why do most girls like da bad boy image in guy

[satty831]

1 thing i've notice alot is so many girls r going out with da bad boy wannabes.... wots up with dat?

wot happen to going with jz a nice guy? huh

[Arshy]

There's not many nice guys like myself left now,

All of em are either taken, used and abused or heartbroken! :mad:

[gangsta_bitch]

1 thing i've notice alot is so many girls r going out with da bad boy wannabes.... wots up with dat?

wot happen to going with jz a nice guy? huh

maybe cuz they're bored with the "sweet and decent" type?!

[Night Fox]

1 thing i've notice alot is so many girls r going out with da bad boy wannabes.... wots up with dat?

wot happen to going with jz a nice guy? huh



The title of this thread says enough.

Bad boy 'Image'. It's just about how he looks, the character of the man is rarely looked into. A real rebel wouldnt feel the need to act or dress a certain way.

[Mz_Newyawk]

bc i dont like nice guys
nice guys r boring
nice guys r too nice for me
i dontl ike guys who r nice! lol
okie i cant explain..i jus dont like nice guys
nice guys r liked by everywhere...but a bad boi aint..and its a challenge for u..to mkae him to b liked by ur friends and sometimes ur family too!

[Night Fox]

bc i dont like nice guys
nice guys r boring
nice guys r too nice for me
i dontl ike guys who r nice! lol
okie i cant explain..i jus dont like nice guys
nice guys r liked by everywhere...but a bad boi aint..and its a challenge for u..to mkae him to b liked by ur friends and sometimes ur family too!


..and a 'Bad Boi' is someone who......?


*Think carefully, before you make urself sound stupid*

[Mz_Newyawk]

..and a 'Bad Boi' is someone who......?


*Think carefully, before you make urself sound stupid*
a bad boi..
my x is a very good example
went to jail
did loads of shit
used to smoke and drink
wasnt liked by a lot of people
and my parents hated him too!

[Night Fox]

a bad boi..
my x is a very good example
went to jail
did loads of shit
used to smoke and drink
wasnt liked by a lot of people
and my parents hated him too!


lol...I see.

[satty831]

and dat sort of guy turns u on?

[Mz_Newyawk]

and dat sort of guy turns u on?
i read ur other post later on
i wasnt tlking abt the wannabe type. u knw the one that dresses up and shit
no i was tlking abt the real bad bois :p
and well yes there is some stupid attraction towards them!!

[satty831]

i read ur other post later on
i wasnt tlking abt the wannabe type. u knw the one that dresses up and shit
no i was tlking abt the real bad bois :p
and well yes there is some stupid attraction towards them!!
LOL........................

[temptazn]

There's not many nice guys like myself left now,

All of em are either taken, used and abused or heartbroken! :mad:

I WAS READING MENS HEALTH, IT SAYS THAT APPARENTLY THERE ARENT ALOT OF BADB0YS AROUND :sarb: AND BECAUSE ITS A RAREITY PPL R ATTRACTED 2 THE IMAGE? :mad: BUT ISNT EVRY1 A BADBOY THESE DAYS? OR A WANABE?

[satty831]

I WAS READING MENS HEALTH, IT SAYS THAT APPARENTLY THERE ARENT ALOT OF BADB0YS AROUND :sarb: AND BECAUSE ITS A RAREITY PPL R ATTRACTED 2 THE IMAGE? :mad: BUT ISNT EVRY1 A BADBOY THESE DAYS? OR A WANABE?
da mens health mag is wrong there are loads in birmingham.... everytimei go out and about i see girls with bad boys...... dnt see why girls go for dat type..... or maybe its jz da way there jz look........fuk knws

[STUpendous]

if by badboys you mean gangsta wanabes :wtfgay: , then it's just because its still the in style

i may look gay, but im a billion times more badass than them

[satty831]

if by badboys you mean gangsta wanabes :wtfgay: , then it's just because its still the in style

i may look gay, but im a billion times more badass than them
lol

[hawthamzi]

1 thing i've notice alot is so many girls r going out with da bad boy wannabes.... wots up with dat?

wot happen to going with jz a nice guy? huh
so we can treat em like a propa woman.......now iron my shirt

[satty831]

so we can treat em like a propa woman.......now iron my shirt
good answer.................lol

[hawthamzi]

good answer.................lol
;) . .

[Arshy]

I WAS READING MENS HEALTH, IT SAYS THAT APPARENTLY THERE ARENT ALOT OF BADB0YS AROUND :sarb: AND BECAUSE ITS A RAREITY PPL R ATTRACTED 2 THE IMAGE? :mad: BUT ISNT EVRY1 A BADBOY THESE DAYS? OR A WANABE?
Thats it im gonna become a bad boy but ill be diff...

I'll be a business badboy...u know the whole badboy look in a suit thing!

[Infamous23]

i used to have a lot of trouble getting girls because i was too nice and sensitive

suddenly this yr i've hooked up with many girls, and got many chasin me... its not the bad boy thing, it's more of mystery and unpredictability. thats what they are attracted to.... that itself makes you "bad" enough..... in the right way of course.

it's all about mystery

[1coolguy]

1 thing i've notice alot is so many girls r going out with da bad boy wannabes.... wots up with dat?

wot happen to going with jz a nice guy? huh

just be yourself. if someone picks on you, u pick on them. being badboy and going to jail isn't worth your time. its just a girls fantasy i guess, and its not worthy to show it off to others, because your just hurting yourself. And it'll make you feel dump in the end. everyone has fantasies that they wish to see in real life, but 95% of the time you dont see it in happen in reality.

I guess being too nice can't get you a relationship nor friends. I don't prefer too much of a nice girls either. I prefer spontaneous and talkative, and kinda crazy you know. i prefer some type of "Bad" girl. meaning that not going to jail, but someone has that "Bad" attitude that makes you attracted to them. This has nothing to do with female psychology, everyone prefer some type of friend who has bad quality in them. I met few of my friends who are too nerdy, but had bad quality in them. So they were worthy of a friend and hang out. in the other hand, i had friends (guys and girls) who were being way too nice, and nothing really clicked and they got boring pretty easily. I hate too goody two shoes as well. so its not just women.

[Shortyy]

I think its also somethin with attraction lol

[SIXPAK GQ]

bc i dont like nice guys
nice guys r boring
nice guys r too nice for me
i dontl ike guys who r nice! lol
okie i cant explain..i jus dont like nice guys
nice guys r liked by everywhere...but a bad boi aint..and its a challenge for u..to mkae him to b liked by ur friends and sometimes ur family too!


bad boys end up a loser! they are only good for short-term thrill..they don't even have their s**t together...like they say..u gotta go thru the bad ones first....

[SIXPAK GQ]

lol...I see.


i guaranteee u that an educated girl does not go out with such guys.i am talking older girls...college or above...even college girls date these bad boys....but guess who they really end up with? it sure is not a bad boy..but not a nice guy either

[x_babytee_x]

1 thing i've notice alot is so many girls r going out with da bad boy wannabes.... wots up with dat?

wot happen to going with jz a nice guy? huh

allow bad boy wannabe theyre all pussios at heart :no:
but its true girls do like bad boys or more specifically thugs turning into angels :love:
duno about any1 else but i think that roughness in a man jus reassures a girl he gna look after her no matter what- liturally for people to jus say it is easy but to actually do it is another thing but hes gta b a guy who wants or has turned good- a sweet sentimental side but not as sweet as nice guys who are sickley sweet :Puke:

[RockinHarlot]

i prefer girlz.

[Fawad]

:mad:

[RockinHarlot]

:mad:
???

[gujulicious]

i hate "bad boys"

no matter how hot a guy is, if he's got the "bad boy", thug or a player image i shall not talk to him.

[satty831]

i hate "bad boys"

no matter how hot a guy is, if he's got the "bad boy", thug or a player image i shall not talk to him.
yeh but sum ppl jz look like a player or thug "they jz like dat image" but dat doesnt mean there r?

[21cent]

http://www.ipsi.fraunhofer.de/~mehta/album/After%20the%20trip%20..%20the%20bad%20boy%20is%20r elaxed.JPG

[RockinHarlot]

^^^^ Wtfffff

[hawthamzi]

http://www.ipsi.fraunhofer.de/~mehta/album/After%20the%20trip%20..%20the%20bad%20boy%20is%20r elaxed.JPG
haha, his belt says he has nothing to play with, lol

[Mav]

Haha, I know some very good girl friends.
Only few of them really know what kind of boys they looking for.

they like a little bit of this and a little bit of that.......this/ that = nice/ bad....
And finally most of them end up wit most stupid geeks, who are either too nice or too stupid that they keep quite and the girls find that hot too.

[SIXPAK GQ]

only teens and young girls like bad boys....a girl who has a career set in mind and/or is about to graduate from college likes a real man....who has similar interest as her...

none of that 'thug' gangster wannabe who his pants half way down to his ankles with tons of jewerly, not to forget these wannabe thugs lack vocabulary and try to act Black. half of this forum is like that unfortunately.....

[Arshy]

only teens and young girls like bad boys....a girl who has a career set in mind and/or is about to graduate from college likes a real man....who has similar interest as her...

none of that 'thug' gangster wannabe who his pants half way down to his ankles with tons of jewerly, not to forget these wannabe thugs lack vocabulary and try to act Black. half of this forum is like that unfortunately.....

I run my own business and i think i quallify to being a businessman...and i know a hell of alot of career minded business women that love thugs...

They are bored of the same plain guys...they want nawty fun!

But not all women are in to thugs and badboys and not all guys are bad boys or thugs!

[ewwwww]

Most 'bad boys' are play boys as well.....Its probably the challenge to keep them exclusive to you?

[Shashanna]

1 thing i've notice alot is so many girls r going out with da bad boy wannabes.... wots up with dat?

wot happen to going with jz a nice guy? huh

I like my men clean cut, preppy almost or unique style, heck! even having no style at all is better than the thug image. blah! it's too messy for me.

[GtQtKiSsEs]

i hate gansta wanna be thugs and bad boys. . .i'm young but i still prefer a decent, clean cut guy, with good career goals and values :D

[STUpendous]

ive noticed too that being nice doesn't automatically disqualify you, it's being non adventurous, annoyingly nice, and not being cocky funny and teasing

you can still be nice, and be the opposite to that

[SIXPAK GQ]

I run my own business and i think i quallify to being a businessman...and i know a hell of alot of career minded business women that love thugs...

They are bored of the same plain guys...they want nawty fun!

But not all women are in to thugs and badboys and not all guys are bad boys or thugs!


Thats BS..never seen a desi girl with a thug who are married...thugs get nowhere in life......unless the girl who was a thug businesswomen then i can understand


just to let u know..u dont have to a bad boy to be exciting.....there bad boy, there are nice guys and then there are gentleman who have all the qualities that the girl is looking for but he is not a jerk...bad boys are considered jerks and players most of the time......

[SIXPAK GQ]

ive noticed too that being nice doesn't automatically disqualify you, it's being non adventurous, annoyingly nice, and not being cocky funny and teasing

you can still be nice, and be the opposite to that



yea be nice but be funny, unpredictable, not cocky.....tease is good....adverturous but u cant be toying with the law either.....

[T.Dimera]

I run my own business and i think i quallify to being a businessman...and i know a hell of alot of career minded business women that love thugs...

They are bored of the same plain guys...they want nawty fun!

But not all women are in to thugs and badboys and not all guys are bad boys or thugs!

unfortunatley for most of those 'business minded' men..their afc's and don't know perhaps how to attract women....thus they lose out to the thugs/badboys

[x_babytee_x]

I run my own business and i think i quallify to being a businessman...and i know a hell of alot of career minded business women that love thugs...

They are bored of the same plain guys...they want nawty fun!

But not all women are in to thugs and badboys and not all guys are bad boys or thugs!

ladies like naughty but nice guys :giggle:
and sure it works vice versa

[insomniac987]

1 thing i've notice alot is so many girls r going out with da bad boy wannabes.... wots up with dat?

wot happen to going with jz a nice guy? huh
probably gives them a better sense of security......and thats about it

[Arshy]

ladies like naughty but nice guys :giggle:
and sure it works vice versa
i agree coz the last thing a lady would want is to find a boring guy and then get bored right?

And anyway aren't boring guys finished now?

I mean all the guys i know are in some way kinda interesting!

[SIXPAK GQ]

i agree coz the last thing a lady would want is to find a boring guy and then get bored right?

And anyway aren't boring guys finished now?

I mean all the guys i know are in some way kinda interesting!


U as a guy are likely to make freinds with a interesting guy then a boring guy also

[Arshy]

U as a guy are likely to make freinds with a interesting guy then a boring guy also
But sometimes u have friends who u grow up with, and earlier in life they are so much fun and really chilled out, but later in life they become alot more serious and very watchful.

I don't really look to make many new friends now, i stick the good ones i have from the past!

[SIXPAK GQ]

But sometimes u have friends who u grow up with, and earlier in life they are so much fun and really chilled out, but later in life they become alot more serious and very watchful.

I don't really look to make many new friends now, i stick the good ones i have from the past!


GROWING up with soemone is a exception! b/c u can always share the old memories with ur buddy.....these are special friends/best friends/bros....etc.......

its harder to make real friends when ur getting older..especially if ur out of college....

[T.Dimera]

GROWING up with soemone is a exception! b/c u can always share the old memories with ur buddy.....these are special friends/best friends/bros....etc.......

its harder to make real friends when ur getting older..especially if ur out of college....

offtopic but i learned that neghits don't work on girls who are beautiful but don't realize it & thus have low selfesteem....can't make an omlet without breaking some eggs :neutral:

[SIXPAK GQ]

offtopic but i learned that neghits don't work on girls who are beautiful but don't realize it & thus have low selfesteem....can't make an omlet without breaking some eggs :neutral:
true................

but u just gotta gamble and throw out ur game..hopefully it works ........its like playing deck of cards......

if u play baseball..u gotta guess what kind of pitch ur gonna get thrown at..hopefully if its a fast ball and u are expecting a fastball then boom ..u get that HR....

[Arshy]

GROWING up with soemone is a exception! b/c u can always share the old memories with ur buddy.....these are special friends/best friends/bros....etc.......

its harder to make real friends when ur getting older..especially if ur out of college....
i agree with you....

As life goes on u meet companions and not friends....

The diff is a companion will let u lean on their shoulder wen times are hard, where as a friend will take ya hand and drag u out of trouble even if that means laying their life down!

Shit how did we manage to get from badboy's to best friends?

[SIXPAK GQ]

i agree with you....

As life goes on u meet companions and not friends....

The diff is a companion will let u lean on their shoulder wen times are hard, where as a friend will take ya hand and drag u out of trouble even if that means laying their life down!

Shit how did we manage to get from badboy's to best friends?


Friends and badboy topic...all interrelated....i brought up a guy friend and compared it to a female friend ........

[T.Dimera]

true................

but u just gotta gamble and throw out ur game..hopefully it works ........its like playing deck of cards......

if u play baseball..u gotta guess what kind of pitch ur gonna get thrown at..hopefully if its a fast ball and u are expecting a fastball then boom ..u get that HR....

good analogy...i will continue to look for my pitch..and if i get it i'm swinging for the fences!

its funny because this girl said to me after i gave her a few neghits "Dimera...you clearly don't know how to talk to women..no wonder you're single" :neutral:

[Pompeii]

Its because we have idiots, such as yourself, representing the image contrary to a bad boy image. Well done Jubes.

[(outlandish)]

a bad boi..
my x is a very good example
went to jail
did loads of shit
used to smoke and drink
wasnt liked by a lot of people
and my parents hated him too!

have fun getting beat everynight after your guy comes home in a druken stupor.

[SIXPAK GQ]

good analogy...i will continue to look for my pitch..and if i get it i'm swinging for the fences!

its funny because this girl said to me after i gave her a few neghits "Dimera...you clearly don't know how to talk to women..no wonder you're single" :neutral:


i bet that girl was a AFC then.....

[T.Dimera]

i bet that girl was a AFC then.....

she definatley was the type of girl who always has to have the last word..and be right...are personalities clashed...so she was no longer attractive to me

[HeAvYmAcHiNeGuN]

i was a BAD guy.....and at dat time alooot of gals had a crush on me
I WAS NOT INTERESTED :p