Would you dump your girlfriend if she didnt put out? [Archive]

Canadian_jatti

January 16th, 2006, 10:24 PM

um speaking from the girls perspective if thats youre only reason for dumping then her then thats MAD immature.
omg that happened to me this weekend u guys are pathetic like seriously i mean we had jus datin for like 3 months but yeah i'm still really mad if thas all u want that dunt hook up with a decent gurl becuz she doesn't deserve it aight and DONT say it doesnt matter in the beginning and then 3 months later make a big deal outa it grow up!

CrazyJoker

January 16th, 2006, 10:28 PM

every girl puts out for me

so this dont apply to me

sorry

alphaPAKI

January 16th, 2006, 10:32 PM

Even after like a year of dating?
id just keep her on the side and go somewhere else to get off, or id just watch her and jerk on her while shes sleeping, its all about creativity and resourcefulness

CrazyJoker

January 16th, 2006, 10:34 PM

id just keep her on the side and go somewhere else to get off, or id just watch her and jerk on her while shes sleeping, its all about creativity and resourcefulness

lmao
would u cum in her eye so when she wakes up
she cant open her eyes
LMAO!!

alphaPAKI

January 16th, 2006, 10:38 PM

lmao
would u cum in her eye so when she wakes up
she cant open her eyes
LMAO!!
thatd actually work pretty good cause then she could just think she has pinkeye or an eye infection, if shes a drooler then on her cheeks wouldnt be too obvious either since she'd just shrug it off as crusty drool, under her armpits she'll blame it on old deodorant, and many more

CrazyJoker

January 16th, 2006, 10:39 PM

thatd actually work pretty good cause then she could just think she has pinkeye or an eye infection, if shes a drooler then on her cheeks wouldnt be too obvious either since she'd just shrug it off as crusty drool, under her armpits she'll blame it on old deodorant, and many more

lol
hmm i should try that lol

gotu

January 16th, 2006, 10:48 PM

Even after like a year of dating?
thats pretty fucked up bro.She should get rid of your ass.

AFGHAN_ZMARAI

January 16th, 2006, 10:55 PM

Even after like a year of dating?

Well if you really cared about your girlfriend why would you want to make her do a sin. Allah(swt) is ONLY merciful to those who Fear Him. So why would you want God's wrath upon her for some trivial socially motivated indulgence.

on top of that why would you have a girlfriend in the first place if you believe in Allah(swt) and KNOW Allah(swt) watches all that you do.

F.H.

January 16th, 2006, 11:00 PM

the minute a girl says I wannna stay virgin till marriage .... I'm gone.

I'm sorry but waiting 5-10 more years isn't really something I look forward to.

Well if you really cared about your girlfriend why would you want to make her do a sin. Allah(swt) is ONLY merciful to those who Fear Him. So why would you want God's wrath upon her for some trivial socially motivated indulgence.

on top of that why would you have a girlfriend in the first place if you believe in Allah(swt) and KNOW Allah(swt) watches all that you do.

I'm pretty sure he ain't all that religious.

Felonius Monk

January 16th, 2006, 11:39 PM

um speaking from the girls perspective if thats youre only reason for dumping then her then thats MAD immature.
Thankfully, not all women think like this. A year is a long time... I dont see why its immature to want sex

hey_jay37

January 17th, 2006, 12:21 AM

Even after like a year of dating?

most definatly. thats fuckin bullshit. i give her 2 months at MOST to put out.

hey_jay37

January 17th, 2006, 12:24 AM

Well if you really cared about your girlfriend why would you want to make her do a sin. Allah(swt) is ONLY merciful to those who Fear Him. So why would you want God's wrath upon her for some trivial socially motivated indulgence.

on top of that why would you have a girlfriend in the first place if you believe in Allah(swt) and KNOW Allah(swt) watches all that you do.

please, the last thing the forums needs is a preacher. its fine to be religious if it makes you happy, but keep your views to yourself. other people dont have to share your perspectives.

xxjessxx

January 17th, 2006, 02:24 AM

Thankfully, not all women think like this. A year is a long time... I dont see why its immature to want sex

well its just my opinion. if the girl is amazing in every other way, just because she wont have sex with you isnt a good reason to leave her. chances are you'll regret it later.

princeofkolkata

January 17th, 2006, 03:30 AM

wtf after a one whole yr? wats wrong wid you/her? :neutral:

dandiwal_jatt

January 17th, 2006, 03:39 AM

i will be a virgin till i marry!

gabroo_shakeen

January 17th, 2006, 03:48 AM

Haven't really thought about this before, but it all depends what kind of relationship u want basically. If you are all played out and ready to for somethin serious then then no point. If you're in it for the action then obviously.

LostinHollywood

January 17th, 2006, 03:55 AM

id just keep her on the side and go somewhere else to get off, or id just watch her and jerk on her while shes sleeping, its all about creativity and resourcefulness
HAHAHA

Felonius Monk

January 17th, 2006, 04:01 AM

well its just my opinion. if the girl is amazing in every other way, just because she wont have sex with you isnt a good reason to leave her. chances are you'll regret it later.
Of course I'd feel bad. But it's like when say, a woman breaks up with a guy because he doesn't want to get married for another 5 years. Its just a matter of not wanting the same things.

Its annoying when women say wanting sex is immature. Sex is a big part of any normal healthy relationship between two adults.

PS: I have no clue how old you are. If you're like 16 or something, I understand you point.

~GuJu PriNceSs~

January 17th, 2006, 01:37 PM

omg that happened to me this weekend u guys are pathetic like seriously i mean we had jus datin for like 3 months but yeah i'm still really mad if thas all u want that dunt hook up with a decent gurl becuz she doesn't deserve it aight and DONT say it doesnt matter in the beginning and then 3 months later make a big deal outa it grow up!
*sigh* happened to me too. :no: it's really sad....he broke it off cause he waz like dis isn't gonna wk out cause i need sex and if we don't i'll prob cheat on u wit someother girl. wtf. :neutral: is ur guys need fo sex fo important than anythin else. :no: i give props to him fo bein honest but really stupid reason.

Space-Cowboy

January 17th, 2006, 09:15 PM

Even after like a year of dating?

Many of the posters above are talking out of their asses [many, not all]... None of us can comment on your situation until you go into greater detail about your relationship. So, if you want an honest, detailed answer, you're going to have to go indepth into the nature of this relationship. What you want out of it, what she wanted out of it when you two started going out. What she wants out of it now. Your religious/moral standings [both of yours]. Etc.

BigPimpN

January 17th, 2006, 09:27 PM

Many of the posters above are talking out of their asses [many, not all]... None of us can comment on your situation until you go into greater detail about your relationship. So, if you want an honest, detailed answer, you're going to have to go indepth into the nature of this relationship. What you want out of it, what she wanted out of it when you two started going out. What she wants out of it now. Your religious/moral standings [both of yours]. Etc.

lol it was a hypothetical scenario.

FiStiK

January 17th, 2006, 09:51 PM

Even after like a year of dating?

Why go through the bother of actually having to talk to the girl and listen to what she has to say, or share jokes together, or be friends?

I'd say that you save your pennies, empty out the pig and splurge for a good old fashioned whore. You should make it like a once a week ritual, or once a month, depending on how much you can afford.

Space-Cowboy

January 17th, 2006, 09:54 PM

lol it was a hypothetical scenario.

Ah, I see.... well it's still hypothetical.... Any general answer that you get would be .... inaccurate to say the least. These kinds of things have to be determined on a case by case basis.

4mDubai

January 25th, 2006, 09:09 AM

Even after like a year of dating?

first it's not just sex alone that makes a girl worthy, substance counts much more than that.

Having said that i don't see a good relationship going anywhere if it doesn't have sex in it too. And if she ain't putting up afte a year then either she's wrong or you're a 'lalloo'

Ugly_thang

January 25th, 2006, 09:19 AM

Even after like a year of dating?

well, i think it depends on how SERIOUS are u w/ her? .. I mean, think positively, she could be a wifey material. :dunno:

lazy_eyes

January 30th, 2006, 11:04 AM

well, i think it depends on how SERIOUS are u w/ her? .. I mean, think positively, she could be a wifey material. :dunno:

i don't think anyone wants to marry someone dat has no Sex drive
either way sex is a very important part of a relationship

Guys that wait for a gurl for more than 1 year to have sex prolly gay or have no hormones which is not attractive at all

Nights

January 30th, 2006, 01:13 PM

Hey when I was a wee boy, well 17, I was cheated on by a girl because I wouldn't have sex with her and she was going crazy about it. So I learned the hard way that its a pretty shallow thing to do, dumping them if they wont do it with you. Every person in the relationship (I'm conscious sometimes there's more than two :rolleyes: ) should have the right to make their choice, not be bullied into it. Plus, usually the guy makes it out its not a problem then 3 months later he finds out it is! So its a bit dishonest.

But on the other hand, its more dishonest to stay in an unhappy relationship. And I definately agree with an earlier poster that wanting sex isn't immature, its part of a natural, healthy and fulfilling relationship. Denying the importance of sex is immature-- usually only done by virgins, or God-bashers.

Sex is a component of a relationship, not the thing itself. But, man, I would find it hard to be with some hot girl for 1 year and still be messing about with hands... well, unless she was ugly, then it would suit me just fine, LOL :D

LadyKilla1

January 30th, 2006, 10:18 PM

id say it depands on u .. if u relly think if its worth the wait an also on the girl ..
if u ask how .. id have to say that there is some trust issue .. in ther .. but there are few rare ones who .. actully wana wait til they get married .. sadly for them .. some good guy might come around .. but .. she aint willing to put up .. an vamoos hiz gone.. imm getting to much in to it

GoddessOfLove720

January 31st, 2006, 11:32 AM

Even after like a year of dating?

if u liked her not just 4 her body, then u shud respect her enuf 2 give her time, 4 wen she's ready. besides, wen she is ready, wudnt it b worth da wait 4 u? if u want her 2 give in, how do u no she didnt w/ her bf's b4? i think u shud b happy w/ a virtuous girl; such girls r rare nowadays.