How Many People Have You Gone Out With So Far...

[SIXPAK GQ]

.....going out as friends no not count......

going out as in getting intimate..future prospects for relationships....

post ur age and number......dont be embarassed if ur number is too high.....

discuss

[ispeakadatruth!!]

r u on askmen.com?? :rofl:

[$H@MZ]

I thought you were joking about the webiste but it exists..

How many gals have you been with SIXPAK and what age?

[RoMeO6969]

19 dated 2 gurls

[BDzFinEst]

17, almost 18 .

been/are in 3 serious relationships .

[P4ki4Lyf]

almost 16 had 1 relationship.

[po0kie]

19 dated 2 gurls
u've dated 19 people..n two were girls? :kekeke:

[RoMeO6969]

lol no im 19 lol dated 2 gurls

[po0kie]

lol no im 19 lol dated 2 gurls
:rofl: uh huh

[farazz]

almost 23 and been in ZERO relationships.....that lasted over a week.....or 2 hours :p

[RoMeO6969]

:rofl: uh huh
lol im serious haha


lol i have not been around i swear

[longjohnsilver]

I've been out with some milfs there we go.... I like!

[HiGHland~Heather]

almost 23 and been in ZERO relationships.....that lasted over a week.....or 2 hours :p


the words use n abuse come to mind? :p



by that, I mean u got used pretty boy.

[SIXPAK GQ]

I thought you were joking about the webiste but it exists..

How many gals have you been with SIXPAK and what age?

thats the best forum ive ran into ever...

4




28

[farazz]

the words use n abuse come to mind? :p



by that, I mean u got used pretty boy.

i like to think of it as sharing the wealth

[P4ki4Lyf]

thats the best forum ive ran into ever...

4




28
you're 28? :shock: i thought u wer like 23-25

[_A-s-H-i_]

am 18 ive dated 3 n 1 was serious

[rated_R]

22... 1..

[SIXPAK GQ]

you're 28? :shock: i thought u wer like 23-25


i just look young...and no one beleives me i am 28 until i show them my ID.

[STUpendous]

4 semi serious relationships, and another 4 stupid high school relationships that lasted like a week-2 weeks

there's been 3 girls that i really liked(more than any of my gfs), but haven't gone out with cause im a pussy/im not good enough for them, but i did eventually end up making out with each of them

most recently yesterday, i got drunk with my crush and some friends, and ended up kissing her, but i didn't feel it was right, it was pretty anticlimactic for liking her so much for 8 months now, and she was like wasn't there at all in the head, but either was i .. i really hope she forgets about it, but people saw, and im not in any mood to act all charming and stuff to make up for it if shes feeling awkward

oh and im 18, i thought i was kinda low, and i do think so as well.. ive never loved any of these girls, or even come to close to it.. id rather have had one girl that i love instead of all that useless drama

[lovestick]

4 semi serious relationships, and another 4 stupid high school relationships that lasted like a week-2 weeks

there's been 3 girls that i really liked(more than any of my gfs), but haven't gone out with cause im a pussy/im not good enough for them, but i did eventually end up making out with each of them

most recently yesterday, i got drunk with my crush and some friends, and ended up kissing her, but i didn't feel it was right, it was pretty anticlimactic for liking her so much for 8 months now, and she was like wasn't there at all in the head, but either was i .. i really hope she forgets about it, but people saw, and im not in any mood to act all charming and stuff to make up for it if shes feeling awkward

oh and im 18, i thought i was kinda low, and i do think so as well.. ive never loved any of these girls, or even come to close to it.. id rather have had one girl that i love instead of all that useless drama

may i suggest blogspot.com?

[.AK.]

age:20
# of serious ones: 3

[STUpendous]

may i suggest blogspot.com?

ahh but i need to get it out, i havent even told my best friend yet, havent had a chance and i just cant keep it in

[HiGHland~Heather]

4 semi serious relationships, and another 4 stupid high school relationships that lasted like a week-2 weeks

Hmmmm....I was expecting there to be a few guys too........



r u sure they were all girls?

[STUpendous]

Hmmmm....I was expecting there to be a few guys too........



r u sure they were all girls?

naw, ive never found a guy good looking enough for me to turn that gay

i have pretty high standards when it comes to guys

[HiGHland~Heather]

naw, ive never found a guy good looking enough for me to turn that gay

i have pretty high standards when it comes to guys

lol!


nice earrings btw.

[SIXPAK GQ]

bump

[TaCoMaStUd]

22 here, 23 in june

2 relationships

[bellefemme]

almost 23 and been in ZERO relationships.....that lasted over a week.....or 2 hours :p

WOW what happened? how did u even get involved in that?

[bellefemme]

well I will be 21 in September, but zero relationships.

[Felonius Monk]

More than a month - 6.

One off dates - no idea.

:drdodgy:

[Canadian_jatti]

19 and 2

[bellefemme]

hahaha, so far I think I am the ACCHA BACCHA, here on RD. LOLZ :dancen:

[QqQueen BbBee]

22 with 4 relationships under my belt

[jamizzydamohizzy]

19 gone out 2

[shy_sadia]

age 20... dated 1 guy for half a year..still talk to him after our break up which was 2 years ago. we never had sex.

[NYC101]

17, almost 18 .

been/are in 3 serious relationships .

at the age of 17, u been in 3 serious relationships????? That means you must have started dating at the age of 5.

[SIXPAK GQ]

at the age of 17, u been in 3 serious relationships????? That means you must have started dating at the age of 5.


lol....and they were serious too..that makes me lol again!

[shy_sadia]

at the age of 17, u been in 3 serious relationships????? That means you must have started dating at the age of 5.

I dont think assault counts as a relationship. It was not a bf/gf thing or a choice. and i'm glad i was able to have a fairly healthy relationship.after that.some ppl end up scarred for life. I think you are too young to understand how old ar eyou kid.
But yeah i'll change my sig. dont hate.

[NYC101]

I dont think assault counts as a relationship. It was not a bf/gf thing or a choice. and i'm glad i was able to have a fairly healthy relationship.after that.some ppl end up scarred for life. I think you are too young to understand how old ar eyou kid.
But yeah i'll change my sig. dont hate.

I was talkin to DBz finest...why u telling me your life story? :sarb:

[SIXPAK GQ]

I dont think assault counts as a relationship. It was not a bf/gf thing or a choice. and i'm glad i was able to have a fairly healthy relationship.after that.some ppl end up scarred for life. I think you are too young to understand how old ar eyou kid.
But yeah i'll change my sig. dont hate.


I think id have to agree with nyc regardless of his age.....

[shy_sadia]

Watever i think you are judgemental of ppl so go get a life.The reason i thought you were talking about me was cause of the ages. why am i trying to prove myself to someone who doesnt exist. Forget NYC101. :wavey: i like my new sig. i feel the honnesty in it..and your evilness shine.

[southystyle]

18 years old..1 r/ship

but it was the most trivial and lame bullshit in the world..

i don't even count it..so..zErO

[southystyle]

may i suggest blogspot.com?
LMFAO..!!!!
that was gold :rofl:

[sweet desi angel]

17.........5 relationships...three really serious ones....thought it was love but turned out to be puppy love

[...Hero...]

22 a Hero with a bit fat ZERO

[_NoMi_]

22 years old...been in one relationship which was a serious one.

[SIXPAK GQ]

bump

[madam_jade]

Are you asking about how many serious relationships we've had or how many people we've slept with?

[...Hero...]

Are you asking about how many serious relationships we've had or how many people we've slept with?

both

:dunno:

[SIXPAK GQ]

Are you asking about how many serious relationships we've had or how many people we've slept with?


serious and/or slept with......somewhat serious..etc.......going out as in interested in some sort of intimacy....

[jassika]

age 21 number 2

[the_dark_drag0n]

17 and 0

I know, my mommy and daddy must be so proud. :cool:

[Riddemz]

serious relationships = 0
non-serious relationships = 0

[the_dark_drag0n]

serious relationships = 0
non-serious relationships = 0LOL You just HAD to make everything clear and separate the two right? :p

[SIXPAK GQ]

serious relationships = 0
non-serious relationships = 0


what about semi serious?

[NYC101]

17.........5 relationships...three really serious ones....thought it was love but turned out to be puppy love

I won't say it straight out as to what I think...but it begins with S...ends with T.....and has LU in the middle. Also, it rhymes with GLUT.

[Riddemz]

what about semi serious?
semi-serious relationships = 0

[Riddemz]

I won't say it straight out as to what I think...but it begins with S...ends with T.....and has LU in the middle. Also, it rhymes with GLUT.
ok
now shut the fuck up
your thoughts arent needed

[the_dark_drag0n]

semi-serious relationships = 0What about dates?

[GT_Starrr]

20 and one serious....!

[Riddemz]

What about dates?
what do you consider as a date?

[the_dark_drag0n]

What do YOU consider as a date, Riddemz?

LOL I just realized, are we supposed to apply the "rule of 3" to the answers everyone gave. You know, divide by 3 if it's a guy talking about girls he's dated, and multiply by 3 if it's girl talking about the guys she's seen.

[Riddemz]

What do YOU consider as a date, Riddemz?

LOL I just realized, are we supposed to apply the "rule of 3" to the answers everyone gave. You know, divide by 3 if it's a guy talking about girls he's dated, and multiply by 3 if it's girl talking about the guys she's seen.
never heard of that rule

i consider a date something ......
well fuck i have no idea, i guess you can make that

dates been on = 0

[the_dark_drag0n]

Liar. Didn't you take that one chick out to McDonald's once? :lol:

[HiGHland~Heather]

dates been on = 0


wonder why :rolleyes:

[Riddemz]

Liar. Didn't you take that one chick out to McDonald's once? :lol:
mcdonalds?

[the_dark_drag0n]

mcdonalds?
lol yeah, you were telling me, remember? Like how she insisted on Getting McDonald's, and refused all the other food, even if McDonald's isn't Halal or something.

[Riddemz]

wonder why :rolleyes:
explain yourself

if you are trying to insult me then say it directly, no need to beat around the bush... or even beat yourself in the bush

[Riddemz]

lol yeah, you were telling me, remember? Like how she insisted on Getting McDonald's, and refused all the other food, even if McDonald's isn't Halal or something.
that wasnt a date, i just met up with her and 2 of her friends to chill

that was Mirchi btw. she joined the forums not too long ago

[the_dark_drag0n]

lol shit. sorry.

[HiGHland~Heather]

explain yourself

if you are trying to insult me then say it directly, no need to beat around the bush... or even beat yourself in the bush

no need to get a bee in your bonnet, I was just pondering out loud.

I don't promote any kind of promiscuity whatsoever!

[BoO bOo]

6. :o

in a relationship wit the 6th one :love: n i love it :p

[.AK.]

6. :o

in a relationship wit the 6th one :love: n i love it :p
n ur like...2 years old:| wow kids dese days

[HiGHland~Heather]

6. :o

in a relationship wit the 6th one :love: n i love it :p

By 'it' you mean him, right? :sarb:

[SIXPAK GQ]

Bump

[King Ghidra]

By 'it' you mean him, right? :sarb:

http://www.clubdesmonstres.com/it01.jpg


I had to get this image so fast...........I hate clowns...:cry:

[BoO bOo]

n ur like...2 years old:| wow kids dese days
fag :squint:

[BoO bOo]

By 'it' you mean him, right? :sarb:
by "it" i meant relationship. and ofcourse i love him.


well or maybe not..things are gettin bad. :cry:

[King Ghidra]

by "it" i meant relationship. and ofcourse i love him.


well or maybe not..things are gettin bad. :cry:

There there, for if it the real thing, your love love will prevail.

[chIllmatic82]

sixpak has a 2 inch dick

[BoO bOo]

There there, for if it the real thing, your love love will prevail.
:Pray: hope so.
we got bak together again but now the situtation is getting rough again. :neutral:

[BoO bOo]

sixpak has a 2 inch dick
how do you know? :neutral:

[chIllmatic82]

how do you know? :neutral:

he showed me :dancen:

[King Ghidra]

:Pray: hope so.
we got bak together again but now the situtation is getting rough again. :neutral:

Oh, the whole i love you but when together we fight relationship...I heard about those.

Sounds interesting.

[Rogue]

.....going out as friends no not count......

going out as in getting intimate..future prospects for relationships....

post ur age and number......dont be embarassed if ur number is too high.....

discuss
my current age: 22
age when i first dived into the so-called dating pool: 15
oldest guy i dated: 26 (4 years older)
oldest guy i almost dated: 28 (6 years older)
youngest guy i dated: 20 (2 years younger)


guys i've "dated" (dating used very loosely here): 8
guys i have dated that have gotten their asses whooped: 3
guys i've been in serious relatioships with: 3 (each was 2+ years)
guys that i've gotten intimate with: 1 (the current)

[BoO bOo]

Oh, the whole i love you but when together we fight relationship...I heard about those.

Sounds interesting.
yeah but i know we'll be good later. ;)

[BoO bOo]

he showed me :dancen:
are you two gay by any chance?

[HiGHland~Heather]

by "it" i meant relationship. and ofcourse i love him.


well or maybe not..things are gettin bad. :cry:

:drama2:

[chIllmatic82]

are you two gay by any chance?

u never know

[BoO bOo]

:drama2:
:yes: but i believe i am strong enough to deal with that drama because i have dealt with it before aswell. ;)
life is easier when you excatly know what you want and need. :neutral:

[BoO bOo]

u never know
:ugh:

[chIllmatic82]

:ugh:

:69:

[BoO bOo]

:69:
:gayfight:

[Shashanna]

Age: 19
Relationships: 1

[indiangq]

Age: 19
Relationships: 1
u can count ur flings as well

[Asian_GoDdEss]

Age 22

Had two relationships, in my third one at present.

[pachaas Paisa]

age 21..

relationships: *starts counting*

[indiangq]

i never kept track to be honest age-27 maybe coz i m getting old lol

[pakilicious911]

almost 19...been in 3 and a half relationships :rolleyes:

[niroism]

Age - 22

Numbah of relationships - 7
Numbah of relationships more than a day - 6
Numbah of relationships more than a week - 5
Numbah of relationships more than a month - 3
Numbah of relationships more than a year - 1

[King Ghidra]

INDIAN HUSTLA has had 10,00000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000 00 relationships

and has slept with 10000000,00000000000000000000000000000000000000000 000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000 women.

[Shashanna]

INDIAN HUSTLA has had 10,00000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000 00 relationships

and has slept with 10000000,00000000000000000000000000000000000000000 000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000 women.


when we post relationships.. is it suppose to be any kind of intimacy or just sleeping with a person?

[indiangq]

when we post relationships.. is it suppose to be any kind of intimacy or just sleeping with a person?
u didn't answer my ?

[Shashanna]

u didn't answer my ?

it would still be one. :p

[selina_786]

Age - 22

Numbah of relationships - 7
Numbah of relationships more than a day - 6
Numbah of relationships more than a week - 5
Numbah of relationships more than a month - 3
Numbah of relationships more than a year - 1
Is this, posts per hour or going by the minute?

[tamil_desi]

0


:Oops:

[Shashanna]

0


:Oops:

No need to blush. You'll find her one day.

[indiangq]

it would still be one. :p
thats lame

[Shashanna]

thats lame

It's my choice and I'm damn proud of it.

There's much more important things in life.

and I'm picky.......

[indiangq]

It's my choice and I'm damn proud of it.

There's much more important things in life.
whoaaa no need to get all senti menti on me lol i was just joking sorry i asked

[King Ghidra]

when we post relationships.. is it suppose to be any kind of intimacy or just sleeping with a person?

I have no idea........

Just relationships even if they mean't nothing...

[tamil_desi]

No need to blush. You'll find her one day.

Well...I'm continuing the constant search! :D

[SIXPAK GQ]

my current age: 22
age when i first dived into the so-called dating pool: 15
oldest guy i dated: 26 (4 years older)
oldest guy i almost dated: 28 (6 years older)
youngest guy i dated: 20 (2 years younger)


guys i've "dated" (dating used very loosely here): 8
guys i have dated that have gotten their asses whooped: 3
guys i've been in serious relatioships with: 3 (each was 2+ years)
guys that i've gotten intimate with: 1 (the current)


what do u mean dating used very loosly here?

assed whooped for what?

the current guy is just a boy toy?

[SIXPAK GQ]

are you two gay by any chance?

i am straight but he has been stalking me lately....., scary

[SIXPAK GQ]

Age: 19
Relationships: 1


u beat me by 3 years..


i didnt have my first relationship till i was 22...or any sort of female interaction

[bellefemme]

u beat me by 3 years..


i didnt have my first relationship till i was 22...or any sort of female interaction
I am 20 soon will be 21, ZERO relationship.

[bellefemme]

almost 19...been in 3 and a half relationships :rolleyes:
whats that suppose to mean?

[pachaas Paisa]

*still counting*

[bellefemme]

*still counting*
do u need a counter clock.

[Rogue]

what do u mean dating used very loosly here?

assed whooped for what?

the current guy is just a boy toy? dating as in "just hanging out normally" i mean, apparently, i was just thinking as friends, and they seemed to think more of it. so for lack of a better word: dating.

asses whooped for attempting to be aggressive & basic overall stupidity (trying to use emotional blackmail/guilt trips for not rushing into anything) and just wanting to get laid. only about action and not about substance. to make the mistake of thinking that you can have your way with a girl by the second date. failure to realize and understand someone, lack of respect...etc. etc.

the current guy is not just a toy boy :P it's more serious. however, i do play with him, so i suppose in a way he is a type of toy as well as other things :)

[pachaas Paisa]

do u need a counter clock.


Lol yes, maybe you can be of a great help :kiss:

[SIXPAK GQ]

dating as in "just hanging out normally" i mean, apparently, i was just thinking as friends, and they seemed to think more of it. so for lack of a better word: dating.

asses whooped for attempting to be aggressive & basic overall stupidity (trying to use emotional blackmail/guilt trips for not rushing into anything) and just wanting to get laid. only about action and not about substance. to make the mistake of thinking that you can have your way with a girl by the second date. failure to realize and understand someone, lack of respect...etc. etc.

the current guy is not just a toy boy :P it's more serious. however, i do play with him, so i suppose in a way he is a type of toy as well as other things :)


everyone has differnet definations for dating. what i meant was getting intimate in some way, not just friends! friends with intimacy counts too. if this is serious then how can he just be a boy? i am sure he plays with u too.....unless he was a dummy lol.....

[SIXPAK GQ]

dating as in "just hanging out normally" i mean, apparently, i was just thinking as friends, and they seemed to think more of it. so for lack of a better word: dating.

asses whooped for attempting to be aggressive & basic overall stupidity (trying to use emotional blackmail/guilt trips for not rushing into anything) and just wanting to get laid. only about action and not about substance. to make the mistake of thinking that you can have your way with a girl by the second date. failure to realize and understand someone, lack of respect...etc. etc.

the current guy is not just a toy boy :P it's more serious. however, i do play with him, so i suppose in a way he is a type of toy as well as other things :)



cool ur from SF....my fav ciity..grew up in bay area....

[Rogue]

everyone has differnet definations for dating. what i meant was getting intimate in some way, not just friends! friends with intimacy counts too. if this is serious then how can he just be a boy? i am sure he plays with u too.....unless he was a dummy lol.....

lol, well, i don't see why he can't be referred to as a boy and how it would take away from the seriousness of the relationship in anyway. :) and yes, of course, playing is not a one way thing here, it's definitely a two way street. the game definitely keeps us amused andthe relationship interesting.

aha, i rarely run into bay people on this site so that's cool :) how long were you here for? you moved cuz of profession-related reasons? which part of the world are you terrorizing now?

[T.Dimera]

lol, well, i don't see why he can't be referred to as a boy and how it would take away from the seriousness of the relationship in anyway. :) and yes, of course, playing is not a one way thing here, it's definitely a two way street. the game definitely keeps us amused andthe relationship interesting.

aha, i rarely run into bay people on this site so that's cool :) how long were you here for? you moved cuz of profession-related reasons? which part of the world are you terrorizing now?

are u the typical type of desi female that marrys the first guy she's been 'intimate with'....if so...when is the wedding? :p

[SIXPAK GQ]

lol, well, i don't see why he can't be referred to as a boy and how it would take away from the seriousness of the relationship in anyway. :) and yes, of course, playing is not a one way thing here, it's definitely a two way street. the game definitely keeps us amused andthe relationship interesting.

aha, i rarely run into bay people on this site so that's cool :) how long were you here for? you moved cuz of profession-related reasons? which part of the world are you terrorizing now?


i moved to bay area when i was 11. left when i was 25......grew up in san jose mostly, 2 years in hayward...moved b/c the cost of living is outrageous there vs the salary..............i live in houston now

[SIXPAK GQ]

are u the typical type of desi female that marrys the first guy she's been 'intimate with'....if so...when is the wedding? :p

waht made u think that?

[Rogue]

are u the typical type of desi female that marrys the first guy she's been 'intimate with'....if so...when is the wedding? :p haha, well, maybe the reason why some desi females marry the first guy they've been intimate is because they're extremely picky to begin with. so if a guy can gain enough of her trust for her to get intimate with him...then that says a lot about how far she's willing to go with him. maybe even indicative of marrriage.

and so that probably kind of was an issue for me where i didn't feel solid enough to go ahead with intimacy before...but no, at the same time, i'm not someone who would marry the first guy i've been intimate with...although i wouldn't mind, i mean, that would give me the chance to harass my best friend for life but for now, there's no rush. :D so if and should wedding dates be scheduled, then i will let it be known. ;)

[Shashanna]

u beat me by 3 years..


i didnt have my first relationship till i was 22...or any sort of female interaction

I just proved the racists wrong............ *wink*

P.s. if you don't get what i mean..we'll discuss later. lol

[Rogue]

i moved to bay area when i was 11. left when i was 25......grew up in san jose mostly, 2 years in hayward...moved b/c the cost of living is outrageous there vs the salary..............i live in houston now
that's cool. i moved out here when i was about 6, lived in santa clara/san jose area until i was 13. moved to cupertino/sunnyvale where i was until i graduated from high school at 17. after that, i moved up to oakland/berkeley/sanfrancisco and that's where i've been till now dancing all over the place with my projects and sf-based studio. i'm actually planning on moving out further east in a few months to experience the east coast side a bit for some time, but i think i will end up moving back to cali after a few years. and inevitably end up in india in my older age, help out with whatever i can after i've gathered enough resources, experience, and credibility.

[T.Dimera]

waht made u think that?

I was being sarcastic

[T.Dimera]

haha, well, maybe the reason why some desi females marry the first guy they've been intimate is because they're extremely picky to begin with. so if a guy can gain enough of her trust for her to get intimate with him...then that says a lot about how far she's willing to go with him. maybe even indicative of marrriage.

and so that probably kind of was an issue for me where i didn't feel solid enough to go ahead with intimacy before...but no, at the same time, i'm not someone who would marry the first guy i've been intimate with...although i wouldn't mind, i mean, that would give me the chance to harass my best friend for life but for now, there's no rush. :D so if and should wedding dates be scheduled, then i will let it be known. ;)

you'll marry this guy...deny it if you want...its the same thing when you saw your b/f just as a 'friend' all those years ago...its denial... hahaha


enjoy life...be happy

[Rogue]

you'll marry this guy...deny it if you want...its the same thing when you saw your b/f just as a 'friend' all those years ago...its denial... hahaha


enjoy life...be happy haha, i actually hope you're right. for once in my life, i'm actually dating someone that i wouldn't mind ending up with. shit, did i just say that?? lol. well, i don't know if this counts for anything...but we ARE "married" on facebook. oh ho ho, maybe it's foreboding something :)

[T.Dimera]

haha, i actually hope you're right. for once in my life, i'm actually dating someone that i wouldn't mind ending up with. shit, did i just say that?? lol. well, i don't know if this counts for anything...but we ARE "married" on facebook. oh ho ho, maybe it's foreboding something :)


those are some big signs right there...in the back of your head at least...the M word is there....from your perspective, how old do you want to be when you 'tie the knot'?

[Rogue]

those are some big signs right there...in the back of your head at least...the M word is there....from your perspective, how old do you want to be when you 'tie the knot'? hm, probably 24-26 when i'm financially and professionally established enough. he would always call me his sweetheart, and now from time to time, wifey. haha, big signs, well the funny thing is that he's one of those guys who was very outspoken before about not believing in love and everything but

infact, we've still never actually said that to each other this entire time..but that doesn't mean it's not there. the actions speak for themselves far louder than any words can. i can't help but laugh when i remember how much we've gone through during the time we've known each other...also developed, and changed. :D

how about yourself?

[T.Dimera]

hm, probably 24-26 when i'm financially and professionally established enough. he would always call me his sweetheart, and now from time to time, wifey. haha, big signs, well the funny thing is that he's one of those guys who was very outspoken before about not believing in love and everything but

infact, we've still never actually said that to each other this entire time..but that doesn't mean it's not there. the actions speak for themselves far louder than any words can. i can't help but laugh when i remember how much we've gone through during the time we've known each other...also developed, and changed. :D


interesting....i think theres pressure in the desi community for young people to hitched quickly. I'm 24, got my degree, started my career, living really well...and my family is on me about 'settling down'. I can only imagine the pressure on desi females. I don't know if theres a right age to get married...if 2 people fall in love and can see themselves living happily ever after & living comfortably...i say go for it.
One thing I'm definatley avoiding now like the plague are G.D.Gs (Golddigger Desi Girls) :p ...seriously as soon as you start making $$..they come out of no where... :neutral:

[musicchic33]

19..and 0 people

[Rogue]

interesting....i think theres pressure in the desi community for young people to hitched quickly. I'm 24, got my degree, started my career, living really well...and my family is on me about 'settling down'. I can only imagine the pressure on desi females. I don't know if theres a right age to get married...if 2 people fall in love and can see themselves living happily ever after & living comfortably...i say go for it.
One thing I'm definatley avoiding now like the plague are G.D.Gs (Golddigger Desi Girls) :p ...seriously as soon as you start making $$..they come out of no where... :neutral: you know, i've heard a lot of my guy friends complaining about that. they also complained of how their exes left them for men that were earning while they were kind of just starting their career and what not. it's a sad sad thing they do. i mean, personally, i didn't just waste 5 years working my ass off spending 40,000 a year just to depend on someone else's salary...that's just fucked up. ugh, i can't stand that. but yea, the pressure is definitely there for most people. luckily, my parents are very mellow. i mean, they were arranged married when my dad was 24 and my mom was merely 20 and just graduated. so...both were not very emotionally mature to handle a commitment like that...and my mom got screwed over professionally because then i was born, followed by two other siblings. they are very adament about me standing on my own two feet before marriage. they are not very pushy about it at all, thank god, and hold off even the relatives that do try and bring rishtas or whatever. i mean, they know i'm not the arranged marriage type of girl...i'd drive anyone who didn't know how to handle me absolutely insane. haha :) but yea, they've never brought up the topic seriously either. of course, when i was going out with my ex, my mom would joke and say "dump him, i will marry you to a millionaire" haha

:) but yea, sometimes, i guess the girls feel more solid of a relationship, not just because they'll end up with a loaded guy but because their parents would never have an issue with someone like that who's financially stable...i don't know, i actually have no idea how they think, i can only theorize. lol.

anyway, :P you have my sympathy...definitely steer clear of drama like that, it's no good.

[EwLookItsYou]

17..
1 that was stupid and doesn't count
2 serious ones.. the one i'm currently in is the longest.. more than a year

[T.Dimera]

you know, i've heard a lot of my guy friends complaining about that. they also complained of how their exes left them for men that were earning while they were kind of just starting their career and what not. it's a sad sad thing they do. i mean, personally, i didn't just waste 5 years working my ass off spending 40,000 a year just to depend on someone else's salary...that's just fucked up. ugh, i can't stand that. but yea, the pressure is definitely there for most people. luckily, my parents are very mellow. i mean, they were arranged married when my dad was 24 and my mom was merely 20 and just graduated. so...both were not very emotionally mature to handle a commitment like that...and my mom got screwed over professionally because then i was born, followed by two other siblings. they are very adament about me standing on my own two feet before marriage. they are not very pushy about it at all, thank god, and hold off even the relatives that do try and bring rishtas or whatever. i mean, they know i'm not the arranged marriage type of girl...i'd drive anyone who didn't know how to handle me absolutely insane. haha :) but yea, they've never brought up the topic seriously either. of course, when i was going out with my ex, my mom would joke and say "dump him, i will marry you to a millionaire" haha

:) but yea, sometimes, i guess the girls feel more solid of a relationship, not just because they'll end up with a loaded guy but because their parents would never have an issue with someone like that who's financially stable...i don't know, i actually have no idea how they think, i can only theorize. lol.

anyway, :P you have my sympathy...definitely steer clear of drama like that, it's no good.

i'm a pretty good judge of character so I can elimidate the girls that are just looking to get a 'free ride'....kind of like how girls would be able to dismiss guys who are just looking to get some play....

Most of my friends are engaged, about to be engaged, or married...so yeah my poor mother can get a little nervous at time...poor woman...but i keep on reassuring her that her patience will be rewarded.

My friends keep on telling me that if you meet a girl who's in her mid 20's and single...something must not be right with her...as in if she was all that...she would have already been scooped up by a guy by now....i tried to argue with this theory...unfortuantley i applied it to the last few girls i met that have fit the criteria..and its strangely accurate :neutral:

[Rogue]

i'm a pretty good judge of character so I can elimidate the girls that are just looking to get a 'free ride'....kind of like how girls would be able to dismiss guys who are just looking to get some play....

Most of my friends are engaged, about to be engaged, or married...so yeah my poor mother can get a little nervous at time...poor woman...but i keep on reassuring her that her patience will be rewarded.

My friends keep on telling me that if you meet a girl who's in her mid 20's and single...something must not be right with her...as in if she was all that...she would have already been scooped up by a guy by now....i tried to argue with this theory...unfortuantley i applied it to the last few girls i met that have fit the criteria..and its strangely accurate :neutral: yea, haha :) cool, you have that advantage then. yea, it's strange when your friends first start getting engaged and married. i mean, it's even strange for me when i'm experiencing for the first time, one of my good friends getting engaged and marrying in june. it's just...you know, "holy shit, it's that time of life already?" is my biological clock ticking?!
lol

yea, poor parents, especially moms will want to make sure we find ideal mates before all the good ones are gone. :) it is really very sweet of them to do haha but nevertheless, nerveracking for the saplings. and rewarded she will be indeed ;) i mean, it's far better to wait and find someone that you can see yourself having a future with rather than being rushed and finding out what a mistake it was, then ending up divorcing them. but by then they may have a kid so that they make sure they get child support from you :D haha, jk :) but yea, i don't really believe in divorces. that's too easy of a way out...unless it's really absolutely hopeless and an extremely abusive relationship

i don't know if i quite agree with your friends' opinion about 20 something single ladies having issues. i mean, sometimes, they've just had such a bad experience or have seen such bad things happen around them that they really kind of avoid relationships and can become cynical. nothing that can't be overcome. :) i'm sure there's plenty out there that are absolutely great and have not been scooped up by the right guy (aka, potentially you ;) )

[T.Dimera]

yea, haha :) cool, you have that advantage then. yea, it's strange when your friends first start getting engaged and married. i mean, it's even strange for me when i'm experiencing for the first time, one of my good friends getting engaged and marrying in june. it's just...you know, "holy shit, it's that time of life already?" is my biological clock ticking?!
lol

yea, poor parents, especially moms will want to make sure we find ideal mates before all the good ones are gone. :) it is really very sweet of them to do haha but nevertheless, nerveracking for the saplings. and rewarded she will be indeed ;) i mean, it's far better to wait and find someone that you can see yourself having a future with rather than being rushed and finding out what a mistake it was, then ending up divorcing them. but by then they may have a kid so that they make sure they get child support from you :D haha, jk :) but yea, i don't really believe in divorces. that's too easy of a way out...unless it's really absolutely hopeless and an extremely abusive relationship

i don't know if i quite agree with your friends' opinion about 20 something single ladies having issues. i mean, sometimes, they've just had such a bad experience or have seen such bad things happen around them that they really kind of avoid relationships and can become cynical. nothing that can't be overcome. :) i'm sure there's plenty out there that are absolutely great and have not been scooped up by the right guy (aka, potentially you ;) )

the good wishes are much appreciated! I've worked hard to become the best eligable bachlor I can be... :p

Yes lots of my friends are in that stage of life right now where they are coupling off...i am happy for them...but i also realize that our friendships won't be the same anymore because they have their own lives to lead and family and such...so no more roadtrips, hanging out, etc...

my mother the other day was asking me if i'd be open to the idea of an 'arriange marriage' :p ...not really my thing..but i always crindge everytime she talks about marriage...i'm not even in a serious relationship...marriage is not even something i really want to think about

meeting quality people that are 'available' can definatley be challanging...but I hold out hope i'll run into some soon!

[Rogue]

the good wishes are much appreciated! I've worked hard to become the best eligable bachlor I can be... :p

Yes lots of my friends are in that stage of life right now where they are coupling off...i am happy for them...but i also realize that our friendships won't be the same anymore because they have their own lives to lead and family and such...so no more roadtrips, hanging out, etc...

my mother the other day was asking me if i'd be open to the idea of an 'arriange marriage' :p ...not really my thing..but i always crindge everytime she talks about marriage...i'm not even in a serious relationship...marriage is not even something i really want to think about

meeting quality people that are 'available' can definatley be challanging...but I hold out hope i'll run into some soon!
you veeeel you veeeel :hug: have faith in what you told your mom. patience will pay off ;)

[SIXPAK GQ]

I just proved the racists wrong............ *wink*

P.s. if you don't get what i mean..we'll discuss later. lol


not sure...........what u are talkinga bout here

[SIXPAK GQ]

that's cool. i moved out here when i was about 6, lived in santa clara/san jose area until i was 13. moved to cupertino/sunnyvale where i was until i graduated from high school at 17. after that, i moved up to oakland/berkeley/sanfrancisco and that's where i've been till now dancing all over the place with my projects and sf-based studio. i'm actually planning on moving out further east in a few months to experience the east coast side a bit for some time, but i think i will end up moving back to cali after a few years. and inevitably end up in india in my older age, help out with whatever i can after i've gathered enough resources, experience, and credibility.


which hs did u graduate from

[T.Dimera]

not sure...........what u are talkinga bout here

i don't think anyone is...

[Rogue]

which hs did u graduate from monta vista in 01

[SIXPAK GQ]

interesting....i think theres pressure in the desi community for young people to hitched quickly. I'm 24, got my degree, started my career, living really well...and my family is on me about 'settling down'. I can only imagine the pressure on desi females. I don't know if theres a right age to get married...if 2 people fall in love and can see themselves living happily ever after & living comfortably...i say go for it.
One thing I'm definatley avoiding now like the plague are G.D.Gs (Golddigger Desi Girls) :p ...seriously as soon as you start making $$..they come out of no where... :neutral:


stay away from gold diggers..it doesnt matter how hot or how good the chemistry she has with you....u can sense a gold diggers from a mile away....

[Rogue]

which hs did u graduate from
what about yourself?

[SIXPAK GQ]

i'm a pretty good judge of character so I can elimidate the girls that are just looking to get a 'free ride'....kind of like how girls would be able to dismiss guys who are just looking to get some play....

Most of my friends are engaged, about to be engaged, or married...so yeah my poor mother can get a little nervous at time...poor woman...but i keep on reassuring her that her patience will be rewarded.

My friends keep on telling me that if you meet a girl who's in her mid 20's and single...something must not be right with her...as in if she was all that...she would have already been scooped up by a guy by now....i tried to argue with this theory...unfortuantley i applied it to the last few girls i met that have fit the criteria..and its strangely accurate :neutral:

do u watch the show Elimidate? cuz i saw the spelling ....


there are lot of mid to late twenties girls who are not taken...or they will be divorced down the road..divorce rates are high and getting higher..there are more single ladies then taken ones.....maybe ur just not there at the right spot..i know ur busy with work...but imagine if u did not have to work..but ur job was to find a that girl of ur desire 40 hours a week, overtime if needed..i am sure ud have lot of options.....

[SIXPAK GQ]

the good wishes are much appreciated! I've worked hard to become the best eligable bachlor I can be... :p

Yes lots of my friends are in that stage of life right now where they are coupling off...i am happy for them...but i also realize that our friendships won't be the same anymore because they have their own lives to lead and family and such...so no more roadtrips, hanging out, etc...

my mother the other day was asking me if i'd be open to the idea of an 'arriange marriage' :p ...not really my thing..but i always crindge everytime she talks about marriage...i'm not even in a serious relationship...marriage is not even something i really want to think about

meeting quality people that are 'available' can definatley be challanging...but I hold out hope i'll run into some soon!



JK has lot of girls.........

[SIXPAK GQ]

monta vista in 01

Oak Grove 96

[Rogue]

Oak Grove 96
:D you miss it at all? i know i don't miss mine. i miss some people, yes, but for the most part, it was uneventful.

[SIXPAK GQ]

:D you miss it at all? i know i don't miss mine. i miss some people, yes, but for the most part, it was uneventful.


not really....its the friends u miss..not really the schoool..........
i graduated from csu hayward though.......

[Rogue]

not really....its the friends u miss..not really the schoool..........
i graduated from csu hayward though.......
oh boy, you were probably attending at the same time i was dating this one guy from there. one of the unsuccessful relationships.

[SIXPAK GQ]

oh boy, you were probably attending at the same time i was dating this one guy from there. one of the unsuccessful relationships.


too bad u did not run into me.......i went there from 01 fall to 2003 summer....u?

[Rogue]

too bad u did not run into me.......i went there from 01 fall to 2003 summer....u?
i never actually attended it but i did visit it on several different occassions to visit people or for events that were held there. i've attended the college i'm currently attending right after graduation from hs and i will be graduating from CCA (California College of the Arts) this upcoming 13th. god.. finally. :P

[SIXPAK GQ]

bump

[-Stax0-]

i never actually attended it but i did visit it on several different occassions to visit people or for events that were held there. i've attended the college i'm currently attending right after graduation from hs and i will be graduating from CCA (California College of the Arts) this upcoming 13th. god.. finally. :P

The current guy you're with.....is in your pics? Damn he has better hair than most of the chicks :p

Tell me how he gets his hair like that :mad:

[Rogue]

The current guy you're with.....is in your pics? Damn he has better hair than most of the chicks :p

Tell me how he gets his hair like that :mad: i don't know if he'd like me giving away his secret. :P lol, it's funny cuz he gets that alot and girls wanna know his secret, too. ;)

[SIXPAK GQ]

The current guy you're with.....is in your pics? Damn he has better hair than most of the chicks :p

Tell me how he gets his hair like that :mad:


no big deal..u just have to grow it long.....

[shamel_ki_jaan]

age ~> 21
bfz ~> 2

[Areez_UK_HUSTLER]

............me..........29.............. sssshhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh! ;-)

2 serious relationship that almost resulted in marriage (one was 3 yrs and the other 5 yrs), and 6 short relationships (i.e 1month - 1 yr)

[Shashanna]

not sure...........what u are talkinga bout here]

Since I've been here, the guys have been gossiping about "certain races" being promiscuous amongst other things. And it was just completely crude. Whther they were joking or not, it's not true, not funny, and it's racist.
I hate when people generalize.....

[Sexie_Punjaban]

hey ppl i'm 16 and been in 1 serious relationnn......nd 2 otherss

[T.Dimera]

stay away from gold diggers..it doesnt matter how hot or how good the chemistry she has with you....u can sense a gold diggers from a mile away....

I need a good girl...she'll want a gentlemen...we're sayin the same thing like a synonym

[EyeAllure604]

Dude, how can you keep track of that? I don't even remember how many guys I have dated (not meaning it in a bad way.)

Ooo, I had my share of fun in hs.

[southystyle]

Dude, how can you keep track of that? I don't even remember how many guys I have dated (not meaning it in a bad way.)

Ooo, I had my share of fun in hs.
i had zero fun in hs :no:

[EyeAllure604]

i had zero fun in hs :no:

You can have fun now! :mrhappy:

[southystyle]

You can have fun now! :mrhappy:
hmmm yeahh...lets go play :eyebrow: