradictory to Islam, not so.

My understanding was that anniversaries/birthdays should not be celebrated. I cant quote verses myself, i don't claim to be an expert. Its something people told me. I think it was related to new years party/birthday party (without alcohol/dancing) just fireworks, food and friends that my pious friends objected too.

Basant is a hindu tradition. Islam does not pretend to neither claims to compromise itself for other religions. Celebrating festivals which are contradictory to Islamic faith is plain and simple wrong within Islam. So what if its been celebrated for centuries? If after following the wrong path for years you discover the right path, why should you carry on following the wrong path for purely sentimental reasons?

Well a lot of the culture can be deemed to be following the "wrong" path. I am simply saying that following the "right" path will fundamentally change the culture and identity of all muslim countries. I would consider that unfortunate as you are losing centuries of tradition. You may consider as worthwhile sacrifice, as Islam is all about sacrifices.

With regards to dressing in nice clothes there is nothing wrong with that. It ALL has to do with INTENTION. People nowadays dont realise that within Islam, Intention is the fundamental beleif. If your intentions for wearing nice clothes is to feel good for yourself and to share the joy of celebration then there is nothing wrong with that, however if your intention of dressing up is so you can strut your tits'n'arse or to get attention from the opposite sex (aside from people who are mehram to you) then it is wrong. Infact within Islam it is sunnat to dress well on fridays and especially on eid days, with new clothes, as in those days you are making an extra effort to go present yourself in front of God.

I meant the jewelry and embroidery that most Pakistani weddings have. Its part of the culture, but such excess are probably looked down in Islam.

Pakistans Heritage started in 1947 with Islam as its cornerstone. Any history before that is Indian history. Like I said, once you discover the right path, following the wrong path for purely sentimental reasons is competely wrong. Its like quitting smoking cos its gonna kill you but then yet still doing it quite regularly cos you remember it felt good, ultimately it means you havent quit smoking at all. Likewise if you claim to be muslim yet cant let go of your non-muslim roots then your faith needs serious readress.

By Pakistani i meant punjabi, sindhi, pathan etc culture. Pakistan doesn't have a culture, peoples culture is based on their provinces.

I agree. And the problem seems to be you either follow puritanical islam or nothing. Anytime people will do that is cultural but doesnt conform to scripture, they will be deemed as non-muslims. I would again say that unfortunate and unrealistic to let go off everything in their family heritage. But on the other hand they cant stop being of muslim hertige. Both parts are part of their heritage and thats just who they are.

Most "muslims" want to keep both parts, and its something that those who want a pure islam will have to deal with. You may say that they are not muslims, but they dont consider themselves anything else.

When Islam became prevalent at its advent and alcohol was forbidden, the streets of arabia were flooded with it when everyone emptied their stockpiles. Islam does not compromise with culture.

Either you put religion first or you put culture first. The decision is upto each and everyone themselves. But dont be a hypocrite by claiming to subscribe to the faith and yet still be derogatory about it. Thats what pisses me off. Everyone makes mistakes and does wrong, no-one is perfect and no-ones faith is perfect. But standing there and slandering your own religion is a complete different league to doing wrong.

Oh, and if you refer to "scriptures" or any other text/statements I'd like to see the source pease just in case it has been misinterperated or misunderstood. It is always best to be clear with such things when talking about decisions or interpretations of faith.

[larki_jatti]

You fail to recognise Islam is a culture in itself that promotes social integration.

According to WHAT scripture can you not celebrate independance day? but theyre are WAYS of celebrating. Dancing around is not Islamic. Having all the family around or visiting other people and socialising IS islamic. According to your theories the only way you can "celebrate" is to do things completely contradictory to Islam, not so.

My understanding was that anniversaries/birthdays should not be celebrated. I cant quote verses myself, i don't claim to be an expert. Its something people told me. I think it was related to new years party/birthday party (without alcohol/dancing) just fireworks, food and friends that my pious friends objected too.

Basant is a hindu tradition. Islam does not pretend to neither claims to compromise itself for other religions. Celebrating festivals which are contradictory to Islamic faith is plain and simple wrong within Islam. So what if its been celebrated for centuries? If after following the wrong path for years you discover the right path, why should you carry on following the wrong path for purely sentimental reasons?

Well a lot of the culture can be deemed to be following the "wrong" path. I am simply saying that following the "right" path will fundamentally change the culture and identity of all muslim countries. I would consider that unfortunate as you are losing centuries of tradition. You may consider as worthwhile sacrifice, as Islam is all about sacrifices.

With regards to dressing in nice clothes there is nothing wrong with that. It ALL has to do with INTENTION. People nowadays dont realise that within Islam, Intention is the fundamental beleif. If your intentions for wearing nice clothes is to feel good for yourself and to share the joy of celebration then there is nothing wrong with that, however if your intention of dressing up is so you can strut your tits'n'arse or to get attention from the opposite sex (aside from people who are mehram to you) then it is wrong. Infact within Islam it is sunnat to dress well on fridays and especially on eid days, with new clothes, as in those days you are making an extra effort to go present yourself in front of God.

I meant the jewelry and embroidery that most Pakistani weddings have. Its part of the culture, but such excess are probably looked down in Islam.

Pakistans Heritage started in 1947 with Islam as its cornerstone. Any history before that is Indian history. Like I said, once you discover the right path, following the wrong path for purely sentimental reasons is competely wrong. Its like quitting smoking cos its gonna kill you but then yet still doing it quite regularly cos you remember it felt good, ultimately it means you havent quit smoking at all. Likewise if you claim to be muslim yet cant let go of your non-muslim roots then your faith needs serious readress.

By Pakistani i meant punjabi, sindhi, pathan etc culture. Pakistan doesn't have a culture, peoples culture is based on their provinces.

I agree. And the problem seems to be you either follow puritanical islam or nothing. Anytime people will do that is cultural but doesnt conform to scripture, they will be deemed as non-muslims. I would again say that unfortunate and unrealistic to let go off everything in their family heritage. But on the other hand they cant stop being of muslim hertige. Both parts are part of their heritage and thats just who they are.

Most "muslims" want to keep both parts, and its something that those who want a pure islam will have to deal with. You may say that they are not muslims, but they dont consider themselves anything else.

When Islam became prevalent at its advent and alcohol was forbidden, the streets of arabia were flooded with it when everyone emptied their stockpiles. Islam does not compromise with culture.

Either you put religion first or you put culture first. The decision is upto each and everyone themselves. But dont be a hypocrite by claiming to subscribe to the faith and yet still be derogatory about it. Thats what pisses me off. Everyone makes mistakes and does wrong, no-one is perfect and no-ones faith is perfect. But standing there and slandering your own religion is a complete different league to doing wrong.

Oh, and if you refer to "scriptures" or any other text/statements I'd like to see the source pease just in case it has been misinterperated or misunderstood. It is always best to be clear with such things when talking about decisions or interpretations of faith.


So basically its okay to compromise your faith and not adhere to it as it deserves, as long as you stick to your 'culture'? Sounds like someones priorities arent straight. I dont see anything sad in letting go of a bit of culture which doesnt benefit us in anyway. Islam is not only a religion, its a complete lifestyle.

[boredatwork]

So basically its okay to compromise your faith and not adhere to it as it deserves, as long as you stick to your 'culture'? Sounds like someones priorities arent straight. I dont see anything sad in letting go of a bit of culture which doesnt benefit us in anyway. Islam is not only a religion, its a complete lifestyle.

I didnt say its okay. I just said people have an innate desire to stick with their family heritage. They will do so even if that means being less muslim. It may not be right but it will happen because its human nature.

Are you saying your wedding will be under strict islamic ways, with no cultural influences? Split sexes, with limited or no music and dancing. Good for you. But i dont plan on doing so. Even if it compromises my faith because it just the way it happens in our family.