What don't your parents know about you?

[misspathani.]

Come on... spill it:cool:

[R.J]

I have my knob pierced.

[xxxplicit chica]

that i actually know where babies come from :no:

[misspathani.]

that i actually know where babies come from :no:lol

[hindu_heat]

I have my knob pierced.

ouch. why.

i smoke weed on occasion.

[Sweet_LiL_Hunnie]

that i've honestly never tried drugs, they always thought that about me it's soo freaking stupid and a lotta my friends try to tell me i should smoke with them bc my parents already look down on me for doing it when i dont but i honestly have no need for that so i chose not to and i tell my parents they are psycho when they accuse me of having smoked b4

[CrazyJoker]

that i've experienced alot more then they have...

[Precious_Gollum]

That I'm not really their child!!!!














Er.... lol!

[misspathani.]

that i've honestly never tried drugs, they always thought that about me it's soo freaking stupid and a lotta my friends try to tell me i should smoke with them bc my parents already look down on me for doing it when i dont but i honestly have no need for that so i chose not to and i tell my parents they are psycho when they accuse me of having smoked b4
That must be so annoying for you. But why would they say it anyway? Unless you look high all the time but you don't! Well- as long as you know you're telling the truth it's all good. They'll realise it one day

[americanmohit]

my parents dont know that i am going to get tattoo

[SlitWristTheory]

They don't know me at all.

[misspathani.]

my parents dont know that i am going to get tattoo
hawww :neutral:

[sexxichic2envy]

that i dream about girls........
:rofl:

i'm keedin benchods.....

[Octane]

Come on... spill it:cool:

That I am a geeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeenius.

Thats right I admit.

Crap the secret is out!

misspathani sup sup? Sorry my bad...forgot your brit. Cherio! Tut, Tut or Pip Pip and all that good stuff. ;)

So have you gotten a chance to try some sushi??

[fr00ti]

...all the things i've done after moving out for college :neutral:

[jihadthisfilth]

My parents know most of the "taboo" things about me... that I am not a muslim... I eat meat from non muslim run places... I drink on rare occasions...
and they still love me. Now THAT is how muslims parents should be like.

Only thing that would piss my parents off.. is if I started stealing/killing/raping people etc...

[misspathani.]

They don't know me at all.Hmm.. you're not close to your parents?

[AFGHAN_ZMARAI]

My parents arent aware that I'm still alive I havent seen my parents since I was 8 years old

[JOHNNY K-BAR]

Dont know who I specifically work for or what I do for a living, Dont know Im specifically in Iraq, Dont know about my tattoo, and Dont know I was once engaged.

[americanmohit]

hawww :neutral:

i want tattoo badly...

i dont know how my parents will react with me if they find out that i have a tattoo :neutral:

[SlitWristTheory]

Hmm.. you're not close to your parents?
I'm not.

[Z4K5T4R]

When i hit the age 16.

[chicago85thst]

i think i may be one of the few people who has no or very little secrets with my mom. but hey its good. shes very accepting

[*innocent angel*]

They don't know me at all.

:werd:

[misspathani.]

That I am a geeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeenius.

Thats right I admit.

Crap the secret is out!

misspathani sup sup? Sorry my bad...forgot your brit. Cherio! Tut and all that good stuff. ;)

So have you gotten a chance to try some sushi??
wassup geeeeeenius how you been bro we had a wicked convo the other day lol
nah I haven't tried it yet but I will! lol@cherio

[misspathani.]

that i dream about girls........
:rofl:

i'm keedin benchods.....
lol good one sexy chikkaaa

[Fatty4life]

they know it all :no:

[misspathani.]

My parents arent aware that I'm still alive I havent seen my parents since I was 8 years oldwroraa
Are you serious??

[misspathani.]

i want tattoo badly...

i dont know how my parents will react with me if they find out that i have a tattoo :neutral:Hawww:neutral:

[notoriou$punjabi]

well i told my rents everything fucked up i ever did...... instead of hearing shit from outsiders why not say the truth


so we decided since im not changing i give it a shot on my own.....

[KhanNoonienSingh]

they know very little. including my mother.

[AFGHAN_ZMARAI]

wroraa
Are you serious??


yes its true , but how I'm phrasing it is intended to mislead

BUT its true I havent seen my parents since I was 8

[misspathani.]

I'm not.I guess you got reasons. You aint the only one though it happens. U alright?

[zuiwaziri]

That i have more in 21 yrs than they have in 50 yrs.

Lets just say, they think i go to the cinema alot.
They dont know tht i go clubbing, i smoke weed, but whts funny is tht they will be more pissed off at the fact tht i took out a student loan, than me goin clubbing and stuff.

[sexxichic2envy]

lol good one sexy chikkaaa
lol thanXx...

dont tell :shhh:

[misspathani.]

yes its true , but how I'm phrasing it is intended to mislead

BUT its true I havent seen my parents since I was 8And how do you feel about that?

[JOHNNY K-BAR]

Sometimes knowing the absolute truth about your children can be very bad for them....especially if they dont know the full picture as to why and how your child is involved in something.

[Octane]

wassup geeeeeenius how you been bro we had a wicked convo the other day lol
nah I haven't tried it yet but I will! lol@cherio


Im doin good, staying busy, uptil this point where I thought I would procrastinate for a short time ;)

VVVVhat?? A convo without me ???????? And it was wicked??? Awww crap and I missed out, that bites! Ok so what was the convo about??

[chicago85thst]

well i told my rents everything fucked up i ever did...... instead of hearing shit from outsiders why not say the truth


so we decided since im not changing i give it a shot on my own.....



good policy

[AFGHAN_ZMARAI]

And how do you feel about that?


I'm fine with it , its something thats not in my power

[misspathani.]

lol thanXx...

dont tell :shhh:
Ok I won't :silent:

[Dutty Dutty LuV]

Dont know who I specifically work for or what I do for a living, Dont know Im specifically in Iraq, Dont know about my tattoo, and Dont know I was once engaged.


u win!

:eek:

ami n abu know me as a shareef larki n thats how IT REALLY IS ACHA
:dancen:

[crazy_immy]

that ive smoked a few times. n other rrandom things that arent even serious that they dont need to know.

[chicago85thst]

Dont know who I specifically work for or what I do for a living, Dont know Im specifically in Iraq, Dont know about my tattoo, and Dont know I was once engaged.


is that really true?

[misspathani.]

I'm fine with it , its something thats not in my powerI'm shocked. I don't know why though? You're fine with it..cool

[~GuJu PriNceSs~]

they don't kno bout mi personal life and friendz circle. they don't kno i'm involved wit someone in a serious relationship...i could go on bout the things they don't kno. lol.

[AFGHAN_ZMARAI]

I'm shocked. I don't know why though? You're fine with it..cool


well yeah , I grew up without my parents

[plummet]

Sometimes knowing the absolute truth about your children can be very bad for them....especially if they dont know the full picture as to why and how your child is involved in something.
lol what in the heck i read your previous comment..how do u explain your prolonged absence?

[JOHNNY K-BAR]

u win!

:eek:

ami n abu know me as a shareef larki n thats how IT REALLY IS ACHA
:dancen:
Well The latter three i wrote Im sure they have suspected....esp when i come hoem and they things she says to me ...But ill never admit them.....Except for Being In Iraq...Ill admit that later, im sure she will find the pictures..as she did with Afghanistan.....thats more of a worry thing....why make her worry If I can prevent it by lying?

[Sweet_LiL_Hunnie]

That must be so annoying for you. But why would they say it anyway? Unless you look high all the time but you don't! Well- as long as you know you're telling the truth it's all good. They'll realise it one day


long story it started basically bc i'd come home, eat a shit load of junk food, sleep wake up do my homework and have dinner and sleep early for the night, so they thought that was a sign of me being high and then my sister told my mom about friends of mine that chose to get high or other rave kids i talked to that chose x and so forth and my mom was like well if her friends do it she must do it and that explains why the child is soo sleepy

reality i was tired from my allergy medication making my drowsy, i wasn't able to take it at school or else i'd fall asleep in class

stupid parents and my sister made it sound like i tried it b4 with my cousins that do it as well and my mom was like what my niece so and so smokes weed wtf is the world coming to

[*innocent angel*]

my parents dont no that i have done drugs,drink,go clubbing, have a bf and have belly pierced!
i think thats it

[misspathani.]

Im doin good, staying busy, uptil this point where I thought I would procrastinate for a short time ;)

VVVVhat?? A convo without me ???????? And it was wicked??? Awww crap and I missed out, that bites! Ok so what was the convo about??lol nooooooooo I mean you me and sweetest sin and suddenly I disappeared lol. Ooh is there anything that your parents don't know about u genius??? lol

[misspathani.]

my parents dont no that i have done drugs,drink,go clubbing, have a bf and have belly pierced!
i think thats itHaww:neutral: And what would they do if they found out

[JOHNNY K-BAR]

lol what in the heck i read your previous comment..how do u explain your prolonged absence?
No I tell them Im in the Middle East obviously....just not Iraq...only my sisters know that and tahts because of my exposure on RD......The 18 months in Afghanistan I had them believe I was in Turkey and Ireland...which I was sometimes.....But eventually when I finished with my tours there i came out and told them....It was no to "worry them" for the most part...shes not stupid she suspects.....tries to get me to admit it...but I dont.

[AFGHAN_ZMARAI]

my parents dont no that i have done drugs,drink,go clubbing, have a bf and have belly pierced!
i think thats it


They'll know now ;)

[misspathani.]

long story it started basically bc i'd come home, eat a shit load of junk food, sleep wake up do my homework and have dinner and sleep early for the night, so they thought that was a sign of me being high and then my sister told my mom about friends of mine that chose to get high or other rave kids i talked to that chose x and so forth and my mom was like well if her friends do it she must do it and that explains why the child is soo sleepy

reality i was tired from my allergy medication making my drowsy, i wasn't able to take it at school or else i'd fall asleep in class

stupid parents and my sister made it sound like i tried it b4 with my cousins that do it as well and my mom was like what my niece so and so smokes weed wtf is the world coming to
your sister as well?? :(

[Octane]

Teenage lives are like Vegas, what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas. That is until a curious family friend spots you in an indiscrete place or position and then reports you to the Reporters (the aunties) who then promptly inform your folks (the feds). LOL.

[misspathani.]

well yeah , I grew up without my parentsThey'de be proud of you anyway

[AFGHAN_ZMARAI]

Miss Pathani , even though most of the people here are not Muslim. I think its not good that those who are Muslim are revealing their sinful behavior for others. Thats something that should keep to themselves I think.

[Sweet_LiL_Hunnie]

your sister as well?? :(


yah we have issues lol

[Echelon]

I'm a good little boy.

-Angel-

[MrBilalDK]

Come on... spill it:cool:
That I have an account here . , :sarb:

[Sweet_LiL_Hunnie]

Miss Pathani , even though most of the people here are not Muslim. I think its not good that those who are Muslim are revealing their sinful behavior for others. Thats something that should keep to themselves I think.


well i think if the muslims chose to share their sins it's no different from the other desis sharing theirs i mean do u think by being muslim we grow up with different expectations from our parents drinking, drug, piercing wise?

[plummet]

No I tell them Im in the Middle East obviously....just not Iraq...only my sisters know that and tahts because of my exposure on RD......The 18 months in Afghanistan I had them believe I was in Turkey and Ireland...which I was sometimes.....But eventually when I finished with my tours there i came out and told them....It was no to "worry them" for the most part...shes not stupid she suspects.....tries to get me to admit it...but I dont.
sometimes i do believe what parents dont know wont hurt them..and in this case causing unnecessary worrying wont really do anyting...you're already in the army..you've already signed your contract

[AFGHAN_ZMARAI]

I will admit I have caught some people doing inappropriate things andI have informed their parents or family members that they are engaged in these practices. Some people may say that's not right , but how else will these people stop unless someone stops them?

[plummet]

I will admit I have caught some people doing inappropriate things andI have informed their parents or family members that they are engaged in these practices. Some people may say that's not right , but how else will these people stop unless someone stops them?
you're dispicable..thats all i have to say to that. DISPICABLE no argument, no conversation..the end.

[*innocent angel*]

Haww:neutral: And what would they do if they found out

ill b in a lot of trouble but like m tryin to cut out most of the stuff

[P4ki4Lyf]

my parents think they know a lot about me but in fact they don't know anything. they seem to think that i talk 2 many guys from the internet and meet up with them :no: aswell as other things that i dont want 2 mention.

[Octane]

lol nooooooooo I mean you me and sweetest sin and suddenly I disappeared lol. Ooh is there anything that your parents don't know about me genius??? lol


OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH. Ahem...yeah Im still a genius, nothing gets past me! Nothing I say. Well except this itty bitty one time. Aside from that never.....yeah thats it. ;)

Yeah when you disappeared I was like what the heck happened to you. I figured our sushi talk got to be too much for you too take and you had rushed out to try some! But you were cooking instead. lol. My guess butterchicken.


Ooh is there anything that your parents don't know about me genius??? lol

I havent said anything about you to my parents as yet :danceEek: since I dont know too much about you yet! lol. Yeah I know thats not what you meant but you wrote and I couldnt resist!

[AFGHAN_ZMARAI]

well i think if the muslims chose to share their sins it's no different from the other desis sharing theirs i mean do u think by being muslim we grow up with different expectations from our parents drinking, drug, piercing wise?


It does matter because if you do a sin you shouldnt expose it to others because then Allah(swt) wont forgive this sin and also that others will become witness that you confessed this sin, and that will have severe consequences on the day of judgement.

Imagine being on the day of judgement, everyone here on ratedesi are called Witness against you on the day of judgement. Would you really want that?

[JOHNNY K-BAR]

sometimes i do believe what parents dont know wont hurt them..and in this case causing unnecessary worrying wont really do anyting...you're already in the army..you've already signed your contract
The Marines arent the reason why Im currently deployed...matter of fact of my 7 overseas assignments in the past 5 years only 3 were from the Marine Corps.........

[Dutty Dutty LuV]

Well The latter three i wrote Im sure they have suspected....esp when i come hoem and they things she says to me ...But ill never admit them.....Except for Being In Iraq...Ill admit that later, im sure she will find the pictures..as she did with Afghanistan.....thats more of a worry thing....why make her worry If I can prevent it by lying?


aap wappas ghar nehi gayeh abhi?

[plummet]

The Marines arent the reason why Im currently deployed...matter of fact of my 7 overseas assignments in the past 5 years only 3 were from the Marine Corps.........
why in the heck are ya doing it buddy?

[AFGHAN_ZMARAI]

you're dispicable..thats all i have to say to that. DISPICABLE no argument, no conversation..the end.


how am I dispicable , people need to be morally corrected somehow.

its better to be caught and stopped than to keep going on doing things which are bad for you.

[misspathani.]

OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH. Ahem...yeah Im still a genius, nothing gets past me! Nothing I say. Well except this itty bitty one time. Aside from that never.....yeah thats it. ;)

Yeah when you disappeared I was like what the heck happened to you. I figured our sushi talk got to be too much for you too take and you had rushed out to try some! But you were cooking instead. lol. My guess butterchicken.






I havent said anything about you to my parents as yet :danceEek: since I dont know too much about you yet! lol. Yeah I know thats not what you meant but you wrote and I couldnt resist!Oh my god that came out wrong let me EDIT!! lol damn. No I think I was making roast chicken I can't remember!!

[JOHNNY K-BAR]

aap wappas ghar nehi gayeh abhi?
Leaving Abu Ghriab in less than 12 hours...leaving Iraq in less than 5 days...But I have some things to take care of....Im not going directly home yet.....Ill be home by Mid March.

[misspathani.]

It does matter because if you do a sin you shouldnt expose it to others because then Allah(swt) wont forgive this sin and also that others will become witness that you confessed this sin, and that will have severe consequences on the day of judgement.

Imagine being on the day of judgement, everyone here on ratedesi are called Witness against you on the day of judgement. Would you really want that?
yeah I think ur right actually

[Octane]

Oh my god that came out wrong let me EDIT!! lol damn. No I think I was making roast chicken I can't remember!!

No No its much to late to edit now!! muhahahha. lol.

Roast chicken, not bad. Look if you ever start your own cullinary venture, let me know!

[Echelon]

you're dispicable..thats all i have to say to that. DISPICABLE no argument, no conversation..the end.
I'm not muslim, but I find it amusing and ironic: how a lot of users are supposedly 'muslims', but continually manifest themselves repugnantly to the faith on these forums. AFGHAN_ZMARAI is only making a parody of their supposed 'beliefs' and contrasting that with what they have expressed.

[Octane]

So Miss what have YOU done that your parentals have no clue about. Aside from being able to whip up a mean roast chicken.

[SeKcGaL]

they don know that i chat now...
they know that i used to chat

n oh yeh they don know that im on here ratedesi, friendster, aim, hi-5, n have like a million email id's...

:ashamed:

n oh yeh i date guyz :no: :(
but they do know that i have an ex :D

but which i dint tell, they found out :(

n that i got a man now

hope they dont find out till i tell them :nervious:

[misspathani.]

No No its much to late to edit now!! muhahahha. lol.

Roast chicken, not bad. Look if you ever start your own cullinary venture, let me know!
lol oooh I love cooking. Can you cook! I'm sure you can it aint that hard you know

[JOHNNY K-BAR]

why in the heck are ya doing it buddy?
doing what deploying?? I had my reasons....non-selfish actually...which was my first mistake....But after a while your in to deep to move abouts freely. Besides Im just a Marine reservist....Ive done more time overseas as a Civilian (due to another job) than anything....more exposure, less rstrictions....You learn and see things that twist your thought process.

[misspathani.]

they don know that i chat now...
they know that i used to chat

n oh yeh they don know that im on here ratedesi, friendster, aim, hi-5, n have like a million email id's...

:ashamed:

n oh yeh i date guyz :no: :(
but they do know that i have an ex :D

but which i dint tell, they found out :(

n that i got a man now
Haww:neutral:

[plummet]

I'm not muslim, but I find it amusing and ironic: how a lot of users are supposedly 'muslims', but continually manifest themselves repugnantly to the faith on these forums. AFGHAN_ZMARAI is only making a parody of their supposed 'beliefs' and contrasting that with what they have expressed.
im just not even going to get into it..i stay away from stuff like this for a reason..i just think his actions are repugnant. thats it! no more sucking me in no more!

[Just Like Heaven]

my parents dont know me, though they swear they do, i think i can never be close to them because of their orthodox views about life, and the fact that as a child they were both to busy making careers than actually raising wut the produced. Thats why as important it is for me to get into medschool, i would never put my kid in daycare. My dislike for wealth is also due to my parents continous pride of their wealth and careers, and "perfect" children that they are sending to medschool to be just like them. I love them greatly and respect them for the deen they taught me through out my life and made me maintain in our household, but there are certain views that i just dont agree with them on.



my bf/fiance has been raised away from his family ( like Afghan Zmarai) and i can honestly say that the affects are long lasting...

I feel putting fear and distance between a parent and a child is not the proper way to disciple that child because sooner or later that child will grow up to do what he or she pleases, and than you will lose him forever.


It hurts me to see that alot of the parents that i see around me are not the unconditionally loving parents that they are suppose to be.

[Octane]

My guess is that you secretly watched monty python, black adder and the thin blue line and loved it!

[plummet]

doing what deploying?? I had my reasons....non-selfish actually...which was my first mistake....But after a while your in to deep to move abouts freely. Besides Im just a Marine reservist....Ive done more time overseas as a Civilian (due to another job) than anything....more exposure, less rstrictions....You learn and see things that twist your thought process.
understandable but i mean i dont know i can say a million things right now ..but most importantly glad your safe...have a safe journey home! :hug:

[chicago85thst]

my parents dont know me, though they swear they do, i think i can never be close to them because of their orthodox views about life, and the fact that as a child they were both to busy making careers than actually raising wut the produced. Thats why as important it is for me to get into medschool, i would never put my kid in daycare. My dislike for wealth is also due to my parents continous pride of their wealth and careers, and "perfect" children that they are sending to medschool to be just like them. I love them greatly and respect them for the deen they taught me through out my life and made me maintain in our household, but there are certain views that i just dont agree with them on.



my bf/fiance has been raised away from his family ( like Afghan Zmari) and i can honestly say that the affects are long lasting...

I feel putting fear and distance between a parent and a child is not the proper way to disciple that child because sooner or later that child will grow up to do what he or she pleases, and than you will lose him forever.


It hurts me to see that alot of the parents that i see around me are not the unconditionally loving parents that they are suppose to be.


sucks for u mine are.
j/p....they are though
uhhh how old ar u?

[misspathani.]

So Miss what have YOU done that your parentals have no clue about. Aside from being able to whip up a mean roast chicken.
My parents know everything. I'm closer to my mother than my father so I guess it's easier to talk to her in general anyway. I'm a good girl and always will be :cool:

[AFGHAN_ZMARAI]

I'm not muslim, but I find it amusing and ironic: how a lot of users are supposedly 'muslims', but continually manifest themselves repugnantly to the faith on these forums. AFGHAN_ZMARAI is only making a parody of their supposed 'beliefs' and contrasting that with what they have expressed.


Also , some of these people act so proud and shameless about their behavior that they feel great joy in telling other people about it. Then why should they be so bashful when it comes to their family?

[plummet]

i think i want to throw up..i really feel it coming...

[KhanNoonienSingh]

I'm not muslim, but I find it amusing and ironic: how a lot of users are supposedly 'muslims', but continually manifest themselves repugnantly to the faith on these forums. AFGHAN_ZMARAI is only making a parody of their supposed 'beliefs' and contrasting that with what they have expressed.

:werd: guy's awesome. i like his straight up approach. it allows me to sneak around the back.

[JOHNNY K-BAR]

understandable but i mean i dont know i can say a million things right now ..but most importantly glad your safe...have a safe journey home! :hug:
say what you please....no worries.

[Echelon]

Also , some of these people act so proud and shameless about their behavior that they feel great joy in telling other people about it. Then why should they be so bashful when it comes to their family?I think one of the reasons why they do it in the first place is so they can 'tell'.

[Just Like Heaven]

sucks for u mine are.
j/p....they are though
uhhh how old ar u?

20

no the loving part i was refering to my bfs parents... they are the most ughh ok i shud shut up he hates me talking about them like this lol hes like "thats ur saas
!!! and ur already fighting with her" lol

[AFGHAN_ZMARAI]

im just not even going to get into it..i stay away from stuff like this for a reason..i just think his actions are repugnant. thats it! no more sucking me in no more!


Then explain why? You seem to be accepting of other reprehensible behavior what makes mine worse than that?

[KhanNoonienSingh]

Also , some of these people act so proud and shameless about their behavior that they feel great joy in telling other people about it. Then why should they be so bashful when it comes to their family?

hypocrisy is bad for the soul. you'd be doing them a favor.

[misspathani.]

Also , some of these people act so proud and shameless about their behavior that they feel great joy in telling other people about it. Then why should they be so bashful when it comes to their family?My fault for making this thread

[SeKcGaL]

Haww:neutral:

haww wat :sarb:

elaborate...watz ur question

[plummet]

say what you please....no worries.
no i mean in terms of why..i was going to ask alot of why.im naturally inquisitive(sp?)

[Just Like Heaven]

Also , some of these people act so proud and shameless about their behavior that they feel great joy in telling other people about it. Then why should they be so bashful when it comes to their family?


hey hey dont talk about me ok i learned my lesson im trying to behave no? lol
maybe u shud send them all the hadiths and verses we have in that thread.

[Octane]

lol oooh I love cooking. Can you cook! I'm sure you can it aint that hard you know

Honestly I hate cooking. Im better at eating. Im really good at making a few things like shrimp, salmon, pasta, and smoothies. But thats about it. But in the early years I had noooooooo clue, I survived on chinese take out. lol!

Fortunately though no one has keeled over dead from my cooking yet. But like I said Im more of an eater. :) And when my schedule is busy then I go for the quick foods. Pasta and Mr. Noodle. lol.

[AFGHAN_ZMARAI]

Well I just want to clairify I dont publicize things about people one thing i avoid is Ghaibat. However someones parents or family members have a RIGHT to know so whatever I reveal to them is only because they need to URGENTLY get involved and see that their family is deteriorating. Its not easy to raise kids especially with such corrupt influences , especially in the west (and the east to some degree). They need all the help they can get.

[misspathani.]

haww wat :sarb:

elaborate...watz ur questionwell what would they do if they found out you had a boyfriend? r they strict?

[JOHNNY K-BAR]

no i mean in terms of why..i was going to ask alot of why.im naturally inquisitive(sp?)
Why what though?? specifically? Why is to broad a question...

[AFGHAN_ZMARAI]

hey hey dont talk about me ok i learned my lesson im trying to behave no? lol
maybe u shud send them all the hadiths and verses we have in that thread.


I wasnt refering to you actually , dont worry

[OoDREAmerOo]

Come on... spill it:cool:


i got my nose pierced, i drink a glass of wine everyday, and im only taking 3 classes right now (not 5)


i cant really hide/ want to hide much from them.

-drea

[plummet]

Why what though?? specifically? Why is to broad a question...
why did you decide to sign up?
dont you think tha ta military contract is like solid.no getting out..what happens if u change your mind??
alot of the people that sign up sign up RIGHT out of highschool and dont know what they are getting themselves into and end up doing things they dont want and try and move to canada and are brande deserters..i totally disagree with what..what do you think?

how is your family with all of this?
have you been keeping safe?
everything ok?

if everythings ok..im super glad to hear it!

[Octane]

My parents know everything. I'm closer to my mother than my father so I guess it's easier to talk to her in general anyway. I'm a good girl and always will be :cool:


So Nigella ;) Whats on the menu this evening??

Edinborough steak steeped Salisberry sauce or

Cucumber sandwiches? *said in thickest english accent*

[Just Like Heaven]

Well I just want to clairify I dont publicize things about people one thing i avoid is Ghaibat. However someones parents or family members have a RIGHT to know so whatever I reveal to them is only because they need to URGENTLY get involved at how bad their child has become. Its not easy to raise kids especially with such corrupt influences , especially in the west (and the east to some degree). They need all the help they can get.


It isnt gheebat if u are trying crush a bad vice in society, all i wud advice u is to approach the person first and try to guide him/her directly and pray for that person with ur heart and earnst desire for his hadiya... if he doesnt pay heed u can take more severe measures... just my advice u can do wut u want to ....

[misspathani.]

Well I just want to clairify I dont publicize things about people one thing i avoid is Ghaibat. However someones parents or family members have a RIGHT to know so whatever I reveal to them is only because they need to URGENTLY get involved and see that their family is deteriorating. Its not easy to raise kids especially with such corrupt influences , especially in the west (and the east to some degree). They need all the help they can get.
r u living in a muslim country?

[WildWolfdog]

That I'm not really their child!!!!

Er.... lol!

oye ur back :dance3:

[Octane]

Im good guy too...............well despite the fact that I look like hell spawn.

lol.

[Just Like Heaven]

I wasnt refering to you actually , dont worry

cool :-)

[misspathani.]

So Nigella ;) Whats on the menu this evening??

Edinborough steak steeped Salisberry sauce or

Cucumber sandwiches? *said in thickest english accent*chicken plou

[plummet]

r u living in a muslim country?
nope

[WildWolfdog]

My parents know most of the "taboo" things about me... that I am not a muslim... I eat meat from non muslim run places... I drink on rare occasions...
and they still love me. Now THAT is how muslims parents should be like.

Only thing that would piss my parents off.. is if I started stealing/killing/raping people etc...

uh no, you'll burn, they will too for not guiding u. :neutral:

[AFGHAN_ZMARAI]

r u living in a muslim country?


Nope

[chicago85thst]

im a master chef, i can cook yall anything

[KhanNoonienSingh]

cool :-)

don't fear Afghan_Zmarai or people like him...fear Allah.

[NYzNiCCa]

99% of things i do.

[Octane]

It isnt gheebat if u are trying crush a bad vice in society, all i wud advice u is to approach the person first and try to guide him/her directly and pray for that person with ur heart and earnst desire for his hadiya... if he doesnt pay heed u can take more severe measures... just my advice u can do wut u want to ....

I would concurr with that aswell that you should approach the person first.
You dont know what the ramifications could be if you inform their parents.
The direct approach is better, and if you feel that their circle is deletrious for them, introduce them to you buddies then.

[misspathani.]

uh no, you'll burn, they will too for not guiding u. :neutral:lol

[Just Like Heaven]

don't fear Afghan_Zmarai or people like him...fear Allah.
i wasnt fearing him... i just wanted to know if he was refering to me

[Octane]

chicken plou

You can have polou that is chicken?? Really I always thought it was beef!
So whats your specialty then??

[misspathani.]

don't fear Afghan_Zmarai or people like him...fear Allah.Ur right

[AFGHAN_ZMARAI]

It isnt gheebat if u are trying crush a bad vice in society, all i wud advice u is to approach the person first and try to guide him/her directly and pray for that person with ur heart and earnst desire for his hadiya... if he doesnt pay heed u can take more severe measures... just my advice u can do wut u want to ....


Well what I mean by Ghaibat is telling others who have no concern. Like I wouldnt go off and talk about it with other people. Even with their parents I'd come forth and say "i dont want you to feel offended and I mean no disrespect , but there are some things That your child has been hiding from you". No one else really needs to know beyond that.

Yeah I usually try to naseehah people ,I try and determine if they're just behaving this way out of ignorance or they just dont care.

[misspathani.]

Inshallah I wanna move to a muslim country. Oh I'm hungry maaan

[chicago85thst]

has anyone eaten balti chicken? i can make that shit like you wouldnt belive

[KhanNoonienSingh]

uh no, you'll burn, they will too for not guiding u. :neutral:

:rofl: :bowdown:

[WildWolfdog]

you're dispicable..thats all i have to say to that. DISPICABLE no argument, no conversation..the end.

why? sometimes true friends are ones who will tell you the honest truth isn't it? The shouldn't that be applied to other things - a true friend who cares for you will tell on you so you don't harm yourself even more later on.

[plummet]

why? sometimes true friends are ones who will tell you the honest truth isn't it? The shouldn't that be applied to other things - a true friend who cares for you will tell on you so you don't harm yourself even more later on.
you dont know what im referring to..his actions are dispable..id really rather not get into it. didnt say friendship was bad..friendship is good if its the right way.

[misspathani.]

That reply PISSED me off

[SeKcGaL]

well what would they do if they found out you had a boyfriend? r they strict?

yeh they r damn strict...

they wud even go to the extent of stopping me from college...making me stay at home...n in a month fly me 2 india

im soo scared...:nervious:


but we r playing our cards quite well....:mrhappy:

[Just Like Heaven]

Well what I mean by Ghaibat is telling others who have no concern. Like I wouldnt go off and talk about it with other people. Even with their parents I'd come forth and say "i dont want you to feel offended and I mean no disrespect , but there are some things That your child has been hiding from you". No one else really needs to know beyond that.

Yeah I usually try to naseehah people ,I try and determine if they're just behaving this way out of ignorance or they just dont care.


yea...gheebat wud be talking behind sum1s back, backbitting, but if ur doing for a positive reason and ur trying to do it for the persons own good, i think ( correct me if im wrong) it isnt backbitting. Maybe u can get rid of the whole dillema by telling individual that u are gonna tell his or her parents.

[AFGHAN_ZMARAI]

why? sometimes true friends are ones who will tell you the honest truth isn't it? The shouldn't that be applied to other things - a true friend who cares for you will tell on you so you don't harm yourself even more later on.


precisely , I dont do it to harm people if I did then all I'd do is go around telling everyone trying to ruin their reputation. I usually try and salvage a persons reputation.

[JOHNNY K-BAR]

why did you decide to sign up?
dont you think tha ta military contract is like solid.no getting out..what happens if u change your mind??
alot of the people that sign up sign up RIGHT out of highschool and dont know what they are getting themselves into and end up doing things they dont want and try and move to canada and are brande deserters..i totally disagree with what..what do you think?

how is your family with all of this?
have you been keeping safe?
everything ok?

if everythings ok..im super glad to hear it!
Im not sure why I signed up especially in the Marines...I was in college....I thought about it over that summer...It was a spur of the moment decision...I was a wild child...Premed was not something I wanted at the time....I wanted to be different also..(probably because i was raised around whiteys) My good friend enlisted and kinda literally "tricked me into it" :lol: So I enlisted...They nighT i left no one believed me and reported me missing to the Local police until they verified I was in bootcamp.

No my family was not Ok with it....They still arent....

YOUR RIGHT you can barely get out of contracts..MOST NON HACKERS desert....I signed a reserve contract....basically you become a Marine and go home..and back to college or live a regular life until War starts.....unfortunately i came back and instead of goin back to college...I pursued a Civilian job in law enforcement which soon led me into a Full time Defense Civilian position....which has caused my multiple deployments. Some safe some not so safe....thats just they way things are.

[AFGHAN_ZMARAI]

yea...gheebat wud be talking behind sum1s back, backbitting, but if ur doing for a positive reason and ur trying to do it for the persons own good, i think ( correct me if im wrong) it isnt backbitting. Maybe u can get rid of the whole dillema by telling individual that u are gonna tell his or her parents.


Yeah thats right, and you're right I should warn them that I'll inform their parents

[KhanNoonienSingh]

yeh they r damn strict...

they wud even go to the extent of stopping me from college...making me stay at home...n in a month fly me 2 india

im soo scared...:nervious:


but we r playing our cards quite well....:mrhappy:

i don't see the point. that's bollywood, not reality. you two aren't living a real relationship whatsoever. its hard enough predicting married life when a bf/gf live together...your situation isn't helping at all towards that prospect. you're really both just wasting the other's time by going through the 'bf/gf motions', rather than try to get to know each other and initiate marriage proposal through your family and get the hell out of sin quickly.

[misspathani.]

precisely , I dont do it to harm people if I did then all I'd do is go around telling everyone trying to ruin their reputation. I usually try and salvage a persons reputation.You remind me of my older brother.

[KhanNoonienSingh]

You remind me of my older brother.

I've gotten that too. That's the way he should sound...we're all brothers/sisters.

[plummet]

Im not sure why I signed up especially in the Marines...I was in college....I thought about it over that summer...It was a spur of the moment decision...I was a wild child...Premed was not something I wanted at the time....I wanted to be different also..(probably because i was raised around whiteys) My good friend enlisted and kinda literally "tricked me into it" :lol: So I enlisted...They nighT i left no one believed me and reported me missing to the Local police until they verified I was in bootcamp.

No my family was not Ok with it....They still arent....

YOUR RIGHT you can barely get out of contrcats..MOST NON HACKERS desert....I signed a reseve contract....basically you become a Marine and go home..and back to college or live a regular life until War starts.....unfortunately i came back and instead of goin back to college...I pursued a Civilian job in law enforcemnet which soon led me into a Full time Defense Civilian position....which has caused my multiple deployments. Some safe some not so safe....thats just they way things are.

no way you can get out of it? this is what i hate about military contracts whether you agree with it or not...sometimes you dont make the best decision when you sign up it should be a contract to your death!(FORBID)

[Octane]

Ishallah I wanna move to a muslim country. Oh I'm hungry maaan

SEE this what happens when we talk!! We get on to food and then the whole stomach rumbling thing happens!! Oh man now I have a major hunkering for Sushi!!!!

Which Muslim country? You could always by one of those Islands that are made to look like countries by Al-Nakheel. How freakin cool would that be your own Island, that looks like a country. Damn I'll buy Canada Island and then be Prime Minister!!!

Though I dont think I would be able to host the winter Olympics there. lol.

http://www.nakheel.ae/developments.aspx?sectionid=4&developmentid=5

Check it out.

[WildWolfdog]

lol

:rofl: :bowdown:

lol, well it's true, atleast that's what i believe anyway.

Afghan - i know where you're coming from. What some might percieve as "extreme actions" are sometimes necessary .. i don't want to brag about anythnig, but a couple of my close friends were "indulging" in something, i warned them about it, told them how the situation would play out, they said yeah but didn't listen, and exactly what i told them occured, and now they're in bigger shit than before.

[misspathani.]

I've gotten that too. That's the way he should sound...we're all brothers/sisters.
Of course he should? I never said it was a bad thing? My brother is one of the best people I know.There should be more people like that in this world. Afghan Zmrai just reminds me of him

[Octane]

That reply PISSED me off

What did? Not my Polou comment!!!!

[AFGHAN_ZMARAI]

You remind me of my older brother.

But I'm one year younger than you :p

[KhanNoonienSingh]

Of course he should? I never said it was a bad thing? My brother is one of the best people I know.There should be more people like that in this world. Afghan Zmrai just reminds me of him

haha i was agreeing with you. calm down and stop bothering to read my posts, we always can't understand each other :rofl:

[AFGHAN_ZMARAI]

Of course he should? I never said it was a bad thing? My brother is one of the best people I know.There should be more people like that in this world. Afghan Zmrai just reminds me of him


He wasnt debating you , he was just adding to your comment :p

[misspathani.]

SEE this what happens when we talk!! We get on to food and then the whole stomach rumbling thing happens!! Oh man now I have a major hunkering for Sushi!!!!

Which Muslim country? You could always by one of those Islands that are made to look like countries by Al-Nakheel. How freakin cool would that be your own Island, that looks like a country. Damn I'll buy Canada Island and then be Prime Minister!!!

Though I dont think I would be able to host the winter Olympics there. lol.

http://www.nakheel.ae/developments.aspx?sectionid=4&developmentid=5

Check it out.Yeah I know! But you know what..I wouldn't move to Dubai. I would prefer to go to Saudi- my brother said Dubai's turnin into someting else now.

Hey they're making an underwater hotel. lol ridiculous

[SeKcGaL]

i don't see the point. that's bollywood, not reality. you two aren't living a real relationship whatsoever. its hard enough predicting married life when a bf/gf live together...your situation isn't helping at all towards that prospect. you're really both just wasting the other's time by going through the 'bf/gf motions', rather than try to get to know each other and initiate marriage proposal through your family and get the hell out of sin quickly.

not yet tho ;)

we need a lil more time...may b this summer or winter...:dunno:

[JOHNNY K-BAR]

no way you can get out of it? this is what i hate about military contracts whether you agree with it or not...sometimes you dont make the best decision when you sign up it should be a contract to your death!(FORBID)
There are ways of getting out....I think its dishonorable and stupid. But yes there are ways of getting out...I was offered medical discharge in 2003 after two knee surgeries I denied it. This was just my Section Chief lookin out for me....because he figured my Civilain job would take precedent over the Marines....Because now Im basically on two binding contracts by the fed Govt. One military one civilain.

[misspathani.]

He wasnt debating you , he was just adding to your comment :pOk bro. Stop laughing at me :(

[WildWolfdog]

you dont know what im referring to..his actions are dispable..id really rather not get into it. didnt say friendship was bad..friendship is good if its the right way.

lol you're a nice larki, honestly, but i think sometimes (maybe because of past experiences and experiences of others) u seem to have a very leniant, liberal attitude towards everything IMO. Feels like you want everyone to happy and be able to live their lives the way they want even if they're making mistakes.

I don't know what actions of his you are referring to, and i won't prod you to enlighten me since you said you don't want to get into it, but i don't understand how doing something your friend might hate you for, but which will be extremely good for you, is friendship done the wrong way.

[plummet]

There are ways of getting out....I think its dishonorable and stupid. But yes there are ways of getting out...I was offered medical discharge in 2003 after two knee surgeries I denied it. This was just my Section Chief lookin out for me....because he figured my Civilain job would take precedent over the Marines....Because now Im basically on two binding contracts by the fed Govt. One military one civilain.
i see. good to hear your stay was void of serious physical injury!

[AFGHAN_ZMARAI]

lol, well it's true, atleast that's what i believe anyway.

Afghan - i know where you're coming from. What some might percieve as "extreme actions" are sometimes necessary .. i don't want to brag about anythnig, but a couple of my close friends were "indulging" in something, i warned them about it, told them how the situation would play out, they said yeah but didn't listen, and exactly what i told them occured, and now they're in bigger shit than before.


Totally these days terms like "Extremism" and "Extremist" are used as defense mechanism to disregard ANYTHING which scrutinizes a persons behavior. If someone was a REAL extremist then they would just try and destroy the person regardless of what they do.

[Octane]

Yeah I know! But you know what..I wouldn't move to Dubai. I would prefer to go to Saudi- my brother said Dubai's turnin into someting else now.

Hey they're making an underwater hotel. lol ridiculous

Really Saudi over Dubai? I would pick Dubai still, its less restrictive. Saudi has alot of things that need to be fixed.

Though I would love the warm weather, my preference is still Toronto. Lots of academia here and the ability to voice dissent without fear of reprisal.

[AFGHAN_ZMARAI]

Ok bro. Stop laughing at me :(


awww cute :wavey:

[Octane]

Yeah I know! But you know what..I wouldn't move to Dubai. I would prefer to go to Saudi- my brother said Dubai's turnin into someting else now.

Hey they're making an underwater hotel. lol ridiculous

An underwater hotel? I guess they are trying to compete against Atlantis, though, its not really under water. But I think its a neat idea. Though they have to start moving away from the touristy infrastructure and invest in more
hi-tech and heavy industry.

But hey thats just me.

[misspathani.]

Yeah Saudi. I haven't really been to Dubai though but I'd want an easy life too with my future husband you know most of the women cover up over there and it's nice after Isha prayer all the shops are open till late and stuff and it's just better if I move to a muslim country because I get a lot of crap in England after Sept 11th

[JOHNNY K-BAR]

i see. good to hear your stay was void of serious physical injury!
This tour was more of a non-mobile tour.....my duties required me to stay on base majority of the whole tour....Quite frustrating actually, it was the first time I got to see the planning/operational side of the house than the actionable side. I dont joke when I say I literally was in a jail, practically serving a sentence.

[plummet]

lol you're a nice larki, honestly, but i think sometimes (maybe because of past experiences and experiences of others) u seem to have a very leniant, liberal attitude towards everything IMO. Feels like you want everyone to happy and be able to live their lives the way they want even if they're making mistakes.

I don't know what actions of his you are referring to, and i won't prod you to enlighten me since you said you don't want to get into it, but i don't understand how doing something your friend might hate you for, but which will be extremely good for you, is friendship done the wrong way.
yeah id rather not get into it. and it hasnt got too much to do with past expeariences. i will never respect afghan's actions, and thats my choice.Hypocrites dont sit well with me, and i dont think anyone has the right to pass judgement like they are the all mighty deity of any religion..nobody has that right and you forget wolfy that not everyone believes what you believe..and even if people are born muslim they dont have to believe in those set of values that their birth religion puts forth..i have a liberal attitude..about the right things and so does everyone else including you.. i have my opinion and you reserve the right to have yours. democracy is great.

[plummet]

This tour was more of a non-mobile tour.....my duties required me to stay on base majority of the whole tour....Quite frustrating actually, it was the first time I got to see the planning/operational side of the house than the actionable side. I dont joke when I say I literally was in a jail, practically serving a sentence.
what were your duties?

[Amberosia]

they dont kno i heart them.

[AFGHAN_ZMARAI]

I don't know what actions of his you are referring to, and i won't prod you to enlighten me since you said you don't want to get into it, but i don't understand how doing something your friend might hate you for, but which will be extremely good for you, is friendship done the wrong way.

Well this person obviously knows that what I'm doing is the right thing, and is just reacting because they feel that people should do bad things and get away with it. If I was wrong they'd explain exactly why what I'm doing is wrong but they havent

[Y2K]

That I was actualy born on the planet Krypton and, as an infant, was rocketed to Earth by my scientist father, moments before Krypton exploded. The rocket landed on Earth outside the town of Smallville, where I was discovered and adopted by the Kents. And as I grew, I discovered that I possessed powers far beyond those of mortal men & that I like to wear my briefs outside my spandex because my package strikes terror into the hearts of villians!

[plummet]

they dont kno i heart them.
ditto

[misspathani.]

awww cute :wavey:lol
:wavey:

[Octane]

Yeah Saudi. I haven't really been to Dubai though but I'd want an easy life too with my future husband you know most of the women cover up over there and it's nice after Isha prayer all the shops are open till late and stuff and it's just better if I move to a muslim country because I get a lot of crap in England after Sept 11th

I can understand you wanting an easier life, for sure. But what sort of crap do you get for the whole 9/11? What do they say to you ?

[ana]

They don't know that I like to move it move it. :Oops:

[Octane]

That I was actualy born on the planet Krypton and, as an infant, was rocketed to Earth by my scientist father, moments before Krypton exploded. The rocket landed on Earth outside the town of Smallville, where I was discovered and adopted by the Kents. And as I grew, I discovered that I possessed powers far beyond those of mortal men & that I like to wear my briefs outside my spandex because my package strikes terror into the hearts of villians!

LOL! Now that is freakin funny! Awesome.

[KhanNoonienSingh]

yeah id rather not get into it. and it hasnt got too much to do with past expeariences. i will never respect afghan's actions, and thats my choice.Hypocrites dont sit well with me, and i dont think anyone has the right to pass judgement like they are the all mighty deity of any religion..nobody has that right and you forget wolfy that not everyone believes what you believe..and even if people are born muslim they dont have to believe in those set of values that their birth religion puts forth..i have a liberal attitude..about the right things and so does everyone else including you.. i have my opinion and you reserve the right to have yours. democracy is great.

he's not hypocritical. people posting on ratedesi to hook up and do shit they'd hide from their parents is hypocritical. look at his main profile, he's completely consistent and unabashed about his activities. his parents could know everything, we could know everything, and it'd all match the real deal. that is not hypocrisy. hypocrisy is harmful to spiritual growth, and what he does helps other people with it.

People who have no hold over their process of thinking are likely to be ruined by liberty of thought. If thought is immature, liberty of thought becomes a method of converting men into animals.
-Muhammad Iqbal

[xXdesicanadianXx]

that i have 2 ipods
and that i have pics online
and i acutaly talk to guys

[Juuulia]

i think i may be one of the few people who has no or very little secrets with my mom. but hey its good. shes very accepting
Yeah.. I'm very close with my Mommy.. and I love it. We talk about everything:)
Who else is like this
http://forums.ratedesi.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=4928&stc=1
with thur Ma?

My dad on the other hand... technically I should have been a daddy's girl, but I'm not. :@ grr...

[plummet]

he's not hypocritical. people posting on ratedesi to hook up and do shit they'd hide from their parents is hypocritical. look at his main profile, he's completely consistent and unabashed about his activities. his parents could know everything, we could know everything, and it'd all match the real deal. that is not hypocrisy. hypocrisy is harmful to spiritual growth, and what he does helps other people with it.

People who have no hold over their process of thinking are likely to be ruined by liberty of thought. If thought is immature, liberty of thought becomes a method of converting men into animals.
-Muhammad Iqbal
i wasnt referring to him..i was referring to hypocrites in general..that comment in particular was NOT intended for him..my mistake

[KhanNoonienSingh]

Yeah Saudi. I haven't really been to Dubai though but I'd want an easy life too with my future husband you know most of the women cover up over there and it's nice after Isha prayer all the shops are open till late and stuff and it's just better if I move to a muslim country because I get a lot of crap in England after Sept 11th

good choice...try your hardest to get to live in/near hijaz...

[KhanNoonienSingh]

i wasnt referring to him..i was referring to hypocrites in general..that comment in particular was NOT intended for him..my mistake

alright my bad. but that quote still applies for the democracy comment. ;)

[SeKcGaL]

that i have 2 ipods
and that i have pics online
and i acutaly talk to guys

ur not da only one :hug:


erm except the 2 ipods...coz i have only one n they know that i have one

[plummet]

alright my bad. but that quote still applies for the democracy comment. ;)
lol that is where me and you disagree!

[misspathani.]

I can understand you wanting an easier life, for sure. But what sort of crap do you get for the whole 9/11? What do they say to you ?
You get some people down here just looking down at you especially after the london bombings. Giving dirty looks and stuff. It doesn't bother me anymore because they don't matter to me. But I would just love to live in Saudi it's lovely there.

[misspathani.]

Yeah.. I'm very close with my Mommy.. and I love it. We talk about everything:)
Who else is like this
http://forums.ratedesi.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=4928&stc=1
with thur Ma?

My dad on the other hand... technically I should have been a daddy's girl, but I'm not. :@ grr...that's so cute. You both look soo cute

[JOHNNY K-BAR]

what were your duties?
Um, we have directives that stop us from talking about those things....sorry.....But The first half of this year what i was part of has been exposed so you can research it on teh net acually since we pesented it to the Public and senate...I was part of ISG (Iraqi Survey Group) we are the ones that "through various operations" wrote the report on WMD's and the fact there were none in Iraq....It was the bigegst US intelligence operation since the cold war. --if you desire you can figure the est on your own through research maybe not my specific duty....but what We kind of did,and who was involved.

The Abu Ghraib assignment the second half of the year...It was a surprise to me.....and not one ive enjoyed. But Im out of here in the morning so Im glad.

[misspathani.]

good choice...try your hardest to get to live in/near hijaz...Really? I'll look into that

[xXdesicanadianXx]

ur not da only one :hug:


erm except the 2 ipods...coz i have only one n they know that i have one

lol my parents are typical desis lol
they think i think guys are taboo! :p

[subaru]

Come on... spill it:cool:

that i drink...and i went to a strip club for my friends 18th..:no:
:

[Juuulia]

that's so cute. You both look soo cute

thanks! i loovvve my mom! one of my guy friends wrote on his hi5 thing that its so cool to be "seen" with your mom.. i thought it was really sweet cause he had pictures of her and him n stuff:)

you have nice eyes by the way:)

[Octane]

You get some people down here just looking down at you especially after the london bombings. Giving dirty looks and stuff. It doesn't bother me anymore because they don't matter to me. But I would just love to live in Saudi it's lovely there.

Really??? But I guess I shouldnt be too surprised, England has a love hate relationship with Muslims. But I didnt think that it would be so overt.
Do people react to you while your working or do you mean when you go out.

One thing Im glad about being here is that getting the dirty looks and all is very very very rare here. Though I did get it this one time when I was in Boston, these two guys kept staring at me. I knew why so I stared right back at them. They stopped looking my way then. lol.

[plummet]

Um, we have directives that stop us from talking about those things....sorry.....But The first half of this year what i was part of has been exposed so you can research it on teh net acually since we pesented it to the Public and senate...I was part of ISG (Iraqi Survey Group) we are the ones that "through various operations" wrote the report on WMD's and the fact there were none in Iraq....It was the bigegst US intelligence operation since the cold war. --if you desire you can figure the est on your own through research maybe not my specific duty....but what We kind of did,and who was involved.

The Abu Ghraib assignment the second half of the year...It was a surprise to me.....and not one ive enjoyed. But Im out of here in the morning so Im glad.
haha sorry didnt realize what i was asking!

[AFGHAN_ZMARAI]

yeah id rather not get into it. and it hasnt got too much to do with past expeariences. i will never respect afghan's actions, and thats my choice.Hypocrites dont sit well with me, and i dont think anyone has the right to pass judgement like they are the all mighty deity of any religion..nobody has that right and you forget wolfy that not everyone believes what you believe..and even if people are born muslim they dont have to believe in those set of values that their birth religion puts forth..i have a liberal attitude..about the right things and so does everyone else including you.. i have my opinion and you reserve the right to have yours. democracy is great.


Well then you have in this one statement contradicted yourself. You pronounce me as a hyppocrite but on what basis? You know nothing about me other than what I have stated. As for passing judgement , well isnt labeling me a hypocrite PASSING judgement? Therefore its not Passing Judgement that bothers you is judging IMMORAL behavior You seem to have no problem judging something done for moral causes. Secondly The sort of judgement you're refering to relates to Human Activity , and it doesnt implying thinking oneself to be an Almighty Deity. Almighty Judgement relates to abilities which are beyond Human activity. Ironically your statement on what RIGHTS a person has and doesnt has IS IN FACT an issue which only Almighty God can determine

You state things which contradict yourself and you have in this post shown that YOU are willing to Judge me but yet say THAT no one has such a right. Do you see the descrepancy?

[misspathani.]

thanks! i loovvve my mom! one of my guy friends wrote on his hi5 thing that its so cool to be "seen" with your mom.. i thought it was really sweet cause he had pictures of her and him n stuff:)

you have nice eyes by the way:)
Aww thanku. It's so nice being close to ur mother she looks so sweet!Nice to meet you :D You seem like a good gal lol

[JOHNNY K-BAR]

haha sorry didnt realize what i was asking!
its ok....you get credit for asking....most desis just assume and dwell in misinformation and ignorance.

[misspathani.]

Really??? But I guess I shouldnt be too surprised, England has a love hate relationship with Muslims. But I didnt think that it would be so overt.
Do people react to you while your working or do you mean when you go out.

One thing Im glad about being here is that getting the dirty looks and all is very very very rare here. Though I did get it this one time when I was in Boston, these two guys kept staring at me. I knew why so I stared right back at them. They stopped looking my way then. lol.
lol nah. I'm so used to it though. Like I walked into a cafe with a friend to order and a group of old ladies just kept staring at me and I knew they were tlaking about me but I didn't care. All of a sudden some next woman's pushchair fell down because of the heavy bags on it (she was holding the baby) nooone helped the poor woman apart from me. All I did was pick the damn buggy up and those old ladies were like 'oooh ooooh that was very kind of you!!' See how quickly they change their judgement? Little things like that

[plummet]

Well then you have in this one statement contradicted yourself. You pronounce me as a hyppocrite but on what basis? You know nothing about me other than what I have stated. As for passing judgement , well isnt labeling me a hypocrite PASSING judgement? Therefore its not Passing Judgement that bothers you its judging IMMORAL behavior that does. You seem to have no problem judging something with is done for moral causes. Secondly The sort of judgement you're refering to relates to Human Activity , and it doesnt implying Being an Almighty Deity since the Almighty Judgement relates to abilities which are beyond Human activity. Ironically YOU SPEAK of what RIGHTS a person has and doesnt has Which is SOMETHING an ALMIGHTY Deity can determine.

You state things which contradict yourself and you have in this post shown that YOU are willing to Judge me but yet say THAT no one has such a right. Do you see the descrepancy?
read my previous post before saying things..i said the only comment not intended for you was the hypocrite one.

[SeKcGaL]

lol my parents are typical desis lol
they think i think guys are taboo! :p

word...go ahead on page six or something ull find my story...

im sure its worse than urz :no:

[AFGHAN_ZMARAI]

read my previous post before saying things..i said the only comment not intended for you was the hypocrite one.


Well fair enough , but its ironic that as Khannooniensingh stated that you seem to be ok with the fact that people who present one face to their parents and another behind their parents back. You dont seem to call them hypocrites even though thats exactly what being a hypocrite is

[Octane]

lol nah. I'm so used to it though. Like I walked into a cafe with a friend to order and a group of old ladies just kept staring at me and I knew they were tlaking about me but I didn't care. All of a sudden some next woman's pushchair fell down because of the heavy bags on it (she was holding the baby) nooone helped the poor woman apart from me. All I did was pick the damn buggy up and those old ladies were like 'oooh ooooh that was very kind of you!!' See how quickly they change their judgement? Little things like that

Hey wait a sec you mean to tell me that not only are you an artiiist but a superhero as well!!! I think you should replace galloway in the next elections and run!!

Seriously that is awesome. During my preceptorship I alot of nurses would come up and ask me alot of questions about Muslims and if we actually hated americans, and I told her they dont, they just have a problem with the goverments foreign policy. But they were really nice and were keen to learn about us. Which I thought was cool, so during my lunchbreak I bought a book by karen armstrong and gave it to the nurse. She was pretty delighted by it. But I think it comes down too peoples misconceptions about us and ours of them so that we can engage in intelligent conversation.

[*Alina*]

that im crazy :shock:

[JOHNNY K-BAR]

that im crazy :shock:
and is a internet video dancing queen :lol:

[Xo_neha_Xo]

that i have a boyfriend

im like crazy bout boys :neutral:

and Im on the swimming team well my moms know but my dad doesn't

[misspathani.]

Hey wait a sec you mean to tell me that not only are you an artiiist but a superhero as well!!! I think you should replace galloway in the next elections and run!!

Seriously that is awesome. During my preceptorship I alot of nurses would come up and ask me alot of questions about Muslims and if we actually hated americans, and I told her they dont, they just have a problem with the goverments foreign policy. But they were really nice and were keen to learn about us. Which I thought was cool, so during my lunchbreak I bought a book by karen armstrong and gave it to the nurse. She was pretty delighted by it. But I think it comes down too peoples misconceptions about us and ours of them so that we can engage in intelligent conversation.lol@superhero!!! haha. Yeah I would rather them just ask me something about my reliion or tell me how they feel to my face instead of giving me cheap dirty looks! Oh well.. I don't really mind I won't be living in this country for long anyway.oooh I'm gonna go and make roti for my brothers. They want roti not rice today!!
I'll be back later bro.
Allah hafiz

[Mz_Newyawk]

whn i say sumting i mean it..n i tink dey r abt to find dat out soon cuz of da step im abt to take!

[Juuulia]

Aww thanku. It's so nice being close to ur mother she looks so sweet!Nice to meet you :D You seem like a good gal lol

Nice to meet you too:) Ima bad goodgirl:) hahaha. yes, my mom knows everything about me, and my father knows nothing.. or he knows, but just doesnt understand.... had four boys before me, figures i guess.. *sigh*

[chak_de_phate]

to much to list lolz

[*Alina*]

kamran :rofl:

[Octane]

lol@superhero!!! haha. Yeah I would rather them just ask me something about my reliion or tell me how they feel to my face instead of giving me cheap dirty looks! Oh well.. I don't really mind I won't be living in this country for long anyway.oooh I'm gonna go and make roti for my brothers. They want roti not rice today!!
I'll be back later bro.
Allah hafiz


Some people handle things in a different manner I guess. lol. Some dirty looks some with questions. Just take it in stride which seems to be evident that you have.

Rotie? I thought polou was on the menu? Im soooo confused. Hey can you fed-ex a roti here too??? lol. Maybe a cucumber roti sandwich, best of the east and west. lol.

Alright Ill catch you later, I gotta get back to work, jeez this thing is addictive!!! 'right then take care mate!

Allahafiz.

[misspathani.]

Some people handle things in a different manner I guess. lol. Some dirty looks some with questions. Just take it in stride which seems to be evident that you have.

Rotie? I thought polou was on the menu? Im soooo confused. Hey can you fed-ex a roti here too??? lol. Maybe a cucumber roti sandwich, best of the east and west. lol.

Alright Ill catch you later, I gotta get back to work, jeez this thing is addictive!!! 'right then take care mate!

Allahafiz.


No they wanted roti in the end! So silly they are sometimes! Hope you're ok see ya mate!

[SillyKitty]

Come on... spill it:cool:


1001 things :sarb:

[sarkar_jot]

hmmm.. so many things..

My former drinkin habits .. :no:

and other things I won't even mention here....

[desi_chickan]

I feel sorry for parents nowadays :D

[NdN_FIYAH]

I will admit I have caught some people doing inappropriate things andI have informed their parents or family members that they are engaged in these practices. Some people may say that's not right , but how else will these people stop unless someone stops them?


you're like those annoyin ppl me n my friends hafta watch out for when we go out jus so we dont get put on house arrest

[MiZZ BiBBy]

my parents dont know that i am going to get tattoo


oo me too...nd dat i have smoked up more then a few tymes.. :neutral:

[morning_dew]

Come on... spill it:cool:
...the fact that i spend far too much time on this site :no:

[Be||a]

That I used to smoke and that I have a boyfriend.

Well, she knew about teh smoking but though I stopped years ago but I just recently stopped.

[miss_khan]

they actually dnt know me know me.. if u know wot i mean.. and o yea my dad dont kno abt my belly button piercing.. :Oops:

[asian_guy_786]

they actually dnt know me know me.. if u know wot i mean.. and o yea my dad dont kno abt my belly button piercing.. :Oops:

i know you

your gulab jaanem bibi :p

[asian_guy_786]

That I used to smoke and that I have a boyfriend.

Well, she knew about teh smoking but though I stopped years ago but I just recently stopped.

i thought you were joking when you said you smoked :neutral:

good you stoped ..cigs makes your teeth yellow :D

[Be||a]

i thought you were joking when you said you smoked :neutral:

good you stoped ..cigs makes your teeth yellow :D
Nah, I wasnt.

Yeah, I know. But you british people are used to it. Everyone tehre has yellow teeth.

[jeevankk]

too many things to list

[miss_khan]

i know you

your gulab jaanem bibi :p


nah nobody knows me...


and its gulfaam gulejaan bibi :kekeke: :p

[asian_guy_786]

Nah, I wasnt.

Yeah, I know. But you british people are used to it. Everyone tehre has yellow teeth.

haha

dont be silly...only the white ppl have yellow teeth in the uk...and dont belive everything you see in movies :p

[asian_guy_786]

nah nobody knows me...


and its gulfaam gulejaan bibi :kekeke: :p



:p :p

gay na bun

[harika]

That I drink. On a more serious note, that I won't be graduating this year, will not be going to University and will definetly coming back for a 5th year of highschool.

hmm.. I wonder what they will say when they find out?

[punjabi*princess]

long story it started basically bc i'd come home, eat a shit load of junk food, sleep wake up do my homework and have dinner and sleep early for the night, so they thought that was a sign of me being high and then my sister told my mom about friends of mine that chose to get high or other rave kids i talked to that chose x and so forth and my mom was like well if her friends do it she must do it and that explains why the child is soo sleepy

reality i was tired from my allergy medication making my drowsy, i wasn't able to take it at school or else i'd fall asleep in class

stupid parents and my sister made it sound like i tried it b4 with my cousins that do it as well and my mom was like what my niece so and so smokes weed wtf is the world coming to


my parents thought the same thing and shit i been through it tooo i hate it .. cauz they found out about my bf and stuff and they were like she might be doing drugs .. they actaually had someone spy on me

[shawtyluv727]

they think im a nerd, they know i care about my grades more than they do.

what they dont know is that im a bigger nerd than they think i am. :neutral:

[sarkar_jot]

they think im a nerd, they know i care about my grades more than they do.

what they dont know is that im a bigger nerd than they think i am. :neutral:

how scandolous ..

[sarkar_jot]

my parents thought the same thing and shit i been through it tooo i hate it .. cauz they found out about my bf and stuff and they were like she might be doing drugs .. they actaually had someone spy on me

I think a lot of parents think they're kids on drugs! My grandpa brainwashed my parents into thinkin the same thing cause I always seemed spaced out as a teenageer... I'm just a day-dreamer! :dunno:

[shawtyluv727]

how scandolous ..

:lol: yes, i know it's sad

[thanatoski]

i'm afraid to tell them that i eat chicken

[sarkar_jot]

:lol: yes, i know it's sad

:no:
You should be ashamed of yourself. I''m surprised they haven't shipped you off to boot camp yet.

[sarkar_jot]

i'm afraid to tell them that i eat chicken

:wtf:
why?

[mistyrain786]

I haven't really done anything bad, my parents trust me too much and I couldn't really hurt them like that.

Thing that my parents don't know about me: hmmmmmmm....that I wish I could do so many things like play soccer, go to Brazil, visit relatives in Pakistan, be a professional photographer, etc....

[syrus]

long story it started basically bc i'd come home, eat a shit load of junk food, sleep wake up do my homework and have dinner and sleep early for the night, so they thought that was a sign of me being high and then my sister told my mom about friends of mine that chose to get high or other rave kids i talked to that chose x and so forth and my mom was like well if her friends do it she must do it and that explains why the child is soo sleepy

reality i was tired from my allergy medication making my drowsy, i wasn't able to take it at school or else i'd fall asleep in class

stupid parents and my sister made it sound like i tried it b4 with my cousins that do it as well and my mom was like what my niece so and so smokes weed wtf is the world coming to

OMG...did u not try to explain this? as u did it know?

[gori_gori]

that i have a boyfriend

[misspathani.]

they actually dnt know me know me.. if u know wot i mean.. and o yea my dad dont kno abt my belly button piercing.. :Oops:Ouch did that hurt

[mamamia!]

my parents know basically everything. my mom and i are really close.

[snak3]

my parents dont know that i drink......and use to smoke hash....and they dont know ive slept around.....

my mom know's i smoke ciggs cause my elder bro smokes too... but my dad does not have a clue

[mamamia!]

my parents dont know that i drink......and use to smoke hash....and they dont know ive slept around.....

my mom know's i smoke ciggs cause my elder bro smokes too... but my dad does not have a clue
:neutral: your poor parents.

[snak3]

:neutral: your poor parents.

well me and my bro's usually have alot of freedom.......but we always get lecture's on studies and shit.....its annoying....oh yea and not to pick fights with anybody even though we dont do that

[mamamia!]

well me and my bro's usually have alot of freedom.......but we always get lecture's on studies and shit.....its annoying....oh yea and not to pick fights with anybody even though we dont do that
but you'd lose it if they found out somehow no?

[limpfaraz]

that i used to drink and do drugs

and that i still smoke

[WonkaBear]

They know just about everything...

:p

Except a few secrets...

[pachaas Paisa]

My mom probably still thinks I am a virgin.

:evil_lau:

[KhanNoonienSingh]

letting other people know you is like going public with a stock offering :p i don't like the idea of giving anyone a majority share.

[limpfaraz]

My mom probably still thinks I am a virgin.

:evil_lau:
maybe she thinks ur an e-virgin?

[WonkaBear]

Pachaas is the hump Ninja

[SeKcGaL]

My mom probably still thinks I am a virgin.

:evil_lau:

:no:

[misspathani.]

My mom probably still thinks I am a virgin.

:evil_lau:
What would she do though if she found out that you aren't?

[Sir Smoke-A-Lot]

lol my parents don't know shit about me :lol:

[snak3]

but you'd lose it if they found out somehow no?

yup......they would be heart broken