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timeless_urge
December 24th, 2005, 11:30 PM
since in our "culture" sex b4 marriage is considered a "sin"...

:sarb: do ur rents know abt ur sex life..like u r involved or not?

and if they do..how did they react wen they first found out?

if they dont...how do u think they would react?

and yeah does being ag irl or guy makes a difference?

XprtNYYKY
December 24th, 2005, 11:31 PM
my mom knows but she wont say nething..neither do i ever bring it up. but nobody's stupid or in denial around here.

cassa nova
December 24th, 2005, 11:31 PM
since in our "culture" sex b4 marriage is considered a "sin"...

:sarb: do ur rents know abt ur sex life..like u r involved or not?

and if they do..how did they react wen they first found out?

if they dont...how do u think they would react?
react hmmmmm well let me put it this way i'l be forced fed ludoo quicker then you can say arranged marriage

timeless_urge
December 24th, 2005, 11:31 PM
my mom knows but she wont say nething..neither do i ever bring it up. but nobody's stupid or in denial around here.
how abt ur dad :lol:

sarb
December 24th, 2005, 11:31 PM
you really think anyone is gonna tell their rents they are banging around? most ppl wont even admit it here.

Tigr
December 24th, 2005, 11:32 PM
since in our "culture" sex b4 marriage is considered a "sin"...

:sarb: do ur rents know abt ur sex life..like u r involved or not?

and if they do..how did they react wen they first found out?

if they dont...how do u think they would react?

You really don't have to tell them. That's why you have born again virgin thingie for chicks that want to get rid of the guilt.

timeless_urge
December 24th, 2005, 11:33 PM
you really think anyone is gonna tell their rents they are banging around? most ppl wont even admit it here.
yeah i wonder :dunno: but since so many actually admit it..and act like they r sum sex whiz..i wonder wht their rents have to say abt it :no:

timeless_urge
December 24th, 2005, 11:33 PM
You really don't have to tell them. That's why you have born again virgin thingie for chicks that want to get rid of the guilt.
:no: thats sad

PrOfFaSeE
December 24th, 2005, 11:34 PM
they found my condoms...apparently its natural

XprtNYYKY
December 24th, 2005, 11:34 PM
how abt ur dad :lol:
deceased.

timeless_urge
December 24th, 2005, 11:34 PM
they found my condoms...apparently its natural
did u have the "talk" ?

timeless_urge
December 24th, 2005, 11:35 PM
deceased.
oh m sorry

salmanxtz
December 24th, 2005, 11:40 PM
funny thing i was wid a gurl at home in the basement room just talkin.....my dad walked in....kicked me outta da house

timeless_urge
December 24th, 2005, 11:41 PM
funny thing i was wid a gurl at home in the basement room just talkin.....my dad walked in....kicked me outta da house
aww shit r u seriouss!!

reaz
December 24th, 2005, 11:46 PM
since in our "culture" sex b4 marriage is considered a "sin"...

:sarb: do ur rents know abt ur sex life..like u r involved or not?

and if they do..how did they react wen they first found out?

if they dont...how do u think they would react?

and yeah does being ag irl or guy makes a difference?

no they dont and they dont bother to know.

they'd probably get mad..

being a guy or girl makes hell of a difference.. i am glad i am a guy.

timeless_urge
December 24th, 2005, 11:48 PM
no they dont and they dont bother to know.

they'd probably get mad..

being a guy or girl makes hell of a difference.. i am glad i am a guy.
thats so damn unfair :no:

zuiwaziri
December 24th, 2005, 11:48 PM
Yeah my mom found mine too........
She didnt say anything, but she left them on my dresser, so i saw them and i would know tht she found them.......
I avoided eye contact for a few weeks

reaz
December 24th, 2005, 11:50 PM
thats so damn unfair :no:

that's the way of the world, ma'am.

guy gets elevated to playah status

girl gets demoted to slut status

zuiwaziri
December 24th, 2005, 11:51 PM
Are u back in now ??

ps....is tht u in the sig....if so, u lok alot like john abraham

cassa nova
December 24th, 2005, 11:51 PM
sex iz best served hot ;)

timeless_urge
December 24th, 2005, 11:51 PM
that's the way of the world, ma'am.

guy gets elevated to playah status

girl gets demoted to slut status

i wonder if it will stay that way... i mean its has always been a male dominated world.. i wonder how is gonna change..

timeless_urge
December 24th, 2005, 11:53 PM
Are u back in now ??

ps....is tht u in the sig....if so, u lok alot like john abraham
:sarb: so i look like a guy?

reaz
December 24th, 2005, 11:54 PM
i wonder if it will stay that way... i mean its has always been a male dominated world.. i wonder how is gonna change..

nah.. it wont change much.. ppl think guys think with their penises and so it's not their fault.. girls on the other hand dont think with their cunts (general consensus) and so they can be blamed..

timeless_urge
December 25th, 2005, 12:00 AM
nah.. it wont change much.. ppl think guys think with their penises and so it's not their fault.. girls on the other hand dont think with their cunts (general consensus) and so they can be blamed..
:neutral: ryte

zuiwaziri
December 25th, 2005, 12:08 AM
:sarb: so i look like a guy?
I was talkin bout salmanxtz

timeless_urge
December 25th, 2005, 12:29 AM
I was talkin bout salmanxtz
oh oki lol

WonkaBear
December 25th, 2005, 12:47 AM
Im sure they get the general idea. Im just ordered not to impregnate the girl...

:p

timeless_urge
December 25th, 2005, 12:06 PM
Im sure they get the general idea. Im just ordered not to impregnate the girl...

:p
ridiculous!

303Alikaz
December 25th, 2005, 12:12 PM
i only have e-sex, even then i use a firewall for protection...magnum sized firewall ;)

timeless_urge
December 25th, 2005, 12:21 PM
i only have e-sex, even then i use a firewall for protection...magnum sized firewall ;)
thats just sad :no:

americanmohit
December 25th, 2005, 12:23 PM
i banged a girl in college before graduation and my parents dont know about it :anxious:

i better be careful. :rolleyes:

Roshii
December 25th, 2005, 12:38 PM
i'm allowed to have sex but only if i use condoms..my mum is against teenage pregnacies...

Roshii
December 25th, 2005, 12:39 PM
i banged a girl in college before graduation and my parents dont know about it :anxious:

i better be careful. :rolleyes:
you said you were a virgin

cassa nova
December 25th, 2005, 12:41 PM
i'm allowed to have sex but only if i use condoms..my mum is against teenage pregnacies...
lol how old are you?

Roshii
December 25th, 2005, 12:43 PM
lol how old are you?
15 but my mum says noone will find out.. i'm legal soon but it won't make a difference...my mum thinks that having a sex life is good for your health so she doesn't bar meee.

Echelon
December 25th, 2005, 12:46 PM
15 but my mum says noone will find out.. i'm legal soon but it won't make a difference...my mum thinks that having a sex life is good for your health so she doesn't bar meee.i think your mum has issues.

Roshii
December 25th, 2005, 12:46 PM
i think your mum has issues.
i don't think you've seen Fatty4life's former sig :no:

pakis_princess
December 25th, 2005, 12:52 PM
i'm allowed to have sex but only if i use condoms..my mum is against teenage pregnacies...
Did you make that up or for realz caus not even white parents think like that

ispeakadatruth!!
December 25th, 2005, 02:04 PM
since in our "culture" sex b4 marriage is considered a "sin"...
:sarb: do ur rents know abt ur sex life..like u r involved or not?

and if they do..how did they react wen they first found out?

if they dont...how do u think they would react?

and yeah does being ag irl or guy makes a difference?


really, since when???

notoriou$punjabi
December 25th, 2005, 02:12 PM
She said i don't want no random babies part of my PARIVAAAAAR.........


now whats a father gon' say to his son about that ???

Don't fuck at all ?

303Alikaz
December 25th, 2005, 02:13 PM
15 but my mum says noone will find out.. i'm legal soon but it won't make a difference...my mum thinks that having a sex life is good for your health so she doesn't bar meee.
..wow tas jus wrong...sooo wrong, rents are supsoed to teach u rigth things if u go ahead n still do dem tas ur fault but atleast ur rents guided u but that is jus wrong

SIXPAK GQ
December 25th, 2005, 02:16 PM
since in our "culture" sex b4 marriage is considered a "sin"...

:sarb: do ur rents know abt ur sex life..like u r involved or not?

and if they do..how did they react wen they first found out?

if they dont...how do u think they would react?

and yeah does being ag irl or guy makes a difference?

i dont care about what culture says..i am sexually active and no they dont know about it......and i could careless if they find out

shahzadi88
December 25th, 2005, 02:17 PM
15 but my mum says noone will find out.. i'm legal soon but it won't make a difference...my mum thinks that having a sex life is good for your health so she doesn't bar meee.

i dont believe this

lil_sexy
December 25th, 2005, 02:23 PM
since in our "culture" sex b4 marriage is considered a "sin"...

:sarb: do ur rents know abt ur sex life..like u r involved or not?

and if they do..how did they react wen they first found out?

if they dont...how do u think they would react?

and yeah does being ag irl or guy makes a difference?

yeah...my mom knows..i bet my dad knows too but i mean thats 'dad' so he never makes it known...that would be jus 'wrong' :neutral:

well my mom says that i am wrong and stuff...but thats about it..we don't go in details but yeah i am more open wit my massi...i think i share everything about sex with her.. :anxious: lolzz..

like i said they do...when i started living away from them..they basically had an idea..but i came back...couldnt live w/o family:(...umm well they dont say anything now...as long as they know who i am with and when i will be home =)

ofcourse being a girl and guy makes a diff. i mean girls having 'sex' b4 marriage r ruined and guys having sex b4 marriage...'noone will ever know' guys r forgiven if they have sex...but girllsss OH NO...don't give a fuck anymore... my parents have understood now...i did what they wanted me to do .. so now imma make myself happy..


:rolleyes:

CrazyXZac
December 25th, 2005, 02:27 PM
no. my parents don't know... and i dunno about the other desi guys... but i wouldn't want to marry a virgin :neutral:

teyana
December 25th, 2005, 02:41 PM
15 but my mum says noone will find out.. i'm legal soon but it won't make a difference...my mum thinks that having a sex life is good for your health so she doesn't bar meee.:shock: does your dad have the same mentality?
we need to hook up when you're legal and help you live a healthy life :naughty:


no. my parents don't know... and i dunno about the other desi guys... but i wouldn't want to marry a virgin :neutral:how come? just curious.

timeless_urge
December 25th, 2005, 02:57 PM
really, since when???
since always..i mean i mean..while i was growing up..having sex b4 marraige is not considered good at all..and i mean if u r non virgin b4 marraige..u r "barbaad"especially for girls...

buys i dunno..

timeless_urge
December 25th, 2005, 02:57 PM
i'm allowed to have sex but only if i use condoms..my mum is against teenage pregnacies...
:neutral: wtf.. u got to be kiddin me..

SillyKitty
December 25th, 2005, 03:00 PM
hmmmm.. interesting

SillyKitty
December 25th, 2005, 03:02 PM
funny thing i was wid a gurl at home in the basement room just talkin.....my dad walked in....kicked me outta da house


OMGGG for realll? :o

where do u live now?

SillyKitty
December 25th, 2005, 03:12 PM
i only have e-sex, even then i use a firewall for protection...magnum sized firewall ;)


:rofl: :rofl:

HAHAHAHHA.. :rofl:

lil_sexy
December 25th, 2005, 03:13 PM
OMGGG for realll? :o

where do u live now?


:roflbow:

Whizkid786
December 25th, 2005, 03:26 PM
All of you are lying gaandus

kwitcherbitchin
December 25th, 2005, 03:27 PM
i'm allowed to have sex but only if i use condoms..my mum is against teenage pregnacies...

:eekwtf:

SillyKitty
December 25th, 2005, 03:37 PM
:roflbow:


:anxious:

lil_sexy
December 25th, 2005, 03:42 PM
:anxious:


:p...hehe

SillyKitty
December 25th, 2005, 03:53 PM
:p...hehe
:p

I wonder who he stays wid now..

lil_sexy
December 25th, 2005, 03:55 PM
:p

I wonder who he stays wid now..

:dunno:

dont reely care but its party timeee :dance3:

lol

what u been upto though?? :wave:

SillyKitty
December 25th, 2005, 03:59 PM
:dunno:

dont reely care but its party timeee :dance3:

lol

what u been upto though?? :wave:


coool.. :) i love parties.. but i dont think i can go tonight.:( my face is all swollen

well.. i am tryin to convince my parents to let me to go New york :(
but they said no.. do u have any idea how i can convince them ?:(

my bro is there.. with my cusin in his Dorm.. i got some friends.. who i cud stay ovr wid..

But they still sayin no

fresh_like_ice
December 25th, 2005, 04:02 PM
really, since when???
Are you in denial?

Mr Jingles
December 25th, 2005, 04:11 PM
my dad knws my mum doesnt... my dad jus told me be careful my mum wud be pretty mad if she found outt wudnt knw wht she wud do but i knw she wud be mad

americanmohit
December 25th, 2005, 04:24 PM
you said you were a virgin


lost it recently

lil_sexy
December 25th, 2005, 04:31 PM
coool.. :) i love parties.. but i dont think i can go tonight.:( my face is all swollen

well.. i am tryin to convince my parents to let me to go New york :(
but they said no.. do u have any idea how i can convince them ?:(

my bro is there.. with my cusin in his Dorm.. i got some friends.. who i cud stay ovr wid..

But they still sayin no

awww desi parents...why dont u call ur bro n tell him to make a convincing story... like he can say that he has everything taken care off....

they might be convinced then...or just be like i swear i wont ask for anything else again..pleez let me go..its not like i am goin to visit strangers or something..:p

hehe....

SillyKitty
December 25th, 2005, 04:48 PM
awww desi parents...why dont u call ur bro n tell him to make a convincing story... like he can say that he has everything taken care off....

they might be convinced then...or just be like i swear i wont ask for anything else again..pleez let me go..its not like i am goin to visit strangers or something..:p

hehe....


Omgg.. thats the biggest prob :(

My bro doesnt want me there.. :rolleyes:

:( aww i did.. i said.. Please its my birthday.. let me go... i dont want anything else in my brithday :(

methodman535
December 25th, 2005, 04:52 PM
:shock: does your dad have the same mentality?
we need to hook up when you're legal and help you live a healthy life :naughty:


how come? just curious.


Haha take a number, she must have a big list even from RD.

aymish
December 25th, 2005, 04:53 PM
my rents found my condoms and i told them i was holdin them for someone else... that was until my drunkass left the naked pics my ex-girl sent me open on the computer and passed out and they came in the room in the morning and saw them... :mad:

i got "grounded" but still got to spend the night at my "friends" place all the time aslong as no girls were there :p

PS - i loved this line... "kya wo chamarin ke saath thumko bache chaiye??"

sikthman
December 25th, 2005, 04:53 PM
we havent discussed it properly but i think my dad knows....he grew up in london not india so he knows what goes on....but he doesnt like me discussing women in front on him. my mum however....."its wrong u idiot! dnt do it. if u do i kill u." um.....sorry mum :p

reaz
December 25th, 2005, 04:54 PM
15 but my mum says noone will find out.. i'm legal soon but it won't make a difference...my mum thinks that having a sex life is good for your health so she doesn't bar meee.


does she share her toys with you too?

methodman535
December 25th, 2005, 04:58 PM
does she share her toys with you too?

:no:

reaz
December 25th, 2005, 05:12 PM
:no:

on a serious note, even though I think mothers and daughters should discuss sex at an early age, I dont think they should give consent for their daughters to have sex so early in life.

Roshii
December 25th, 2005, 06:54 PM
omg people believed what i said.... I don't think any of you have seen fatty4lifes former sig
I'm still a virgin and my mum is VERY strict

Roshii
December 25th, 2005, 06:55 PM
:bump:

cassa nova
December 25th, 2005, 06:59 PM
omg people believed what i said.... I don't think any of you have seen fatty4lifes former sig
I'm still a virgin and my mum is VERY strict
i knew it you look too innocent which is a good thing

SillyKitty
December 25th, 2005, 07:00 PM
omg people believed what i said.... I don't think any of you have seen fatty4lifes former sig
I'm still a virgin and my mum is VERY strict


:hug: i knew it.. U look like a Very sweet Innocent girl :)


Phewwwww.. every one was in SHOCK.. :p

Roshii
December 25th, 2005, 07:02 PM
:hug: i knew it.. U look like a Very sweet Innocent girl :)


Phewwwww.. every one was in SHOCK.. :p
:hug:
thank you and you are HOT

I can't believe everyone fell for it :no:
lmao

Roshii
December 25th, 2005, 07:02 PM
i knew it you look too innocent which is a good thing
good boyyyyyyy but u didnt post it ;)

reaz
December 25th, 2005, 07:03 PM
well i dont know you personally so i have no other option than to believe you.

cassa nova
December 25th, 2005, 07:04 PM
good boyyyyyyy but u didnt post it ;)
i thought it, i mean like any parents iz gonna let their kids have sex freely?

americanmohit
December 25th, 2005, 07:05 PM
omg people believed what i said.... I don't think any of you have seen fatty4lifes former sig
I'm still a virgin and my mum is VERY strict


most of people are naive on rd :mrhappy:

Roshii
December 25th, 2005, 07:05 PM
well i dont know you personally so i have no other option than to believe you.
i'm 15 and i definitely would not consider it even at 18... :ugh:

lolz but your reply was funny...my mum won't let me talk to boys :(

Roshii
December 25th, 2005, 07:06 PM
i thought it, i mean like any parents iz gonna let their kids have sex freely?
i know some who do (Wife swap :ugh: )

Roshii
December 25th, 2005, 07:06 PM
most of people are naive on rd :mrhappy:
yeah i know lolz i never thought anyone would believe it :dunno:
:

cassa nova
December 25th, 2005, 07:07 PM
i know some who do (Wife swap :ugh: )
really wtf i bet theyre white?

SillyKitty
December 25th, 2005, 07:08 PM
:hug:
thank you and you are HOT

I can't believe everyone fell for it :no:
lmao


naah but thanks :giggle:




i know.. i didnt say nathn cuz i was skeptical about it.. but i did get kinda confused though..

lol i hope every one who has a wrong impression of u NOw .. sees ur recnt post ::o

InFaMuZ_PaKiBoY
December 25th, 2005, 07:10 PM
since in our "culture" sex b4 marriage is considered a "sin"...

:sarb: do ur rents know abt ur sex life..like u r involved or not?

and if they do..how did they react wen they first found out?

if they dont...how do u think they would react?

and yeah does being ag irl or guy makes a difference?

if u r a Paki girl and ur parents find out somehow that's a shame for them they will kill u but if u r a guy and u have sex even if ur parents find out it's not a big deal i guess. They be mad at u for a while but then they gonna forget but nobody wants their parent to find out what their children r doing. Keep it secrete and play the smart game.

teyana
December 25th, 2005, 07:45 PM
yeah i know lolz i never thought anyone would believe it :dunno:
:i didn't believe you....i was just joking with my post....yeh, thats right....joking :anxious:

Roshii
December 25th, 2005, 08:02 PM
i didn't believe you....i was just joking with my post....yeh, thats right....joking :anxious:
:rolleyes:

teyana
December 25th, 2005, 08:11 PM
:rolleyes::google:

timeless_urge
December 25th, 2005, 11:01 PM
if u r a Paki girl and ur parents find out somehow that's a shame for them they will kill u but if u r a guy and u have sex even if ur parents find out it's not a big deal i guess. They be mad at u for a while but then they gonna forget but nobody wants their parent to find out what their children r doing. Keep it secrete and play the smart game.
:rofl:

i wonder if u;ll tell the same thing to ur own sis..or daughter..

harvey_mayway
June 19th, 2006, 06:00 AM
:D :) :mad: :o :sarb:

Be||a
June 19th, 2006, 06:03 AM
My mom knows and she gave me the whole safe sex talk. It went on for hours and hours.

poojasxy
June 19th, 2006, 06:12 AM
im insatiable. i enjoy sex way too much so 'culture' rules dont apply to me.

lfcfan9
June 19th, 2006, 06:15 AM
my parents know, and they dont really react, they know i have gf's and just joke about it liek call me a fudhu and stuff.. so im guessing they know im not a virgin, and only my mom in my family is religous, im sikh and i dont think their is a rule about sex before marriage.

Canadian_jatti
June 30th, 2006, 12:27 AM
on a serious note, even though I think mothers and daughters should discuss sex at an early age, I dont think they should give consent for their daughters to have sex so early in life.
:werd:

Canadian_jatti
June 30th, 2006, 12:28 AM
my parents know, and they dont really react, they know i have gf's and just joke about it liek call me a fudhu and stuff.. so im guessing they know im not a virgin, and only my mom in my family is religous, im sikh and i dont think their is a rule about sex before marriage.
lol i'm sikh too and yes there is a rule bout sex before marriage its part of the 5 k's u should know this! i'm so dissapointed

ezbreezyfresh
June 30th, 2006, 12:52 AM
im insatiable. i enjoy sex way too much so 'culture' rules dont apply to me.

haha :werd:

slick punjabi
June 30th, 2006, 03:36 AM
fkin send me to pak or london prolly lmao

foreverconfused
June 30th, 2006, 10:18 AM
my parents would disown me....if i wasn't a virgin and they found out.

jat_jatt_sardar
July 7th, 2006, 07:06 PM
my parents know, and they dont really react, they know i have gf's and just joke about it liek call me a fudhu and stuff.. so im guessing they know im not a virgin, and only my mom in my family is religous, im sikh and i dont think their is a rule about sex before marriage.
there's not a rule for cutting hair either is there now? lol
lol I don;t think u know much about sikhi, u just call yourself sikh. I wonder if you know what a baptused sikh or amrit dhari is, they are real sikhs, lol read the sikh maryada, you will find the sex rules there lol

jat_jatt_sardar
July 7th, 2006, 07:08 PM
lol i'm sikh too and yes there is a rule bout sex before marriage its part of the 5 k's u should know this! i'm so dissapointed
err what u mean 5 ks? do u mean the kachera right, wearing it for chastity?

BaByGirL24
July 7th, 2006, 07:10 PM
you really think anyone is gonna tell their rents they are banging around? most ppl wont even admit it here.
:lol:
hey i did. am i the only honest one here?

Parallax
July 8th, 2006, 04:35 PM
Both my mom and dad know that I am sexually active. It it not like they found out at the exact time I started having sex, but I told both of them soon after I started. I am not sure what they expected or thought beforehand but I can't say they were strict "wait until marriage", but rather more "wait until you are in love." I also think they expected that I would only feel that way once and get married to the girl.

My brother may or may not have waited until marriage. He was not active with his previous girlfriends, I know that much. It took them seven years of going out to get married so if he waited that whole time he has my awe at his self control. They are still as married and as much in love if it happened first before or after marriage so in the end it really doesn't matter.