If you are a virgin.......

[nazimhamed]

.......getting married, how would you feel if you discovered after marriage that your bride was not a virgin?

Personally I think it would be a issue for me, the fact that I saved myself for one special girl, and she couldn't do the same for me, but how big an issue I don't know.

This leads on to my next question, is it bad form to ask a girl if she is a virgin prior to marriage, if you are having an arranged marriage?

Any thoughts would be appreciated, apologies if this has already been asked in the past.

[*NiKKita*]

if i'm a virgin my husband better be too :hand:

[spice_of_life]

nah i think its fine to ask ur future partner if she is a virgin....but u dont ask her that way. U ask her in more subtle way like "has she ever had a bf or was she ever physically intimate with him". That way atleast she wud know that ur not just wanting to know whether she is a virgin but u want to know her better....

For me its not a big thing whether my wife is a virgin or not...i really dont care...as long as she loves me and is gonna be with me forever thats all that matters!

[niroism]

.......getting married, how would you feel if you discovered after marriage that your bride was not a virgin?

Personally I think it would be a issue for me, the fact that I saved myself for one special girl, and she couldn't do the same for me, but how big an issue I don't know.

This leads on to my next question, is it bad form to ask a girl if she is a virgin prior to marriage, if you are having an arranged marriage?

Any thoughts would be appreciated, apologies if this has already been asked in the past.
If u think that is gonna be an issue then u better ask her prior to marriage else you are gonna end up hating her for the rest of her life...even though it was not her fault!!

[crayzee]

.......getting married, how would you feel if you discovered after marriage that your bride was not a virgin?

Personally I think it would be a issue for me, the fact that I saved myself for one special girl, and she couldn't do the same for me, but how big an issue I don't know.

This leads on to my next question, is it bad form to ask a girl if she is a virgin prior to marriage, if you are having an arranged marriage?

Any thoughts would be appreciated, apologies if this has already been asked in the past.

yeh mate, am in the same boat as u, i intend on savin myself for that one special girl too. If i found out that she wasnt a virgin then that'd be an issue for me too, i'd feel exactly the same as you would - gutted.

as for ur next question i dunno.... i suppose u cud ask her, but even if she's not a virgin my guess is that 90% of desi girls (getting an arranged marriage) would deny it, mainly because of fear of disgracing her family or sumthin

its a touchy subject........ hopefully i wont be in such a situation wen my time come

[*NiKKita*]

nah i think its fine to ask ur future partner if she is a virgin....but u dont ask her that way. U ask her in more subtle way like "has she ever had a bf or was she ever physically intimate with him". That way atleast she wud know that ur not just wanting to know whether she is a virgin but u want to know her better....

For me its not a big thing whether my wife is a virgin or not...i really dont care...as long as she loves me and is gonna be with me forever thats all that matters!
wow ur sooo hott! heh just thought i'd point that out! :D

[*NiKKita*]

yeh mate, am in the same boat as u, i intend on savin myself for that one special girl too. If i found out that she wasnt a virgin then that'd be an issue for me too, i'd feel exactly the same as you would - gutted.

as for ur next question i dunno.... i suppose u cud ask her, but even if she's not a virgin my guess is that 90% of desi girls (getting an arranged marriage) would deny it, mainly because of fear of disgracing her family or sumthin

its a touchy subject........ hopefully i wont be in such a situation wen my time come
awwwwwww soooo cute! we need more guys like that! ;)

[crayzee]

awwwwwww soooo cute! we need more guys like that! ;)

lollll :D thanx :D

[*NiKKita*]

lollll :D thanx :D
anytime hun! :D

[crayzee]

anytime hun! :D

:D its good to know that guys like me are still appreciated

[*NiKKita*]

:D its good to know that guys like me are still appreciated
awww well they deserve to be!
i hate guys that think being "playas" is the shit

[nazimhamed]

If u think that is gonna be an issue then u better ask her prior to marriage else you are gonna end up hating her for the rest of her life...even though it was not her fault!!

I hear what you are saying, hate is quite strong though I don't think I could hate someone I chose to marry, but I would be gutted.

I could ask her as advised in a subtle way, but may not get the truth.

I suppose I could flip it around and tell her that I'm not a virgin and find out if she has a problem with that. she may then open up and tell the truth if she isn't a virgin.

I'm not proud of myself for feeling this way, I wish I could say its not an issue for me, but I wouldn't be honest with myself. I guess I feel that if both the husband and wife are virgins when they marry they are likely to have a stronger bond together. maybe I'm living in the past, I don't know, really confused.

thanks btw to all who posted, really appreciate your comments.

[musicchic33]

if it's such an issue to you, then you should def discuss it beforehand

[crayzee]

awww well they deserve to be!
i hate guys that think being "playas" is the shit

lollllll @ "playas"...... esp those 'wannabe' players that are all talk, but wen it comes it, they cant even get a fone number :rofl:

all players r a joke... they cant keep one person for more than a cupl of weeks, just shows they all got issues :rofl:

[PurpLE HeArtS]

i wouldnt mind. as long as she loves me, thats what counts.

[crayzee]

I hear what you are saying, hate is quite strong though I don't think I could hate someone I chose to marry, but I would be gutted.

I could ask her as advised in a subtle way, but may not get the truth.

I suppose I could flip it around and tell her that I'm not a virgin and find out if she has a problem with that. she may then open up and tell the truth if she isn't a virgin.

I'm not proud of myself for feeling this way, I wish I could say its not an issue for me, but I wouldn't be honest with myself. I guess I feel that if both the husband and wife are virgins when they marry they are likely to have a stronger bond together. maybe I'm living in the past, I don't know, really confused.

thanks btw to all who posted, really appreciate your comments.

yeh u cud do that... it mite work but then if she really is a virgin then she'll probably feel gutted too..... its a tricky situation

[*NiKKita*]

lollllll @ "playas"...... esp those 'wannabe' players that are all talk, but wen it comes it, they cant even get a fone number :rofl:

all players r a joke... they cant keep one person for more than a cupl of weeks, just shows they all got issues :rofl:
lol! that's soo true!
i just broke up with my bf cuz he thinks he's a player whatta fag anyways
yeah sweet guys are the best :love:

[RacingSoul]

.......getting married, how would you feel if you discovered after marriage that your bride was not a virgin?

Personally I think it would be a issue for me, the fact that I saved myself for one special girl, and she couldn't do the same for me, but how big an issue I don't know.

This leads on to my next question, is it bad form to ask a girl if she is a virgin prior to marriage, if you are having an arranged marriage?

Any thoughts would be appreciated, apologies if this has already been asked in the past.

how wud ur partner kno that ur the ONE for him/her...it's called "exploring" before finally settling down

[crayzee]

lol! that's soo true!
i just broke up with my bf cuz he thinks he's a player whatta fag anyways
yeah sweet guys are the best :love:

hahaha serves him rite... llf

[*NiKKita*]

hahaha serves him rite... llf
meh i still <3 him tho

[Notorious_Stud]

.......getting married, how would you feel if you discovered after marriage that your bride was not a virgin?

Personally I think it would be a issue for me, the fact that I saved myself for one special girl, and she couldn't do the same for me, but how big an issue I don't know.

This leads on to my next question, is it bad form to ask a girl if she is a virgin prior to marriage, if you are having an arranged marriage?

Any thoughts would be appreciated, apologies if this has already been asked in the past.

Hey Nazim, man, umm to be honest, ive saved myself for the right girl like the rest of the guys have, i mean im only young yet, but the fact that im fighting hte temptation to go out and loose it, and will be doing for the next so many years till i find the "one" i would appreciate it if the girl was one too, it would make it special i guess! but the other side of me says, so what if she isnt a virgin, as long as she loves me and be's with me for hte rest of my life, then im not too bothered, at the end of the day its the person that matters! not the fact that there a virgin or not. I mean thats my view, you guys might have different views!

Umm as to your next question, well im guessing before you decide to just spend the rest of your life with this girl, you must have had "talks" with her, so like a few guys in this thread said, basically just ask her indirectly, like if shes been in a relationship or if shes been in a intimate relationship with a guy, and if she is sincere with you then she will say! if not then what can i say, you'll just never find out, or if you do it might be to late!

Hope that answers your questions :D

btw where you from? im waqas from leeds (uk) :wavey:

[nazimhamed]

Hey Nazim, man, umm to be honest, ive saved myself for the right girl like the rest of the guys have, i mean im only young yet, but the fact that im fighting hte temptation to go out and loose it, and will be doing for the next so many years till i find the "one" i would appreciate it if the girl was one too, it would make it special i guess! but the other side of me says, so what if she isnt a virgin, as long as she loves me and be's with me for hte rest of my life, then im not too bothered, at the end of the day its the person that matters! not the fact that there a virgin or not. I mean thats my view, you guys might have different views!

Umm as to your next question, well im guessing before you decide to just spend the rest of your life with this girl, you must have had "talks" with her, so like a few guys in this thread said, basically just ask her indirectly, like if shes been in a relationship or if shes been in a intimate relationship with a guy, and if she is sincere with you then she will say! if not then what can i say, you'll just never find out, or if you do it might be to late!

Hope that answers your questions :D

btw where you from? im waqas from leeds (uk) :wavey:

Hi there Waqas,
thanks for your comments. I'm from the ghetto (East London).

I think its admirable you feel that way, but bro you got a long way to go, do you think you'll feel the same in 5,6,7 years time when its time to actually take the plunge? if so you're a better man than me.

So far I'm getting the feeling that its a non-issue for most people, which is what I expected, but it just makes me hate myself even more for feeling the way I do.

I suppose I'm thinking of all the times that I've fought temptation when the opportunity to lose it was there. It was mainly my faith, and my family upbringing that got me through, but sometimes I wish I had given into temptation, then I wouldn't be having this conversation, and I wouldn't end up tormenting myself.

[Notorious_Stud]

Hi there Waqas,
thanks for your comments. I'm from the ghetto (East London).

I think its admirable you feel that way, but bro you got a long way to go, do you think you'll feel the same in 5,6,7 years time when its time to actually take the plunge? if so you're a better man than me.

So far I'm getting the feeling that its a non-issue for most people, which is what I expected, but it just makes me hate myself even more for feeling the way I do.

I suppose I'm thinking of all the times that I've fought temptation when the opportunity to lose it was there. It was mainly my faith, and my family upbringing that got me through, but sometimes I wish I had given into temptation, then I wouldn't be having this conversation, and I wouldn't end up tormenting myself.

haha the ghetto lol, yaar at the end of the day, right, im ready to take the plunge now! dats how much i like this girl! but, yeah, i got a means of keeping my virginity for her, coz i like her! and id only want to loose it to her, coz she feels da same i guess! i mean yaar most guys my age, have lost it! im going on to 18 soon, and im still a v, ive had opportunities too man, but i just seem to fight em off!

But u cant hate yourself for it, coz trust me dude at the end of teh day, when u are spending the rest of your life with this girl, the amount of love both of u will have for each other will be unmeasurable, it just shows u both waited for the right person and the right time! and that shows alot of respect i guess for u by hte other person!

but man teling u the truth, im the only cuzin out of a family of 40 guy cuzins worldwide that is still a virgin all of them lost it at like 16,17,18 and im ready to fight teh temp! My decision to remain celebate comes from my own morals, which is basically saying that, i dont want to loose it to some slag i meet at a party, my beleif is that u only are once ever a virgin, if ur gona loose it then u might aswell to someone u love and who ure gona be with for the rest of ure life! thats how i feel man, and i hope thats how i always will be! and as for the fun part, being virgin yaar doesnt mean u cant have fun haha virgin or no virgin being desi haha we still flirt like "harami's" hahah!

as for the bad spelling and language haha i apologize, its half 12 in hte morn, im trying to start the evaluation for my bio coursework thats in for tomoz, and i cant get past the title, worse of all ive just been texting haha! :p

[crayzee]

meh i still <3 him tho

well its gd that u taught him a lesson... wen he comes bak 2 u maybe he wont make the same mistake

[Canadian_jatti]

ye it'd be bad if i found out after and i think u should ask even if its arranged i know i am gonna for sureeeeee

[Officer Khan]

As long as u can FUCK ME!!!!!!!! Thats all that matters :D

[niroism]

As long as u can FUCK ME!!!!!!!! Thats all that matters :D
Baby u know I can....:dancen:

[Officer Khan]

Baby u know I can....:dancen:
:yum:

[niroism]

:yum:
Time and venue....:Pelvic2:

[kasak]

it doesnt really matter actually mayb i'll b upset but i hope i can 4give it cuz past is past nd as long as his past doesnt hurt our present nd future itz fyne by me..............

i would still hv him checked out4 HIV or STDs tho.........just2b safe :D

[uglyDuckling]

.......getting married, how would you feel if you discovered after marriage that your bride was not a virgin?

Personally I think it would be a issue for me, the fact that I saved myself for one special girl, and she couldn't do the same for me, but how big an issue I don't know.

This leads on to my next question, is it bad form to ask a girl if she is a virgin prior to marriage, if you are having an arranged marriage?

Any thoughts would be appreciated, apologies if this has already been asked in the past.

If virginity is an issue in your books, you should find out before marriage.

Think about it - if you find out after marriage it'll upset you. Why cause an upset when it's easily preventable?

[Shashanna]

.......getting married, how would you feel if you discovered after marriage that your bride was not a virgin?

Personally I think it would be a issue for me, the fact that I saved myself for one special girl, and she couldn't do the same for me, but how big an issue I don't know.

This leads on to my next question, is it bad form to ask a girl if she is a virgin prior to marriage, if you are having an arranged marriage?

Any thoughts would be appreciated, apologies if this has already been asked in the past.


I understand what you mean. Most religions believe that partners should be virgins prior to marriage so that they have nothing to compare it to and in truth, it will be a lasting relationship.

I think it's good to know. Just ask in a subtle way.

[0101]

I wouldn't even date a girl that's not a virgin...So far the one I'm seeing is a virgin...so I should smile? Why, yes :D

Note: This would have been 10 pages long if it was in 'General Chat'.

[FatGeezer]

if i'm a virgin my husband better be too :hand:
i note the "IF"

[Shashanna]

As long as u can FUCK ME!!!!!!!! Thats all that matters :D

Umm, but what about committment? it does affect partner's loyalty.

[SIXPAK GQ]

.......getting married, how would you feel if you discovered after marriage that your bride was not a virgin?

Personally I think it would be a issue for me, the fact that I saved myself for one special girl, and she couldn't do the same for me, but how big an issue I don't know.

This leads on to my next question, is it bad form to ask a girl if she is a virgin prior to marriage, if you are having an arranged marriage?

Any thoughts would be appreciated, apologies if this has already been asked in the past.


i dont care if she is a virgin or not as long as she doesnt have any STD's. on top of this i will know this way before getting married. I want someone who is hot in bed....no newbies....no its bad to ask her about that question... arrange or not.....

[Shashanna]

i dont care if she is a virgin or not as long as she doesnt have any STD's. on top of this i will know this way before getting married. I want someone who is hot in bed....no newbies....no its bad to ask her about that question... arrange or not.....

I wouldn't mind teaching. It's fun learning together as well. and what's to say a virgin won't be hot in bed???? she's been worked up for quite a long time! :rofl:
that's not true.

[SIXPAK GQ]

I wouldn't mind teaching. It's fun learning together as well. and what's to say a virgin won't be hot in bed???? she's been worked up for quite a long time! :rofl:
that's not true.


lack of sex experience is not hot.

u have to have some kind of sexual experience in the past...

[Shashanna]

lack of sex experience is not hot.

u have to have some kind of sexual experience in the past...
yEAH, SOME kind of sexual experience. Doesn't necessarily have to be actual intercourse. :neutral:

[0101]

lack of sex experience is not hot.

u have to have some kind of sexual experience in the past...

So you want a whore...Gotcha.

[Shashanna]

So you want a whore...Gotcha.
:cool:

[0101]

:D

:D
:D

[0101]

:cool:


:D ? :)

[Shashanna]

:D ? :)

i agree...maybe he wants someone who has been around the block too many times. don't want anyone TOO loose in the moral department. I found your comment witty..that's all.

[0101]

i agree...maybe he wants someone who has been around the block too many times. don't want anyone TOO loose in the moral department. I found your comment witty..that's all.

Thank You...I try my best to please and bring e-entertainment via Forums....:D

[lazy_eyes]

So you want a whore...Gotcha.
juss because u had past sexual experince doesn't make you a whore

[crayzee]

juss because u had past sexual experince doesn't make you a whore

ur rite it doesnt, but if u've had ALOT then it kind of does.......

[SIXPAK GQ]

So you want a whore...Gotcha.


Like someone said on this thread....having sexual experience does not make someone a whore...what if she had a long term relationship with someone?

[0101]

juss because u had past sexual experince doesn't make you a whore

I guess that's all depends on your opinions and morals. You said 'experience'....There's a difference between 'experience' and 'experiences'.

[kaisar2]

if i'm a virgin my husband better be too :hand:
sadly u arent

[kaisar2]

Like someone said on this thread....having sexual experience does not make someone a whore...what if she had a long term relationship with someone?
means u will accept a girl 6 inches wide down under , with the tag 'i only had sexual experiences in my 5 or more years of long term relationship'. ofcourse this wudnt make her a whore, right?

[0101]

ur rite it doesnt, but if u've had ALOT then it kind of does.......


:werd:

[0101]

Like someone said on this thread....having sexual experience does not make someone a whore...what if she had a long term relationship with someone?

Again, I believe that's all depends on you and how you perceive the girl...If she had like 5-8 on and off relationships and assuming they have sex like lot of a day like a couple does with each relationship, I would have problems with that...but in here in the US, lot of people still do it. But I rather not be with someone who is used like that...again, my view. So it's all good.

[kaisar2]

Again, I believe that's all depends on you and how you perceive the girl...If she had like 5-8 on and off relationships and assuming they have sex like lot of a day like a couple does with each relationship, I would have problems with that...but in here in the US, lot of people still do it. But I rather not be with someone who is used like that...again, my view. So it's all good.
there is no point of judging some girl with her past relationships and the frequency of sex she had with her mate.
Once she lost her virginity, and its all gone......but in US it always, all good, men there r having sex with their sis, mums, daughters , so yeah its all good.

[0101]

there is no point of judging some girl with her past relationships and the frequency of sex she had with her mate.
Once she lost her virginity, and its all gone......but in US it always, all good, men there r having sex with their sis, mums, daughters , so yeah its all good.


I want mine to be pure :D

[Fake Desi Boy]

I want mine to be pure :D
but the ? is, are u pure? i feel ya on that. i want my wife to be pure, especially since i am. the gayest thing is when u meet a gurl around ur age who had recently lost it prior to meeting u lol

[SIXPAK GQ]

Again, I believe that's all depends on you and how you perceive the girl...If she had like 5-8 on and off relationships and assuming they have sex like lot of a day like a couple does with each relationship, I would have problems with that...but in here in the US, lot of people still do it. But I rather not be with someone who is used like that...again, my view. So it's all good.


HAVING SEX with 1 person makes someone a whore even if they have lot of sex???? hahaha lol.....so married ladies who were virgin b4 marriage are now whores

[SIXPAK GQ]

means u will accept a girl 6 inches wide down under , with the tag 'i only had sexual experiences in my 5 or more years of long term relationship'. ofcourse this wudnt make her a whore, right?


its not a deal breaker for me...

[Shashanna]

juss because u had past sexual experince doesn't make you a whore

don't twists the words around. we're talking promiscuity. having any kind of sexual experience doesn't necessarily make you a whore. it's how you present yourself & how many partners you've had in a given time frame...

[Shashanna]

means u will accept a girl 6 inches wide down under , with the tag 'i only had sexual experiences in my 5 or more years of long term relationship'. ofcourse this wudnt make her a whore, right?

:cool:

and i just want to add that goes the same for MEN as well.
i don't want a guy whose "been around the block". :neutral:
I want a pure man or someone with little experience at least.

[0101]

HAVING SEX with 1 person makes someone a whore even if they have lot of sex???? hahaha lol.....so married ladies who were virgin b4 marriage are now whores

I see you have not read my post careful....So i'll quote again...

If she had like 5-8 on and off relationships and assuming they have sex like lot of a day like a couple does with each relationship, I would have problems with that

It depends on the taste...I prefer a non-used.

And as for the wife being whore statement, why yes, your wife will be your whore after you guys get married....it's the only way......smile...:D

[0101]

but the ? is, are u pure? i feel ya on that. i want my wife to be pure, especially since i am. the gayest thing is when u meet a gurl around ur age who had recently lost it prior to meeting u lol


Yes, I am...the one i'm seeing(a non desi) is also a virgin....There was this girl who liked me (a desi girl) and I kinda liked her but I found out she had a bf for like over an year and had sex and all...So I simply lost my attraction towards her...That's me...that's how my morals work...it's just a taste and preference like some may like a girl with black hair while others may like a blonde. I can easily lose my attraction towards someone if Ieven liked her for years over this...

That girl who like me is kinda depressed and all because she says "he got what he wanted" since they broke up and all...a girl may have sex out of love while men can alter his emotions.

[Shashanna]

Yes, I am...the one i'm seeing(a non desi) is also a virgin....There was this girl who liked me (a desi girl) and I kinda liked her but I found out she had a bf for like over an year and had sex and all...So I simply lost my attraction towards her...That's me...that's how my morals work...it's just a taste and preference like some may like a girl with black hair while others may like a blonde. I can easily lose my attraction towards someone if Ieven liked her for years over this...

But then again, a girl may have sex out of love while men can alter his emotions.


yeah, i completely agree. I also lose attraction when i find out a guy smokes. I just find it disgusting and unbearable.

P.S. in most cases, when a woman decides to lose her virginity...it mostly likey would be for love.

[0101]

yeah, i completely agree. I also lose attraction when i find out a guy smokes. I just find it disgusting and unbearable.

Ah yes, smoking is a no-no to me as well. I have female friends who smoke but I tolerate it...then agian, if you stand near them while they smoke, it is kinda same as you're smoking since you're also inhaling part of it...

[bootyliciousbaby]

i guess for a guy it could b an issue, bcus u denyed ass to wait til marriage lol...i don tthink it b a big deal if she wsnt ..i mean she prolly lost it to someone she thought she would hav a future with,....in todays world its hard to say whos a virgin nd who isnt....u could askk..NOT STRAIGHT UP THO...but if ure planning on marrying her...she mite nto tel u the truth..she mite b scared too....bcus she dusnt want to look baddd in frontof u and the family...so yeahhhh

[Fake Desi Boy]

yeah, i completely agree. I also lose attraction when i find out a guy smokes. I just find it disgusting and unbearable.

P.S. in most cases, when a woman decides to lose her virginity...it mostly likey would be for love.
does smoking sheesha count? that ain't gross @ all llol look @ my pic in my profile :o

[0101]

i guess for a guy it could b an issue, bcus u denyed ass to wait til marriage lol...i don tthink it b a big deal if she wsnt ..i mean she prolly lost it to someone she thought she would hav a future with,....in todays world its hard to say whos a virgin nd who isnt....u could askk..NOT STRAIGHT UP THO...but if ure planning on marrying her...she mite nto tel u the truth..she mite b scared too....bcus she dusnt want to look baddd in frontof u and the family...so yeahhhh


I shall crucify her....I am a meanie...with an attitude.

[bootyliciousbaby]

I shall crucify her....I am a meanie...with an attitude.

haww asshole hahahahha

[0101]

haww asshole hahahahha


Not really...that's how they used to punish people back in the days...I'm just doing the old-fashioned way.......:D

[ispeakadatruth!!]

there is no point of judging some girl with her past relationships and the frequency of sex she had with her mate.
Once she lost her virginity, and its all gone......but in US it always, all good, men there r having sex with their sis, mums, daughters , so yeah its all good.


wtf?? :lol:

[0101]

wtf?? :lol:

I think he watches too much Jerry Springer aired from US Television....:cool:

[Shashanna]

there is no point of judging some girl with her past relationships and the frequency of sex she had with her mate.
Once she lost her virginity, and its all gone......but in US it always, all good, men there r having sex with their sis, mums, daughters , so yeah its all good.

Incest happens all over the world.

[JamesBitch]

Guys get real...a girl can still lie about whether she is a virgin or not. How you gonna know for sure. (Not that I am saying it is a good thing to lie but you never know with people these days).

Plus asking a girl if she has got intimate with a guy and she says yes, does not infer she has had sex. It can mean she has kissed and touched but nothing more.

Good luck!!!
:wavey:

[Shashanna]

Guys get real...a girl can still lie about whether she is a virgin or not. How you gonna know for sure. (Not that I am saying it is a good thing to lie but you never know with people these days).

Plus asking a girl if she has got intimate with a guy and she says yes, does not infer she has had sex. It can mean she has kissed and touched but nothing more.
Good luck!!!
:wavey:

yea, true. but when guy asks a girl if they have been "intimate". I know what they are implying or infering to.

[rakesh203]

:D its good to know that guys like me are still appreciated

Do u should change your username to gayzee

[crayzee]

Do u should change your username to gayzee

hhmmmm judgin by ur comment, n by the fact that u dont even kno me, i'd say its safe to say that ur highly insecure about ur own sexualty, n r probably in the stage of denial when it comes 2 admittin that ur gay. There aren't alot of gays in india are there? U wanna know why? coz when they took one look at u they turned straight :rofl: so my advice: stay true to urself, dont be ashamed of what u are (i.e a homo) n stop fantacisin about me ya poof coz i dont play wit boys like u. N if u really want it all 2 get better, leave RD, go home n shove a dildo up ur ass.

[Shashanna]

can't we all just get along? :grouphug:

[obsessed]

she better b 1 or else......

[EwLookItsYou]

If he's not, I'm not going to make it a big deal. That doesn't decide whether I love him or not. If hes committed enough to marry me, why should I make something like that a big deal? As long as he loves me and is loyal, I'm not going to base my decision to marry him on that!! Plus, experience isn't so bad. :p

[FatGeezer]

Every girl is a born-again virgin on the wedding day...

[HeAvYmAcHiNeGuN]

i am STILL A VIRGIN...and i really want my wife to b one

[SIXPAK GQ]

I see you have not read my post careful....So i'll quote again...



It depends on the taste...I prefer a non-used.

And as for the wife being whore statement, why yes, your wife will be your whore after you guys get married....it's the only way......smile...:D


u mean having sex once with 5-8 guys before marriage? or having lot of sex with each of them guys?

[SIXPAK GQ]

yeah, i completely agree. I also lose attraction when i find out a guy smokes. I just find it disgusting and unbearable.

P.S. in most cases, when a woman decides to lose her virginity...it mostly likey would be for love.


the girl i am seeing now smokes...i dont care...it doesnt change her personality....

[SIXPAK GQ]

Ah yes, smoking is a no-no to me as well. I have female friends who smoke but I tolerate it...then agian, if you stand near them while they smoke, it is kinda same as you're smoking since you're also inhaling part of it...

second hand is worse....u might as well smoke to be more healthy

[Shashanna]

the girl i am seeing now smokes...i dont care...it doesnt change her personality....

A person who smokes in my opinion as developed the bad habit from peer pressure which shows they have no self-control and cannot think for themselves. I hate when a smoker tells me they smoke because they are "stressed out". B.S. there are other ways to deal with stress other than ruining your lungs. They don't care about their bodies and they just sky rocketed their insurance!

[SIXPAK GQ]

A person who smokes in my opinion as developed the bad habit from peer pressure which shows they have no self-control and cannot think for themselves. I hate when a smoker tells me they smoke because they are "stressed out". B.S. there are other ways to deal with stress other than ruining your lungs. They don't care about their bodies and they just sky rocketed their insurance!


she is just stressed out from her life...yea i agree with you...its an excuse to solve the problems...

[jat_jatt_sardar]

hmmm yeah I want a virgin, its awkward marrying someone who has been with another guy. And I wouldn;t want to smel the breath if a smoking girl, eww thats just nasty. Putting a baby in a smoking girl, thats like pyutting a baby in hell I reckon, all that ewwness in there.

[kasak]

Yes, I am...the one i'm seeing(a non desi) is also a virgin....There was this girl who liked me (a desi girl) and I kinda liked her but I found out she had a bf for like over an year and had sex and all...So I simply lost my attraction towards her...That's me...that's how my morals work...it's just a taste and preference like some may like a girl with black hair while others may like a blonde. I can easily lose my attraction towards someone if Ieven liked her for years over this...



dats kinda sad.............if a person is not a virgin wat does dat actually change abt der personality..........i mean itz da heart dat should count dont u think?

[kasak]

she better b 1 or else......

or else............... :sarb:

[Soniyee]

.......getting married, how would you feel if you discovered after marriage that your bride was not a virgin?

Personally I think it would be a issue for me, the fact that I saved myself for one special girl, and she couldn't do the same for me, but how big an issue I don't know.

This leads on to my next question, is it bad form to ask a girl if she is a virgin prior to marriage, if you are having an arranged marriage?

Any thoughts would be appreciated, apologies if this has already been asked in the past.
I think it would really be shocking for me to find out that my husband is a virgin...because nowadays...its hard to find a guy who is....
Personally, i don't believe in sex b4 marriage...it shud only be between husband and wife...
:)

[jat_jatt_sardar]

dats kinda sad.............if a person is not a virgin wat does dat actually change abt der personality..........i mean itz da heart dat should count dont u think?
I think things change, different attitudes make a person open to different things.

[vimi]

if i'm a virgin my husband better be too :hand:
lets get married

[jat_jatt_sardar]

Like someone said on this thread....having sexual experience does not make someone a whore...what if she had a long term relationship with someone?
um yeah ........ sleep with a lot of people but as long as u call it a "relationship" then its not supposed to be wrong, she wasn't their whore, they were all her "boyfriends". :rolleyes:

[Shashanna]

um yeah ........ sleep with a lot of people but as long as u call it a "relationship" then its not supposed to be wrong, she wasn't their whore, they were all her "boyfriends". :rolleyes:

You have a point.

Mostly likely she wasn't in love with all those men and if there's no love, then she's probably being used.Nowadays Most people don't even know the meaning of the word.

But as someone already mentioned, i would be a lil' suprised if the guy was a virgin because guys are so eager to lose it..and they don't really care about saving it for their life long partners....and it doesn't even matter what religion you are, because no one gives a damn, they want to meet their own needs just for a lil' pleasure. I don't think it's worth it if love is not there.

[shaheenara]

nah i think its fine to ask ur future partner if she is a virgin....but u dont ask her that way. U ask her in more subtle way like "has she ever had a bf or was she ever physically intimate with him". That way atleast she wud know that ur not just wanting to know whether she is a virgin but u want to know her better....

For me its not a big thing whether my wife is a virgin or not...i really dont care...as long as she loves me and is gonna be with me forever thats all that matters!
aww il marry u!!! il love u forever and ever and ever..hehe in a scary way :D...messn

[fat86]

My wifey to be has already asked me, i think she thought i wernt lol.

i neva asked her, i neva do. i find it disrespectful to ask a girl if shes a virgin, cos they then think that you think, shes a hoe.

men cant win