I have a question..serious one...all joking aside

[DesiPrince005]

Okay, say that you were out with a group of friends and it was about 3 or 4 of you...well basically they took you out because they wanted to set u up with someone..so its a blind date...
u finally meet the girl (or guy) and you two go on and have dinner together

the girl (or guy) seems very disappointed after meeting you and doesnt seem like they even want to have dinner...ur sad now because u feel like the situation is hopeless....

after 45 mins of so...u and the girl (or guy) are having a blast at dinner and seem to have alot in common...she/he did a complete 180 and seems totally interested in you
however..ur still crushed because u feel like from her/his first impression she/he was disappointed about u..so u tell them how u feel and that ur not comfortable going out again
however..not this person calls u and persist that they made a mistake and really wants to get to know you..but u really dont want to go on ahead because u feel that this person should be with someone who they completely adore...and u feel that the disappointment they shown earlier was their true feelings...and u want them to be truly attracted and adore who they are with
what do u do???

[illomatic]

Okay, say that you were out with a group of friends and it was about 3 or 4 of you...well basically they took you out because they wanted to set u up with someone..so its a blind date...
u finally meet the girl (or guy) and you two go on and have dinner together

the girl (or guy) seems very disappointed after meeting you and doesnt seem like they even want to have dinner...ur sad now because u feel like the situation is hopeless....

after 45 mins of so...u and the girl (or guy) are having a blast at dinner and seem to have alot in common...she/he did a complete 180 and seems totally interested in you
however..ur still crushed because u feel like from her/his first impression she/he was disappointed about u..so u tell them how u feel and that ur not comfortable going out again
however..not this person calls u and persist that they made a mistake and really wants to get to know you..but u really dont want to go on ahead because u feel that this person should be with someone who they completely adore...and u feel that the disappointment they shown earlier was their true feelings...and u want them to be truly attracted and adore who they are with
what do u do???
whatever, she prolly saw u were a good person.

fuck her and leave her.
show her she was wrong

[Pardesi_bhai]

whatever, she prolly saw u were a good person.

fuck her and leave her.
show her she was wrong
words of wisdom from Dr. Phil :D

[poetichustla]

nut in her hair...and walk out.

[DesiPrince005]

whatever, she prolly saw u were a good person.

fuck her and leave her.
show her she was wrong


nooo...im not doing that!
im not an evil person

she has a right to choose who she likes

and honestly...i feel more comfortable if she with someone she likes inner/outer

i mean..she was sooooo disappointed..at first she kept trying to find everything wrong with what i was saying

but i dont want her to settle for me either..if thats not what she wants

i want to be with someone who likes me for everything im worth too, u know?

[jaan5226]

Okay, say that you were out with a group of friends and it was about 3 or 4 of you...well basically they took you out because they wanted to set u up with someone..so its a blind date...
u finally meet the girl (or guy) and you two go on and have dinner together

the girl (or guy) seems very disappointed after meeting you and doesnt seem like they even want to have dinner...ur sad now because u feel like the situation is hopeless....

after 45 mins of so...u and the girl (or guy) are having a blast at dinner and seem to have alot in common...she/he did a complete 180 and seems totally interested in you
however..ur still crushed because u feel like from her/his first impression she/he was disappointed about u..so u tell them how u feel and that ur not comfortable going out again
however..not this person calls u and persist that they made a mistake and really wants to get to know you..but u really dont want to go on ahead because u feel that this person should be with someone who they completely adore...and u feel that the disappointment they shown earlier was their true feelings...and u want them to be truly attracted and adore who they are with
what do u do???
i would play hard to get
and then refer to #2

[x baby bably x]

yea but she realised that personality is more important than looks!

and how you know she was disappointed? did she tell you?

[DesiPrince005]

yea but she realised that personality is more important than looks!

and how you know she was disappointed? did she tell you?

well, i dont think people have a change of heart/life after 45 mins

yes inner beauty is more important...but subciously to her...im still not complete..i dont want to deal with that

she should be with someone she is completely attracted to
most men wouldnt deny themsleves of this advantage..why should a female?
lets be honest...

and no..she didnt tell me..she showed me with her actions
she blatantly tried to tear me down and tell me why i wasnt good enough the first 15 mins

[itson]

Okay, say that you were out with a group of friends and it was about 3 or 4 of you...well basically they took you out because they wanted to set u up with someone..so its a blind date...
u finally meet the girl (or guy) and you two go on and have dinner together

the girl (or guy) seems very disappointed after meeting you and doesnt seem like they even want to have dinner...ur sad now because u feel like the situation is hopeless....

after 45 mins of so...u and the girl (or guy) are having a blast at dinner and seem to have alot in common...she/he did a complete 180 and seems totally interested in you
however..ur still crushed because u feel like from her/his first impression she/he was disappointed about u..so u tell them how u feel and that ur not comfortable going out again
however..not this person calls u and persist that they made a mistake and really wants to get to know you..but u really dont want to go on ahead because u feel that this person should be with someone who they completely adore...and u feel that the disappointment they shown earlier was their true feelings...and u want them to be truly attracted and adore who they are with
what do u do???

fk her lights out and move the fk on..
girls like that are one night stands man..

[x baby bably x]

well, i dont think people have a change of heart/life after 45 mins

yes inner beauty is more important...but subciously to her...im still not complete..i dont want to deal with that

she should be with someone she is completely attracted to
most men wouldnt deny themsleves of this advantage..why should a female?
lets be honest...

and no..she didnt tell me..she showed me with her actions
she blatantly tried to tear me down and tell me why i wasnt good enough the first 15 minsok i admit looks are important...coz u have to be physically attracted to someone to actually go over n chat to them...you know make the effort

why not be mates for now? and see how that develops?

[**bambina**]

Okay, say that you were out with a group of friends and it was about 3 or 4 of you...well basically they took you out because they wanted to set u up with someone..so its a blind date...
u finally meet the girl (or guy) and you two go on and have dinner together

the girl (or guy) seems very disappointed after meeting you and doesnt seem like they even want to have dinner...ur sad now because u feel like the situation is hopeless....

after 45 mins of so...u and the girl (or guy) are having a blast at dinner and seem to have alot in common...she/he did a complete 180 and seems totally interested in you
however..ur still crushed because u feel like from her/his first impression she/he was disappointed about u..so u tell them how u feel and that ur not comfortable going out again
however..not this person calls u and persist that they made a mistake and really wants to get to know you..but u really dont want to go on ahead because u feel that this person should be with someone who they completely adore...and u feel that the disappointment they shown earlier was their true feelings...and u want them to be truly attracted and adore who they are with
what do u do???

first impression isnt always the last impression when it comes to certian things.

[Rcade]

no need to say girl or guy.....pretty obvious that only a girl could've been turned around by personality, a guy would've left or sure as hell not insisted for a second date if he thought girl was unattractive

[pachaas Paisa]

see how good she is in bed

if she sucks move on

[!sunny!]

1st impressions arent everythin
she cant judge u jus by that or he...
they gotta get to kno u mroe neways
have fun

[PrOfFaSeE]

words of wisdom from Dr. Phil :D
doctor ILL

[BC_Broad]

well, its common for a lot of couples to say that they didn't like eachother at first and then they finally clicked. some people are super judgemental at first by nature but then have a change of heart as they get to know a person. bad example but i usually hate every song when it comes out...but then i slowly start to like them. its a weird thing but don't ignore her cuz of that.

[samosa321]

Most likely, she was initially thwarted because she has really high standards or she was expecting a different type of guy to show up at the meet. However, the most important factor is clicking together on a personal level and that seems to true hold in your case. If you’re afraid that she is not too attracted to you then perhaps you should bring up the issue during your next conversation. And yeah, it might end up being a flaky relationship if there is minimal physical attraction from her part. But hey, clear things out before dismissing her completely.