ever been heartbroken?

[P4ki4Lyf]

like REALLY heartbroken? did u get over it? if yes how?

[doaly69]

yes i have been and it does take time but heres a few tricks short term fixes can work but thay can be a bit weord / mean

the person find somethign u hate/dislike about them and and blow it out of proportion in ur mind so u end up hating that person does realy help u from caring and feeling so sad about the person but it only work for a short period but maybe enough for u to be able to move on

[lagaan]

the thing is, you THINK youre heartbroken, because this "heartbreaker" is all youve ever known/"loved". what you have to do is look for someone better, because once you do, the "heartbreaker" will seem like a total tool. it works, trust me.

and good luck.

[P4ki4Lyf]

You dont ever get over a thing like that.
i know its so hard :tears:

[shamel_ki_jaan]

:yes: nothin 2 be proud off :no:
and no...im still not over it :no: itz gonna take MADDD time..thtz all i know

[SIXPAK GQ]

like REALLY heartbroken? did u get over it? if yes how?

yea....

i use my brain powers

[P4ki4Lyf]

yea....

i use my brain powers
:rolleyes:

[Officer Khan]

like REALLY heartbroken? did u get over it? if yes how?

Many times its hard to get over it, just takes time wanna know the best thing to do i've never done it but the person that broke ur heart go fuck their friend or sum 1 they know it'll kill them :D

[Canadian_jatti]

yupp refer to my thread in this section titled serious question for further info

[Danish_S]

yup have been, still waitin to be over it, n though its been a while still jus seems hard to get over it. but life moves on n so do the ppl.

[Danish_S]

Many times its hard to get over it, just takes time wanna know the best thing to do i've never done it but the person that broke ur heart go fuck their friend or sum 1 they know it'll kill them :D


thts a good one, y didnt i think of tht. :sarb:

[Rogue]

like REALLY heartbroken? did u get over it? if yes how? I try to avoid letting someone becoming the center of my universe...I keep a level of distance, emotionally and keep my expectations very low. I tend not to get so upset, disappointed, and depressed that way. I remember when my relationship ended, how heartbroken I was. I became more of a workaholic when stuff like that happens. immerse myself in other activities and just keep it out of my mind. I figure they were not meant for me, and that they'll be happier making that decision. I don't really become overly cynical of love and totally avoid potential relationships altogether, but of course, I gave myself time to accept, get over that person before moving along cuz i don't want to be unfair to the other and just use them as a rebound.

I kept moving along telling myself there is more to life than just that person...I remind myself of all the others in my life...my family, friends, and when I thought like that...I didn't feel quite so lonely and depressed anymore. I also find comfort in my pets...my 2 snakes. At least they love me back. :)

Depending on what the situation is, and under most circumstances, I probably will remain passive and unvengeful. however, I can imagine certain circumstances where if angered, and provoked...i could see myself becoming irrationally vengeful.

[Danish_S]

I try to avoid letting someone becoming the center of my universe...I keep a level of distance, emotionally and keep my expectations very low. I tend not to get so upset, disappointed, and depressed that way. I remember when my relationship ended, how heartbroken I was. I became more of a workaholic when stuff like that happens. immerse myself in other activities and just keep it out of my mind. I figure they were not meant for me, and that they'll be happier making that decision. I don't really become overly cynical of love and totally avoid potential relationships altogether, but of course, I gave myself time to accept, get over that person before moving along cuz i don't want to be unfair to the other and just use them as a rebound.

I kept moving along telling myself there is more to life than just that person...I remind myself of all the others in my life...my family, friends, and when I thought like that...I didn't feel quite so lonely and depressed anymore. I also find comfort in my pets...my 2 snakes. At least they love me back. :)

Depending on what the situation is, and under most circumstances, I probably will remain passive and unvengeful. however, I can imagine certain circumstances where if angered, and provoked...i could see myself becoming irrationally vengeful.

i imagine ur still single??

[xchand_ki_kiranx]

I try to avoid letting someone becoming the center of my universe...I keep a level of distance, emotionally and keep my expectations very low. I tend not to get so upset, disappointed, and depressed that way. I remember when my relationship ended, how heartbroken I was. I became more of a workaholic when stuff like that happens. immerse myself in other activities and just keep it out of my mind. I figure they were not meant for me, and that they'll be happier making that decision. I don't really become overly cynical of love and totally avoid potential relationships altogether, but of course, I gave myself time to accept, get over that person before moving along cuz i don't want to be unfair to the other and just use them as a rebound.

I kept moving along telling myself there is more to life than just that person...I remind myself of all the others in my life...my family, friends, and when I thought like that...I didn't feel quite so lonely and depressed anymore. I also find comfort in my pets...my 2 snakes. At least they love me back. :)

Depending on what the situation is, and under most circumstances, I probably will remain passive and unvengeful. however, I can imagine certain circumstances where if angered, and provoked...i could see myself becoming irrationally vengeful.
long story but point got accrosss


i dont become a workaholic...ugh i jus wanna die right now! :sad:

[SIXPAK GQ]

:rolleyes:


being heart broken is a state of mind and getting over it is a similar process. which state r u in?

[Rogue]

i imagine ur still single?? no actually. i'm not single :P and i'm actually rather peaceful for a violent person.

[T.Dimera]

the thing is, you THINK youre heartbroken, because this "heartbreaker" is all youve ever known/"loved". what you have to do is look for someone better, because once you do, the "heartbreaker" will seem like a total tool. it works, trust me.

and good luck.

i agree with this statement....

you have to move on and keep yourself busy like others have said...everyone keeps on saying 'don't look for that special someone because when you stop looking, you'll find them'...i think thats crap...just keep yourself busy and open to meeting new people...& hopefully you'll start having fun again

[T.Dimera]

no actually. i'm not single :P and i'm actually rather peaceful for a violent person.

how did you meet/get together with your b/f?

[Rogue]

how did you meet/get together with your b/f?
well, my current bf is my best friend of 3 years. so far, so good :)

[Danish_S]

no actually. i'm not single :P and i'm actually rather peaceful for a violent person.

damn lucky guy... LOL good luc 2 both of u

[T.Dimera]

well, my current bf is my best friend of 3 years. so far, so good :)

thats interesting...crossing over from the 'best friend zone' to the 'boyfriend' zone can be tricky...did you always have romantic feelings for him..even when you were 'just friends'?

[Space-Cowboy]

I used to think like that..... then I realized there's more to life.... Hearts don't break.... they get stronger.

[Rogue]

thats interesting...crossing over from the 'best friend zone' to the 'boyfriend' zone can be tricky...did you always have romantic feelings for him..even when you were 'just friends'? well, no, actually. i can't say i had romantic feelings with him when we initially became friends, but you know, the closer we got, from time to time you can't help but ask yourself "what if...?" and he had developed a secret crush on me apparently but I hadn't been over my first boyfriend so he was patient. :D so much drama. haha, anyway, he's the one that stuck it out with me through thick and thin and what made me fall for him was the fact that our friendship means the world to him and even when i did choose not to give him a chance (i didn't want to risk our friendship before), he never changed. he was still there for me regardless. if someone respects and loves me that much, if i mean that much to him. then i couldn't resist but try :) and i'm very happy i have and it has been kind of tricky at times, yes...but nothing undealable. if it turns out to be a mistake, it's the best god damn mistake i've made.

[Rogue]

damn lucky guy... LOL good luc 2 both of u
haha ;) oh i dunno about that. i think i'm luckier :D thanks though!

[dopekhor]

yeap, the realization of that fact that life doesnt wait for anybody helped me get over when i was heartbroken

[P4ki4Lyf]

being heart broken is a state of mind and getting over it is a similar process. which state r u in?
well i was almost over it i was SO close but then something happened and all the pain came back :( its messing me up ! :mad:

[Mz_Newyawk]

girl change the title
it shud be NEBDY EVER NOT BE HEARTBROKEN!
bc everyone certainly does get a broken heart once in a life time!

[craze*e]

yes, no not over it

[farazharoon]

basically it just takes time. and there is no real way to break up happily. if it's a break it's going to be painful.
now if you both drift apart that's different.

you just have to realize that life is going to be shitty for the next 6 months or year....etc. and make the best of it. basically time and someone new is going to repair the damage and fill the gap that was left by your ex.
there is no easy fix. :(

[Mz_Newyawk]

basically it just takes time. and there is no real way to break up happily. if it's a break it's going to be painful.
now if you both drift apart that's different.

you just have to realize that life is going to be shitty for the next 6 months or year....etc. and make the best of it. basically time and someone new is going to repair the damage and fill the gap that was left by your ex.
there is no easy fix. :(
omg is that ur passport pic :o

[farazharoon]

yes it is...i quite like it actually. :dance3:

[vimi]

like REALLY heartbroken? did u get over it? if yes how?
yaaaa but i get over it like after 5 mins

[Mz_Newyawk]

yes it is...i quite like it actually. :dance3:
hmm lemme guess
ur frmo pakistan? :angel:

[Adnan786]

like REALLY heartbroken? did u get over it? if yes how?


You may eventually get over it as time is the ultimate healer, but you cant ever forget....or in some cases forgive.

[Mz_Newyawk]

You may eventually get over it as time is the ultimate healer, but you cant ever forget....or in some cases forgive.
omg hiiii
lol i bet u dont remember me
but omg i do
what did u buy ur friend for her bday o watever it was??

[sweetest_sin]

yup and i got over it.
all i needed was time

[P4ki4Lyf]

You may eventually get over it as time is the ultimate healer, but you cant ever forget....or in some cases forgive.
i knw 4 sure il never forgive....its just makes me so :mad: coz its been ages and i still cnt get over it :(

[Adnan786]

i knw 4 sure il never forgive....its just makes me so :mad: coz its been ages and i still cnt get over it :(

I know it doesnt make much sense, but when your dealing with emotions its not supposed to. Some moments your fine, then the next your so helpless....have you had enclosure or was things left on a bad note? You need not reply if you dont wish to disclose such information.

[Space-Cowboy]

i knw 4 sure il never forgive....its just makes me so :mad: coz its been ages and i still cnt get over it :(


No offense, but that's pathetic. Right now, at this very moment, do you think that guy gives a shit whether or not you're over it?

There's so many reasons to be heartbroken, as there's so much tragedy in this world.... a 'break up' is certainly not one of them.


You're somewhat religious right?.... I'm assuming you are..... here's how you get over it.... the love of a man is nothing compared to the love you receive from your God... in the greater scheme of things, THAT is the only love that matters.... the love of a man is inconsequential.

[Adnan786]

omg hiiii
lol i bet u dont remember me
but omg i do
what did u buy ur friend for her bday o watever it was??


Hey, I brought her the heart necklace, and i took her out to movies, dinner etc and gave it to her and she loved it....she said its the type of chain that she likes etc....and then when i was driving her back home she wanted the Pin code for my phone and i didnt give it. When i dropped her in the car park near her home she gave the box back to me and said to me...'Adz i want you to hold onto this until you trust me', to which i replied 'you make it difficult with the way you behave and the lack of truth over the past few months' and then she left it in the car and stormed off saying 'hold onto it forever then' so when she left i got out the car, lighted up a cigerette and when the cigerette finished i chucked the Tiffany box on the floor and then took off. Not bad eh lol.....some people are unappreciative and think of no one but themseleves.....what can you do

[FatGeezer]

jeez, only 15 and look at the drama...

[P4ki4Lyf]

I know it doesnt make much sense, but when your dealing with emotions its not supposed to. Some moments your fine, then the next your so helpless....have you had enclosure or was things left on a bad note? You need not reply if you dont wish to disclose such information.
things wer left on a bad note....he jus stopped chattn 2 me n i didnt knw y then few months l8r he calls n says sorry n wants 2 try agen then a week later he goes lets jus be friends n then doesnt talk 2 me at all. worst thing is that i everytime i feel ready to let go somethin happens n i jus go bk 2 square 1 :(

[Febreze]

Maybe not the best advice but it seems to work better than anything else as far as I have tried but finding someone new usually works...

[P4ki4Lyf]

Maybe not the best advice but it seems to work better than anything else as far as I have tried but finding someone new usually works...
i tried that it didnt feel right and it wasnt fair on the other person

[Febreze]

Yeah it tends not to unless the new person is better...Thats why it may take a few tries. Then again like most ppl say you can try the time thing.

[Adnan786]

things wer left on a bad note....he jus stopped chattn 2 me n i didnt knw y then few months l8r he calls n says sorry n wants 2 try agen then a week later he goes lets jus be friends n then doesnt talk 2 me at all. worst thing is that i everytime i feel ready to let go somethin happens n i jus go bk 2 square 1 :(

He seems like a indecisive immature tempremental boy, you need to decide whether or not he is worth enduring all of this pain for and if he is then hope is your best chance....hope that he starts to appreciate you and wont do you wrong or wants to be with you in the furture. If you dont think that is possible then you need to stand your ground and tell him where to go.....unless you can bear to have him in your life without his fickle actions affecting you....he cant keep putting you throught the same (if not worse pain) every couple of weeks.

[kool05]

I used to think like that..... then I realized there's more to life.... Hearts don't break.... they get stronger.

agreed...

[T.Dimera]

well, no, actually. i can't say i had romantic feelings with him when we initially became friends, but you know, the closer we got, from time to time you can't help but ask yourself "what if...?" and he had developed a secret crush on me apparently but I hadn't been over my first boyfriend so he was patient. :D so much drama. haha, anyway, he's the one that stuck it out with me through thick and thin and what made me fall for him was the fact that our friendship means the world to him and even when i did choose not to give him a chance (i didn't want to risk our friendship before), he never changed. he was still there for me regardless. if someone respects and loves me that much, if i mean that much to him. then i couldn't resist but try :) and i'm very happy i have and it has been kind of tricky at times, yes...but nothing undealable. if it turns out to be a mistake, it's the best god damn mistake i've made.

Sixpak, what do you think of this? It appears that the b/f has typical afc characteristics and with the 'nice guy' routine was able to cross over from the 'friends zone'....interesting case

[SIXPAK GQ]

Sixpak, what do you think of this? It appears that the b/f has typical afc characteristics and with the 'nice guy' routine was able to cross over from the 'friends zone'....interesting case

well stuff like this happens here and there....its not that common according to the DJ bible but u get some stories like that. I am sure this girl bulls**ting a little....she found him attractive at first but did have any romantic feelings. perhaps she is a afc herself

[Shortyy]

Get heartbroken many times :(

[Rogue]

well stuff like this happens here and there....its not that common according to the DJ bible but u get some stories like that. I am sure this girl bulls**ting a little....she found him attractive at first but did have any romantic feelings. perhaps she is a afc herself No bullshitting, i wasn't over my ex, infact, i'd just broken up with him. there are clear boundaries between my feelings for friends and my signifant others even if they are good friends. romantic feelings did however begin to develop about a year later.

what the hell is an afc?

[nikefc7]

best thing to do is shoot em and get them out of your life for good!

then you wouldnt have to worry about things like this because you know he wouldnt be bothering you anymore 6ft deep

[harvey_mayway]

Many times its hard to get over it, just takes time wanna know the best thing to do i've never done it but the person that broke ur heart go fuck their friend or sum 1 they know it'll kill them :D

Thats Nasty.....

[P4ki4Lyf]

He seems like a indecisive immature tempremental boy, you need to decide whether or not he is worth enduring all of this pain for and if he is then hope is your best chance....hope that he starts to appreciate you and wont do you wrong or wants to be with you in the furture. If you dont think that is possible then you need to stand your ground and tell him where to go.....unless you can bear to have him in your life without his fickle actions affecting you....he cant keep putting you throught the same (if not worse pain) every couple of weeks.
uno wot - thanks! u have made me realize that he is most defenatly NOT worth it! i think i'll be ready to let everything go very soon, i mean its been 5months so yeh about time! thank u soo much!!! :hug:

[nikefc7]

No bullshitting, i wasn't over my ex, infact, i'd just broken up with him. there are clear boundaries between my feelings for friends and my signifant others even if they are good friends. romantic feelings did however begin to develop about a year later.

what the hell is an afc?

average fustarated chump

[Monaa]

like REALLY heartbroken? did u get over it? if yes how?

Yes..i moved To Uk...*grins* ..originally frm singapore...rite now ma ex is wif my gd fren... :neutral:

[HeAvYmAcHiNeGuN]

just once and neva fell in love again

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[Monaa]

Oh my tell me abt it..happened last year..mornin i chatted wif my guy that the plans to meet up fo valentines day.. i got dressed up n all.. like very dressed up juz fo sch.. so afta sch he calls ma phone n says hes gonan spend the day wif his mum.. !@#$%%^&!! fu*kin shit ...the rest, like they say..is history... :no:

[Areez_UK_HUSTLER]

Oh my tell me abt it..happened last year..mornin i chatted wif my guy that the plans to meet up fo valentines day.. i got dressed up n all.. like very dressed up juz fo sch.. so afta sch he calls ma phone n says hes gonan spend the day wif his mum.. !@#$%%^&!! fu*kin shit ...the rest, like they say..is history... :no:

His loss! ;-) dumbass mummy's boy!

[Night Fox]

like REALLY heartbroken? did u get over it? if yes how?


Yes, a girlfriend once sent me a txt telling me she'd been sleeping with someone else. I abused drugs for a while as I couldnt deal with it at the time - I was young. A long time ago now.

[P4ki4Lyf]

I have yes... i just simply cried a little... and then realised life goes on... it wasn't meant to be... it did stop me from wanting to date a guy for about a year... but hey, im happy now, found someone who makes me the happiest i've ever been :)
aww thats great then, glad u found someone :)
ur sushi's sis innit? u look alike :)

[lankanbaby]

yes i have been and it does take time but heres a few tricks short term fixes can work but thay can be a bit weord / mean

the person find somethign u hate/dislike about them and and blow it out of proportion in ur mind so u end up hating that person does realy help u from caring and feeling so sad about the person but it only work for a short period but maybe enough for u to be able to move on


^^^^^^^This works really well, except in my case, now I hate the person's guts and can't stand his whole kind...

I'm so jaded...

[Monaa]

His loss! ;-) dumbass mummy's boy!


Awwwwwww... :bhapi:

[Monaa]

I have yes... i just simply cried a little... and then realised life goes on... it wasn't meant to be... it did stop me from wanting to date a guy for about a year... but hey, im happy now, found someone who makes me the happiest i've ever been :)


thts gd to hear hun..u moved on!! :)

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