You have a bf/gf? and ur serious...

[miss_qupid]

What the hell you doin on Rd? especially if you have ur pics up, why?







discuss.

[BinDaaS_BaBe]

coz rd is not real :hand:


stop believing it is :roll:

[A lil Crazy]

Why does it matter?

It's just a website to pass time.

[miss_qupid]

coz rd is not real :hand:


stop believing it is :roll:
Oh damn.
thankyou for adding light into my life...

I just mean, why wud you have ur pics up for othe rmen to compliment you, and do ur partners know about it?

[miss_qupid]

Why does it matter?

It's just a website to pass time.
not really... if you think about it.

[BinDaaS_BaBe]

Oh damn.
thankyou for adding light into my life...

I just mean, why wud you have ur pics up for othe rmen to compliment you, and do ur partners know about it?
yaaa... my bf comes and goes.. baby i saw u on ratedesi today.. change ur pic.. the other one is better :p

[imdaman99]

:werd:

the day i have a relationship and actually really like the girl is the day all my pics go poof on here.

so does that mean ur in a relationship? :(

[miss_qupid]

:werd:

the day i have a relationship and actually really like the girl is the day all my pics go poof on here.

so does that mean ur in a relationship? :(
no im just preparing for one.

[miss_qupid]

yaaa... my bf comes and goes.. baby i saw u on ratedesi today.. change ur pic.. the other one is better :p
hmmm.

[=Surge=]

Why does it matter?

It's just a website to pass time.

Ding. Ding. Ding. Right answer.

All you people who are getting so uptight over it seem to be pretty insecure to begin with. Stop asserting your so called "superiority" via subtleties, its lame.

[miss_qupid]

Ding. Ding. Ding. Right answer.

All you people who are getting so uptight over it seem to be pretty insecure to begin with. Stop asserting your so called "superiority" via subtleties, its lame.
huh?

[Riddemz]

whats wrong with that?
RD is not a dating service, you may have misunderstood that

[=Surge=]

huh?

It wasn't directed toward you, but the future group of posters who will fall into that category.

[Sweet_LiL_Hunnie]

u know miss qupid not everyone is online and has pics up to "drive the boys crazy" lol a rating site doesn't mean ppl are here to date or flirt with the opposite sex most of us come here to pass the time. my bf never had a problem with me being on here, reads the forums from time to time and doesn't mind my pics being up..thinks it's high school-ish but doesn't have an issue so why do u have to make one up?

[miss_qupid]

It wasn't directed toward you, but the future group of posters who will fall into that category.
Thankyou......

[BDzFinEst]

i come to rd because i wanna find a serious bf .

just keeding .


ok,

[miss_qupid]

i come to rd because i wanna find a serious bf .

just keeding .


ok,
Goood luck.

[sarb]

this is where i come to find my gf's

[Riddemz]

i come to rd because i wanna find a serious bf .

just keeding .


must you kid? ;)

[miss_qupid]

u know miss qupid not everyone is online and has pics up to "drive the boys crazy" lol a rating site doesn't mean ppl are here to date or flirt with the opposite sex most of us come here to pass the time. my bf never had a problem with me being on here, reads the forums from time to time and doesn't mind my pics being up..thinks it's high school-ish but doesn't have an issue so why do u have to make one up?
Do u see me making an issue up? I just wondered its a thought.

I dont know about any1 else, but ppl put their pics on here so "opposite sex" can tell them how hot they are, and how much they wana get into their pants.....
But if your in a relationship, do you really need any1 else complimenting you? or telling you how hot you are.

[miss_qupid]

this is where i come to find my gf's
good luck again.

[jassika]

:neutral:

[miss_qupid]

whats wrong with that?
RD is not a dating service, you may have misunderstood that
its not?


so its perfectly fine for sum1 to come along and leave a coment under your girls pic

"I can imagine doing things to you"
"i wana see u nekid" etc.

and youd be fine with it?

[Riddemz]

its not?


so its perfectly fine for sum1 to come along and leave a coment under your girls pic

"I can imagine doing things to you"
"i wana see u nekid" etc.

and youd be fine with it?
i dont have a girl do i wouldnt know

but if she wouldnt respond to those comments and delete them then i wouldnt bother me

and of course put a picture of both of us together in her galley id be fine with it

[Sweet_LiL_Hunnie]

Do u see me making an issue up? I just wondered its a thought.

I dont know about any1 else, but ppl put their pics on here so "opposite sex" can tell them how hot they are, and how much they wana get into their pants.....
But if your in a relationship, do you really need any1 else complimenting you? or telling you how hot you are.


even if you WERENT in a relationship do u really need ppl giving u fake compliments over the internet..NOPE. But i do keep my pic up to keep in touch with a few ppl i only talk to on this site rarely on aim and keep up with them. I dont see any harm in one putting their pics up the same thing can happen on friendster, facebook, myspace and so forth i don't think a relationship really matters when it comes to putting pics of yourself on the internet unless it's a DATING SITE lol and this is soo not one.

see i think you are making an issue where there isn't one to be made esp coming from a chick who had rumors due to web camming with the wrong folks or something. so u don't have a man and did webcam ..why did u do it ? lol bc u enjoyed some strangers attention and compliments?

i dunno i see this topic as u trying to act pious n look down on those of us in relationships that have our pics up

[miss_qupid]

i dont have a girl do i wouldnt know

but if she wouldnt respond to those comments and delete them then i wouldnt bother me

and of course put a picture of both of us together in her galley id be fine with it
but, even if she did delete them, wudnt you feel weird that sum guys is prob wanking over her?
I mean what is the point of puting a pic up? wats the motive behind it?

[insomniac987]

i dont think ppl come on rd with the idea of looking for a soulmate.....its just all in good fun

[khamel]

Ladies and gentlemen of the jury, i submit to you that witness "A" has in the past and on record fraudulently made statements on behalf of defendent "B" therefor we cannot, must not allow his statements that he willful exerted to you dispel the magnitude of the crime committed by defendent "B". Also to your Honour i think Witness "A" should stand trail for perjury.

We listen to the intensity of defendent "B"'s immoral behaviour, we have proven with out a doubt that defendent "B" is capable of committing such heinous acts, lewd in his appoach to all peoples, whether man or woman, disrespectful to authority, this person deserves to spend 6 years minimum incarcerated for himself and humanity.

Remember when you go to make your decision, guilty or not, would you want your children near such a barbaric mind.

I rest my case.

[Riddemz]

but, even if she did delete them, wudnt you feel weird that sum guys is prob wanking over her?
I mean what is the point of puting a pic up? wats the motive behind it?
arent they always?

no matter if shes on rd or not?

[miss_qupid]

even if you WERENT in a relationship do u really need ppl giving u fake compliments over the internet..NOPE. But i do keep my pic up to keep in touch with a few ppl i only talk to on this site rarely on aim and keep up with them. I dont see any harm in one putting their pics up the same thing can happen on friendster, facebook, myspace and so forth i don't think a relationship really matters when it comes to putting pics of yourself on the internet unless it's a DATING SITE lol and this is soo not one.

see i think you are making an issue where there isn't one to be made esp coming from a chick who had rumors due to web camming with the wrong folks or something. so u don't have a man and did webcam ..why did u do it ? lol bc u enjoyed some strangers attention and compliments?

i dunno i see this topic as u trying to act pious n look down on those of us in relationships that have our pics up
Dont take it in a wrong way, im not having a dig at any1, im just interested in ppls thoughts in regards to it.

[BDzFinEst]

must you kid? ;)


if your single, then i`m not kidding .

[miss_qupid]

arent they always?

no matter if shes on rd or not?
u have a point.


but here pics remains, interent is not the safest place to have pics up, having a pic up is asking for it, isnt it?

[miss_qupid]

i dont think ppl come on rd with the idea of looking for a soulmate.....its just all in good fun
No no i didnt say that,
i meant if you have a partner, would it be okay for them to have their pics up, while other ppl drooled over it.

[Riddemz]

u have a point.


but here pics remains, interent is not the safest place to have pics up, having a pic up is asking for it, isnt it?
wearing tight jeans is asking for it

for all you know, some 50 year old is jerking off to some 20 year old he saw today

i rather not think of it at all then to worry myself about that shit
this is one of those things that dont harm you if you dont know about it

[mr photographer]

Oh damn.
thankyou for adding light into my life...

I just mean, why wud you have ur pics up for othe rmen to compliment you, and do ur partners know about it?

1. either because people are seieng if they still have it in them
2. perhaps looking for something better to come along
3. because it feels nice to cheat

:wavey:

[Sweet_LiL_Hunnie]

Dont take it in a wrong way, im not having a dig at any1, im just interested in ppls thoughts in regards to it.


well then that's totally understandable

[miss_qupid]

even if you WERENT in a relationship do u really need ppl giving u fake compliments over the internet..NOPE. But i do keep my pic up to keep in touch with a few ppl i only talk to on this site rarely on aim and keep up with them. I dont see any harm in one putting their pics up the same thing can happen on friendster, facebook, myspace and so forth i don't think a relationship really matters when it comes to putting pics of yourself on the internet unless it's a DATING SITE lol and this is soo not one.

see i think you are making an issue where there isn't one to be made esp coming from a chick who had rumors due to web camming with the wrong folks or something. so u don't have a man and did webcam ..why did u do it ? lol bc u enjoyed some strangers attention and compliments?

i dunno i see this topic as u trying to act pious n look down on those of us in relationships that have our pics up
i just read the whole of that...


And ur taking into acount the rumours on rd? bout time you got a life no?



u must not understand english, as i have clearly asked ppl to discuss the matter, there is no right or wrong answer. as for you commenting on me trying to be something...please, why wud i care if ppl on rd thought i was good or bad, they have nothing to do with my life.

[Riddemz]

if your single, then i`m not kidding .
well i am single, but the length of me being single is up to you ;)

[miss_qupid]

1. either because people are seieng if they still have it in them
2. perhaps looking for something better to come along
3. because it feels nice to cheat

:wavey:
hey how you...


i agree with you.

[BDzFinEst]

well i am single, but the length of me being single is up to you ;)

hahaha.

that just made my day. lol

[miss_qupid]

wearing tight jeans is asking for it

for all you know, some 50 year old is jerking off to some 20 year old he saw today

i rather not think of it at all then to worry myself about that shit
this is one of those things that dont harm you if you dont know about it
hmm, if thats ur opinion, it might change in the furture....


wud it be okay for your wife to have her pics up?

[Riddemz]

hahaha.

that just made my day. lol
and talking to you made mine ;)

[Riddemz]

hmm, if thats ur opinion, it might change in the furture....


wud it be okay for your wife to have her pics up?


im hoping my wife wouldnt be wasting her time on a forum when we're married and i think at that point, im hoping my wife will have grown out of putting her pictures on random sites :neutral:

[miss_qupid]

im hoping my wife wouldnt be wasting her time on a forum when we're married and i think at that point, im hoping my wife will have grown out of putting her pictures on random sites :neutral:
I shud have aimed this trhead at 21+ and in serious relationship.... maybe that wud helped.

[WildWolfdog]

is that not what you did? :neutral:

[Riddemz]

I shud have aimed this trhead at 21+ and in serious relationship.... maybe that wud helped.
but even then, people might say that their relationships are serious, but its so rare to actually find people who wont end up breaking up anyways

[mr photographer]

I shud have aimed this trhead at 21+ and in serious relationship.... maybe that wud helped.

if u were married wouldnt make a difference .....

u always see married men looking at other people's wives :dance3:

[miss_qupid]

is that not what you did? :neutral:
No, i took it off bcus, i was getting spotted and i dont feel comfortable with the idea of having my pics on teh net anymore.
and wen ur in a serious relationship and random ppl(guys) have your pics save, they cud use them to mess you about.

[insomniac987]

No no i didnt say that,
i meant if you have a partner, would it be okay for them to have their pics up, while other ppl drooled over it.
naa i wouldnt mind

[miss_qupid]

if u were married wouldnt make a difference .....

u always see married men looking at other people's wives :dance3:
indeed you do.

[larki_jatti]

girls shouldnt let the perverted guys here flirt with them, and hit on them. Many girls even without pics up still flirt on RD, aim, msn, whatever.
I think this has less to do with RD and having pics up, and more to do with just overall being a faithful & loyal person in everyway. Most guys wouldnt like it I think, if their girl was on here, and then talking to lots of guys via messengers.

[miss_qupid]

naa i wouldnt mind
cool.

[Sweet_LiL_Hunnie]

why wud i care if ppl on rd thought i was good or bad, they have nothing to do with my life.

i get that lol thats why u are still here

2nd of all why dont u apply that same logic to those of us in a relationship do we really care of ppl see pics of our bfs or vice versa? not really...we're secure just as u are a secure with yourself it works the same way

[miss_qupid]

girls shouldnt let the perverted guys here flirt with them, and hit on them. Many girls even without pics up still flirt on RD, aim, msn, whatever.
I think this has less to do with RD and having pics up, and more to do with just overall being a faithful & loyal person in everyway. Most guys wouldnt like it I think, if their girl was on here, and then talking to lots of guys via messengers.
werd.
i totally agree.

[WildWolfdog]

No, i took it off bcus, i was getting spotted and i dont feel comfortable with the idea of having my pics on teh net anymore.
and wen ur in a serious relationship and random ppl(guys) have your pics save, they cud use them to mess you about.

what do u mean you were getting spotted? you had your pics up on the forums quite a bit from what i know, i bet you still have some pics up in the old threads. How could people mess you about just by having pics? "Your gf is my gf, look i have her picture"

[miss_qupid]

i get that lol thats why u are still here

2nd of all why dont u apply that same logic to those of us in a relationship do we really care of ppl see pics of our bfs or vice versa? not really...we're secure just as u are a secure with yourself it works the same way
hmmm guess so, but as some1 mentioned erlier, isnt it about being loyal?

[Sweet_LiL_Hunnie]

girls shouldnt let the perverted guys here flirt with them, and hit on them. Many girls even without pics up still flirt on RD, aim, msn, whatever.
I think this has less to do with RD and having pics up, and more to do with just overall being a faithful & loyal person in everyway. Most guys wouldnt like it I think, if their girl was on here, and then talking to lots of guys via messengers.


i think anyone on here flirting while in a relationship is wrong you're right but for the most part now n then we talk on these forums in a playful jokingly manner...i used to always make jokes with aniq and tejan and a few of the girls too for that matter jokes are jokes.

i dont think that ppl in serious relationships are flirting online give them some more credit ppl...and theres a diff between complimenting and flirting as well

[mr photographer]

indeed you do.

save me from turning into a right kameena :neutral:

[Sweet_LiL_Hunnie]

hmmm guess so, but as some1 mentioned erlier, isnt it about being loyal?

how is ppl in relationships having their pics up being unloyal to their spouse? yall are too uptight

[miss_qupid]

what do u mean you were getting spotted? you had your pics up on the forums quite a bit from what i know, i bet you still have some pics up in the old threads. How could people mess you about just by having pics? "Your gf is my gf, look i have her picture"
Well ppl recognised me in town, and my ex so it on here, wasnt impressed. On top of that i was told my pic was being used on other site, hence ive taken them all down.

[larki_jatti]

i think anyone on here flirting while in a relationship is wrong you're right but for the most part now n then we talk on these forums in a playful jokingly manner...i used to always make jokes with aniq and tejan and a few of the girls too for that matter jokes are jokes.

i dont think that ppl in serious relationships are flirting online give them some more credit ppl...and theres a diff between complimenting and flirting as well
Sometimes all that jokingly flirting could turn into something else before you know it.

[miss_qupid]

how is ppl in relationships having their pics up being unloyal to their spouse? yall are too uptight
Huh? im trying to debate, these are not my opnion, im just trying to see urs....


Try and be logical and not fiesty.

[pachaas Paisa]

if the girlfriend is a boring ass lousy woman with no substance then I'd get shit bored of her and flirt with chickies on rd.

Big deal, wtf is a relationship? there is no written law that you shouldnt flirt while being in a relationship, I can understand the downside of cheating, now thats not loyalty, but wtf? flirting?

[mr photographer]

girls shouldnt let the perverted guys here flirt with them, and hit on them. Many girls even without pics up still flirt on RD, aim, msn, whatever.
I think this has less to do with RD and having pics up, and more to do with just overall being a faithful & loyal person in everyway. Most guys wouldnt like it I think, if their girl was on here, and then talking to lots of guys via messengers.

:slap: are you cheatin on me



:giggle:

[miss_qupid]

save me from turning into a right kameena :neutral:
nahi.....


i like it wen you think ur mind.

[miss_qupid]

if the girlfriend is a boring ass lousy woman with no substance then I'd get shit bored of her and flirt with chickies on rd.

Big deal, wtf is a relationship? there is no written law that you shouldnt flirt while being in a relationship, I can understand the downside of cheating, now thats not loyalty, but wtf? flirting?
hmmm rd flirting leads to msn flirting, which leads to fonecall flirting and then



UH OH.

[pachaas Paisa]

hmmm rd flirting leads to msn flirting, which leads to fonecall flirting and then



UH OH.

sorry miss cupid just because your whorish self gets into that kinda shit doesnt mean people dont know how to control themselves.

This thread is a bummer

[Sweet_LiL_Hunnie]

Sometimes all that jokingly flirting could turn into something else before you know it.


well it never did and i'm a loyal person so it never would that's why i'm in a seriously relationship had i not want to be only my bf's then i'd just simply be dating him

[miss_qupid]

sorry miss cupid just because your whorish self gets into that kinda shit doesnt mean people dont know how to control themselves.

This thread is a bummer
Ive not got into nothing.....

Im just giving giveing examples....


Dont see what the personal attacks are all bout.... they have nothing to do with this thread, dont like it move on.

[mr photographer]

nahi.....


i like it wen you think ur mind.

my mind is what i've seen in reality :neutral:

[pachaas Paisa]

Ive not got into nothing.....

Im just giving giveing examples....


Dont see what the personal attacks are all bout.... they have nothing to do with this thread, dont like it move on.

you make it seem like, no couples should ever make accounts on rd just because they are in a relationship you presumptious tit.

There are far more discussions on RD besides flirting and camming and e-sexing, you seriously dont get it do you? people dont often here for that kind a shit, and leave it to be seriously, your opinion makes absolutely no sense, kind of would have expected to you be a little more grown up but you still think like a heartbroken 16 year old teeny bopper with a pea sized brain.

[mr photographer]

sorry miss cupid just because your whorish self gets into that kinda shit doesnt mean people dont know how to control themselves.

This thread is a bummer

you definately don't :p

[Sweet_LiL_Hunnie]

Big deal, wtf is a relationship? there is no written law that you shouldnt flirt while being in a relationship, I can understand the downside of cheating, now thats not loyalty, but wtf? flirting?


is that a joke?

being committed to a person in a relationship esp a serious one is saying that you wont stray, or cheat and genuine flirting is like cheating ..porn however isn't so wack away bc that's not emotional but flirting like honestly flirting not joking around is kinda fueled by an obvious attraction or lust and that makes it cheating

[pachaas Paisa]

you definately don't :p

flirting on the forums, yes I really can't control but do i go on any further with it? Hell no

[miss_qupid]

you make it seem like, no couples should ever make accounts on rd just because they are in a relationship you presumptious tit.

There are far more discussions on RD besides flirting and camming and e-sexing, you seriously dont get it do you? people dont often here for that kind a shit, and leave it to be seriously, your opinion makes absolutely no sense, kind of would have expected to you be a little more grown up but you still think like a heartbroken 16 year old teeny bopper with a pea sized brain.
i was reffering to main site,not the forums...

It seem like your contradicting urself..... ive not made an opinion, its a topic, to see other views on it, its a debate....
maybe you need to be a little more grown up and try and understand... if you dont agree with the statment in comment, give ur reasons why, and if you do agaian give your reason.
Ur being the imature one, leaving personal attacks.

[mr photographer]

well it never did and i'm a loyal person so it never would that's why i'm in a seriously relationship had i not want to be only my bf's then i'd just simply be dating him

whats the difference between simple dating and a serious relationship

nothings guaranteed .... he might just be with because the actions all good :dance3: but once it becomes stale ... he might move on.

or so you'd like to believe taht he's being faithful, but you dont really know, i have seen shit go on right under a girls noses.

i know a girl from RD that got played by a married man and i even warned her, she still went ahead with it and didnt listen to me :rolleyes:

[miss_qupid]

is that a joke?

being committed to a person in a relationship esp a serious one is saying that you wont stray, or cheat and genuine flirting is like cheating ..porn however isn't so wack away bc that's not emotional but flirting like honestly flirting not joking around is kinda fueled by an obvious attraction or lust and that makes it cheating
i agree.

[mr photographer]

flirting on the forums, yes I really can't control but do i go on any further with it? Hell no

yeh yeh ... if ur gettin offered punanni on a plate ... i know for a fact u wont say no :p

[pachaas Paisa]

is that a joke?

being committed to a person in a relationship esp a serious one is saying that you wont stray, or cheat and genuine flirting is like cheating ..porn however isn't so wack away bc that's not emotional but flirting like honestly flirting not joking around is kinda fueled by an obvious attraction or lust and that makes it cheating


where are you brigning these non existant facts from anyway? You're gonna force your emotions and make yourself believe that life only shifts to one shitty boring pattern once you're in a relationship? JUST because you have gotten with someone, lets just call it a "serious relationship" means an end to your friendship and social life? Jesus woman get a grip, a relationship is not the biggest priority, and that doesnt mean extreme sacrifice. Cuttting down on flirting and other so called "cheating" related activities, is important yes because you need more time to spend with your significant other but a complete cut off? Impossible, thats just like having a new year resolution which you will neevr in ur lifetime follow except for the first few days. You put urself away from something, tryuing hard to ignore it, then you become more prone to doing it because the craving still hasnt left your system. It only works gradually, when people realize the importance of a relationship... then one step at a time is all thats needed. All this bullshit crap people say about "flirting" is not entirely true unless you flirt in a perverted way causing harm to your significant other.

[miss_qupid]

yeh yeh ... if ur gettin offered punanni on a plate ... i know for a fact u wont say no :p
i agree.

[A lil Crazy]

where are you brigning these non existant facts from anyway? You're gonna force your emotions and make yourself believe that life only shifts to one shitty boring pattern once you're in a relationship? JUST because you have gotten with someone, lets just call it a "serious relationship" means an end to your friendship and social life? Jesus woman get a grip, a relationship is not the biggest priority, and that doesnt mean extreme sacrifice. Cuttting down on flirting and other so called "cheating" related activities, is important yes because you need more time to spend with your significant other but a complete cut off? Impossible, thats just like having a new year resolution which you will neevr in ur lifetime follow except for the first few days. You put urself away from something, tryuing hard to ignore it, then you become more prone to doing it because the craving still hasnt left your system. It only works gradually, when people realize the importance of a relationship... then one step at a time is all thats needed. All this bullshit crap people say about "flirting" is not entirely true unless you flirt in a perverted way causing harm to your significant other.
Pratty cake's right.

Let's prove them wrong. come here you :cuddle:

[Sweet_LiL_Hunnie]

whats the difference between simple dating and a serious relationship

nothings guaranteed .... he might just be with because the actions all good :dance3: but once it becomes stale ... he might move on.

or so you'd like to believe taht he's being faithful, but you dont really know, i have seen shit go on right under a girls noses.

i know a girl from RD that got played by a married man and i even warned her, she still went ahead with it and didnt listen to me :rolleyes:


dating someone means you aren't committed just solely to them so u can still date around till u find someone that you want to start a RELATIONSHIP with that may go somewhere future wise... casual dating is how u find that person personally i wont date a few guys at a time if im talking to one guy than i keep it that way but i dont see the harm in talking to a few potential bf guys at one time.

and honestly ppl that get cheated on have signs they just don't see them bc they dont want to...most of us in serious relationships are in SECURE relationships but then again pricks like you that see a lot of dumb girls and guys get used and cheated on will be paranoid husbands of the future keeping a close and watchful eye on your wife or gfs...

there's more to life u know

[pachaas Paisa]

i was reffering to main site,not the forums...

It seem like your contradicting urself..... ive not made an opinion, its a topic, to see other views on it, its a debate....
maybe you need to be a little more grown up and try and understand... if you dont agree with the statment in comment, give ur reasons why, and if you do agaian give your reason.
Ur being the imature one, leaving personal attacks.


Ooooh personal attack because i said your ways are "whorish"? My God you sensitive female species, get the fuck over yourself and think logically. You made a thread with a statement "what the hell are you doing on rd" means you're completely against of those who are in relationships currently being on rd. Main site or forums, what the hell is the difference?

[pachaas Paisa]

Pratty cake's right.

Let's prove them wrong. come here you :cuddle:

give me hajcake :yum:

[miss_qupid]

Ooooh personal attack because i said your ways are "whorish"? My God you sensitive female species, get the fuck over yourself and think logically. You made a thread with a statement "what the hell are you doing on rd" means you're completely against of those who are in relationships currently being on rd. Main site or forums, what the hell is the difference?
did you not see the question mark....?



and then at the bottom.
"discuss"..


Do you lack logic? or you live in ignorance or are you not a rational thinker? do you always see the glass as half empty...


and if you cant see the diff between mainsite and forums, get ur site checked.

[A lil Crazy]

give me hajcake :yum:
*hands over marble cake*

[miss_qupid]

*hands over marble cake*
can you flirt with him somewhere else pwease?

[mr photographer]

dating someone means you aren't committed just solely to them so u can still date around till u find someone that you want to start a RELATIONSHIP with that may go somewhere future wise... casual dating is how u find that person personally i wont date a few guys at a time if im talking to one guy than i keep it that way but i dont see the harm in talking to a few potential bf guys at one time.

and honestly ppl that get cheated on have signs they just don't see them bc they dont want to...most of us in serious relationships are in SECURE relationships but then again pricks like you that see a lot of dumb girls and guys get used and cheated on will be paranoid husbands of the future keeping a close and watchful eye on your wife or gfs...

there's more to life u know

then there are dumbasses like you that will believe that their guy will never cheat on them ... believe it sister ... if you think ur man is going to be 100% faithful to u and not screw another woman then you have to be the dumbest girl to be walking the planet

married women get cheated upon ..... bill clinton did it, uk's deputy prime minister married for 44 years was screwing his secretary for atleast 2 years and your telling me that she saw that coming
:rolleyes:

it's all about the swinging baby :dance3:

[pachaas Paisa]

did you not see the question mark....?



and then at the bottom.
"discuss"..


Do you lack logic? or you live in ignorance or are you not a retional thinker? do you always see the glass as half empty...


and if you cant see the diff between mainsite and forums, get ur site checked.

The basic concept of flirting on both main site and the forums is the same exact. No difference whats so ever, Rd has become just like any other dating website now, it's not a rating site. Here we have people seeking partners too deep down, but then again, what is the big difference? Here we have people throwing more useless opinion as compared to RD, and thats it.

The way you portrayed your question made it seem like you're against couples that post on rd. Get over it

[miss_qupid]

then there are dumbasses like you that will believe that their guy will never cheat on them ... believe it sister ... if you think ur man is going to be 100% faithful to u and not screw another woman then you have to be the dumbest girl to be walking the planet

married women get cheated upon ..... bill clinton did it, uk's deputy prime minister married for 44 years was screwing his secretary for atleast 2 years and your telling me that she saw that coming
:rolleyes:

it's all about the swinging baby :dance3:
rock on....

[pachaas Paisa]

can you flirt with him somewhere else pwease?

Handing me a piece of cake = flirting?

Seriously, you are ignorant and uptight, and too critical of everything around you, loosen up.

[miss_qupid]

The basic concept of flirting on both main site and the forums is the same exact. No difference whats so ever, Rd has become just like any other dating website now, it's not a rating site. Here we have people seeking partners too deep down, but then again, what is the big difference? Here we have people throwing more useless opinion as compared to RD, and thats it.

The way you portrayed your question made it seem like you're against couples that post on rd. Get over it
This topic has nothing to do with flirting, its about having your pics up whilst being in a relationship......

[A lil Crazy]

can you flirt with him somewhere else pwease?
No.

[miss_qupid]

Handing me a piece of cake = flirting?

Seriously, you are ignorant and uptight, and too critical of everything around you, loosen up.
and ur saying that bcus you know me so well.

i cud say alot about you, but then i see it as your e-dumbass persona, i leave it at that.

[Sweet_LiL_Hunnie]

You're gonna force your emotions and make yourself believe that life only shifts to one shitty boring pattern once you're in a relationship? JUST because you have gotten with someone, lets just call it a "serious relationship" means an end to your friendship and social life? Jesus woman get a grip, a relationship is not the biggest priority, and that doesnt mean extreme sacrifice. Cuttting down on flirting and other so called "cheating" related activities, is important yes because you need more time to spend with your significant other but a complete cut off? Impossible, thats just like having a new year resolution which you will neevr in ur lifetime follow except for the first few days. You put urself away from something, tryuing hard to ignore it, then you become more prone to doing it because the craving still hasnt left your system. It only works gradually, when people realize the importance of a relationship... then one step at a time is all thats needed. All this bullshit crap people say about "flirting" is not entirely true unless you flirt in a perverted way causing harm to your significant other.

wow ur nutzo i never said being in a serious relationship ends friendships i have a ton of friends guys and girls doesn't mean i'll flirt with my guy friends and if they flirt with me they obviously dont respect my relationship and are not allowed to be my friend anymore.

yes i have a pattern with my bf but it doesn't mean its boring or shitty so talk for yourself and your fucked up past relationships. i haven't ended my social life at all i make time for his friends as he makes for mine and many nights im not into hanging out with his dental friends as he isn't into hanging out with my muslim friends that dont drink so we spend our sat. nights with our own groups and social circles to come home to the comfort of each other.

my priority is school, once im done with my school work i then turn to my list of errands and things i need to do around my apt and then get concerned about my bf's needs like dinner or so forth. i love taking care of my friends and family, and enjoy taking care of my bf just as he enjoys taking care of me i'm sick left and right and he's always come through whenever i was too weak to go grocery shopping n to do simple tasks as doing cleaning up my apt.

yah once again ur sick i never have cut myself off from friends for a man never will not even when im married i'd still need nights to myself and my girls or my circle of friends.

if you have so called "cravings" to flirt with ppl then you have no business being in a relationship and should stop leading women on


you think that flirting in a pervy way is the only way to hurt your significant other? think again flirting in any genuine way shows u are attracted and want to get to know another person and THAT is cheating bc it's EMOTIONAL and lust plays into it

if you can't understand these concepts than i feel sorry for any woman that gets stuck in a serious relationship with you...if you feel that not being able to flirt is something that u will crave more and more and grow more n more u sound like you're going to grow up to be one of those pathetic men who bitch and whine about having a sex addiction lol

real men and women that are loyal to partners would never need to flirt with another person

[mr photographer]

oh and hunnie ..... let me assure u one thing .... when ur man's having sex with you ... you will be the last thing on his mind ... he'll be fantasizing about someone else i assure you .... guess you really don't know men aswell as you think you do :rolleyes:

[mr photographer]

This topic has nothing to do with flirting, its about having your pics up whilst being in a relationship......

is that why u took ur picture down ... because ur in a relationship now :rolleyes:

[miss_qupid]

oh and hunnie ..... let me assure u one thing .... when ur man's having sex with you ... you will be the last thing on his mind ... he'll be fantasizing about someone else i assure you .... guess you really don't know men aswell as you think you do :rolleyes:
dont ppl need a brain to think, hence millions of brain cellls?


she only has one, a genuis of her kind, if she has 2 brain cells.

[miss_qupid]

is that why u took ur picture down ... because ur in a relationship now :rolleyes:
no duh, i have my other reasons.


but it didnt reflect good on me to have my pics up, guess my age has taught me that.

[Sweet_LiL_Hunnie]

then there are dumbasses like you that will believe that their guy will never cheat on them ... believe it sister ... if you think ur man is going to be 100% faithful to u and not screw another woman then you have to be the dumbest girl to be walking the planet

married women get cheated upon ..... bill clinton did it, uk's deputy prime minister married for 44 years was screwing his secretary for atleast 2 years and your telling me that she saw that coming
:rolleyes:

it's all about the swinging baby :dance3:

you're the dumbass stop assuming things i never said A MAN WONT CHEAT ON ME fucker i said that PPL THAT ARE CHEATED ON OBVIOUSLY HAD SIGNS THEY CHOSE TO NOT SEE that's it...i've had a past bf attempt to cheat on me and i knew he was the type i had a feeling n saw him checking out other chicks if that's not a red alert i don't know what is..and i chose to see that and nipped it in the bud and ended the relationship. maybe your friends are dumb bitches who are soo desperate to be in a relationship that they avoid these signs but let me tell u something buddy..signs are there most ppl just chose to not see them and "hope for the best"

i will say that my bf has had girls try to get his attention as i have had guys try to get mine but we chose to tell those ppl to fuck off bc we're contempt with our relationship

ppl that aren't and dont have trust, and faith, and honesty with their partners have no business being in relationships

and ppl that get cheated on are dumb losers that dont see the signs..sounds like u know a lot of ppl like that and honestly maybe u should teach them to value their worth a bit more

[miss_qupid]

you're the dumbass stop assuming things i never said A MAN WONT CHEAT ON ME fucker i said that PPL THAT ARE CHEATED ON OBVIOUSLY HAD SIGNS THEY CHOSE TO NOT SEE that's it...i've had a past bf attempt to cheat on me and i knew he was the type i had a feeling n saw him checking out other chicks if that's not a red alert i don't know what is..and i chose to see that and nipped it in the bud and ended the relationship. maybe your friends are dumb bitches who are soo desperate to be in a relationship that they avoid these signs but let me tell u something buddy..signs are there most ppl just chose to not see them and "hope for the best"

i will say that my bf has had girls try to get his attention as i have had guys try to get mine but we chose to tell those ppl to fuck off bc we're contempt with our relationship

ppl that aren't and dont have trust, and faith, and honesty with their partners have no business being in relationships

and ppl that get cheated on are dumb losers that dont see the signs..sounds like u know a lot of ppl like that and honestly maybe u should teach them to value their worth a bit more
What land you living on? la la land?

This is the year 2006..... ppl are not dumb enuff to leave trails behind to be caught.... hence you never see the, those who cheat are usually the inteligent ones, who know how to cover their tracks.

[Sweet_LiL_Hunnie]

oh and hunnie ..... let me assure u one thing .... when ur man's having sex with you ... you will be the last thing on his mind ... he'll be fantasizing about someone else i assure you .... guess you really don't know men aswell as you think you do :rolleyes:


u know sex is for husbands..i'm not married there aint no sex here...however i read over and over studies of men and women having flashes of other ppl during sex i only hope that will never happen

my roomate is a psychology major she just emailed me something from her emotional wellness textbook stating "have you ever fantasized about having sex with someone other than your partner? If so your not the only one- it's one of the most commonly reported fantasies. there's NO need to feel guilty about this; more than 90% of men and women have fantasies during sexual activities with another person"

i'm not brain dead plz just stop assuming im living in this perfect bubble however if a person was to act on that then that would be fucked up and cheating...if not science shows it cant be helped and it doesnt mean your partner loves u less or anything like that

[Sweet_LiL_Hunnie]

What land you living on? la la land?

This is the year 2006..... ppl are not dumb enuff to leave trails behind to be caught.... hence you never see the, those who cheat are usually the inteligent ones, who know how to cover their tracks.

you're retarded men that cheat do stupid shit like get text messages or calls at odd hours, loose interest in their gfs, stay on the internet longer and neglect your relationship basically in many different methods

if you are a neglected bf or gf chances are your spouse is cheating

[miss_qupid]

you're retarded men that cheat do stupid shit like get text messages or calls at odd hours, loose interest in their gfs, stay on the internet longer and neglect your relationship basically in many different methods

if you are a neglected bf or gf chances are your spouse is cheating
not really,

they cud go out with a group of mates and sleep with a random girl on a night out or kiss a girl.

and ur not exactly with them 24/7

they may have a different number. come on....

[mamamia!]

see, this i dont understand, when someone is in a relationship on rd, they take their pics off, but does this stop people looking at you in real life? no. yes, rd pics are your own choice, but then again it's like saying once you're in a relationship you shouldn't wear nice clothes or make up for anyone else but your sig other. it's just a picture, an image...a representation of who are, it does not translate as "oh come look at me give me e-compliments wee". phew.

[miss_qupid]

see, this i dont understand, when someone is in a relationship on rd, they take their pics off, but does this stop people looking at you in real life? no. yes, rd pics are your own choice, but then again it's like saying once you're in a relationship you shouldn't wear nice clothes or make up for anyone else but your sig other. it's just a picture, an image...a representation of who are, it does not translate as "oh come look at me give me e-compliments wee". phew.
interesting.


so wat does it repersent?

[Sweet_LiL_Hunnie]

see, this i dont understand, when someone is in a relationship on rd, they take their pics off, but does this stop people looking at you in real life? no. yes, rd pics are your own choice, but then again it's like saying once you're in a relationship you shouldn't wear nice clothes or make up for anyone else but your sig other. it's just a picture, an image...a representation of who are, it does not translate as "oh come look at me give me e-compliments wee". phew.

im glad someone got us back on track to the topic at hand and i totally agree with everything u had to say

[mr photographer]

you're the dumbass stop assuming things i never said A MAN WONT CHEAT ON ME fucker i said that PPL THAT ARE CHEATED ON OBVIOUSLY HAD SIGNS THEY CHOSE TO NOT SEE that's it...i've had a past bf attempt to cheat on me and i knew he was the type i had a feeling n saw him checking out other chicks if that's not a red alert i don't know what is..and i chose to see that and nipped it in the bud and ended the relationship. maybe your friends are dumb bitches who are soo desperate to be in a relationship that they avoid these signs but let me tell u something buddy..signs are there most ppl just chose to not see them and "hope for the best"

i will say that my bf has had girls try to get his attention as i have had guys try to get mine but we chose to tell those ppl to fuck off bc we're contempt with our relationship

ppl that aren't and dont have trust, and faith, and honesty with their partners have no business being in relationships

and ppl that get cheated on are dumb losers that dont see the signs..sounds like u know a lot of ppl like that and honestly maybe u should teach them to value their worth a bit more

ooo someones gettin defensive .... there are no tell-tale signs for cheating dumbass ..... someone checking out other chicks is not a sign of cheating .... you sure do come out with some cock n bull .... thats like saying a guy who works in the modeling industry or who is surrounded by womenn is sure to cheat :sarb:

it's not about being contempt .... it's about opportunity, lust and temptation .... i'll guarantee you any money if eva mendes was naked and had her legs open and turned around to your bf and said take me now ...... he'd whip his dick out faster then a ferarri could get to in 0-60secs

:rolleyes:

[miss_qupid]

ooo someones gettin defensive .... there are no tell-tale signs for cheating dumbass ..... someone checking out other chicks is not a sign of cheating .... you sure do come out with some cock n bull .... thats like saying a guy who works in the modeling industry or who is surrounded by womenn is sure to cheat :sarb:

it's not about being contempt .... it's about opportunity, lust and temptation .... i'll guarantee you any money if eva mendes was naked and had her legs open and turned around to your bf and said take me now ...... he'd whip his dick out faster then a ferarri could get to in 0-60secs

:rolleyes:
oh my days.

[mr photographer]

What land you living on? la la land?

This is the year 2006..... ppl are not dumb enuff to leave trails behind to be caught.... hence you never see the, those who cheat are usually the inteligent ones, who know how to cover their tracks.

she obviously isn't a fan of CSI :giggle:

that show has taught me everything in how i need to cover my tracks :dance3:

[miss_qupid]

she obviously isn't a fan of CSI :giggle:

that show has taught me everything in how i need to cover my tracks :dance3:
lol.

[mamamia!]

see, this i dont understand, when someone is in a relationship on rd, they take their pics off, but does this stop people looking at you in real life? no. yes, rd pics are your own choice, but then again it's like saying once you're in a relationship you shouldn't wear nice clothes or make up for anyone else but your sig other. it's just a picture, an image...a representation of who are, it does not translate as "oh come look at me give me e-compliments wee". phew.


interesting.


so wat does it repersent?

just that.

[mamamia!]

im glad someone got us back on track to the topic at hand and i totally agree with everything u had to say
i just hate the whole insecurity/jealousy/stigma attached to posting pics, they're measely pics to show a buncha people what your life is like and who you are. you can't stop people looking at you.

[pachaas Paisa]

wow ur nutzo i never said being in a serious relationship ends friendships [i have a ton of friends guys and girls doesn't mean i'll flirt with my guy friends and if they flirt with me they obviously dont respect my relationship and are not allowed to be my friend anymore.

First of all I REALLY doubt with that nasty attitude of yours, you have tons of friends. No way jose, you're gonna base your friendship in terms of whether if they flirt with you or not? Most guys flirt, it's natural to flirt with someone of the opposite sex to make bonds even stronger. A man and a woman dont have to be necessarily in a relationship to compliment or "flirt" with one another. That's the dumbest logic I have ever heard from someone. A guy friend of yours can simply respect you being in a relationship by actually NOT altering anything between you and your man. That simply denotes that he's not obligated from not having feelings for you, and incase he does he shouldnt be blamed and then be called a "traitor" instead of a friend. This is where you females are fucked in the head. And to top that a man can flirt with a woman on a regular basis and still stay FRIENDS, because that shit is proven you dumb twat.



yes i have a pattern with my bf but it doesn't mean its boring or shitty so talk for yourself and your fucked up past relationships. i haven't ended my social life at all i make time for his friends as he makes for mine and many nights im not into hanging out with his dental friends as he isn't into hanging out with my muslim friends that dont drink so we spend our sat. nights with our own groups and social circles to come home to the comfort of each other.

Well good for you, I am not here to listen your personal life story and then on top of that take making assumptions about my past relationships. For your info, please srefrain from making stupid remarks about my "life" especially when you know jack about it.



my priority is school, once im done with my school work i then turn to my list of errands and things i need to do around my apt and then get concerned about my bf's needs like dinner or so forth. i love taking care of my friends and family, and enjoy taking care of my bf just as he enjoys taking care of me i'm sick left and right and he's always come through whenever i was too weak to go grocery shopping n to do simple tasks as doing cleaning up my apt.

Again I am not interested in your personal life, so stop throwing all taht shit at me just so you can prove your shitty point. And that part of your argument had NOTHING to do with my point, not even a slight bit of counter attack. what a waste?



yah once again ur sick i never have cut myself off from friends for a man never will not even when im married i'd still need nights to myself and my girls or my circle of friends.

No point in repeating, I get it, I get YOUR PERSONAL LIFE STORY dumbass.

if you have so called "cravings" to flirt with ppl then you have no business being in a relationship and should stop leading women on

refer to my post above, again I will spoon feed you some basic information about humans. Humans in general tend to lean more towards what they cant have. The inner desires of a human being is simply self explanatory. So basically this was the main point of your argument, "flirting" with people means I have no BUSINESS to be in a relationship. Wow did you get a degree on being in a perfect relationship you uptight sack of shit? When there are no written laws based on a "relationship" a person may continue living the lifestyle he has and be considerable and reasonable with his significant WHICH WAS MY MAIN POINT.


you think that flirting in a pervy way is the only way to hurt your significant other? think again flirting in any genuine way shows u are attracted and want to get to know another person and THAT is cheating bc it's EMOTIONAL and lust plays into it

I CAN VERY WELL UNDERSTAND THAT any form of adultery is a sinful nature of a human being. Yes, but when you're in a relationship you're not guaranted to be with that person for ever and ever and ever and ever. There could be many other issues that can rise up as a part of your growing up. Sometimes relationships DON'T work out. No need to alter your lifestyle because you're in a relationship, it's always a good thing to widen your horizons and meet more people, regardless of being attached to them or not. What are you telling me that most women are mentally loyal to their men? Hell fucking no, if a girl met her romeo, somewhere along the line a better romeo WILL come across, not even your own self created fate can stop that from happening. Personalities differ and it's a part of understanding people, with some people yuoc an get close to with being in serious terms while with others in a flirty manner. You're in no position to speak for your own feelings and desires, I can also understand that you are loyal to your "boyfriend" but some women have higher demands than that, and for the most part their boyfriends aren't enough for all their requirement criteria.

if you can't understand these concepts than i feel sorry for any woman that gets stuck in a serious relationship with you...if you feel that not being able to flirt is something that u will crave more and more and grow more n more u sound like you're going to grow up to be one of those pathetic men who bitch and whine about having a sex addiction lol

Again with the preassumption that I am a BIG ASSHOLE that will never understand a woman. well hey at least you saw a "bad" side of me that will let you talk about How assholish and immature men really are.. am I correct bitch? I really feel glad for my future wife, because for thr most part I know she will end up with a man who thinks striaght forward rather than believing in the cultural and media based norms of relationships. And speaking about sex addiction, I really don't wanna step up the convo to that level with you considering how ignorant you are so far, you might just go.. "Oh my Gosh he did not just say that" in response to my next comment which I will refrain from saying. Just shut up

real men and women that are loyal to partners would never need to flirt with another person

Wrong bitch! Real men and women can care less

[GT_Starrr]

What the hell you doin on Rd? especially if you have ur pics up, why?



why the hell go anywhere if you have a gf?...i prefer to just sit around at home by myself completly isolated from the outside world.

if i have to go out, i wear an ugly mask...that way she knows, i will never cheat on her.

[mamamia!]

why the hell go anywhere if you have a gf?...i prefer to just sit around at home by myself completly isolated from the outside world.

if i have to go out, i wear an ugly mask...that way she knows, i will never cheat on her.
LOL

[Canadian_jatti]

rd is not a dating service thas why!!!

p.s. i'm single lol

[Sweet_LiL_Hunnie]

ooo someones gettin defensive .... there are no tell-tale signs for cheating dumbass ..... someone checking out other chicks is not a sign of cheating .... you sure do come out with some cock n bull .... thats like saying a guy who works in the modeling industry or who is surrounded by womenn is sure to cheat :sarb:

it's not about being contempt .... it's about opportunity, lust and temptation .... i'll guarantee you any money if eva mendes was naked and had her legs open and turned around to your bf and said take me now ...... he'd whip his dick out faster then a ferarri could get to in 0-60secs

:rolleyes:


ppl checking out girls they call their friends is cheating bc obviously they would want to be more than friends

anyhow i wont answer u or pachass anymore i wasted more than enough time on yall as you have responding to me...we wont see eye to eye so lets just get over it. i think for you to say the eva mendes thing is bull shit at it's finest...my bf has had girls throw themself at him esp here in san antonio he's going to be a dentist n there are tons of beautiful mexican girls trying to get his attention and he hasn't strayed. i'm confident that my man wont be straying anytime soon even if there was an eva mendes...

there's no harm in porn, strip clubs, checking out women that's fine but when a guy is checking out the same friend over n over then there's more to it so that's that end of story

enjoy your life with your dumb hoes that get used over and over don't educate them on being more aware of signs that show a man is bound to cheat or attempting or cheating on them....enjoy your life as i will enjoy mine

[Sweet_LiL_Hunnie]

First of all I REALLY doubt with that nasty attitude of yours, you have tons of friends. Most guys flirt, it's natural to flirt with someone of the opposite sex to make bonds even stronger. A man and a woman dont have to be necessarily in a relationship to compliment or "flirt" with one another. And to top that a man can flirt with a woman on a regular basis and still stay FRIENDS, because that shit is proven you dumb twat.

i'm GREAT and a loyal friend go talk to ur e-boy aniq about that or talk to arshia about how caring i can be i'm a wonderful person may have an attitude bc i know it but oh well that's life if u find my attitude soo nasty then fuck off bc you repeating the term DUMB LOGIC over in over shows you have nothing really substantial to say so u repeat this over and over that's cool. complimenting and flirting 2 diff things just as ******s and black ppl are to me...get over it



Well good for you, I am not here to listen your personal life story and then on top of that take making assumptions about my past relationships. For your info, please srefrain from making stupid remarks about my "life" especially when you know jack about it.

i don't know jack shit about your personal life but u were talking shit about falling into patterns and how serious relationships were boring or something and i was just showing u USING A REAL LIFE SITUATION LIKE MY OWN that it's not maybe your relationships gave u that idea but mine haven't luckily.


Again I am not interested in your personal life, so stop throwing all taht shit at me just so you can prove your shitty point. And that part of your argument had NOTHING to do with my point, not even a slight bit of counter attack. what a waste?

it does bc u mentioned putting a man first and cutting off social lives and friends so i had to mention that a man is not first in my life but my bf's needs are important to me so it does go with your shit argument maybe u need to re-read the crap you post.



No point in repeating, I get it, I get YOUR PERSONAL LIFE STORY dumbass.

well then you'd get from my great life story that you are TOTALLY WRONG in saying ppl in serious relationships are cut out of social circles and never spend time socially without their partner...once again i posted something totally relevant to the topic and you dismissed it bc i keep proving u wrong and im sure most ppl in serious relationships could do the same with their stories.


The inner desires of a human being is simply self explanatory. So basically this was the main point of your argument, "flirting" with people means I have no BUSINESS to be in a relationship. Wow did you get a degree on being in a perfect relationship you uptight sack of shit? When there are no written laws based on a "relationship" a person may continue living the lifestyle he has and be considerable and reasonable with his significant WHICH WAS MY MAIN POINT.

i never said i was in a perfect relationship so don't go there but my good secure relationship did work wonders on proving all of your stupid misconceptions of relationships being boring, or all about the man and so forth to be WRONG in my case and im sure in many others. i wonder why ppl bash serious relationships when they are obviously the product of one...hello ur mom and dad wtf. and yes flirting is emotional and so it's cheating end of story IN MY OPINION and in my opinion ppl that cant emotionally and physically fully commit to being loyal to their partner have no business in a serious relationship bc they'd be such a let down and are just stringing someone along for no apparent reason. if anything just date the person dont be their bf.



I CAN VERY WELL UNDERSTAND THAT any form of adultery is a sinful nature of a human being. Yes, but when you're in a relationship you're not guaranted to be with that person for ever and ever and ever and ever. There could be many other issues that can rise up as a part of your growing up. Sometimes relationships DON'T work out. No need to alter your lifestyle because you're in a relationship, it's always a good thing to widen your horizons and meet more people, regardless of being attached to them or not. What are you telling me that most women are mentally loyal to their men? Hell fucking no, if a girl met her romeo, somewhere along the line a better romeo WILL come across, not even your own self created fate can stop that from happening. Personalities differ and it's a part of understanding people, with some people yuoc an get close to with being in serious terms while with others in a flirty manner. You're in no position to speak for your own feelings and desires, I can also understand that you are loyal to your "boyfriend" but some women have higher demands than that, and for the most part their boyfriends aren't enough for all their requirement criteria.

if a woman was to meet her romeo while being in a relationship then she should end her relationship there's no need to string along a guy that will not have a chance esp while u are attracted to someone else.

Again with the preassumption that I am a BIG ASSHOLE that will never understand a woman. well hey at least you saw a "bad" side of me that will let you talk about How assholish and immature men really are.. am I correct bitch? I really feel glad for my future wife, because for thr most part I know she will end up with a man who thinks striaght forward rather than believing in the cultural and media based norms of relationships. And speaking about sex addiction, I really don't wanna step up the convo to that level with you considering how ignorant you are so far, you might just go.. "Oh my Gosh he did not just say that" in response to my next comment which I will refrain from saying. Just shut up

i stand by my earlier statment real men and women in good secure SERIOUS RELATIONSHIPS wouldn't feel the need to flirt or cheat or what not end of story. i don't think you're a bitch or an asshole bc throughout your responses u mention women this women being fucked up in the head this is where all you women go wrong that sorta talk so obviously u have issues with females and that's fine good luck in finding a girl that suits you and i hope u dont flirt with others while u are with her in a serious relationship bc i would hope that EVERYONE would find someone that wouldn't need attention from other admirers just as most parents never needed anyone else in their lives.

[Sweet_LiL_Hunnie]

and from now on this is my last post on this topic sorry for screwing it up for you miss qupid i'll just read bc i wont see eye to eye with ppl and to continue talking to walls

[MiZz MiNi]

for the hell of it...for meeting new ppl...for making him jealous :neutral:

[pachaas Paisa]

First of all I REALLY doubt with that nasty attitude of yours, you have tons of friends. Most guys flirt, it's natural to flirt with someone of the opposite sex to make bonds even stronger. A man and a woman dont have to be necessarily in a relationship to compliment or "flirt" with one another. And to top that a man can flirt with a woman on a regular basis and still stay FRIENDS, because that shit is proven you dumb twat.

i'm GREAT and a loyal friend go talk to ur e-boy aniq about that or talk to arshia about how caring i can be i'm a wonderful person may have an attitude bc i know it but oh well that's life if u find my attitude soo nasty then fuck off bc you repeating the term DUMB LOGIC over in over shows you have nothing really substantial to say so u repeat this over and over that's cool. complimenting and flirting 2 diff things just as ******s and black ppl are to me...get over it



Well good for you, I am not here to listen your personal life story and then on top of that take making assumptions about my past relationships. For your info, please srefrain from making stupid remarks about my "life" especially when you know jack about it.

i don't know jack shit about your personal life but u were talking shit about falling into patterns and how serious relationships were boring or something and i was just showing u USING A REAL LIFE SITUATION LIKE MY OWN that it's not maybe your relationships gave u that idea but mine haven't luckily.


Again I am not interested in your personal life, so stop throwing all taht shit at me just so you can prove your shitty point. And that part of your argument had NOTHING to do with my point, not even a slight bit of counter attack. what a waste?

it does bc u mentioned putting a man first and cutting off social lives and friends so i had to mention that a man is not first in my life but my bf's needs are important to me so it does go with your shit argument maybe u need to re-read the crap you post.



No point in repeating, I get it, I get YOUR PERSONAL LIFE STORY dumbass.

well then you'd get from my great life story that you are TOTALLY WRONG in saying ppl in serious relationships are cut out of social circles and never spend time socially without their partner...once again i posted something totally relevant to the topic and you dismissed it bc i keep proving u wrong and im sure most ppl in serious relationships could do the same with their stories.


The inner desires of a human being is simply self explanatory. So basically this was the main point of your argument, "flirting" with people means I have no BUSINESS to be in a relationship. Wow did you get a degree on being in a perfect relationship you uptight sack of shit? When there are no written laws based on a "relationship" a person may continue living the lifestyle he has and be considerable and reasonable with his significant WHICH WAS MY MAIN POINT.

i never said i was in a perfect relationship so don't go there but my good secure relationship did work wonders on proving all of your stupid misconceptions of relationships being boring, or all about the man and so forth to be WRONG in my case and im sure in many others. i wonder why ppl bash serious relationships when they are obviously the product of one...hello ur mom and dad wtf. and yes flirting is emotional and so it's cheating end of story IN MY OPINION and in my opinion ppl that cant emotionally and physically fully commit to being loyal to their partner have no business in a serious relationship bc they'd be such a let down and are just stringing someone along for no apparent reason. if anything just date the person dont be their bf.



I CAN VERY WELL UNDERSTAND THAT any form of adultery is a sinful nature of a human being. Yes, but when you're in a relationship you're not guaranted to be with that person for ever and ever and ever and ever. There could be many other issues that can rise up as a part of your growing up. Sometimes relationships DON'T work out. No need to alter your lifestyle because you're in a relationship, it's always a good thing to widen your horizons and meet more people, regardless of being attached to them or not. What are you telling me that most women are mentally loyal to their men? Hell fucking no, if a girl met her romeo, somewhere along the line a better romeo WILL come across, not even your own self created fate can stop that from happening. Personalities differ and it's a part of understanding people, with some people yuoc an get close to with being in serious terms while with others in a flirty manner. You're in no position to speak for your own feelings and desires, I can also understand that you are loyal to your "boyfriend" but some women have higher demands than that, and for the most part their boyfriends aren't enough for all their requirement criteria.

if a woman was to meet her romeo while being in a relationship then she should end her relationship there's no need to string along a guy that will not have a chance esp while u are attracted to someone else.

Again with the preassumption that I am a BIG ASSHOLE that will never understand a woman. well hey at least you saw a "bad" side of me that will let you talk about How assholish and immature men really are.. am I correct bitch? I really feel glad for my future wife, because for thr most part I know she will end up with a man who thinks striaght forward rather than believing in the cultural and media based norms of relationships. And speaking about sex addiction, I really don't wanna step up the convo to that level with you considering how ignorant you are so far, you might just go.. "Oh my Gosh he did not just say that" in response to my next comment which I will refrain from saying. Just shut up

i stand by my earlier statment real men and women in good secure SERIOUS RELATIONSHIPS wouldn't feel the need to flirt or cheat or what not end of story. i don't think you're a bitch or an asshole bc throughout your responses u mention women this women being fucked up in the head this is where all you women go wrong that sorta talk so obviously u have issues with females and that's fine good luck in finding a girl that suits you and i hope u dont flirt with others while u are with her in a serious relationship bc i would hope that EVERYONE would find someone that wouldn't need attention from other admirers just as most parents never needed anyone else in their lives.


Props! that was a SHIT load of absolutely nothing.

[PreciousPari]

Because its called ratedesi not datedesi. Even though there are a few exceptions who do both.

[bmw]

what's a girlfriend? :scratch:

[VRINDA]

just depends on the person. some ppl dont care about their photos being up on the net.. and some do.. so as long as its ok with u and ur bf/gf .. it shudnt matter to anyone else

[ali_tx]

i don't have a bf or gf and i don't have my pics up

and no i am not here to pick up chicks |_ () |_

[mr photographer]

ppl checking out girls they call their friends is cheating bc obviously they would want to be more than friends

anyhow i wont answer u or pachass anymore i wasted more than enough time on yall as you have responding to me...we wont see eye to eye so lets just get over it. i think for you to say the eva mendes thing is bull shit at it's finest...my bf has had girls throw themself at him esp here in san antonio he's going to be a dentist n there are tons of beautiful mexican girls trying to get his attention and he hasn't strayed. i'm confident that my man wont be straying anytime soon even if there was an eva mendes...

there's no harm in porn, strip clubs, checking out women that's fine but when a guy is checking out the same friend over n over then there's more to it so that's that end of story

enjoy your life with your dumb hoes that get used over and over don't educate them on being more aware of signs that show a man is bound to cheat or attempting or cheating on them....enjoy your life as i will enjoy mine

thats what every girl says to reassure herself

but again ... alot of cock and bull

like i said ... temptation and lust gets the better of people :wavey:

[PeachesAndCream*]

This is a rating site, not a dating site, shit i sound so hipercritical saying that.. :Oops:

[FlyDesiGrl]

this is where i come to find my gf's
buahahahahahhahahahaa!!

[miss_khan]

yeah i guess your right in a way.temptations a bitch. i wouldnt want him being on this site if we were serious,i mean for what?timepass? nah thas bullshit.

[miss_khan]

thats what every girl says to reassure herself

but again ... alot of cock and bull

like i said ... temptation and lust gets the better of people :wavey:


i actually agree with you.

[choo_$$choo_$$]

i am a manwhore.....smh:no:

[Danish_S]

i actually agree with you.

n i agree with her ;)

[miss_khan]

n i agree with her ;)


:lol: and i agree with him.

[FatGeezer]

i see brown nosin' in full effect

[AnGel_PyAr]

whats wrong with that?
RD is not a dating service, you may have misunderstood that
exactly!:yes:

[ispeakadatruth!!]

what a dumb question!! :D

[miss_qupid]

rabeel, im glad you took your pics down, or else we'd have been over. :love:
wow u know my name?

[Naturalist]

What the hell you doin on Rd? especially if you have ur pics up, why?







discuss.

:werd: i fink dat too bout other ppl, like der is dis guy apparently hes goin out wiv a gal buh hes like i dont care bla i can put up ma pics if she finds out diff story :mad: :p

[insomniac987]

single and likin it right now :)