Ex's and revenge

[alexdark]

Mostly aimed at the guys,

if you ever had your heart broken by a girl, and she's a bit of a heartbreaker and very very selfish, if you could in some way, take a form of revenge...


Would you do it?

Even if it was really, really bad (but non-violent)?

[*NiKKita*]

i'm not a guy
but since i cared about the person soo much i dont think i would do anything to mess up the persons life or anything

[Shashanna]

Mostly aimed at the guys,

if you ever had your heart broken by a girl, and she's a bit of a heartbreaker and very very selfish, if you could in some way, take a form of revenge...


Would you do it?

Even if it was really, really bad (but non-violent)?

haha!

I can relate. I did take revenge........and even he knew he deserved it!
it really depends what you're planning to do & depends on the situation.

[crayzee]

Mostly aimed at the guys,

if you ever had your heart broken by a girl, and she's a bit of a heartbreaker and very very selfish, if you could in some way, take a form of revenge...


Would you do it?

Even if it was really, really bad (but non-violent)?

what goes around comes around, i wudnt waste my time thinkin about her, one day or another she'll get what she deserves, n then she'll realise what she's missed out on, but by the time she realises that, u'll have moved on and want nothing to do with her... thats the best form of revenge.... ;)

[Robiul]

NEVER :|

A man walks away, be a man :)

[Shashanna]

NEVER :|

Sweet robi... how are thee?

[Canadian_jatti]

NEVER :|

A man walks away, be a man :)
yeah good answer and i think ppl get what they deserve so it'll all work out in the end

[Mz_Newyawk]

im a girl..
but ugh i tried taking revenge
but i cudnt and i dont think ill ever be able to!

[alexdark]

I forgot to add,


I don't believe what comes around goes around. I don't at all. And she won't miss what she had. I just think some people need to understand what they inflict.

To the guy in green, forget your name, respec ton your values man I've read a few of your other posts.

[Soniyee]

I forgot to add,


I don't believe what comes around goes around. I don't at all. And she won't miss what she had. I just think some people need to understand what they inflict.

To the guy in green, forget your name, respec ton your values man I've read a few of your other posts.
I wouldn't take revenge...i would just forgive....too nice to do the same... ;)

WoW...."what comes around goes around"...usually works for me...

[punjabisweetie]

what goes around comes around is my policy, but still i hate waiting around for it to go around. I've been hurt before and as mean as it is, the person should feel the pain they have inflicted. I say go for it. Don't ruin her life or anything...but yea

[Jhansi_Ki_Rani]

Mostly aimed at the guys,

if you ever had your heart broken by a girl, and she's a bit of a heartbreaker and very very selfish, if you could in some way, take a form of revenge...


Would you do it?

Even if it was really, really bad (but non-violent)?

i wouldnt be able to take revenge at all... i mean if i was with someone its coz he truly meant something to me thats why i was with him to begin with... so even if he did break my heart... i dont think i would go out to hurt him for it... regardless of his reasons... juz coz he hurt me... doesnt mean i should hurt him too... its a vicious cycle... one i do not wish to take part in...

[RacingSoul]

i'd only take revenge if she sucked in bed.

[wateva123]

Mostly aimed at the guys,

if you ever had your heart broken by a girl, and she's a bit of a heartbreaker and very very selfish, if you could in some way, take a form of revenge...


Would you do it?

Even if it was really, really bad (but non-violent)?

revenge hasn't crossed my mind,, i'd never wish he gets hurt.
i actually want him to be happy wherever he is,, whoever he is with.
i don't know if that's love or just plain stupidity.

[Space-Cowboy]

Revenge is a dish best served cold

-- An old Klingon proverb.

[Danish_S]

Revenge is a dish best served cold

-- An old Klingon proverb.

:werd:

[Robiul]

Sweet robi... how are thee?

hey asha, how are thou...

[Robiul]

yeah good answer and i think ppl get what they deserve so it'll all work out in the end

yeh baby, How u doin :eyebrow:

[Robiul]

I forgot to add,


I don't believe what comes around goes around. I don't at all. And she won't miss what she had. I just think some people need to understand what they inflict.

To the guy in green, forget your name, respec ton your values man I've read a few of your other posts.

Yes that because you havent made a big impact like you could have done, because when women value something high they'll never forget and with the use of that you can take ur revenge anyway u like. anyway wats up

[Monaa]

ima gurl.. i tried to take revenge but didnt work out... :dunno:

[alexdark]

I'm surprised someone hasn't said "An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind"

Cos I always reply, "yes, but in the land of the blind the one-eyed man is king..."

So ALl you have to do is make sure you have at least one eye left... :rolleyes:


Btw...in case it wasn't clear, that's me being tongue in cheek...

[Areez_UK_HUSTLER]

I believe that what goes around comes around..................

I've been dumped by my Fiance 4 months ago................

what hurts is that we were engaged for a year and a half and after being together for 5 yrs............. she realises that she doesnt want to marry me.........................

She's sikh and I'm muslim............. she's realised that she doesnt want to confuse the children athat would have resulted.......... and therefore she's finished it between us.............

oh wait it gets better................

we went on holiday together............. Miami, Tunisia, Turkey, France and all over uk....................... then we bought a flat together................

we have been there 2 yrs and then 1 week b4 my b'day........... she says its over and she cant go through with it....................

Since then I've heard from her that she's been meetin up with her ex, and with numerous male friends from Uni........... and i'm supposed to be ok with it...............

As we're trying to sell the flat............. I've just dropped the price by £15,000 just so that I can get away from being trapped there!................

I wouldnt get her back, but I believe LIFE WILL GET HER BACK!

what goes around comes around, and in the mean time, I'll just nurse my broken heart.......... and believe me is it broken!

[chicndesi]

I am a girl but i believe in taking matters into ur own hand n be in control of ur own destiny..so revenge rulz but u gotta wait a while till ur anger subsides n see why u really want revenge as u cant really get at someone because they dont love u anymore its no ones fault really.

[Apni_kuri]

i dont believe in 'wot goes round comes round' cuz it neva has done do some pricks n bitches out der. but neway, no point takin revenge, da only reason y u would wanna take revenge is if u r still madly in love wiv her/him, but der aint no point cuz it'll show u still care/want him/her. best revenge is to forget it n move on to show him/her dat u dont giva fuck

[Areez_UK_HUSTLER]

i dont believe in 'wot goes round comes round' cuz it neva has done do some pricks n bitches out der. but neway, no point takin revenge, da only reason y u would wanna take revenge is if u r still madly in love wiv her/him, but der aint no point cuz it'll show u still care/want him/her. best revenge is to forget it n move on to show him/her dat u dont giva fuck


thats true too.............. but then I still care about her, and have a soft spot.................. so its hard to forget about her, but i agree that is the best revenge! Forget about the person, and let them see what they've lost!

[Apni_kuri]

best way to move on is to find someone else!!! always works for me!!

[LittleFairy]

thats true too.............. but then I still care about her, and have a soft spot.................. so its hard to forget about her, but i agree that is the best revenge! Forget about the person, and let them see what they've lost!



would you take her back if she ever did come back?

[Apni_kuri]

u shud NEVA take da same guy or gal back after dey hurt u, cuz der jus do it again

[LittleFairy]

u shud NEVA take da same guy or gal back after dey hurt u, cuz der jus do it again


There are exceptions to the rule.

[Apni_kuri]

wot exceptions wud dey be?

[Areez_UK_HUSTLER]

would you take her back if she ever did come back?


You know its funny u ask that.............. believe it or not, we've never argued ever till now..................

I dont think we could ever get back together.............. I'd be scared she'd leave me............... the trust has been broken and some of the stuff thats been said about me being Muslim and her being Sikh has hurt...........

Me and my family have never had a problem with it, but shes made it clear the she does and so does her family!

[LittleFairy]

You know its funny u ask that.............. believe it or not, we've never argued ever till now..................

I dont think we could ever get back together.............. I'd be scared she'd leave me............... the trust has been broken and some of the stuff thats been said about me being Muslim and her being Sikh has hurt...........

Me and my family have never had a problem with it, but shes made it clear the she does and so does her family!


And it took her this long to realize how much it bothered her? I hate to say this, but I think she just fell out of love and is using this as an excuse.

[LittleFairy]

wot exceptions wud dey be?


my god. some people do make stupid mistakes and it is possible to have someone wake up later and regret their decision and turn around to become a better person. We all have it in us to be assholes-whether we act on things or not.

[Apni_kuri]

And it took her this long to realize how much it bothered her? I hate to say this, but I think she just fell out of love and is using this as an excuse.
so true

[Areez_UK_HUSTLER]

so true


I guess this could be the case.............. it just hurts so much..............

Up until 2 months b4 we broke up, I was looking for our next property to move to so that we could start a family!.............. i feel like she's strung me along and wasted so much time of my life.............
yes im bitter but i think i have a right to be!

ah........... why does it have to hurt so much................ i feel like i have a gap inside me............ piece of me missing. I guess its cos I havent been single for so long.............. 5 yrs is a long time!

[LittleFairy]

I guess this could be the case.............. it just hurts so much..............

Up until 2 months b4 we broke up, I was looking for our next property to move to so that we could start a family!.............. i feel like she's strung me along and wasted so much time of my life.............
yes im bitter but i think i have a right to be!

ah........... why does it have to hurt so much................ i feel like i have a gap inside me............ piece of me missing. I guess its cos I havent been single for so long.............. 5 yrs is a long time!

It's righteous anger, I don't think anyone in this world can tell you you shouldn't feel the way you do. 5 years IS a long time. If you still keep in touch with her, sell the apartment and get away from her, you don't need her around to remind you of what was. And by the way, this shouldn't make you feel like she never meant it all along. After all, she "wasted" 5 years of her life too...maybe she's felt that way for a while and you never saw it and this was the best she could do as far as coming out with it.

[impactcrew]

It's righteous anger, I don't think anyone in this world can tell you you shouldn't feel the way you do. 5 years IS a long time. If you still keep in touch with her, sell the apartment and get away from her, you don't need her around to remind you of what was. And by the way, this shouldn't make you feel like she never meant it all along. After all, she "wasted" 5 years of her life too...maybe she's felt that way for a while and you never saw it and this was the best she could do as far as coming out with it.

That was one long sentence! :kekeke:

[Areez_UK_HUSTLER]

It's righteous anger, I don't think anyone in this world can tell you you shouldn't feel the way you do. 5 years IS a long time. If you still keep in touch with her, sell the apartment and get away from her, you don't need her around to remind you of what was. And by the way, this shouldn't make you feel like she never meant it all along. After all, she "wasted" 5 years of her life too...maybe she's felt that way for a while and you never saw it and this was the best she could do as far as coming out with it.


Well we're still living in the same flat till it gets sold.............. but like I said.

I've just dropped the price of the flat by £15k just so that we can get it sold and move on................. get out of each others lives!

[LittleFairy]

That was one long sentence! :kekeke:


really, because I count a few :lol:

[LittleFairy]

Well we're still living in the same flat till it gets sold.............. but like I said.

I've just dropped the price of the flat by £15k just so that we can get it sold and move on................. get out of each others lives!

yeah. wow, a though situation. good luck and I'm sorry you have to go through this :neutral:

[impactcrew]

really, because I count a few :lol:

hmmmm

If you still keep in touch with her, sell the apartment and get away from her, you don't need her around to remind you of what was. And by the way, this shouldn't make you feel like she never meant it all along. After all, she "wasted" 5 years of her life too...maybe she's felt that way for a while and you never saw it and this was the best she could do as far as coming out with it.

:rolleyes: :wavey:

[Areez_UK_HUSTLER]

yeah. wow, a though situation. good luck and I'm sorry you have to go through this :neutral:


Not ur fault............. thanks for the best wishes.................. im gonna need all the luck i can get! ;-)

[LittleFairy]

hmmmm

If you still keep in touch with her, sell the apartment and get away from her, you don't need her around to remind you of what was. And by the way, this shouldn't make you feel like she never meant it all along. After all, she "wasted" 5 years of her life too...maybe she's felt that way for a while and you never saw it and this was the best she could do as far as coming out with it.

:rolleyes: :wavey:


Oh you mean the last one? Honey, long or short at the age of 24 you should be able to handle it. Unless you go to the special school for slow children :D


and :kiss: :wavey:

[impactcrew]

Oh you mean the last one? Honey, long or short at the age of 24 you should be able to handle it. Unless you go to the special school for slow children :D


and :kiss: :wavey:

By observing yr post I was showing my prey skills and showing u what a good hunter is = eye for potential talent! ;)

[LittleFairy]

By observing yr post I was showing my prey skills and showing u what a good hunter is = eye for potential talent! ;)

Tina Turner has her private dancer, I have my private hunter. I'm so flattered I could cry :D

[impactcrew]

Tina Turner has her private dancer, I have my private hunter. I'm so flattered I could cry :D

Tina Turner = Simply the best!

Private hunter - Nothing like Vanessa Feltz are you? lol

Flattered and could cry = White shirt on so bring it on! ;)

[LittleFairy]

Tina Turner = Simply the best!

Private hunter - Nothing like Vanessa Feltz are you? lol

Flattered and could cry = White shirt on so bring it on! ;)


AHHAHHAHAH Thanks but I said "I could cry" I wouldn't actually do it.



And I forgot to do something the other day, didn't I?

[nikefc7]

a bullet to the back of her head does wonders!

[impactcrew]

AHHAHHAHAH Thanks but I said "I could cry" I wouldn't actually do it.



And I forgot to do something the other day, didn't I?

U do seem to have a great memory which needs probing every now and then and as they say do it when u remember! :D

[UnevenButtocks]

U do seem to have a great memory which needs probing every now and then and as they say do it when u remember! :D


erm get a room?:D

[Fake Desi Boy]

an eye for an eye will leave the whole world blind
-Mohandas Gandhi

[zuiwaziri]

I had and still have the ability to put revenge upon my ex.
Its just a case of opening my mouth and telling the world of wht we did together. *most tht we did are taboo by our parents*.
I have never even thort about the possiblity of doing this cuz i do care about the girl still, and even tho opening my mouth would have taken alot of shit off my back, i still was never even tempted to try n get revenge on her, and to this day still am willing to hurt my own rep, just to protect hers.

Revenge and hatred it a wasted emotion....So dont bother with it.
God will ask them of there actions when the time is right :D

[insomniac987]

i wouldnt but its happened to me.......broke some bitch's heart and the next thing I know she's spreading all these bullshit rumors about me :rolleyes:

[alexdark]

No, the best revenge is having them feel what you felt. Its not just the love stopped, can't blame her for that, it's more what happened after. Her hateful words and so forth.

Areez_UK_HUSTLER, try violence. Seriously, I'll gladly be your alibi. If that happened to me, while I wouldn't get violent, I'd obliterate her.

[UnevenButtocks]

No, the best revenge is having them feel what you felt. Its not just the love stopped, can't blame her for that, it's more what happened after. Her hateful words and so forth.

Areez_UK_HUSTLER, try violence. Seriously, I'll gladly be your alibi. If that happened to me, while I wouldn't get violent, I'd obliterate her.


you sound psycho.

[alexdark]

It's a joke...


My way of saying that guy got really messed over and deserves revenge. Geez.

[UnevenButtocks]

still sounds psycho when you go back and read it. And it doesn't help that you look it a bit too. :lol: jokeeeee lol

[alexdark]

Yea, I got a scary look about me sometimes. Does not help with the girls. Well I get the weird ones.

Gotta smile more they all say...*grr*

[khanbaba_]

an eye for an eye will leave the whole world blind
-Mohandas Gandhi

this saying is not practical in real life =)

[alexdark]

so true, cos at one point, someone will have no eyes, trying to take out the remaining eye of the other person. Bloody difficult!

[UnevenButtocks]

Yea, I got a scary look about me sometimes. Does not help with the girls. Well I get the weird ones.

Gotta smile more they all say...*grr*


welll...ok maybe not scary but just a bit too dark and mysterious if that makes sense. And yeah, smiling would really soften out your features. :)

[UnevenButtocks]

so true, cos at one point, someone will have no eyes, trying to take out the remaining eye of the other person. Bloody difficult!


we should start with toes first and move up :lol:

[alexdark]

Lol, that's not exactly my revenge method, that's a different method.

I'm sure there's a smiling pic of me up there on my profile...

[Areez_UK_HUSTLER]

No, the best revenge is having them feel what you felt. Its not just the love stopped, can't blame her for that, it's more what happened after. Her hateful words and so forth.

Areez_UK_HUSTLER, try violence. Seriously, I'll gladly be your alibi. If that happened to me, while I wouldn't get violent, I'd obliterate her.


Thanks dude, and I really appreciate u wanting to cover for me............... but i dont particularly wanna go down on a 30 yr stretch......... for murder or something............. the way i feel about her............... trust me.......... the violence thing aint a good idea............. but hey............ Life will seek out revenge for me I hope and one day, it will all come back on her, what shes put me through! ;-).............. well I pray it will!

[Apni_kuri]

dnt even pray for revenge, she aint worth even thinkin about, y u still dwellin on her??

[Angelos]

UuUUu broken hearts ... my shoulder is available dont worry I wont touch... ;)

[Apni_kuri]

o plz do