Confused...

[sexxiela]

Okay my boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year and close to 2 months. We're like the known couple in our school. And lately we've been having the craziest arguments. i mean they're like whoa boy chill da fudge down kinda like arguments. The past two weeks we broke up three times already and go back together. That's our thing. We break up, get back together etc. I told him that i feel underappreciated. Like he doesn't romace me, hold my hand and acknowledge the fact that im here. trying to get him to spend time with me is incrediably hard. idk. its weird. i love that boy to death but sometimes h'e just so mean. he said i take him for granted but i dont. i actually do appreciate him and do love him. i feel as if he doesn't really love me like he says he does. like he'll hold my hand for literally one minute then let it go. idk wat to do

[RoMeO6969]

hey i understand where ur comin from its hard sometimes. some guys dont like to show affection in public i used to b like that wid my gf but after she yelled at me im all good, ill admit i love her to death but i do sometimes unappreciate her, sometimes its jus that we are both busy in our own lives. so maybe u man is jus busy with school or family life and u gusy start weird arguments for no reason

[sexxiela]

yeah see thats the weird thing though...im on top of my stuff. i got my school work, after school activites family and friends...he's like so into his friends that he thinks they're not my friends. i knew them before we started dating and idk. i think it might be because we hang out with the same group of people

[RoMeO6969]

yeah see thats the weird thing though...im on top of my stuff. i got my school work, after school activites family and friends...he's like so into his friends that he thinks they're not my friends. i knew them before we started dating and idk. i think it might be because we hang out with the same group of people
hmm thats confusin for sure lol

thing with me is i make sure i see my gf everyday we both make a effort to unless we super busy then we make exceptions. sometimes in love u jus gotta give a little to get a little

[sexxiela]

yeah omg trying to get him to spend one day out of the week was so hard. it was like he didnt want to. he says he loves me and i do believe him but at times i dont

[RoMeO6969]

yeah omg trying to get him to spend one day out of the week was so hard. it was like he didnt want to. he says he loves me and i do believe him but at times i dont
i no how u feel in that situation me n her go through it all the time but i no she cant live wid out me for a second so i win haha she has to see me

[sexxiela]

lol aww dats so cute :) how long ya been 2gether?

[RoMeO6969]

lol aww dats so cute :) how long ya been 2gether?
not long actually we jus hit 8 months today but from my other gf's i can tell with this one we have a future together shes so pretty we make the cutest couple ever lol I LOVE HER LOL

[sexxiela]

awww thats the cutest thing i ever heard...omg if u guys get married i wanna be ur wedding planner :)

[RoMeO6969]

awww thats the cutest thing i ever heard...omg if u guys get married i wanna be ur wedding planner :)
fo shizzle :D


btw im faheem who u b

[sexxiela]

im fahmida

[RoMeO6969]

im fahmida
thats my cuzins name :D

[sexxiela]

lol ya u have my nephews name

[RoMeO6969]

lol ya u have my nephews name
o shit wut a coincedence lol im jus that special i guess

[sexxiela]

lol

[Canadian_jatti]

dump him i had the same prob a while back he's neva gonna change or learn to live wit it

[harvey_mayway]

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[Space-Cowboy]

You're still in High School? No one here can make any value judgements unless we know more into it:

What are/were the arguments about?

Why did you break up 3 times?

Why did he say you take him for granted?



Btw,... most High School 'love' is just puppy crushes.... and more relationships aren't 'serious'........ Relationships, real ones, are about time management and compromises and juggling your professional life with your romantic life. You won't know this until you're out of High School....



And no, don't dump him.... if that's all you'd do now then your relationships in your adult life won't last either. Besides, you'll only end up going back to him anyway....

[Monaa]

Know wat babes...juz cool it fo a while..he will come back to ya if he truly loves u..if not he was nvr worth.. :grouphug: