would U...marry ur cousin???

[reaz]

Fucking animals? I am so out of touch from society

dude. bestiality ain't fake.

[krazy_desi187]

6 billion people in the world n ud choose ur cuzin? ... personally.. id never do it .

[Bajrang Bali]

6 billion people in the world n ud choose ur cuzin? ... personally.. id never do it .

lol, to som incest is sexy

is 3rd cousin considered incest?

[krazy_desi187]

lol, to som incest is sexy

is 3rd cousin considered incest?

dont think so ..

[Bajrang Bali]

ok so if i like a girl who's my grandfather's cousin's son's daugher... what does that make me to the daugher? im her 3rd cousin cous our common ancestor is 4generations ago

http://www.cousincouples.com/info/relation.shtml

[Bajrang Bali]

I would definitely marrry a cousin if it was a cousin of my choice who i liked, my cousins are pretty/hot, funny, smart and have a personality to boot - so i would.

lol, that just doesnt sound right

[Phish]

I wouldnt marry my cousin for the simple reason that is Genetics. I wouldnt be able to successfully reproduce: have kids, be a dad.

[Bajrang Bali]

Are you stupid? I'm stupid because I won't listen to your weak arguments? The rate of birth defects is 2-3% and even that is when there is a history of inter-cousin marriages in the family dating back a few generations.

Just because you view them as your brother and sister's doesn't necessarily mean everyone will view them the same way. I don't need to think of them as the siblings i never had because i already have 3 siblings. I'll choose which one I choose to view as how thank you.

http://abr.christiananswers.net/enews/aug2003.html

lol, put still, would u really want ur uncle/aunt to also be your mother/father INLAW?! LMAO

[Bajrang Bali]

How the fuck do you purposely type that way???

1) I see nothing wrong with cousins marrying cousins
2) The rate of defects in inter-cousin marriages isn't too high to my knowledge
3) I'm sure there's a cousin marriage in your family, unless you're part desi part white

no only a minority of desis do this, pakis are notorious for it, indians inter-caste but only afew communities allow cousins to marraige, if they do it's not their 1/2nd cousins

[Bajrang Bali]

well my elders wouldnt say puttar, they'd say "haleka"

and no I wouldnt have a problem , I'm muslim and in the qu'ran its perfectly fine to marry the cousin. What would faulty people know compared to the All-Knowing Creator?AND ALL THE bio-genetic data against cousin marriage is flimsy and statistically inconsistent.

I have never seen a problem with it, the only people who do are have an anxiety because of what White people say.

people didn't know shit in that age and place the quran was written.. keep marrying ur cousins, i guarentee by the 3rd generation the grandkids will all be retarded

[Bajrang Bali]

Some of you people are BRAINWASHED by the White-centered social hiearchy.

I mean cousin marriage is incest? They're not even born from the same Gametes as you are

how the heck can it be incest? ridiculous

lols

[sweet desi angel]

HELL MOTHER FUCKING NO.........that is the sickest thing ive ever fuckin heard...yes it does cause birth defects 'n common ppl they r a billion ppl in the world......u can live without marrying ure cousin....i mean dats just sick 'n nasty i dotn care what anyoen says

[Bajrang Bali]

Societies in which people marry there first cousins have higher rate of birth defects as mentioned in the BBC article below. No offense intended to the Pakistani audience on this board.


http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/programmes/newsnight/4442010.stm

THERE U GO READ THIS ARTICLE

British Pakistanis are 13 times more likely to have children with genetic disorders than the general population

case closed

[sedated_stars]

i bet u half the posters parents are cousins HAHAHHAAHAHHA lol mymoms sister is married to her first cuzin and there kids cant talk or hear its such a shame cuz there such nice ppl oh well fuck cousin marrages heck im not even goign to marry in race :p :p

[Phish]

i bet u half the posters parents are cousins HAHAHHAAHAHHA lol mymoms sister is married to her first cuzin and there kids cant talk or hear its such a shame cuz there such nice ppl oh well fuck cousin marrages heck im not even goign to marry in race :p :p

:wtf:

[AFGHAN_ZMARAI]

Did you even read the article, it never denied disorders of other childrens but childrens of cousin-marriage have a higher percentage of being a defect child


this could also be due to the fact large number of pakistanis are working class thus poorer and have lesser access to quality healthcare. Plus the fact that many immigrants come from Pakistan to England, they come from polluted cities like Karachi and this effects their over all health.

This does not screen for all factors which contribute. Very unscientific study if you ask me

[AFGHAN_ZMARAI]

people didn't know shit in that age and place the quran was written.. keep marrying ur cousins, i guarentee by the 3rd generation the grandkids will all be retarded


Read the article I posted , the claims are exaggerated and most of the scientific studies have unscientific flaws.

They forget that many people are immigrants who come from poor countries which have malnutrition and that can be more of a contributor to defects.

If cousin marriages leads to retardation why arent there more incidences of it?

As most human societies have practiced cousin marriage very commonly until maybe 50 years ago.

[AFGHAN_ZMARAI]

One question should be asked , Intercousin marriages have predominanted MOST marriages across the world for MILLENIA , how is it that despite that only a marginal amount of people suffer from any serious problems?

[AFGHAN_ZMARAI]

I always thought of my cousins as my own siblings. It would weird banging your cousin


siblings are people who come from the same gametes as you

how can they be your siblings when they werent even born from the same womb or same parent?

[AFGHAN_ZMARAI]

Marrying someone that's not even related to you, you will already have a chance of your children being defected. Marrying your cousin has higher percentage of your children being defected. Don't you have love for your children or fucking your cousin is something you can't live without.


dude its just 1.5-2 percent higher and .....thats beyond 2 standard deviations

learn some statistics before you make such statements

you're obviously mind warped by hysteria , dont believe the hype.

[AFGHAN_ZMARAI]

who would want their child to have a disformed faced?


you read too many sci fi novels.

[Sikh4Lyfe]

Marrying your cousin..the fuck, thats pretty damn sick and disgusting.

[Sikh4Lyfe]

OK... I am a sick fuck but..no. Like I would shit on a chick, piss in her anus and give her an enema from time to times and maybe even jizz in her eye if she wanted it, but marrying your own cousin? I am sorry, I cannot do that. It is so fucking sick.

[farazz]

Marrying your cousin..the fuck, thats pretty damn sick and disgusting.

especially if u two are the same sex.....eWWW!

[BinDaaS_BaBe]

everyone is everyones cousin























but no! lol

[NeRgYz]

luckily i m da oldest among my cuzins..... :Pelvic2:

[NeRgYz]

especially if u two are the same sex.....eWWW!

GROSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!

[a_perfect_flaw]

wtf. that's sick and nasty and downright wrong.

[bigkid]

incest is like george bush u just never understand why people agree with it lol

[kaseem]

OK... I am a sick fuck but..no. Like I would shit on a chick, piss in her anus and give her an enema from time to times and maybe even jizz in her eye if she wanted it, but marrying your own cousin? I am sorry, I cannot do that. It is so fucking sick.


Alleluliah for that ! thank god ppl have sence ! a couple you your fellow red members dont seem to agree, they seem to think marrying 1st cousins is ok its sick if yo uask me :no:

ive told them and provided proof to them that the risk of child mortality is increased 4-5% in inter-cousin marriages but they still see fit to marry :no:

you have to be a sick son of a bitch to knowingly inflict that on your off-spring

[reaz]

stop exaggerating. it's just a 2% increase in risks. the only problem i see with it is that generations of interbreeding can compound this 2% increase and eventually it will become a problem. But once in a while getting it on with a cousin won't kill.

i love ya'll become doctors and start legitimising or outlawing first cousin marriages based on second hand reports. here's the scoop for the non supporters of first cousin marriage. your main qualm seems to be that you think of your cousins as siblings. well good for you. other cultures/people might not. they might have so many cousins with vast age differences as well as localities that the cousins might as well be strangers.

now for the supporters.. mostly muslims fall in this rank since there are mostly 2 types of desis on RD, muslim and hindu. Christians are a minority and I am not too certain where they stand.. what you have to realise is that the reason why first cousin marriages are permitted in islam is that those cousins are not halaal or lawful to you.. they are not your siblings and you shouldnt be viewing them or interacting with them face to face.. (some parda stuff).. however, in this day and age, you folks rarely do parda and stuff; however you cling onto the notion of first cousin marriage. that's why it gets labelled as incestuous.

The definition of incest is not clearly defined anywhere except in religions. And most religions are ok with first cousin marriages. In terms of legality, very few countries outlaw first cousin marriages. Only 23 out of 50 states actually outlaw it, and the weird thing is that New York does not. At most it's a misdemeanour.

retards eh? Einstein was the product of a cousin marriage. I'd like to see you call him a retard.

As I outlined the only strong argument against cousin marriage is the 2% increase in risks which is double what it would be if it wasn't a first cousin marriage. But overall in the big picture it's only a 4% risk. Plus if you have your family's medical history you can eliminate the risks. Besides since most of you are going for non arranged/love marriages because that's what the society teaches you now, it should not be a problem because cousin marriages were usually performed to keep the wealth in the family and were arranged for the most part.

[reaz]

now pass me your cousins if you're not interested.

[nrc0610]

now pass me your cousins if you're not interested.

:werd: but give me the hot one's and you can keep the one's with "personality"

[nrc0610]

......

[larki_jatti]

I dont see anything wrong with marrying a cousin. As long as I dont know him well.. that might be weird.

[psychodude]

that's creepy but me and my like 4th/5th/6th cousin (one of them. i dunno which one...) liked each other before we found out we were cousins. :no:



i had the same problem.....-_-

[Bajrang Bali]

Read the article I posted , the claims are exaggerated and most of the scientific studies have unscientific flaws.

They forget that many people are immigrants who come from poor countries which have malnutrition and that can be more of a contributor to defects.

If cousin marriages leads to retardation why arent there more incidences of it?

As most human societies have practiced cousin marriage very commonly until maybe 50 years ago.

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/programmes/newsnight/4442010.stm

I saw and read most of ur article, look at this one.. Most immigrants come from middle/uppermiddle class urban societies in SouthAsia so they're not malnutritioned, if so then we can say Indians also come from shitholes like Delhi once the dirtiest city in the world, my father has asthma but not polio/malnutrient/genetic disorder tell me why is article solely naming Pakistani/MiddleEasterners? Because the whole world does not marry their cousins, not even 50 or 3,000 years ago. Hindus for example marry within their caste commonly to keep the name/fame in their community, but NEVER a close cousin as a matter of fact scriptures encourages to marry outside the sub-caste to keep the generations healthy.. I know this because im a kayastha, we belong to neither of the 4varnas nor dalit community.. in the past they would cross the line and marry their distant relatives, as a result we've become known to have alot more illness among other classes, it is only now that we're slowly purifying ourselves by not marrying any obvious degree of relatives

[Princess_Ligi]

I personally would never marry my cousin, HELL no. but to those who are fine with it, thats your choice, but the truth is, incest will increase your odds of having a child with a birth defect. There is already a 5%chance of birth defects occuring naturally, and factors like incest and teratogens will increase the odds.

Inbreeding leads to an increase in homozygosity( the same allele at the same locus on both members of a chromosome pair.) This occurs because close relatives (such as cousins) are more likely to share the same alleles than unrelated individuals. This is especially important for recessive genes, which are harmless (which are usually responsible for things such as hemophilia and other congenital disorders) and inactive in a heterozygous pairing, but when homozygous, they can cause SEVERE developmental defects.

this is speaking from a strictly biological standpoint,a s why it really is NOT a good idea to marry someone who is related to you and shares common recessive genes.

[Princess_Ligi]

One question should be asked , Intercousin marriages have predominanted MOST marriages across the world for MILLENIA , how is it that despite that only a marginal amount of people suffer from any serious problems?
why do you think the british royal family is run with hemophilia??? Queen Victoria was the first of the family to have it, and now its known as the "royal disease"

[Laayla]

Smp

[Princess_Ligi]

Well, I wouldn't mind it if my cousin and I didn't live close to each other like siblings.. but I kind of lucked out because all my cousins, are at least 5-6 years younger than me lol. And most of them are girls anyways. So chea, I guess I wouldn't marry my cousin but if I had a guy cousin who was older than me and I didn't know so "closely," yeah, sure. I wouldn't mind it.
but think about what problems your kids may have! do you really want to risk birth defects on them??

[Laayla]

Smp

[pacora]

but think about what problems your kids may have! do you really want to risk birth defects on them??
I like how even though you disagree, you do so with respect and with good reason not like " oh you sick fuckers!". and as for muslims, its allowed but you have no obligation to do so.

[Princess_Ligi]

I like how even though you disagree, you do so with respect and with good reason not like " oh you sick fuckers!". and as for muslims, its allowed but you have no obligation to do so.
people's belief systems are one thing, im never disrespectful with people's religions. Im in the medical field, and I just worry about what effects there will be on the kids from such a decision. its not overexaggerated, its a fact.

[WildWolfdog]

lol, that just doesnt sound right

eh, it doesn't have to sound right as long it is right to me

lol, put still, would u really want ur uncle/aunt to also be your mother/father INLAW?! LMAO

sure why not?

no only a minority of desis do this, pakis are notorious for it, indians inter-caste but only afew communities allow cousins to marraige, if they do it's not their 1/2nd cousins

no, it's not only a minority of desis, you've got your facts wrong. Intercase and intercousin is totally different.

[nrc0610]

give it a rest, some people wants to marry their cousin and some don't. You're not going to change their mind on the internet, so just stop replying in this thread. If any one post after this post you children will commit incest (<---kind of like those chain mails)

[WildWolfdog]

give it a rest, some people wants to marry their cousin and some don't. You're not going to change their mind on the internet, so just stop replying in this thread. If any one post after this post you children will commit incest (<---kind of like those chain mails)

Fuck that, i'm not gonna let people have the last type against me.

[pacora]

people's belief systems are one thing, im never disrespectful with people's religions. Im in the medical field, and I just worry about what effects there will be on the kids from such a decision. its not overexaggerated, its a fact.
:hug: :)

[nrc0610]

Fuck that, i'm not gonna let people have the last type against me.

:hug: :)

Both of your children will commit incest :firedevi:

[Princess_Ligi]

Both of your children will commit incest :firedevi:
you posted after that too, so I guess your kids will too.

and now mine. its a vicious cycle.

[WildWolfdog]

:hug: :)

:kiss: :D

[pacora]

:kiss: :D
:cuddle: :o i hear our children will commit incest...interesting

[BoO bOo]

Dnt worry. How old r u? u look real young.
m 17 n half. :yes:

[chingchingching]

NEVER would i marry a cousin... unless he was like a distant relative or someone i had never heard of before

[Areez_UK_HUSTLER]

No way in hell would I marry a cousin! ............. thats just plain nasty! ur uncle and aunt would be ur mother and father in law! NO WAY!........ :Puke:

[WildWolfdog]

stop exaggerating. it's just a 2% increase in risks. the only problem i see with it is that generations of interbreeding can compound this 2% increase and eventually it will become a problem. But once in a while getting it on with a cousin won't kill.

i love ya'll become doctors and start legitimising or outlawing first cousin marriages based on second hand reports. here's the scoop for the non supporters of first cousin marriage. your main qualm seems to be that you think of your cousins as siblings. well good for you. other cultures/people might not. they might have so many cousins with vast age differences as well as localities that the cousins might as well be strangers.

now for the supporters.. mostly muslims fall in this rank since there are mostly 2 types of desis on RD, muslim and hindu. Christians are a minority and I am not too certain where they stand.. what you have to realise is that the reason why first cousin marriages are permitted in islam is that those cousins are not halaal or lawful to you.. they are not your siblings and you shouldnt be viewing them or interacting with them face to face.. (some parda stuff).. however, in this day and age, you folks rarely do parda and stuff; however you cling onto the notion of first cousin marriage. that's why it gets labelled as incestuous.

The definition of incest is not clearly defined anywhere except in religions. And most religions are ok with first cousin marriages. In terms of legality, very few countries outlaw first cousin marriages. Only 23 out of 50 states actually outlaw it, and the weird thing is that New York does not. At most it's a misdemeanour.

retards eh? Einstein was the product of a cousin marriage. I'd like to see you call him a retard.

As I outlined the only strong argument against cousin marriage is the 2% increase in risks which is double what it would be if it wasn't a first cousin marriage. But overall in the big picture it's only a 4% risk. Plus if you have your family's medical history you can eliminate the risks. Besides since most of you are going for non arranged/love marriages because that's what the society teaches you now, it should not be a problem because cousin marriages were usually performed to keep the wealth in the family and were arranged for the most part.

:love:

[BoO bOo]

ppl''im a jat(hindu) from the rugged region of semi dessert region of haryana.
i dunno bout my sikh-jatt brothers,but us the jats of haryana-rajasthan stick to old racial law
1.we dont marry outside our ppl(so we are 100% jats)
2.we dont marry ppl from our father's our own clan...for instance im ahlawat and all ahlawat girls are my natural cuzns,sis,,wateva
3.we dont marry in our mothers,paternal-grandmother and maternal grandmothers clans/surname....
......
......and needless to say,look up the history of jats/jatts(they think they r different :sarb: )....its same blood ,,neways
if u look up history u will find the history of central asia and nortern indian subcontinent dominated by jat(ancient gyate) tribes.
......
even today jats dominate north indian
in indian army
jats-11.2%
sikh jats-8%(approx)
united,this is a rather highy uncommon figure when compared to total populac of the jat race compared to rest of india.
....so follow the RACIAL LAW. ;) ....ANCESTORS MADE IT CUZ THEY HAD SOME VISION.. :wavey: LATERRZ


mai family is from haryana. :werd:

m punjabi tho

[Kip Dynamite]

sure, why not.

[Fake Desi Boy]

no. i would never! not because it's nasty, but because i only wanna marry a desi female. if i were to marry a cousin, then that wouldn't be possible.

[cunninglinguist]

yup. can't wait!

[Fake Desi Boy]

yup. can't wait!
lmfao

[Chucky_666]

I would definitely marrry a cousin if it was a cousin of my choice who i liked, my cousins are pretty/hot, funny, smart and have a personality to boot - so i would.
:werd:... and plus you also got family to keep happy ?

[Angelno15]

ewww. No way. Im christian and nowadays it considered practically incest. Im pretty close to my cousins and I see them as my brother. Also I dont want deformed babies. xx

[Kip Dynamite]

I wouldn't mind a deformed woman with 3 breasts as my wife.

[sail]

thats just way too wrong.
i hear marrying someone with same blood-relation cause birth defects.



Yeah i heard that too!!! :rolleyes:

[LaBelleSeynorita]

no no no !!

[desi_uk]

ewww. No way. Im christian and nowadays it considered practically incest. Im pretty close to my cousins and I see them as my brother. Also I dont want deformed babies. xx
the chances of gettin deformed babies are just as high as offsprings produced non relations

but i would never get married to ma cousins

[roy_desi]

INCEST IS FUCKING WRONG.

[sweetaishu]

if i had any good looking lol
yeah

[tredmill]

INCEST IS FUCKING WRONG.

some people think shagging cousins isn't incest, kinda fucked up
:neutral:

[Malaika__]

say ur parents said...'right puttar,the time has come...and i have found u a nice fresh mango straight off the bananananananana boat aka UR COUSIN'... would u do it????? :neutral:

eurgh personally...me...NO! hehe but das me. :D
Cousin marriages are just wrong on so many levels :nuts:

[l saahil l]

the hell

[desirohit]

Well arabs do this incest shit & most of their kids hv genetic diseases like sickle cell anemia or thalysemmia (dunno how to spell it). I dont know why do they still do it.....Do they hate their unborn kids or something?

lolz... my parents r cousins :neutral:

so?

it happens all the time in muslim families especially paki families. Bid deal!

and no i don't have DEFECTS, I dont have down syndrome, i am a perfect healthy man, thanks to Allah, go to uni, excelling by the Grace Of God, play cricket for toronto's under 23- played for ontario in the canada cup, and as far as my looks goes.....ask the girls. :neutral:

:sarb: hmmmmmmmmmm

[kaseem]

And the answer still remains O-Hell No.

[Afg_Gurl]

one of my cousins got married recently... to my other cousin :eekwtf:
i wont do it... my cousins are :eek:


same here... 2 of ma cousins got engaged recently n it was like kinda love marriage n it wasnt no fob business lol so both aint no fresshiee!

but one thing ma cousins r HOT! lol ma parents r cousins n hmm all the kids r normal im tellin u n no i wouldnt marry ma cousin even tho i liked one of them DAMN! his the hottest thing alife.. i saw him after 10 yrs he has changed n BOI! im in love hahah but ewww if onlii he wasnt ma cousin but apprenytl he likes me alot n all n he no freshhiee but again wen i get the thoughts of ma cousin i say NOOOO :mad:


but why would the parents eva choose ur life partnar eh? u marry whoever u wnt even if its ur bro lol ur choose! ok maybe not ur bro/cousin!lol

[desi_uk]

same here... 2 of ma cousins got engaged recently n it was like kinda love marriage n it wasnt no fob business lol so both aint no fresshiee!

but one thing ma cousins r HOT! lol ma parents r cousins n hmm all the kids r normal im tellin u n no i wouldnt marry ma cousin even tho i liked one of them DAMN! his the hottest thing alife.. i saw him after 10 yrs he has changed n BOI! im in love hahah but ewww if onlii he wasnt ma cousin but apprenytl he likes me alot n all n he no freshhiee but again wen i get the thoughts of ma cousin i say NOOOO :mad:


but why would the parents eva choose ur life partnar eh? u marry whoever u wnt even if its ur bro lol ur choose! ok maybe not ur bro/cousin!lol
pardon can you say that in plain english

[flyest_786]

yeah too bloody right!!!! wait.......... what was the question again, would u eat a mango from ur cousin? well it would have to be sweet :p

[beautylicious!]

i wudnt marry my cousin thats just eww!

[amir_q]

i wudnt marry my cousin thats just eww!

I wud if i had any fit cousinz... :D

[mani_nami]

i will marry my cousin with no hesitation. islam does not allow marriage with Mehram and those two individuals who have shared breast milk of same women.other than u can marry anyone.thats what Prophet Muhammad(PBUH) taught.i give a shit to all other comments.period

[cunninglinguist]

i will marry my cousin with no hesitation. islam does not allow marriage with Mehram and those two individuals who have shared breast milk of same women.other than u can marry anyone.thats what Prophet Muhammad(PBUH) taught.i give a shit to all other comments.period
what exactly does that mean?

[amir_q]

what exactly does that mean?

Think he meant.... dont give a shit about any other comments

[Mez]

ok question cuz im confused here

when you say cousins are you all referring to people you are BLOOD related to? or family friends (since all your family friends kids become your "cousins" magically).


Cuz if theres a blood relation to you then yeah its wrong for sure. If its a family friend, I thought brown ppl dont mind when their kid marries another kid of their family friend? (someone clear that up for me, thanks)

[brown jewels]

hell no what kinda question is that? :Pukel:

[Existentialist]

say ur parents said...'right puttar,the time has come...and i have found u a nice fresh mango straight off the bananananananana boat aka UR COUSIN'... would u do it????? :neutral:

eurgh personally...me...NO! hehe but das me. :D

WTF? Do you want blue coloured retards for kids? God no.

[jigga man23]

Marrting your cousin ok is this a trick question?

[sikhsta]

nope. its wrong

[Southside chick]

:Puke: yasay ur parents said...'right puttar,the time has come...and i have found u a nice fresh mango straight off the bananananananana boat aka UR COUSIN'... would u do it????? :neutral:

eurgh personally...me...NO! hehe but das me. :D