Need ur help with this question

[Gt_BabyGurl]

Okay well i like this guy and he said he likes me too......but for a while i felt like i was going to get disappointed by him......and everyone (all my friends that i ask) said oh no he is good u wouldnt.......then i talked to him about it and i told him i feel like i will get disappoint by him and he was like y would i disappoint u and then i said i dont......i asked him if he likes me and he said yes and i asked him if he wants something more than friendship and he said when i see and get to know what u like in person now then i maybe yes i would like something more (Hasnt seen me since before summer)........so i said ok we are on the same page then yesterday i got to find out that he went on a date with this girl so i feel disappoint something that i was told wasnt going to happen by more than one person and one of those people include him.......and i didnt tell him see this is what i meant by being disappointed......and all of my friends say i should tell him how i feel but i dont know so click yes on the poll if to tell him how i feel or click no on the poll not to tell him thanks to those of you that actually help me.

[MZ-BABii_GiiRL]

hey babe, i think u should def tell him how you feel n that he did disappoint you coz unless he knows how and why, he wont know that you got hurt.
and besides, its fun making them feel bad :o

[Gt_BabyGurl]

hey babe, i think u should def tell him how you feel n that he did disappoint you coz unless he knows how and why, he wont know that you got hurt.
and besides, its fun making them feel bad :o
lolz i know but i dont like people feeling bad because of me that y im in this suitation in the first place stuck weather to tell or not.......but i'll take ur answer into consideration thanks :)

[redlightnin]

Yes, I think you should let him know how you feel. It might feel good sticking around, enjoying his comfort, but it's your feelings and emotions at stake here also. If he went out on a date w/ another girl, that's not cool. If he told you that he wouldn't look for someone else, he's already broken a promise that meant a lot to you. If you're really feeling him, let him know how you feel about what happened. Maybe he might change his mind about the other girl, who knows. Good luck hun. :)

[Gt_BabyGurl]

Yes, I think you should let him know how you feel. It might feel good sticking around, enjoying his comfort, but it's your feelings and emotions at stake here also. If he went out on a date w/ another girl, that's not cool. If he told you that he wouldn't look for someone else, he's already broken a promise that meant a lot to you. If you're really feeling him, let him know how you feel about what happened. Maybe he might change his mind about the other girl, who knows. Good luck hun. :)
Thanks
I dont know if he would change his mind or it will still be the same
But the thing that i dont want is to lose a friends and make him feel gulity
So yea i'll tell what i do when i decide what to do ok

[sweetest_sin]

tell him :yes:

[Gt_BabyGurl]

tell him :yes:
thanks looks like i might tell him everyone is headed that way

[Gt_BabyGurl]

Anyone else willing to tell what to do????????

[chica247]

Okay well i like this guy and he said he likes me too......but for a while i felt like i was going to get disappointed by him......and everyone (all my friends that i ask) said oh no he is good u wouldnt.......then i talked to him about it and i told him i feel like i will get disappoint by him and he was like y would i disappoint u and then i said i dont......i asked him if he likes me and he said yes and i asked him if he wants something more than friendship and he said when i see and get to know what u like in person now then i maybe yes i would like something more (Hasnt seen me since before summer)........so i said ok we are on the same page then yesterday i got to find out that he went on a date with this girl so i feel disappoint something that i was told wasnt going to happen by more than one person and one of those people include him.......and i didnt tell him see this is what i meant by being disappointed......and all of my friends say i should tell him how i feel but i dont know so click yes on the poll if to tell him how i feel or click no on the poll not to tell him thanks to those of you that actually help me.
Hey, I think you should tell him but, remember the fact that you guys are not together as a couple. You guys just talked about it, and you didn't clearly let him know how you feel about him. Guys like to know how a girl feels about him right away, they're not into games or guessing. They don't like to wait around! So yea you should tell him that you were hurt by it but to an extend, because you don't really stand at the place where you can tell him if he should be with anyone else or not.

[Gt_BabyGurl]

Hey, I think you should tell him but, remember the fact that you guys are not together as a couple. You guys just talked about it, and you didn't clearly let him know how you feel about him. Guys like to know how a girl feels about him right away, they're not into games or guessing. They don't like to wait around! So yea you should tell him that you were hurt by it but to an extend, because you don't really stand at the place where you can tell him if he should be with anyone else or not.
ok thanks
well we talked about it and he knows i like him but we werent together
so i guess i will talk to him about it

[chica247]

ok thanks
well we talked about it and he knows i like him but we werent together
so i guess i will talk to him about it
So yea, you guys aren't together. You guys don't have the tittle which can STOP him from dating anyone else. So you need to make your point with him and tell him how you feel b4 it's too late!

[Gt_BabyGurl]

So yea, you guys aren't together. You guys don't have the tittle which can STOP him from dating anyone else. So you need to make your point with him and tell him how you feel b4 it's too late!
thanks then thats what i have to do
now to get the courage to do so

[chica247]

thanks then thats what i have to do
now to get the courage to do so
Best of Luck sweety! And don't think too hard on it, remember, everything happens for the best! :hug:

[Gt_BabyGurl]

Best of Luck sweety! And don't think too hard on it, remember, everything happens for the best! :hug:
thanks will try not to

[chica247]

thanks will try not to
Your Welcome babes :hug:

[desikudi313]

I think you should tell him, but you cant say that you were disappointed by him and make him the guility party because you guys werent together, and you never said what would disaapoint you. Dont make him out to be the bad guy.

[Ac89]

don't let a bunch of idiots on this place tell you what you should do in your situation.
In all honesty, as weird as it sounds (and probably redundant too), listen to your heart. And dont' second guess yourself when you do make a choice.
Sometimes when two people feel the same way about each other the relationship never develops and those feelings somehow go away. But if even one of the person was to say something about how he or she felt (and no it doesn't always have to be teh guy to do it first) then maybe something magical and special could have developed...maybe a really good relationship could have developed.
Just remember that. And good luck (ps, i'm not voting but i think you should tell him)

[Gt_BabyGurl]

Thanks to everyone for ur comments
And i told him i mailed him last night
And i keep these blog on the net
I sent him the site to read
And for him know how i actually feel
And what goes through my mind
So we'll see what happens
And if u want to know what happens stick around
I'll post it later byebye
And thanks again

[_NoMi_]

when it comes to relationships its always best to let out concerns like this. doing so will help u in the future whether or not ur going out or not. its a good thing u told him and now he will know how to handle it and from his response u will know if he is worth ur time. good luck.

[Hunkie Chan]

i might not be the best response here but ill tell u this.. something is betta than nothing.. mayb he had hopes.. but well since u didnt make a move.. he moved on.. its not his fault that he went out a date.. cumon u knw guys.. even the best one does that.. if u have said him how u feel abt him thn i bliv in ma right mind that he wudnt hurt or in ur word "disappoint" u.. go for it.. best of luck

[princeofkolkata]

tell him :neutral:

[Ketamine-Abuse]

Pathetic

[Ugly_thang]

Pathetic

be nice :no: will u?

[alphaPAKI]

he went out with another girl, its not like you guys were seeing each other exclusively, he did nothing wrong

play it off like you dont care or else he's gonna think your a overbearing and jealous and will get turned off

[HighClassAfro]

Okay well i like this guy and he said he likes me too......but for a while i felt like i was going to get disappointed by him......and everyone (all my friends that i ask) said oh no he is good u wouldnt.......then i talked to him about it and i told him i feel like i will get disappoint by him and he was like y would i disappoint u and then i said i dont......i asked him if he likes me and he said yes and i asked him if he wants something more than friendship and he said when i see and get to know what u like in person now then i maybe yes i would like something more (Hasnt seen me since before summer)........so i said ok we are on the same page then yesterday i got to find out that he went on a date with this girl so i feel disappoint something that i was told wasnt going to happen by more than one person and one of those people include him.......and i didnt tell him see this is what i meant by being disappointed......and all of my friends say i should tell him how i feel but i dont know so click yes on the poll if to tell him how i feel or click no on the poll not to tell him thanks to those of you that actually help me.
Well if you do tell him that your upset with him for going out on a date then he could possibly think that your totally in love with him and obsessed about him but maybe he went out with that girl to make you jealous and he wanted you to come out in the open and tell him how much you like him....guys are very tricky and stupid so there isnt a clear answer...but listen to your heart and im sure youll know what to do...good luck