Accept A Person For Who They Are....Not What You Want Them To Be..

[FlyDesiGrl]

why do people always date someone, and then try to change them?

you meet a nice guy/girl...you like each other alot....yet one of you isn't entirely happy, so you try to change the other person.

well what the fuck for? aren't you defeating the entire purpose of liking this person in the first place??

you like them for who they are, yet you want to change a quality about them? youre supposed to like everything about the person.

if you don't like them..dump them and move on, and make both of your lives alot easier and hassle free.

what y'all think?

[suhailio]

Yeh i agree.

[Felonius Monk]

What the hell are you on about? :drdodgy:

[the gothman]

You don't have to 'accept', per se. I would rather use the word "chose" than "accept". Having choices is great.

[-sgt-]

yea , i agree with that .. uv loved them first for who they were originally .. and y bother changing them?? :sarb: .. its fkd up ..

[FlyDesiGrl]

What the hell are you on about? :drdodgy:
stop being difficult monk! it wasn't written in double dutch, my friend!

[mr photographer]

why do people always date someone, and then try to change them?

you meet a nice guy/girl...you like each other alot....yet one of you isn't entirely happy, so you try to change the other person.

well what the fuck for? aren't you defeating the entire purpose of liking this person in the first place??

you like them for who they are, yet you want to change a quality about them? youre supposed to like everything about the person.

if you don't like them..dump them and move on, and make both of your lives alot easier and hassle free.

what y'all think?

and it's girls that are always trying to change the guy :p

[Clueless_uk]

dating is pointless end of story






ps men need to be changed....and women must change....it comes from thier innate need to mother

[Shh! Dont tell]

why do people always date someone, and then try to change them?

you meet a nice guy/girl...you like each other alot....yet one of you isn't entirely happy, so you try to change the other person.

well what the fuck for? aren't you defeating the entire purpose of liking this person in the first place??

you like them for who they are, yet you want to change a quality about them? youre supposed to like everything about the person.

if you don't like them..dump them and move on, and make both of your lives alot easier and hassle free.

what y'all think?

Ditto.


Yet stupid people out there like to change them...

I only change habit like.. smoking or drinking too much.. stuff thats bad. But if i cant i give up and let them be.

[FlyDesiGrl]

You don't have to 'accept', per se. I would rather use the word "chose" than "accept". Having choices is great.
choices are fine, but should there be a middle ground?? you should know if you like a person or not..for who they are.

[Manay]

dating is pointless end of story

*W3rd*

[FlyDesiGrl]

and it's girls that are always trying to change the guy :p
im not disagreeing with that, Sohail.

Most of the time, it is the female trying to change the male.

But sometimes, guys do it too.

[Felonius Monk]

stop being difficult monk! it wasn't written in double dutch, my friend!
Here's the dealy. I've only ever met one perfect woman in my life and I can't have her.

The rest need to be brainwashed so they fit the profile. :drdodgy:

[Manay]

Nikki how many time u've dated ?

[UnevenButtocks]

I kind of agree with you...but sometimes you can have someone who is overall really great, but has one bad trait or habit or whatever. Like...say they like to pick their boogers. A lot. I'd try to change someone if they were like that. ;)

[southystyle]

...

[FlyDesiGrl]

Ditto.


Yet stupid people out there like to change them...

I only change habit like.. smoking or drinking too much.. stuff thats bad. But if i cant i give up and let them be.
habits are something else. i would drop my bad habits for a guy, if i liked him enough, and he asked me to stop the habit.

but changing a person's personality to fit your criteria is asking for a swift kick in the arse...

[southystyle]

a person should be what i want them to be

[UnevenButtocks]

Here's the dealy. I've only ever met one perfect woman in my life and I can't have her.

The rest need to be brainwashed so they fit the profile. :drdodgy:


That's what happens when you fall in love with female characters from japanese porn :lol:

[JOHNNY K-BAR]

and it's girls that are always trying to change the guy :p
exactly...Havent ever met a guy trying to change a girl....Met some that tried getting her to not go out as much...but thats acting out of posessiveness and jelousy

[FlyDesiGrl]

Here's the dealy. I've only ever met one perfect woman in my life and I can't have her.

The rest need to be brainwashed so they fit the profile. :drdodgy:
we always want what we cant have. its sad.

[mr photographer]

im not disagreeing with that, Sohail.

Most of the time, it is the female trying to change the male.

But sometimes, guys do it too.

guys dont try to change the girl, they just try to keep them under a padlock key and stop them from doing things

whereas girls actually physically try and change the guy to mould them into something they want them to be

:rolleyes:

[FlyDesiGrl]

Nikki how many time u've dated ?
now isnt the time, silly boy!!! and the number is irrelevent!

[Felonius Monk]

That's what happens when you fall in love with female characters from japanese porn :lol:
:ashamed: Don't ruin it.

[FlyDesiGrl]

I kind of agree with you...but sometimes you can have someone who is overall really great, but has one bad trait or habit or whatever. Like...say they like to pick their boogers. A lot. I'd try to change someone if they were like that. ;)
yeah, like i was telling Clueless UK..habits are one thing...

but changing one's personality is cause for dismissal.

[FlyDesiGrl]

That's what happens when you fall in love with female characters from japanese porn :lol:
:lol: MORNING PEACHES! :bhapi: how was your commute to work today?! :D

[the gothman]

But in my personal life, I expect my woman to change for me. It for her better anyways.

[southystyle]

why do people always date someone, and then try to change them?

you meet a nice guy/girl...you like each other alot....yet one of you isn't entirely happy, so you try to change the other person.

well what the fuck for? aren't you defeating the entire purpose of liking this person in the first place??

you like them for who they are, yet you want to change a quality about them? youre supposed to like everything about the person.

if you don't like them..dump them and move on, and make both of your lives alot easier and hassle free.

what y'all think?

its just like a car...

say u start off with a '98 celica...u really like the car, it has alot of potential, but you aren't 100% happy with it

so you do some work on it...new engine...bodykit...rims etc.

you still have the '98 celica you originally liked, but now its better than ever..!

:mrhappy: :mrhappy: :mrhappy:

[Clueless_uk]

yeah, like i was telling Clueless UK..habits are one thing...

but changing one's personality is cause for dismissal.

u cant change som1s personality in the long run...I tried som1 to stop flirting with other women...well...it never worked.

[FlyDesiGrl]

guys dont try to change the girl, they just try to keep them under a padlock key and stop them from doing things

whereas girls actually physically try and change the guy to mould them into something they want them to be

:rolleyes:
ok, but im not talking about physically change a person. i was more talking about personality here.

and like i said, i dont disgaree with you, so stop rolling your eyes at me!!

girls do try to mould a man to how they would like him to be. and those types of girls are stupid.

i dont understand it...it defeats the entire purpose...:no:

[Felonius Monk]

we always want what we cant have. its sad.
How is it sad? Its great. Now I know what I want to brainwash the rest into.

:drdodgy:

[FlyDesiGrl]

But in my personal life, I expect my woman to change for me. It for her better anyways.
lol, :no:

[UnevenButtocks]

yeah, like i was telling Clueless UK..habits are one thing...

but changing one's personality is cause for dismissal.

We all have certain personality flaws. And most of the times we know what they are and want to change them ourselves. But God forbid A MAN should come into my life and try to help me in that department, no, I'd dump him in a heartbeat :rolleyes: :lol:

My point is, sometimes it isn't right for someone to try to change you but it is possible that some "changes" may do you good and you'd have to evaluate them on case by case basis. And besides, it takes a while for someone to know someone else (can you ever really do that??). What if you learn about a character flaw of theirs way down the road when you've already invested time, energy and feelings into that person?

[Felonius Monk]

its just like a car...

say u start off with a '98 celica...u really like the car, it has alot of potential, but you aren't 100% happy with it

so you do some work on it...new engine...bodykit...rims etc.

you still have the '98 celica you originally liked, but now its better than ever..!

:mrhappy: :mrhappy: :mrhappy:
The woman-car parallel always makes me smile. :drdodgy:

[FlyDesiGrl]

its just like a car...

say u start off with a '98 celica...u really like the car, it has alot of potential, but you aren't 100% happy with it

so you do some work on it...new engine...bodykit...rims etc.

you still have the '98 celica you originally liked, but now its better than ever..!

:mrhappy: :mrhappy: :mrhappy:
i dont believe in that bollocks....cars cant be compared to humans...BAHHHHHH!!!

think, my friend, think! should you give another example..use humans, please! :D

[FlyDesiGrl]

u cant change som1s personality in the long run...I tried som1 to stop flirting with other women...well...it never worked.
why do you think cheaters never learn? once they start, they cant stop...they dont know any better...

cheaters are bastards and deserve to be stabbed in the eye :D

[UnevenButtocks]

:lol: MORNING PEACHES! :bhapi: how was your commute to work today?! :D


:rofl: you just had to ask...I had to walk in the rain and now I'm wet up to my ass.


Morning baby :cuddle:

[Felonius Monk]

We all have certain personality flaws. blah blah blah ....
Think before you make these gross and inaccurate generalizations. :drdodgy:

[FlyDesiGrl]

How is it sad? Its great. Now I know what I want to brainwash the rest into.

:drdodgy:
lol, you joker!!!

[southystyle]

i dont believe in that bollocks....cars cant be compared to humans...BAHHHHHH!!!

think, my friend, think! should you give another example..use humans, please! :D
humans suck

they don't get me from point A to point B

[UnevenButtocks]

:ashamed: Don't ruin it.


What's her name this time, Aiko, Chieko, Ayano? :lol:

[Felonius Monk]

lol, you joker!!!
I'm totally serious, and I'm going to do it. The only problem is you can't brainwash someone into having a great ass. :drdodgy:

[UnevenButtocks]

Think before you make these gross and inaccurate generalizations. :drdodgy:


I'm sorry, I forgot you're perfect. And what's with the idiotic emoticon you keep on using? Reminds me of your unibrow :lol:

[FlyDesiGrl]

We all have certain personality flaws. And most of the times we know what they are and want to change them ourselves. But God forbid A MAN should come into my life and try to help me in that department, no, I'd dump him in a heartbeat :rolleyes: :lol:

My point is, sometimes it isn't right for someone to try to change you but it is possible that some "changes" may do you good and you'd have to evaluate them on case by case basis. And besides, it takes a while for someone to know someone else (can you ever really do that??). What if you learn about a character flaw of theirs way down the road when you've already invested time, energy and feelings into that person?
pointing out a person's flaw(s) should it/they be so bad...then thats fine. because the change would be a positive one. but its up to the person to make that change, and as long as both agree its the right thing, then thats good stuff.

and if youve already invested so much time and effort with a person, and later discover a flaw....i would say that by then you should accept it already...or if youre really really THAT unhappy with the flaw...leave them. dont try to change it, just because it bothers you that much.

[mr photographer]

ok, but im not talking about physically change a person. i was more talking about personality here.

and like i said, i dont disgaree with you, so stop rolling your eyes at me!!

girls do try to mould a man to how they would like him to be. and those types of girls are stupid.

i dont understand it...it defeats the entire purpose...:no:

thats a damn big majority there :D

[Felonius Monk]

What's her name this time, Aiko, Chieko, Ayano? :lol:
Are you mocking my love? I'll have you know that she's ninja enough to poison your morning tea if you hurt my feelings. :drdodgy:

[FlyDesiGrl]

:rofl: you just had to ask...I had to walk in the rain and now I'm wet up to my ass.


Morning baby :cuddle:
i always ask about your morning commute! :bhapi: its a ritual! :cuddle:

you poor baby, i dont like that :( are you drying off and taking care of yourself?! :D

[FlyDesiGrl]

humans suck

they don't get me from point A to point B
are you a mutant?! :D

[Clueless_uk]

why do you think cheaters never learn? once they start, they cant stop...they dont know any better...

cheaters are bastards and deserve to be stabbed in the eye :D

That might have worked...thanks for the tip

[southystyle]

are you a mutant?! :D
if u want :eyebrow:

[FlyDesiGrl]

I'm totally serious, and I'm going to do it. The only problem is you can't brainwash someone into having a great ass. :drdodgy:
well there is nothing wrong in finding someone who fits your criteria. you once met this perfect girl..now you know what youre looking for!!

and make her do squats i guess? :dunno:

[Felonius Monk]

I'm sorry, I forgot you're perfect. And what's with the idiotic emoticon you keep on using? Reminds me of your unibrow :lol:
Apology accepted. The icon is my tribute to Dr. Dodgy. Icon of all that is good and true and just in this dirty world we live in.


Bonus wisdom

Dr. Dodgy say a conscience is that inner voice that tells us someone may be watching.

[UnevenButtocks]

pointing out a person's flaw(s) should it/they be so bad...then thats fine. because the change would be a positive one. but its up to the person to make that change, and as long as both agree its the right thing, then thats good stuff.

and if youve already invested so much time and effort with a person, and later discover a flaw....i would say that by then you should accept it already...or if youre really really THAT unhappy with the flaw...leave them. dont try to change it, just because it bothers you that much.

I see what you're saying...but I'll try to change them first and then if it doesn't work, I'll leave them. Some people don't mind being changed.

[FlyDesiGrl]

thats a damn big majority there :D
stop trying to push my buttons, sohail! its not working! and i still agree with you...

females are dumb and try to change a man..its pathetic...and i feel so ashamed of being a female because of that :no: *sigh* what a sad sad world!

but then again, men shouldnt be such kawks! :p

[Felonius Monk]

well there is nothing wrong in finding someone who fits your criteria. you once met this perfect girl..now you know what youre looking for!!

and make her do squats i guess? :dunno:
You've lost me again. Talk sense woman!

But yeah, squats are a good idea. In a sheep suit. :drdodgy:

[King Ghidra]

why do people always date someone, and then try to change them?

you meet a nice guy/girl...you like each other alot....yet one of you isn't entirely happy, so you try to change the other person.

well what the fuck for? aren't you defeating the entire purpose of liking this person in the first place??

you like them for who they are, yet you want to change a quality about them? youre supposed to like everything about the person.

if you don't like them..dump them and move on, and make both of your lives alot easier and hassle free.

what y'all think?

If people try to change me, it's like they are doubting me, and we cannot let that happen.

WHO ARE THEY TO DOUBT KING GHIDRA?

Serious note - :werd: totally agree.

[FatGeezer]

yeah, like i was telling Clueless UK..habits are one thing...

but changing one's personality is cause for dismissal.
but peoples personalities change as they grow anyway and external influences affect them.

thats why the secret to a good relATionship is to go along with the person and adapt and compromise with each other. youre not going to be the same personality that you were at 15 when your 25

[FlyDesiGrl]

That might have worked...thanks for the tip
omg, ive never stabbed a cheater :lol:

be careful, woman!! dont do anything irrational!!

[UnevenButtocks]

Apology accepted. The icon is my tribute to Dr. Dodgy. Icon of all that is good and true and just in this dirty world we live in.


Bonus wisdom

Dr. Dodgy say a conscience is that inner voice that tells us someone may be watching.


Wow, that's deep. *yawn*

[southystyle]

I'm totally serious, and I'm going to do it. The only problem is you can't brainwash someone into having a great ass. :drdodgy:
just kick/slap/punch that tush till it gets swollen

[FlyDesiGrl]

if u want :eyebrow:
buahahahahaahhaa, you can be a teenage mutuant ninja turtle on weekends..since you love martial arts n shit too...:D

[JOHNNY K-BAR]

We all have certain personality flaws. And most of the times we know what they are and want to change them ourselves. But God forbid A MAN should come into my life and try to help me in that department, no, I'd dump him in a heartbeat :rolleyes: :lol:

My point is, sometimes it isn't right for someone to try to change you but it is possible that some "changes" may do you good and you'd have to evaluate them on case by case basis. And besides, it takes a while for someone to know someone else (can you ever really do that??). What if you learn about a character flaw of theirs way down the road when you've already invested time, energy and feelings into that person?
Ill change Anything about me for you...even my underwear

[UnevenButtocks]

Are you mocking my love? I'll have you know that she's ninja enough to poison your morning tea if you hurt my feelings. :drdodgy:

Too bad I'm not a tea drinker :lol:

[UnevenButtocks]

Ill change Anything about me for you...even my underwear


Oh my Lord, would I even have to tell you to change your underwear!? :lol:

[FlyDesiGrl]

I see what you're saying...but I'll try to change them first and then if it doesn't work, I'll leave them. Some people don't mind being changed.
no harm in trying, i suppose.

when you care for someone THAT much..you will do all you can to make them understand you. but unfortunatly, some people dont see it that way. thats when you best to just depart.

[FlyDesiGrl]

You've lost me again. Talk sense woman!

But yeah, squats are a good idea. In a sheep suit. :drdodgy:
you need a generic fembot, my friend! one with a perky ass, and some nice machine gun jubblies! :D why dont you program her the way youd like her to be aswell! :D

[Felonius Monk]

just kick/slap/punch that tush till it gets swollen
spank spank. :drdodgy:

[Felonius Monk]

Ill change Anything about me for you...even my underwear
lol. :drdodgy:

[FlyDesiGrl]

If people try to change me, it's like they are doubting me, and we cannot let that happen.

WHO ARE THEY TO DOUBT KING GHIDRA?

Serious note - :werd: totally agree.
we agree on so many things!! wonderful!

OYE! :squint: i have a point to prove, im waiting for my PM from you! :lol:

[FlyDesiGrl]

but peoples personalities change as they grow anyway and external influences affect them.

thats why the secret to a good relATionship is to go along with the person and adapt and compromise with each other. youre not going to be the same personality that you were at 15 when your 25
yeah true say...what you said is right. people change over time...and its a natural occurance...

with that being said...people who forcefully try to change a person/mould them to the way they want then to be...

are going against that natural change...its bollocks!

[FlyDesiGrl]

Oh my Lord, would I even have to tell you to change your underwear!? :lol:
:lol:

[Shh! Dont tell]

habits are something else. i would drop my bad habits for a guy, if i liked him enough, and he asked me to stop the habit.

but changing a person's personality to fit your criteria is asking for a swift kick in the arse...
Then why even go with them?


Maybe the person just went out with for looks. In my opinion, Only Shallow people do that.

[King Ghidra]

we agree on so many things!! wonderful!

OYE! :squint: i have a point to prove, im waiting for my PM from you! :lol:

Sometimes it's the flaws that attract you. But you are un aware of it. It's when you change someone you grow apart because that's not the person you cared for.

Indeed, i'm calling a rain check on the PM i ain't meeting no one until wednesday. :sniff:

[FatGeezer]

yeah true say...what you said is right. people change over time...and its a natural occurance...

with that being said...people who forcefully try to change a person/mould them to the way they want then to be...

are going against that natural change...its bollocks!


just use the typical girl response "youve changed not me...."

[JOHNNY K-BAR]

Oh my Lord, would I even have to tell you to change your underwear!? :lol:
:anxious: ummmm...ahhh...so your not supposed to?

[FlyDesiGrl]

Then why even go with them?


Maybe the person just went out with for looks. In my opinion, Only Shallow people do that.
thats what im saying!!

if its just for looks, thats completely being shallow. blah, those people piss me off too.

:lol: :no:

[Night Fox]

The problem with brown people is, they go for someone who is attractive only...then later they worry about the persons personality, and thats usually after a while of personality clashes. Asian people tend to 'use' their partners attractiveness as a tool in terms of regarding themselves as sucessful people.

[FlyDesiGrl]

Sometimes it's the flaws that attract you. But you are un aware of it. It's when you change someone you grow apart because that's not the person you cared for.

Indeed, i'm calling a rain check on the PM i ain't meeting no one until wednesday. :sniff:
absolute true say, mate. well said.

sometimes we do fall for the flaws in a person. its why chicks dig bad guys. the flaws turn them on i suppose. rebelliousness.

and again, true say...when you change them..thats when you drift apart...its really sad :no:

[Shh! Dont tell]

thats what im saying!!

if its just for looks, thats completely being shallow. blah, those people piss me off too.

:lol: :no:
:lol:


I havent dated much... but yes that pisses me off but what pisses me off evenmore is when the girl is being completely shallow, and yet askes for her "prince charming".




Batameez Lok. :no:

You get what you do.

[FlyDesiGrl]

just use the typical girl response "youve changed not me...."
:lol: good answer! :lol:

[UnevenButtocks]

:anxious: ummmm...ahhh...so your not supposed to


no, you're supposed to do that on your own!! :no:


Although...didn't you once tell me you don't wear any? :sarb:

[FlyDesiGrl]

The problem with brown people is, they go for someone who is attractive only...then later they worry about the persons personality, and thats usually after a while of personality clashes. Asian people tend to 'use' their partners attractiveness as a tool in terms of regarding themselves as sucessful people.
brown people are pretty shallow. another sad thing :no: looks mean everything to brown people and their families. look at arranged marriages..if the guy/girl looks a bit ugly in their eyes..they flip shit...oh and he/she must be a white ghost! :D gori/gora is beautifullllll!! omg! :D :no:

[the gothman]

The problem with brown people is, they go for someone who is attractive only...then later they worry about the persons personality, and thats usually after a while of personality clashes. Asian people tend to 'use' their partners attractiveness as a tool in terms of regarding themselves as sucessful people.

alright. So lets get this "brown people" issue out of the way. Brown people this...brown people that...

thats like saying that brown people breath, or brown people get an occassional case of explosive diarrhea. All humans are governed by the same drives and desires, you dunce coon. Unless you have discovered a different species that you have code named "brown people"

[UnevenButtocks]

:lol:


I havent dated much... but yes that pisses me off but what pisses me off evenmore is when the girl is being completely shallow, and yet askes for her "prince charming".




Batameez Lok. :no:

You get what you do.

Maybe her prince charming is someone as shallow as her. I know an extremely shallow couple who is all for/into themselves. Not individually as much, it's like they got together and blended their damn principles and now they're one big ass mass of shallowness. Or maybe he's just gay.

[King Ghidra]

absolute true say, mate. well said.

sometimes we do fall for the flaws in a person. its why chicks dig bad guys. the flaws turn them on i suppose. rebelliousness.

and again, true say...when you change them..thats when you drift apart...its really sad :no:

I should have been a bad guy, put a stone in my shoe...it's all so easy. :mad:

[Shh! Dont tell]

brown people are pretty shallow. another sad thing :no: looks mean everything to brown people and their families. look at arranged marriages..if the guy/girl looks a bit ugly in their eyes..they flip shit...oh and he/she must be a white ghost! :D gori/gora is beautifullllll!! omg! :D :no:
:rofl:


hahahahaha sorry but that soooo true!!! Another reason why i hate arranged marriages... Cuz of stupid adult who think being white is beautiful.




Being brown is hott yo!!!! :rockon:

[FlyDesiGrl]

:lol:


I havent dated much... but yes that pisses me off but what pisses me off evenmore is when the girl is being completely shallow, and yet askes for her "prince charming".




Batameez Lok. :no:

You get what you do.
girls seriously are dumb creatures...:no: sometimes i dont blame guys for feeling the way they do...women are just full of shit! its the damn truth!

sorry ladies, i still believe in Girl Power!! :D

[UnevenButtocks]

brown people are pretty shallow. another sad thing :no: looks mean everything to brown people and their families. look at arranged marriages..if the guy/girl looks a bit ugly in their eyes..they flip shit...oh and he/she must be a white ghost! :D gori/gora is beautifullllll!! omg! :D :no:

thanks wench, I love you too:D

[FlyDesiGrl]

I should have been a bad guy, put a stone in my shoe...it's all so easy. :mad:
now why would you want to do such a thing? youre not like that! ;)

[King Ghidra]

girls seriously are dumb creatures...:no: sometimes i dont blame guys for feeling the way they do...women are just full of shit! its the damn truth!

sorry ladies, i still believe in Girl Power!! :D

QUOTED.......

[Shh! Dont tell]

Maybe her prince charming is someone as shallow as her. I know an extremely shallow couple who is all for/into themselves. Not individually as much, it's like they got together and blended their damn principles and now they're one big ass mass of shallowness. Or maybe he's just gay.
:gayfight:



And then... they are gonna have shallow kids. :no: like there werent enough already... :no:



on a side note... does someone know how to upload videos so the music isnt ten seconds ahead... or ten seconds behind?

[Felonius Monk]

alright. So lets get this "brown people" issue out of the way. Brown people this...brown people that...

thats like saying that brown people breath, or brown people get an occassional case of explosive diarrhea. All humans are governed by the same drives and desires, you dunce coon. Unless you have discovered a different species that you have code named "brown people"
I heard brown people have bigger penises. Even the chicks. :drdodgy:

[FlyDesiGrl]

:rofl:


hahahahaha sorry but that soooo true!!! Another reason why i hate arranged marriages... Cuz of stupid adult who think being white is beautiful.




Being brown is hott yo!!!! :rockon:
you should be proud of your color..not make yourself bloody white. who the fuck said white is the universal skin tone?

dumbasses...

i have some friends who are desi who go to get bleaching treatments on theit faces n shit....and they wear full sleeve in the summer just to keep their arms white? WTF??

my face is white, yet i have brown arms..for fucks sake, im a bloody zebra crossing :no: brown arms, white face, brown feet, white legs..i mean fuckin A...i love being a zebra! :rofl:

[Felonius Monk]

girls seriously are dumb creatures...:no: sometimes i dont blame guys for feeling the way they do...women are just full of shit! its the damn truth!

sorry ladies, i still believe in Girl Power!! :D
This is how George Bush got elected. :drdodgy:

[UnevenButtocks]

QUOTED.......


shut up pauper prince

[the gothman]

Sometimes it's the flaws that attract you. But you are un aware of it. It's when you change someone you grow apart because that's not the person you cared for.

Indeed, i'm calling a rain check on the PM i ain't meeting no one until wednesday. :sniff:

so far, this dude has made the slightest bit of sense.

If we humans were purely LOGICAL creatures, then we wouldn't care too much about looks. As a matter of fact, we might even think things like, "Well, she looks TOO good... she probably spends a lot of time tending to her looks, which means she won't be a very attentive partner and parent... I choose not to feel attracted to her." And then we all woke up! And back to reality...

[Night Fox]

alright. So lets get this "brown people" issue out of the way. Brown people this...brown people that...

thats like saying that brown people breath, or brown people get an occassional case of explosive diarrhea. All humans are governed by the same drives and desires, you dunce coon. Unless you have discovered a different species that you have code named "brown people"


I read in a national newspaper - called 'The Times' its pretty big in the UK. In there, I saw an article about Asian men..its said that Asian men..after securing a job, a house, and a nice car..only look to marry a beautiful woman in order to consider themselves as successful men.

[King Ghidra]

now why would you want to do such a thing? youre not like that! ;)

Oh i did try being a "bad boy" this one day few years back, i am now left with the question. Do they not mind being stupid?

I felt like such a dick, surely they must feel the same.

Being a dude is like so much better.

[FlyDesiGrl]

thanks wench, I love you too:D
youre not white :hand: youre not even a color, youre transparent, gf! :lol:

I LOVE YOU TOOO, PEACHES! youre my boooty maaamaaa!! :cuddle:

[JOHNNY K-BAR]

no, you're supposed to do that on your own!! :no:


Although...didn't you once tell me you don't wear any? :sarb:
I do like to let my "lil pretties" ..."hang out" sometimes...but....due to work restrictions..Ive had to start wearing tighty tight boxers..wanna see? :eyebrow:

[FlyDesiGrl]

QUOTED.......
alright, ghid, i think they got the point! :lol:

[FlyDesiGrl]

This is how George Bush got elected. :drdodgy:
:lol: buhahahaha!

that made me laugh out loud! :D

[FlyDesiGrl]

Oh i did try being a "bad boy" this one day few years back, i am now left with the question. Do they not mind being stupid?

I felt like such a dick, surely they must feel the same.

Being a dude is like so much better.
bahh, i read you! :p its not in your nature to be mean!! :kekeke:

and hurry up and meet that girl and get that thing you said you will send me on pm, darn it! :kekeke:

[BigCrazyIndian]

Here's the dealy. I've only ever met one perfect woman in my life and I can't have her.

The rest need to be brainwashed so they fit the profile. :drdodgy:

can I have her?

[the gothman]

I heard brown people have bigger penises. Even the chicks. :drdodgy:

yeah. I heard brown people are greedy too.

[King Ghidra]

so far, this dude has made the slightest bit of sense.

If we humans were purely LOGICAL creatures, then we wouldn't care too much about looks. As a matter of fact, we might even think things like, "Well, she looks TOO good... she probably spends a lot of time tending to her looks, which means she won't be a very attentive partner and parent... I choose not to feel attracted to her." And then we all woke up! And back to reality...

NO DOUBT :mrhappy:

Good point, humans are flawed creatures, we will always try to "better" ourselves and those around us.

[Felonius Monk]

can I have her?
No. :drdodgy:

[Shh! Dont tell]

yeah. I heard brown people are greedy too.
Oh my god.. no!




:eek:

[FlyDesiGrl]

can I have her?
why, knobhead..you have me! :hand: :no:

MEN! :lol:

[BigCrazyIndian]

No. :drdodgy:

screw you, I was just asking out of courteousy. I'm still going to steal her.

just pass along an address when you get a chance.

[FlyDesiGrl]

yeah. I heard brown people are greedy too.
brown people are just assholes...:no: life is all a competition with browns...always competing to reach the top first.

[UnevenButtocks]

youre not white :hand: youre not even a color, youre transparent, gf! :lol:

I LOVE YOU TOOO, PEACHES! youre my boooty maaamaaa!! :cuddle:


yeah, I know, and I love it *blushes*

[King Ghidra]

bahh, i read you! :p its not in your nature to be mean!! :kekeke:

and hurry up and meet that girl and get that thing you said you will send me on pm, darn it! :kekeke:

:lol:

Yeah i know i said monday but it's most likely Wednesday i'm not leaving my house until them..Kinda sucks.

[Felonius Monk]

I read in a national newspaper - called 'The Times' its pretty big in the UK. In there, I saw an article about Asian men..its said that Asian men..after securing a job, a house, and a nice car..only look to marry a beautiful woman in order to consider themselves as successful men.
Thats true of a lot of men, irrespective of race. I'm not buying this brown fixation on looks. Its there, but no more than any other race. Perhaps the arranged marriage practice makes it more explicit, but men are universally shallow. And by shallow I mean we know what we want.

[FlyDesiGrl]

yeah, I know, and I love it *blushes*
and i love it toooo!! :love: you are the best peaches ever!!!!!!!! :dance3:

[FatGeezer]

brown people are just assholes...:no: life is all a competition with browns...always competing to reach the top first.
but the fools dont know that when they reach the top theyres still someone shittin on them from a positition higher than that!

[King Ghidra]

shut up pauper prince

:eek2: Well i never.........pimple'd butt

alright, ghid, i think they got the point! :lol:


I like to stress the point, until there eyes bleed.

[FlyDesiGrl]

:lol:

Yeah i know i said monday but it's most likely Wednesday i'm not leaving my house until them..Kinda sucks.
boo! that sucks! okie, lets wait and see! :kekeke:

[UnevenButtocks]

can I have her?


His perfect woman isn't necesarily going to be your perfect woman, dumbass. And besides, she's some character he's gotten from some japanese cartoon porn, naimed Aiko.

[the gothman]

brown people are just assholes...:no: life is all a competition with browns...always competing to reach the top first.

sweet heart, everyone is an asshole.

Except me. I am a dick. And women love me.

[Night Fox]

Thats true of a lot of men, irrespective of race. I'm not buying this brown fixation on looks. Its there, but no more than any other race. Perhaps the arranged marriage practice makes it more explicit, but men are universally shallow. And by shallow I mean we know what we want.


.....so....it could just be slightly more fixated than other races, no?

[FlyDesiGrl]

but the fools dont know that when they reach the top theyres still someone shittin on them from a positition higher than that!
AMEN, fatgeezer! wow that was the bloody icing on the cake!! such a perfected sentence!

i commend you!! bravo! :lol:

[s11nyk]

and i love it toooo!! :love: you are the best peaches ever!!!!!!!! :dance3:

how many peaches have you actually been through to find the best one.

[Shh! Dont tell]

Its not always people who date that try to change their other person...


Sometimes my cousins....Wait.. lemme repharse that.. Almost all the time my cousins and relatives try to change me into a lil desi goody goody kuri, *(im not bad at all, just dont do stuff the desi way most of the time)*

[BigCrazyIndian]

why, knobhead..you have me! :hand: :no:

MEN! :lol:

why have one perfect woman when you can have two?

[FlyDesiGrl]

I like to stress the point, until there eyes bleed.
good man..but in this case youre rubbing it in a bit much, arent you? :lol:

[UnevenButtocks]

:eek2: Well i never.........pimple'd butt




I like to stress the point, until there eyes bleed.



my butt isn't pimpled. today. :hand:

[FlyDesiGrl]

sweet heart, everyone is an asshole.

Except me. I am a dick. And women love me.
:lol: point taken. :rofl:

[UnevenButtocks]

I do like to let my "lil pretties" ..."hang out" sometimes...but....due to work restrictions..Ive had to start wearing tighty tight boxers..wanna see? :eyebrow:

:rofl: I dare you to send me pic?

[FlyDesiGrl]

how many peaches have you actually been through to find the best one.
wellll, shh, dont tell her..but i like to make her feel like shes the best peach ever!! :D :anxious:

but that isnt a lie, because she issssssssssssssssss!!! BOOOTY MAMMMA!! :dance3:

[UnevenButtocks]

:lol: point taken. :rofl:

That's so cute. He's short and skinny, btw :lol:

[BigCrazyIndian]

His perfect woman isn't necesarily going to be your perfect woman, dumbass. And besides, she's some character he's gotten from some japanese cartoon porn, naimed Aiko.

I'll take his perfect woman any day because mine doesn't exist.

Aiko sounds hot.

[King Ghidra]

good man..but in this case youre rubbing it in a bit much, arent you? :lol:

It's never too much unless they say "no mas" or "******* fuck off you silly shit"

[FlyDesiGrl]

why have one perfect woman when you can have two?
:D oh yeah, i forgot our marriage was unconventional :lol: :anxious: so i get to have 2 perfect men right?! :D

[Felonius Monk]

.....so....it could just be slightly more fixated than other races, no?
Not necessarily. It only means they're up front about it. Just because other races don't put out newspaper ads asking for 'beautiful fair brahmin girl' doesnt mean they don't care about it. People are shallow as shit, whether they admit it or not.

For eg. A study of a popular dating site showed that over 50% of both men and women said they don't care about race. But over 95% of both sent emails exclusively to people of their own race.

[King Ghidra]

my butt isn't pimpled. today. :hand:

Okay, hairy....

[s11nyk]

wellll, shh, dont tell her..but i like to make her feel like shes the best peach ever!! :D :anxious:

but that isnt a lie, because she issssssssssssssssss!!! BOOOTY MAMMMA!! :dance3:


:salut:

and yes she is the best buttocks i have met on here in a long time.

[FlyDesiGrl]

That's so cute. He's short and skinny, btw :lol:
buahahahaha! hes a joker! ;)

[JOHNNY K-BAR]

:rofl: I dare you to send me pic?
:think: ...why not...standby...Ill be sure to leave my vicious lil soldier hangin out...watch out he does bite when provoked...*off to fetch camemememera*

[FlyDesiGrl]

It's never too much unless they say "no mas" or "******* fuck off you silly shit"
:lol: a persistant bugga, aint ya?! :p i likey! :lol:

[FlyDesiGrl]

:salut:

and yes she is the best buttocks i have met on here in a long time.
true say! and wow you finally became vip!! woot woot!!

[Shh! Dont tell]

wellll, shh, dont tell her..but i like to make her feel like shes the best peach ever!! :D :anxious:

but that isnt a lie, because she issssssssssssssssss!!! BOOOTY MAMMMA!! :dance3:
for a min i thought u were talking about me.. and then i read the rest.



:(

[King Ghidra]

:lol: a persistant bugga, aint ya?! :p i likey! :lol:

Sometimes i get off at the fact i'm pissing people off. :\

[King Ghidra]

sweet heart, everyone is an asshole.

Except me. I am a dick. And women love me.

You missed pussy's.

Pussies don't like dicks because pussies get fucked by dicks. But dicks also fuck assholes. Assholes that just want to shit on everything. Pussies may think they can deal with assholes their way. But the only thing that can fuck a asshole is a dick, with some balls. The problem with dicks is they fuck too much or fuck when it isn't appropriate. And it takes a pussy to show them that. But sometimes pussies can be so full of shit that they become assholes themselves. Because pussies are a inch and half away from assholes. I don't know much about this crazy crazy world, but I do know this. If you don't let us fuck this asshole we're going to have our dicks and pussies all covered in shit.

[s11nyk]

true say! and wow you finally became vip!! woot woot!!

i know, how shcoking is that.......i logged in this morning and hey presto...........not even David Blaine could have managed that one.

[BigCrazyIndian]

:D oh yeah, i forgot our marriage was unconventional :lol: :anxious: so i get to have 2 perfect men right?! :D

sure, if you can find one. But just remember that this second "perfect" guy won't be as perfect as me.

[FlyDesiGrl]

for a min i thought u were talking about me.. and then i read the rest.



:(
haha, sorry, cupcake! :p

[FlyDesiGrl]

Sometimes i get off at the fact i'm pissing people off. :\
not a good trait, my friend! thats no good! :p

[FlyDesiGrl]

i know, how shcoking is that.......i logged in this morning and hey presto...........not even David Blaine could have managed that one.

well yayyy! good for you!! its about time!! :dance3:

[FlyDesiGrl]

sure, if you can find one. But just remember that this second "perfect" guy won't be as perfect as me.
never!! you are the bestest!!

omg, i have to PM you about something...STAND BY!! :dance3: :p

[King Ghidra]

not a good trait, my friend! thats no good! :p

Aye, i know...but what am i to do. I don't do it often, but if a person is pissing my off...i know what to do to them.

People can dish it, but never take it.

[pacora]

I think accepting someones personality makes sense because thats what you should like about tham in the first place. habits and some things about the way they live life you might want to try to change becacsue you may see those as clashing with the way you do things and you dont want it to get between your relationship.

[FlyDesiGrl]

Aye, i know...but what am i to do. I don't do it often, but if a person is pissing my off...i know what to do to them.

People can dish it, but never take it.
true sayyyy!! wow, we think so alike its funny :lol:

if you dish it, gotta learn to take it! :p

[s11nyk]

well yayyy! good for you!! its about time!! :dance3:


and now i sit back and watch paint dry in the hope something may actually happen there...:rofl:

[FlyDesiGrl]

I think accepting someones personality makes sense because thats what you should like about tham in the first place. habits and some things about the way they live life you might want to try to change becacsue you may see those as clashing with the way you do things and you dont want it to get between your relationship.
exactly because bad habits can always be dropped..and should eventually be dropped.

[FlyDesiGrl]

and now i sit back and watch paint dry in the hope something may actually happen there...:rofl:
:rofl: trust, nothing ever does! :lol: :no:

maybe you can come in and shit stir a bit now :rofl: become the dot cotton of rd!

[s11nyk]

:rofl: trust, nothing ever does! :lol: :no:

maybe you can come in and shit stir a bit now :rofl: become the dot cotton of rd!

yeah puffing away on my fags whilst wearing a hair net.........i prefer to be ethal and to go look for my willie

[King Ghidra]

true sayyyy!! wow, we think so alike its funny :lol:

if you dish it, gotta learn to take it! :p

Well the call me the homosexual straight man :|

I need to man up....:no:

[FlyDesiGrl]

yeah puffing away on my fags whilst wearing a hair net.........i prefer to be ethal and to go look for my willie
lol stop talking about willie! :rofl: that was one hell of a convo though! good times, good times! :lol: :no:

[FlyDesiGrl]

Well the call me the homosexual straight man :|

I need to man up....:no:
omg lol :no: poor you! :lol:

[FatGeezer]

they call me a lesbian trapped in a mans body :neutral:

[RockinHarlot]

every onez a damn moron. ppl suck.

[alphaPAKI]

why do people always date someone, and then try to change them?

you meet a nice guy/girl...you like each other alot....yet one of you isn't entirely happy, so you try to change the other person.

well what the fuck for? aren't you defeating the entire purpose of liking this person in the first place??

you like them for who they are, yet you want to change a quality about them? youre supposed to like everything about the person.

if you don't like them..dump them and move on, and make both of your lives alot easier and hassle free.

what y'all think?

well thats agreed but i mean some traits are completely undesirable and need ot be changed regardless, for example just out of thin air: compulsive lying, cheating, jealousy

trying to change something negative like that wouldnt be frowned upon however difficult it may be, but thats a hard task and shouldnt be counted on to stay in a relationship of sorts

[choo_$$choo_$$]

why do people always date someone, and then try to change them?

you meet a nice guy/girl...you like each other alot....yet one of you isn't entirely happy, so you try to change the other person.

well what the fuck for? aren't you defeating the entire purpose of liking this person in the first place??

you like them for who they are, yet you want to change a quality about them? youre supposed to like everything about the person.

if you don't like them..dump them and move on, and make both of your lives alot easier and hassle free.

what y'all think?

you shouldnt change people, but people should always try to improve and elevate themselves

[Shashanna]

and it's girls that are always trying to change the guy :p

VIce Versa as well. Believe me. :no:

[asiancutie24]

and it's girls that are always trying to change the guy :p

I disagree. I've had guys try to change me before. Moreso than me trying to change them.