serious question

[Canadian_jatti]

how would u deal with the fact that the gurl/guy u love is gettin married to someone else?

Okay thought i would provide an update lol there is no wedding anymore! (well atleast not in the near future) and everythin is kool cuz i hate him and his ugly gf!

[Bajrang Bali]

how would u deal with the fact that the gurl/guy u love is gettin married to someone else?

dont owrry hes too old, ull forget all about it, u dont want somone who'll amrry somone else

[SIXPAK GQ]

how would u deal with the fact that the gurl/guy u love is gettin married to someone else?


haha..how can u love soemone, and they are marrying someoen else? and why would i be wasting my time loving someone who is gettign married to soemeone?

[Canadian_jatti]

dont owrry hes too old, ull forget all about it, u dont want somone who'll amrry somone else
umm why are u assuming he's too old? lol maybe i should have added more info he just turned 21 and i'm 19

[Canadian_jatti]

haha..how can u love soemone, and they are marrying someoen else? and why would i be wasting my time loving someone who is gettign married to soemeone?
maybe becuz he doest love me back and i loved him before the whole marriage thing came up!!!!!!!

[SIXPAK GQ]

maybe becuz he doest love me back and i loved him before the whole marriage thing came up!!!!!!!


use ur brain lady....think with ur head not heart...
he doesnt love u.......if he doesnt love u now....how the hell is he going to love u even if u can force him to marry u? its too bad...move on......there are other jatts out there....

[Bajrang Bali]

umm why are u assuming he's too old? lol maybe i should have added more info he just turned 21 and i'm 19

yea thats slightly too old, if he was 24 and u 22 thatll be a little different.. why is it taht girls cant want someone their own age.. look long as he know the real u, u shouldnt care if he chooses to marry this girl, theyre million guys in the ocean

[shamel_ki_jaan]

if u really luv that person....u wudnt need to worry about nething...u shud be happy for em and pray for their happiness!

[ieatmangos]

how would u deal with the fact that the gurl/guy u love is gettin married to someone else?


It would be very tough to deal with. When you love someone its hard to see or even imagine something like that. Everyone is gonna tell you to move on or forget it, I mean it makes sense what there saying but I am sure it pains you to read stuff like that; Ive been in your shoes and thats all I used to hear, it used to annoy me. But trust me people have it far more rough than you do.

Here is my question to you.... how are you dealing with it, or how do you plan to deal with it, and how does it make you feel?

[snak3]

i would feel happy for her at first......but :) then i'll think about how i can make her feel that she made the wrong choice....haha....b

[Aurovon]

You want him because you can't have him.

[RoMeO6969]

:wave: sup

this is complicated but i know where ur comin from ive been though it

jus forget him and move, on its not worth waiting for someone that u love but dont love u back trust me i loved this one gurl so so so much were bestfriends and everything then she got arragned and married to some guy 10 years older then her and yes it did hurt, so wut im sayin is jus get over it ull find someone better i no i did and i do love my current gf more then ever cuz i know it wasent worth wastin time over my friend that gurl who left me hanging

so all im sayin is jus think bout ur options is he really worth it? do u have a future together?

[shaheenara]

i can't even deal with the fact that the guy i *ahem* and who *ahems* me lol cant be with me...and so i wouldnt be able to deal with him being with someone else... let alone marrying someone else so you know im dealing with it?

i allowed the whole thing.not mates not nothing.ah well.because yeahh you'll miss him and things going to remind you of him and shit but its probably better in the long run girlieee!! ah us women man.

[shaheenara]

It would be very tough to deal with. When you love someone its hard to see or even imagine something like that. Everyone is gonna tell you to move on or forget it, I mean it makes sense what there saying but I am sure it pains you to read stuff like that; Ive been in your shoes and thats all I used to hear, it used to annoy me. But trust me people have it far more rough than you do.

Here is my question to you.... how are you dealing with it, or how do you plan to deal with it, and how does it make you feel?
so true.why do people always tell you 'to forget him/her' in this kinda sitcho? its so stupid.if you could forget them i think you would hav done already.tch dumbasses.

[dj XeNo]

desi ppl never marry the person they are in love with. that's against the rules in desi marriages lol.

[Bajrang Bali]

I say u attend the wedding and poisen her glass and kill her.. then he'll marry u :)

[Canadian_jatti]

use ur brain lady....think with ur head not heart...
he doesnt love u.......if he doesnt love u now....how the hell is he going to love u even if u can force him to marry u? its too bad...move on......there are other jatts out there....
lol yeah der are its easy for ppl to say but when u go thru it its not that easy and yeah i realize eventually i'll move on but i dunt want it to take forever

[Canadian_jatti]

yea thats slightly too old, if he was 24 and u 22 thatll be a little different.. why is it taht girls cant want someone their own age.. look long as he know the real u, u shouldnt care if he chooses to marry this girl, theyre million guys in the ocean
i dunt want anyone else! and gurls always date older and sometimes same age guys i mean 2 years isnt a big deal like u said ur self so why does it make a diff u dut make any sense

[Canadian_jatti]

if u really luv that person....u wudnt need to worry about nething...u shud be happy for em and pray for their happiness!
yeah i've thought about that but i dunt know if he'll be happy wit her cuz its an arranged marriage and he doesnt even know her she lives in another province

[Canadian_jatti]

It would be very tough to deal with. When you love someone its hard to see or even imagine something like that. Everyone is gonna tell you to move on or forget it, I mean it makes sense what there saying but I am sure it pains you to read stuff like that; Ive been in your shoes and thats all I used to hear, it used to annoy me. But trust me people have it far more rough than you do.

Here is my question to you.... how are you dealing with it, or how do you plan to deal with it, and how does it make you feel?
well it helps when i know other ppl are goin thru it or have gone thru it cuz i guess they're the only ones who know but i just found out on friday so right now i'm still in my upset angry confused hurt stage :(

[Canadian_jatti]

i would feel happy for her at first......but :) then i'll think about how i can make her feel that she made the wrong choice....haha....b
hahaha yeah i've always had that thought that i would would him to regret that he didnt stay with me

[Canadian_jatti]

You want him because you can't have him.
well maybe now thas true but it wasnt always like that becuz he used to be mine

[Gt_BabyGurl]

How would u deal with that fact i dont know i'd just break down......But one way to deal with it is to keep ur self occupied and go out with friends....Just dont pay attention to the reality

[Canadian_jatti]

:wave: sup

this is complicated but i know where ur comin from ive been though it

jus forget him and move, on its not worth waiting for someone that u love but dont love u back trust me i loved this one gurl so so so much were bestfriends and everything then she got arragned and married to some guy 10 years older then her and yes it did hurt, so wut im sayin is jus get over it ull find someone better i no i did and i do love my current gf more then ever cuz i know it wasent worth wastin time over my friend that gurl who left me hanging

so all im sayin is jus think bout ur options is he really worth it? do u have a future together?
hmm well thas the thing i'm glad u found someone else u can luv but i dunt htink that'll happen to me like i meet so many new ppl and der all the same none of them are worth it and i'm beginning to think no one can eva take his place and i'm tired of meetin ppl then gettin to know them only to find out afterwards that they're assholes who dunt deserve it

[Canadian_jatti]

i can't even deal with the fact that the guy i *ahem* and who *ahems* me lol cant be with me...and so i wouldnt be able to deal with him being with someone else... let alone marrying someone else so you know im dealing with it?

i allowed the whole thing.not mates not nothing.ah well.because yeahh you'll miss him and things going to remind you of him and shit but its probably better in the long run girlieee!! ah us women man.
lol ur hard to understand but yeah i guess what doesnt kill me will only make me stronger right

[Canadian_jatti]

desi ppl never marry the person they are in love with. that's against the rules in desi marriages lol.
haha well that may have been tru a generation ago but nowadays more and more ppl are getting these so called "luv" marriages

[Canadian_jatti]

I say u attend the wedding and poisen her glass and kill her.. then he'll marry u :)
hahaha i wish i was strong enough to attend but yes those thoughts are amusing to a certain extent

[Canadian_jatti]

yo that would seriously suck ahahaa
jee that helps thanks man

[Canadian_jatti]

How would u deal with that fact i dont know i'd just break down......But one way to deal with it is to keep ur self occupied and go out with friends....Just dont pay attention to the reality
yeah i wish i could do that but i have real strict parents so i'm not allowed out much its hard to find things to do that'll ocupy my mind

[my_ah]

hey.. u know i think u should tell him.. and then let him decide what to do.. if he doesn't take you, then he wasn't good enough for you in the first place.. trust me. i've liked.. well it's probably turned into loved this one guy i've known for 7 years now.. and wen he found out.. didn't talk to me for 4 years.. n now we're pretty good freinds.. but God forbid taht he knows or everything will b skrewed up. n it's tru wat they say.. the worst way to miss someone is to have them sittin beside you knowin u can't have 'em. its ok. (n a 21 year old guy is gettin married?? you don't hear that everday... ) keep strong... :D make me proud.. :D :dance3: :grouphug:

[Canadian_jatti]

yeah i'm too scared to tell him and now i regret that its too late cuz i shoulda done it before the whole marriage thing came up but i thought i had plenty of time to reveal my feelings seein as he's only 21 and we broke up like last summer and he always said he was gonna get married in india so i thought when he left to get married i'd go as well and see if i can marry him but now i think its too late to say anythin to him and i think he doesnt want anythin to do wit me

[my_ah]

well u won't kno that until u try right?? :) don't worry about it.. after you've done what you can it's up to him. u seem like the kewlest person.. so if he doesn't want n e thing to do with you.. it's his loss.... :) well i gotta go study for spanish.. pm me n lemme kno how it goes. group hug!! :grouphug: :D

[Canadian_jatti]

nahi yaar its way too risky the wedding is next month and if it was that easy to tell him i woulda done so a long time ago i'm scared :(

[Laayla]

Smp

[Canadian_jatti]

yeah ur rite bout a lot of things but jus to clarify he doesnt love her i dunt think they have ever even met she doesnt live here and its an arranged marriage

[krazii aqqie]

aaawwww love, i'm sowwie. :hug:

i would cry. cry my eyes out. cry till there's no more tears left in me. :no:

[Laayla]

Smp

[Canadian_jatti]

aaawwww love, i'm sowwie. :hug:

i would cry. cry my eyes out. cry till there's no more tears left in me. :no:
been there done that but jus when u think u cant cry no more u do :(

[Canadian_jatti]

And you guys aren't anymore? So he left you for her? Or did he leave you, and then eventually found himself in a position where he was to marry the other girl through an arranged marriage? Sorry if I'm being "nosy" but the situation calls for it.
no he didnt leave me for her the second one was right!

[Laayla]

Smp

[Canadian_jatti]

well i'm sure his parents pressured him into it cuz they need another person in the family to make money to pay off the house they recently purshased and we no longer speak to each other so its extremely difficult for me to express my feelings and if i talk tp him now then hes gonan know i'm only doin it cuz i found out bout his marriage

[krazii aqqie]

been there done that but jus when u think u cant cry no more u do :(

aaawwwwwwwwww !!! i know. :( :bhapi:

[Sphinx7]

Love is Love, and the highest level of understanding..

[Shortyy]

Donno i think its very hard if the person who you love gettin
married with some1 else.

[shamel_ki_jaan]

Donno i think its very hard if the person who you love gettin
married with some1 else.
it is hard...no doubt...but if u really do luv that person...u shud be happy for em!

[Canadian_jatti]

yupp in the end i guess thats what it all boils down to

[Mz_Newyawk]

if he loves me he wouldnt get married!!

[Canadian_jatti]

lol but there are other things to consider other than love

[Officer Khan]

how would u deal with the fact that the gurl/guy u love is gettin married to someone else?

:chainsaw:

[Canadian_jatti]

hahaha i dunt even know who she is :(

[Shashanna]

if he loves me he wouldnt get married!!
what if he doesn't know you exist but you love him? I think you should do it,like in the film, "The graduate" ....run down the alter as he/she is about to get married then confess your love to him!! :dance3:

[Canadian_jatti]

haha thas sooo dramatic and it will be in a gurdwara

[Cunard]

drama in the gurdwara?.....that never happens :p



move on, the boy is gone.......find somone like me :wiggle:

[ieatmangos]

well it helps when i know other ppl are goin thru it or have gone thru it cuz i guess they're the only ones who know but i just found out on friday so right now i'm still in my upset angry confused hurt stage :(


Everyone is going to tell you to move and and get over it, and etc. But its not something you can automatically do, infact theres nothing you can do yourself to move on or get over the person as you wish. Its something that happens thru time and new positive memories.

What I mean, initially you just need to talk to people and pour your heart out, its healthy. Eventually, not by choice but by nature, the pain will get less and less and less.

When you let someone into your life, you take a big risk of getting burned. Unfortunately there is really no one to warn you of that.

Atleast you have some nice people on here to talk to, who are from the same culture. Believe me people have it much worse than you, just open the news, look at the innocent kids getting killed in Iraq, or the girl who got raped in New York. So just appreciate that you are probably in good health, and appreciate all the good things you have.

[ieatmangos]

drama in the gurdwara?.....that never happens :p



move on, the boy is gone.......find somone like me :wiggle:


See look at this nice gentleman here, there is already signs of hope. ;)

[krazii aqqie]

drama in the gurdwara?.....that never happens :p



move on, the boy is gone.......find somone like me :wiggle:


weren't you supposed to be hitting up the gyms & then giving me a call. :squint:

[Canadian_jatti]

drama in the gurdwara?.....that never happens :p



move on, the boy is gone.......find somone like me :wiggle:
haha and whats so special bout u anywayz?

[Canadian_jatti]

Everyone is going to tell you to move and and get over it, and etc. But its not something you can automatically do, infact theres nothing you can do yourself to move on or get over the person as you wish. Its something that happens thru time and new positive memories.

What I mean, initially you just need to talk to people and pour your heart out, its healthy. Eventually, not by choice but by nature, the pain will get less and less and less.

When you let someone into your life, you take a big risk of getting burned. Unfortunately there is really no one to warn you of that.

Atleast you have some nice people on here to talk to, who are from the same culture. Believe me people have it much worse than you, just open the news, look at the innocent kids getting killed in Iraq, or the girl who got raped in New York. So just appreciate that you are probably in good health, and appreciate all the good things you have.
yeah u make some very good points and i was jus thinkin bout ppl who are worse off than me so i should be happy wit what god gave me

[Canadian_jatti]

See look at this nice gentleman here, there is already signs of hope. ;)
haha but he prob lives a million miles away or somefin :(

[Cunard]

haha and whats so special bout u anywayz?

nothing at all....nothing at all :no:

[Cunard]

weren't you supposed to be hitting up the gyms & then giving me a call. :squint:

:anxious:

[Canadian_jatti]

nothing at all....nothing at all :no:

awwww :grouphug: dunt worry ders nuttin special bout me either haha :p

[texan_rulezzz]

how would u deal with the fact that the gurl/guy u love is gettin married to someone else?

find someone else. Dont lose ur self-esteem for someone.

[Canadian_jatti]

it dunt think it has anythin to do wit self esteem

[Cunard]

awwww :grouphug: dunt worry ders nuttin special bout me either haha :p

i suggest u go work on the oil riggs for a few months...by the time u get back...u wont even remember him :)

:hug:
^came back to return the hug =)

[coral1979]

how would u deal with the fact that the gurl/guy u love is gettin married to someone else?

you cant help who u fall in love wid, but if the mans getting married then its never gonna work

[Alright De$i]

how would u deal with the fact that the gurl/guy u love is gettin married to someone else?

suicide. - Although I'm not promoting it. :wavey:

On a serious note, speak to the parents of your lover see if that works. Try your best to convince.

If that doesn't work then move on. YOU can love more than once. You can fall in love as many times as you want, you just gotta know how to do it ;-)

[sWeEtnDsOuR]

im such a baby...i get sad over EVERYTHING!
i jus read this and im all dukhi....like its happening 2 me or sumthing...but im with my jaanu and very happy...marrige is kinda far for us but if i ever had 2 see him marry sum1 else i'd kill somebody. tell him...please...?? it could help...either get u 2gether or help get it outta ur system...i really really hope everything gets better for you...
you can't really run into the gurdwara and b like i love you...lol so do it before fir bas rab rakha...he'll do w/e...maybe ur guy will realize something...????

o nd very big :bhapi: and :kiss: 4 u!!
(in the most clean way 4 everyone thingking of making imature comments)

[Canadian_jatti]

i suggest u go work on the oil riggs for a few months...by the time u get back...u wont even remember him :)

:hug:
^came back to return the hug =)
hhaha well sounds like a plan i'll give u the hug before i leave cuz u neva know when i'll be back hunna :bhapi:

[Canadian_jatti]

suicide. - Although I'm not promoting it. :wavey:

On a serious note, speak to the parents of your lover see if that works. Try your best to convince.

If that doesn't work then move on. YOU can love more than once. You can fall in love as many times as you want, you just gotta know how to do it ;-)
lol i dunt know his parents and even if i did i doubt i'd have enough courage to do that but i think u can only luv once and i'll neva feel the same bout anyone else eva again :(

[Canadian_jatti]

im such a baby...i get sad over EVERYTHING!
i jus read this and im all dukhi....like its happening 2 me or sumthing...but im with my jaanu and very happy...marrige is kinda far for us but if i ever had 2 see him marry sum1 else i'd kill somebody. tell him...please...?? it could help...either get u 2gether or help get it outta ur system...i really really hope everything gets better for you...
you can't really run into the gurdwara and b like i love you...lol so do it before fir bas rab rakha...he'll do w/e...maybe ur guy will realize something...????

o nd very big :bhapi: and :kiss: 4 u!!
(in the most clean way 4 everyone thingking of making imature comments)
lol awww ur so sweet thas like the most touching response i've gotten so far and if it that easy for me to say it then i woulda done so 6 months ago since thas when i began thinkin bout it lol and now that the whole weddin thing came up it seems impossible and like der is no point anywayz i'm happy for u good luck wit ur relationship

[sWeEtnDsOuR]

lol awww ur so sweet thas like the most touching response i've gotten so far and if it that easy for me to say it then i woulda done so 6 months ago since thas when i began thinkin bout it lol and now that the whole weddin thing came up it seems impossible and like der is no point anywayz i'm happy for u good luck wit ur relationship

thanx :bhapi:
i'll pray that everything will get better 4 u... :Pray: :)
i can understand that its prob. the hardest thing ever...but won't you wonder forever what would have happend if you did tell him?? won't it bother you...?
(not trying 2 make it worse...but just wondering... :think: )

[harvey_mayway]

how would u deal with the fact that the gurl/guy u love is gettin married to someone else?


let them marry someone else....

they dont care about you..... If they did they wouldnt be marryin someone else...

Well as my cousin puts it..... their are two types of girls in this world..... the type u marry and the type u hav to let run free.....

:neutral: traditional indian marriages are all about the parents gettin on with the girl or boy and their family......

Theirs more to the whole dynamic than just love.

WHY Do You Care So Much?

I say never limit your options.... their must be a million things you wanta do with your life rather than marry some one who doesnt respect you..... and if hes marryin someone else then he doesnt respect you,,,,,, 'hes throught u where in class B of women'

The girl that will not get along wit his family, nag him.... then take half...... (
(Lik a Gold Digger)

Let Him Go. :mad: :sarb:

Welll thats wot i think.... anyway marriage is for life....

and if they dont want to marry you... then let them go... your better off without them,

[harvey_mayway]

I should hav read your whole thread before i posted....

I get it now......


Lets see your 19.... prob been with him for a couple of years,,,,,,He was your first real BF... Your First Love.....

So he was lik your first love, your first time, and the one you throught you would be marryin.....


But he wasnt thinkin like that,,,,,he their for the short term....


Im undering why your feeling that way.... See im little like you in that way... I think relationships are for the long-term,.... that they will lead to a future.

Awww.... Your Very Sweet

Im sorry to here you've had your heart-broken,.......

But im sure you'll meet someone else ..... your stunin sikh kudi....


Well takecare..... and if that doesnt work.....

ANswer to your Problem

I have this C.D Track thats good at erasin Bad Feeling, throughts, emotions from your mind....

I could send it 2 you.... (neurological reprogramming tape)

Helps you to replace that bad feelin with a new emotion of your choice,,,,its cheaper and faster than having years of therapy to get over your Ex....


You could try that...... lol.... well takecare.....

[Canadian_jatti]

thanx :bhapi:
i'll pray that everything will get better 4 u... :Pray: :)
i can understand that its prob. the hardest thing ever...but won't you wonder forever what would have happend if you did tell him?? won't it bother you...?
(not trying 2 make it worse...but just wondering... :think: )
yeah it already tortures me and i think bout it every nite before i go to bed and every mornin when i wake up but what can ya do right

[Canadian_jatti]

let them marry someone else....

they dont care about you..... If they did they wouldnt be marryin someone else...

Well as my cousin puts it..... their are two types of girls in this world..... the type u marry and the type u hav to let run free.....

:neutral: traditional indian marriages are all about the parents gettin on with the girl or boy and their family......

Theirs more to the whole dynamic than just love.

WHY Do You Care So Much?

I say never limit your options.... their must be a million things you wanta do with your life rather than marry some one who doesnt respect you..... and if hes marryin someone else then he doesnt respect you,,,,,, 'hes throught u where in class B of women'

The girl that will not get along wit his family, nag him.... then take half...... (
(Lik a Gold Digger)

Let Him Go. :mad: :sarb:

Welll thats wot i think.... anyway marriage is for life....

and if they dont want to marry you... then let them go... your better off without them,
umm yeah but why are u assuming i'm a gold digger?

[Canadian_jatti]

I should hav read your whole thread before i posted....

I get it now......


Lets see your 19.... prob been with him for a couple of years,,,,,,He was your first real BF... Your First Love.....

So he was lik your first love, your first time, and the one you throught you would be marryin.....


But he wasnt thinkin like that,,,,,he their for the short term....


Im undering why your feeling that way.... See im little like you in that way... I think relationships are for the long-term,.... that they will lead to a future.

Awww.... Your Very Sweet

Im sorry to here you've had your heart-broken,.......

But im sure you'll meet someone else ..... your stunin sikh kudi....


Well takecare..... and if that doesnt work.....

ANswer to your Problem

I have this C.D Track thats good at erasin Bad Feeling, throughts, emotions from your mind....

I could send it 2 you.... (neurological reprogramming tape)

Helps you to replace that bad feelin with a new emotion of your choice,,,,its cheaper and faster than having years of therapy to get over your Ex....


You could try that...... lol.... well takecare.....
lol hahaha well thanks but u still dunt get the whole picture yeah i was in at for the long run and so was he when we were together then we had a stupid fight and stopped talkin to each other but he said hes got nor hard feelings and he doesnt hate me now or anythin like dat

[harvey_mayway]

wouldnt it be a great scene you stormin in to claim your man.... on the weddin day.... SO Bollywood.....


WEll Let ME ASK YOU A Question.......

WOT DO U WANT>> OUT OF THIS Situation?

Then you will have your answer.... Alll u need to do then is pick up that phone, or get in that car. or ...................Well u get the idea.....


>>>>>>>>>>>>>WOT DO U WANT<<<<<<<<<<<<<<

[Canadian_jatti]

hmm seein as its only a one way feelin the only thing i want is to forget and move on wit my damn life

[harvey_mayway]

Well done... U'll been fine now u know that........


forget and move on..... ( so R u Lookin 4 A NEW guy now... ?)lol

[Canadian_jatti]

hahaha ye ye u know it

[harvey_mayway]

hahaha ye ye u know it


Hi....


How U doing?...... Wot hav u been up to..?

[Canadian_jatti]

umm nuttin really jus finished my finals so happy bout dat lol and now i gotta find a job :(

[harvey_mayway]

I hav untill may.... to finsh uni......

then i can relax.... and turn RD into a full time career....lol

WoW.... Ive Got Soo Much Work to do.... But havnt said it yet....

I need a mircle.... :sarb:

[harvey_mayway]

umm nuttin really jus finished my finals so happy bout dat lol and now i gotta find a job :(


Wot kinda Job are u goin to look for......

I throught i'll Ask RD for a job... I want 2 be a Mod... then i'll get paid for being on this site....lol


A dream will always triumph over reality, once it is given the chance.

So u should alway dream

[Canadian_jatti]

haha then maybe u need to get off this site lol i jus come here when i'm bored and have nuttin betta to do

[sWeEtnDsOuR]

yeah it already tortures me and i think bout it every nite before i go to bed and every mornin when i wake up but what can ya do right

you can do absolutly nuthing... :D ...lol yea i kno its not exactly nice buh o well...i bet A LOTTA punjabi munde want u ;) especially cuz ur in Canada.... soooo many desis there!!!

fikar not u will b OK!!!

[Canadian_jatti]

hhaha tru dat but i dunt worry bout it no more cuz i heard hes been talkin shit bout me so i got real pissed off

[Mav]

I have seen this happening. Too bad.
And i know great couples too.
what i can say is -

If a girl knows what she really wants, then she wud have become alert about any doubt in the relationship while dating him.

Or if you are hanging out wit the right person, then it wont happen. He will know you so well, and you him too that, you guys will be ready to marry you any minitue. I know such relations too.

I guess we just need to speak out earliar.

[Canadian_jatti]

yeah i totally agree with the speakin early bit thas like what i regret cuz i dunt think he eva knew exactly how i felt bout him :(

[hotjatti]

is his name aman or somethin?

[Canadian_jatti]

haha no its not aman and its not something but i dunt think hes gettin married anymore either lol (it was all a big joke thas got outa hand)

[sWeEtnDsOuR]

hhaha tru dat but i dunt worry bout it no more cuz i heard hes been talkin shit bout me so i got real pissed off

go slap him.... :neutral:

:p

[sWeEtnDsOuR]

haha no its not aman and its not something but i dunt think hes gettin married anymore either lol (it was all a big joke thas got outa hand)

o god... :rolleyes:

thats fun isn't it??? :)

[jat_jatt_sardar]

I reckon don;t fall in love and move on, there are plenty of people to fall in love with, theres always time to find someone to marry .

[Canadian_jatti]

yeah i guess so but the concept of marryin someone i dunt know that well is so overwhelming and scary

[EyeAllure604]

I would get the ultimate revenge. Don't know what exactly, but something. Anything. Anything I can think of. *grins*

[Canadian_jatti]

hahah yeah but everythin is messed up now but i do wanna get revenge NOW

[kasak]

how would u deal with the fact that the gurl/guy u love is gettin married to someone else?

i would want him2 get married nd b happy..........nd think mayb we werent meant2b :(

nd der r lots of fishes in da sea........ duhh!......i'll probably get married2 1 of dem nd b happy2.........so itz all guuud........we'll4get our feelings sooner or l8a :D

itz hard but itz da fact :(

[Canadian_jatti]

yeah but hes not gettin married anymore! and it doesnt matter anywayz cuz now i hate him for talkin shit bout me and his gf is botherin me and she thinks i want him back like wtf

[Soniyee]

how would u deal with the fact that the gurl/guy u love is gettin married to someone else?
I'll probably die

Jeez i don't know...never been in that situation. But if the guy i love...wants to get married to someonelse, and he will be happy with that girl, then i will let him because i would wanna see him happy..

[Canadian_jatti]

I'll probably die

Jeez i don't know...never been in that situation. But if the guy i love...wants to get married to someonelse, and he will be happy with that girl, then i will let him because i would wanna see him happy..
yeah so tru but i dunt luv him no more lol and i dunt wanna see him happy cuz hes bein a jerk and so is his gf (hes not gettin married no more)

[Mini05]

how would u deal with the fact that the gurl/guy u love is gettin married to someone else?
oh lets not even talk bout it.. i been thru it and it still hurts and it has been whole 3 yrs.. i had to deal with it :( i guess sometimes u cant stop from wuts gonna happen and u just have to put up with it and move on...

[Canadian_jatti]

awww i cant beleive u had to go thru it but yeah like i said before hes not gettin married jus yet anymore lol and i hate him now so i dunt care anymore

[Mini05]

awww i cant beleive u had to go thru it but yeah like i said before hes not gettin married jus yet anymore lol and i hate him now so i dunt care anymore
well wuts really funny is tht im hindu and the guy was muslim so his dad took him to pakiland after he found out me and he hates hindus..
he told him son tht he was gonna go on a vacation cuz he just got out of hs
and he went 6 months cuz his dad wouldnt let him come back he only booked a one way ticket.. and i didnt hear from him like like 4 months and thn after 4 months he called me and told me tht his dad was gettin him married to a girl in pakistand and he wanted to me call his dad and talkto him bout us.. so i did his dad cursed me out :( and eva since thn me and him broke up but were really really really good friends.. he hates his wife he left her in pakistan and dont call her or talk to her.... and eva since thn no paki guys for me.. they are nice but i dont wanna go thru it again :(
:(
u'll be fine hun talk to him after all its his life not his parennts.. fukin desi parents..
:hug:

[Canadian_jatti]

well yeah i wouldnt date someone of another relision in the first place cuz i know i could neva marry him so i would jus be settin myself up to get hurt

[mr ajnabi]

Time is a good healer '

You will have different moments and things always change in life' :rolleyes:

[Canadian_jatti]

yeah and things have already changed! i think i need to edit this thread and provide an update lol

[mr ajnabi]

I'll probably die

Jeez i don't know...never been in that situation. But if the guy i love...wants to get married to someonelse, and he will be happy with that girl, then i will let him because i would wanna see him happy..



Thats what true love is sometimes ... Sacrafice '''''''''''