View Full Version : Would you be/marry someone who is not a virgin?
0101
January 28th, 2006, 01:49 PM
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nyc_craziest
January 28th, 2006, 01:50 PM
i ve seen you made a lot of marriage threads or stuff related to that shit.
on topic tho, i wouldn't marry someone whos not a virgin
**bambina**
January 28th, 2006, 01:51 PM
from reading your threads, i have come to believe you have marital issues.
0101
January 28th, 2006, 01:52 PM
i ve seen you made a lot of marriage threads or stuff related to that shit.
on topic tho, i wouldn't marry someone whos not a virgin
yea i'm doing a little research for me and that's why I make these threads. Where else I can get better answers than from the people? :P
the big d
January 28th, 2006, 01:52 PM
i can't imagine marrying someone who is a virgin...
i dont care either way. the past is the past. if she is with me then she is with me...
**bambina**
January 28th, 2006, 01:55 PM
how old are you?
0101
January 28th, 2006, 01:57 PM
how old are you?
Check the profile...it'll be a work out for you and and your mouse.
mtlz_m@m!
January 28th, 2006, 01:57 PM
i can't imagine marrying someone who is a virgin...
i dont care either way. the past is the past. if she is with me then she is with me...
now days its gonna be hard to find virgins even bak home :neutral:
0101
January 28th, 2006, 01:58 PM
from reading your threads, i have come to believe you have marital issues.
Not that...just too picky....and surprinsingly, easily hurt/emotional.
**bambina**
January 28th, 2006, 01:58 PM
Check the profile...it'll be a work out for you and and your mouse.
i cant be asked. from ur avvy pic, u look young anyways, i give you 10 years, u will change ur mind about alot of things,
bigbrother
January 28th, 2006, 02:00 PM
I can't imagine being with anyone who is not a virgin....I had chances to go out with girls (mostly non desi) but I didn't simple because they were not a virgin. I guess it's just my strict rule that plan to follow through though my friends thinks that i'm deluding myself to find someone like that.
In these days, it's impossible in a way but that's how I find someone attarctive/unattarctive. In a mean spirited way, you can say that I don't want someone "used". Just wondering if you be with someone/marry someone who is virgin/not virgin. Or it won't matter.
if your not a virgin yourself then you dont really have the right to marry a virgin
Guddia
January 28th, 2006, 02:00 PM
When it comes down to desi guys, most of you will say she has to be a virgin but you guys are proud not to be a virgin ... how does that work I mean its okay for guys to do it but then it comes down to the girls you wanna marry, she has to be a virgin ... that's just SICK!!!
the big d
January 28th, 2006, 02:00 PM
now days its gonna be hard to find virgins even bak home :neutral:
yea right? who cared anyways. i mean its one thing if she/he is walking down the street and just starts sexin everything in sight, but ppl have relationships and get busy. its what we do as humans....
mtlz_m@m!
January 28th, 2006, 02:02 PM
yea right? who cared anyways. i mean its one thing if she/he is walking down the street and just starts sexin everything in sight, but ppl have relationships and get busy. its what we do as humans....
exaclyyy....anywayz doesn't really matter to me :dunno:
anorexorcist
January 28th, 2006, 02:02 PM
Generally, you will NOT find your answers to these kind of questions over here.
with that said, circumstancially it'd have to be in this sense:
1--she was married previously and her husband died or she got divorced.
2--she was crazy beforehand but she changed her ways. the only thing would be then i wouldn't want to have kids.
-Z-
bigbrother
January 28th, 2006, 02:03 PM
When it comes down to desi guys, most of you will say she has to be a virgin but you guys are proud not to be a virgin ... how does that work I mean its okay for guys to do it but then it comes down to the girls you wanna marry, she has to be a virgin ... that's just SICK!!!
i agree
mtlz_m@m!
January 28th, 2006, 02:03 PM
When it comes down to desi guys, most of you will say she has to be a virgin but you guys are proud not to be a virgin ... how does that work I mean its okay for guys to do it but then it comes down to the girls you wanna marry, she has to be a virgin ... that's just SICK!!!
true said i seen a lot of that :mad:
0101
January 28th, 2006, 02:03 PM
i cant be asked. from ur avvy pic, u look young anyways, i give you 10 years, u will change ur mind about alot of things,
I'm actually 19. Turning 20 this July. Yea I do look young. It has it's advantages and it's disadvantages.
0101
January 28th, 2006, 02:05 PM
When it comes down to desi guys, most of you will say she has to be a virgin but you guys are proud not to be a virgin ... how does that work I mean its okay for guys to do it but then it comes down to the girls you wanna marry, she has to be a virgin ... that's just SICK!!!
I never claimed I was not a virgin.
0101
January 28th, 2006, 02:05 PM
if your not a virgin yourself then you dont really have the right to marry a virgin
Did I mentioned anything about me being not a virgin?
0101
January 28th, 2006, 02:06 PM
Generally, you will NOT find your answers to these kind of questions over here.
with that said, circumstancially it'd have to be in this sense:
1--she was married previously and her husband died or she got divorced.
2--she was crazy beforehand but she changed her ways. the only thing would be then i wouldn't want to have kids.
-Z-
I wasn't aiming for perfection. Just gathering info from few.
Guddia
January 28th, 2006, 02:10 PM
[QUOTE=0101]I never claimed I was not a virgin.[/QUOTEi
I'M NOT TALKING ABOUT YOU BUT IN GENERAL...I PERSONALLY DON'T WANNA MARRY A GUY WHO IS NOT A VIRGIN. IF I'M SAVING ME SELF FOR THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE THEN I EXPECT THE SAME FROM HIM. NOT ONLY THAT WHEN WE DIE GOD IS GONNA CARE LESS IF YOUR A MEN/WOMEN, SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IS A SIN REGARDLESS IF YOUR A GUY OR A GIRL! SIN IS A SIN....
STYLE GOD
January 28th, 2006, 02:10 PM
I can't imagine being with anyone who is not a virgin....I had chances to go out with girls (mostly non desi) but I didn't simple because they were not a virgin. I guess it's just my strict rule that plan to follow through though my friends thinks that i'm deluding myself to find someone like that.
In these days, it's impossible in a way but that's how I find someone attarctive/unattarctive. In a mean spirited way, you can say that I don't want someone "used". Just wondering if you be with someone/marry someone who is virgin/not virgin. Or it won't matter.
Don't think too much about it. As long their souls asked for forgiveness to changed for the better. Never talk about your 'nasty' past because you want them to washed away... thats when you asked to removed your sins from the past. Just wake up tomorrow and let your eyelashes write a new day for ya.
bigbrother
January 28th, 2006, 02:12 PM
Did I mentioned anything about me being not a virgin?
okay keep your knickers on
0101
January 28th, 2006, 02:14 PM
[QUOTE=0101]I never claimed I was not a virgin.[/QUOTEi
I'M NOT TALKING ABOUT YOU BUT IN GENERAL...I PERSONALLY DON'T WANNA MARRY A GUY WHO IS NOT A VIRGIN. IF I'M SAVING ME SELF FOR THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE THEN I EXPECT THE SAME FROM HIM. NOT ONLY THAT WHEN WE DIE GOD IS GONNA CARE LESS IF YOUR A MEN/WOMEN, SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IS A SIN REGARDLESS IF YOUR A GUY OR A GIRL! SIN IS A SIN....
Let's practice safe typing by avoiding caps...makes it look like you're yelling. But yeeaaa, thanks for your input. That's a good path where both of you are in the same situation.
0101
January 28th, 2006, 02:17 PM
Don't think too much about it. As long their souls asked for forgiveness to changed for the better. Never talk about your 'nasty' past because you want them to washed away... thats when you asked to removed your sins from the past. Just wake up tomorrow and let your eyelashes write a new day for ya.
So far I'm afraid that's not possible...for me, ofcourse. You are a product of every action and decisions you have done in your past. Thanks for your input. I'm attracted to their innocence than her looks.
sexxichic2envy
January 28th, 2006, 02:21 PM
[QUOTE=0101]I never claimed I was not a virgin.[/QUOTEi
I'M NOT TALKING ABOUT YOU BUT IN GENERAL...I PERSONALLY DON'T WANNA MARRY A GUY WHO IS NOT A VIRGIN. IF I'M SAVING ME SELF FOR THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE THEN I EXPECT THE SAME FROM HIM. NOT ONLY THAT WHEN WE DIE GOD IS GONNA CARE LESS IF YOUR A MEN/WOMEN, SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IS A SIN REGARDLESS IF YOUR A GUY OR A GIRL! SIN IS A SIN....
95% of the world has sinned... :no:
times have changed sister...
before u waited till u were married b/c u were going to be with that person for the rest of ur life.. so that was set because u'd only have sex with ur husband..which isnt a sin... but nowadays with the divorce rate.. u cant exactly say that...
Im proud of ppl who maintain their virginity.. but u cant blame the ones who arent, either...
Human Nature...
0101
January 28th, 2006, 02:32 PM
When it comes down to desi guys, most of you will say she has to be a virgin but you guys are proud not to be a virgin ... how does that work I mean its okay for guys to do it but then it comes down to the girls you wanna marry, she has to be a virgin ... that's just SICK!!!
It's different for girls...she lose her innocence. Though you may say the same for a guy, it's still different in my sight. A girl do it out of of love while a guy can alter his emotion out of it. Ofcourse, this one don't apply to all girls but few.
Guddia
January 28th, 2006, 02:34 PM
95% of the world has sinned... :no:
times have changed sister...
before u waited till u were married b/c u were going to be with that person for the rest of ur life.. so that was set because u'd only have sex with ur husband..which isnt a sin... but nowadays with the divorce rate.. u cant exactly say that...
Im proud of ppl who maintain their virginity.. but u cant blame the ones who arent, either...
Human Nature...
Sweetheart keeping your pants on is not that hard ... trust me ... so I should just assume that since the divorce rate is so high... I should just have sex cuz I'm gonna get divorce most likely.... Sorry but that make's no sense at all.
sexxichic2envy
January 28th, 2006, 02:36 PM
Sweetheart keeping your pants on is not that hard ... trust me ... so I should just assume that since the divorce rate is so high... I should just have sex cuz I'm gonna get divorce most likely.... Sorry but that make's no sense at all.
haha u totallly misunderstood what i said...
I just said u shouldnt blame the ppl who have b/c not everyone has the same views...
I was stating my opinion on why there used to be more virgins back in the day..Marriage was more of a sure thing.. ppl were more certain that they'd spend the rest of their life with that ONE person..
I didnt say u should go fukk some guy just cuz the divorce rate is high..
Misinterpretation is a BItch aint it????
Anyways, i kno itz not hard keepin ur pants on.... I would know...
Guddia
January 28th, 2006, 02:42 PM
haha u totallly misunderstood what i said...
I just said u shouldnt blame the ppl who have b/c not everyone has the same views...
I was stating my opinion on why there used to be more virgins back in the day..Marriage was more of a sure thing.. ppl were more certain that they'd spend the rest of their life with that ONE person..
I didnt say u should go fukk some guy just cuz the divorce rate is high..
Misinterpretation is a BItch aint it????
Anyways, i kno itz not hard keepin ur pants on.... I would know...
lol, k now I see what ur saying ... and yea I agree!!! These days especially the young ones just don't care ... sex sex sex everywhere....
sexxichic2envy
January 28th, 2006, 02:44 PM
lol, k now I see what ur saying ... and yea I agree!!! These days especially the young ones just don't care ... sex sex sex everywhere....
yeahhh everywhere is right! even Bollywood is steppin it up and givin Hollywood a run for their money...
And lets not forget the music videos.. nothin but ass..thongs.. cleavage...
Sex sellz... and that's a fact...
Even some of these young ass girls on RD.. have u seen some of the pics?!
bigbrother
January 28th, 2006, 02:46 PM
yeahhh everywhere is right! even Bollywood is steppin it up and givin Hollywood a run for their money...
And lets not forget the music videos.. nothin but ass..thongs.. cleavage...
Sex sellz... and that's a fact...
Even some of these young ass girls on RD.. have u seen some of the pics?!
thats coz society is becomeing perverted
Guddia
January 28th, 2006, 02:49 PM
yeahhh everywhere is right! even Bollywood is steppin it up and givin Hollywood a run for their money...
And lets not forget the music videos.. nothin but ass..thongs.. cleavage...
Sex sellz... and that's a fact...
Even some of these young ass girls on RD.. have u seen some of the pics?!
I totally agree... bollywood is just trying to hard to be like Hollywood. There forgetting there culture, rituals and that were different ... and MTV I stop watching cuz its just getting crazy!!! then they wonder why the kids are doing what they are doing these days ... the TV is playing a major part ... and yes what's up with these RD girls ... they have no self respect...
sexxichic2envy
January 28th, 2006, 02:51 PM
thats coz society is becomeing perverted
sho iz son.. sho iz....
STYLE GOD
January 28th, 2006, 02:51 PM
So far I'm afraid that's not possible...for me, ofcourse. You are a product of every action and decisions you have done in your past. Thanks for your input. I'm attracted to their innocence than her looks.
Ay its all good.
As long you have your own POV depending in the atmosphere you are in,
then I would understand where you are coming from. Go with the flow, time will tell and let you know who may be the right person for you.
sexxichic2envy
January 28th, 2006, 02:53 PM
I totally agree... bollywood is just trying to hard to be like Hollywood. There forgetting there culture, rituals and that were different ... and MTV I stop watching cuz its just getting crazy!!! then they wonder why the kids are doing what they are doing these days ... the TV is playing a major part ... and yes what's up with these RD girls ... they have no self respect...
yea itz becomin a competition... n these actresses...woah.. no comment..
anyways, i just find it funny how desi uncles and aunties always talk about how goray are so slutty and have no self respect.. and desis have morals and values.. when not only did we create the kamasutra..but nowadaysz the desi scene has become sooo sexually active.. ive heard abt sex at desi parties in the bathroom..etc etc..crazii shyt..
Personally i think sex is overrated..
I cant really talk shyt tho cuz i openly talk abt sex..its not that big of a deal.. the only difference is.. i dont act upon it...
x_dhillon_x
January 28th, 2006, 02:57 PM
lol... virgin virgin virgin... i prefer a virgin... but i know i won't find 1... so i'm just giving up hope... its just sick how ppl fuck like 15 girls and want to find themselves an innocent girl... well i'm tryin to change myself to go have sex randomly too, so that if i didn't find a virgin girl to marry, i don't end up as a "40 yr old virgin"... lol
well how do u tell if a girl is a virgin or not? she could lie
sexxichic2envy
January 28th, 2006, 03:01 PM
lol... virgin virgin virgin... i prefer a virgin... but i know i won't find 1... so i'm just giving up hope... its just sick how ppl fuck like 15 girls and want to find themselves an innocent girl... well i'm tryin to change myself to go have sex randomly too, so that if i didn't find a virgin girl to marry, i don't end up as a "40 yr old virgin"... lol
well how do u tell if a girl is a virgin or not? she could lie
ahhahahaha!!
are u serious?? naww ur kiddin right?? Right???
umm... let's just put it this way.... if it goes in without too much effort she probably isnt.. and if there's blood and crying.. she probably is..
but then again the hymen can break with sports...
so:dunno: ur on ur own there buddy
arvy
January 28th, 2006, 03:03 PM
yea its hard to tell if she is a virgin but hey just block all that past shit out and look towards the future
x_dhillon_x
January 28th, 2006, 03:10 PM
ahhahahaha!!
are u serious?? naww ur kiddin right?? Right???
umm... let's just put it this way.... if it goes in without too much effort she probably isnt.. and if there's blood and crying.. she probably is..
but then again the hymen can break with sports...
so:dunno: ur on ur own there buddy
lol
so at the end i'll have to loose my virginity to find out if she a virgin or not... this thing is confusing me now.... i guess it all depends on luck and trust...
yea arvy - forget the past and look towards the future
but i don't want a slut either... lol... so i can't overlook that she had sex with more than 2-3 guys... can u?
PreciousPari
January 28th, 2006, 03:10 PM
Sure, as long as he wasn't a slut before marriage. I don't mind a virgin as long as he knows what hes doing and I dont mind a non-virgin as long as he does his job right.
raja2102
January 28th, 2006, 03:11 PM
If I really loved her... i would..
x_dhillon_x
January 28th, 2006, 03:16 PM
btw 0101... what if the girl said she was a virgin, and after marriage while ur havin sex and u find out shes not a virgin... or after u have done evrything she tells u tht she had sex with other guys before... what will u do?give her a divorce?
sexxichic2envy
January 28th, 2006, 03:29 PM
lol
so at the end i'll have to loose my virginity to find out if she a virgin or not... this thing is confusing me now.... i guess it all depends on luck and trust...
yea arvy - forget the past and look towards the future
but i don't want a slut either... lol... so i can't overlook that she had sex with more than 2-3 guys... can u?
even virgins can be sluts you know...
scenario : 1 girl (we'll call her gurl A ) has sex with 3 guys...she was in a serious relationship at one point in time or another with each of them...
another girl ( we'll call her girl B )is a virgin... but she gives head to 10 diff guys and lets each fondle her...
Who's the slut???
I'd say B -- no questionz asked...
QqQueen BbBee
January 28th, 2006, 03:44 PM
95% of the world has sinned... :no:
times have changed sister...
before u waited till u were married b/c u were going to be with that person for the rest of ur life.. so that was set because u'd only have sex with ur husband..which isnt a sin... but nowadays with the divorce rate.. u cant exactly say that...
Im proud of ppl who maintain their virginity.. but u cant blame the ones who arent, either...
Human Nature...
Not to mention that girls typically got married between 12 and 15... I don't know about ya'all but I was still a virgin @ 15 :giggle:... That's not too difficult.
Anyway... to answer this guy's question, I think it's really disgusting and shallow that men are so hung up over a lil piece of skin. Women obsess over it and do horrible things to their bodies to maintain this lil flap of skin just so you can push your pathetic little penis past it and make her bleed on your wedding night.
sexxichic2envy
January 28th, 2006, 03:49 PM
Not to mention that girls typically got married between 12 and 15... I don't know about ya'all but I was still a virgin @ 15 :giggle:... That's not too difficult.
Anyway... to answer this guy's question, I think it's really disgusting and shallow that men are so hung up over a lil piece of skin. Women obsess over it and do horrible things to their bodies to maintain this lil flap of skin just so you can push your pathetic little penis past it and make her bleed on your wedding night.
:roflbow:
i think i love you!!!!!!
x_dhillon_x
January 28th, 2006, 03:50 PM
even virgins can be sluts you know...
scenario : 1 girl (we'll call her gurl A ) has sex with 3 guys...she was in a serious relationship at one point in time or another with each of them...
another girl ( we'll call her girl B )is a virgin... but she gives head to 10 diff guys and lets each fondle her...
Who's the slut???
I'd say B -- no questionz asked...
B makes me :Puke:
well if shes in love with some1, and had sex with him thts different... and if i love her i'll ignore tht fact too...
randomly picking any guy and having sex with them... :no:
this goes to some of u girls, how the fuck do some of u girls like suckin on a dick?... its just gross...
sexxichic2envy
January 28th, 2006, 03:57 PM
B makes me :Puke:
well if shes in love with some1, and had sex with him thts different... and if i love her i'll ignore tht fact too...
randomly picking any guy and having sex with them... :no:
this goes to some of u girls, how the fuck do some of u girls like suckin on a dick?... its just gross...
:rofl: dhillon... o silly lil dhillon...
i dunno if all of em like it.. some of em might do it to please their man..
You know..Takin care of binezz...lol
Anywaysz, i dont think if a girl has sex with a guy who she's not in love with..that makes him a random guy..or makes her a slut..
like i said..different views, different opinions...
QqQueen BbBee
January 28th, 2006, 04:05 PM
:roflbow:
i think i love you!!!!!!
i think i love yoU!!!! that thing about a girl who slept with guys she loved versus some girl who gave head... so true and that's a point i always try to get across to these assholes. :D
sexxichic2envy
January 28th, 2006, 04:08 PM
i think i love yoU!!!! that thing about a girl who slept with guys she loved versus some girl who gave head... so true and that's a point i always try to get across to these assholes. :D
haha... well u know how men are.. what they do is justified...what women do is slutty.... YET they wont give the time of day to a Prude...
they confuse the shyt outta me... !!!!
x_dhillon_x
January 28th, 2006, 04:10 PM
:rofl: dhillon... o silly lil dhillon...
i dunno if all of em like it.. some of em might do it to please their man..
You know..Takin care of binezz...lol
Anywaysz, i dont think if a girl has sex with a guy who she's not in love with..that makes him a random guy..or makes her a slut..
like i said..different views, different opinions...
lol... so educate them bitches tht "it is NOT HYGENIC to suck a dick"... they have something else to satisfy a guy... something better
having sex randomly with like 4 guys or more what would you call that (in your opinion)?
sexxichic2envy
January 28th, 2006, 04:16 PM
lol... so educate them bitches tht "it is NOT HYGENIC to suck a dick"... they have something else to satisfy a guy... something better
having sex randomly with like 4 guys or more what would you call that (in your opinion)?
random means ur not in a relationship...Random means random ...and with 4..i'd say it has slut potential...
But havin sex with 4 diff ones at diff times..all of whom u've dated for awhile..not slutty...NORMAL
x_dhillon_x
January 28th, 2006, 04:21 PM
random means ur not in a relationship...Random means random ...and with 4..i'd say it has slut potential...
But havin sex with 4 diff ones at diff times..all of whom u've dated for awhile..not slutty...NORMAL
btw, r u a punjaban?
Sikh4Lyfe
January 28th, 2006, 04:31 PM
So basically, let me get this straight. You don't get care about her personality, if she's a good person, if she is a cook cook, wife, and attractive..all you care about is if her hymen is broken or not? wtf does that have to do with innocence, a person can have a loss of innocence at age five it just has to do with how much you "know' about the world, knowledge rather then a fucking broken hymen. dude just because you can't get any action doesn't mean you have to create impossible prerequisites for your future "wife," which will probably be a fob, dude your not even good looking or anything so you should be happy even if a transvestite wanted to marry you, nobody else would give you the time ofday.
You're such a cutie.
smartndecent
January 28th, 2006, 04:33 PM
I can't imagine being with anyone who is not a virgin....I had chances to go out with girls (mostly non desi) but I didn't simple because they were not a virgin. I guess it's just my strict rule that plan to follow through though my friends thinks that i'm deluding myself to find someone like that.
In these days, it's impossible in a way but that's how I find someone attarctive/unattarctive. In a mean spirited way, you can say that I don't want someone "used". Just wondering if you be with someone/marry someone who is virgin/not virgin. Or it won't matter?
I'm attracted to her innocence than her looks.
dude world is too big and u will not be the only person who will come in contact with the girl u marry.now a days ppl do get involved in relations and most of we desi get too much involved in it and ppl do cross sex limitations but they do it because they trust each other and not for having just fun.
but realities of life come accross a person when he grows up a little bit so i dont think any1 should be blamed if he/she is not virgin.
Roshii
January 28th, 2006, 04:33 PM
I can't imagine being with anyone who is not a virgin....I had chances to go out with girls (mostly non desi) but I didn't simple because they were not a virgin. I guess it's just my strict rule that plan to follow through though my friends thinks that i'm deluding myself to find someone like that.
In these days, it's impossible in a way but that's how I find someone attarctive/unattarctive. In a mean spirited way, you can say that I don't want someone "used". Just wondering if you be with someone/marry someone who is virgin/not virgin. Or it won't matter?
I'm attracted to her innocence than her looks.
i'm a virgin
and i want to be a virgin bride -
plus im a good virgin - if u know what i mean
i dont mind marrying a noon virgin - experience is good but deep down i want him to have been only mine...
**bambina**
January 28th, 2006, 04:33 PM
So basically, let me get this straight. You don't get care about her personality, if she's a good person, if she is a cook cook, wife, and attractive..all you care about is if her hymen is broken or not? wtf does that have to do with innocence, a person can have a loss of innocence at age five it just has to do with how much you "know' about the world, knowledge rather then a fucking broken hymen. dude just because you can't get any action doesn't mean you have to create impossible prerequisites for your future "wife," which will probably be a fob, dude your not even good looking or anything so you should be happy even if a transvestite wanted to marry you, nobody else would give you the time ofday.
you go girl/guy!!! (sorry i dont know ur sex :ashamed: )
sexxichic2envy
January 28th, 2006, 04:40 PM
btw, r u a punjaban?
haanji....
and proud, too!!!
oye hoye ni kuriya punjab diyan...!!!! :dance3:
musicchic33
January 28th, 2006, 04:43 PM
I'd marry someone even if he wasn't a virgin..for some reason I'd actually prefer if he wasn't.. :neutral: but that's just me..'
oh and I'm a virgin :angel: if that makes any difference
sexxichic2envy
January 28th, 2006, 05:09 PM
I'd marry someone even if he wasn't a virgin..for some reason I'd actually prefer if he wasn't.. :neutral: but that's just me..'
oh and I'm a virgin :angel: if that makes any difference
dun feel odd ... i preferred a non virgin, too... :)
sarkar_jot
January 28th, 2006, 05:21 PM
I can't imagine being with anyone who is not a virgin....I had chances to go out with girls (mostly non desi) but I didn't simple because they were not a virgin. I guess it's just my strict rule that plan to follow through though my friends thinks that i'm deluding myself to find someone like that.
In these days, it's impossible in a way but that's how I find someone attarctive/unattarctive. In a mean spirited way, you can say that I don't want someone "used". Just wondering if you be with someone/marry someone who is virgin/not virgin. Or it won't matter?
I'm attracted to her innocence than her looks.
Idiot.
Have fun being single all ur life.
0101
January 28th, 2006, 05:22 PM
So basically, let me get this straight. You don't get care about her personality, if she's a good person, if she is a cook cook, wife, and attractive..all you care about is if her hymen is broken or not? wtf does that have to do with innocence, a person can have a loss of innocence at age five it just has to do with how much you "know' about the world, knowledge rather then a fucking broken hymen. dude just because you can't get any action doesn't mean you have to create impossible prerequisites for your future "wife," which will probably be a fob, dude your not even good looking or anything so you should be happy even if a transvestite wanted to marry you, nobody else would give you the time ofday.
if you ask anyone what they look, they do say personality...so it's a given. I'm on a strict rule here like I said. I'm sure time goes, my opinions and views may change. Everyone has their own customs and regulations. Just like the Eskimo men offers their wife to guests and friends as part of hospitaliy. And as for my look, I think you have no right to judge unless I see a pic of you. I'm sure there's a reason why you have not added one....Also I told you that I do have girls who like me...it's my choice...if you're gonna post something, just be mature enough and answer it clearly.
0101
January 28th, 2006, 05:23 PM
Idiot.
Have fun being single all ur life.
what a great argument..I do have a girl who like me who's a vigin whom I met in college...she's russian (I prefer white anyway..she do kinda somwaht look desi...black hair resembles kinda)...but that's what got me thinking about this thread.
asianukgyal2
January 28th, 2006, 05:24 PM
It doesnt matter whether a woman is a virgin or not because you should be marrying her for who she is now, not for the past! But to be fair thats like a white mans way of thinking things.......
asianukgyal2
January 28th, 2006, 05:25 PM
Babe i know how ur feeling but trust as u grow older youll realise.
STYLE GOD
January 28th, 2006, 05:27 PM
It doesnt matter whether a woman is a virgin or not because you should be marrying her for who she is now, not for the past! But to be fair thats like a white mans way of thinking things.......
There you go.
Bury the past and accept for the person who he/she is now.
People do changed for the better, its not like they will be the same forever since we all learn something new and practical everyday.
0101
January 28th, 2006, 05:31 PM
oh and I'm a virgin :angel: if that makes any difference
In my world, it makes difference. Then again in my world nothing goes wrong.
The Anti Desi
January 28th, 2006, 05:33 PM
The exception is made for those who were divorced/widowed.
I need a women who guarded her modest and chastity.
0101
January 28th, 2006, 05:43 PM
btw 0101... what if the girl said she was a virgin, and after marriage while ur havin sex and u find out shes not a virgin... or after u have done evrything she tells u tht she had sex with other guys before... what will u do?give her a divorce?
If that happens, I will remember this thread and your username.
Fade_To_Black
January 28th, 2006, 05:49 PM
no, I dont' marry used goods
goofy_phoofy
January 28th, 2006, 05:56 PM
i dont care :dunno: its a big issue for me to be, for myself, but if the guy is or not , is part of his past, and cant blame him for that :dunno: it wud be good if one of us knew what to do though :rofl:
Sikh4Lyfe
January 28th, 2006, 05:57 PM
i dont care :dunno: its a big issue for me to be, for myself, but if the guy is or not , is part of his past, and cant blame him for that :dunno:
You're a good kid.
goofy_phoofy
January 28th, 2006, 05:58 PM
You're a good kid.
lol cuz i realize guys cant control their lil soldier for long ? :p
paulie walnuts
January 28th, 2006, 06:00 PM
these types of threads are great. it makes it easier to separate the whores from the sluts.
Sikh4Lyfe
January 28th, 2006, 06:00 PM
lol cuz i realize guys cant control their lil soldier for long ? :p
Pretty much. You'll get far in life.
I notice that its the ugly, fat, fobtastic bitches that want a virgin man.
Rishi_TEX
January 28th, 2006, 06:02 PM
i dont care :dunno: its a big issue for me to be, for myself, but if the guy is or not , is part of his past, and cant blame him for that :dunno: it wud be good if one of us knew what to do though :rofl:
i love you already.
Rishi_TEX
January 28th, 2006, 06:03 PM
i hate those technical virgins over virgins...
shafmiah
January 28th, 2006, 06:16 PM
I can't imagine being with anyone who is not a virgin....I had chances to go out with girls (mostly non desi) but I didn't simple because they were not a virgin. I guess it's just my strict rule that plan to follow through though my friends thinks that i'm deluding myself to find someone like that.
In these days, it's impossible in a way but that's how I find someone attarctive/unattarctive. In a mean spirited way, you can say that I don't want someone "used". Just wondering if you be with someone/marry someone who is virgin/not virgin. Or it won't matter?
I'm attracted to her innocence than her looks.
Bruv dont listen to these peeps u got sumin good goin for you, dun fuck it up cus some peeps cunt keep ther dicks in there pants ans sum chiks cunt keep there cherry un popped, there are some many "unused" as u would say women out there. If she lies to u then its up2 u to decide if you want her or not as its such a big issue to u.
BIG UP DA VIRGIN BROVA!
goofy_phoofy
January 28th, 2006, 06:17 PM
i hate those technical virgins over virgins...
:sarb: theres different forms of virgins :o
x_dhillon_x
January 28th, 2006, 06:17 PM
If that happens, I will remember this thread and your username.
i hope it never happens, and that u find what u r looking for... :)
0101
January 28th, 2006, 06:22 PM
Bruv dont listen to these peeps u got sumin good goin for you, dun fuck it up cus some peeps cunt keep ther dicks in there pants ans sum chiks cunt keep there cherry un popped, there are some many "unused" as u would say women out there. If she lies to u then its up2 u to decide if you want her or not as its such a big issue to u.
BIG UP DA VIRGIN BROVA!
Thanks for the input :). Please have a beer as my appreciation. :tjseema:
0101
January 28th, 2006, 06:23 PM
i hope it never happens, and that u find what u r looking for... :)
I have a slight idea that you wanted that to happen...you did mentioned it first...party poooper.
imdaman99
January 28th, 2006, 06:24 PM
right now, im gettin desperate i aint picky. gimme one that can walk on 2 legs :p
0101
January 28th, 2006, 06:25 PM
I notice that its the ugly, fat, fobtastic bitches that want a virgin man.
Not really...I know some good looking virgins (non desi) who's in college....some religious people wait too.
goofy_phoofy
January 28th, 2006, 06:25 PM
right now, im gettin desperate i aint picky. gimme one that can walk on 2 legs :p
:roflbow: YEH IVE NOTICED THT :neutral:
0101
January 28th, 2006, 06:26 PM
right now, im gettin desperate i aint picky. gimme one that can walk on 2 legs :p
You fuck anything that walks......remind me to never invite you to my house...I have 3 parrots.
Rishi_TEX
January 28th, 2006, 06:26 PM
:sarb: theres different forms of virgins :o
one who does everything but intercourse on purpose just to use it as a weapon against her future hubby. i hate those bitches.
imdaman99
January 28th, 2006, 06:26 PM
:roflbow: YEH IVE NOTICED THT :neutral:
oh and another thing, she cant be a crackhead :kekeke:
lovestick
January 28th, 2006, 06:42 PM
I like how threads like this invariably bring out RD's slutty girl demographic, in what evitably turns in to a battle of cliched one-upmanship against the plethora of naive and repressed guys that this site has a unique ability to attract.
ahh, RD. carry on.
goofy_phoofy
January 28th, 2006, 06:51 PM
You fuck anything that walks......remind me to never invite you to my house...I have 3 parrots.
hahahahahah assad got owned
goofy_phoofy
January 28th, 2006, 06:52 PM
one who does everything but intercourse on purpose just to use it as a weapon against her future hubby. i hate those bitches.
u mean the ones who fools themselves as well as others, yeah aint my cup of tea either :rolleyes:
Canadian_jatti
January 28th, 2006, 06:53 PM
omg i feel exaclty like u feel and yeah its so hard to find like good virgin ppl to be wit and ders no way i'd marry a non virgin but dating its ok
0101
January 28th, 2006, 07:02 PM
I like how threads like this invariably bring out RD's slutty girl demographic, in what evitably turns in to a battle of cliched one-upmanship against the plethora of naive and repressed guys that this site has a unique ability to attract.
ahh, RD. carry on.
.....yeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa :eekwtf:
x_dhillon_x
January 28th, 2006, 07:12 PM
one who does everything but intercourse on purpose just to use it as a weapon against her future hubby. i hate those bitches.
and a bitch will remain a bitch... never expect her to change...
MuSkAaN~786
January 28th, 2006, 07:23 PM
I can't imagine being with anyone who is not a virgin....I had chances to go out with girls (mostly non desi) but I didn't simple because they were not a virgin. I guess it's just my strict rule that plan to follow through though my friends thinks that i'm deluding myself to find someone like that.
In these days, it's impossible in a way but that's how I find someone attarctive/unattarctive. In a mean spirited way, you can say that I don't want someone "used". Just wondering if you be with someone/marry someone who is virgin/not virgin. Or it won't matter?
I'm attracted to her innocence than her looks.
i agree with wat u'r sayin. i sort of get where everyone else is comin from...abt the past being the past and all that...but personally, i'd prefer a virgin too. some pplz have sex in every relationship they get involved in, but to me thats not rite. i dun really care abt wat other pplz do. their lives arent for me to judge but i juss wouldnt do that. i'd rather wait for the right one to come in my life and then... otherwise, i wouldnt feel pure myself. and besides, patience has its rewards.
MuSkAaN~786
January 28th, 2006, 07:24 PM
omg i feel exaclty like u feel and yeah its so hard to find like good virgin ppl to be wit and ders no way i'd marry a non virgin but dating its ok
whew..so i'm not the only girl who feels that way =)
0101
January 28th, 2006, 07:34 PM
LOL wtf is up with that eskimo allusion that you pulled out of your ass to justify yourself. Yes, the eskimo tradition is both "correct" and practiced today, and because its "tradition" it should be tolerated and accepted! (do you even know wtf an eskimo is.) That is so fucking random, and MATURE!! I find that hard to believe that GIRLS like you, based on your avator picture, I mean wtf is up with that picture, it looks like your a fucking catholic school boy on your knees looking up at the priests dick, your eyes intently staring with your lips pressed together awaiting that big juicy dick to come towards you. that's definitly a picture to get the ladies.
Wow...I find it amusing that few of my words can actually anger you like this....oh yes, you talk to me about maturity, yet all you judged was my pic. Where is YOUR pic? The server rejected? Why would you keep talking about someone else looks when I asked you a legitimate question regarding someone's opinion towards marriage? ...did you obviously had bad experiences with boy/girl? Probably did...if you did, go write a song or something. I mean it was a simple question....That Eskimo example I gave you is to show you that SOME people have different moral values that other people may find it very difficult to believe....PLEASE...SAVE YOURSELF SOME MORE EMBARRASSMENT AND READ THE POST MORE CAREFULLY....Post a pic before you bash someone...
jigga man23
January 28th, 2006, 07:36 PM
If you keep your self pure you can than ask for your significant other to be the same...
SlitWristTheory
February 1st, 2006, 09:29 PM
well it's hard to find a guy who's not a virgin these days.
& If these bastards want a virgin when they want to get married after they've had all the fun, I hope they are miserable.
Why do these whore mongers get to have all the fun....????
Sexist motherfuckers, society is full of.
Bullshit I must say.
:rolleyes:
Xo_neha_Xo
February 1st, 2006, 09:35 PM
virgin all the way. i wanna lose my virginity to a guy that's a virgin
Xo_neha_Xo
February 1st, 2006, 09:36 PM
well it's hard to find a guy who's not a virgin these days.
& If these bastards want a virgin when they want to get married after they've had all the fun, I hope they are miserable.
Why do these whore mongers get to have all the fun....????
Sexist motherfuckers, society is full of.
Bullshit I must say.
:rolleyes:
i agree.
SlitWristTheory
February 1st, 2006, 09:38 PM
virgin all the way. i wanna lose my virginity to a guy that's a virgin
Same here!
I want my man to be Whore Rabie Free.
Xo_neha_Xo
February 1st, 2006, 09:40 PM
Same here!
I want my man to be Whore Rabie Free.
yup i agree
jassika
January 19th, 2008, 07:50 PM
if your not a virgin yourself then you dont really have the right to marry a virgin
thats not always true
jassika
January 19th, 2008, 07:56 PM
I'd marry someone even if he wasn't a virgin..for some reason I'd actually prefer if he wasn't.. :neutral: but that's just me..'
oh and I'm a virgin :angel: if that makes any difference
me too. i think it might be cause we want them to have some guilt like that so ur the more innocent one & also just want the guy to be a lil experienced not jus a geek.
KurtaPyjama
January 19th, 2008, 08:11 PM
"my name is jassika and i like to bump threads that are so old that 'I DIL<3 U' was still known by 'xo_neha_xo'."
jassika
January 19th, 2008, 08:13 PM
"my name is jassika and i like to bump threads that are so old that 'I DIL<3 U' was still known by 'xo_neha_xo'."
better to bump than repost what issue relates to u at the moment :P
kucchnahi
January 19th, 2008, 08:14 PM
I can't imagine being with anyone who is not a virgin....I had chances to go out with girls (mostly non desi) but I didn't simple because they were not a virgin. I guess it's just my strict rule that plan to follow through though my friends thinks that i'm deluding myself to find someone like that.
In these days, it's impossible in a way but that's how I find someone attarctive/unattarctive. In a mean spirited way, you can say that I don't want someone "used". Just wondering if you be with someone/marry someone who is virgin/not virgin. Or it won't matter?
I'm attracted to her innocence than her looks.
No, hopefully, I would marry a chaste person because I wouldn't be religiously or personally comfortable with the alternative.
0101
January 19th, 2008, 08:54 PM
No, hopefully, I would marry a chaste person because I wouldn't be religiously or personally comfortable with the alternative.
wtf man?? I posted this years ago
I no longer share the same view.
fuck you for bumping this thread ;p
0101
January 19th, 2008, 08:56 PM
better to bump than repost what issue relates to u at the moment :P
Ya fuck you dumb whore
:neutral:
RacingSoul
January 19th, 2008, 08:59 PM
i'll use my magical, mystical indian kamasutra powers to bring her back to the virgin islands.
sweetest_sin
January 19th, 2008, 09:00 PM
i'll use my magical, mystical indian kamasutra powers to bring her back to the virgin islands.
:eyebrow:
RacingSoul
January 19th, 2008, 09:01 PM
:eyebrow:
hey behbeyy..vaat u talking? :naughty:
kucchnahi
January 19th, 2008, 09:01 PM
wtf man?? I posted this years ago
I no longer share the same view.
fuck you for bumping this thread ;p
Lol. I didn't bump this thread and didn't even see the date. I just posted my opinion because I thought someone on RD posted this question.
0101
January 19th, 2008, 09:02 PM
Lol. I didn't bump this thread and didn't even see the date. I just posted my opinion because I thought someone on RD posted this question.
heh it's ok..ya it's dumb bitch jessika who bumped this thread.. I posted this like years ago when I joined just to see RD opinions
..ah memories :rolleyes:
kucchnahi
January 19th, 2008, 09:03 PM
heh it's ok..ya it's dumb bitch jessika who bumped this thread.. I posted this like years ago when I joined just to see RD opinions
..ah memories :rolleyes:
It's okay. :)
sweetest_sin
January 19th, 2008, 09:07 PM
hey behbeyy..vaat u talking? :naughty:
nothing just talking to my brother.
he's getting me spice girls tickets :dance: :dance:
how have you been mister?
RacingSoul
January 19th, 2008, 09:09 PM
nothing just talking to my brother.
he's getting me spice girls tickets :dance: :dance:
how have you been mister?
i went clubbing last night and kissed a random chick...i'm such a 'playa'.
well, actually..it was my ex-gf...and she was drunk.
PinkPowerRanger
January 19th, 2008, 09:11 PM
doesnt matter for me. his numbers should be in the single digits though :ugh:
narcissus.echo
January 19th, 2008, 09:16 PM
why would anyone ever wanna marry
EwLookItsYou
January 19th, 2008, 09:45 PM
LMAO the fuck... 2006?
jassika
January 19th, 2008, 09:56 PM
LMAO the fuck... 2006?
why does the date matter? does this issue completely cease to exist now?
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