People that fall in love online are RETARDED.

[chunky]

Its not retardeddddddddddddd! Do you even know what it means?
Retarded means that people are slow in mental or emotional or physical development.
Now if someone is claiming to be in love, doesnt make them slow!

Clearly people that fall in love online are a little slow in the emotional development. . .

[addiction01]

:( but i "falled" in love with you.

[chunky]

We are like the third people here amongst the couples. Who are we to judge them? Yeh you are entitled to your opinion, but whats with all the name calling?

It's not name calling. I'm not saying it to hurt anyone's feelings. I'm saying it because it's true.

[chunky]

how about my sister, shes dated quite a bit and had a couple serious b/fs.. but the guy who shes engaged with she met on shaadi.com! and he lived in UK at the time too, now hes signed a contract with his company in the states, they met in person a year after they got into contact from shaadi.com, now he's my brother-in law, lol

So?

Also, if they're just engaged, how is he your brother-in-law? I've said it over and over - the rules change once you've met. People do retarded things all the time. If you're in love over the net, you're retarded. However, you can rid yourself of the retardedness by simply MEETING the person in the flesh.

Why do people get so hurt about something that is so logical?

[chunky]

:( but i "falled" in love with you.

unpossible. It's not true love until there are nudes in my PM box.

[chunky]

rofflez

aww shiet. here comes kryptonite. :love:

[addiction01]

unpossible. It's not true love until there are nudes in my PM box.
oh if i send you my nudes, can i touch your boobies?

[chunky]

oh if i send you my nudes, can i touch your boobies?

that is a drank best drunk in person.

[chunky]

LOL! <4

awww.

how is your evening progressing dear.

[addiction01]

that is a drank best drunk in person.
that makes me wanna be iintoxicated.

[chunky]

Very very slowly, I'm trying not to fall asleep. :ashamed: And yourself?

ps. You falled into teh e-love with me. :hand: Don't front.

HAH!. BtW, about the bitch that wouldn't shut up @ the library. You should quit talking to yourself. :kekeke:

Yes. I fell into e-love with you. Let's have sex in binary code now. unf unf.

[chunky]

that makes me wanna be iintoxicated.

oh, just keep in mind, it's probably something you'll want to remember ;)

[urhoney]

I can certainly point out when people have lost touch with reality. Professing to love someone you've never met indicates that you live in a dream world. It's kinda like the love at first sight bit. There is no such thing as love at first sight. So how the fuck can there be love with NO sight?

Even if you say that people see each other via webcam etc, it's NOT the same as seeing them in real life.

yes it is the same, only difference is you cant touch them online! love at first site is a whole different debate! why dont you get it?, you may not believe in it but other people do. no matter what you say, or what you call them. Wont change OTHER PEOPLE'S ATTITUDE towards falling in love online or love at first site!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[addiction01]

oh, just keep in mind, it's probably something you'll want to remember ;)
i'm punjabi. i can hold my liquor and enjoy you too :p

[chunky]

yes it is the same, only difference is you cant touch them online! love at first site is a whole different debate! why dont you get it?, you may not believe in it but other people do. no matter what you say, or what you call them. Wont change OTHER PEOPLE'S ATTITUDE towards falling in love online or love at first site!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You are retarded. How can you possibly think that seeing someone on webcam is the same as seeing them in person?

There is no electronic medium that is a substitute for person to person interaction.

Love at first site. :rofl: cute. but hoplessly retarded. If you fall in love online, that means you've lost touch with reality and have given in to foolish dreams. A little pragmatisim never hurt anyone.

[urhoney]

It's not name calling. I'm not saying it to hurt anyone's feelings. I'm saying it because it's true.

no its not true, cos it aint a fact! Therefore its name calling, cos your calling them slow!

[chunky]

no its not true, cos it aint a fact! Therefore its name calling, cos your calling them slow!

They are slow. They fail to grasp the importance of REAL contact. Sure, you can get naked on webcam, but you can't tell if her poon smells like rotten tuna. There are some things that you have to do in person.

[d3z]

no its not true, cos it aint a fact! Therefore its name calling, cos your calling them slow!


leave my safz alone whos calling u retarded?

[urhoney]

You are retarded. How can you possibly think that seeing someone on webcam is the same as seeing them in person?

There is no electronic medium that is a substitute for person to person interaction.

Love at first site. :rofl: cute. but hoplessly retarded. If you fall in love online, that means you've lost touch with reality and have given in to foolish dreams. A little pragmatisim never hurt anyone.

Who are you to judge me? only god can and will judge me! You can call me Retarded or what ever, it wont make me one!
love for you is having that physical relationship, but it aint the same for everyone!

[chunky]

Who are you to judge me? only god can and will judge me! You can call me Retarded or what ever, it wont make me one!
love for you is having that physical relationship, but it aint the same for everyone!

I'm not judging anyone here. If people want to be retarded, that's fine. I think that they should be more aware of their actions though. I really cannot believe that so many people are arguing that falling in love online is perfectly normal. . .

[chunky]

leave my safz alone whos calling u retarded?

:rofl: captain save a hoe is here.

[d3z]

Who are you to judge me? only god can and will judge me! You can call me Retarded or what ever, it wont make me one!
love for you is having that physical relationship, but it aint the same for everyone!


What happened to da indian elvis his in love wid every1 on this site.

[urhoney]

They are slow. They fail to grasp the importance of REAL contact. Sure, you can get naked on webcam, but you can't tell if her poon smells like rotten tuna. There are some things that you have to do in person.

Again not true! how do you explain, relationships going on through jails and the outside without meeting? how do you explain relationships, where a partner in army or away from the other partner? how do you explain relationships, where a person is disabled and cant really touch or smell etc? how do you explain all these relationships?

[urhoney]

I'm not judging anyone here. If people want to be retarded, that's fine. I think that they should be more aware of their actions though. I really cannot believe that so many people are arguing that falling in love online is perfectly normal. . .

It is, get out there into the world anything possible these days!

[d3z]

:rofl: captain save a hoe is here.


oiii chunky funky she aint hoe unless ur blind mate she decent girl what makes u say dat. U shudnt really judge sum1 b4 knowing dem dats jus wrong.

[Bajrang Bali]

So?

Also, if they're just engaged, how is he your brother-in-law? I've said it over and over - the rules change once you've met. People do retarded things all the time. If you're in love over the net, you're retarded. However, you can rid yourself of the retardedness by simply MEETING the person in the flesh.

Why do people get so hurt about something that is so logical?

lol, well im not hurt, but i once met this girl and fell in love at first sight, note i didnt ever talk to her before i first met her.. then months later started talking online a lot and as we talked online n i got to know her better, she turned out just how i imagined, i think i could've been married to her in my pastlife or something because it's pretty unexplainable, someday ill have a trance session and see if she really was my wife.. people destiny are planned and most of the time happend exactly as theyre planned, but i dont wuna get into that unless u really wuna kno.. another reason why i believe in love at first sight, simply bubbling chemistry. i have chemistry with tons of girls but none like with her. very few people are lucky enough to experience love at first sight

[addiction01]

oiii chunky funky she aint hoe unless ur blind mate she decent girl what makes u say dat. U shudnt really judge sum1 b4 knowing dem dats jus wrong.
:rofl:


laughing at you. not with you.

[chunky]

Again not true! how do you explain, relationships going on through jails and the outside without meeting? how do you explain relationships, where a partner in army or away from the other partner? how do you explain relationships, where a person is disabled and cant really touch or smell etc? how do you explain all these relationships?

You're really reaching here. People that are in jail were typically in a relationship before getting into jail. Let's not even start talking about the relationships that start IN jail. Same goes for the army, these people knew each other in advance PRIOR to the separation. As for being disabled, i'm pretty sure that touch & smell are the two senses that virtually ALL humans have. People can be born without eyesight or hearing, but we can all touch & smell. In fact, if you couldn't touch, you couldn't walk and you would not live very long.

Instead of coming up with all these extreme examples, why don't you think logically though what YOU require in a relationship and then see how easy it is to reach those objectives online.

[chunky]

It is, get out there into the world anything possible these days!

Indeed. Including the possiblity that people who fall in love online are *gasp* retarded.

[urhoney]

:rofl: captain save a hoe is here.

There you go again calling people. You can say what you like about me, its not my fault you cant take someone debating against you. I can say many things what i think of you, but i aint goin to degrade myself to your level!

[d3z]

:rofl:


laughing at you. not with you.


ermm where did that come from Sir/Madam. U want some more white powder cocaine i mean.

[chunky]

oiii chunky funky she aint hoe unless ur blind mate she decent girl what makes u say dat. U shudnt really judge sum1 b4 knowing dem dats jus wrong.

Alright romeo, here's a little education for you.

The phrase "captain save a hoe" is a figure of speech. Investigate that notion before you take it literally.

[addiction01]

ermm where did that come from Sir/Madam. U want some more white powder cocaine i mean.
Don't you wish you were funny, rather than just another fob on rd? Yeh thought so.

[chunky]

There you go again calling people. You can say what you like about me, its not my fault you cant take someone debating against you. I can say many things what i think of you, but i aint goin to degrade myself to your level!

That's okay sweetcheeks. This isn't much of a debate. You're just raving emotional bullshit without offering any logic whatsoever. I've outlined pretty well why people should refrain from falling in love online. You've just gone on and one about how hurt you are that I think people who fall in love online are retarded.

[d3z]

Alright romeo, here's a little education for you.

The phrase "captain save a hoe" is a figure of speech. Investigate that notion before you take it literally.


Well done u have won a medal "BDING"

**TRUMPETS** TOOTOOOT TOOT TOOOO DOOOH

[chunky]

Don't you wish you were funny, rather than just another fob on rd? Yeh thought so.

:rofl:

I was ashamed to discover that he is bengali. sheesh.

[urhoney]

You're really reaching here. People that are in jail were typically in a relationship before getting into jail. Let's not even start talking about the relationships that start IN jail. Same goes for the army, these people knew each other in advance PRIOR to the separation. As for being disabled, i'm pretty sure that touch & smell are the two senses that virtually ALL humans have. People can be born without eyesight or hearing, but we can all touch & smell. In fact, if you couldn't touch, you couldn't walk and you would not live very long.

Instead of coming up with all these extreme examples, why don't you think logically though what YOU require in a relationship and then see how easy it is to reach those objectives online.

Didnt you read in newspaper how a girl used to mail some guy she hardly knew in jail. She claimed she was in love, then met up and she got married to him in jail! as for army, many lads hav pen pals and end up with them! As for disbled people, no if you are paralysed then how can you touch?
There are many things that are required in a reltionship! but for god sakes everyone is different hence everyone want different things!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! we are all not like you!

[addiction01]

:rofl:

I was ashamed to discover that he is bengali. sheesh.
The avatar was enough to make me NOT view his profile.

[chunky]

Didnt you read in newspaper how a girl used to mail some guy she hardly knew in jail. She claimed she was in love, then met up and she got married to him in jail! as for army, many lads hav pen pals and end up with them! As for disbled people, no if you are paralysed then how can you touch?
There are many things that are required in a reltionship! but for god sakes everyone is different hence everyone want different things!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! we are all not like you!

Didn't you read in the newspaper about the 2034820348 girls who used to mail some guy she hardly knew in jail. She claimed she was in love, then met up and she got raped b/c *****z don't see pussy in jail.

Seriously, could you stop citing fringe examples for a moment here and focus on the logical argument for or against falling in love online. Are you telling me that falling in love online is just as good, or even better, than falling in love in real life?

[d3z]

:rofl:

I was ashamed to discover that he is bengali. sheesh.


me i wudnt give 2 fucks bout where people are from maybe u mite, but der u go u have proven a good example of 'RETARD' and also dont give monkey mate bout wot u fink of me. Peace dude.

[addiction01]

me i wudnt give 2 fucks bout where people are from maybe u mite, but der u go u have proven a good example of 'RETARD' and also dont give monkey mate bout wot u fink of me. Peace dude.
uh dude? that's a girl :ugh:

[d3z]

uh dude? that's a girl :ugh:

is it she sounded like a man for sum reason lol. maybe its the way she talks.

[urhoney]

That's okay sweetcheeks. This isn't much of a debate. You're just raving emotional bullshit without offering any logic whatsoever. I've outlined pretty well why people should refrain from falling in love online. You've just gone on and one about how hurt you are that I think people who fall in love online are retarded.

Look if you had said, that "i dont believe in falling in love online". Then fine, as that is your own opinion. However, you call them retarded and say you aint callin no one names! yes you are! as falling in love online isnt someone bein retarded, this aint a fact. You have to prove it, back it up with some real evidence.

[addiction01]

is it she sounded like a man for sum reason lol. maybe its the way she talks.
She bites too. Watch out.

[sarkar_jot]

Didn't you read in the newspaper about the 2034820348 girls who used to mail some guy she hardly knew in jail. She claimed she was in love, then met up and she got raped b/c *****z don't see pussy in jail.

Seriously, could you stop citing fringe examples for a moment here and focus on the logical argument for or against falling in love online. Are you telling me that falling in love online is just as good, or even better, than falling in love in real life?

:rofl:


by the way...I want everyone to know

Chunky completes me :love:

[urhoney]

Didn't you read in the newspaper about the 2034820348 girls who used to mail some guy she hardly knew in jail. She claimed she was in love, then met up and she got raped b/c *****z don't see pussy in jail.

Seriously, could you stop citing fringe examples for a moment here and focus on the logical argument for or against falling in love online. Are you telling me that falling in love online is just as good, or even better, than falling in love in real life?

oh my days! yeh they may not see p**** in jails but the girl does see d*** outside! why would she go get some from jail! im not sayin its good or a bad thing. if other people think its a good thing, then what has it got to do with you?

[d3z]

She bites too. Watch out.


Yeah dun worry i can handle a ladies bite lol.

[addiction01]

Yeah dun worry i can handle a ladies bite lol.
She's of a different breed son.

[d3z]

She's of a different breed son.


u mean vampires...no worries dats where u put a garlic around ur neck and get a cross and stab her if she attacks ill b safe. Hopefully

[chunky]

me i wudnt give 2 fucks bout where people are from maybe u mite, but der u go u have proven a good example of 'RETARD' and also dont give monkey mate bout wot u fink of me. Peace dude.

Being bengali myself, guys like you are embarassing.

[addiction01]

Being bengali myself, guys like you are embarassing.
You're so purty. I think he may fall for you hun.

[chunky]

Look if you had said, that "i dont believe in falling in love online". Then fine, as that is your own opinion. However, you call them retarded and say you aint callin no one names! yes you are! as falling in love online isnt someone bein retarded, this aint a fact. You have to prove it, back it up with some real evidence.

They are retarded. Obviously they are lacking in mental facilities which is what leads them to resort to such forms of escapisim.

[d3z]

Being bengali myself, guys like you are embarassing.


so imagine mate one day u walk around a white area and white dude stabs u and say "DIE U BLOODY PAKIS" u wudnt like it wud u. Asians are asians so take a cup of STFU please.

[Felonius Monk]

lol

[chunky]

:rofl:


by the way...I want everyone to know

Chunky completes me :love:

unf unf. there's enough thrust between us to fly a 747, babe.

[chunky]

oh my days! yeh they may not see p**** in jails but the girl does see d*** outside! why would she go get some from jail! im not sayin its good or a bad thing. if other people think its a good thing, then what has it got to do with you?

People lie quite frequently online. Why settle for lies when you can meet in person and get a clearer picture? Granted, there are still opportunities to misrepresent onself. However, it's FAR easier to lie online.

Let me guess, you also think that when a guy that's in e-love chats with other girls, it's cheating? :rofl:

[urhoney]

lol, well im not hurt, but i once met this girl and fell in love at first sight, note i didnt ever talk to her before i first met her.. then months later started talking online a lot and as we talked online n i got to know her better, she turned out just how i imagined, i think i could've been married to her in my pastlife or something because it's pretty unexplainable, someday ill have a trance session and see if she really was my wife.. people destiny are planned and most of the time happend exactly as theyre planned, but i dont wuna get into that unless u really wuna kno.. another reason why i believe in love at first sight, simply bubbling chemistry. i have chemistry with tons of girls but none like with her. very few people are lucky enough to experience love at first sight

Good for you! if your happy, then dont know why other people should say its wrong or call you retarded! some people cant take seeing others happy! dont make anyone make you feel low! Everyone is different!

[chunky]

so imagine mate one day u walk around a white area and white dude stabs u and say "DIE U BLOODY PAKIS" u wudnt like it wud u. Asians are asians so take a cup of STFU please.

:rofl:

I suppose an idiot is an idiot. Still, because I have some nationalistic pride, I get more annoyed when I meet bengali guys that are buffoons.

[urhoney]

They are retarded. Obviously they are lacking in mental facilities which is what leads them to resort to such forms of escapisim.

how do you know they are lacking in mental facilities? you some kind of brain expert? these people who are fallin in love online are perfectly normal!

[d3z]

:rofl:

I suppose an idiot is an idiot. Still, because I have some nationalistic pride, I get more annoyed when I meet bengali guys that are buffoons.


see ur second medal for being a prick are u that immature grow up mate dun wanna waste me breath on ur silly bollocks.

[chunky]

lol, well im not hurt, but i once met this girl and fell in love at first sight, note i didnt ever talk to her before i first met her.. then months later started talking online a lot and as we talked online n i got to know her better, she turned out just how i imagined, i think i could've been married to her in my pastlife or something because it's pretty unexplainable, someday ill have a trance session and see if she really was my wife.. people destiny are planned and most of the time happend exactly as theyre planned, but i dont wuna get into that unless u really wuna kno.. another reason why i believe in love at first sight, simply bubbling chemistry. i have chemistry with tons of girls but none like with her. very few people are lucky enough to experience love at first sight

trance session? :rofl:

I'll have to chalk this one up under the "lost touch with reality" column.

[chunky]

how do you know they are lacking in mental facilities? you some kind of brain expert? these people who are fallin in love online are perfectly normal!

If they were of average mental abilities, they would have a reasonable shot at identifying that falling in love online is a mistake.

[urhoney]

People lie quite frequently online. Why settle for lies when you can meet in person and get a clearer picture? Granted, there are still opportunities to misrepresent onself. However, it's FAR easier to lie online.

Let me guess, you also think that when a guy that's in e-love chats with other girls, it's cheating? :rofl:

People lie in real life as well! You can meet somene, and they can tell you all sorts and you will believe them, even if its not true! but you have that trust, that people online have as well!
if the girl doesnt mind him chatting to other girls , then thats upto them to decide!

[chunky]

see ur second medal for being a prick are u that immature grow up mate dun wanna waste me breath on ur silly bollocks.

So go right on ahead and keep wasting your breath looking for your e-lovers. Retard.

[addiction01]

see ur second medal for being a prick are u that immature grow up mate dun wanna waste me breath on ur silly bollocks.
I think...I think I love you.

[chunky]

People lie in real life as well! You can meet somene, and they can tell you all sorts and you will believe them, even if its not true! but you have that trust, that people online have as well!
if the girl doesnt mind him chatting to other girls , then thats upto them to decide!

Point is, if he's chatting to one girl, you honestly think he's not chatting to others? It's much easier to lie online as you'll never be enjoying a walk in the park when all of a sudden one of his e-hoes starts blowing up his cell.

You still haven't made one single rational, logical point regarding why love online is better or even equal to love in real life.

[urhoney]

If they were of average mental abilities, they would have a reasonable shot at identifying that falling in love online is a mistake.

what is the average mental ability? since you think your such an expert! a person with the high IQ can fall in love online, you wouldnt say they are retarded!

[sarkar_jot]

MESSAGE From FISTIK (SHE IS HOLDING AN E-GUN TO MY HEAD TO POST THIS)

*Fistik says...
I have fallen in love with at least ten people online, no fewer than four of whom are women. So eff that. I am happy in all of e-relationships, thank you.

*So eff YOU CHUNKAY.


(she's scary)

[urhoney]

MESSAGE From FISTIK (SHE IS HOLDING AN E-GUN TO MY HEAD TO POST THIS)

*Fistik says...
I have fallen in love with at least ten people online, no fewer than four of whom are women. So eff that. I am happy in all of e-relationships, thank you.

*So eff YOU CHUNKAY.

lol good for you Fistik! :)

[sarkar_jot]

unf unf. there's enough thrust between us to fly a 747, babe.


:love: :love: :love:

e-love :love:
e-sex :love:
e-life > real life

:neutral:

[urhoney]

Point is, if he's chatting to one girl, you honestly think he's not chatting to others? It's much easier to lie online as you'll never be enjoying a walk in the park when all of a sudden one of his e-hoes starts blowing up his cell.

You still haven't made one single rational, logical point regarding why love online is better or even equal to love in real life.

yeh but thats like real life as well, a guy can hav a bird but be chattin to many other girls! who is arguing if its better or not? im just saying if you find love is better in real life, then fine! but why call other people who find online love retarded?????????????????????????????????????????? ????????????
all i have to say is EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT!
so it doesnt make you better then online lovers!

[urhoney]

Oh btw, it's impossible to fall in love online. You're in love with the idea of being in love with someone who you couldn't possibly know well enough to know if you're in love.

kna' mean?


:Paper:

now you see, thats a fair argument. This is what you truly believe, that they cant possible be in love. Conversly, these online lovers believe that they are in love. This is what im sayin, we all have different ways of defining love.
Just dont understand, how chunky can call them retarded.

[sarkar_jot]

Oh btw, it's impossible to fall in love online. You're in love with the idea of being in love with someone who you couldn't possibly know well enough to know if you're in love.

kna' mean?


:Paper:


:yes:
geez-this topic had been discussed to DEATH.
GND-Your point - a valid point has been made so many times.. I really don't understand why people don't get it!
I'm just gonna assume that some e-lovers haven't been in love in real life..

OR they've been scarred rrreeeeal bad and e-love is their security blanket. Mistaking infatuation for love. Taking the easy way to "being in a relationship" without dealing with the emotional crap that's REALLY involved.
yada yada blah blah blah
gnite

[KhanNoonienSingh]

:yes:
geez-this topic had been discussed to DEATH.
GND-Your point - a valid point has been made so many times.. I really don't understand why people don't get it!
I'm just gonna assume that some e-lovers haven't been in love in real life..

OR they've been scarred rrreeeeal bad and e-love is their security blanket. Mistaking infatuation for love. Taking the easy way to "being in a relationship" without dealing with the emotional crap that's REALLY involved.
yada yada blah blah blah
gnite
i clicked into this thread when i saw you had posted here, wanted to see what a psychowhatsit thought of it :D

this is true in 'most' cases. someone who's been in real love in real life though, knows the feeling and can play with it at will. i could fall in love over a picture and nothing else if i tried. i'm not even joking.

but of course i won't, because hell, i'd rather avoid it in real life too, why attach such a strong feeling to unpredictable electrons. you're playing with fire.

the only reason people don't fall in real love online (those who could), is because of what chunky describes. mistrust...they have experience so they don't bother at all. not smart. you can't know if the person is really reciprocating. so those who CAN e-love don't bother. and those who usually do e-love haven't been in love before IRL so they dont know exactly what's going on and just go through a lot of raw emotions online. but otherwise...

how many of you have been in love? what decided it for me had nothing to do with the woman's looks or brains, or even personality. so that's where i'm coming from. people go through partners, and eventually "fall in love" with one (or more). the others might be easy to forget, but that latter isn't. but after you do it, you know the feeling, you know what its like. its REALLY EASY to just jump into it again, picking out that thing that is at the foundation of the feeling, because its something you can find in most anybody. you could find it online. but you can't find it if you don't know what you're looking for, and until you've been involuntarily dragged into love in real life, there's no way you know what that is.

also. love is psychosomatic. :Paper: if you can keep your food down and drive after having your heart broken, it wasn't real.

[Felonius Monk]

I love everyone who posted in theis thread.

:love:

[Bajrang Bali]

Point is, if he's chatting to one girl, you honestly think he's not chatting to others? It's much easier to lie online as you'll never be enjoying a walk in the park when all of a sudden one of his e-hoes starts blowing up his cell.

You still haven't made one single rational, logical point regarding why love online is better or even equal to love in real life.

read some books motherfucker, then talk to me

[Bajrang Bali]

trance session? :rofl:

I'll have to chalk this one up under the "lost touch with reality" column.

i meant to quote this post

[sarkar_jot]

i clicked into this thread when i saw you had posted here, wanted to see what a psychowhatsit thought of it :D

this is true in 'most' cases. someone who's been in real love in real life though, knows the feeling and can play with it at will. i could fall in love over a picture and nothing else if i tried. i'm not even joking.

but of course i won't, because hell, i'd rather avoid it in real life too, why attach such a strong feeling to unpredictable electrons. you're playing with fire.

the only reason people don't fall in real love online (those who could), is because of what chunky describes. mistrust...they have experience so they don't bother at all. not smart. you can't know if the person is really reciprocating. so those who CAN e-love don't bother. and those who usually do e-love haven't been in love before IRL so they dont know exactly what's going on and just go through a lot of raw emotions online. but otherwise...

how many of you have been in love? what decided it for me had nothing to do with the woman's looks or brains, or even personality. so that's where i'm coming from. people go through partners, and eventually "fall in love" with one (or more). the others might be easy to forget, but that latter isn't. but after you do it, you know the feeling, you know what its like. its REALLY EASY to just jump into it again, picking out that thing that is at the foundation of the feeling, because its something you can find in most anybody. you could find it online. but you can't find it if you don't know what you're looking for, and until you've been involuntarily dragged into love in real life, there's no way you know what that is.

also. love is psychosomatic. :Paper: if you can keep your food down and drive after having your heart broken, it wasn't real.


Psychowhatsit? Don't mock me :squint:
lol
jk

and here I thought I added my 2-cents a little late and no one would notice... GEEZ! KHAN!! .. I hardly ever get this serious on the forums.. :squint:


OK

I don't understand how you can claim someone who's already been in love can PLAY with love. Whether one has been in love or not, I don't believe falling in love is considered to be a conscious decision. I could never meet someone and say "omfg .. I am GOING TO fall in love with this man because I CHOOSE to". I also don't think you can consciously ignore love.
I'm having a hell of a time understanding how you claim you can 'fall in love with a picture' :neutral: I think you're confusing looking at playboy and the biological reaction (your erection) that accompanies that with love. :neutral:



I still think people who have and haven't been in love in real life can mistake a connection with someone online as love for the reasons I stated in my previous post. Especially if their e-lover is really good at fucking with them. It's not that difficult to do.
Just because a person has been in love before..that doesn't mean they know better than someone who hasn't. I think e-love fucking ridiculous. I had these customers at work who were madly in love with each other . They made the perfect couple- and you what the woman did? She met someone online.. decided that he was more 'exiting' or 'better' ( or portrayed himself to be :neutral: )than than the man sitting in her own living room - left him and their daughter without telling ANYONE to be with her 'online love' and guess what? We never heard from her again. This kind of thing could happen to anyone who is vulnerable enough to believe that a few sweet nothings on MSN is the real thing.

THIS IS SO FECKING TRUE
Despite his annoying typing style..
Some people are vanurable and can fall at the slightest sign on intrest from the opposite sex.

Psychosomatic? yes of course. I wonder if someone who's had their heart "broken" by an e-love has had trouble eating, sleeping, driving afterwards :rofl:
I wish I could conduct a survey with people who've been had their e-hearts broken as subjects. I'd ask them to tell me how it long it took to get over it, to eat, sleep, focus on work, cognitive processes.. did they get depressed? etc.

Love can also be described as a neurobiological state involving the pleasure centers- the majority of which are in the limbic system of the brain. If you're interested I have articles from one my neuroendocrinology classes on PDF I can send to you. All about the relation between love, sex , libido, the neurological processes and neurochemical signals involved etc etc..Fascinating stuff.

[KhanNoonienSingh]

its not serious, but its an interesting topic :D

I don't understand how you can claim someone who's already been in love can PLAY with love. Whether one has been in love or not, I don't believe falling in love is considered to be a conscious decision. I could never meet someone and say "omfg .. I am GOING TO fall in love with this man because I CHOOSE to". I also don't think you can consciously ignore love.
I'm having a hell of a time understanding how you claim you can 'fall in love with a picture' :neutral: I think you're confusing looking at playboy and the biological reaction (your erection) that accompanies that with love. :neutral:
lol i meant fall in love THROUGH the picture, not WITH it. also you need more than just the picture, you need some information about the person even if its through a 3rd party. and mass media wouldn't count, because your brain won't think of it as a personal thing at all. its hardly a real person. a personal normal picture, some info... its possible. (love at first sight in person is not a problem... you just don't know its even love until later because it might start off as just another normal feeling. it cascades or becomes like an avalanche i would say. unavoidably if you foster that initial connection. in which case, the final love product was established on first sight, so that was first sight. its also possible imho, to push it forward yourself if you want)

i dunno. i approach love differently, i'm more of a religious person. i guess its why arranged marriages might work for some people easily. i know a couple who met online and are married, have 2 kids already, completely happy. they're mormon and met on some mormon site thing.

but i'm really picky about deciding to do this. i think a lot of people are. people will marry and still choose to avoid going 'there' if possible. you CAN consciously ignore it i think, but you're not really ignoring it...its like...you can feel it coming, and you just don't let yourself get that close. you mistrust the feeling itself. LOTS OF PEOPLE are that way too. once it hits though... eeegh.... i'm not sure its possible to get it out of your system without having the 'connection' severed on the other side.

i think i'm describing a small minority of the population here :weird: i'm not saying i really can do it i guess. i've seen it, i have a vague idea of how to do it, but i don't plan on doing that. like...even if i got an arranged marriage, i don't think i'd just jump into it like i could. i'd probably let it work over time. i just wouldn't trust the person to fall in love with them on first sight. you don't need a lot to fall in love with someone if your entire definition of love, or the way your brain thinks of love is rooted around religion/faith. and this really is a small population of people.

logic would tell me if its possible through 'faith' then people can possibly do this same thing with other ways too. i dunno how or what tho.

i thought of bragging about that at times with people i'll admit. :dunno: with people who're like "i just don't KNOW" when they're in a relationship. its so easy to circumvent a lot of issues and initiate all that raw feeling if you use faith as a tool...not to mention it becomes a lot easier to recover from broken relationships.

I still think people who have and haven't been in love in real life can mistake a connection with someone online as love for the reasons I stated in my previous post. Especially if their e-lover is really good at fucking with them. It's not that difficult to do.
Just because a person has been in love before..that doesn't mean they know better than someone who hasn't. I think e-love fucking ridiculous. I had these customers at work who were madly in love with each other . They made the perfect couple- and you what the woman did? She met someone online.. decided that he was more 'exiting' or 'better' ( or portrayed himself to be :neutral: )than than the man sitting in her own living room - left him and their daughter without telling ANYONE to be with her 'online love' and guess what? We never heard from her again. This kind of thing could happen to anyone who is vulnerable enough to believe that a few sweet nothings on MSN is the real thing.

this is very true. i wouldn't consider that full blown love though. i guess i meant more like unleashing all of 'love'. its possible online, but not in any situation.

Psychosomatic? yes of course. I wonder if someone who's had their heart "broken" by an e-love has had trouble eating, sleeping, driving afterwards :rofl:
I wish I could conduct a survey with people who've been had their e-hearts broken as subjects. I'd ask them to tell me how it long it took to get over it, to eat, sleep, focus on work, cognitive processes.. did they get depressed? etc.
such a survey...that would be a pretty definitive answer i think. :think: compare intensity of the psychosomatic symptoms to people in normal real world relationships.

Love can also be described as a neurobiological state involving the pleasure centers- the majority of which are in the limbic system of the brain. If you're interested I have articles from one my neuroendocrinology classes on PDF I can send to you. All about the relation between love, sex , libido, the neurological processes and neurochemical signals involved etc etc..Fascinating stuff.
yeah i already got textbooks on the stuff :p haven't read them as much as i should've :no: they're pretty general over 'love' as a topic though :lol:

[tamil_desi]

:love: :love: :love:

e-love :love:
e-sex :love:
e-life > real life

:neutral:

Sad, but often times true :no:

[chunky]

yeh but thats like real life as well, a guy can hav a bird but be chattin to many other girls! who is arguing if its better or not? im just saying if you find love is better in real life, then fine! but why call other people who find online love retarded?????????????????????????????????????????? ????????????
all i have to say is EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT!
so it doesnt make you better then online lovers!

I agree! Some people are retarded, some people aren't! YaY for diversity.

[chunky]

now you see, thats a fair argument. This is what you truly believe, that they cant possible be in love. Conversly, these online lovers believe that they are in love. This is what im sayin, we all have different ways of defining love.
Just dont understand, how chunky can call them retarded.

They belive such false notions because they are. . . . you knew it was coming. .. RETARDED.

[chunky]

i clicked into this thread when i saw you had posted here, wanted to see what a psychowhatsit thought of it :D

this is true in 'most' cases. someone who's been in real love in real life though, knows the feeling and can play with it at will. i could fall in love over a picture and nothing else if i tried. i'm not even joking.

but of course i won't, because hell, i'd rather avoid it in real life too, why attach such a strong feeling to unpredictable electrons. you're playing with fire.

the only reason people don't fall in real love online (those who could), is because of what chunky describes. mistrust...they have experience so they don't bother at all. not smart. you can't know if the person is really reciprocating. so those who CAN e-love don't bother. and those who usually do e-love haven't been in love before IRL so they dont know exactly what's going on and just go through a lot of raw emotions online. but otherwise...

how many of you have been in love? what decided it for me had nothing to do with the woman's looks or brains, or even personality. so that's where i'm coming from. people go through partners, and eventually "fall in love" with one (or more). the others might be easy to forget, but that latter isn't. but after you do it, you know the feeling, you know what its like. its REALLY EASY to just jump into it again, picking out that thing that is at the foundation of the feeling, because its something you can find in most anybody. you could find it online. but you can't find it if you don't know what you're looking for, and until you've been involuntarily dragged into love in real life, there's no way you know what that is.

also. love is psychosomatic. :Paper: if you can keep your food down and drive after having your heart broken, it wasn't real.

Honestly, I think very few people know the feeling of love in a real sense. That is why people go searching high and low for something they can call love. They find anything, any feeling, that makes them feel good and apply the word love.

More than anything, this thread is about the misuse of the word "love" to describe feelings that are trivial at best.

[chunky]

i meant to quote this post

It's okay, I'm not gonna hate on your witchcraft.

[KhanNoonienSingh]

Honestly, I think very few people know the feeling of love in a real sense. That is why people go searching high and low for something they can call love. They find anything, any feeling, that makes them feel good and apply the word love.

More than anything, this thread is about the misuse of the word "love" to describe feelings that are trivial at best.
:werd:

[niroism]

So basically according to the title of this thread....Ladoo and gurlexotica are crazy?!?:sarb:

[niroism]

Crazy like a FOX.
Foxes are crazy?!?

[sarkar_jot]

So basically according to the title of this thread....Ladoo and gurlexotica are crazy?!?:sarb:


lol
they've met.
I'm so happppeeey for them.

[niroism]

lol
they've met.
I'm so happppeeey for them.
Yeah....they both seem cool online...so wishin them da best....hope their children become RD addicts too!!

[sarkar_jot]

Yeah....they both seem cool online...so wishin them da best....hope their children become RD addicts too!!

:no:
that's a terrible thing to say. Teeeeerrrriiiiible!!

[niroism]

:no:
that's a terrible thing to say. Teeeeerrrriiiiible!!
*Looks down ashamed*

[l@diezw@nDizThug]

loll .... nd the next big thing .. e-marriages :neutral:

haha good one
but i agree
i think its mostly the so called FObs that do that
i meant the way there rasied and shit, they tend to take net mad seriously
hell i still think sites like shaddi.com are for gay people LMAO who wanna look for there life partner online ewwwwwwwwwww

[Chinadoll]

haha good one
but i agree
i think its mostly the so called FObs that do that
i meant the way there rasied and shit, they tend to take net mad seriously
hell i still think sites like shaddi.com are for gay people LMAO who wanna look for there life partner online ewwwwwwwwwww
your only saying that because no girl...or guy on here wants you :neutral:

[KhanNoonienSingh]

I scoff at e-lovers. scoff. SCOFF.

*scoffs up a hairball*

:-s
perhaps you need some laxatives and a good grooming to take care of that problem.

[sarkar_jot]

Keep this thread alive people!

I consider it a Public Service :neutral:

[ocdesi]

LMAO, pwnd! I think that was the first time I've seen you insult someone. Bravo luv. :p
oh she can be a lil bitch sometimes. its so cute!

[Officer Khan]

Huh!!! I disagree :mad:

[KhanNoonienSingh]

:rofl: :|
cat gave the same reaction when we took him to the vet.

best run kitten. ahm gonna git ya.

http://img349.imageshack.us/img349/9876/suckas7yw.jpg

[sarkar_jot]

Khan... ^ that is the gayest thing I've ever seen.
Gayer than all the nekkid David Hasselhof pictures I've seen here.

[KhanNoonienSingh]

Khan... ^ that is the gayest thing I've ever seen.
Gayer than all the nekkid David Hasselhof pictures I've seen here.
thats cuz you aint from the hood naw mean. you cant appreciate a buncha nigg4z grinning with rifles. don worry....you gon git urs.

besides. i didn't actually buy it.

[sarkar_jot]

thats cuz you aint from the hood naw mean. you cant appreciate a buncha nigg4z grinning with rifles. don worry....you gon git urs.

besides. i didn't actually buy it.

:rofl: bahahahahahahaa
Ju meks me the laugh

You're lying. You have the poster on your wall don't you? :kekeke:

[KhanNoonienSingh]

Shut up and bake me a cake.

:Paper:
come over here and make me. :|

[KhanNoonienSingh]

:rofl: bahahahahahahaa
Ju meks me the laugh

You're lying. You have the poster on your wall don't you? :kekeke:
at least i don't have naked david hasselhoff pics :|

OOGA CHAKA OOGA CHAKA

[sarkar_jot]

at least i don't have naked david hasselhoff pics :|

OOGA CHAKA OOGA CHAKA




who the fuck told ?!!!
great.. now everyone knows :ashamed:

[KhanNoonienSingh]

No, first DIE. :-s
dead people bake the best cakes. :|

don't eh me. :slap:

[KhanNoonienSingh]

Ee...eewww....

I love older men and we all know this, but even for me there's an uncrossable line. :no:
http://es.gizmodo.com/k2000.jpg

http://members.iinet.net.au/~l_ross/pachoff/images/large/tv_movie/forcehoff_jpg.jpg

damn where's vers with that music video link :mad:

[KhanNoonienSingh]

http://au.boostcruising.com/database/readersphotos/files/BOOF-8820050624211053funnyfile1.jpg

:roflbow:

[chunky]

http://au.boostcruising.com/database/readersphotos/files/BOOF-8820050624211053funnyfile1.jpg

:roflbow:


AHHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!

OMFG.

GND knows she wants some of the hoff.

http://shakykaiser.com/blog/images/DinnerIdea.jpg

the "extra hunky" bit gets me every time.

[xquizitthugette]

hahahah deyy all sadd ass pplzz whoo
cantt gett ass in reall lifeee :hsughw:

[jassika]

its the same in person u will only know as much as u see

and some people are actually more open online than in person so u can actually get to know em better online

who says u have to know every detail about a person to fall in love with em nobody in the world knows every detail about the person they "love"

[Sikh4Lyfe]

Hey you fags, leave my idol David Hasselhoff alone. I claimed the hunk OK?

http://manzam.cocolog-nifty.com/manzam/images/david-hasselhoff-img_2.jpg

http://uplink.space.com/attachments/397882-david_hasselhoff_REDs.jpg

We like to dance <3.

[sarkar_jot]

Hey you fags, leave my idol David Hasselhoff alone. I claimed the hunk OK?

http://manzam.cocolog-nifty.com/manzam/images/david-hasselhoff-img_2.jpg


We like to dance <3.

:no:
Poor puppies.

[jassika]

Hey you fags, leave my idol David Hasselhoff alone. I claimed the hunk OK?

http://manzam.cocolog-nifty.com/manzam/images/david-hasselhoff-img_2.jpg

We like to dance <3.
:rofl:

[rated_R]

Hey you fags, leave my idol David Hasselhoff alone. I claimed the hunk OK?

http://manzam.cocolog-nifty.com/manzam/images/david-hasselhoff-img_2.jpg

We like to dance <3.

why is he showing his middle finger to one of the puppies?? hmm.. doesnt seem alrite to me.. but he reminds me of knight rider tho.. good ol days.. and the black 1982 Pontiac Trans Am he used to call "kitt".. :)

[SillyKitty]

HOSH Walo.. Ko Khabar kya Bekhudi Kyaa Cheez hai..

Ishq Ki jiye.. Fiir Samajhiye.. Ishq Ki Jiye.. Fiir samajhiye..


ZINDAGI.. kyaa cheez hai....

[Arshy]

HOSH Walo.. Ko Khabar kya Bekhudi Kyaa Cheez hai..

Ishq Ki jiye.. Fiir Samajhiye.. Ishq Ki Jiye.. Fiir samajhiye..


ZINDAGI.. kyaa cheez hai....
that's a bit random aint it?

[SillyKitty]

that's a bit random aint it?
:no: not really :D

[Matrix[Rubel]]

Seriously, how can you fall in love with someone you've never met? Sure, I can understand connecting with someone on the net and feeling close to them. However, if your strongest bonds to other people are exclusively on the net, well, that's just sad.

:idea:

i think online is of the best way to find someone to love. unless some whore-stand!!


thats my opinion

[snoop786]

Seriously, how can you fall in love with someone you've never met? Sure, I can understand connecting with someone on the net and feeling close to them. However, if your strongest bonds to other people are exclusively on the net, well, that's just sad.

:idea:
If arranged marriage is possible why not online love

[hawthamzi]

LMAO i 100% agree with u!!!!!!!

like its coo to meet someone from the net n then eventually actually meet up with them, but jus throught the net :no:

shouldnt there be a fone conversation or sumthing between there or sumthing? lol

i met 1 girl on the net, she met me the same day i spoke to her online, lol
lol
lol
lol
she was different from her pic, lmao, internet is baaaad!! :(

[NYGujjuGirl]

not totally agreeing...but even tho u get along great online..it doesn't mean u will get along great in person...or vice versa...u need to try it in order to know...cuz online...u have that silence and itz all good...but in person itz just werid and then things go downhill...but like somethings saidz...meetin ppl online and marryin them is a big thing now...so itz all on the person....

[chunky]

']i think online is of the best way to find someone to love. unless some whore-stand!!


thats my opinion

Only if you're socially crippled.

[chunky]

If arranged marriage is possible why not online love

You still meet the person in an arranged marriage. A 1 hour person to person interaction is much stronger than years of online bullshit.

[chunky]

http://www.geocities.com/energija0000000/internet.jpg

L MAO.

[IwantYou]

i have this girl on msn
shes from puerto rico i met her once here in holland.

she met her boyfriend online.. so she travelled al the way to holland to meet this guy.

and know shes engaged to this guy.

this e-love it crazy !

[BeaZy]

^ lol, at least they met

strictly online is gay, but if they make somethin out of it by meetin up then its the same as any other relationship and thats fine... but i think people who fall in love thru online first b4 meeting up are better off cuz they seem to love eachother more, based on noticing how couples are that met online n offline

[21cent]

lolz

[Afg_Gurl]

Seriously, how can you fall in love with someone you've never met? Sure, I can understand connecting with someone on the net and feeling close to them. However, if your strongest bonds to other people are exclusively on the net, well, that's just sad.

:idea:

hahahaha soo agree lol.. but i kno 2 pple who actually fell in love thru the net n got married at the end... i was shocked!!! n one is a friend of mine...

bas this is worryin... big time.. wot u tell ur kids.. o i met ur daddy n fall in love thru the net HOW ROMANTIC! LOL

[LiLFungi]

I agree with chunky...its just not the same thing

[Chinadoll]

hahahaha soo agree lol.. but i kno 2 pple who actually fell in love thru the net n got married at the end... i was shocked!!! n one is a friend of mine...

bas this is worryin... big time.. wot u tell ur kids.. o i met ur daddy n fall in love thru the net HOW ROMANTIC! LOL
i think its actully more romantic to say that you met someone through the net rather than you met them at a bar or whatever, especially if you both live in different countries like my boyfriend and i. i moved to the u.s to be with him. :love:

[desi_playa]

i think its actully more romantic to say that you met someone through the net rather than you met them at a bar or whatever, especially if you both live in different countries like my boyfriend and i. i moved to the u.s to be with him. :love:

lol ofcourse ur gona say its more romantic since u did it. lol

ok i just wanted to post once so i can subcribe to this thread. :kekeke:

[sheerin]

how do u fall in love online? :sarb: and yes chucky they r retarded

[Chinadoll]

how do u fall in love online? :sarb: and yes chucky they r retarded
well you cant fall in love online, you call fall in lust or have a crush on them.
you can only really fall in love once you've met in person.

[kunnyfunt]

i dunno man... i mean i checked out the new M6 and the 2007 X6 and fell in love with them in a split second.....

love at first sight too..

=\

[chunky]

i dunno man... i mean i checked out the new M6 and the 2007 X6 and fell in love with them in a split second.....

love at first sight too..

=\

I can't fall in love with a car, i mean, really fall in love with a car, until I drive it.

[PeachesAndCream*]

I hate falling in love, and then getting rejected, its the worse thing. i miss zak. :no:

[PeachesAndCream*]

I agree with Chunky, its fucking retarted!

[nyczpakiprince]

what is love anyway................

(to be continued)

[subaru]

*eww

[juzt_huzaifa]

what is love anyway................

(to be continued)


Sometimes your heart thinks, whom do you really love? You love someone,
but you like someone else Your minds speaks, but your heart denies...
Someone listens, but someone else comforts... Someone prays, but someone else consoles...
Someone says, but someone else's actions speak... Someone laughs, but someone else
understands... Someone just tells, but someone else makes you do... Someone is
there, but someone you want is not... You search for someone in someone else...
Is this a beginning of Love, or is it the end? A time comes in life when you think
what love really is? What you think is love, or is it something else? Listen to your mind...,
but follow your heart.

[juzt_huzaifa]

Don't find love, let love find you. That's why it's called falling in love because you don't force yourself to fall, you just fall."

Pain is to know that someone whom you love, is in love with someone else."

If u Can Think abt wht is love so here is a little words abt love "Love is like a mustard seed; planted by God and watered by men"
Love is Life, If you miss Love, You miss Life!
Well said by somebody. Love is a rose from God's garden and spreading it's fregness every where. Ohh Love!!!
A great feeling, a powerful devotion & thinking of someone.Love is nothing but a nice moment in someone's life.Love's mean is not like that,that you only love your girlfriend.
Love is for your Allah too, Love is for your mother too,Love is for your father too, Love is for your brother's and sister's too...just Love every body from your heart and soul and make the world a happy place to live. Love is just a thing which 'll complete your self and help you to discover this world and a very unique way love is beautiful thing through which you can go to peak where you can do anything and this thing doesn't matter that weather that person with whom you love is there or not. Love is blind with out ego and expectation.

I can't explain the Love in this small paragraph but I assure that you will share your thoughts and experience about Love[

[rateforums]

Seriously, how can you fall in love with someone you've never met? Sure, I can understand connecting with someone on the net and feeling close to them. However, if your strongest bonds to other people are exclusively on the net, well, that's just sad.

:idea:


Your just sad for trying to make people love you. With that pic in your sig posing with ur muscles...ur sad for tryin to get girls to fancy you

[juzt_huzaifa]

lolzzzzzzzzzzzzz

[simplyzara]

I finally agree with you on something

[BadFingerBoogie]

Seriously, how can you fall in love with someone you've never met? Sure, I can understand connecting with someone on the net and feeling close to them. However, if your strongest bonds to other people are exclusively on the net, well, that's just sad.

:idea:

i agree, but of course meeting is the biggest part. it is possible i think for it to happen but you have to have a real encounter with the person for it all to work.

:Paper:

[KingDiamond]

I dont think it's a big deal if they become 'close' to the person via online... but they should meet up and see how they like each other...

[gooberloo]

Seriously, how can you fall in love with someone you've never met? Sure, I can understand connecting with someone on the net and feeling close to them. However, if your strongest bonds to other people are exclusively on the net, well, that's just sad.

:idea:


so...when are WE meeting?!?! ;)

[freshmanik_13]

lmao yah it is pretty disgusting its ussally the people who know there gonna get shipped to india anyways to get married

[west rowley]

im one of these people L0L

iv known this girl since november 2005

we since have talked on msn allmost everyday and haved bonded WELL

and in september we met up once;but we didnt really get to know each other proper rather we joked and stuff.

i agree tho;cause how do i know what shes REALLY like;we do love each other with the passion but i agree tho;Do i REALLY know this girl"

[*BabyGirl*]

im one of these people L0L

iv known this girl since november 2005

we since have talked on msn allmost everyday and haved bonded WELL

and in september we met up once;but we didnt really get to know each other proper rather we joked and stuff.

i agree tho;cause how do i know what shes REALLY like;we do love each other with the passion but i agree tho;Do i REALLY know this girl"



:sarb: ammm ..why don't you guys meet up more often than talk on msn everyday? :roll:

[yussi]

i agree.. i mean the whole thing is just dumb... this guy in this site aka "urban flava" was like my best mate n that and like he would always tell me hes falling in love with this or that girl off RD or hi5 and it was always on a LOOKS basis never personality.. but im not gon na get into that anyways... and eventually he would link them n them fuck them and leave them.. what a gentleman ehh! i just get the whole meeting girls or guys off the internet thingy.. i mean yeah have online friends but commiting to someone who is ultimately a dial up connection is kinda odd

[Swt_TemPtatioNZ]

I agree.. I think people just do that because they're bored so they talk out of their ass.. I know people on Ratedesi who "make love" on the phone with each other :no:

[*BabyGirl*]

I agree.. I think people just do that because they're bored so they talk out of their ass.. I know people on Ratedesi who "make love" on the phone with each other :no:


:rofl: who whoo?? :dance3:

[LivinCrazy]

ummm thats not true!

well it kind of is i dont know but shit its all too weird...other people going huh? would not understand unless if u were in my shoes.

[Swt_TemPtatioNZ]

:rofl: who whoo?? :dance3:

lol.. i'd be more than happy to spill out the names on here... but i'm friends with a few of them... so i'll keep it a secret. :)
But it's pretty pathetic.. Even more pathetic that girls on here even get naked for guys on webcam.. then the guy makes a screen shot and sends it to everyone on RD :rofl:

[LivinCrazy]

lol.. i'd be more than happy to spill out the names on here... but i'm friends with a few of them... so i'll keep it a secret. :)
But it's pretty pathetic.. Even more pathetic that girls on here even get naked for guys on webcam.. then the guy makes a screen shot and sends it to everyone on RD :rofl:


hahahahaha lol thats funny!

its very True though man

[Swt_TemPtatioNZ]

hahahahaha lol thats funny!

its very True though man

:rofl: I saw a few screenshots of girls.. :no:
I guess females lack self-respect.

[LivinCrazy]

:rofl: I saw a few screenshots of girls.. :no:
I guess females lack self-respect.


:O :O :O are u serious? lol

let me guess they were ur friends! lol goodness

[Swt_TemPtatioNZ]

:O :O :O are u serious? lol

let me guess they were ur friends! lol goodness

Nah... The screenshots i saw of girls.. were when some of my guyfriends would show me.. And we'd make fun of the girl :rofl:

[LivinCrazy]

Nah... The screenshots i saw of girls.. were when some of my guyfriends would show me.. And we'd make fun of the girl :rofl:

man oh man. poor girls

[Swt_TemPtatioNZ]

man oh man. poor girls

it's more like Stupid girls.

[LivinCrazy]

man my dad is pissing me off right now!

wtf im about to smack someone

[BadFingerBoogie]

^^^ what a fag.

[Swt_TemPtatioNZ]

^^^ what a fag.


Now now.. Be nice.

[BadFingerBoogie]

Now now.. Be nice.

:neutral:


you have to have over 500 posts to communicate with me noob.

[Swt_TemPtatioNZ]

:neutral:


you have to have over 500 posts to communicate with me noob.

I've posted over 700 posts on my other account, until it got disabled. So i made a new account. :)

[BadFingerBoogie]

I've posted over 700 posts on my other account, until it got disabled. So i made a new account. :)

well i just bumped it up to 1000.

sorry.

:p :p

[Swt_TemPtatioNZ]

well i just bumped it up to 1000.

sorry.

:p :p

:(

pffft.

[LivinCrazy]

^^^ what a fag.


what a homo! BIATCH

To ur face! now top that!

[Swt_TemPtatioNZ]

:no:

Where is the love?!

[LivinCrazy]

lol

[BadFingerBoogie]

:(

pffft.
i keed it's okay, you can talk to me, i just won't respond.

:evil_lau:


;)

[BadFingerBoogie]

what a homo! BIATCH

To ur face! now top that!

:neutral:

[LivinCrazy]

sorry who ever u are but i guess u called me something?

[BadFingerBoogie]

sorry who ever u are but i guess u called me something?
:neutral:

[LivinCrazy]

oook
:rolleyes: lol

[BadFingerBoogie]

oook
:rolleyes: lol

:neutral:

[roho]

love in general sucks..... they will use u abuse u and dispose u ... and u will be left all alone with no freaking clue! :dance3:

[BadFingerBoogie]

Seriously, how can you fall in love with someone you've never met? Sure, I can understand connecting with someone on the net and feeling close to them. However, if your strongest bonds to other people are exclusively on the net, well, that's just sad.

:idea:

so it's not really about meeting someone on here just if you are being left to only that option. you really in all likely hood could most like be paired with someone who was similar to you (religion, ethnicity) and it would prolly work out.

it's a tangled web we weave.

[mikehawk]

Seriously, how can you fall in love with someone you've never met? Sure, I can understand connecting with someone on the net and feeling close to them. However, if your strongest bonds to other people are exclusively on the net, well, that's just sad.

:idea:
:rofl: very true.

but me and minty are cool, i learn my italian from her so i love her for that!

[BadFingerBoogie]

:no:

[*NaWty sHoRtY*]

Seriously, how can you fall in love with someone you've never met? Sure, I can understand connecting with someone on the net and feeling close to them. However, if your strongest bonds to other people are exclusively on the net, well, that's just sad.

:idea:

initttttttt
its gay! :rolleyes:

[.:[TIGA]:.]

initttttttt
its gay! :rolleyes:\

it is kinda sad.. Well theres a whole psychology behind it. mostly it happens to people who have no or less social contact with the opposite sex.

for example if your a good girl. you dont talk to the guys more than needed. u have no guy friend. n than suddenly one day ur bored n this guy on net is talkin to u. u talk back n u than u talk n talk n talk, u2 talk about stuff u wudnt normally talk about if u were sittin infront of him in real. n it kinda all fits. a cliche. n than u think your in love. well bullshit.~~!! Wake up!!
get out! and get life.

[xKeepItRockinx]

:.']\

it is kinda sad.. Well theres a whole psychology behind it. mostly it happens to people who have no or less social contact with the opposite sex.

for example if your a good girl. you dont talk to the guys more than needed. u have no guy friend. n than suddenly one day ur bored n this guy on net is talkin to u. u talk back n u than u talk n talk n talk, u2 talk about stuff u wudnt normally talk about if u were sittin infront of him in real. n it kinda all fits. a cliche. n than u think your in love. well bullshit.~~!! Wake up!!
get out! and get life.

I definitely agree
People on the internet are a lot of times way different than they usually are when you meet them in person, so things happen differently!
Haha I always laugh when I here those testimonials for like Match.com and everything because they're so bogus! They say "we've been happily married for 2 years" but they fail to mention that after they leave the broadcasting studio theyre going to file for divorce, lol

[BadFingerBoogie]

you noobs fucking suck/.

[.:[TIGA]:.]

were u noob when u got fucked n the first time u sucked?

[chunky]

LMAO. amazingly enough, people are still getting their hearts broken on the interweb.

[BadFingerBoogie]

:.']were u noob when u got fucked n the first time u sucked?

engrish pwease

[longjohnsilver]

hahaha e-suckers... there's no such thing as love... love is an artificially created ideology by weak and pathetic humans!

[XZamanulNezaX]

Seriously, how can you fall in love with someone you've never met? Sure, I can understand connecting with someone on the net and feeling close to them. However, if your strongest bonds to other people are exclusively on the net, well, that's just sad.

:idea:

Well I agree with you in most cases; because for most people its based on
self delusion. However, I think that the internet can also give you a better
place to express who you really are(potentially speaking) through writing. This
over comes some barriers which people may have in real life. It all depends on how you approach it.

One of my cousins met a girl online she's from Albania originally on some Muslim forum, they're intending on marrying each other now. She's honestly amazingly beautiful, my cousins a dweeb though. Astaghfirullah LOL

[XZamanulNezaX]

LMAO. amazingly enough, people are still getting their hearts broken on the interweb.


it's all about maturity; if you approach things with a sound mind, the negative emotional backlash tends to diminish.

[SiKhEzT PuNjAbii]

loll .... nd the next big thing .. e-marriages :neutral:
loolllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll

[mikehawk]

lawlz. Your sig is so rebellious.

lol, User CP button never fails.


aren't you allowed to have a sig? :sarb:

[mikehawk]

I be'd bad. :ashamed:
:sarb:


uhh okay....lol.

u've been bad? u been banned? lol i follow you not sister.

[XZamanulNezaX]

:rofl:


hey hey ...I just mean that I cant believe he managed to swing a chick that beautiful. It flabergasts me.

[chunky]

hey hey ...I just mean that I cant believe he managed to swing a chick that beautiful. It flabergasts me.

have they met in person yet?

[vishaalsood]

so your saying that there has to be a physical attraction to fall in love with someone? Just talking to them is not enough?

[Elmo]

No. He's saying that as long as she hasn't made you a sammich, it ain't love my friend.

It ain't love.
:rofl:

[XZamanulNezaX]

have they met in person yet?


Yes they have in fact he MOVED to where she is.

[Coitys]

This really hot Irani/Iraqi girl "fell in love" with me online. It made me feel special but I told her "you can't fall in love online". There was a physical attraction and everything but it's different in real life.

[dip06]

WTF difference does it make whether its fucking online or not online,,online, u can talk about things u will never be able to talk about in person,, thus u get to know the person better, otherwise if u just see the person, u no she might be like so attractive for u that half the time u talk to her u pay attention to like her body and face more than the actual topic being discussed. u no its more comfortable to talk online first to get used to the person should make talking to the person face to face 50% easier., even,, u might not end up talking at alll cuz ull always underestimate ur self and be shy and nervous..and crapp... so i mean. i guess its not that badd... but i do agree that ,, getting online purposely to find a fucking date is fucking lame, and whoever does that please , id rather have u watch porn and screw hoes.., but like sometimes.. it happens when u dont even expect it... love is never planned dude,, its like always an accident... so i say that the medium is not a factor.. i mean like u find a girl... who u understand to be all u ever wanted... u no,, and now just cuz u talked to her online , u arent gonna try to go be with her?? JUST CUZ ITS ONLINE??? :wavey:

[BadFingerBoogie]

^^
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[fr00ti]

^^
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^ what are you laughing about :-s

[BadFingerBoogie]

^ what are you laughing about :-s

he's so funny, i think he's serious.

hjahahha and that was his first post. it's like he's been stalking GC and finally came up with something to say.

[ak47kf7]

:rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

[LalduPatta]

Haha ok guys this is shameful bt tru...I was this grl u r tlking about falling 4 sum1 online...gosh it was umm wat is the wrd 'lame' but hey it happened...he was charming n I was very into it...now that I think about it I thought I was in love...haha dnt try to lite the torch on me...

Y do we always jump 2 the conclusion that sum1 who acts beyond the boundaries we consider normal is retarded? K sounds like I'm trying 2 defend myself...haha I was lame nt retarded but if u consider love 2 b an ideology than wat the hell do u live 4? If nt lov than lust rite

[BadFingerBoogie]

^^^ :rofl: :wtf:

[BadFingerBoogie]

y0 cn u ryte me sum engLish plz.

we all know that's hwo you would talk too -- if no one had corrected you.

[DasJa]

:werd: :werd:

[MoonChildChick]

People suck:werd:

[Jumbalaya]

People suck:werd:

:werd:



well, sorta.

[MoonChildChick]

:werd:



well, sorta.^^^As in the dish?

[Geezer]

You know what? No one will EVER fall in love with you over the int0rneTz.

:idea:

You have just been pwned by the psych-popo.

wrong!

:love:

[-SyLpH-]

whr is da best place to fall in love?? just askin!! :neutral:

[MrAttitude]

whr is da best place to fall in love?? just askin!! :neutral:

Bangladesh :p

[BadFingerBoogie]

whr is da best place to fall in love?? just askin!! :neutral:

useless junk and flame

[-SyLpH-]

Bangladesh :p
:dance:

[xplosion]

whr is da best place to fall in love?? just askin!! :neutral:

on RD........... :wavey: ha

[-SyLpH-]

on RD........... :wavey: ha
:waveyN:

[lil_desi_babe]

whr is da best place to fall in love?? just askin!! :neutral:

Where-ever you fall in love :mrhappy:

[LalduPatta]

Oh hehe opps...I'm so late but this wlndt b the 1st time...excuse my grammer miss urr

[BadFingerBoogie]

Oh hehe opps...I'm so late but this wlndt b the 1st time...excuse my grammer miss urr

wtf are you trying to say moron?

[chunky]

wtf are you trying to say moron?

I think she's talking about her period being late. . . .

[LalduPatta]

[QUOTE=BadFingerBoogie]wtf are you trying to say moron?[/QUOTE

Hold up!! There's no need to get rude so chill the fuck out.

[-SyLpH-]

girls this is a 'love love' thread not 'hate hate' thread ;)

[ria_238]

i dont understand why people go on shaadi.com, and get married to the people on there. why cant they jus meet people in person and get to know them face to face than goin on some dumb website ???

[shaheenara]

i dont understand why people go on shaadi.com, and get married to the people on there. why cant they jus meet people in person and get to know them face to face than goin on some dumb website ???
because some people are socially incapable.

they aren't confindent enough in some cases to just go looking for someone. and that way, you put your picture up, and if someone likes you, they do, and if they don't - they don't.

theres no rejection involved unless you make the first move and message someone, even then though if you dont get a reply back, theres no embarrasment or hurt, you just message the next person.

'naaaameaan?'

[shaheenara]

Seriously, how can you fall in love with someone you've never met? Sure, I can understand connecting with someone on the net and feeling close to them. However, if your strongest bonds to other people are exclusively on the net, well, that's just sad.

:idea:
just because they havent invented a portal in which you can stick you penis through a computer screen and recieve head online. :hand:

[desi_uk]

Seriously, how can you fall in love with someone you've never met? Sure, I can understand connecting with someone on the net and feeling close to them. However, if your strongest bonds to other people are exclusively on the net, well, that's just sad.

:idea:
i agree but its the world we live in

[jimbo123]

because some people are socially incapable.

they aren't confindent enough in some cases to just go looking for someone. and that way, you put your picture up, and if someone likes you, they do, and if they don't - they don't.

theres no rejection involved unless you make the first move and message someone, even then though if you dont get a reply back, theres no embarrasment or hurt, you just message the next person.

'naaaameaan?'

:word: I know someone thats been using that. She's not shy or anything, she's actually quite popular and pretty and has a lot of friends yet she still uses it.

Also on that website, it's a good way of finding a girl without basing it on their looks. They have a profile so you get to look at other characteristics such as what they do, are they religious etc.

However, good looking girls don't really put pictures there but good looking guys do.

[!bayAreaplaya!]

if you take your time and actually are safe with everything..it doesnt seem too stupid.

[Oprah_Winfrey]

If people use their common sense it's safe. I know many people
who met their bf/gf and spouses online.

Half of the people who whines about online love being retarded are
just fucking losers who fell for some fake here on RD.

[P4ki4Lyf]

If people use their common sense it's safe. I know many people
who met their bf/gf and spouses online.

Half of the people who whines about online love being retarded are
just fucking losers who fell for some fake here on RD.
i think they mean the concept of saying omg i'm i love blah blah blah before even meeting, is the retarded bit. :idea:

[PeachesAndCream*]

I DON'T BELIEVE IN LOVE ANYMORE!- just find it all fairytale!

[lil_desi_babe]

Nazia nd MOLLY are not stupid !!!

:anger:

[Lady Pimp]

says who?

[chunky]

i think they mean the concept of saying omg i'm i love blah blah blah before even meeting, is the retarded bit. :idea:

word. kind of like putting the cart before the donkey. :arrow:

[ilyas@!!oops!!]

yeh i know Ash is one........:no:

[P4ki4Lyf]

yeh i know Ash is one........:no:
:roflbow: x 9986977268476

thank you.

[baby_gal_naz]

Nazia nd MOLLY are not stupid !!!

:anger:
:squint:

Molly is dead to me now. :no:

[lil_desi_babe]

:squint:

Molly is dead to me now. :no:
I posted tht ages ago women

You killed her?!

[baby_gal_naz]

I posted tht ages ago women

You killed her?!
My bad. :ashamed:

Maybe. :Paper:

[lil_desi_babe]

My bad. :ashamed:

Maybe. :Paper:
Yes! you bad! :shame:

*takes paper away*
Murdererer!

my paper =) :Paper:

[baby_gal_naz]

Yes! you bad! :shame:

*takes paper away*
Murdererer!

my paper =) :Paper:
Give me my paper back!! :squint: :rant:

:slap2:

:Punch:

:bash:

:chainsaw:

[lil_desi_babe]

Give me my paper back!! :squint: :rant:
:slap2:
:Punch:
:bash:
:chainsaw:
You and your violance!

Mine, all mine =)
Mine, all mine =]
Mine, all mine ^_^
Mine, all mine (>")>

:shhh:
i cant hear myself read
Now, where was i...:Paper:

[baby_gal_naz]

You and your violance!

Mine, all mine =)
Mine, all mine =]
Mine, all mine ^_^
Mine, all mine (>")>

:shhh:
i cant hear myself read
Now, where was i...:Paper:
Blehh whatever, I'm stealing your porn. :hand:

[lil_desi_babe]

Blehh whatever, I'm stealing your porn. :hand:
:neutral:

[baby_gal_naz]

:neutral:
:mrhappy:

[lil_desi_babe]

:mrhappy:
No really :neutral:

[baby_gal_naz]

No really :neutral:
:-s