View Full Version : what should i do......?
crayzee
May 6th, 2006, 02:04 PM
aite ppl, now i'm in a bit of a situation........
i've been seein this girl for about a month, but i dont think we've bonded at all on an emotional level, its all physical. Dont get me wrong, the physical side's GREAT, but thats all our relationship is, its JUST physical. I want to get 2 kno her, but she's jus interested in gettin her freak on (she's horny EVERY time i see her).
While all this has been goin on, i've started 2 get feelings for a certain friend of mine. I've only known her for about 3-4 months but we've gotten quite close in such a small space of time. BUT i dont think she feels the same way about me as i do for her. (The situation with this girl is alot more complicated but i've tried 2 simplify it so that its not too confusing.) I'm really confused as to what i shud do. Shud i:
A) stay wit the horny girl
B) break up with the horny girl, n ask out my friend
if u dont think i shud do either of these, what should i do?
nawtysaika
May 6th, 2006, 02:21 PM
just b str8 to da horny gurl... tell her dat u wud like to talk to her.... spend sumtime wid her "in public" where she wont b able to get it on.... so talk to her n dat....n c weda u like her personality too
n wid da oda fwend ov urs just play cool.... keep gettin to know her...
or if u feel rweeally stressed ova both than 4get bout both.... just let it all go.... but then again da horny gurl will keep u happy tho ;)
crayzee
May 6th, 2006, 02:31 PM
just b str8 to da horny gurl... tell her dat u wud like to talk to her.... spend sumtime wid her "in public" where she wont b able to get it on.... so talk to her n dat....n c weda u like her personality too
i tried that, n its ok for like the first half hour or sumfin but then she'll get a bit close (which is ok), and then she'll get CLOSER and CLOSER down south (cough cough)
and well.... i'm only human
n wid da oda fwend ov urs just play cool.... keep gettin to know her...
or if u feel rweeally stressed ova both than 4get bout both.... just let it all go.... but then again da horny gurl will keep u happy tho ;)
yeh... kl, i'll try playin it kool wit her
They're both tearin me apart, they both make me happy in different ways.
thnx 4 the advice tho, much appreciated :D
nawtysaika
May 6th, 2006, 02:41 PM
wel no need ov thanks silly.... just dont let things get to u.... if they both r makin u happy... just leve it like that for now... wel thats wat i wud say...x
crayzee
May 6th, 2006, 02:48 PM
wel no need ov thanks silly.... just dont let things get to u.... if they both r makin u happy... just leve it like that for now... wel thats wat i wud say...x
lol, at first thats what i thot. I thot i was jus bein an idiot n i thot my feelings for one of them wud eventually go away but thats jus not happenin
I'll jus leave it for a bit longer n go wit the flow for a cupl of weeks, but to b honest i dont think i'm being fair to either of the girls
nawtysaika
May 6th, 2006, 02:52 PM
lol, at first thats what i thot. I thot i was jus bein an idiot n i thot my feelings for one of them wud eventually go away but thats jus not happenin
I'll jus leave it for a bit longer n go wit the flow for a cupl of weeks, but to b honest i dont think i'm being fair to either of the girls
wel u aint cheating... u hv a gurl... (da horny one) but the other one is just a friend so dont worry.... i dont think u r being unfair!
crayzee
May 6th, 2006, 02:58 PM
wel u aint cheating... u hv a gurl... (da horny one) but the other one is just a friend so dont worry.... i dont think u r being unfair!
kk... i kno, but still, i feel kinda bad about my girl coz i'm wit her but i'm thinkin about my friend. n i feel bad about my friend coz i'm hidin how i feel for her, n she mite think badly of me for treatin my girl lyk that.... soo confusing...
but lyk u sed, i'm gna jus leave it for now
CrazyJoker
May 6th, 2006, 03:02 PM
stay with the horny chick
relationships = stress
stress = bad
bad = very bad
put it this way your young you dont know wat it is to have emotions for someone yet wont click in til your older
have ur fun
fuck a bitch get rich dont snitch
crayzee
May 6th, 2006, 03:09 PM
stay with the horny chick
relationships = stress
stress = bad
bad = very bad
put it this way your young you dont know wat it is to have emotions for someone yet wont click in til your older
have ur fun
fuck a bitch get rich dont snitch
lol... i like the fact that u explained it to me using maths :D lmao
hmm... i was kinda thinkin that i was a bit young to have these emotions but then again love knows no boundarys, right? i dunno man...
harvey_mayway
May 6th, 2006, 05:23 PM
sounds lik 3some time....lol
bRuv... this isnt a problem....
keep it the way it is...
Canadian_jatti
May 6th, 2006, 05:34 PM
go wit ur frend u should want both things in a relationship not jus one
crayzee
May 6th, 2006, 05:39 PM
sounds lik 3some time....lol
bRuv... this isnt a problem....
keep it the way it is...
i'm keepin it the way it is, but not for that reason. I'm nt the kinda guy that fucks about (much) ;) lolllzz
crayzee
May 6th, 2006, 05:40 PM
go wit ur frend u should want both things in a relationship not jus one
yeh but the thing is, i dont kno if my friend feels the same way about me as i do about her. I kno 4rm experience how much 'love' can mess up a really gd friendship
Ash_s2002
May 6th, 2006, 06:58 PM
You didnt tell me it was a month. Your dirty b*****d :p :p :p :p
Stay
crayzee
May 7th, 2006, 02:22 PM
You didnt tell me it was a month. Your dirty b*****d :p :p :p :p
Stay
lolll.... well i jus wanted 2 keep it on the down-low for a bit.... i'll tell u next time
rated_R
May 7th, 2006, 04:01 PM
since u mentioned "i dont think we've bonded at all on an emotional level, its all physical".. so post pics of the horny grl if u hav any.. :mrhappy: its gonna make the thread more interesting.. :D AND my advice wud be to ask out ur frend since u two hav gotten close and all.. but wait for the right moment.. dont just rush into things now
lagaan
May 7th, 2006, 04:06 PM
aite ppl, now i'm in a bit of a situation........
i've been seein this girl for about a month, but i dont think we've bonded at all on an emotional level, its all physical. Dont get me wrong, the physical side's GREAT, but thats all our relationship is, its JUST physical. I want to get 2 kno her, but she's jus interested in gettin her freak on (she's horny EVERY time i see her).
While all this has been goin on, i've started 2 get feelings for a certain friend of mine. I've only known her for about 3-4 months but we've gotten quite close in such a small space of time. BUT i dont think she feels the same way about me as i do for her. (The situation with this girl is alot more complicated but i've tried 2 simplify it so that its not too confusing.) I'm really confused as to what i shud do. Shud i:
A) stay wit the horny girl
B) break up with the horny girl, n ask out my friend
if u dont think i shud do either of these, what should i do?
OMFG. the SAME exact thing happened to me, except with 2 guys. GO FOR OPTION B! I DID!
rated_R
May 7th, 2006, 04:39 PM
OMFG. the SAME exact thing happened to me, except with 2 guys. GO FOR OPTION B! I DID!
then what happened?? did it work out??.. :) we even need psychic advices for this guy.. :D otherwise he might end up losing the horny grl.. and thats gonna be a disaster for any guy.. :(
crayzee
May 7th, 2006, 04:44 PM
OMFG. the SAME exact thing happened to me, except with 2 guys. GO FOR OPTION B! I DID!
well? did it work out?
crayzee
May 7th, 2006, 04:46 PM
then what happened?? did it work out??.. :) we even need psychic advices for this guy.. :D otherwise he might end up losing the horny grl.. and thats gonna be a disaster for any guy.. :(
i'm nt bothered too much about losin her.... but i'd rather b with sum1 incase i get rejected by my friend
crayzee
May 7th, 2006, 04:47 PM
since u mentioned "i dont think we've bonded at all on an emotional level, its all physical".. so post pics of the horny grl if u hav any.. :mrhappy: its gonna make the thread more interesting.. :D AND my advice wud be to ask out ur frend since u two hav gotten close and all.. but wait for the right moment.. dont just rush into things now
lol i only post pics of myself, i dont think its fair spreadin other ppl's pics on the net without their permission
rated_R
May 7th, 2006, 06:37 PM
lol i only post pics of myself, i dont think its fair spreadin other ppl's pics on the net without their permission
hehe.. mr nice guy.. lol.. i was just kiddin bro.. :lol: and obviously i kno that..
crayzee
May 7th, 2006, 07:08 PM
hehe.. mr nice guy.. lol.. i was just kiddin bro.. :lol: and obviously i kno that..
its kl, didnt kno if u wer serious or messin about lmao
Notorious_Stud
May 7th, 2006, 08:55 PM
its kl, didnt kno if u wer serious or messin about lmao
hmm man its tough to say, if u go for option B then you gotta deal with all hte emotional stress that comes with love (sposing all works out with this friend you like) but your only young yet, you got all your life to love someone, but then again like you said love has no limits! theres only one way to find out! Ask her indirectly! and then take it like a man, if theres no chemistry on her side, then move on! plennty more fish in the sea!
But since my lecture from older brothers (cousins) in the family a while ago, i got told, loook fuck the love shit, just go get laid! lol, the moral of their stories was your young you should love, live and enjoy life to the max, coz when your seriously in love with a chick, it all goes away! you cant enjoy and explore life after that!
Right now im unsure on what i want! i loved this girl for a year! and now when theres chemisty at her side, im not sure if i should get involved or not!
one part of me lately has been saying i should go enjoy life the other part has been saying no save it for the girl!
haha i kinda got side tracked on my own shit there lol sorry! but i hope what ive said helps in a way!
:wavey:
Space-Cowboy
May 7th, 2006, 10:22 PM
Friendly word of advice....... take any advice a girl gives you, and do the opposite.
rated_R
May 8th, 2006, 02:23 AM
Friendly word of advice....... take any advice a girl gives you, and do the opposite.
not a bad advice at all..
LitoWeapN
May 8th, 2006, 03:46 AM
u with a horny chick who wants fuck all the time
WAT THE FUCK R U COMPLAINING FOR?
relationships = stress and heart ache
wit this grl u dnt have no heart no stress no nuthin jus a nut cmon man its the best thing in the world
Monaa
May 8th, 2006, 05:54 AM
aite ppl, now i'm in a bit of a situation........
i've been seein this girl for about a month, but i dont think we've bonded at all on an emotional level, its all physical. Dont get me wrong, the physical side's GREAT, but thats all our relationship is, its JUST physical. I want to get 2 kno her, but she's jus interested in gettin her freak on (she's horny EVERY time i see her).
While all this has been goin on, i've started 2 get feelings for a certain friend of mine. I've only known her for about 3-4 months but we've gotten quite close in such a small space of time. BUT i dont think she feels the same way about me as i do for her. (The situation with this girl is alot more complicated but i've tried 2 simplify it so that its not too confusing.) I'm really confused as to what i shud do. Shud i:
A) stay wit the horny girl
B) break up with the horny girl, n ask out my friend
if u dont think i shud do either of these, what should i do?
keep her as ur scandal... ;)
crayzee
May 8th, 2006, 06:03 AM
hmm man its tough to say, if u go for option B then you gotta deal with all hte emotional stress that comes with love (sposing all works out with this friend you like) but your only young yet, you got all your life to love someone, but then again like you said love has no limits! theres only one way to find out! Ask her indirectly! and then take it like a man, if theres no chemistry on her side, then move on! plennty more fish in the sea!
But since my lecture from older brothers (cousins) in the family a while ago, i got told, loook fuck the love shit, just go get laid! lol, the moral of their stories was your young you should love, live and enjoy life to the max, coz when your seriously in love with a chick, it all goes away! you cant enjoy and explore life after that!
Right now im unsure on what i want! i loved this girl for a year! and now when theres chemisty at her side, im not sure if i should get involved or not!
one part of me lately has been saying i should go enjoy life the other part has been saying no save it for the girl!
haha i kinda got side tracked on my own shit there lol sorry! but i hope what ive said helps in a way!
:wavey:
yeh its a really tough choice... love, or lust? more ppl r saying i shud go for lust n thats wot my head's tellin me 2 do aswell. i'm young n i should jus mess about n get experience n that.... but inside, my heart says go for love. Both have their pro's n con's, but choosing between them..... its a difficult choice
(btw u hav helped :D)
crayzee
May 8th, 2006, 06:04 AM
Friendly word of advice....... take any advice a girl gives you, and do the opposite.
:rofl:
crayzee
May 8th, 2006, 06:10 AM
u with a horny chick who wants fuck all the time
WAT THE FUCK R U COMPLAINING FOR?
lol thats not what i'm complainin about, the physical side to it all is AMAZIN, but the thing is, i cant hav a conversation with her (for long), i've been seein her for about a month now n i hardly kno her.
relationships = stress and heart ache
wit this grl u dnt have no heart no stress no nuthin jus a nut cmon man its the best thing in the world
yeh i kno where ur comin from and THEORETICALLY yeh it is... but for me, i like to get to kno ppl n its jus not rite for me
Notorious_Stud
May 8th, 2006, 09:45 AM
yeh its a really tough choice... love, or lust? more ppl r saying i shud go for lust n thats wot my head's tellin me 2 do aswell. i'm young n i should jus mess about n get experience n that.... but inside, my heart says go for love. Both have their pro's n con's, but choosing between them..... its a difficult choice
(btw u hav helped :D)
man ive been in hte love situation alot of times! ive always thought, save it for that one girl! but lately, i dont know why, im just not myself anymore! ive been thinking to fuck that vow and just go out have fun, enjoy life like the rest of hte 17 year olds! but like u said inside, your heart says no!
im just leaving it to fate! if its meant to be then it is!
haha i think im confusing you rather then helping you! haha cant help it mate im confused myself! :sarb:
crayzee
May 8th, 2006, 01:49 PM
man ive been in hte love situation alot of times! ive always thought, save it for that one girl! but lately, i dont know why, im just not myself anymore! ive been thinking to fuck that vow and just go out have fun, enjoy life like the rest of hte 17 year olds! but like u said inside, your heart says no!
im just leaving it to fate! if its meant to be then it is!
haha i think im confusing you rather then helping you! haha cant help it mate im confused myself! :sarb:
lol trust me, in ur own confusing way, u hav helped
Canadian_jatti
May 8th, 2006, 04:55 PM
yeh but the thing is, i dont kno if my friend feels the same way about me as i do about her. I kno 4rm experience how much 'love' can mess up a really gd friendship
lol find out then play detective ;)
crayzee
May 8th, 2006, 07:51 PM
lol find out then play detective ;)
na.... i'll end up gettin caught lmao, can u do it for me?
Canadian_jatti
May 8th, 2006, 09:52 PM
lol i'm good at that!! but ur not in cal are u? or else NO
wateva123
May 8th, 2006, 10:37 PM
aite ppl, now i'm in a bit of a situation........
i've been seein this girl for about a month, but i dont think we've bonded at all on an emotional level, its all physical. Dont get me wrong, the physical side's GREAT, but thats all our relationship is, its JUST physical. I want to get 2 kno her, but she's jus interested in gettin her freak on (she's horny EVERY time i see her).
While all this has been goin on, i've started 2 get feelings for a certain friend of mine. I've only known her for about 3-4 months but we've gotten quite close in such a small space of time. BUT i dont think she feels the same way about me as i do for her. (The situation with this girl is alot more complicated but i've tried 2 simplify it so that its not too confusing.) I'm really confused as to what i shud do. Shud i:
A) stay wit the horny girl
B) break up with the horny girl, n ask out my friend
if u dont think i shud do either of these, what should i do?
keep 'em both.
you need one girl to satisfy your physicical needs,, and the other one to fulfill your emotional ones.
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