People that fall in love online are RETARDED.

[chunky]

Seriously, how can you fall in love with someone you've never met? Sure, I can understand connecting with someone on the net and feeling close to them. However, if your strongest bonds to other people are exclusively on the net, well, that's just sad.

:idea:

[celicababyboy]

LMAO i 100% agree with u!!!!!!!

like its coo to meet someone from the net n then eventually actually meet up with them, but jus throught the net :no:

[XCubed]

LMAO i 100% agree with u!!!!!!!

like its coo to meet someone from the net n then eventually actually meet up with them, but jus throught the net :no:

definately!...a meet is REQUIRED

[SpankingGT]

Some people are vanurable and can fall at the slightest sign on intrest from the opposite sex.

[-babyshizz-]

loll .... nd the next big thing .. e-marriages :neutral:

[GTZFINEZTZ]

Seriously, how can you fall in love with someone you've never met? Sure, I can understand connecting with someone on the net and feeling close to them. However, if your strongest bonds to other people are exclusively on the net, well, that's just sad.

:idea:


It is the modern age man, you'd be surprised how many people fall in love over the net and more do it as the days goes by!

[shawtyluv727]

seek professional help.. immediately.

edit: and half the people who respond with "PSH YEA RIGHT.. THATS STUPID"
you are LYING. :)

[Vatta_Kaya]

your underestimating the medium known as internet.
ppl can talk freely about their feelings and stuff online without looking at the other person. and we all know how much a woman likes to talk. so its easier for a female to fall in love over the internet

[celicababyboy]

loll .... nd the next big thing .. e-marriages :neutral:

lol ya n then e-suhaad raatz

e-bache

e-dovorce

[XCubed]

seek professional help.. immediately.

idk bout that...that's too harsh

[xbadkarmax]

edit

[goofy_phoofy]

so that shit is true :sarb: :rofl: like that other thread what if the other person turns out to be ur mum :rofl: :rofl:

[cold-hearted]

People that fall in love online are RETARDED.

and very insecure and desperate. :D :p

[chunky]

Some people are vanurable and can fall at the slightest sign on intrest from the opposite sex.

bickety bam. this man knows what he's talking about.

it's much easier to prop up fragile egos on the net v.s. real life.

[-babyshizz-]

lol ya n then e-suhaad raatz

e-bache

e-dovorce
:no: ... watch em have like a e-home too ... loll i think thats wut rd's for

[bangin_paki]

definately!...a meet is REQUIRED
a meet enhances it but gettin infatuated to someone one the net...is very common...its really not love tho ...:kekeke:...mind my siggy..thas an exception ;)

[chunky]

loll .... nd the next big thing .. e-marriages :neutral:

LMAO. RD has been there, done that sweety.

those are even more gay.

[XCubed]

:no: ... watch em have like a e-home too ... loll i think thats wut rd's for

hahaha...ROFL

[XCubed]

lol ya n then e-suhaad raatz

e-bache

e-dovorce

i think that's all been done before...and ppl are still doing it...lol

[XxXanamikaXxX]

:salut: to the thread maker.
:yes:

[chunky]

It is the modern age man, you'd be surprised how many people fall in love over the net and more do it as the days goes by!

I would like to see some stats on the success rate of online hookups.

Typically they tend to be just that - flings, hookups, infatuations. What happens is that the two people meet, they start seeing all the subtlties of character that were previously filtered by the computer.

Sure, every now and then two people meet up from the net and end up being great together. What bothers me are the ones that are throwing around the concept of LOVE before they even MEET!

[chunky]

seek professional help.. immediately.

edit: and half the people who respond with "PSH YEA RIGHT.. THATS STUPID"
you are LYING. :)

so who's the e-stud that's impaling his joystick into your serial port?

:kekeke:

[chunky]

your underestimating the medium known as internet.
ppl can talk freely about their feelings and stuff online without looking at the other person. and we all know how much a woman likes to talk. so its easier for a female to fall in love over the internet

this is very true. I find that females are much more succeptible to the concept of finding e-love.

[chunky]

so that shit is true :sarb: :rofl: like that other thread what if the other person turns out to be ur mum :rofl: :rofl:

BAHAHHAHA. yah, that's some funny shit.


p.s. how youuu doin, baby. :naughty:

[celicababyboy]

:no: ... watch em have like a e-home too ... loll i think thats wut rd's for

so baby will u be my new illegal e-gf? :D

i kid i kid :p

[chunky]

:no: ... watch em have like a e-home too ... loll i think thats wut rd's for

LMAO. RD is like the e-projects.

[shawtyluv727]

so who's the e-stud that's impaling his joystick into your serial port?

:kekeke:

:rofl: that was a good one, kudos.

[chunky]

a meet enhances it but gettin infatuated to someone one the net...is very common...its really not love tho ...:kekeke:...mind my siggy..thas an exception ;)

Ladies & gentlemen of the jury I present to you exhibit A, demonstrating that only the IQ challenged are okay with the concept of internet infatuations.

[goofy_phoofy]

BAHAHHAHA. yah, that's some funny shit.


p.s. how youuu doin, baby. :naughty:

hahahah :slap: hush up u E PLAYA :p :p

[QqQueen BbBee]

people who* fall in love

[alphaPAKI]

alot of people (obviously not all people) that 'fall in love' in real life are retarded as it is and are doing it out of needyness, over the computer without any sort of meeting or anything is just an indulgence in ignorance

[chunky]

people who* fall in love

If you're going to be a grammar nazi, at least know what the fuck you're talking about.

"Who refers to people or to animals with names or special talents."

"Which and that refer to animals, things, and sometimes anonymous or collective groups of people."

In this case, either would be correct, and if anything, that is more correct.

[MrHarmfulOne]

dont forget.. you need to consume your e-love by putting yourself in each others' signatures.

[saxakali]

its KOOKIE

[shawtyluv727]

dont forget.. you need to consume your e-love by putting yourself in each others' signatures.

dont forget dedicating a xanga/myspace to your e-soulmate

[bangin_paki]

dont forget.. you need to consume your e-love by putting yourself in each others' signatures.
:yes: yuP

[GTZFINEZTZ]

I would like to see some stats on the success rate of online hookups.

Typically they tend to be just that - flings, hookups, infatuations. What happens is that the two people meet, they start seeing all the subtlties of character that were previously filtered by the computer.

Sure, every now and then two people meet up from the net and end up being great together. What bothers me are the ones that are throwing around the concept of LOVE before they even MEET!


I am too lazy to look for stats but a lot of people are "happily married" due to online relationships nowadays, or so they claim to be. Nowadays when you are talking online to the other person, it is as just as the two of you are physically together in a way with the help of webcams or with phones or whatever but i've heard of people breaking up when they "actually" meet because like you said, they find the subtlties of character that were filtered by the computer or they see all the fuglyness hidden with photoshop :p As for actually saying you LOVE that person, thats highly unlikely. You may care about them or you may think you love them only because you are probably vulnerable, lonely and empty inside and the first person that interests you, you tend to fall for them! I am no way supporting online relationships, i personally feel its retarded indeed but im just trying to say that many will disagree because to them, it worked!

[MrHarmfulOne]

i think chunky is right.

the phone/webcam/computer can only show you so much. you dont see how the person acts with others, you dont see small mannerisms, etc.

I doubt I would be the same person in real life as I am online.

[chunky]

I am too lazy to look for stats but a lot of people are "happily married" due to online relationships nowadays, or so they claim to be. Nowadays when you are talking online to the other person, it is as just as the two of you are physically together in a way with the help of webcams or with phones or whatever but i've heard of people breaking up when they "actually" meet because like you said, they find the subtlties of character that were filtered by the computer or they see all the fuglyness hidden with photoshop :p As for actually saying you LOVE that person, thats highly unlikely. You may care about them or you may think you love them only because you are probably vulnerable, lonely and empty inside and the first person that interests you tend you make you fall for them! I am no way supporting online relationships, i personally feel its retarded indeed but im just trying to say that many will disagree because to them, it worked!

I'd like to see a study done on online couples that eventually meet to see what the success rate is.

I have a feeling that there are far more regrettable online relationships than successful ones.

[The Only One]

It is lame, like come on if it does really work and someone asks you guys how did you meet? are u goin to respond with on the internet? ratedesi website or aim chats?? what are u goin to tell ur kids??? :sarb:

[GTZFINEZTZ]

I'd like to see a study done on online couples that eventually meet to see what the success rate is.

I have a feeling that there are far more regrettable online relationships than successful ones.


This is an interesting read, be sure to read the whole thing.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/relationships/couples/heartaches_cyberaffairs.shtml

[jigga man23]

I don't understand how is it possible to fall in love online. Most of the time people aren't the same people in real life. Some times people have different identity online scary..

[Grizzley]

Agreed :yes:

[SpankingGT]

I'd like to see a study done on online couples that eventually meet to see what the success rate is.

I have a feeling that there are far more regrettable online relationships than successful ones.
There are several success stories avaliable via google search. Most of them are posted on match.com or other dating sites, as far as which ones are actually true......-
As for the studies.... havent seen any yet!

[chunky]

This is an interesting read, be sure to read the whole thing.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/relationships/couples/heartaches_cyberaffairs.shtml

"In one survey, 75 per cent of relationships formed on the net went on to become face-to-face relationships with the same chance of success as any other."

Interesting. However, the potential for confounding variables in that study is high. Most people that engaged in failed online relationships tend to discount their commitment to the relationship in the first place.

I have always been of the mindset that once you meet someone you knew online in person, then it's no different from metting a girl at a social event.

[chunky]

There are several success stories avaliable via google search. Most of them are posted on match.com or other dating sites, as far as which ones are actually true......-
As for the studies.... havent seen any yet!

That's the thing - a lot of people are ashamed once they realize they had fallen in love with a fatty on the net that was showing pictures from 50lbs ago. They typically never admit to anyone what happened.

Obviously the ones who find a attractive nymphomaniac partners via dating sites aren't going to hesitate to trumpet their stories. What you don't hear is where the real story lies in this case.

[SpankingGT]

That's the thing - a lot of people are ashamed once they realize they had fallen in love with a fatty on the net that was showing pictures from 50lbs ago. They typically never admit to anyone what happened.

Obviously the ones who find a attractive nymphomaniac partners via dating sites aren't going to hesitate to trumpet their stories. What you don't hear is where the real story lies in this case.
heh- So true- But then again if they did fall in "love" they shouldnt be ashamed of their spouse, wether they are 100lbs or 300lbs.
Many people hesitate to even admit that they were looking online for a mate. There is a stigma attached to it which we all know what that is!

[R.J]

e-dating will never be my thing, but it oddly works for some :no: If they happy-then why should be question or belittle them?

[sara khan]

Seriously, how can you fall in love with someone you've never met? Sure, I can understand connecting with someone on the net and feeling close to them. However, if your strongest bonds to other people are exclusively on the net, well, that's just sad.

:idea:
This might be sad...

but it can be true.

Sure eventually just talking isnt enough, a meet is required. But it doesnt matter if close and personal or on the net, is love planned? Do you plan to fall in love? The answer: NO!

If you fall for someone online, its sad, certainly not retarted. Its sad because you develope feelings for someone who might be miles away.

But if you start talking to someone. You guys connect, talk for hours and hours evryday. Talk on the phone. And you get to see him on cam. Ok its sad, but couples who are far from eachother do it all the time. Its just like conversing with someone, and it feels like they are sitting right infront of you.

You cant just say falling in love is impossible or retarted, cos it happens just like that. If your love for the person is strong, you can meet. Even get together, and realise that this person is meant for you, get married etc.

The retardedness is only valid till you meet up with the person. And that can be a matter of time. After that it is qualified as anyother relationship.

[Hydro786]

YUP


on a brighter note:
http://www.thatvideosite.com/view/1323.html

[Geezer]

Agreed :yes:

:sadblink:

[sara khan]

:sadblink:
Geezer says: Sara I think i love you

Sara says: Geezeybear :shock:

Geezer says: I cant help the way i feel

Sara says: :hand: e-love is retarted, grow up!

[s11nyk]

Geezer says: Sara I think i love you

Sara says: Geezeybear :shock:

Geezer says: I cant help the way i feel

Sara says: :hand: e-love is retarted, grow up!


:rofl:

is that his 1st knockback............

[alphaPAKI]

Geezer says: Sara I think i love you

Sara says: Geezeybear :shock:

Geezer says: I cant help the way i feel

Sara says: :hand: e-love is retarted, grow up!
in all your posts (by all i mean the one im quoting and hte one on the last page) you say 'retarted' instead of 'retarded' :rofl:

[Geezer]

I could never e-date someone who cant even spell retarded :no:

[sara khan]

in all your posts (by all i mean the one im quoting and hte one on the last page) you say 'retarted' instead of 'retarded' :rofl:
:Oops:

I make allot of spelling mistakes. In my deffence the only thing i can say is that the English i know ive tought myself. Im Scandinavian, english isnt my language.

[alphaPAKI]

:Oops:

I make allot of spelling mistakes. In my deffence the only thing i can say is that the English i know ive tought myself. Im Scandinavian, english isnt my language.

:bhapi:

its all good i couldnt care less about spelling, just the irony of someone calling a person retarded and spelling it wrong is too good :p

[sara khan]

I could never e-date someone who cant even spell retarded :no:
:tears:



It was internal humor, but i do think you are the coolest :bhapi:

[nikefc7]

:salut: :salut: :salut:

[WonkaBear]

:rofl:

Online luv might be the best thing ever. Easy break ups. You can tell yourself it was a deep meaningful relationship...

just a way to lie to yourself and feel special...

[Geezer]

:tears:



It was internal humor, but i do thing you are the coolest :bhapi:

Aww thanks :hug: you're cool too

[sara khan]

:bhapi:

its all good i couldnt care less about spelling, just the irony of someone calling a person retarded and spelling it wrong is too good :p


ok, glad it made you laugh :)

[yeahyeah]

Seriously, how can you fall in love with someone you've never met? Sure, I can understand connecting with someone on the net and feeling close to them. However, if your strongest bonds to other people are exclusively on the net, well, that's just sad.

:idea:

true

[alphaPAKI]

what defeats me about online relationships is you miss out on the only part i can see being worthwhile; the physical, and by physical i mean the constant stream of ass you'd be getting for being in a relationship with someone

the rest is meaningless and does absolutely nothing for me, waste of time if anything

[Geezer]

true

I thought you "left"

[PyariPariPri]

i duno how one can have a relationship with someone and fall in love with them with not touching them. and meeting up? thats a must. an attraction must be there in order to fall in love in the first place. i'm not saying thats ALL it is, but its a part of it.
as much as some people want to beleive it, "e-love" does not exist.



so touching is required.
the end.

[yeahyeah]

I thought you "left"

i'm "back" :mrhappy:

[selina_786]

Your right, some sad sad shit going on in e-world nowadays... and wth.. girls are more susceptible to fall in e love? Not necessarily, theres alot of immature, insecure lil boys out there too :no:

Its just an easier place to be open about feelings without any sort of "real" consequences i guess..... and some ppl mistake it for love/emotions and start feeling special in such ppl's company, hence they are in love :lol:

[ii_khushi86_ii]

if its limited to just online.. its pathetic.

but if you think about it "i`m in love with you" sounds a lot better than "i`m infatuated with your e-persona." :dunno:

[tamil_desi]

Seriously, how can you fall in love with someone you've never met? Sure, I can understand connecting with someone on the net and feeling close to them. However, if your strongest bonds to other people are exclusively on the net, well, that's just sad.

:idea:

I definately agree with you.

[chunky]

This might be sad...

but it can be true.

Sure eventually just talking isnt enough, a meet is required. But it doesnt matter if close and personal or on the net, is love planned? Do you plan to fall in love? The answer: NO!

If you fall for someone online, its sad, certainly not retarted. Its sad because you develope feelings for someone who might be miles away.

But if you start talking to someone. You guys connect, talk for hours and hours evryday. Talk on the phone. And you get to see him on cam. Ok its sad, but couples who are far from eachother do it all the time. Its just like conversing with someone, and it feels like they are sitting right infront of you.

You cant just say falling in love is impossible or retarted, cos it happens just like that. If your love for the person is strong, you can meet. Even get together, and realise that this person is meant for you, get married etc.

The retardedness is only valid till you meet up with the person. And that can be a matter of time. After that it is qualified as anyother relationship.

IMO, Love can only be validated with a one on one encounter. You can't fall in love online, but you can meet the person that you fall in love with online.

There's a fine line there.

[Grizzley]

:sadblink:

what :dunno: it is


dont worry geezey, we'll always have starbucks ;)

[chunky]

Your right, some sad sad shit going on in e-world nowadays... and wth.. girls are more susceptible to fall in e love? Not necessarily, theres alot of immature, insecure lil boys out there too :no:

Its just an easier place to be open about feelings without any sort of "real" consequences i guess..... and some ppl mistake it for love/emotions and start feeling special in such ppl's company, hence they are in love :lol:

Yeah, there is the security blanket aspect when it comes to an online relationship. If things go awry, you can deny everything. Also as you said, people sometimes feel less insecure online b/c they can hide their points of insecurity. So online a guy might hit on a really beautiful girl that he knows he would have no chance with in real life, etc.

[XCubed]

I could never e-date someone who cant even spell retarded :no:

:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:

[1coolguy]

in the future, i bet more and more people will do online dating... internet dating is growing i heard...

[GTZFINEZTZ]

How much you wanna bet that Chinadoll will disagree? I am sure that you must have some sort of feelings for each other in order to arrange a meet. She is all the way in Australia and her bf is in Cali, you tell me that they met without even feeling anything for each other? They seem pretty happy together so i guess it does work. Its a strange world man and strange things happen!

[teh_kemosabe]

Seriously, how can you fall in love with someone you've never met? Sure, I can understand connecting with someone on the net and feeling close to them. However, if your strongest bonds to other people are exclusively on the net, well, that's just sad.

:idea:

Whatever happened to that dude that used the light bulb?

[ThatGirl]

Whatever happened to that dude that used the light bulb?

Fucker seduced me then left. I was too much for him

[ORaNGe dAsY]

:(.

[Walktheline]

Whatever happened to that dude that used the light bulb?


I dunno, but he was SO lame. :/

[Mmm_Azing]

im gonna have to agree wit u it really is stupid sorry to say for ya guyz dat r in luv online

[teh_kemosabe]

I didn't agree with a lot of what he said... but I wouldn't have let him know... dude was vicious.

[chunky]

in the future, i bet more and more people will do online dating... internet dating is growing i heard...

sure, DATING is fine. LOVE . . . nope.

You can't get a bitch pregnant online, and neither can you fall in love online.

[ThatGirl]

I didn't agree with a lot of what he said... but I wouldn't have let him know... dude was vicious.
more like a douche

[Sikh4Lyfe]

I fell in love with downloaded lesbian movies. Technically tahts online love to isnt it?

[chunky]

How much you wanna bet that Chinadoll will disagree? I am sure that you must have some sort of feelings for each other in order to arrange a meet. She is all the way in Australia and her bf is in Cali, you tell me that they met without even feeling anything for each other? They seem pretty happy together so i guess it does work. Its a strange world man and strange things happen!

People have differing concepts of what love truly entails. I do not believe that you can have love without a physical presence. Chinadoll & ocdesi have met in person and legitimized their love. Their relationship would have come under the same scrutiny had they proclaimed love prior to the first meeting.

[=Surge=]

Seriously, how can you fall in love with someone you've never met? Sure, I can understand connecting with someone on the net and feeling close to them. However, if your strongest bonds to other people are exclusively on the net, well, that's just sad.

:idea:


props to chunky yaar. i see a lot of potential in this site though. but to strictly keep it an "online love relationship"? i should cockslap each and every one of you.

P.S. my lund is really big.

[chunky]

I fell in love with downloaded lesbian movies. Technically tahts online love to isnt it?

dude, you just fell in love with lesbians that had downs syndrome.

world of difference there, pal.

[teh_kemosabe]

more like a douche

Haha, yeah he was...

Wonder if he still reads this forum.

[alphaPAKI]

I fell in love with downloaded lesbian movies. Technically tahts online love to isnt it?
i've seen some wicked funny lesbians flicks off the net

i remember this one where these 2 butches were constructions workers and they made catcalls to this innocent girl walking by, they overpowered her and called her a 'piece of shit toilet from hell' :rofl:

after typing this i realized how wildly innappropriate it was, but that line always gets me, so i took out all the unneccessary details

[chunky]

Whatever happened to that dude that used the light bulb?

wasn't he a bit before your time, son.

[ThatGirl]

Haha, yeah he was...

Wonder if he still reads this forum.
of course he does. rate dorkus was his life.

[teh_kemosabe]

wasn't he a bit before your time, son.

I used to read the forums before I joined up... I was a fan.

[SillyKitty]

Seriously, how can you fall in love with someone you've never met? Sure, I can understand connecting with someone on the net and feeling close to them. However, if your strongest bonds to other people are exclusively on the net, well, that's just sad.

:idea:


I actually fell in love online once.. :)

i left my real life bf.. and fel for this guy..

and that was actully the longest relationship ever for me.. a year...

I mean i went through a lot of bad relationships in real life..


and its not really bad.. :) i got my emotional support.. and someone to pour my love to.. and we didnt have to answer to each other if we would see other people..


It was Liberating, because there wasnt any pressure for sex.. obviously..





He was there for me .. on my shittiest of the days, was a great rock for me to lean on .. i still love him :) as one of my bestest friend.. cuz a guy like him is very rare to find :) so i dont ever wanna lose him..



and the real life bfs i had..

hmm.. they think they need a Tylenol to go out with me.. i am sometimes kinda overbearing with all the whining and negativity..

and there is always the Prudeness in me.. that i am never gonna give up :p

but ya.. Online.. its great if u dont expect much.. or better yet anything..


you connect on a deeper level.. if u are BOTH honest.. :)

[teh_kemosabe]

of course he does. rate dorkus was his life.

Haha Yeah I know, it kinda seemed like it... he was funny but seemed like one of those guys that spent too much time on the computer...

[cassa nova]

I actually fell in love online once.. :)

i left my real life bf.. and fel for this guy..

and that was actully the longest relationship ever for me.. a year...

I mean i went through a lot of bad relationships in real life..


and its not really bad.. :) i got my emotional support.. and someone to pour my love to.. and we didnt have to answer to each other if we would see other people..


It was Liberating, because there wasnt any pressure for sex.. obviously..





He was there for me .. on my shittiest of the days, was a great rock for me to lean on .. i still love him :) as one of my bestest friend.. cuz a guy like him is very rare to find :) so i dont ever wanna lose him..



and the real life bfs i had..

hmm.. they think they need a Tylenol to go out with me.. i am sometimes kinda overbearing with all the whining and negativity..

and there is always the Prudeness in me.. that i am never gonna give up :p

but ya.. Online.. its great if u dont expect much.. or better yet anything..


you connect on a deeper level.. if u are BOTH honest.. :)
WOW that stuff happens

hows the pain love hope its better

[reaz]

so who's falling for who now?

[Walktheline]

Haha Yeah I know, it kinda seemed like it... he was funny but seemed like one of those guys that spent too much time on the computer...


he liked marvin gaye -- need I say more?

[SillyKitty]

so who's falling for who now?
me for u :love:

[SillyKitty]

WOW that stuff happens

hows the pain love hope its better
no its still there

u mean the tooth ache?

or the heartache :p

[teh_kemosabe]

he liked marvin gaye -- need I say more?

I like Marvin Gaye too. He's good.

[cassa nova]

no its still there

u mean the tooth ache?

or the heartache :p
lol the tooth ache silly billy

[reaz]

me for u :love:

:ugh:

stick with rishi_tex.

[=Surge=]

I actually fell in love online once.. :)

i left my real life bf.. and fel for this guy..

and that was actully the longest relationship ever for me.. a year...

I mean i went through a lot of bad relationships in real life..


and its not really bad.. :) i got my emotional support.. and someone to pour my love to.. and we didnt have to answer to each other if we would see other people..


It was Liberating, because there wasnt any pressure for sex.. obviously..





He was there for me .. on my shittiest of the days, was a great rock for me to lean on .. i still love him :) as one of my bestest friend.. cuz a guy like him is very rare to find :) so i dont ever wanna lose him..



and the real life bfs i had..

hmm.. they think they need a Tylenol to go out with me.. i am sometimes kinda overbearing with all the whining and negativity..

and there is always the Prudeness in me.. that i am never gonna give up :p

but ya.. Online.. its great if u dont expect much.. or better yet anything..


you connect on a deeper level.. if u are BOTH honest.. :)


so in other words he was your "emotional whore." where you would whine and complain about the guys you were getting with and he would just sit there and listen, while at the end of the conversation you would go back to doing your thing, while he sat heartbroken in his chair fondling his manhood with his right hand. hey look, i'm not necessarily hating, but i think some guys really need to smarten up. you got your good share of the deal, so hey more props to you, keep doin your thing :p

[Sikh4Lyfe]

I actually fell in love online once.. :)

i left my real life bf.. and fel for this guy..

and that was actully the longest relationship ever for me.. a year...

I mean i went through a lot of bad relationships in real life..


and its not really bad.. :) i got my emotional support.. and someone to pour my love to.. and we didnt have to answer to each other if we would see other people..


It was Liberating, because there wasnt any pressure for sex.. obviously.





He was there for me .. on my shittiest of the days, was a great rock for me to lean on .. i still love him :) as one of my bestest friend.. cuz a guy like him is very rare to find :) so i dont ever wanna lose him..



and the real life bfs i had..

hmm.. they think they need a Tylenol to go out with me.. i am sometimes kinda overbearing with all the whining and negativity..

and there is always the Prudeness in me.. that i am never gonna give up :p

but ya.. Online.. its great if u dont expect much.. or better yet anything..


you connect on a deeper level.. if u are BOTH honest.. :)

Bitch, what the fuck are you on about?


It was Liberating, because there wasnt any pressure for sex.. obviously..

What the fuck is that stupid shit? Are you that dull that the only way someoen will go out with you is so you will give it up openly?

Highschool whore im guessing, we always had a few.

[SillyKitty]

:ugh:

stick with rishi_tex.
:tears:

u heart breaker

[cassa nova]

so in other words he was your "emotional whore." where you would whine and complain about the guys you were getting with and he would just sit there and listen, while at the end of the conversation you would go back to doing your thing, while he sat heartbroken in his chair fondling his manhood with his right hand. hey look, i'm not necessarily hating, but i think some guys really need to smarten up. you got your good share of the deal, so hey more props to you, keep doin your thing :p
that was unecceserry knob head

[reaz]

so in other words he was your "emotional whore." where you would whine and complain about the guys you were getting with and he would just sit there and listen, while at the end of the conversation you would go back to doing your thing, while he sat heartbroken in his chair fondling his manhood with his right hand. hey look, i'm not necessarily hating, but i think some guys really need to smarten up. you got your good share of the deal, so hey more props to you, keep doin your thing :p

he's the typical beta male.. lol.. got stuck listening to her problems and getting nothing out of it..

[alphaPAKI]

I actually fell in love online once.. :)

i left my real life bf.. and fel for this guy..

and that was actully the longest relationship ever for me.. a year...

I mean i went through a lot of bad relationships in real life..


and its not really bad.. :) i got my emotional support.. and someone to pour my love to.. and we didnt have to answer to each other if we would see other people..


It was Liberating, because there wasnt any pressure for sex.. obviously..





He was there for me .. on my shittiest of the days, was a great rock for me to lean on .. i still love him :) as one of my bestest friend.. cuz a guy like him is very rare to find :) so i dont ever wanna lose him..



and the real life bfs i had..

hmm.. they think they need a Tylenol to go out with me.. i am sometimes kinda overbearing with all the whining and negativity..

and there is always the Prudeness in me.. that i am never gonna give up :p

but ya.. Online.. its great if u dont expect much.. or better yet anything..


you connect on a deeper level.. if u are BOTH honest.. :)
that sounds like its all gravy for you but really at the same time it seems like the guy got the raw end of the deal, unless he doesnt have testicles :dunno:

[redlightnin]

Seriously, how can you fall in love with someone you've never met? Sure, I can understand connecting with someone on the net and feeling close to them. However, if your strongest bonds to other people are exclusively on the net, well, that's just sad.

:idea:
I've fallen in love thru the internet. In fact, we started going out before we met. We web cammed, called eachother every day. Then met up a week after we started going out. My ex and I shared a healthy relationship for a year, then it got rough three months after that. It helped that she lived 20 min away by driving. But then it went sour, cuz the dumb bitch cheated on me. I found out six months after that she was about to have a kid by the asshole she cheated on me with. Go0d times! rofl

[selina_786]

:roflbow: :roflbow: :roflbow: :roflbow: :roflbow: :roflbow:



ROFLLLLLLLLLLLLLL e-loving yo..

[SillyKitty]

so in other words he was your "emotional whore." where you would whine and complain about the guys you were getting with and he would just sit there and listen, while at the end of the conversation you would go back to doing your thing, while he sat heartbroken in his chair fondling his manhood with his right hand. hey look, i'm not necessarily hating, but i think some guys really need to smarten up. you got your good share of the deal, so hey more props to you, keep doin your thing :p


NO .. why would he do that?

he can go find some gurls to have sex with .. and i am sure he did..

but our love Encompassed everything that sort.. it was more of a spiritual one.. :)

and well, i didnt get with any guys when i was with him.. i just cudnt.. :dunno:

i know its wierd.. but. thats how i am

[teh_kemosabe]

:roflbow: :roflbow: :roflbow: :roflbow: :roflbow: :roflbow:



ROFLLLLLLLLLLLLLL e-loving yo..

Isn't that your e-boyfriend in your sig though?

[SillyKitty]

that sounds like its all gravy for you but really at the same time it seems like the guy got the raw end of the deal, unless he doesnt have testicles :dunno:


OMGGG.. nooo u dont know the whole thingg.. u donno anything acually

it was ME who got the Raw deal.. and i didnt care. .cuz i loved him.. a lot

[selina_786]

Isn't that your e-boyfriend in your sig though?

Are you serious? :lol:


oh wait i think iv been "owned" ... :rolleyes:

[reaz]

hmm.. a lot of the people on this thread have been attracted to some one over the net at one point or the other.. hmm...

[ThatGirl]

Haha Yeah I know, it kinda seemed like it... he was funny but seemed like one of those guys that spent too much time on the computer...


what a waste of a handsome face he is.


oOoO, I rhymed.

[SillyKitty]

he's the typical beta male.. lol.. got stuck listening to her problems and getting nothing out of it..


:)

nope.. it was me.. sacrificed a LOT for him..

but I dono why.. i stuck with him.. idonno why i loved him the way i did..

but it taught me A LOT.. like not to expect ANYTHING from any one..

[=Surge=]

NO .. why would he do that?

he can go find some gurls to have sex with .. and i am sure he did..

but our love Encompassed everything that sort.. it was more of a spiritual one.. :)

and well, i didnt get with any guys when i was with him.. i just cudnt.. :dunno:

i know its wierd.. but. thats how i am


sweetheart, i'm sure you have a good heart and all but what i stated is correct. i highly doubt he would maintain an "online relationship" if he was out getting some. it. just. doesn't. work. out. like. that. the internet is a fantasy, an illusion. and quite retarded and gay in social terms.

reaz - yea man

cassa nova - it was necessary, i say what i believe in, and constructive criticism is always good. stop being a socially conditioned pussy and accept others' opinions once in a while.

[cassa nova]

ignore em kitty

by the way you type fast

[SillyKitty]

Bitch, what the fuck are you on about?




What the fuck is that stupid shit? Are you that dull that the only way someoen will go out with you is so you will give it up openly?

Highschool whore im guessing, we always had a few.


U mother fucker.. u donno the guys i went out with so u just SUSHHHH about my case..

[vikvik12]

what a waste of a handsome face he is.


oOoO, I rhymed.
measly attempts at rhyming and you end up with a slant..R0flz.

[reaz]

:)

nope.. it was me.. sacrificed a LOT for him..

but I dono why.. i stuck with him.. idonno why i loved him the way i did..

but it taught me A LOT.. like not to expect ANYTHING from any one..


yea w/e.

[cassa nova]

U mother fucker.. u donno the guys i went out with so u just SUSHHHH about my case..
kitty ignore the loosers talk to me instead

[selina_786]

ignore em kitty

by the way you type fast

You are another version of GT & KING !...

[ThatGirl]

measly attempts at rhyming and you end up with a slant..R0flz.
that was an accidental rhyme :slap:

[Grizzley]

what a waste of a handsome face he is.


oOoO, I rhymed.

its ok, you have me now :eyebrow:

[SillyKitty]

sweetheart, i'm sure you have a good heart and all but what i stated is correct. i highly doubt he would maintain an "online relationship" if he was out getting some. it. just. doesn't. work. out. like. that. the internet is a fantasy, an illusion. and quite retarded and gay in social terms.

reaz - yea man

cassa nova - it was necessary, i say what i believe in, and constructive criticism is always good. stop being a socially conditioned pussy and accept others' opinions once in a while.



YES it was a fantasy

but it did me a lot of good :)

it tought me how to love uncoditionally..


WELL.. for the starters.. U donno NOTHING about that guy and how he is.. he is a guy who would go out and have sex with out the frills of a relationship.. but didnt.. well he said he didnt.. but i m pretty sure he did..

and we used to talk about how we will maintain it.. and it was no problem for me.. cuz it was a Fantasy and i knew it.. lol..

but it was love nonethless.. thats what i belive..

[cassa nova]

You are another version of GT & KING !...
what you on about just coz you be nice to someone doesnt mean you wanna fuck em

[ThatGirl]

its ok, you have me now :eyebrow:
:shock:

when did this acquisition occur?

oh and hell yeah!

[SillyKitty]

yea w/e.
:lol: what u mean watever? can u atleast tell me if u got me or not?

or u just cant find a word to say to that ?:)

[SillyKitty]

kitty ignore the loosers talk to me instead
its ok.. :) and thanks..

i just like to see how other people think

[=Surge=]

YES it was a fantasy

but it did me a lot of good :)

it tought me how to love uncoditionally..


WELL.. for the starters.. U donno NOTHING about that guy and how he is.. he is a guy who would go out and have sex with out the frills of a relationship.. but didnt.. well he said he didnt.. but i m pretty sure he did..

and we used to talk about how we will maintain it.. and it was no problem for me.. cuz it was a Fantasy and i knew it.. lol..

but it was love nonethless.. thats what i belive..


its cool, whatever makes you happy (and i hope the other person as well) i guess. you're entitled to your opinion as well, so i'll respect that.

[alphaPAKI]

OMGGG.. nooo u dont know the whole thingg.. u donno anything acually

it was ME who got the Raw deal.. and i didnt care. .cuz i loved him.. a lot
you have a point, i really don't know anything about the situation

but from what you described he sounds like a gaping pussy, but if thats not the case then you can tell me what he got out of it at least

[reaz]

:lol: what u mean watever? can u atleast tell me if u got me or not?

or u just cant find a word to say to that ?:)


how about I don't care what you had to say. so I ignored the post and let you know that I wasnt interested.

[cassa nova]

its ok.. :) and thanks..

i just like to see how other people think
okay theyre just jealous

[SillyKitty]

you have a point, i really don't know anything about the situation

from what you described he sounds like a gaping pussy, but if thats not the case then you can tell me what he got out of it at least


Nah he is actually a PRICK :lol:


but its his innocence.. his live life to the fullest attitude.. that got me fall for him.. and trust me I have never met or known ANY one in my entire life like that.. I was totally awestruck.. and actually wanted to be like HIM..

He taught me how to live life..

and who said if u love s omeone.. u have to get that person?

u can love a person just for the sake of love.. :)

thats how our love was..


and it really did me a GREAT favor :)

PLUS i got a GREAT friend for life..

[SillyKitty]

how about I don't care what you had to say. so I ignored the post and let you know that I wasnt interested.
:lol: then why the fuck u reply about my post then ? :dunno:

if u cant handle the whole thing?

[chunky]

it tought me how to love uncoditionally..

News flash.

If you never met him, it was not love to begin with. The only types of love that will ever be unconditional are the love you have for yourself, and the love that sometimes exists between a parent & child.

[=Surge=]

before i leave this thread, i would like to remind you cyber lovers to cut the internet shite. its fucking retarded and pointless unless you are going to actually meet in real life and start something on a regular basis.

to the males: grow some nuts, become a bit cultured, and get some women in real life. (you're lucky darwin's theories of "survival of the fittest" don't apply in modern society anymore)

to the females: enjoy your emotional boy toys. they deserve it for being such vaginal retards.

[SillyKitty]

its cool, whatever makes you happy (and i hope the other person as well) i guess. you're entitled to your opinion as well, so i'll respect that.


Ya he is happy :)

actually one of the happiest person i know of..

and thats what got me .. his enthusiasm towards life.. is UNMATCHED..

[chunky]

but its his innocence.. his live life to the fullest attitude.. that got me fall for him..

Let me break it down for you.

He wanted you to "live life to the fullest" so that when you guys met up, he could fill you up with his cock. He was just priming you to lose your inhibitions so he would have an easier time bedding you.

[teh_kemosabe]

Let me break it down for you.

He wanted you to "live life to the fullest" so that when you guys met up, he could fill you up with his cock. He was just priming you to lose your inhibitions so he would have an easier time bedding you.


This guy is intense...

[reaz]

:lol: then why the fuck u reply about my post then ? :dunno:

if u cant handle the whole thing?

I was talking to Surge. I dont know where you dropped in. It was a discussion of your post. But I was talking to him.

[chunky]

before i leave this thread, i would like to remind you cyber lovers to cut the internet shite. its fucking retarded and pointless unless you are going to actually meet in real life and start something on a regular basis.

to the males: grow some nuts, become a bit cultured, and get some women in real life. (you're lucky darwin's theories of "survival of the fittest" don't apply in modern society anymore)

to the females: enjoy your emotional boy toys. they deserve it for being such vaginal retards.

I couldn't agree more.

[cassa nova]

Let me break it down for you.

He wanted you to "live life to the fullest" so that when you guys met up, he could fill you up with his cock. He was just priming you to lose your inhibitions so he would have an easier time bedding you.
how do you know, you say it like it was you on the other end

[SillyKitty]

News flash.

If you never met him, it was not love to begin with. The only types of love that will ever be unconditional are the love you have for yourself, and the love that sometimes exists between a parent & child.


No it was spiritual.. in my opinion.. nothing sexual.. or anything..

i loved him just because.. i never met a person like him in my life before.. i

I mean i never in my life even dreamt of goin to scotland and meet him.. i didnt want to.. because i was extremely happy with how we were..



:) and.. love is something really miraculous, and really uncomprehendable.. and it doesnt necessarily mean it has to be a physical thing..

Platonic love..

[reaz]

how do you know, you say it like it was you on the other end

I think it would take a guy to figure this out. Are you one?

[SillyKitty]

I was talking to Surge. I dont know where you dropped in. It was a discussion of your post. But I was talking to him.


YUP.. but it was about MY post.. lol.. which u had a misconception about.. i just wanted to clear the misconception.. thats all

[SillyKitty]

Let me break it down for you.

He wanted you to "live life to the fullest" so that when you guys met up, he could fill you up with his cock. He was just priming you to lose your inhibitions so he would have an easier time bedding you.


its nothign like that :)

u donno him

he cud play with any girls he want.. but he never playes with soemone he cares about..

becaus he doesnt have to.. he is one of the most goodlookin guy i ever seen acually lol.. so getting "it" isnt a problem for him..

so why would he want me that way? when he can have any one he wants

[chunky]

No it was spiritual.. in my opinion.. nothing sexual.. or anything..

i loved him just because.. i never met a person like him in my life before.. i

I mean i never in my life even dreamt of goin to scotland and meet him.. i didnt want to.. because i was extremely happy with how we were..



:) and.. love is something really miraculous, and really uncomprehendable.. and it doesnt necessarily mean it has to be a physical thing..

Platonic love..

You never met him in the flesh. If you really think that what you had with him was love, then like the title of this thread says, you're retarded.

Sounds to me like you've read one too many fairy tails. Platonic love is a farce. You do realize that Plato was a fag and the whole premise behind "Platonic" love was to lure little boys into sexual encounters?

[alphaPAKI]

Nah he is actually a PRICK :lol:


but its his innocence.. his live life to the fullest attitude.. that got me fall for him.. and trust me I have never met or known ANY one in my entire life like that.. I was totally awestruck.. and actually wanted to be like HIM..

He taught me how to live life..

and who said if u love s omeone.. u have to get that person?

u can love a person just for the sake of love.. :)

thats how our love was..


and it really did me a GREAT favor :)

PLUS i got a GREAT friend for life..
it seems like your confusing love for something else, where you more or less were taken under his wing and tried to even emulate him at a time, seems like a form of idolatry, kinda like how a michael jackson fan loves MJ

and i see what you got out of the whole thing, but i still dont see what this guy got from it

really though, whatever floats your boat, im not one to judge im just curious

[cassa nova]

I think it would take a guy to figure this out. Are you one?
thats the thing, why i keep saying to myself, nowadays you cant like a girl without lust gettin in the way, not like in the old days when people actually had morals and fear of god, no wonder the worlds comin to a fuckin end with most people thinking with their dicks and fannys, then you wonder why theres aids and rape.

the only way is shariah law capitalism is bullshit

[chunky]

its nothign like that :)

u donno him

he cud play with any girls he want.. but he never playes with soemone he cares about..

becaus he doesnt have to.. he is one of the most goodlookin guy i ever seen acually lol.. so getting "it" isnt a problem for him..

so why would he want me that way? when he can have any one he wants

News flash. You don't know him yourself. All you know is what he tells you. It's far too easy to lie on the interent. You expect people to be sincere on the internet. I find that extremely ridiculous.

If he was so goodlooking, why in the fuck was he wasting his time on you over the internet? It doesn't add up.

[reaz]

thats the thing, why i keep saying to myself, nowadays you cant like a girl without lust gettin in the way, not like in the old days when people actually had morals and fear of god, no wonder the worlds comin to a fuckin end with most people thinking with their dicks and fannys, then you wonder why theres aids and rape.

the only way is shariah law capitalism is bullshit

please. dont bring the shariah into this. it's a load of bullcrap. it even defies the Quran and what not.

ppl are definitely losing morals but all this is bound to happen.

[redlightnin]

No it was spiritual.. in my opinion.. nothing sexual.. or anything..

i loved him just because.. i never met a person like him in my life before.. i

I mean i never in my life even dreamt of goin to scotland and meet him.. i didnt want to.. because i was extremely happy with how we were..



:) and.. love is something really miraculous, and really uncomprehendable.. and it doesnt necessarily mean it has to be a physical thing..

Platonic love..
"and.. love is something really miraculous, and really uncomprehendable.. and it doesnt necessarily mean it has to be a physical thing..

Platonic love.."

^^That's true^^ You can fall in love with a person just by the way they are. You don't have to be with them physically to love them. Personally, I think platonic love is stronger than physical love, in the sense that you long for the person more, that you build a need for them sometimes. Conversing online, on the phone, or thru letters can be essential to a relationship sometimes, regardless of if you meet them or not.

[SillyKitty]

You never met him in the flesh. If you really think that what you had with him was love, then like the title of this thread says, you're retarded.

Sounds to me like you've read one too many fairy tails. Platonic love is a farce. You do realize that Plato was a fag and the whole premise behind "Platonic" love was to lure little boys into sexual encounters?


well .. its just what i Belive in :)

that what i had/have with him is/was love..

if that makes me a retarded.. then what can i say :)

thats YOUR opinion.. and some others in this thread too..

I mean.. i never felt worthy to have him.. EVER.. so thats why i didnt want him that way... and slowly walked away..

[alphaPAKI]

thats the thing, why i keep saying to myself, nowadays you cant like a girl without lust gettin in the way, not like in the old days when people actually had morals and fear of god, no wonder the worlds comin to a fuckin end with most people thinking with their dicks and fannys, then you wonder why theres aids and rape.

the only way is shariah law capitalism is bullshit
man it was always about the pussy no matter what time period you were in

its tv that makes you think otherwise, there was never a wholesome time that your dreaming of

[cassa nova]

man it was always about the pussy no matter what time period you were in

its tv that makes you think otherwise, there was never a wholesome time that your dreaming of
no back in the days if people committed phonication they would get stoned, that should happen now so it will stop all this bullshit.
We humans are curropt and never learn we need hard measure to keep us in line.

[SillyKitty]

News flash. You don't know him yourself. All you know is what he tells you. It's far too easy to lie on the interent. You expect people to be sincere on the internet. I find that extremely ridiculous.

If he was so goodlooking, why in the fuck was he wasting his time on you over the internet? It doesn't add up.


yes exactly..

and i dono if u seen it.. that i wrote.... he is part fantasy for me..
and part reallity..

but i made my self happy with what ever i got.. and i was able to let go a lot of garbage frm my psyche, and I thank GOD for that.. that i was able to meet someone like him.. or else.. i donno where i would've been right now..


He felt the same kind of connection with me.. like i did with him.. or else we would both be dead right now.. lol.. and i dont care if he was lieing to me about loving me.. because, u cant really calculated when u decide to love someone..

[alphaPAKI]

no back in the days if people committed phonication they would get stoned, that should happen now so it will stop all this bullshit.
We humans are curropt and never learn we need hard measure to keep us in line.
maybe in some small segments of society in some time periods

you average it out over all societies and time periods and my point will hold true

[Sir Smoke-A-Lot]

i wonder how that happens anyways. falling in love online :sarb:

[chunky]

"and.. love is something really miraculous, and really uncomprehendable.. and it doesnt necessarily mean it has to be a physical thing..

Platonic love.."

^^That's true^^ You can fall in love with a person just by the way they are. You don't have to be with them physically to love them. Personally, I think platonic love is stronger than physical love, in the sense that you long for the person more, that you build a need for them sometimes. Conversing online, on the phone, or thru letters can be essential to a relationship sometimes, regardless of if you meet them or not.

It's not really love then. It's just a close friendship or relationship. I think people throw around the concept of love far too easily and dilute its real meaning.

[SillyKitty]

it seems like your confusing love for something else, where you more or less were taken under his wing and tried to even emulate him at a time, seems like a form of idolatry, kinda like how a michael jackson fan loves MJ

and i see what you got out of the whole thing, but i still dont see what this guy got from it

really though, whatever floats your boat, im not one to judge im just curious


Hmm.. i am glad u see what i got from this :)

and for the guy.. it changed a lot in his life too, for better..
He started beliving in GOD.. he started Praying.. i donno i guess its just a miracle.. and u shouldnt try to question that or try to disect it to find answers..

OH and the Best part is..

HE STARTED CARING :) for others..

and thanks for being curious..:)

dont hold anything back

[cassa nova]

maybe in some small segments of society in some time periods

you average it out over all societies and time periods and my point will hold true
unfortunately you are right, we humans were made to commit evil
but we need harsher laws

i mean look at sick mofos who rape all they get is a few years and theyre out doing it again, what really should be done is hanging the bastards of the nearest lampost, that type of penalty will stop other sick mofos doing it.

and murderers should be life for a life etc you get my drift that law is better coz it will reduce crime dramatically.

[alphaPAKI]

Hmm.. i am glad u see what i got from this :)

and for the guy.. it changed a lot in his life too, for better..
He started beliving in GOD.. he started Praying.. i donno i guess its just a miracle.. and u shouldnt try to question that or try to disect it to find answers..

OH and the Best part is..

HE STARTED CARING :) for others..

and thanks for being curious..:)

dont hold anything back
i think at this point all i can say is we have very different definitions of love, mine is definately alot more narrow

[chunky]

yes exactly..

and i dono if u seen it.. that i wrote.... he is part fantasy for me..
and part reallity..

but i made my self happy with what ever i got.. and i was able to let go a lot of garbage in my psyche, and I thank GOD for that.. that i was able to meet someone like him.. or else.. i donno where i would've been right now..


He felt the same kind of connection with me.. like i did with him.. or else we would both be dead right now.. lol.. and i dont care if he was lieing to me about loving me.. because, u cant really calculated when u decide to love someone..

Certainly people online can shape your views. I don't discount that possiblity at all.

What you fail to understand is that what you felt for this chump online will not hold a candle to what REAL love feels like. Most people will never feel real love in their lifetime.

You, like so many others have never fallen in love. You are just in love with the IDEA of being in love.

[SillyKitty]

"and.. love is something really miraculous, and really uncomprehendable.. and it doesnt necessarily mean it has to be a physical thing..

Platonic love.."

^^That's true^^ You can fall in love with a person just by the way they are. You don't have to be with them physically to love them. Personally, I think platonic love is stronger than physical love, in the sense that you long for the person more, that you build a need for them sometimes. Conversing online, on the phone, or thru letters can be essential to a relationship sometimes, regardless of if you meet them or not.


:) glad u agree..

acutally none of us are right.. None of us are wrong :)

its just the way we see things.. and they see things

they might thing we are out of our minds.. and we might thing they are just insensetive..


but at the end..

Love is just something really uncomprehandable

[chunky]

i wonder how that happens anyways. falling in love online :sarb:

Online love? It usually starts with a couple of mouse clicks. Pretty romantic eh?

[cassa nova]

Certainly people online can shape your views. I don't discount that possiblity at all.

What you fail to understand is that what you felt for this chump online will not hold a candle to what REAL love feels like. Most people will never feel real love in their lifetime.

You, like so many others have never fallen in love. You are just in love with the IDEA of being in love.
i kinda agree

[SillyKitty]

Certainly people online can shape your views. I don't discount that possiblity at all.

What you fail to understand is that what you felt for this chump online will not hold a candle to what REAL love feels like. Most people will never feel real love in their lifetime.

You, like so many others have never fallen in love. You are just in love with the IDEA of being in love.


U are right.. it might be nothing compare to the real love..

because.. yes i was in real love too.. with a Bengali guy from Atlanta..who was my friend for 3 years.. i loved him since who knows when..

but when i started goin out with him.. i threw him off his balance.. cuz i was just too scared.. that i would lose him.. and that insecurity actully made me lose him.. and i never got to tell him i love him.. lol..

and hence i came here.. in this forum.. to ask people for advice on this (because there isnt any one that i know who can help.. ).. i never knew i would actually stay here.. for long..

[SillyKitty]

i think at this point all i can say is we have very different definitions of love, mine is definately alot more narrow


its ok :)

[GT & MK KING]

have ppl here fallin in love?

are they retarded for doing that?

[cassa nova]

its ok :)
what is that the time its 5.30 in the morning damn i need to get some sleep

goodnight kitty meow lol x x :kiss:

[redlightnin]

:) glad u agree..

acutally none of us are right.. None of us are wrong :)

its just the way we see things.. and they see things

they might thing we are out of our minds.. and we might thing they are just insensetive..


but at the end..

Love is just something really uncomprehandable
yup yup. regardless of how you fall in love, it's a great feeling, whether it be physical, platonic, or just flat out feelings n emotion, it's still love. I guess it's all up to how the person takes it. I've fallen in love over the internet twice so far, met up w/ them later on in the relationship, n the relationships worked out great. They went on well over a year, but long after, in the end, the dumb girls ended up cheating on me. -=(

[redlightnin]

U are right.. it might be nothing compare to the real love..

because.. yes i was in real love too.. with a Bengali guy from Atlanta..who was my friend for 3 years.. i loved him since who knows when..

but when i started goin out with him.. i threw him off his balance.. cuz i was just too scared.. that i would lose him.. and that insecurity actully made me lose him.. and i never got to tell him i love him.. lol..

and hence i came here.. in this forum.. to ask people for advice on this (because there isnt any one that i know who can help.. ).. i never knew i would actually stay here.. for long..
aww, y0u lub us, lol

[SillyKitty]

what is that the time its 5.30 in the morning damn i need to get some sleep

goodnight kitty meow lol x x :kiss:


aww damn.. i know its pretty late over there lol i wold say pretty early lol..

take care sweety :hug:

[chunky]

U are right.. it might be nothing compare to the real love..

because.. yes i was in real love too.. with a Bengali guy from Atlanta..who was my friend for 3 years.. i loved him since who knows when..

but when i started goin out with him.. i threw him off his balance.. cuz i was just too scared.. that i would lose him.. and that insecurity actully made me lose him.. and i never got to tell him i love him.. lol..

and hence i came here.. in this forum.. to ask people for advice on this (because there isnt any one that i know who can help.. ).. i never knew i would actually stay here.. for long..

Here's another idea for you to think about.

Insecurity is a STRONG sign that what you felt was NOT love. With love comes commitment, stability, and security. At the very least stability in your feelings for that person even if the relationship itself is unstable. If you loved him one hour and hated him the next because he didn't call, then it wasn't love.

[SillyKitty]

aww, y0u lub us, lol
hehe offcourse i do :) :hug:

[=Surge=]

i'm sorry i just had to come back, this shit was just getting too interesting/out of hand

women will always search for their "prince charming/knight on a horse." realisticly, you're not going to find your monogamous handsome knight who will love you unconditionally, you've been spoon fed these unrealistic fairy tales since you were a little kid. men are designed to spread the seed, and no matter how much he "loves" you, if he sees a safe opening (no pun intended) he will go for it, stop being naive. men and women think differently, its the clashing dynamic that keeps the gender "war" going on. men and women excel at different things, but in this case, the realistic view is not adopted by silly kitty. its ok though, she was just living out a fantasy of hers, which is fine, cause she was having fun. but for fucks sake, don't jump into a real life relationship with those unrealistic expectations, you're just asking for trouble. its how 16 year olds call their 3 month boyfriend, "hubby." its all a sham. jesus, what a rant.

[chunky]

have ppl here fallin in love?

are they retarded for doing that?

there are a lot of emotionally handicapped people on this site. So I must conclude that a lot have fallen in love on the interweb.

[SillyKitty]

Here's another idea for you to think about.

Insecurity is a STRONG sign that what you felt was NOT love. With love comes commitment, stability, and security. At the very least stability in your feelings for that person even if the relationship itself is unstable. If you loved him one hour and hated him the next because he didn't call, then it wasn't love.


hmmmm.. well it never happened that i would love him for one hour and hate him the next.. what happened was..


I got too over whelmed with the emotions i have for him.. and he was scaring me with all his ideas and ways..

and i went berserk.. because i cared and loved him a LOT.. and he was a really important part of my life.. if not my life...

So yes that scared the hell outta me.. and i started doin stupid stuff..

[Sir Smoke-A-Lot]

have ppl here fallin in love?

are they retarded for doing that?

no but they have fallen in love after meeting each other :neutral:

[aymish]

love sucks.

[SillyKitty]

i'm sorry i just had to come back, this shit was just getting too interesting/out of hand

women will always search for their "prince charming/knight on a horse." realisticly, you're not going to find your monogamous handsome knight who will love you unconditionally, you've been spoon fed these unrealistic fairy tales since you were a little kid. men are designed to spread the seed, and no matter how much he "loves" you, if he sees a safe opening (no pun intended) he will go for it, stop being naive. men and women think differently, its the clashing dynamic that keeps the gender "war" going on. men and women excel at different things, but in this case, the realistic view is not adopted by silly kitty. its ok though, she was just living out a fantasy of hers, which is fine, cause she was having fun. but for fucks sake, don't jump into a real life relationship with those unrealistic expectations, you're just asking for trouble. its how 16 year olds call their 3 month boyfriend, "hubby." its all a sham. jesus, what a rant.


:lol:

ok u tell me how did i have ANY expectaions in that relationship?

:no: i even said that it taught me not to expect from any relationships

[Haramzaada]

man i hate when those hott girls in my aim break up with me it hurts

[GT & MK KING]

:wtf: why was my name posted? someone writes fast like me!!!
wonder who? :sarb:

jus came in from doing some work.

[=Surge=]

:lol:

ok u tell me how did i have ANY expectaions in that relationship?

:no: i even said that it taught me not to expect from any relationships

lol, its a rant. lets make e-frandship.
:p

[SillyKitty]

lol, its a rant. lets make e-frandship.
:p
:p

i thought we were e friends already :p

[redlightnin]

man i hate when those hott girls in my aim break up with me it hurts
hahaha

[pachaas Paisa]

hey shut up... im the dr love of internet based relationship.

ok so technically speaking if there's a potential to meet, don't fall in love yet, in most cases the hot bitches end up looking like a whole different animal species when you meet them in person. PICTURES LIE and girls love showing you pictures that have no similarity nothing whatsoever with their actual features in real life. Yes MEET before you fall in love.

[GT & MK KING]

hey shut up... im the dr love of internet based relationship.

ok so technically speaking if there's a potential to meet, don't fall in love yet, in most cases the hot bitches end up looking like a whole different animal species when you meet them in person. PICTURES LIE and girls love showing you pictures that have no similarity nothing whatsoever with their actual features in real life. Yes MEET before you fall in love.
metting someone first is best :yes:

[=Surge=]

:p

i thought we were e friends already :p


yea well, come to NY sometime, the internet does me no justice :p

[SillyKitty]

yea well, come to NY sometime, the internet does me no justice :p


ya i might go there in jan :P

btw.. i spoke to u before LOL>. i guess u forgot me :ashamed:

[GT & MK KING]

yea well, come to NY sometime, the internet does me no justice :p
i live in NY

[chunky]

hmmmm.. well it never happened that i would love him for one hour and hate him the next.. what happened was..


I got too over whelmed with the emotions i have for him.. and he was scaring me with all his ideas and ways..

and i went berserk.. because i cared and loved him a LOT.. and he was a really important part of my life.. if not my life...

So yes that scared the hell outta me.. and i started doin stupid stuff..

Again, if you really loved him, would you have gone berserk?

You didn't love him, you loved what he "could" be. You cared about him to the degree that he conformed to your expectations.

If he was always doing those things that made you go berserk, would you have still been with him? Probably not.

You were not in love with him. You just wanted the dream, the IDEA of love. That is why you went berserk. You were worried that the love might go away so you were doing anything possible to preserve the illusion.

Honestly, I feel really sorry for you. Your idea of love is seriously defective. You are the type of girl that thinks two black eyes means that he loves you twice as much. And that is very sad.

[GT & MK KING]

ya i might go there in jan :P

btw.. i spoke to u before LOL>. i guess u forgot me :ashamed:
u comin to NY!!!

cool ;)

[SillyKitty]

hey shut up... im the dr love of internet based relationship.

ok so technically speaking if there's a potential to meet, don't fall in love yet, in most cases the hot bitches end up looking like a whole different animal species when you meet them in person. PICTURES LIE and girls love showing you pictures that have no similarity nothing whatsoever with their actual features in real life. Yes MEET before you fall in love.
:clap:

yaaay

[SillyKitty]

u comin to NY!!!

cool ;)


yup yup

[chunky]

man i hate when those hott girls in my aim break up with me it hurts


:rofl:

[GT & MK KING]

yup yup
cool

hey what gives? why was my name posted somewhere here?
:dunno:

[=Surge=]

ya i might go there in jan :P

btw.. i spoke to u before LOL>. i guess u forgot me :ashamed:


good shit, i expect to chill then. and i'm sure i did, whether it be a phone conference or yahoo chat thing, i only did them once or twice. like i said before, i prefer interacting with people in real life. the internet is just to fuel my procrastination, especially during finals week :p

*edit* GT KING - good shit, i'm actually in nj but i live 5 minutes from manhattan right by the hudson, so i have the "best of both worlds" in a way. maybe i'll see you at a meet or something.

[chunky]

hey shut up... im the dr love of internet based relationship.

ok so technically speaking if there's a potential to meet, don't fall in love yet, in most cases the hot bitches end up looking like a whole different animal species when you meet them in person. PICTURES LIE and girls love showing you pictures that have no similarity nothing whatsoever with their actual features in real life. Yes MEET before you fall in love.

That's all I'm saying, recognize that "love" is not legitimate until after you meet.

[Sir Smoke-A-Lot]

man i hate when those hott girls in my aim break up with me it hurts

lolol :p

[aymish]

man all i know is that love, be it face to face or 100000 miles apart, has the potential to be the greatest OR the worst thing ever. and for me, so far, its been the worst. i see RD as an opportunity to talk to people without having to worry about relationship drama and other drama for that matter.

[GT & MK KING]

good shit, i expect to chill then. and i'm sure i did, whether it be a phone conference or yahoo chat thing, i only did them once or twice. like i said before, i prefer interacting with people in real life. the internet is just to fuel my procrastination, especially during finals week :p

*edit* GT KING - good shit, i'm actually in nj but i live 5 minutes from manhattan right by the hudson, so i have the "best of both worlds" in a way. maybe i'll see you at a meet or something.
wonder how that'll happen(the meet). who gonna b there, when, time?

[SillyKitty]

Again, if you really loved him, would you have gone berserk?

You didn't love him, you loved what he "could" be. You cared about him to the degree that he conformed to your expectations.

If he was always doing those things that made you go berserk, would you have still been with him? Probably not.

You were not in love with him. You just wanted the dream, the IDEA of love. That is why you went berserk. You were worried that the love might go away so you were doing anything possible to preserve the illusion.

Honestly, I feel really sorry for you. Your idea of love is seriously defective. You are the type of girl that thinks two black eyes means that he loves you twice as much. And that is very sad.


no i did :)

I went berserk cuz there was too much at stake.. and i was scared to death..

and no please dont feel sorry for me.. lol

i am not into that kinda superstitions..
about the two black eyes thing..

but ya.. why do u think we all have to Calcualted EVERY single stuff.. to be in love with s omeone?

love isnt rational.. there is no place for rationality in love..

i mean he isnt even the Type of guy i go for in the first place..
yet i felt like that with him..

[GT & MK KING]

did u actually have a love for someone sai?

was there something going between the two of u?

[pachaas Paisa]

man all i know is that love, be it face to face or 100000 miles apart, has the potential to be the greatest OR the worst thing ever. and for me, so far, its been the worst. i see RD as an opportunity to talk to people without having to worry about relationship drama and other drama for that matter.

I am sorry I have to disagree then. considering the fact that I dated two girls off of RD in real life, I KNow what it means.. when i joined the damn forums I never had such ideas whatsoever, u know what, then you got these fuckin teases who will flirt with you and get you into it.. Homewreckers I tell ya, The best possible way to not fall for any of this trap is to simply take down your pictures and be the biggest jerk on here so you will be just fine

[SillyKitty]

did u actually have a love for someone sai?

was there something going between the two of u?
:yes:

and what u mean something goin on between who and me? :neutral:

[SillyKitty]

good shit, i expect to chill then. and i'm sure i did, whether it be a phone conference or yahoo chat thing, i only did them once or twice. like i said before, i prefer interacting with people in real life. the internet is just to fuel my procrastination, especially during finals week :p

*edit* GT KING - good shit, i'm actually in nj but i live 5 minutes from manhattan right by the hudson, so i have the "best of both worlds" in a way. maybe i'll see you at a meet or something.


Cool i think u live around the same area as Prat.. we can all hang out together :D

well internet for me is.. a place where i can share ideas.. and learn stuff from others.. cuz ther are soo many opposing views.. ESPECIALLY between girls and guys LOL..

[pachaas Paisa]

:yes:

and what u mean something goin on between who and me? :neutral:


if you asked me that question, after all that I'd seriously pull my fuckin hair out, dont you get it what he asked? jesus christ

[SillyKitty]

man all i know is that love, be it face to face or 100000 miles apart, has the potential to be the greatest OR the worst thing ever. and for me, so far, its been the worst. i see RD as an opportunity to talk to people without having to worry about relationship drama and other drama for that matter.


hmm its all how u take it.. :yes:

[GT & MK KING]

:yes:

and what u mean something goin on between who and me? :neutral:
the person that u knew. did u love him a lot.



did you and that person fell in love?

[aymish]

hmm its all how u take it.. :yes:

well, it is to an extent but when it happens to you over and over and over again and you're stupid enough to keep letting people convince you they love you over and over and over again, you really really become numb to it all. and i wish i wasnt :(

[GT & MK KING]

well, it is to an extent but when it happens to you over and over and over again and you're stupid enough to keep letting people convince you they love you over and over and over again, you really really become numb to it all. and i wish i wasnt :(
i feel bad for ya.

[chunky]

no i did :)

I went berserk cuz there was too much at stake.. and i was scared to death..

and no please dont feel sorry for me.. lol

i am not into that kinda superstitions..
about the two black eyes thing..

but ya.. why do u think we all have to Calcualted EVERY single stuff.. to be in love with s omeone?

love isnt rational.. there is no place for rationality in love..

i mean he isnt even the Type of guy i go for in the first place..
yet i felt like that with him..

You have no idea what love is. period. end of story.

What does "too much at stake" mean? It means that you were afraid that you were going to discover that what you felt was NOT love.

The two black eyes thing was not a superstition. It's an anecdote. The meaning is that you are the type of person that will rationalize any actions to fit what you want to be true. That means that if a guy treats you like shit but you have the idea in your head that you two are in love, you will believe that his violent actions are an expression of love. I.e. he beats you b/c he loves you. That is the kind of mindset that you have.

Where in the FUCK do you see me saying that love can be calculated & measured? Please, cite one place where I have said that love is predictable? Where did i even imply that love follows the same pattern for everyone? Typing to you is a bunch of fucking wasted time because you NEVER GET IT. You ignore ideas that conflict with the way you want things to be. You live in a dream world that you have built around yourself with faulty ideas and concepts.

Sure you can't measure what love is in advance, but why is it so difficult for you to understand that you can't love someone until you truly know them. To truly know someone, you MUST meet them. There is no question about that. If you can't truly know someone until you meet them, then you can't truly love them until you've met them as well.

[SillyKitty]

well, it is to an extent but when it happens to you over and over and over again and you're stupid enough to keep letting people convince you they love you over and over and over again, you really really become numb to it all. and i wish i wasnt :(
:hug: i am soo sorrry


thats why i dont let anyone convince me that they love me lol.. unlesss there is like real tangible proof..

[aymish]

i feel bad for ya.

i dont feel bad for me... i believe that everything thats happened to me is for a reason, and that reason is that i was too stupid and gullible to prevent it.

[Ac89]

Seriously, how can you fall in love with someone you've never met? Sure, I can understand connecting with someone on the net and feeling close to them. However, if your strongest bonds to other people are exclusively on the net, well, that's just sad.

:idea:
agreed

[aymish]

:hug: i am soo sorrry


thats why i dont let anyone convince me that they love me lol.. unlesss there is like real tangible proof..

hmmm how bout a dead mouse and some kitty litter? :D

[GT & MK KING]

i dont feel bad for me... i believe that everything thats happened to me is for a reason, and that reason is that i was too stupid and gullible to prevent it.
things do happen for a reason.

[aymish]

things do happen for a reason.

i appreciate your thoughts anywayz dude :o

[GT & MK KING]

gotta question saira. u think there is love between us? u and i know that we are you know...

[GT & MK KING]

i appreciate your thoughts anywayz dude :o

jus tryn to be helpful. thas all

[chunky]

:hug: i am soo sorrry


thats why i dont let anyone convince me that they love me lol.. unlesss there is like real tangible proof..

BAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAH AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!

HOLY FUCK.

YOU NEED REAL TANGIBLE PROOF FOR LOVE?

I find this extremely humorous at this point in time.

[GT & MK KING]

BAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAH AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!

HOLY FUCK.

YOU NEED REAL TANGIBLE PROOF FOR LOVE?

I find this extremely humorous at this point in time.
why is it humorous?

[selina_786]

BAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAH AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!

HOLY FUCK.

YOU NEED REAL TANGIBLE PROOF FOR LOVE?

I find this extremely humorous at this point in time.
:kekeke:...

[aymish]

jus tryn to be helpful. thas all

dude i wasnt being sarcastic... i'm serious... i appreciate you feelin for me

[darsh_wanadate]

:wgaf:

[selina_786]

:wgaf:
Wow that was pretty smart...

[Haramzaada]

man girls just love me i cant even log onto aim without getting like 50 ims by hott chicks iam a pimp

[darsh_wanadate]

Wow that was pretty smart...
:wavey: He he

[chunky]

why is it humorous?

It's this thing called irony.

She spoke of being in love without having any REAL idea about what the person is like and without any TANGIBLE contact with the person.

Now she's saying that she doesn't fall in love without the REAL & TANGIBLE.

She's a fucking head case, and that is just hilarious. Someone has done a real number on this girl in the past. I seriously tried to be nice to her after I supposedly upset her in some other threads but this is just too much. I want to know who fucked her over so badly that she has no sense of logic or common sense whatsoever.

[GT & MK KING]

dude i wasnt being sarcastic... i'm serious... i appreciate you feelin for me
i'd be serious too. me being wit my girl

[darsh_wanadate]

man girls just love me i cant even log onto aim without getting like 50 ims by hott chicks iam a pimp

Keep saying that to yourself.

[SillyKitty]

BAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAH AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!

HOLY FUCK.

YOU NEED REAL TANGIBLE PROOF FOR LOVE?

I find this extremely humorous at this point in time.

why its soo funny?

ok just ignore me lol..

u surely are way advanced in ur thinking process :)

and i have a 10 year olds brain..
so lets just end it here..


i wanted to say what i wanted to say.. about Internet love :) and i am done :)

[Haramzaada]

Keep saying that to yourself.


says http://forums.ratedesi.com/memberpics/127560_thumb.jpg :Pelvic2:

[Sir Smoke-A-Lot]

says http://forums.ratedesi.com/memberpics/127560_thumb.jpg :Pelvic2:

:rofl: :rofl: :roflbow:

[BENGI_BOI]

Seriously, how can you fall in love with someone you've never met? Sure, I can understand connecting with someone on the net and feeling close to them. However, if your strongest bonds to other people are exclusively on the net, well, that's just sad.

:idea:
ur sooo fukin right.....peepz dat fall in luv on da net are LOSERS

[redlightnin]

It's this thing called irony.

She spoke of being in love without having any REAL idea about what the person is like and without any TANGIBLE contact with the person.

Now she's saying that she doesn't fall in love without the REAL & TANGIBLE.

She's a fucking head case, and that is just hilarious. Someone has done a real number on this girl in the past. I seriously tried to be nice to her after I supposedly upset her in some other threads but this is just too much. I want to know who fucked her over so badly that she has no sense of logic or common sense whatsoever.
sup chunky. damn br0, take it down a knotch, lol. you don't have to put her d0wn like that man. everyone is entitled to their own opinion, n that's just how she feels/is.

[chunky]

why its soo funny?

ok just ignore me lol..

u surely are way advanced in ur thinking process :)

and i have a 10 year olds brain..
so lets just end it here..


i wanted to say what i wanted to say.. about Internet love :) and i am done :)

Even a 10 year old isn't as confused as you are.

seriously, who fucked you over in your past. How the fuck did you get this way? It's not normal. You have no connection to reality at all. You just say what sounds good at the time and forget about what you've said in the past.

But I'm dead serious. I want to know who fucked you over and how exactly they did it.

[selina_786]

:drama:

[SillyKitty]

It's this thing called irony.

She spoke of being in love without having any REAL idea about what the person is like and without any TANGIBLE contact with the person.

Now she's saying that she doesn't fall in love without the REAL & TANGIBLE.

She's a fucking head case, and that is just hilarious. Someone has done a real number on this girl in the past. I seriously tried to be nice to her after I supposedly upset her in some other threads but this is just too much. I want to know who fucked her over so badly that she has no sense of logic or common sense whatsoever.



ya.. thats how the net love helped me.. now i want real and tangible proof of the other person's love for me before trusting that person..

[GT & MK KING]

It's this thing called irony.

She spoke of being in love without having any REAL idea about what the person is like and without any TANGIBLE contact with the person.

Now she's saying that she doesn't fall in love without the REAL & TANGIBLE.

She's a fucking head case, and that is just hilarious. Someone has done a real number on this girl in the past. I seriously tried to be nice to her after I supposedly upset her in some other threads but this is just too much. I want to know who fucked her over so badly that she has no sense of logic or common sense whatsoever.
she's in love :yes:.wit me. someone did do her wrong in her past and she was upset bout it. when i first met her, i liked her from the start. i got to know her better. now she and i know each other very well

on the net she loves me. off the net, ONLY she and i know no onw else knows

[chunky]

sup chunky. damn br0, take it down a knotch, lol. you don't have to put her d0wn like that man. everyone is entitled to their own opinion, n that's just how she feels/is.

her opinions are conflicted. On one hand she says that she doesn't need anything real & tangible to fall in love and on the other hand she says that she won't fall in love unless she has proof of the real & tangible.

She doesn't have a fucking clue man. Someone needs to stop babysitting her emotions and tell her that she's fucked in the head.

[redlightnin]

:drama:
lol

[SillyKitty]

Even a 10 year old isn't as confused as you are.

seriously, who fucked you over in your past. How the fuck did you get this way? It's not normal. You have no connection to reality at all. You just say what sounds good at the time and forget about what you've said in the past.

But I'm dead serious. I want to know who fucked you over and how exactly they did it.


Number of people.. :)

and u are right.. i am a head case..

[selina_786]

lol
:D... its fun... but chunky needs to ease up :no:

[pachaas Paisa]

says http://forums.ratedesi.com/memberpics/127560_thumb.jpg :Pelvic2:

this thread is jokes :roflbow: